The Samantha Baines Show

Kit Giroux - The Sewing Bee and sense of self

Wed, 05 Nov 2025 10:44:50 GMT

"I really struggle with losing my sense of self in a relationship" - Kit Giroux

Sewing Bee's Kit Giroux joins Samantha Baines to talk queer love, sense of self and wearing a flowing skirt on the London underground. Kit describes what it is like going through a break-up whilst being in a sewing competition on TV, the support they received on the show and the dating dilemma. The two compare marriages to limited companies and even talk sexy maths!

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Natalie Burton - 23 year marriage

Wed, 22 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT

"about year ten of my marriage I started thinking this is not what I signed up for" - Natalie Burton

Author Natalie Burton joins Samantha Baines to talk about her twenty three year marriage and divorce. Natalie describes her seven year plan of getting out her marriage and sticking to the plan, sleeping with her car keys under her pillow and taking secret calls. Top tips for finding bots on dating sites too!

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Georgina Fuller - child of divorce

Wed, 15 Oct 2025 16:24:31 GMT

"I can feel it now, just thinking about it... the pain" - Georgina Fuller

Journalist and mum of 3, Georgina Fuller talks about her parents divorce and the impact it had on her at the time as well as heartbreak and cheating. Samantha and Georgina bond over their ADHD, sort out a misunderstanding and discuss shame as well as the fear of failure.

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Jessica Frew - a gay affair

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 23:40:32 GMT

“I thought that I would never be that person who got divorced” - Jessica Frew

Jessica Frew (with flower wall) joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, religion and reimagining divorce. Jessica opens up about her partner coming out as gay and having an affair with a man and the aftermath.

Do you wear your divorce as a badge of honour? Maybe you will one day, one step at a time.

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Brad Nelson - finances

Wed, 01 Oct 2025 03:00:00 GMT

“The finances showed an unwillingness to compromise” - Brad Nelson

Financial coach, Brad joins Samantha Baines to chat about his divorce is his early thirties. Brad talks about having to foreclose on the family house and the aftermath of that. The two have a frank discussion about money, credit scores, different approaches to money in a relationship and top money tips.

Please do your own financial research as well as taking advice. This podcast is made for entertainment and should not be used as financial advice from an expert.

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Libby Brodie - wine

Wed, 24 Sep 2025 00:00:00 GMT

"I felt more shame when my marriage was really bad"- Libby

Wine consultant and columnist Libby Brodie to talk divorce, motherhood and wine. Sam and Libby share love languages and talk about prioritising friendships, going out and finances.

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My dog is eating my pants and other news

Wed, 17 Sep 2025 01:00:00 GMT

Sam is back to say hello, sorry and help her dog is eating her pants - true story.

New series incoming...

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Michele Traina

Wed, 13 Nov 2024 01:00:51 GMT

"The biggest thing I'm learning on the journey is loving myself, and maybe that loving myself is not what I thought it was."

This week we are joined by Michele Traina, the creator of the Divorce Diaries. Michele shares her experience of parenting and dating post-divorce, and we have a podcast first!

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Elainea Emmott

Wed, 30 Oct 2024 14:55:35 GMT

"When I divorced I was scared, but I knew something had to change. I just knew it".

This week Samantha is joined by Elainea Emmott. A lady with many strings to her bow, amongst other things she is a photographer, TV chef, artist and fashion designer. The pair discuss Elainea's experience of getting married at age 19, her decision to relocate post-separation and raising a young son whilst balancing her varied career.

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Lynn Beattie

Wed, 23 Oct 2024 00:00:48 GMT

"I immediately joined a dating app, and then I saw my ex on the dating app".

This week Samantha is joined by Lynn Beattie A.K.A @MrsMummyPenny. They chat about managing finances through divorce and Lynn gives some useful tips of what to be mindful of. The pair also discuss how to make new friends and dating post-separation.

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Sophia Bianchi

Wed, 16 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMT

"Just going and making the decision to choose you and start this new life, that's the hard thing to do. So well done. Everything after this is going to be varying levels of a battle, but you took that first step".

This week Samantha is joined by Sophia Bianchi. Entrepreneur, Executive Coach and host of The Story Goes podcast.

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Estella Newbold-Brown

Wed, 09 Oct 2024 00:00:48 GMT

"I do think children pick things up.. you're a role model of happiness, and living a happy life and that you're allowed to be happy".

Samantha is joined by Estella Newbold-Brown, a children's author, mother of twins, and family law partner. Estella shares the effect her parents divorce had on her body, and how her work now helps parents to discuss the topic of divorce with their own children. The pair also discuss the importance of diverse representation in children's books.

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Vanessa Louise

Wed, 02 Oct 2024 00:00:16 GMT

TW: domestic abuse, gaslighting, self harm.

'If I'm focusing on the past, I'm depressed because I'm focusing on what has been. If I'm focusing on the future then I'm anxious because I'm trying to get somewhere. Both are an inability to be present".

Samantha is joined by Vanessa Louise, an emotional health coach. The two discuss the process of leaving an unhealthy relationship, the power of love and 'unlovely' choices.

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Fiona Kimbell

Wed, 25 Sep 2024 00:00:22 GMT

"Look, divorce isn't a picnic. It's not fun times...But the chances are the reason that you're finding it tough is that it's bringing up stuff from your past that you haven't fully dealt with".

This week Sam is joined by Divorce Coach Fiona Kimbell. She shares her experience of navigating a lengthy divorce and the feeling of liberation after the initial stages of heartbreak. We also hear how she now supports other women through their own separations.

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Sarah Templeton

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 00:00:53 GMT

"We went the whole of that 10 years with me not knowing I was ADHD, and him knowing but not telling me he was autistic."

Author and ADHD Campaigner Sarah Templeton joins Samantha to talk about the effects ADHD has on relationships, and how it impacted her own marriage. They also discuss the prevalence of ADHD within the criminal justice system and how to go about getting a diagnosis.

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Junie Moon

Wed, 11 Sep 2024 00:00:11 GMT

"With shadow work we shine a light on the unconscious mind. The programming that's running in the back of your head that's having you self-sabotage, or doubt yourself, or not even be able to dream."

This week Samantha is joined by author and Global Love Mentor Junie Moon. Junie shares her experience of ending her 20 year marriage, explains what Shadow Work is and why we can all benefit from it.

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Amy Mason

Wed, 04 Sep 2024 00:00:47 GMT

The Divorce Social is back for Season 12!

"I stayed in the house we had together, but I bought him out. Then I had this weird thing with all these memories in the house, and now it's mine. So I redecorated to reclaim the space."

To kick us off, Samantha is joined by the writer and comedian, Amy Mason. The pair discuss Amy's experience of divorcing during the COVID pandemic, the importance of decent friendships and bond over their mutual love of Farrow & Ball paint.

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Arabella Weir

Wed, 10 Jan 2024 01:00:33 GMT

To conclude season 11, Sam is joined by the brilliant actress, comedian and writer, Arabella Weir.

Arabella is very honest about her experience of divorce, becoming great friends with her ex-husband and all the sadness that happened in-between. She also hilariously shares how, when spending time with men, she now draws the line at dinner and some nice wine.

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Tonya Carter

Wed, 03 Jan 2024 01:00:23 GMT

"Don't sacrifice your needs, believing that's what you should do in order to be loved and validated."

Tonya Carter, Marriage & Relationship Exit Strategist, joins Sam from the US. Tonya shares her insights on how small changes can make a big impact and the value in asking yourself hard questions. The two also discuss some of the toughest moments of their divorce journeys.

https://www.tonyacarter.com

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Beth Behrendt

Wed, 27 Dec 2023 01:00:57 GMT

This week, Sam is joined by Beth Behrendt, author of Nesting After Divorce: Co-Parenting in the Family House. The pair discuss the concept of Nesting, where the parents take turns living in the family home while the children reside there full-time. Beth also generously shares the details of how she and her ex-husband made it work for their own family.

https://familynesting.org

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Listener: Lucy

Wed, 20 Dec 2023 01:00:15 GMT

"You know when you're little and people ask you what you want to be when you grow up?... One of my answers would be, 'When I grow up I don't want to be divorced'."

This week, our guest is long-time listener, Lucy. Sam and Lucy discuss the similarities in their divorce experiences, Lucy's religious deconstruction and seeking out community.

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Graeme Smith

Wed, 13 Dec 2023 01:00:24 GMT

Trigger warning: Drug abuse, death.

This week Samantha Baines is joined by podcast host and radio presenter Graeme Smith. The pair talk queer identity, dealing with grief and asking for help. Graeme is incredibly honest about his emotional breakup story, coming out and his new engagement.

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Angela Smith (aka Angel Bliss)

Wed, 06 Dec 2023 01:00:11 GMT

Angel Bliss of the Accidentally Milf podcast joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce and reveal her true identity as Angela Smith, ex-wife of Paul Ryder, from the band The Happy Mondays. The two talk break up, grief and dating.

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Kelly McMasters

Wed, 29 Nov 2023 01:00:35 GMT

“You know you can leave right?!”

Writer Kelly McMasters joins Samantha Baines from the US, to chat divorce. They chat friends taking a chance to speak some truth, writing and not having to weather someone else’s emotions.

Kelly’s book: The Leaving Season

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Anonymous guest

Wed, 22 Nov 2023 01:00:03 GMT

"me being on my bike cycling around as a woman [in the UK], without having to worry about whats going to happen if people see me on my bike"

An anonymous (for legal reasons) guest joins Samantha Baines to talk about divorce under difficult circumstances. Getting married for love in the UK, despite originally being from a different country and then wanting to stay in the UK post divorce. The two talk about women's rights and marriage rights in the UK versus abroad. The guest is thirty years old and is currently going through her divorce process and talks about the stress of lockdown on a new marriage and making difficult decisions.

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Ali Hendry

Wed, 15 Nov 2023 01:00:10 GMT

"a good approach to boundaries is expecting a push back"

Coach and TedX Speaker Ali Hendry joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce first from a man and then from a woman. The two talk about bisexuality and coming out, being open sexually and love. Ali talks about the depth of friendships and making them a priority alongside romantic relationships as well her enjoyment of sex. The conversation delves into non-monogamy and how to make that work for you as well as advice on boundary setting.

www.alihendry.co.uk

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Liz Earle MBE

Wed, 08 Nov 2023 01:00:11 GMT

"I'd like life to be great, I think life can be great and I'd like to try and find that"

Founder, speaker, author and podcaster Liz Earle joins Samantha Baines to talk for the first time openly about her two divorces. The two discuss her new book A Better Second Half, divorce, children and dating. Liz explains where she was in her life during her divorces, her motivation for ending those marriages and also others reactions.

Liz's Book: A Better Second Half

available now from all good bookstores

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Pregnant, a live recording and a divorce certificate!

Wed, 06 Sep 2023 00:00:24 GMT

What a series and its time for Samantha Baines' round up and this one has as much exciting news as ever! A baby (plus gender reveal), a free certificate to download and if you are in London you can come along to our second ever LIVE recording of the podcast.

Live recording of The Divorce Social - part of the London Podcast Festival

9.30pm (1hr), 9th September, Kings Place, Kings Cross, London England

Tickets only £9.50

https://www.kingsplace.co.uk/whats-on/comedy/the-divorce-social/

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Ria Lina

Wed, 26 Jul 2023 00:00:00 GMT

"I don't know that I could ever go back to sharing a bed" - Ria Lina

Comedian Ria Lina joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce, kids and still living with her ex years on. The two talk sleeping solo vs sharing a bed, dating and when is too soon to ask to listen to rain noise before you go to sleep!? A funny and enlightening chat between two comedy friends.

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April Pride (TW)

Wed, 12 Jul 2023 00:12:12 GMT

trigger warning: illegal drugs

April Pride, a creative entrepreneur who works in cannabis and psychedelics, joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce and micro dosing. This podcast does not endorse illegal drugs and would like to remind you that mushrooms and ketamine are illegal in the UK. April does however, talk about her divorce and micro dosing experiences as well as being bisexual and her parents’ divorce.

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Keena Crowley (TW)

Wed, 28 Jun 2023 00:00:57 GMT

"my mother at some point started saying, you've got to get out"

Trigger warning: emotional abuse, assault

US Army Veteran Keena Crowley joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce from another army vet. Keena opens up about betrayal, having to follow your spouse around the world for their job and getting the diagnosis of a brain aneurysm. The two talk about excuses, connection and loneliness.

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Listener: Kevin

Wed, 21 Jun 2023 00:00:28 GMT

"that angelic smile had the devil inside of him"

Podcast listener Kevin joins Samantha Baines to talk about his traumatic divorce. Kevin bravely shares his story about being scammed for a green card after falling in love and marrying someone from a different country. He opens up about hair loss and depression as a consequence of the divorce and the two share their slogans for life.

trigger warning: depression, hair loss

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Yvette Bodden (TW)

Wed, 14 Jun 2023 00:00:15 GMT

""Are you his wife or are you his wife?" He looked at the waitress and said, "that's my wife and that's my ex wife, we are all friends"

Yvette Boden (Author, Founder of Awakened Woman) joins Samantha Baines to talk about the divorce that led to her change in career path. Yvette talks about being there for her daughter, self-love and having an awakening. Yvette sees her divorce as empowering and feels that she can help others on their divorce journey. The two talk 'who am I?', change and seperation.

Host of AW Confidential Podcast

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Listener: Jessica

Wed, 07 Jun 2023 00:00:39 GMT

"I was ghosted by someone on a dating app and I really struggled with that"

Samantha Baines is joined by listener Jessica to talk divorce. The two discuss being 'a good wife', domestic expectations and being accused of nagging during the marriage. Jessica shares her internet dating stories and her experience of being ghosted on an app.

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Kanchan Bhaskar (TW)

Wed, 31 May 2023 00:00:56 GMT

Trigger warning: abuse

Kanchan Bhaskar (coach and author) joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce and abusive marriage. Kanchan talks about the situation in India for married women in the eighties and her eventual move to the US and divorce as well as her mindset at that time.

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Listener: Ingrid Birchell-Hughes

Wed, 24 May 2023 00:00:22 GMT

"in my darkest time I was not expecting to be thrown a lifeline from my family, from 140years ago"

Samantha Baines joins listener Ingrid to talk about her unique divorce experience. Ingrid discovered love letters that had been passed down in her family from 140years ago between Fred and Janie her ancestors. During her own divorce Ingrid began following the story of her great great grandad and grandma, researching and started her own podcast to share this one hundred year old love story with the world. Her research brought up parallels and highlighted the historical differences women face in relationships then and now as well as revealing another family member going through a divorce at the time.

Ingrid's podcast is called My Love Letter Time Machine

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Listener: Elaine

Wed, 17 May 2023 00:00:00 GMT

“you have to accept that you cannot fix that other person” - Elaine

Listener Elaine joins Samantha Baines to share her divorce story as well as what the podcast means to her. The two discuss caring for a partner, mental health and older children being aware of the situation and how to deal with that. An honest and enlightening chat and a situation we haven’t previously covered on the podcast.

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Funny people, a new book and a special series! Round up series 9

Wed, 19 Apr 2023 00:00:31 GMT

Samantha gives the lowdown on series 10, plus reads some of your lovely messages and celebrates being part of Acast’s The Funny Side! Also she’s sorry she says the word “delve” so much in this episode, maybe it could be a drinking game. If you hear the word “delve” or “delved” then you have to drink!

Series 10 coming soon!

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Sara Miller

Wed, 15 Feb 2023 01:00:36 GMT

"when you are single you create the life around you that you need, a support network" - Sara Miller

Award winning designer Sara Miller joins Samantha Baines to talk about the divorce which was the catalyst for starting her brand - Sara Miller London. The two chat loneliness in a marriage, juggling business with family and bravery. Sara also reveals all about her 'soul searching' trip to India post separation and how it still inspires her design work today. Sara and Sam share their full circle divorce moments too, have you had one?

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Andrew G Marshall

Wed, 08 Feb 2023 01:00:57 GMT

"if there was a divorce section of the Guinness Book of Records they would have an honourable mention".

Martial therapist Andrew G Marshall joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. Andrew helps couples everyday but it's a divorce in his childhood that had a huge impact on his life and the lives of those around him that he opens up about for the first time. The two talk about the danger of secrets and possibly the worst Boxing Day ever.

Andrew's podcast is The Meaningful Life Podcast

Find out more here: https://andrewgmarshall.com/podcasts/

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Emma White

Wed, 01 Feb 2023 01:00:55 GMT

"life is too short, I need to sort this out" - Emma White

Emma White of Emma White Jewellery, as seen on BBC's All That Glitters: Britain's Next Jewellery Star joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce and new family. Straight talking Emma talks about divorce being her decision, creating her own business and having a blended family. Sam opens up about friend zoning herself when she was younger, the two discuss having a moment of reflection before separation and being bad at taking things slow.

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Natalie Alexis Lee

Wed, 25 Jan 2023 01:00:46 GMT

"your kids deserve to have a happy Mum" - Natalie Alexis Lee

Social media sensation Natalie Lee (@StyleMeSunday) joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, living with your ex and sleeping in the same bed as someone you are divorcing. Nat opens up about being a single parent, choosing happiness and rewiring your brain. The two talk about finances when it comes to divorce and feeling trapped because of finances. Natalie shares that she sought legal advice when it came to finances and how that opened her eyes to how little she knew about their financial situation as a couple.

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Listener episode: Louise

Wed, 18 Jan 2023 01:00:29 GMT

"you will be okay, you can't see it now but you will be" - Louise, podcast listener

Our first listener story on the podcast! Louise joins Samantha Baines and opens up about her divorce after answering our call out. You wanted to hear from a range of people and experiences and we listened. Sam loved chatting to long time listener Louise about her ups and downs and how the podcast has helped her.

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Julie Cohen

Wed, 11 Jan 2023 11:17:49 GMT

"the books I was writing were getting more bisexual by the day...I thought it was important to stand up and say I was bisexual" - Julie Cohen

Acclaimed author Julie Cohen joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, being queer and writing books. Samantha was very upset to see Julie's eclectic bathroom ripped out on twitter and Julie explains why it was very necessary! The two talk freedom of sexuality, therapy and penises.

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Sarah Armstrong

Wed, 04 Jan 2023 01:00:54 GMT

"I've now found the love of my life but it's a less traditional relationship" - Sarah Armstrong

Business woman and author Sarah Armstrong joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. The two talk about showing emotions, compartmentalisation and telling others what you need. Sarah talks about how her experience became a book, how she managed co-parenting and dealing with two households meant buying everything twice! There is even chat about new long distance relationships and why separate houses might be the key. Would you live in a different house to your partner long term?

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Natasha Mahtani

Wed, 21 Dec 2022 01:16:09 GMT

"I'm never going to change my name again" - Natasha Mahtani

Divorce Coach Natasha Mahtani joins Samantha Baines to talk about her own divorce. Natasha shares her experience of divorce in the South Asian community and the two talk about the importance of surnames/family names and identity. Natasha talks about social media couple expectations, moving country and raising her son as a single a mother alongside her family.

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Jo Westwood

Wed, 14 Dec 2022 01:00:29 GMT

"sixty year old me would say, why the f*ck did you waste time" - Jo Westwood

Jo Westwood, The Co-Dependency Coach joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, toxic relationships and being married to a narcissist. The two discuss Jo's divorce and how that led her to become a coach as well as the effect it had on her life. Did you know there are co-dependents anonymous meetings? Sam didn't but it was the meeting that changed Jo's life. Jo talks bargaining, coming from a divorced family and embarrassment as well as the signs of co-dependency.

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Rose McGowan - part two

Thu, 08 Dec 2022 01:00:22 GMT

"I will not except shame anymore, I have been shamed enough" - Rose McGowan

Former Hollywood actress and activist Rose McGowan joins Samantha Baines for part two of their interview to talk about her wedding and 'good' divorce. Rose reveals her choice of wedding ring, details of her wedding and her favourite song (played at her wedding) which she wants played at her funeral! The two discuss shame, being alone and healing in this emotional conclusion to the interview.

Rose's book Brave is available at all good book stores.

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Rose McGowan - part one

Wed, 07 Dec 2022 01:00:43 GMT

"I was engaged five times and not by choice, you could call it an emotional mugging with a fancy ring" - Rose McGowan

Former Hollywood actress and activist Rose McGowan joins Samantha Baines to talk about her 'good' divorce and her five engagements. The two talk about their approaches to love, break ups and acting. Rose reveals that she is in love now, hurrah and that she had a very clear marriage and divorce plan. She touches on #MeToo and her involvement, her first engagement to Marilyn Manson at twenty four, as well as how she approached playing her character in the Scream movie.

Rose's book Brave is available at all good book stores.

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NEWS, NEWS, NEWS

Wed, 26 Oct 2022 00:00:15 GMT

Samantha Baines brings a lot of juicy news after a couple of months off writing her book. Her personal news is RATHER EXCITING plus the pod has won two awards! Bronze for Best Relationship Podcast at the British Podcast Awards 2022 and Winner of Moment of Touching Honesty at the International Women's Podcast Awards 2022 (sam's got the award in her bathroom).

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Karen Salmansohn

Tue, 12 Jul 2022 23:37:11 GMT

Best-selling author and American Entrepreneur Karen Salmansohn joins Samantha Baines to talk relationship fall outs. A relationship expert, with many bestselling books and relationship courses under her belt, Karen is used to giving advice on heartbreak and how to find love. Karen talks about her toughest breakup personally and what inspired her to start helping other people. Samantha fangirls over Karen's instagram account and the two bond over the combination of humour and heartbreak.

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Judy Joo

Wed, 06 Jul 2022 00:00:21 GMT

"cut the chords and just go and fly now" - Judy Joo

Celebrity Chef Judy Joo joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, diamond earrings and Chanel bags. Judy talks about her divorce experience, throwing herself into work and fertility worries. She opens up about the process of freezing her eggs post divorce and sitting in fertility waiting rooms on her own. The two bond over the numb feeling and depression that comes with divorce and big changes as well as dating as a divorcee.

Trigger warning:

depression

suicide

fertility

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Salma El-Wardany

Wed, 22 Jun 2022 00:00:47 GMT

"people will talk to you about bitcoin, f*ck that sh*t, invest that energy into yourself" - Salma El-Wardany

Author and presenter Salma El-Wardany joins Samantha Baines to talk about why she won't go to any more weddings and how toxic 'situationships' can be. Salma's new book 'These Impossible Things' is a novel about female friendship and Salma talks about the influence of the patriarchy and the importance we need to put on women's friendships and successes outside of marriage and children. The two discuss treating their book launches as a personal wedding and Sam shares her advice on planning a wedding. Silence is golden and Salma advises how to get yourself away from a partner who keeps contacting you and pulling you back in. You are allowed to block people according to Salma and she gives Sam some words of wisdom about boundaries when dating.

These Impossible Things is available now from all good bookshops.

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Allan Brocka

Wed, 15 Jun 2022 00:00:25 GMT

"I was never in a place for more than a year, once I was in a school for two days" - Allan Brocka

Hollywood filmmaker Allan Brocka joins Samantha Baines to talk about his mother's multiple divorces when he was a child and the effect breakups had on his life. Allan talks about moving back to Guam, being the only child in his class with divorced parents as well as being unable to lay down roots and make solid friendships. The two discuss looking at the world through a lens, learning how to make friends and childhood experiences effecting your later life. Queer stories are important to both Allan and Sam and they explore how film and television has had an impact on their experiences.

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Gina Martin

Wed, 08 Jun 2022 00:00:34 GMT

"I was a bit obsessed in an unhealthy way" - Gina Martin

Campaigner Gina Martin joins Samantha Baines to talk break ups. Gina is one of Sam's real life best friends and the two discuss what it is like as the friend of a divorced person (namely Sam). Gina tells Sam her view of the divorce and the two talk about holding space for your friend to open up. The two talk about first love, obsession and defining yourself through the eyes of another person. Gina talks about dating a friend of the family and how early relationships can inform later experiences.

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Mark Kozminski (TW)

Wed, 01 Jun 2022 00:00:45 GMT

"I was in a car crash, so I was arrested for drink driving and wrote off my car" - Mark Kozminski

Coach Mark Kozminski joins Samantha Baines for a very honest chat about his divorce and addictions. The two discuss goals, self sabotage, bringing up children and being vulnerable. Mark explains his moment of change being a horrific car crash, after which he was arrested for drink driving and then did a work out in his jail cell to change his mind set (as you do). He is very open about a culture of drinking after work and the signs that his gambling was getting out of control. As part of his recovery journey, Mark discusses the importance of moving everyday, talking and also talking in ink - writing down what you want from your life.

Mark's company is called Blue Mind Approach www.bluemindapproach.com

Trigger warning: gambling and alcohol addiction

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Michelle Dempsey-Multack

Wed, 25 May 2022 00:00:14 GMT

"I couldn't let my daughter see me in the way I would have been in the marriage, I had to be alone" - Michelle Dempsey-Multack

Best-selling author and certified divorce and co-parenting specialist Michelle Dempsey-Multack joins Samantha Baines to talk about her own divorce. Michelle is honest about the impact her divorce had on her and the difficulties of co-parenting. She also opens up about her parents divorce and having to hide that from the other children at school and what she calls 'daddy envy'. The two bond over normalising divorce, the idea of empowering others and redecorating getting out of hand. It's Michelle's velvet blue couch versus Samantha's pink kitchen wall in this engaging, fun chat.

Michelle's podcast is: Moms Moving On

Her book has the same title

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Harriet Hadfield

Wed, 18 May 2022 00:00:17 GMT

"I remember a couple of friends who couldn't be there for me and I got it" - Harriet Hadfield

Journalist and "wannabe politician" (her words) Harriet Hadfield joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, living abroad and her love for the Isle of Wight. Harriet opens up about breaking up with someone in a different country with a one year old and the traumatic journey back home to the UK. The two discuss the importance of friends, how triggering your experience can be for others and getting annoyed with people around you. Harriet describes going through a lorry of her belongings from her marriage and how her new community has helped her so much. Sam and Harriet talk new love, hope and Harriet details her fertility and IVF journey (which has had a happy ending).

Trigger warning:

IVF/fertility

Harriet’s podcast is Island Stories: https://bio.site/islandstories

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Roy Biancalana (TW)

Wed, 11 May 2022 00:00:47 GMT

“there was no sex… it was like living with a sister” - Roy Biancala

trigger warning for language around weight gain

Divorce and love coach Roy Biancala joins Samantha Baines to talk about his own divorce and what that taught him about himself and relationships. The two talk patterns within relationships and how you 'attract' the sort of person you want. Roy opens up about rebounding straight after his divorce and his 'year long life crisis' as well as giving Sam some dating advice. They explore how Roy eventually become a divorce and relationships coach and met his current wife.

Roy's books are available on Amazon.

Roy's podcast is called Attracting Lasting Love.

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Pizza Express break-ups, dog food & divorce parties: Season 7 Roundup!

Wed, 13 Apr 2022 00:00:09 GMT

Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series and remembers the pearls of wisdom her fantastic and varied guests have shared with us.

From hearing Amy Christopher's experiences of 'marrying' and breaking up on TV's 'Married at First Sight' to comedian Desiree Burch recounting the time she cried all over her pizza when her relationship ended, we've heard from people at every stage of the divorce/ break-up spectrum.

Journalist Stacey Duigud spoke to us whilst still navigating her way through a divorce and discussed with Samantha the newly announced plans for the UK to switch to 'no-fault divorce' and fellow divorce podcaster Kate Daly shared her experiences of breaking free from an abusive marriage and how she helps others who are in similar situations.

Thank you so much for joining us for this series, we will be back for series 8, and in the meantime, why not go back and enjoy our amazing back catalog of episodes!

See you soon!

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Desiree Burch

Wed, 06 Apr 2022 00:00:34 GMT

"You always break up too late" Desiree Burch

In the final episode of this series, Samantha Baines talks to comedian, actor & presenter of Netlix's reality dating show 'Too Hot To Handle', Desiree Burch about finding the courage to go through the heartache of a break-up.

Desiree tells us about a significant break-up in her past and how she found the strength to carry on with her show at The Edinburgh Fringe, making people laugh night after night, in the immediate aftermath of a painful, yet necessary break-up.

Samantha and Desiree also talk about the loneliness of being with someone after the relationship has run its course, how relief and hope emerge through the pain and tears of heartbreak and why it's impossible not to cry on an airplane.

Desiree also tells us why Pizza Express might be the perfect break-up venue and what she thinks about the beautiful people on reality dating series 'Too Hot To Handle', which she presents on Netflix.

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Kate Daly (TW)

Wed, 30 Mar 2022 00:00:49 GMT

"When you're in an abusive relationship, you lose that sense of being able to make a decision" Kate Daly

TRIGGER WARNING: Kate talks about her abusive marriage.

Samantha talks to Kate Daly, host of The Divorce Podcast about the moment she knew she had to leave her abusive marriage and embark on a confusing, expensive, and seemingly never-ending divorce process.

After finding the process such a challenge Kate decided that she wanted to help and advise other people who are navigating their way through the baffling legalities by not only setting up The Divorce Podcast but also co-founding Amicable, which aims to help those going through divorce with advice to cut the financial burden and ways to get emotional support.

Samantha and Kate talk about how much they have learned as a result of launching their podcasts and how there's definitely room for more than one show about divorce.

We also hear how worry windows can help anyone going through a traumatic time and Kate recounts the date from hell, which is difficult not to have a chuckle at.

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Stacey Duguid

Wed, 23 Mar 2022 01:00:48 GMT

“I gave myself permission to be a wreck” - Stacey Duguid

Samantha Baines talks to journalist and Telegraph Columnist Stacey Duguid about being in the midst of her divorce.

Stacey speaks honestly and openly about how she is finding the process, the help she's getting to manage her way through the legal jargon, and how to avoid some of the mounting costs.

Stacey discusses her recent diagnosis of ADHD, which has changed the way she views her past marriage and future dating plans. We also hear about the support Stacey received on social media when she opened up about her break-up and mental health.

This episode was recorded during a landmark week for divorce law, as the UK welcomed 'No-Fault Divorce' - meaning that no one has to take the blame on divorce proceedings. The two discuss whether this is a universally positive change and the impact it may have on proceedings. Samantha and Stacey also touch on what this means from their own experiences.

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Jessica Pidsley

Wed, 16 Mar 2022 08:32:27 GMT

"Would you rather be right, or would you rather be free?!" - Jessica Pidsley

Samantha Baines is joined by friend and courage coach Jessica Pidsley, who was able to draw on the extraordinary circumstances of her parent's marriage break-up to learn some valuable lessons for her own life and relationships.

Jessica's ability to help and guide people through the difficult and transient phases of their lives is clear to see and Samantha wanted to share some of Jessica's amazing insight for the benefit of anyone out there who may need it.

As well as using the lessons of her parent's divorce in her marriage, Jessica has also been able to counsel members of her own family in the unresolved issues of that process many years later.

We also learn the importance of creating and maintaining rituals and how they can help us in our relationships and individually.

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Amy Christophers

Wed, 09 Mar 2022 01:00:50 GMT

"To me 100% it felt like a real marriage"- Amy Christophers

Sports journalist, model, and former 'Married at First Sight' contestant Amy Christophers talks to Samantha Baines about not only getting 'married' in the public eye but how she coped with the break-up of that relationship being reported in the media.

Amy tells us what it was like to be on the show and how she had to carry on with the press and publicity, despite already splitting with her husband from the show. Amy also realises now, that they went into the marriage with very different expectations and feels this may have changed the way she approaches relationships in the future, plus she talks about how it felt when she found out that she had been blocked from her ex's social media.

Amy also shares a spooky tale from her childhood which will make even the skeptics amongst us stop and think!

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Aja Barber

Wed, 02 Mar 2022 01:00:10 GMT

"Only you know what you need and you have to block out the stigma and the judgment to get help" - Aja Barber

Writer and stylist Aja Barber talks to Samantha Baines about the post-break-up tragedy which changed her outlook on life forever. Aja opens up to Samantha about the guilt she feels for being un-happy about a break-up in the last few weeks of a loved one's life. Aja promises that she will never allow herself to take life for granted again, giving her the strength to talk about the subjects she feels are important, regardless if it makes others uncomfortable. Aja discusses race, heartache, moving country and sustainability.

Aja also gives us (and Samantha) some vital tips on how to not turn to shopping in times of stress and they talk about her book Consumed.

Trigger warning:

not eating

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Rose Stokes

Wed, 23 Feb 2022 04:51:16 GMT

“I wasn't instantly happy, but I knew happiness was possible" - Rose Stokes

Writer Rose Stokes joins Samantha Baines to talk break up, her parents divorce and her new engagement. Rose also recounts how she coped in the aftermath of a toxic relationship and got to a place where she is ready to say 'I do', whilst keeping realistic expectations of what a marriage really is and not buy into the damaging fairy-tale narrative. The two talk about their parents flourishing post-divorce and separation and what it is like as a child of divorce parents. Rose also explains how past relationship trauma can seep into new relationships and how she dealt with that through therapy.

Trigger warning:

new engagement

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Steve Hoftstetter

Wed, 16 Feb 2022 07:00:23 GMT

“Don’t get married to someone you wouldn’t want to get divorced from” - Steve Hoftstetter.

Comedian Steve Hoftstetter, as seen on ABC, NBS and Fox in the US, joins Samantha Baines. Steve shares his experiences of the brave new world of dating apps, your niece finding out you are divorced via Wikipedia, and just why you should NEVER touch the buffet in a strip club. The two cover gourmet dog food and whether comedians react differently to trauma.

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New Year Special! Kerry Howard, Helen Thorn and Paul Roseby OBE

Wed, 29 Dec 2021 01:00:25 GMT

"Divorce kind of knocks the naivety out of you, so the idea that little wishes are going to change your life like that" - Kerry Howard

Our very own Samantha Baines is joined by excellent previous podcast guests actress Kerry Howard, comedian Helen Thorn and Artistic Director of the National Youth Theatre Paul Roseby OBE to talk New Year. For Samantha this one night is harder than Christmas as a singleton and the four chat body image after break up, creating odd numbers on trips away and who to snog at midnight.

We are here for any of you going through a difficult time or feeling lonely this New Year. Remember you are not alone!

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Xmas Special! Helen Thorn, Kerry Howard and Micaela Sharp

Wed, 22 Dec 2021 01:00:29 GMT

"This season is called the cuffing season" - Samantha Baines

Samantha Baines is joined by not one but THREE brilliant previous The Divorce Social guests to chat break up and Christmas! Scummy Mummies' Helen Thorn, comedy actress Kerry Howard and Interior Design Masters' Micaela Sharp bring the joy to this seasonal special. All share stories about presents from the ex, lonely moments and Christmas merriment as well as top tips for your first Christmas without a partner. There are crackers, cheesy Christmas jokes and solidarity to feast on.

We know Christmas can be a difficult time for anyone going through a breakup/in a difficult situation/or dreaming of leaving and we at The Divorce Social are here for you. Join us next week for our New Years special too!

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Dating mishaps, gifts & roller-skating : Season 6 Round Up!

Wed, 01 Dec 2021 01:00:52 GMT

Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series with her favourite bits of each episode, the gifts she misses at Christmas, the affect of anniversaries on her and the weird dates she's been on - its been a strange year of dating!

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Jacqui Smith

Wed, 17 Nov 2021 01:00:43 GMT

‘Sometimes there are things in your life you just have to accept and live with, that you can’t solve, that you can’t put right - a lot of my life is about let’s solve that problem... but this is something, the most important thing in my life and I actually couldn’t control…’ -Jacqui Smith

Former Home Secretary and political commentator Jacqui Smith joins Samantha Baines to talk about divorce and the expenses scandal even gets a mention. Jacqui talks about the importance of counselling and accepting the end of her 32 year marriage. They both discuss different sorts of grief and how to handle their emotions. Jacqui speaks about online dating and the awkwardness of being recognised by her date! They both talk about adapting to life without men in their homes and the sudden need and satisfaction of buying their own toolkits!

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Natasha Aujla (TW)

Wed, 10 Nov 2021 01:00:45 GMT

TW: Baby death/Miscarriage

"I called and said I'm going to come back and he said, no you're not, this isn't your house anymore- I'm divorcing you"- Natasha Aujla

Writer Natasha Aujla joins Samantha Baines to talk about dealing with the death of her newborn son and then being asked for a divorce eight days later. Natasha discusses her journey with forgiveness and how logical thinking aided her recovery. They both discuss going to weddings after a divorce and the emotional rollercoaster they went through. Natasha talks about the importance of her Sikh religion and how she felt growing up in a South Asian community and the cultural expectations that come with it.

Natashas blog and Instagram: blusabar.com / @Blusabar

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Georgia Hirst

Wed, 03 Nov 2021 01:00:53 GMT

"I knew he was in a really really bad place and I think that's how I forgave a lot of his behaviour" - Georgia Hirst

Vikings actor and activist Georgia Hirst joins Samantha Baines to talk about delaying the healing process. The two discuss about the difference between doing the dumping vs being the one dumped. Georgia talks about her experience of being with an older man and the lack of communication between them. Both discuss wanting to protect your partner from scrutiny by loved ones and that urge to look through their partners phone. And Georgia speaks about the importance of spending time with yourself along with tips on how to do just that!

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Nikki and Ben

Wed, 27 Oct 2021 00:00:22 GMT

"I came home and there was a ripped up photo of us and his ring next to my sink"- Nikki DeBartolo

In a Divorce Social first, we have a divorced couple on the show together! Nikki DeBartolo and Ben Heldfond both join Samantha to talk about their divorce from one another and their book all about it. Now the best of friends, they talk to Samantha about their journey whilst bringing up their son. The three discuss feelings of insecurity, meeting in public places and the power of therapy. Ben and Nikki also discuss the drastic differences in their childhood and how that affected the different outlooks they had on relationships.

To purchase their book, Our Happy Divorce: https://ourhappydivorce.com/

Instagram: @Ourhappydivorce

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Rosie Wilby

Wed, 20 Oct 2021 00:00:10 GMT

"The break up that triggered all that was when I got dumped by email"- Rosie Wilby

Comedian and Author of The Breakup Monologues, Rosie Wilby joins Samantha Baines to talk about the major breakdown of her relationship. Rosie talks about the impact her break up had on her pet cat and how she felt being in a relationship with someone not openly gay. The two discuss the lack of women who like women, representation on Tinder and taking into consideration being a pet parent when you separate from a partner.

Rosie's new book, The Breakup Monologues is based on her acclaimed podcast of the same name: https://linktr.ee/breakupmonologues

Twitter @rosiewilby and @breakupmonologues on Instagram.

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Gilly Da Silva

Wed, 13 Oct 2021 00:00:17 GMT

"I don't think I could have stopped what happened anyway..." -Gilly Da Silva

Gilly Da Silva joins Samantha Baines to talk about being gaslighted and why she set up Mending Hearts Retreat: a unique experience for individuals experiencing the hurt and pain of a relationship breakdown or loss of a deceased loved one. The two chat revamping themselves from the outside in after divorce and the freedom of their shopaholic phases. Gilly talks about the men she encountered during her ruthless divorce f*** frenzy and how she used it to escape and feel liberated. They also discuss the financial freedom needed to be independent after divorce and the role that plays.

Mending Hearts Retreat: @mendingheartsretreat https://www.mendingheartsretreat.com/

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Steven Petrow

Wed, 06 Oct 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"What was challenging for me was separating the different threads of grief..."- Steven Petrow

Author and Columnist at The Washington Post, Steven Petrow joins Samantha Baines to discuss dealing with losing his parents while splitting from his ex husband. The two open up about dealing with emotions when your ex moves on first, how they manage their anxiety and the true meaning of the phrase 'generous Daddy'. Steven discusses being honest with people about depressive episodes, noting gratitude at the start and end of his day and the two speak about being in a better place.

To purchase Stevens new book, Stupid Things I Wont Do When I Get Old: shorturl.at/jsKL2

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Sue Atkins

Wed, 29 Sep 2021 00:00:10 GMT

"It was the most horrific experience, I think of my life..."- Sue Atkins

Parenting Consultant, author and Broadcaster Sue Atkins joins Samantha Baines to discuss her coping strategies to life's biggest changes, her "F*** you ring" and advises on what to do when breaking the news of divorce to children. Sue discusses what not to do when having to go places where your ex is going to be and the two discuss their horrible experiences of online dating.

Find Sue and her work: https://sueatkinsparentingcoach.com/

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Laura Friedman Williams

Wed, 22 Sep 2021 00:00:15 GMT

"I went out and had tons of sex. I had so much sex with so many different kinds of people..."- Laura Friedman Williams

Author of Available and self declared PTA mum, Laura Friedman Williams joins Samantha Baines to discuss details of her divorce skate party, asking men lots of questions and talking all things hair (and not the stuff on our heads)! Laura discusses the sordid details of her book, the feelings of sickness when she found out about her exes "soulmate" and how she modelled forgiveness to her kids. The two discuss fellatio (yep that's right), their sexual awakening and men's strange requests. Laura also speaks on how getting divorced was one of the best things that happened to her!

Purchase Laura's book, 'Available: A Memoir Of Sex And Dating After A Marriage Ends'- https://smarturl.it/AvailableHB_Multi

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Micaela Sharp

Wed, 15 Sep 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"It wasn't so much for me the act of cheating on me, it was how he had treated me in that time frame"- Micaela Sharp

Star of Interior Design Masters and upholsterer, Micaela Sharp joins Samantha Baines to discuss leaving her home of 6 years and reclaiming her space. Micaela talks about dealing with anger, placating her dog and having another woman fill her in on the details of her exes infidelity. The two discuss losing their parent/s and how that resonated for them while going through a divorce. Micaela also gives suggestions on curating the best space for yourself after your partner moves out.

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Weddings, anxiety & cooling sheets, : Series 5 round up!

Wed, 08 Sep 2021 00:00:00 GMT

Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series with her favourite bits of each episode, her love for cooling sheets and shares some of your wonderful messages. Samantha also gives a sneak peek into what series 6 has in store- exciting!

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Jessica Fostekew

Wed, 21 Jul 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"it had to happen because otherwise I was going to lose my mind" - Jessica Fostekew

Comedian Jessica Fostekew joins Samantha Baines to talk breaking up with her child's father and her queerness. Jess talks about leaving someone well, being firm that it's the end and accidentally falling in love. The two share their queerness journeys and Sam talks bisexuality and thinking about her marriage ending by a rooftop pool in LA, as you do. The importance of a colour coded google spreadsheet comes up as well as breaking your new engagement to your ex and owning your part in their pain.

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Dom Newton

Wed, 14 Jul 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"if doing all of that is the price I had to pay to be a Dad, I'd do it all again" - Dom Newton

Presenter Dom Newton joins Samantha Baines to chat divorce and fatherhood. The two chat changing surnames for the family and Dom talks getting married at twenty two to a woman eight years older than him. Comparing himself to Milhouse's dad from The Simpsons and the effect that media references have on us. Dom opens up about being depressed, crying in front of his friend and boss for the first time. A lovely honest chat.

Trigger warning:

depression

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Sam Bailey (TW)

Wed, 07 Jul 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"I said to my Mum so many times as a kid, just leave him" - Sam Bailey

X-factor 2013 winner singer Sam Bailey joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. Don't worry she's still happily married right now but Sam opens up about her broken engagement aged 17 and her parents divorce. The two discuss losing family members after a break up and how that can affect children. Sam Bailey talks about how hard lockdown is on a marriage and is very honest about her childhood. Sam Bailey explains the huge impact that the alcoholism and domestic violence she witnessed as a child has had on her.

Trigger warning:

alcoholism

domestic violence

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Francesca Specter

Wed, 30 Jun 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"I started exploring my own fear of being alone" - Francesca Specter

Author and podcaster Francesca Specter joins Samantha Baines to talk how her break up led to an exploration of being alone. The two talk staying in things too long, spending time apart in a relationship and learning to enjoy time by yourself. Francesca talks living alone for the first time in her life, going on awful dates to avoid evenings in and the importance of the connection to yourself.

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Irene Fehr

Wed, 23 Jun 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"what I'm talking about is ending up in a sexless marriage" - Irene Fehr

Sex and intimacy coach Irene Fehr joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce and sexless marriage. Irene talks about her initial belief that she was asexual, taking on the responsibility and shame of the lack of sex in a relationship. Irene discusses painful sex due to loss of lubrication and her sexual journey. The two discuss the lack of conversation around sex in long term relationships and issues around sex and Irene opens up about her inability to orgasm in her marriage.

Trigger warning:

sex

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Denise Cullington

Wed, 16 Jun 2021 00:00:25 GMT

"I felt that if I couldn't get it out emotionally it would affect me physically" - Denise Cullington

Psychoanalyst and writer Denise Cullington joins Samantha Baines to discuss her divorce over twenty years ago. Denise talks about dealing with emotions as a trained psychoanalyst, why it's important to have good men in your life and how divorce caused her to swap painting for

Psychotherapy. Sam finds out what psychotherapy actually is and Denise explains how our past can underpin our present.

Trigger warning:

cancer

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Jen McGuire

Wed, 09 Jun 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"run as fast as you can to the middle of nowhere" - Jen McGuire (and Pink)

Writer Jen McGuire joins Samantha Baines to discuss how the artist Pink encouraged her to leave her husband as well as her movie moment at an actual crossroads. Having your first child at 21, divorced at 30 and dealing with your kids leaving the nest all feature. The two discuss break up anthems, the importance of asking for help and that sometimes getting Chinese food and watching Bring It On is the best medicine.

Jen's book is called Nest.

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Diane Burroughs (TW)

Wed, 02 Jun 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"I hired a divorce assistant" - Diane

Sitcom writer Diane Burroughs joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce after twenty four years of marriage. Working with your ex, finding your ex an apartment and sticking post it notes on your furniture all feature. Diane introduces Sam to the 'look back' and why it's so important to let go of it and how flash mobs changed her life! Sam is very excited by the idea of a break up assistant to help the process along and Diane teaches her about the menopause.

Trigger warning:

cheating

mental health

perimenopause

suicide

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Liz Hume-Dawson

Wed, 26 May 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"I feel like I've been three different people" - Liz

Actor Liz Hume-Dawson joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce that feels like a lifetime ago. The two discuss friends/relatives telling them they can drop out of the wedding and Liz knowing things aren't working five years before the separation. Liz discusses the way we keep things to ourselves, dealing with the in-laws, the way things build up and the legacy of a mushroom pate. Her break up led Liz to train as an actress, remarry and feel free.

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Laura Cathcart-Robbins (TW)

Wed, 19 May 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"I was basically taking a lethal dose of alcohol and drugs to get to sleep" - Laura Cathcart-Robbins

Laura Cathcart-Robbins joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce and addiction. Laura openly talks about "improvising her education", entering into her marriage lying and using alcohol and drugs to 'cope'. The two discuss the five stages of grief, the importance of asking for help and Laura lets us know how much it costs to check into recovery in the US and the difficulties of getting divorced and sober at the same time.

Laura talks about the journey of first hiding and then sharing her story plus still having Thanksgiving with her ex husband every year.

Trigger warnings:

addiction

violence

abuse

Laura's podcast is The Only One

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Who doesn't have a puppy?! Series 4 round up!

Wed, 12 May 2021 04:09:35 GMT

Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series with some puppy news, some of your messages and a recap of each episode. The puppy introduces herself and Samantha talks about her new divorce chat room and venting sessions!

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Jennifer Crichton (TW)

Wed, 21 Apr 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"it was a bonfire of the whole of my life" - Jennifer Crichton

Journalist and Founder of The Flock Jennifer Crichton joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. Jennifer talks tough emotional trauma and the experience she had with her new-born son's illness in intensive care for the first few months of his life. Living in a foreign country, illness and then losing all your possessions before you even get divorced, Jennifer explains that her most difficult times were actually before her separation. The two discuss career as part of your identity, dating new people and having a good looking friend.

Trigger warnings:

newborn/baby illness

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Poppy Delbridge (TW)

Wed, 14 Apr 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"I started to go blind" - Poppy Delbridge

Tapping teacher Poppy Delbridge joins Samantha Baines to talk getting married at 18, divorce, being a single Mum and starting to go blind. The two talk about catalysts, grief and have a great chat about seeing a different penis for the first time. Samantha shares her crying during sex fears, setting up that first time post break up and the two discuss clothes as part of your identity. An upbeat chat and a tapping exercise to follow too.

Trigger warning:

death/grief

blindness

sex

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Fidel Beauhill (The Modern Man) (TW)

Wed, 07 Apr 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"I viewed my divorce like a project" - Fidel Beauhill

The Modern Man Fidel Beauhill joins Sam to discuss his divorce and coaching other men. Fidel talks about 'obsess appointments', jealousy and testosterone. Sam challenges Fidel on the subject of consent and the two have a great discussion about sex and men's views around consent. Fidel discusses self-sabotage and the trend with men of jumping straight into a new relationships and lonliness. The two discuss sexual explosions, online dating and doing the work.

Trigger warning:

consent

rape

cancer

pets dying

Book:

Divorce a Modern Man's Guide

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Tosh Brittan (The Divorce Goddess)

Wed, 31 Mar 2021 00:00:00 GMT

"Your divorce is not about your ex, it's about you" - Tosh Brittan

The Divorce Goddess Tosh Brittan joins Samantha Baines to chat divorce, her daughter trying on her wedding dress, the 'family ring' and the importance of not throwing everything away. Tosh talks separating at the beginning of a month long road trip, going bankrupt, going through the attic memories and using your divorce as a kindness experiment. Some lovely exercises and words of wisdom from Tosh's mindfulness coaching work too.

Trigger warning:

bankruptcy

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Sajeela Kershi (TW)

Wed, 24 Mar 2021 01:00:00 GMT

"I left my husband when I was three months pregnant" - Sajeela Kershi

Comedian Sajeela Kershi joins Samantha Baines and the two bond over lots of parallels in their lives, from comedy to dead dads and even hearing loss. Sajeela discusses being held at gunpoint whilst pregnant and negotiating toilet breaks with terrorists, the need for a marriage handbook and having an arranged marriage. Sajeela explains why she only packed three pairs of knickers when she left her marriage, going on holiday with your ex, professional mourners and having a breakdown at the school gates.

trigger warnings:

post-natal depression

terrorism

hostage situation

death

ptsd

breakdown

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Jo Middleton

Wed, 17 Mar 2021 01:00:00 GMT

"We call them the crying months" - Jo Middleton

Jo Middleton joins Samantha Baines to talk about her painful relationship history. A single mother of two, Jo discusses motherhood and dating, living in her Mum's dressing room and why you should always find an American if you are having a panic attack. The two bond over anxiety, share their relationship catalysts and Jo opens up about "the crying months". An reveal all, jam packed episode.

Trigger warnings:

anxiety

depression

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Holly Bell (TW)

Wed, 10 Mar 2021 01:00:00 GMT

"I decided to retrain to be a lawyer" - Holly Bell

Holly Bell joins Samantha Baines to discuss her divorce and why her idea to retrain to be a lawyer didn't work out. Holly discusses how divorce changed her opinion of herself and the two bond over their new warrior status. Holly reveals that her divorce proceedings sent her into an early menopause and talks about the effect that had on her new relationship with a surprise result. Holidays on your own feature the two agree they are amazing) as well as Holly's campaign for divorced mothers suffering because of child maintenance loopholes. If any lawyers/journalists would like to get involved in the campaign please contact Holly direct via her social media

Trigger warnings:

weight loss

early menopause

fertility

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Paul Roseby OBE (TW)

Wed, 03 Mar 2021 01:00:00 GMT

"I went to the osteopath, not for my back, for my thumbs from sexting" - Paul Roseby

Paul joins Samantha for lots of laughs and some raw honesty. The two chat finances, touching penises again and being dumped by a Druid. Samantha learns a lot about gay dating apps and Paul explains why he's not your Daddy! Samantha is touched by their conversation on standing up for yourself and leaving the marriage with dignity and she opens up a little more about her recent divorce.

Trigger warnings:

Suicide

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Karen Hauer

Wed, 24 Feb 2021 01:00:00 GMT

"I am actually able to open up and be more truthful about how I felt" - Karen Hauer

Strictly Come Dancing star Karen Hauer joins Samantha Baines in this honest and emotional discussion about her two divorces. The two discuss the dark times, working with your ex and giving your friends keys. Karen opens up about her journey of self-discovery and how hard it was to let go. Both agree that pets get you through the toughest times and the importance of therapy. Sam also conjures a radio tuning metaphor that she is very proud of. This episode hit the headlines in the UK and internationally, please listen to the full podcast for context and tone.

Trigger warnings:

Depression/sadness

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Alicia Williams on gravestone cleaning

Wed, 17 Feb 2021 01:00:00 GMT

"Gravestone cleaning gives me a euphoric feeling" - Alicia Williams

Tik Tok viral sensation Alicia Williams joins Samantha Baines from the US to discuss her difficult and emotional divorce. Alicia explains how she discovered gravestone cleaning as a hobby and how much joy this unusual past time brought her during such a difficult period in her life. (UK laws mean we can't gravestone clean here). Alicia and discuss depression, custody battles, identity and being a viral sensation.

Find Alicia on Tik Tok @ladytaphos

Trigger warnings:

Depression

Suicide

Anxiety

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The divorce is official : Series 3 Round up!

Wed, 27 Jan 2021 01:00:00 GMT

Samantha announces her big personal news and looks back at the series as well as reading out some of your messages.

Will there be a series 4? Listen to find out more.

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Victoria Smurfit

Wed, 13 Jan 2021 01:00:00 GMT

"I am a big fan of 'does your disfunction match my disfunction' in relationships" - Victoria Smurfit

Victoria Smurfit joins Samantha Baines for funny, upbeat and honest chat about her divorce and being a single mum of three. The two talk about putting their warrior spears down, buying sofas and stopping believing that love conquers all. Victoria describes some hippy LA recovery moments, her worst moment sat on the bottom step of her stairs and the one night she let her dog in the bed. An inspiringly honest chat that will definitely make you smile

Trigger:

not eating

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Suki Webster

Wed, 06 Jan 2021 01:00:00 GMT

"my nunny shut up like a clam" - Suki Webster

Suki Webster joins Sam to chat about a very strange break up and her now happy marriage. In contrast to Sam's sexual explosion, Suki had a recoiling "nunny" as she calls it. The two chat aggression, therapy and being ignored in your own home. It turns out that leaving a house with two plastic bags and heading to Canada is a great way to recover from a break up.

trigger warning:

aggression

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Nicky Lesley (TW)

Wed, 30 Dec 2020 01:22:04 GMT

"marriage is not for me" - Nicky Lesley

HIV activist Nicky Lesley joins Sam to chat break up from someone who changed life forever. Nicky tells Sam about their ex-partner who hid his HIV diagnosis, which led to Nicky contracting HIV. The two chat forgiveness, letting go of anger and other people's judgements as well as sharing their thoughts about 'the burden of education' and craving love. A genuine, touching listen and an inspirational way to view life and hard times.

Trigger warning:

HIV

suicide

Charity mentioned in the pod for more HIV research (specifically for gay men)

GMFA www.gmfa.org.uk

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Lyz Lenz (TW)

Wed, 16 Dec 2020 01:00:00 GMT

"l love being divorced, I would recommend it to anyone" - Lyz Lenz

Lyz Lenz joins Samantha Baines all the way from the States to chat divorce, being raised Evangelical Christian and why getting married at 22yrs old was a bold feminist statement. The two compare religious upbringings and their hang overs and Samantha discovers the religious rules of courtship for young Lyz. Opening up about her sisters abuse as a child, Lyz talks about her family situation and how much that affected her marriage and the fact that she did get married even though she wasn't "head over heels in love".

trigger warning:

childhood abuse

Books:

Belaboured by Lyz Lenz

God Land by Lyz Lenz

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Rosie Green

Wed, 09 Dec 2020 01:00:00 GMT

"I always try to remember to be functionally friendly" - Rosie Green

Rosie Green joins Samantha Baines to chat divorce, sex and How To Heal A Broken Heart, which it turns out is the name of Rosie's new book! Rosie opens up about her "bolt from the blue" break up and sobbing in a car for four hours on Christmas Eve with her children. The two chat about that first Christmas on your own and bond over their similar experiences of writing about and sharing their feelings. Find out why a date is just a date and how losing your marriage and your job is actually the start of something wonderful!

Trigger warnings:

mental health - anxiety

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Jonty Fisher

Wed, 02 Dec 2020 01:00:00 GMT

"I found out we were getting divorced from our counsellor" - Jonty Fisher

Our first couple on the podcast! Sam speaks to Jonty Fisher, who is happily married to Jess Robinson (series 2, ep1) about his previous divorce. The two chat what to wear to court and whether it looks like a police drama, as well as being a father and opening up to friends. Jonty tells Sam about one day post-divorce when he had two people proclaim their love for him, which is Sam's dream scenario as well as affairs as a get out clause. A very honest chat about the "gut-wrenching" moments and finding out you are getting a divorce when your son is playing in the corner of the same room.

Trigger warnings:

affairs

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Cally Beaton

Wed, 25 Nov 2020 01:00:00 GMT

"My children's new step-mother is their old school teacher" - Cally Beaton

Cally Beaton joins Samantha Baines for a stonker of a chat about being not so divorced. Cally chats about her ten year relationship that resulted in her two wonderful children and having your ex living in your attic. Sam asks about dealing with the assumption of marriage and the two share their thoughts about body image and vulnerability.

Trigger warnings:

weight loss

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Tori Allen-Martin (TW)

Wed, 18 Nov 2020 01:00:00 GMT

"I need to stop eating my feelings, put on my big heels, stomp about and snog a boy" - Tori Allen-Martin

Tori Allen-Martin joins Samantha Baines to chat breaking when you are engaged in a first for The Divorce Club! The two chat cancelling your wedding, having to pick up the wedding dress and giving the ring back. An upbeat and very honest look at Tori's tumultuous and shocking break up and recovering from trauma during a pandemic. Love, guilt and a need for snogging feature as well as the idea of closure and if that even really exists.

Trigger warning:

cheating

depression/anxiety

suicide

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Rachel Teate

Wed, 11 Nov 2020 01:00:00 GMT

"When I die I want to be put in a firework" - Rachel Teate

Rachel Teate talks to Samantha Baines about being broken up with whilst driving, watching your ex leave a party that you are still at and even vision boards. A funny and upbeat chat about divorce, filling your house with flowers and top tips about sitting in front of the freezer and eating ice-cream whilst wearing your wedding tiara. Sam loses her mind a little bit about mugs that don't match but other than that there is lots to relate to in this episode and even some love for our podcast.

This episode was recorded before lockdown 2.

Trigger warnings:

cheating

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LIVE Guilty Feminist Day at the London Podcast Festival with Helen Thorn and Leyla Hussein

Wed, 04 Nov 2020 01:00:00 GMT

Our FIRST LIVE SHOW!! What a live show it was, socially distanced with a live audience and streamed over the internet as part of the London Podcast Festival at Kings Place in London. The brilliant Deborah Frances-White selected us for her Guilty Feminist podcast curated day of the festival and we were very honoured! This a bumper episode - yes that means longer than usual to welcome in series 3!

The Divorce Club LIVE is a panel line up hosted by Samantha Baines and with two of our divorced friends from the last two series. They went deep, there was a lot of laughs, audience interaction and a huge pictures of Sam's face on a screen her head.

More live episodes coming soon!

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Anger, sex addiction & forgetting you are divorced : Series 2 Round up!

Wed, 14 Oct 2020 00:01:00 GMT

Samantha Baines talks through her emotions and divorce journey during the recording of series 2. She picks out her series highlights and gives us the lowdown on the London Podcast Festival live episode which is coming soon.

Series 3 is on its way!

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Kerry Howard (TW)

Wed, 30 Sep 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I went to another realm of orgasm" - Kerry Howard

Kerry Howard joins Samantha Baines to sing and be joyous about divorce. An honest conversation about taking time for yourself, dating and what you wear to court. Samantha is very excited to hear about a new level of orgasm and the two discuss dating and divorcing in the public eye. Someone googled Kerry on a date, right in front of her too! A lively, fun and funny episode of the smash hit podcast.

Trigger warnings:

rape

bulimia

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Helen Thorn from Scummy Mummies

Wed, 23 Sep 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I accidentally sent a picture of my vagina to my neighbour" - Helen Thorn

Helen Thorn (one half of Scummy Mummies) joins Samantha Baines for this hilarious chat. The two comedians talk dick pics, sending their own naughty photos, internet dating, bawling your eyes out and why we should all make friends with Australians. Our freshest guest yet, Helen's separation was only six months ago so she discusses being newly single in lockdown, shock breakups and the moment they told the kids. A touching, honest and very funny episode.

This episode is sponsored by Frolo - the new app for single parents

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Sara Duchovnay

Wed, 16 Sep 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I have sent thank you texts to people I went on dates with years later" - Sara Duchovnay

Opera singer Sara Duchovnay joins Sam from the US to chat divorce. The two discuss the logistics of going on 8 dates in 6 days and what happens when two opera singers get married. Sara explains that she married her first boyfriend and the learning curve she went on post-divorce being single for the first time in her life as well as why second marriages are the best and the fun of organising an inter-faith wedding. Sara brings tons of positivity and an infectious energy to this discussion and even explains how divorce helped her set up a new business! Have you ever heard of a divorce ring? Well you have now!

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Annie Kashamura (TW)

Wed, 09 Sep 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I am giving you ten years for you to change and if you don't I will leave you" - Annie Kashamura

Trigger warning: domestic violence

Gender Equality specialist and activist Annie Kashamura joins Samantha Baines for a powerful conversation about Annie's inspiring story of overcoming abuse. Beginning with her marriage in the Congo, Annie explains some of the laws that trap women in difficult situations in her home country as well discussing her eventual asylum to Canada with her children. A shocking and brutally honest discussion about the depths of marriage horror, violence and the uplifting freedom after a battle to survive. A truly important listen and a surprisingly positive one too.

To follow Annie's current campaigns go to:

www.invictusequality

www.igddcongo.org

If you are affected by abuse please speak to someone.

Women's Aid : www.womensaid.org.uk

National Domestic Abuse Helpline : 0808 2000 247

The Men's Advice Line (for male domestic abuse survivors) : 0808 801 0327

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Sundari (TW)

Wed, 02 Sep 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I can't buy a whole loaf of bread anymore" - Sundari

Sundari joins Samantha Baines to chat divorce and their mutual love of naps. The two share lots of personal stories and Sundari talks about waiting too long, mental health and why whole loaves of bread make her sad. Samantha and Sundari highlight the similarities and a few differences in their divorce experiences, especially as they are of a similar age. Interesting to hear of Sundari's South Asian heritage and the fear of telling her Mum she was divorced as well as planning and going to weddings during the process! An honest and chatty episode that delves deep into the very worst moments of depression (please see trigger warnings).

Trigger warnings:

depression

suicide

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Candice Gallimore

Wed, 26 Aug 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"Do I want orchids in the house, yes I want them everywhere" - Candice Gallimore

Candice joins us all the way from Australia to chat divorce and her love of orchids with Sam. Candice discusses her imposter syndrome, same sex marriage and spending sprees. An interesting insight into getting married before it was legal and the complications that come with laws changing in different parts of the world as well as growing up in a gay household and campaigning for same sex marriage whilst you are in the midst of a divorce. Another light-hearted and enlightening conversation.

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Hajar Woodland

Wed, 19 Aug 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"the first person I hit on when I was newly single was John Mayer"

Have you every been in a band with your ex partner? Well our guest Hajar Woodland has! Sam and Hajar share stories of embarrassing things they've said to celebrities, their hopes for divorce certificates and sober dating. Hajar discusses her strict Muslim upbringing, wearing a hijab and age differences in this fascinating and surprising (the John Mayer story) discussion. As Hajar says whatever you are going through in your divorce journey is totally normal.

Trigger warning:

religion

dad issues

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Jahannah James (TW)

Wed, 12 Aug 2020 00:00:00 GMT

Instagram superstar Jahannah James joins Samantha Baines to discuss marriage at 18, sex addiction and the pressure of proving everyone wrong. Jahannah is one of our youngest guests so far on the podcast and this insightful and compelling discussion explores not only the taboo of divorce but other relationship taboos too. We chat getting married to have sex, rejection and even shopping in Ann Summers.

Trigger warning:

sex addiction

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Sam Pamphilon

Wed, 05 Aug 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"the hardest part is your future changes, as your future was mapped out" - Sam Pamphilon

Comedian and actor Sam Pamphilon joins our Sam his recent separation and his pending application to The Divorce Club. The two chat alcohol dependency, experiencing depression and his indifference for interior design in another honest episode with laughs in the darkest moments. Sam confesses to being more at fault in the break up of his marriage and hopes that someone will just turn up at his door and announce he is divorced one day... alas there are many forms to fill in before that happens!

Trigger warnings:

alcoholism

depression

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Jess Robinson

Wed, 29 Jul 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I was doing all the cleansing of the stuff, living above a charity shop, it's brilliant just chuck it down the stairs" - Jess Robinson

Comedian and impressionist Jess Robinson joins Sam for the first episode of series 2. The two chat finding new spaces, pictures of genitals, dating and Jess explains why she calls her ex "practice husband". An entertaining and energetic chat with lots of laughs to kick off the new series of this smash-hit podcast.

Trigger warnings

genitalia pictures

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Joyful messages, context & tears : Series 1 Round up!

Tue, 07 Jul 2020 23:10:24 GMT

Join host Samantha Baines as she shares her thoughts and experiences of recording series 1 of The Divorce Social (previously The Divorce Club) and reads out some of your stories and experiences of divorce. Thank you to everyone who has been in touch to say they have enjoyed the podcast. We will be back soon with series 2!

You can get in contact here:

@samanthabaines @divorcepod

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Trigger warning:

Death

Premature birth

Loss of child

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Helen Lederer

Wed, 01 Jul 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"if you are looking for commitment get a lip tattoo" - Helen Lederer

Actress, writer and founder of the Comedy Women in Print Awards, Helen Lederer joins Samantha Baines to chat divorce in this hilarious episode. Sam gets a bit of therapy from ex-social worker Helen and the two discuss lip tattoos, feeling alone and the quest for a boyfriend. Lots of laughs and excellent advice in the last episode of the first series.

Trigger warnings:

death/bereavement

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Susan Earl

Wed, 24 Jun 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"it was like an explosion" - Susan Earl

Actress and comedian Susan Earl joins Samantha Baines for this light-hearted and uplifting chatty episode. The two comedians discuss wearing lots of hats (metaphorically), drinking Sex on the Beach and having to break the news of divorce to people you meet for years after the thing. Susan explains what it's like pretending to be with your ex for functions and gives top tips for being a good friend to someone going through a divorce or separation. Lots of giggles and even an idea to make 'divorce key rings' just like the ones you get on rides at a theme park, although maybe business isn't their strong point!

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Wendy Wason (TW)

Wed, 17 Jun 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I had to prove the kids were mine" - Wendy Wason

Actor and comedian Wendy Wason joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. They chat about the decision to have children, proving you are a mother at airports, changing your name and why stand up is the best career when you have young children. Wendy mentions her cervical cancer experience and Samantha shares her polycystic ovary diagnosis in this intimate discussion. Enjoy Wendy's top tips for dating a younger man and the two chat becoming institutionalised by marriage and the idea of being a good wife.

Trigger warnings:

alcohol

cervical cancer

polycystic ovary syndrome

miscarriage

shame

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Lynne Parker

Wed, 10 Jun 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"It feels like another life when I look back" - Lynne Parker

Lynne Parker, founder and Chief Exec of Funny Women joins Samantha Baines to discuss her divorce over thirty years ago. The two discuss the stigma around divorce in the 1980's, remarriage and not being very wife-y! Lynne shares her passion for straw hats and gives Sam hope for finding love again. An insightful and positive chat about moving on and even one day forgetting you are divorced.

Trigger warnings:

divorce

alcohol

cheating

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Carl Donnelly

Wed, 03 Jun 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I just actually had a lot of cob webs I had to really work at" - Carl Donnelly

Comedian Carl Donnelly joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, why you should nab an Australian and why all the divorced man cliches have worked for him. He found himself in India, found himself in a divorce juze, mped into a relationship too soon after his divorce, became a vegan and realised a lot about himself in the process. An uplifting and honest chat with lots of laughs and interesting discussions about gender roles in guilt, marriage and society.

Trigger warnings:

alcohol

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Shappi Khorsandi (TW)

Wed, 27 May 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"I ended up getting the phone number of his other girlfriend. And she and I are on the phone for 10 hours. And it was absolutely bonkers" - Shappi Khorsandi

Comedian and author Shappi Khorsandi joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce. The comedians chat motherhood, pets killing things and crying in the green room of the Jonathan Ross Show. Turns out panel shows aren't always the best things to be on when you are going through a break up and Shappi talks about her own brand of heartbreak, dating rock stars, finding out about her new boyfriends double life and "basically having a breakdown". An honest, unforgettable episode of the new smash hit podcast!

Trigger warnings:

break down

single mum

ptsd

double lives

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Ella Kenion

Tue, 19 May 2020 23:15:00 GMT

"We spent 150 pounds between us. And we got the idiots guide to divorce the book" - Ella Kenion

Actress Ella Kenion joins Samantha for this entertaining and probing chat about her two divorces, single parenthood, parents evenings with the ex, her dog pooing in ideal places and having sex with your ex husband for fun! Yes, really.

Trigger warnings:

shame/guilt

sex

cheating

depression

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Leyla Hussein OBE

Wed, 13 May 2020 00:00:00 GMT

"have a divorce party" - Leyla Hussein

Somali activist and psychotherapist chats to Samantha about divorce and marriage in the Somali community and standing out from that. We hear about being a single mum living in a council flat and choosing her child over all else. Leyla professes her love for a divorce party and convinces Sam that she should have one, maybe even one with a slogan cake. The two chat losing friends, the divorce commission scheme and everyone thinking you are going to steal their husband.

Trigger warnings

emotional abuse

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Rich Wilson

Wed, 06 May 2020 02:00:00 GMT

"I would still be a w*nker if I didn't get divorced" - Rich Wilson

Samantha Baines interviews fellow comedian and divorcee Rich Wilson about his marriage experience. They chats pockets of contentment, gender roles in relationships and buying your own spoons in Ikea. Couples counselling, assault charges and moving in with his son post break-up, Rich Wilson is brutally honest about his experiences of divorce and his journey towards finding himself whilst trying to avoid clichés.

Rich is host of the Insane in the MENbrain podcast.

Trigger warnings:

divorce

depression

cheating

mental health

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Sarah Millican

Wed, 29 Apr 2020 05:30:00 GMT

"Why would anyone ever want to be with someone who doesn't think they are awesome. I'd rather be with nobody than someone who thought I was anything less than that" - Sarah Millican

Comedian Sarah Millican discusses her divorce and welcomes Samantha Baines to the Divorce Club in the first episode of the podcast. Samantha interviews the top comedian about her divorce experience. Sarah and Samantha compare divorce notes, emotions, chat confidence, sexual explosions and changing your exes name in your phone to "the arse".

Sarah reveals that it was divorce which meant she tried stand up for the first time, so lets all thank her ex-husband for that. Now happily married, Sarah talks re-entering married life, losing friends, moving in with your parents aged 29. We delve into the sad moments as well as the euphoric ones in this discussion on marriage, divorce and relationships in general. Magic Mike even gets a mention.

Trigger warnings:

depression

anxiety

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TRAILER - The Divorce Social

Mon, 13 Apr 2020 11:12:24 GMT

Changing the conversation around divorce. Trailer for the brand new podcast. Interviews hosted by comedian, actress and author Samantha Baines. Make sure you subscribe to The Divorce Social series to keep updated on new episodes!

Email: thedivorcesocial@gmail.com

Twitter & Instagram: @divorcepod & @samanthabaines

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