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Episode 114 - Finding My Bliss - With Raquel Deserbelles Obrien - Part 1

Tue, 19 Dec 2023 18:00:42 GMT

Listening to Raquel speak is nothing short of inspiring. So if you want to be inspired by a very candid discussion that touches on being sexually abused as a child by a family member, family trauma, navigating creating a podcast on that very trauma while trying to understand and heal, and the many lessons learned in between please join us! This is part 1 of 2, so tune in next week for the final episode with Raquel.

Listen to Raquel's podcasts

Connect with Raquel

Unfiltered Instagram

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Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

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Episode 113 - Injustice & Ill Fitting Suits - With Emily Campbell-Ross - Part 2

Tue, 12 Dec 2023 22:48:35 GMT

Emily Campbell-Ross bravely shares her story of being raped by a man named Thomas Earle, he was found guilty and avoided jail time. This is her story.

Collectively as a community when the news of this sentence was brought into mainstream media, the women of Australia were absolutely outraged to see that yet again, people who convict sexual crimes were not being held accountable for them and getting off on them in the face of good character references and 'supportive family'.

Em and Madeleine go into detail in part 2 of the trial, Em's life following the assault and where she is today. We also incorporate as much laughter as possible - because if we don't laugh - we'll cry. So, hold onto your butts and join us for an enraging but important discussion.

SIGN THE PETITION HERE

ABC Article: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-04-29/rapist-thomas-earle-sentenced-to-three-years-ico/102278630

The Project: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACX2gJtqiR8

Connect with Em

Personal Instagram @emcambellross

Campaign Instagram @nojusticeincommunityservice

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For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

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1800 RESPECT

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Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

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Episode 112 - Thomas Earle is a Rapist - With Emily Campbell-Ross - Part 1

Wed, 06 Dec 2023 02:41:13 GMT

Emily Campbell-Ross bravely shared her story of being raped by a man named Thomas Earle, he was found guilty and avoided jail time. This is her story.

Collectively as a community when the news of this sentence was brought into mainstream media, the women of australia were absolutely outraged so ee that yet again, people who convict sexual crimes were not being held accountable for them and getting off on them in the face of good character references and 'supportive family'.

Em and Madeleine go into detail in part 1 of the assault she endured and the circumstances surrounding it. We also incorporate as much laughter as possible - because if we don't laugh - we'll cry. So, hold onto your butts and join us for an enraging but important discussion.

ABC Article: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-04-29/rapist-thomas-earle-sentenced-to-three-years-ico/102278630

The Project: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACX2gJtqiR8

Connect with Em

Personal Instagram @emcambellross

Campaign Instagram @nojusticeincommunityservice

To Connect with Reclaim Me

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To Connect with Madeleine

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Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

13 YARN (13 92 76)

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 111 - If Only One Remembers to Turn on the Light - With Joshua Byrnes - Part 2

Wed, 29 Nov 2023 01:37:00 GMT

Josh is an institutional child sex abuse survivor. His abuser was a revered and must respected Catholic Church priest. He was also Josh’s second cousin. Over an 8 year period Fr Dennis Byrnes made Josh feel like he was so loved, but there was a dark side.

This is a story of a man who had spent a lifetime grooming Josh, his family and parishioners into believing he was a man of faith and good character. If only people knew evil that was hidden behind a smile and the frocks of the faith…this is Josh’s truth.

This is Part 2 in a multi part series where we will deep dive into Josh's story. Josh also supports the #yourreferenceaintrelevant campaign which is now seeking signatures in the ACT. For all ACT residents please follow this link and sign the petition to end good character references for convicted child sex offenders.

Connect with Josh

Instagram: @wombat_1987

To Connect with Reclaim Me

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To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

13 YARN (13 92 76)

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 110 - Nice Doesn't Always Mean Good - With Josh Byrnes - Part 1

Wed, 22 Nov 2023 05:58:04 GMT

This is Part 1 in a multi part series where we will deep dive into Josh's story. Josh also supports the #yourreferenceaintrelevant campaign which is now seeking signatures in the ACT. For all ACT residents please follow this link and sign the petition to end good character references for convicted child sex offenders.

Connect with Josh

Instagram: @wombat_1987

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE & subscribe to be a part of the Patreon CHEER SQUAD!

To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 109 - The Athena Project - With Jordyn Gray - Part 5

Wed, 15 Nov 2023 09:28:14 GMT

Jordyn Gray, a former Airforce Officer who was sexually assaulted on base by a colleague, shares her story with Madeleine. This goes into life on base, the assault and subsequent processes that ensued as a response. This is Part 5 (the final part) of a multi part series with Jordyn, and she goes into so much detail about her experience which is so invaluable, as stories from members of the Australian Defence Force rarely are able to or do share their experiences of being victimised. In this episode we really go into the ongoing impacts that caused Jordyn to medically separate from the ADF, the hurdles and intricacies of navigating life as a civilian and landing where she is now with The Athena Project.

Jordyn has since started the Athena Project which is Veteran-Survivor founded support group for women veterans and military spouses who are survivors of SGBV. Please connect with Jordyn or the Athena Project via the below links!

Thank you so much Jordyn for joining Reclaim Me for 5 EPISODES! It has been a true honour to share this time with you and be able to platform the much needed work of The Athena Project.

The Athena Project:

Email: hello@theathenaproject.com.au
Website: www.theathenaproject.com.au
Instagram: @athenaprojectaus
Private Facebook Group Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1148430745835084/?ref=share_group_link

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 108 - Not Guily Does Not Equal Innocent - With Jordyn Gray - Part 4

Wed, 08 Nov 2023 07:19:08 GMT

Jordyn Gray, a former Airforce Officer who was sexually assaulted on base by a colleague, shares her story with Madeleine. This goes into life on base, the assault and subsequent processes that ensued as a response. This is Part 4 of a multi part series with Jordyn, and she goes into so much detail about her experience which is so invaluable, as stories from members of the Australian Defence Force rarely are able to or do share their experiences of being victimised. In This episode we really go into the fact that being found not guilty does not mean innocent. And the many MANY issues that happened with the case against the man who allegedly is not guilty of assaulting her.

The Athena Project:

Email: hello@theathenaproject.com.au
Website: www.theathenaproject.com.au
Instagram: @athenaprojectaus
Private Facebook Group Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1148430745835084/?ref=share_group_link

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 107 - The Man Most Hated by Aussie Child Sex Offenders - With Andrew Carpenter - Part 2

Wed, 01 Nov 2023 06:55:41 GMT

Andrew Carpenter, Lawyer and member of the Super For Survivors team calling on the government to reform the Bankruptcy Act, so that child sex offenders’ superannuation can be used to help victim-survivors rebuild their lives. Named “the man most hated by Australian child sex offenders” by the Herald Sun, joins Madeleine in an incredibly insightful discussion on all things civil cases, and more on the Super for Survivors Campaign!

We continue our discussion on former cases, what we can learn and where to from here. This amazing discussion opened my eyes so wide and was such an insightful chat. Don't forget to support by signing the Super for Survivors petition here.

Connect with Andrew

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Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

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13 YARN (13 92 76)

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 106 - Super for Survivors - With Andrew Carpenter - Part 1

Sun, 22 Oct 2023 18:00:49 GMT

Join us next week for part 2!

Connect with Andrew

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Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

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13 YARN (13 92 76)

1800 RESPECT

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Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 104 - Obsession - With Nicole Madigan

Mon, 25 Sep 2023 10:09:05 GMT

Author, Journalist, Writer and Editor Nicole Madigan joins Host Madeleine Heather to talk about her book 'Obsession, A Journalist and victim-survivor's investigation into stalking. This discussion is so compelling and amazing, and shines a light on the many levels that stalking can impact a life. The years of stalking that Nicole endured was relentless and debilitating. Utilising this experience alongside her Journalist skills, she was able to deep dive into the psychology behind stalking behaviours.

This is such a great listen, THANK YOU NICOLE

FAM Don't forget this week is our Live Event in Melbourne! Get your tickets now while they last!

To Connect with Madeleine

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

Connect with Nicole

Email: bynicolemadigan@gmail.com
Instagram: @bynicolemadigan

Purchase Obsession, A Journalist and victim-survivor's investigation into stalking - by Nicole Madigan HERE

Access Stalking Specific Resource HERE

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1800 RESPECT

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Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

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Episode 103 - Failed at Every Step with Jordyn Gray - Part 3

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 08:02:31 GMT

The Athena Project:

Email: hello@theathenaproject.com.au
Website: www.theathenaproject.com.au
Instagram: @athenaprojectaus
Private Facebook Group Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1148430745835084/?ref=share_group_link

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 102 - #ideservesafety - with Stop Campaign Founder Camille Schloeffel

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 02:18:54 GMT

Camille Schloeffel the founder of The Stop Campaign joins Madeleine to discuss the current state of SA on campus and the new campaign #ideservesafety

This amazing discussion goes into the many issues faced by survivors of SA on campus, and thevmany barriers to reporting accurate information, and the community attitudes that we need to change.

Connect with Camille / The Stop Campaign

#IDeserveSafety

The STOP Campaign

Contact Camille

Learn more about the Australian Universities Accord Process

Main page: https://www.education.gov.au/australian-universities-accord
Consultation closing 1 September: https://www.education.gov.au/australian-universities-accord/consultations/consultation-interim-report

To Connect with Madeleine / Reclaim Me

To Sponsor Madeleine as a Polished Man Ambassador please follow this link
For more information / to sponsor our Polished Man Ambassador guests see here
To vote for Reclaim Me in the Australian Podcast Awards Listeners Choice please follow this link
To see more information on the Reclaim Me x Polished Man Live event Link is here

RESOURCES

For resources and additional help and support / suggested resources for the Australia, USA, UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 101 - Victim to Veteran With Jordyn Gray - Part 2

Wed, 30 Aug 2023 09:34:08 GMT

The Athena Project:

Email: hello@theathenaproject.com.au
Website: www.theathenaproject.com.au
Instagram: @athenaprojectaus
Private Facebook Group Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1148430745835084/?ref=share_group_link

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

To Connect with Madeleine

To Sponsor Madeleine as a Polished Man Ambassador please follow this link

For more information / to sponsor our Polished Man Ambassador guests see here

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 100 ! Reflections with Madz

Wed, 30 Aug 2023 08:42:39 GMT

100 EPISODES FAM!!!! Thank you so much to every single person who has listened, who has trusted this platform to be a safe place for them to share their stories, and fo everyone who has supported this platform in any way. It is just the beginning, thank you all again so much!

To Sponsor Madeleine as a Polished Man Ambassador please follow this link

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To Connect with Reclaim Me

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To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 99 - Officer to Victim - With Jordyn Gray - Part 1

Wed, 23 Aug 2023 09:27:09 GMT

The Athena Project:

Email: hello@theathenaproject.com.au
Website: www.theathenaproject.com.au
Instagram: @athenaprojectaus
Private Facebook Group Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1148430745835084/?ref=share_group_link

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 98 - Matt V Scouts with Matthew Barker

Wed, 09 Aug 2023 09:13:30 GMT

Matt joins Madi to discuss the sexual abuse he endured as a child at the hands of a Scout leader, the subsequent years of coping, healing and moving through to court system. As well as how we can support Matt v Scouts in his fight for justice now.

Despite Matt’s abuser pleading guilty to charges of child sexual abuse, Matt is now facing bankruptcy for trying to hold Scouts NSW to account. Matt needs your help to continue his legal battle with Scouts NSW.

Matt needs your support so other survivors can seek justice too.

A win for Matt would set an important precedent that survivors could rely upon when seeking compensation from the organisations that failed to protect them from child sexual abuse. The costs order would be overturned, and all donated funds will be paid to other charities and organisations which support victims of sexual abuse.

This was a truly amazing conversation, one that was so insightful and that will go so many a feeling of comfort to listen to, as so man will hear themselves in this.

Support Matt Via the below links:

Learn more about Matt's fight via this website link - https://www.mattvscouts.com.au/

Donate to support the campaign via this link - https://chuffed.org/project/mattvscouts

Connect with Matt via Instagram https://www.instagram.com/matt1barker/

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 97 - On Laughter & Loneliness - With Peaches

Fri, 28 Jul 2023 02:53:56 GMT

Maarika & Peaches join Madeleine for an incredible discussion that covers surviving sexual assault, Maarika dedicating her life to never being raped again and finding the laughs where we can to take back the power that was taken from us. This is such an incredible discussion which really embraces creativity and highlights other create ways and outlets that may be pathways for healing for many people who have survived abuses in their lives. This truly incredible human and Peaches are a wonderful team, and its truly amazing to have chats that are so unique and enjoyable when considering the origin or topic, and thats the point!!!!

Support MAARIKA AND PEACHES Follow the links below

PODCAST: https://www.maarikafreund.com/peaches

SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/7IH7U4L4forIbhZwmLDBUn

APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/peaches/id1648353759

AMAZON MUSIC: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/c3e498e3-ad6e-41e1-a74f-3a9252b64aed

FUNDRAISING CAMPAIGN: https://gofund.me/1476e87a

OR: www.maarikafreund.com/support

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/peaches.thepodcast/

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/maarikafreund/

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 96 - Changing a Broken System - With Anastasia Sagris-Desmond

Wed, 19 Jul 2023 09:21:12 GMT

Madi is joined by Psychologist, AHPRA Board Approved Supervisor, March4Justice Director, Feminist and many other things Anastasia Sagris-Desmond! This is a really engaging discussion on all things system and advocacy related. We both get incredibly heated as we talk about ways we can see change happening, what we believe may be options to proceed and how justice is not all the common for so many.

This was such an amazingly engaging conversation and I hope Anastasia joins us back again on the show to chat all things advocacy in the future!!

To Connect with Anastasia

To Connect with Reclaim Me

VISIT OUR BRAND NEW WEBSITE HERE

To Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

For additional help and support / suggested resources for the UK, Canada, USA & New Zealand please see the 'Crisis Links' page on our website

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Episode 95 - Painting Forward - Part 2 with Jayke Burgess

Wed, 05 Jul 2023 10:31:57 GMT

Jayke is a survivor and spokesperson for glbtqi domestic violence who speaks to survival, safety, complexity and change. In part 1, Jayke discusses some of the abuse and trauma he experienced at the hands of a former partner, and the many complexities that come with that as a trans person and as as someone who was abused by a woman.

Our discussions dive into the many barriers Jayke faced navigating the family court systems, and still to this day faces as ongoing abuse and coercive control at the hands of his former partner. Jayke also details the many obstacles faced by so many who experience DV, and has some amazing thoughts on how we may remove barriers and improve outcomes.

Thank you so much Jayke!!!

https://lnkd.in/ggFMudad - Listen now on Apple, Spotify, Stitcher or wherever you listen to podcasts.

And please take the time to hop on to your favourite app and leave a review or rating!

Connect with Jayke - Linkedin

LGBTQ Domestic Violence Foundation - https://www.dvafoundation.org/

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

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Episode 94 - A Recognition of Experience - Part 1 - With Jayke Burgess

Wed, 28 Jun 2023 07:42:21 GMT

Our discussions dive into the many barriers Jayke faced navigating the family court systems, and still to this day faces as ongoing abuse and coercive control at the hands of his former partner.

Thank you so much Jayke for sharing so candidly. Join us back next week for part 2!

https://lnkd.in/ggFMudad - Listen now on Apple, Spotify, Stitcher or wherever you listen to podcasts.

And please take the time to hop on to your favourite app and leave a review or rating!

Connect with Jayke - Linkedin

LGBTQ Domestic Violence Foundation - https://www.dvafoundation.org/

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

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Episode 93 - Polished Man with Kat Crowley

Thu, 22 Jun 2023 19:00:04 GMT

Kat Crowley joins Madeleine to talk about Polished Man, and the impacts that raising awareness of child sexual abuse and violence against women can have on community. This is such a tremendous discussion and highlights so many ways we as individuals can get involved and make change, additionally we discuss in detail so many factors surrounding where we need to get to in order to eliminate violence against women and children!

Thank you so much Kat for coming on and speaking with such passion and dedication!

Polished Man website - https://polishedman.com/

Polished Man beneficiaries from 2022 - https://polishedman.com/beneficiaries

Info on where to seek help - https://polishedman.com/helplineinformation

@polishedman on all the apps!

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Episode 92 - Breaking the Cycle - With Shona

Tue, 20 Jun 2023 19:00:22 GMT

Part 2 Shona Joins Madeleine for Part 2! Shona details the experience of engaging with the Police formally and pressing charges, all the way to the conviction of her father and her healing beyond. This is such a powerful episode where Shona really shows the feelings that so many go through and the processes that are required for victims to jump through. So tremendously proud to have Shona on the pod, speaking so candidly and finding the laughs where we can!'

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Episode 91 - Bonus - Men's Health Week & Movember - with Jake Lambert

Fri, 16 Jun 2023 00:39:15 GMT

Senior Manager of Fundraising and Development for Movember - Jake Lambert, joins Madeleine to discuss Men's Health Week & some call outs for men to prioritise their health and wellbeing.

Men's Health Week & Movember Resources

Movember Website - Access all Men's health related resources, campaigns and knowledge articles.

Practice Conversations - a guide you through how to start the conversation with confidence and keep it moving in a helpful direction.

ALEC - Ask. Listen. Encourage Action. Check in.

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Episode 90 - A Child in Trauma - With Shona

Thu, 15 Jun 2023 01:34:57 GMT

Shona joins Madeleine to detail part 1 of her story of continued family violence and sexual violence at the hands of her father. Shona describes the trepidation she felt as a child living in the home with an erratic and abusive father. She also describes the sexual violence she was subjected to as a young girl. Years later, after the birth of her child, Shona was also subjected to stalking and intimidation. In an effort to protect her daughter from the man who had abused her, she began to disclose the abuse to her family, and later to the Police. Shona is an incredible human, and i am so proud to call her my friend too! She will detail in Part 2 the court and legal proceedings and what life has been like for her following the conviction of her father.

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Episode 89 - The Stories We Carry - With Jas Rawlinson

Tue, 23 May 2023 21:00:28 GMT

Jas Rawlinson Author, writing coach and survivor joins Madeleine to discuss the stories within her new book 'The Stories We Carry'. This incredible book goes into the family violence that Jas was subjected to by her father growing up, and the impacts that has had on her as she has grown up. We discuss mental health, additional traumas and how Jas was able to turn the pain she endured into power, and eventually wrote this book. Jas has created an incredible book, please follow the links below and grab yourself a copy. Thank you so much Jas for coming onto the pod & sharing. BIG LOVE!

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Episode 88 - I Left For My Child & Stayed Away For Me - With Sally

Thu, 18 May 2023 03:29:03 GMT

Survivor Sally joins Madeleine to discuss the details of her experience with being coercively controlled & abused by her former partner. As there is a child involved, for legal reasons Sally and Madeleine decided that remaining anonymous would be the best way to approach this episode. Thank you Sally for coming on and sharing your journey with us all.

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Episode 87 - Breaking The Chains - With Isabelle

Wed, 03 May 2023 12:09:58 GMT

Survivor Isabelle joins Madeleine to detail the sexual assault she was subjected to at the hands of a 'friend' following lockdown restrictions easing. She details her subsequent alcohol addiction & treatment, and sadly a second assault. Thank you Isabelle for coming on, sharing your story so openly and actively breaking down the stigma of addiction following trauma.

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Episode 86 - Compensation Versus Reparations - With Cat - Part 2

Tue, 18 Apr 2023 19:00:57 GMT

Cat joins Madeleine as they continue their discussion going into the family violence Cat was subjected to as a child and young adult. The conversation also goes into detail regarding how Cat accessed victims of crime compensation and how anyone in NSW can / should investigate how they can also access compensation. We discuss ADHD, diagnosis and what some of our joint experiences have been. We also end on Madeleine and Cat sharing two embarrassing and quite frankly CRINGE stories which will give you all a much needed laugh.

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RAINN

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Episode 85 - In Spite Of - With Cat - Part 1

Tue, 11 Apr 2023 19:00:22 GMT

Survivor Cat Joins Madeleine to discuss the beginnings and intricacies of the parental abuse and neglect she experiences as a young child in her household. Part 2 will be available next week. This is an incredibly distressing conversation at times with substance abuse, suicidal ideation, addiction, child abuse and neglect. Thank you Cat for coming on and sharing your story in Part 1 so far, it is so eye opening to hear this side of life and its impacts.

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Episode 84 - An Unfortunate Way To End An Evening - With Alice

Wed, 29 Mar 2023 08:41:50 GMT

Alice joins Madeleine to discuss the likely spiking and sexual assault she was subjected to as a younger woman living in the UK. Alice details her experiences of coming forward to a friend immediately following the assault(s) and being met with an undesirable response. Which really set off the events following which left Alice questioning the way she was feeling. Alice details in such a clear and articulate way the feelings so many victim survivors of sexual assault have. And the healing journey she has been on in order to start addressing the trauma she set aside for so many years.

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Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

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Episode 83 - Tay Talks - Doulas & Trauma

Tue, 21 Mar 2023 13:47:52 GMT

Following Episode 11 With Tay where she shared her experience following a sexual assault, we reconnect to discuss how Tay is doing now and where she is at. The primary discussion points really surrounding how womb owners who have experiences sexual trauma can be supported during birth by Doula's. And really emphasising the black history and cultural aspects that really underpin that experience also. I am so thrilled again to have Tay on to talk. Its a wonderful listen, links below to connect & learn more! Tay has a website with information, a podcast and many more resources and articles to deep dive and learn more so please follow!

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Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

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https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

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Rape Relief Shelter Website

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National Sexual Violence Resource Center

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RAINN

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Episode 82 - 'You Made Me This Way' - With Shannon Molloy

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 15:38:18 GMT

Author and survivor of csa Shannon Molloy joins Madeleine to talk about his new book 'You Made Me This Way' and the story's and stars aligning that led to this being created.

Part memoir, part self-help, part investigative journalism deep-dive in the taboo topic of male child sexual abuse, You Made Me This Way is driven by Shannon revealing his own experience of having been sexually abused as a young child, and his grappling to understand how this has shaped him. And in doing so, gives voice to a shared trauma of sexually abused men in an attempt to understand the traumatic long-term effects of male child abuse and the way in which society supports (or doesn't support) survivors. The majority of men sexually abused as children never speak about their past and hide their shame and trauma away, forever carrying an enormous burden on their own, often with terrible consequences.

I am so thrilled to have had the opportunity to speak with Shannon, and to read this amazing book. Also PEEP the dedication AWW

You Made Me This Way by Shannon Molloy (HarperCollinsAustralia $34.99)

Photos of Shannon by Leon Chen.

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Episode 81 - The Better Sex Ed Project - With Jess

Tue, 07 Mar 2023 18:00:00 GMT

Jess has created an online platform to remove shame and stigma from discussions of sex and intimacy for all. Her platform provides amazing information and education on sexual education. What even is our definition of sex?! Jess details an abuse she was subjected to as a child, and we really dive into the societal norms around this in the environments we were in as growing youth. Jess and Madi also go into what moving into sex, intimacy and pleasure may look like moving past trauma. Whether that be self pleasure, options for sex with a partner and the services available for those who still find sex and pleasure as a barrier post abuse and trauma.

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Dispea - Short and Sexy Audio Stories

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https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

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Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

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RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

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Rape crisis UK

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Episode 80 - 'My Choice' - With Kelly Favro Part 2

Tue, 14 Feb 2023 18:00:40 GMT

Kelly is a survivor is a victim survivor of sexual assault who comes on the podcast to discuss her experience and in this episode the subsequent criminal proceedings. The outrage is real as we discuss the process and outcomes that forced Kelly into the world of advocacy, as she has had to fight tooth and nail to change outdated laws in Canada.

Connect with Kelly Favro

Email k ellyfavro@gmail.com

Twitter @FlagP0leSitta

Support Kelly's Advocacy

https://petitions.ourcommons.ca/en/Petition/Sign/e-4192 the petition. Signatures open til March 10 2023 at 9am EST. Residents and citizens of Canada can sign.

www.tinyurl.com/ourvoiceourchoice2023 this is the letter (instructions, letter, email addresses) we are asking anyone around the world to send to the Justice Committee (email addresses on the 3rd page), Prime Minister, and Attorney General. There is no time limit on when this can be sent to the committee.

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Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

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Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

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RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

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Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

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Episode 79 - My Voice - Part 1 with Kelly Favro

Tue, 07 Feb 2023 20:48:02 GMT

Connect with Kelly Favro

Email k ellyfavro@gmail.com

Twitter @FlagP0leSitta

Support Kelly's Advocacy

https://petitions.ourcommons.ca/en/Petition/Sign/e-4192 the petition. Signatures open til March 10 2023 at 9am EST. Residents and citizens of Canada can sign.

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine Heather

Via the above link you will find the Survivor Support Network & MERCH!!

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

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National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

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Episode 78 - 'Finding My Power' with Brayden Crane

Tue, 31 Jan 2023 18:00:08 GMT

Brayden discusses the experience he endured at the hands of a nomadic family friend who sexually abused him as a child. In this episode we continue to discuss the impacts the abuse had on him into adulthood. The complexities of family responses and advocating for Polished Man and how Brayden is doing in his life now! Thank you for coming on and sharing so much Brayden.

Connect with Brayden

Links to your consulting - https://bcraneconsulting.org/
Links to the book referenced - https://www.shootingstar.pub/product/tellingmystory/

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Via the above link you will find the Survivor Support Network & MERCH!!

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

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Episode 77 - The Friday Follow Up with Brayden Crane, Jarad Grice & Harrison James

Fri, 27 Jan 2023 04:22:48 GMT

Brayden, Jarad & Harri come on for the Friday follow up to discuss their survivor journeys, advocacy and how meeting each other has impacted their lives & still does to this date. This episode is filled with lots of laughs and love, and really encapsulates why so many in this survivor community become so close. With different insights and experiences we also answer listener questions.

Connect with Brayden

Links to your consulting - https://bcraneconsulting.org/
Links to the book referenced - https://www.shootingstar.pub/product/tellingmystory/

Connect with Jarad:

https://linktr.ee/itsharrijames

Connect with Samsn & Polished Man

Book - You Made Me This Way - Shannon Molloy

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Via the above link you will find the Survivor Support Network & MERCH!!

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

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RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

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Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 76 - 'That's Enough' with Brayden Crane

Wed, 25 Jan 2023 01:14:41 GMT

Brayden discusses the experience he endured at the hands of a nomadic family friend who sexually abused him as a child. In this episode we also discuss the actions of 'putting' this man with Brayden (during a sleepover) because he was a boy and not a girl, Parents reactions that are opposite and undesirable, The feeling of being seen as dirty and shame associated with assault and much more. We do manage to have some laughs along the way too. Join us for Part 2 next week.

Connect with Brayden

Links to your consulting - https://bcraneconsulting.org/
Links to the book referenced - https://www.shootingstar.pub/product/tellingmystory/

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine Heather

Via the above link you will find the Survivor Support Network & MERCH!!

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 75 - Friday Follow Up with Tess Ramirez and Kim Bergman

Fri, 20 Jan 2023 12:12:06 GMT

Friday Follow Up with Tess Ramirez and Kim Bergman, survivor advocates who are working to change the laws in Kansas to remove the statute of limitations for child sexual abuse.

Books mentioned:

Calls to action:

Please sign this petition to Abolish the Civil Statute of Limitations(SOL) for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Please sign this petition Make Kansas Clergy Mandate Reporters regarding Child Sex Crime and Abuse

Email these senators with a message to request the change to the legislation.

Hello my name is ______________ and I am asking that you please support legislation that will remove the statute of limitations for child sexual abuse. Removing the statute of limitations will help protect children and provide justice for survivors.

Ty.Masterson@senate.ks.gov

Richard.Wilborn@senate.ks.gov

Kellie.Warren@senate.ks.gov

fred.patton@house.ks.gov

Larry.Alley@senate.ks.gov

dan.hawkins@house.ks.gov

blake.carpenter@house.ks.gov

Chris.Croft@house.ks.gov

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 74 - Hear Me, Hear Us - with Tess Ramirez

Tue, 17 Jan 2023 13:32:34 GMT

Tess is here to discuss the details of the SA committed against her as a 14 y/o child. This episode covers the crime, the circumstances, and details that often don't get shared like insights into the criminal justice system. Tess also details the personal toll this still takes from her as she heals from trauma and aims to instil safety for her children. Thank you Tess for coming on and for all the work yourself and the other victim survivors are doing to improve outcomes for sexual assault victims, and hold those offenders accountable.

Calls to action

Please sign this petition to Abolish the Civil Statute of Limitations(SOL) for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Please contact and send an email the link to get behind bill SB420 (we will post more details of who and what to send)
Please sign this petition Make Kansas Clergy Mandate Reporters regarding Child Sex Crime and Abuse

Email these senators with a message to request the change to the legislation.

You can also add any personal reasons that you would like the legislation to be passed if you want.

Ty.Masterson@senate.ks.gov

Richard.Wilborn@senate.ks.gov

Kellie.Warren@senate.ks.gov

fred.patton@house.ks.gov

Larry.Alley@senate.ks.gov

dan.hawkins@house.ks.gov

blake.carpenter@house.ks.gov

Chris.Croft@house.ks.gov

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 73 - One of the "Lucky" Ones - Part 2 with Jenn Brown

Thu, 29 Dec 2022 07:37:49 GMT

In this episode survvor of CSA Jenn Brown details her experiences of child sexual abuse. This includes the family response, and the man who offended against her's reactions when he was confronted with his crimes. Jenn is an incredible human, advocate, activist and fellow podcaster. Make sure you connect with her, followe her pages and come back next week for part 2 of our conversation.

Connect with Jenn & Listen to her podcast below!!

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine Heather

Via the above link you will find the Survivor Support Network & MERCH!!

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode - 72 - Cheek Media with Hannah Ferguson

Tue, 27 Dec 2022 05:23:18 GMT

Founder & CEO of Cheek Media & Madi have a discussion surrounding current media topics including femicide, domestic abuse, misogyny in the media, the current DNA inquiry in Queensland & more.

Some of the issues we discuss & some links for more information:

Femicide rates in Australia - Red Heart Campaign
Misogyny in the media - Referencing Jeremy Clarkson
Sexual Assault Reporting - stats via Book How Many More Women by Jennifer Robinson & Keina Yoshida
Commissioner Walter Sofronoff Report - Commission of Inquiry into Forensic DNA Testing in Queensland

To connect with Hannah Ferguson / Cheek Media

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Watch 'A Murder in Mansfield' Here & Make sure to contribute to Collier if you can!

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 71 - Moving Past Murder - With Collier Landry

Fri, 23 Dec 2022 09:09:52 GMT

Collier Landry comes onto the podcast to talk about how he is in fact, moving past murder following the murder of his Mother Noreen when he was 11 years old.

The Moving Past Murder podcast is a place for trauma survivors to connect with a fellow survivor. Each week Collier Landry discusses the repercussions of his mother's murder while also looking at similar true crime stories, speaking to trauma survivors and talking about what it takes to move past it.

MOVING PAST MURDER: While most hosts of true crime podcasts simply discuss murders that fascinate them, host Collier Landry has actually lived through one.

Collier was 11 when his father, Dr. John F. Boyle, Jr. brutally murdered his mother Noreen, and buried her in the basement. The loss of a loved one by murder is more common than you may think. Collier testified against his father in what would be the "trial of the century" in his hometown of Mansfield, Ohio. In 2020, more than 17,000 people were victims of murder in the United States according to statista.com. That means thousands of American’s are suffering from grief, trauma, and survivor's guilt.

Every Friday, Collier Landry releases an episode covering unanswered questions behind murder, its motives, and moving on. His hope is that 'Moving Past Murder' serves as a kind of therapy and reconciliation for himself and listeners who are processing betrayal and trauma in their own lives.

Connect with Collier on all of the apps!

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 70 - Don't Make A Scene - Part 1 With Jenn Brown

Tue, 20 Dec 2022 18:00:17 GMT

Connect with Jenn

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine Heather

Via the above link you will find the Survivor Support Network & MERCH!!

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 69 - Justice & Healing - Part 2 with Jarad Grice

Tue, 13 Dec 2022 18:00:44 GMT

Madi Interviews Survivor of Child Sexual Abuse Jarad who details his story including navigating the justice system, mental health and stepping into advocacy.

Connect with Jarad:

Connect with Samsn & Polished Man

To Connect with Reclaim Me & Access Limited Edition Merch!! Reclaim Me Linktree

Instagram @reclaimmepod / @madheat_

Tiktok @reclaimme / @madheat_

Please see resources listed below - if you are in danger please call 000 or your local emergency number

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 68 - Taking Back The Power

Thu, 08 Dec 2022 08:40:30 GMT

In this episode survivor of child sexual abuse Jarad details his personal experience with surviving ongoing child sexual abuse at the hands of a neighbour in the community. Jarad doesn't go into explicit detail, but we do touch on aspects fo the crimes that occurred during his childhood. Moving on from that we start to discuss the ongoing impacts of CSA that came out of this trauma. The mental health aspect is something we do go into, and the ways in which Jarad has advocated consistently for children and other survivors. Additionally Jarad details later in life, being involved in a family court battle against the man he accused of sexual assault.

Connect with Jarad:

Connect with Samsn & Polished Man

To Connect with Reclaim Me & Access Limited Edition Merch!! Reclaim Me Linktree

Instagram @reclaimmepod / @madheat_

Tiktok @reclaimme / @madheat_

Please see resources listed below - if you are in danger please call 000 or your local emergency number

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 67 - The Never Ending Process

Wed, 30 Nov 2022 09:23:14 GMT

In this episode Madi details her experience of reporting her alleged assault with Police and the subsequent process leading up to her court date. We discuss the process, the set backs and everything in between. Thank you Madi for sharing Part 3 of your story with Reclaim Me. Part 4 we will have coming soon where Madi will go through the court process itself.

To get in touch with Madi

Instagram @sunlightmelody

To Connect with Reclaim Me & Access Limited Edition Merch!! Reclaim Me Linktree

Instagram @reclaimmepod / @madheat_

Tiktok @reclaimme / @madheat_

Please see resources listed below - if you are in danger please call 000 or your local emergency number

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode: 66 - Not The Perfect Victim - Part 2 With Holly Harris

Wed, 23 Nov 2022 10:49:10 GMT

In this episode Holly continues to detail the circumstances surrounding the allegations made against a former friend, and the proceeding court process and current state of affairs.

Holly is an incredible human who shares her story in her words.

This man was found not guilty. That doesn't mean there aren't feelings thoughts and opinions about that however.

Show your support by sharing a review or getting in touch!

To get in touch with Holly

Instagram @hollyharris___

To Connect with Reclaim Me Reclaim Me Linktree

Instagram @reclaimmepod / @madheat_

Tiktok @reclaimme / @madheat_

Please see resources listed below - if you are in danger please call 000 or your local emergency number

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 65 - Fear of Speaking Out - Part 1 With Holly Harris

Tue, 15 Nov 2022 13:11:06 GMT

In this episode Holly details her alleged sexual assault that occurred allegedly at the alleged hands of an alleged perpetrator *HEAR THE EYE ROLL*

Holly is an incredible human who shares her story in her words. She recounts the events of the night that was later taken before the courts.

This man was found not guilty. That doesn't mean there aren't feelings thoughts and opinions about that however.

Show your support by sharing a review or getting in touch!

To get in touch with Holly

Instagram @hollyharris___

To Connect with Reclaim Me Reclaim Me Linktree

Instagram @reclaimmepod / @madheat_

Tiktok @reclaimme / @madheat_

Please see resources listed below - if you are in danger please call 000 or your local emergency number

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 64: The Aftermath - Part 2 with Madi

Wed, 09 Nov 2022 09:09:36 GMT

In this episode Madi details the aftermath of a sexual assault that occurred while on a first date via Tinder. Madi has bravely detailed the beginning of her story in Part 1 of this interview. In this, Part 2 , we go into detail in what Madi experienced post offence medically, and subsequently in criminal proceedings.

To get in touch with Madi

Instagram @sunlightmelody

To Connect with Reclaim Me Reclaim Me Linktree

Instagram @reclaimmepod / @madheat_

Tiktok @reclaimme / @madheat_

Please see resources listed below - if you are in danger please call 000 or your local emergency number

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 63: The Lockdown - Part 1 with Madi

Wed, 02 Nov 2022 10:55:43 GMT

In this episode Madi details the night she spent with the man who would sexually assault her. A man she met on Tinder, who she had planned to have a quiet night in with. Madi has bravely detailed the beginning of her story in Part 1 of this interview. Join us back next week for Part 2 in what will be an ongoing series of discussions as we go into detail in what Madi experienced post offence medically, and subsequently in criminal proceedings.

To get in touch with Madi

Instagram @sunlightmelody

To Connect with Reclaim Me Reclaim Me Linktree

Instagram @reclaimmepod / @madheat_

Tiktok @reclaimme / @madheat_

Please see resources listed below - if you are in danger please call 000 or your local emergency number

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 62 - Part 2 - Advocating for Change

Tue, 25 Oct 2022 18:20:42 GMT

Survivor Kim details her experience of child sexual abuse at the hands of her former Gymnastics Coach. In this episode we discuss the circumstances surrounding Kim being specifically targeted and groomed by this offender, and the subsequent actions she; as a child made in response to the abuse. Kim also details the tremendous steps she has taken, and continues to take to try and keep the community safe, by keeping this convicted offender from accessing Gymnasiums into the future. She has used her skills as a now trained social worker, and a gymnastics coach to also further the education of coaches, so they are better prepared to identify children who may be in danger around them.

Calls to action

Please sign this petition to Abolish the Civil Statute of Limitations(SOL) for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Please contact and send an email the link to get behind bill SB420 (we will post more details of who and what to send)
Please sign this petition Make Kansas Clergy Mandate Reporters regarding Child Sex Crime and Abuse!!!

Connect with Kim via email if you wish too at kimbergman333@gmail.com

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 61 - Part 1 - A Constant Fight For Justice

Thu, 20 Oct 2022 08:09:42 GMT

Survivor Kim details her experience of child sexual abuse at the hands of her former Gymnastics Coach. In this episode we discuss the circumstances surrounding Kim being specifically targeted and groomed by this offender, and the subsequent actions she; as a child made in response to the abuse. Kim also detals the tremendous steps she has taken, and continues to take to try and keep the community safe, by keeping this convicted offender from accessing Gymnasiums into the future. She has used her skills as a now trained social worker, and a gynastics coach to also further the education of coaches, so they are better prepared to identify children who may be in danger around them. Next week Kim shared more about her experiences in Part 2! Please take the time to sign re

Calls to action

Please sign this petition to Abolish the Civil Statute of Limitations(SOL) for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Please contact and send an email the link to get behind bill SB420 (we will post more details of who and what to send)
Please sign this petition Make Kansas Clergy Mandate Reporters regarding Child Sex Crime and Abuse!!!

Connect with Kim via email if you wish too at kimbergman333@gmail.com

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

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Episode 60 - Unfiltered & Raw

Tue, 16 Aug 2022 12:20:39 GMT

Survivor Zoe details her experience of assault with a one night stand. From consent to danger, this encounter highlights how much we have to go, before sexual partners understand consent. In this episode Zoe and I discuss the details of the night of her assault, and the subsequent feelings of "is this assault", one many survivors have. Zoe and I also discuss the nature of consent and education, and we openly discuss sex, pleasure and having sex after abuse. Thank you Zoe for being so candid, so brave and honest with your story. Such an inspiration, advocate and warrior woman.

To reach Zoe

Instagram / Facebook

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For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

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Episode 17 - Just Another Fu***ng Feminist

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 09:16:11 GMT

In this episode survivor Zoe details her experience of sexual assault by a traveller during a Euro Trip as a young adult.

Zoe and I discuss the assault itself, and how it was for her after the assault on a trip overseas. We discuss sex after assault, the many encompassing factors surrounding support systems for survivors and much much more.

Zoe is a true inspiration and warrior woman.

To reach Zoe

Instagram / Facebook

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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We're on Holidays! Recap - Edge of the Bed

Wed, 03 Aug 2022 11:44:04 GMT

Trigger Warning - CSA

In this episode, survivor Ryan details the ongoing child sexual abuse he endured at the hands of his step father.

We discuss at length the abuse he endured, the emotional and physical tolls this abuse had on him, and his perpetrators behaviours. This episode goes through the many controlling tactics used by perpetrators of child sexual abuse and the systems they face.

Thank you Ryan for coming on, shedding a light on what abuse can look like and really stepping into advocacy and trying to normalise talking about abuse. You are an absolute warrior in your own right, and i'm so thankful to have been able to chat with you.

To reach Ryan

Instagram @theedgeofthebed

To reach Madeleine & Reclaim Me

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in England / UK please reach out to:

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

SurvivorsUK - https://www.survivorsuk.org/

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

This a US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 59 - No Longer a Victim, Forever a Survivor

Mon, 25 Jul 2022 13:46:21 GMT

In this episode survivor Terra Newell details the attack that nearly killed her and how she fought off and took down Dirty John. Terra and I go on to discuss what healing has looked like, therapy types, bumps in the road and many things in between. Terra is an amazing human who speaks with such authenticity, it gives so many other survivors permission to speak on their own terms. Thank you Terra for coming on, absolute warrior woman. Make sure to reach out to Terra & check out her story in more detail on her TikTok!

Connect with Terra Newell

TikTok

Time Out With Terra Podcast Instagram

Website - https://terranewellsurvival.com/

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine Heather

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 58 - Part 2 - A Story of Survival

Sun, 17 Jul 2022 22:00:18 GMT

Survivor Caroline is back for part 2 of our chat. In this episode we get into courageous intentions, how Caroline started her book and where she is at now in her journey and life.

More Than One Thing Can Be True – a story of survival is Caroline’s memoir. It is her story. It’s her ode to healing despite the odds. It speaks to the reality of trauma, and also the power we have to transform and heal. It is a story of one courageous woman, who despite carrying decades of shame, chose to own her voice. In doing so, she is paving the way for survivors to own their voice, and live a life of courageous intention.

Thank you for coming on and sharing part 1 Caroline - you are an absolutely amazing human.

Connect with Caroline Brunne

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

The Glade

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 57 - Part 1 - More Than One Thing Can Be True

Tue, 12 Jul 2022 08:08:01 GMT

Caroline Brunne comes onto the podcast to discusses her experience of child sexual abuse at the hands of her father, and the experiences she has gone through in recent times with the release of her memoir and sharing her story publicly. In this episode specifically we discuss what it was like for Caroline stepping away from the shiny facade she created when she decided to release this story and finally reveal her story to her loved ones.

Thank you for coming on and sharing part 1 Caroline - you are an absolutely amazing human.

Connect with Caroline Brunne

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

The Glade

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 56 - Part 2 - To the Girl That Stayed

Sun, 03 Jul 2022 22:00:45 GMT

In Part 2 of my conversation with survivor Sydney, they detail more instances of the domestic abuse experienced at the hands of a former partner. In this episode we discuss the ongoing nature of abuse, the work that needs to be done to heal ones inner child, and how Syd has survived suicide attempts, suicidal ideation and a miscarriage to come out the other side as a happy, healthy, educated and qualified health professional. I am so proud of the work Syd has put into their healing, and it is nothing short of inspirational to listen to. Thank you Syd for coming and sharing your story. Survivor and strong as fuck.

Connect with Syd

Connect with Reclaim Me Resources & Support Network / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

Pregnancy / Infant Loss group and help for bereavement costs

https://www.emmasfootprints.com/

Pregnancy / Infant Loss virtual support group

https://starlegacyfoundation.org/support-groups/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

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Episode 55 - To The Man That Abused Me - Part 1

Mon, 27 Jun 2022 22:00:26 GMT

In this episode survivor Sydney details their experience of domestic and sexual abuse at the hands of a former partner. Sydney outlines some of the experiences leading up to what became a relationship, the abuse that started and what remained during their final year as a teenager. Syd is such an amazing human, who has risen from the ashes and is such a shining light. Thank you for sharing part 1 - Warrior!

Connect with Sydney

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

National Debt Helpline

Phone: 1800 007 007

Website: www.ndh.org.au

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

https://www.touchysubjectspodcast.com/about

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Episode 54 - Touchy Subjects

Sun, 12 Jun 2022 22:00:29 GMT

Podcast hosts Amanda and Shawn from the Touchy Subjects Podcast join us for an amazing discussion on prevention work based on the experience of these two prevention specialists.

Shawn Schutt

has a Master's degree in Public Health and has worked in the field of domestic and sexual violence prevention for over 5 years. He has presented to middle and high schoolers, college students, health care professionals, bar staff, politicians, and businesses on topics ranging from consent, healthy relationships, human trafficking, warning signs of violence, and policy implications. He uses his desire to create equitable, inclusive, safe communities, to dictate his presentations and trainings, centering community needs and beliefs along with social justice to build change.

Amanda Courier works in Community Outreach and Prevention Education and has been in the world of Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault prevention for 3 years. She has given educational presentations to groups that range from Pre-K to those in Residential M.D. programs. Amanda is also a nationally recognized advocate for victims of crime and spends time on a crisis intervention hotline. She can be spotted staffing awareness tables at community events in her hometown, and you can count on her to speak up when she sees injustice. Her passion for equity, inclusion, diversity, and justice is what drives her to be the best advocate and educator she can be

The Touchy Subjects podcast was created to make 'touchy subject' conversations that are no longer stigmatised.

Connect with Touchy Subjects / Shawn & Amanda

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 53 - The Storm Before the Sun

Sun, 05 Jun 2022 23:19:22 GMT

Survivor Harrison James details his experience of child sexual abuse at the hands of his step mother for a number of years. This consistent and continuous abuse culminated in Harrison fathering a child, who was raised within the family home as his sister. Harrison's experiences are detailed in this episode, and his unique viewpoint and philosophy on overcoming trauma and seeing the 'sun' after the storm is nothing short of inspirational. Harrison also has a brand ' Fuck Injustice' and is continuing his campaign for survivors of abuse.

Thank you Harri for coming on and sharing your story.

Connect with Harrison James

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 52 - Part 2 - Reflections

Tue, 31 May 2022 09:09:52 GMT

Survivor Bree and I discuss the reflections of listening to her tell her story, and some of the hurdles her and I face even to this day as survivors.

Thank you so much to Bree for coming back on, being so vulnerable and also for holding so much space for me to also open up.

Connect with Bree

Instagram

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 51 - Respectful Relationships

Sun, 22 May 2022 22:00:22 GMT

Max is a speaker passionate about instilling self-respect in young men through thoughtful romantic interactions and personal development. He draws on more than 20 years’ experience and witnessing the mistakes repeatedly made by young men when interacting with women. Over the years, Max realised that young women frequently discuss these issues between themselves, but they were rarely talked about among young men. Given this divide in education and peer learning, it became clear to him that simply telling young men “no means no” is insufficient in the real-world. Max believes that avoidance of difficult topics and the premise of a well-raised boy “figuring things out” is inadequate. Thank you Max for coming on and sharing what you do in this wonderful episode!

Connect with Max Radcliffe

Website - https://www.maxradcliffe.com.au/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/maxi.radcliffe/

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 50 - It All Matters

Tue, 17 May 2022 11:35:23 GMT

In this episode Survivor Bree details her experience of sexual assault while travelling overseas, and her subsequent abusive relationship that she endured for years. Bree discusses what happened to her, the her reactions through the process and why she never disclosed her sexual assault until years later. This is a horrible case that Bree has somehow managed to turn around into a life that see's her volunteering, supporting survivors and without a doubt saving lives every day. Warrior woman.

Connect with Bree

Instagram

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 49 - Survivor to Thriver - Part 2

Wed, 04 May 2022 13:59:38 GMT

Survivor Tambry details her experiences of domestic abuse, and the realisation of her early child sexual abuse later in life. In this episode Tambry and I talk about how she herself has since started Survivors to Thrivers an organisation Guiding survivors of abuse and trauma to find strength and freedom by examining limiting beliefs and claiming a Going-Forward Story that leads to a whole-hearted, meaningful life. She also details how and why she started her amazing book ,Awakening the Light!

Connect with Tambry

Website - survivorstothrivers.com

Instagram - @survivorstothrivers

Facebook - survivorstothriversofficial

Email - tambry@survivorstothrivers.com

Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 48 - Survivor to Thriver - Part 1

Mon, 25 Apr 2022 22:00:25 GMT

Survivor Tambry details her experiences of domestic abuse, and the realisation of her early child sexual abuse later in life. In this episode Tambry discusses some of her experiences that she endured during two abusive relationships, and how she managed navigating life after her abuse as a newly single mother. Tambry has since started Survivors to Thrivers an organisation Guiding survivors of abuse and trauma to find strength and freedom by examining limiting beliefs and claiming a Going-Forward Story that leads to a whole-hearted, meaningful life. She is also the author of the book Awakening the Light.

Connect with Tambry

Website - survivorstothrivers.com

Instagram - @survivorstothrivers

Facebook - survivorstothriversofficial

Email - tambry@survivorstothrivers.com

Connect with Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 47 - Think Unbroken

Sun, 27 Mar 2022 21:00:32 GMT

In this episode i speak with Michael Unbroken who speaks about his experience of childhood trauma, and the subsequent. life lessons he had to learn to begin to fight for himself and a better life. Think Unbroken is the outcome of the hard work and dedication of this incredible survivor; who throughou this episode discusses experience, advice, trauma, and will have you rethinking the way your trauma impacts you into the future. I am so grateful to have had Michael on, and to meet this person who is doing so much in this space. Warrior man.

Connect with Think Unbroken

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

National Debt Helpline

Phone: 1800 007 007

Website: www.ndh.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 46 - Part 2 - Love, Bruises & Bullshit

Sun, 20 Mar 2022 21:00:34 GMT

In this episode Sheree discusses her long term abusive relationship, the events that occurred during her being help captive by her perpetrator for multiple days, and the events that started to subsequently plant the seed, and lead to her leaving this relationship. We also discuss the many barriers Sheree faced upon leaving, and what it has been like for her to escape, and the financial implications this has had on her life to this day.

To connect with Sheree

I Am Sheree Website - Access her book via the website - Resources on the website also.

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 45 - Part 1 - Love, Bruises & Bullshit

Tue, 15 Mar 2022 07:00:43 GMT

Survivor Sheree details her experience in a long term domestic abuse relationship. In this episode we discuss some of the details of her relationship and along with that, the attitudes of those surrounding Sheree during her relationship. Sheree is an incredible survivor, who discusses the impacts the relationship had on her over time, as it evolved. And in addition to that the impacts she started to see in her young children.

To connect with Sheree

I Am Sheree Website - Access her book via the website - Resources on the website also.

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

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Episode 44 - Part 2 - Chasing Normal

Sun, 06 Mar 2022 22:01:17 GMT

Survivor Beck details her experience during her childhood of abuse and sexual assault at the hands of the ones who should love her most, her family. In this episode we go into the detail and circumstances surrounding the family dynamic of her first abuser. We also discuss the ongoing impacts of childhood sexual abuse on mental health and Becks experience. Beck is an absolute warrior woman, her story is harrowing so please take care while listening, however she speaks with such depth and purpose to educate others and change the lives of other survivors.

To connect with Rebekah

Beck Thompson Website - Access her book via the website

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

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Episode 43 - Part 1 - Chasing Normal

Mon, 21 Feb 2022 10:29:24 GMT

Survivor Beck details her experience during her childhood of abuse and sexual assault at the hands of the ones who should love her most, her family. In this episode we discuss Beck's early life experiences with abuse as a child, and the response from her Mother and family when she finally spoke out about her abuse for the first time as a young woman. Beck is an absolute warrior woman, her story is harrowing so please take care while listening, however she speaks with such depth and purpose to educate others and change the lives of other survivors.

To connect with Rebekah

Beck Thompson Website - Access her book via the website

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Voices beyond Assault Website

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Episode 42 - Part 2 - A Voice Beyond Assault

Thu, 17 Feb 2022 09:11:51 GMT

Survivor Brianna details her experience during her criminal case against her offender, following her violent abduction and sexual assault.

In this episode Brianna goes into the detail of her court case, from identifying her perpetrator to how she felt while on the stand. We also discuss the aftermath of dealing with the outcome of the trial, the ongoing impacts of abuse and what she has done to create Voices Beyond Assault. Thank you for coming on and being a voice for yourself Brianna, and creating a space for so many survivors to connect and reclaim their own voices too.

To connect with Brianna or Voices Beyond Assault

Peronsal Instagram

Vices Beyond Assault Instagram

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Voices beyond Assault Website

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Episode 41 - Part 1 - A Voice Beyond Assault

Sun, 06 Feb 2022 11:56:09 GMT

Survivor Brianna details her experience of kidnapping, attempted murder, assault and sexual assault as a young woman. In this episode we discuss the circumstances that surrounded Briannas brutal assault. We discuss the importance of survivor communities for healing support and the incredible work she has been doing to empower the lies of other survivors by growing and creating community through Voices Beyond Assault - which she is the founder of.

This is part one of my chat with Brianna, and i am so honoured to have her on. What an absolute force of nature, and warrior woman.

To connect with Brianna or Voices Beyond Assault

Peronsal Instagram

Vices Beyond Assault Instagram

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

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Episode 40 - It Still Matters

Thu, 13 Jan 2022 00:47:57 GMT

Survivor Sarah details the ongoing sexual abuse she endured as a child from the man who should have cared for her the most, her father.

In this episode we discuss the longterm effects of incest, and the process in which Sarah undertook to report her historical sexual abuse, and obtain a very recent conviction. We also discuss the usage of medication for mental health issues and the long term effects that still impact Sarah on a day to day basis.

Thank you Sarah for sharing your story, and showing so many that no matter how much time has passed - its not too late!

Connect with Sarah

Twitter

Watch Sarahs Sky News Interview here

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

If sharing your story is something that interests you - please reach out!

Reclaim me was also recently listen in the top #45 sexual harassment podcasts on Feedspot!

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

https://www.nspcc.org.uk/

National Association for People Abused in Childhood - NAPAC

https://napac.org.uk/

National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children

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Episode 39 - Undermined, Accused and Expelled

Wed, 22 Dec 2021 21:00:46 GMT

In this episode survivor Hannah details her experience with sexual assault, domestic abuse and a very violent sexual assault by a stranger. We discuss three key events that occurred during Hannahs life that she has had to endure. Sadly Han has had to endure very severe accusations and subsequent expulsion due to disclosing her last assault to a college coordinator.

This episode highlights how important believing survivors is, it shows that we only see the tip of the iceberg when it comes to offending and it shows that Hannah - although she has been through hell - has worked her ass off to get where she is to dedicate her time to advocacy for survivors.

Thank you Hannah - Warrior woman.

Connect with Hannah

Website - https://elizaspeaks.wixsite.com/website

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

National Debt Helpline

Phone: 1800 007 007

Website: www.ndh.org.au

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 38 - Part 2 - Advocacy is in my DNA

Sat, 18 Dec 2021 04:25:08 GMT

Survivor Cathy details her experience of domestic abuse, stalking and sexual assault by a stranger.

Cathy's story highlights the importance of believing survivors, the major failures that can occur in the system and the ripple effects caused by domestic abuse.

This story also highlights the incredible determination and resilience of this wonderful human being. Cathy has now been an advocate for 13 years, and directly assisted in the Royal Commission into Family Violence, among MANY other things.

Victim to Victor.

Connect with Cathy

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

National Debt Helpline

Phone: 1800 007 007

Website: www.ndh.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 37 - Part 1 - Advocacy is in my DNA

Fri, 10 Dec 2021 02:41:54 GMT

Cathy Oddie shares her experiences of surviving two domestic abuse relationships and sexual assault by a stranger.

This story highlights the importance of believing survivors, the major failures that can occur in the system and the ripple effects caused by domestic abuse.

Victim to Victor.

Connect with Cathy Oddie

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

www.1800respect.org.au

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 36 - Making Noise: Standing with Survivors

Wed, 01 Dec 2021 21:00:15 GMT

Survivor Alyce details her experiences of sexual assault on two different occasions as a young woman. In this episode we discuss Alyce's experience growing up, and coming to terms with her Bipolar diagnosis. We discuss her assaults, what she ensured, and also the personal strain that it takes on someone, especially someone in the midst of a Bipolar diagnosis. This is an incredibly insightful conversation, and i want to thank Alyce for being so candid and honest with her story and her struggles during and after her assault.

To get in touch with Alyce and learn more about 'Making Noise: Standing with Survivors' se the links below.

Connect with Alyce

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

National Debt Helpline

Phone: 1800 007 007

Website: www.ndh.org.au

Women’s Legal Services Australia

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 35 - The Forgotten Victims of Family Violence

Wed, 24 Nov 2021 21:00:21 GMT

Survivor Tess details her life growing up in a family where domestic abuse was the norm. From losing her biological father to suicide at a young age, to being a dependent on her Mother who entered numerous abusive relationships in her formative years. Tess discusses what it was like to live in an abuse household, the impacts this has had on her long and short term, and how she has now re-evaluated her circumstances growing up as she has had children of her own.

Thank you Tess for coming on and sharing your story - its an incredibly important item to discuss, as the children in abusive households are often forgotten as victims.

Connect with The Innerview Podcast / Tess

The Inner View - Instagram

Tess - Instagram

Listen to The Innerview Here

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

Australian Services:

Lifeline

For crisis support

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Canadian Services

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

American Services

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

UK Services

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's survivors support group

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 34 - Stealthing is a Crime

Sat, 13 Nov 2021 08:18:49 GMT

In this episode Survivor Anna details her experience of stealthing following a date with a man she men online, and her subsequent fight for justice through civil and criminal proceedings.

We discuss the events that occurred including the stealthing, the subsequent actions f herself and the perpetrator and how reaching out to a Rape relief shelter was one of the smartest things she did.

Some of Anna's experiences with law enforcement following her rape have highlighted the embedded misogyny that still prevails today in society, and has shown so many that stealthing is not seen as a crime in the eyes of many law enforcement officials.

Thank you for sharing your story Anna, and for fighting as hard as you are for yourself, your own justice, and ultimately women everywhere. You are a true inspiration.

In this episode survivor Emily details a series of abuses she endured fro childhood and into her adult life. Emily details experiences of sexual assault, how she developed a drug and alcohol addiction and a horrific experience of being held captive and under the control of a man who came into her life. In this episode we touch on unhealthy coping mechanisms, what the impact of being silenced can have, enduring trauma and the effects of that trauma - and heroically the other side of life that healing has opened up for Emily. Emily has truely turned her pain into purpose, and is the epitome of an incredible survivor warrior woman.

Emily is now practicing as a self healing consultant, please check out her services and reach out to show your support.

Thank you for coming on and sharing your story Emily.

Connect with Anna

Connect with Services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 33 - Turning Pain into Purpose

Fri, 05 Nov 2021 21:00:55 GMT

Emily is now practicing as a self healing consultant, please check out her services and reach out to show your support.

Thank you for coming on and sharing your story Emily.

Connect with Emily / The Self Healing Consultant

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 32 - Reclaiming the Power

Sat, 30 Oct 2021 05:30:52 GMT

In this episode survivor Yentl details her experience of sexual assault following a night out with friends, and her subsequent criminal proceedings. Yentl and I discuss the assault and circumstances surrounding her assault. We also discuss what her experience and process has been like with reporting to police, the 'rape' kit and the following criminal proceedings.

We also touch on how we deal with trauma and traumatic events, and how we tend to blame ourselves, at least in part for being the victim of a sexual attack. This conversations is honest and powerful, and Yentl is an incredible survivor who is embarking on her healing journey. Thank you Yentl. Warrior woman.

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 31 - Alcohol is not the Perpetrator

Sun, 10 Oct 2021 08:14:35 GMT

In this episode survivor Jess details her experience of sexual assault on a night out in Melbourne. After her ordeal Jess went to a Hospital to seek medical assistance, where she experienced victim blaming, and did not receive medical intervention. After her ordeal Jess has made a tremendous effort to heal from her experience, and is now also working closely with a Psychologist to help her navigate the trauma she endured.

Thank you for coming on Jess, and sharing your story of Survival. A true warrior woman.

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 28 - Special Episode - Understanding Abuse and Navigating Therapy

Sun, 19 Sep 2021 00:54:21 GMT

In this episode I have a conversation with a wonderful Counsellor Jemma who is the Founder of Bloom Wellbeing. Jemma dispels common myths of the counselling experience and of abuse scenarios. We discuss common presentations to abuse, misconceptions, and how a practicing counsellor may assist with navigating trauma and mental health presentations.

To connect with Jemma / Bloom Wellbeing

Bloom Well-being provides counselling support to people of all ages and has a specific interest in supporting people to integrate experiences of trauma, and reclaim their lives and sexuality. Jemma and co-therapist @therapydogdexter operate from a home-style counselling space in Creswick, Victoria and provide face-face, video and phone appointments.

Please reach out via SMS (0477 110 953) or email 📧 jemma@bloomwell-being.com.au to find out more.

*Bloom Well-being is not a crisis service.

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BloomWellbeingCo/

Insta: @bloom.well.being

Dexter’s Insta: @therapydogdexter

Dexter's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TherapyDogDexter/

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 27 - Part 2 - Escaping The Control

Sat, 11 Sep 2021 01:08:05 GMT

Survivor Vera Lee is back to deep dive further into her experience of coercive control, domestic abuse and sexual abuse at the hands of her husband and the escalation of that abuse that occurred after her son was born. In this episode we discuss the importance of other mediums for telling our story than vocally, and the importance art can play in the healing of trauma. Vera Lee outlines the events that precipitated her leaving, and her experience in the courts and systems once she escaped her abuser.

It has been an absolute honour to speak with Vera Lee and to hear her story. This story shows that there is so much life after abuse, and the parthway to healing is a very different one for all abuse and trauma survivors.

We see you, we hear you, we believe you.

Vera Lee has also started the Why Me Movement which is a podcast and website. The WhyMe Movement was founded by Vera-Lee Curnow after multiple near death experiences and adversities in her life. One pivotal moment waking from a coma where she was not expected to survive, Vera-Lee explains how opening her eyes to the world with a fresh perspective, seeing colours with more vibrance, feeling the warmth of the sun like it was the first time again and knowing she never wanted to ask herself WhyMe in woeful unempowered feeling again, She decided that was the last time she was going to feel controlled by adversity into darkness.

To connect with Vera Lee / The Why Me Movement

Why Me Movement Website

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 26 - Part 1 - The Web Of Control

Tue, 31 Aug 2021 08:28:23 GMT

Survivor Vera Lee details her experience of coercive control, domestic abuse and sexual abuse at the hands of her husband.

In this episode Vera Lee goes into detail the beginning of her relationship with the man who would become her husband. This discussion highlights the entrapping nature of coercive control, the extreme lengths at which the perpetrator would go to for complete control and the massively damaging toll this abuse took on her.

We begin to discuss the nature of healing as a survivor, and touch on topics within domestic and sexual abuse that are often taboo.

Thank you for being so open, honest and raw with part 1 of your story Vera Lee, you are an absolute warrior woman.

To connect with Vera Lee / The Why Me Movement

Why Me Movement Website

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 24 - I Didn't Know How To Feel, I Didn't Know What To Do

Fri, 06 Aug 2021 03:12:16 GMT

In this episode survivor Tayla details three key sexual traumas that have occurred through the course of her life, and how she is finding strength to heal today.

We discuss how damaging the reactions of those close to us can be, especially when someone close to you doesn't believe you. We discuss in detail the mental health impacts of sexual trauma, and what it has been like for Tay to get into a place of healing and moving forward.

Tay is such an incredible human being, and i'm so grateful to call her a friend.

Warrior woman.

To reach Tayla

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 23 - Sense of Pain

Sun, 01 Aug 2021 05:59:42 GMT

Survivor Antares details his experience of his life after child sexual abuse at the hands of his father.

During this discussion Antares details some of the psychological harms and barriers heh as encountered as a response to the abuse he endured. From amnesia to severe depression, we discuss the ongoing effects that childhood trauma can do to a person, the stigmas associated with male survivors, and how Antares is working as hard as possible to be the person he needed when he was younger.

A truely inspiring conversation with an incredible human being - Thank you Antares.

Connect with Antares / Sense of Pain

Sense of Pain Website

Sense of Pain Instagram

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

National American Resources

National Sexual Violence Resource Center - https://www.nsvrc.org/

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines - 855-484-2846 - Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 22 - The Ecosystem of Abuse

Fri, 23 Jul 2021 00:23:50 GMT

Survivor Survivor Virginia discusses her experience of repeated sexual abuse and harassment over her lifetime, and the implications of growing up in an environment where she was taught that women are there to please men. We discuss the implications of family dynamics and values and how they shape our beliefs into adulthood - and the damage this can do. Virginia and I also discuss how it feels to be a survivor, in a world where you are told by those around you that you weren't assaulted - or that others have it worse off. This was an incredible discussion, with an incredible survivor. Thank you Virginia.

Connect with Virginia

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

National American Resources

National Sexual Violence Resource Center - https://www.nsvrc.org/

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines - 855-484-2846 - Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 21 - February 2016

Thu, 01 Jul 2021 22:00:16 GMT

In this episode survivor Bellamy details her story of a sexual assault by two offenders after a night out as a young adult.

Bellamy describes in her story what was supposed to be a normal night out as a young 18 year old woman. We discuss the process for reporting a sexual assault to Police, the process for providing physical evidence and some of the barriers to survivors coming forward and pressing charges against their abusers. This is an honest and raw conversation where we also discuss some of the hurdles of mental health, and seeing your abuser again after an assault has occurred. Bellamy is an incredible woman who is a testament to the statement 'there is life after abuse'.

To reach Bellamy

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For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 20 - We Must Find a Way Forward: Life After Child Abuse

Tue, 22 Jun 2021 22:00:59 GMT

Survivor Jeremy Indika details his experience of ongoing child sexual abuse from an adult known to his family. In this episode we discuss the assault and the delayed effects the abuse had on Jeremy and his mental health.

Jeremy and I discuss consent and sexual education as powerful measures to prevent child sexual abuse into the future. By arming children with the capability and skils to articulate to their loved ones what is happening to them.

We discuss many more items including how Jeremy stepped into the advocacy space, what his goals of advocacy look like and some strategies we can all implement to help keep children safe.

This was an incredible podcast to record. Thankful for Jeremy coming on and sharing his story, and for all he is doing as an advocate in this space.

Connect with Jeremy Indika

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQ

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Tiktok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeGSkDcu/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in England / UK please reach out to:

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

SurvivorsUK - https://www.survivorsuk.org/

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

For advice and support in America / Canada please reach out to:

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 19 - I Didn't Know Who to Trust

Thu, 17 Jun 2021 22:00:25 GMT

Survivor Sarah details her experience of ongoing child sexual abuse and physical domestic abuse from a person known to her family.

In this episode we discuss the ongoing abuse that Sarah experiences at the hands of an adult known to her family. This abuse lasted years, and unfortunately culminated in Sarah developing a serious eating disorder.

Over the years Sarah was met with challenge after challenge, and we discuss in detail her struggles with mental illness asa result of her childhood trauma.

Sarah is an incredibly brave survivor who has shown that even after abuse, there can be a hugely fulfilling life, Sarah is now finishing her PhD in Psychology and she continues to use her academic and lived experience to help survivors.

National Canadian / American Resources

Crisis Text Line powered by Kids Help Phone in Canada by texting CONNECT to 741741 and Crisis Text Line in the US at 741741 .

NEDIC website: https://nedic.ca/

WAVAW Rape Crisis Centre Crisis and Information Line (24/7): 1-877-392-7583 (national toll free)

Victoria Sexual Assault Centre (M-F 9am to 5pm): 1-250-383-3232

A full list of provincial resources can be found on the provincial government’s website through the Victim Services & Violence Against Women Program Directory. Services available in Canada can be found on the Government of Canada Department of Justice website through the Victim Services Directory. Both directories are hyperlinked on the VSS website at https://survivorssupportvictoria.ca/resources/.

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Sexual Violence Resource Center - https://www.nsvrc.org/

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

National Hotlines - 855-484-2846 - Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

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Episode 18 - Just Another Fu*king Feminist

Wed, 09 Jun 2021 22:00:40 GMT

In this episode survivor Zoe details her experience of sexual assault by a traveller during a Euro Trip as a young adult.

Zoe is a true inspiration and warrior woman.

To reach Zoe

Instagram / Facebook

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 17 - Surviving is a Healing Journey

Sat, 29 May 2021 06:17:10 GMT

Survivor Alex bravely details her experiences of sexual assault as a young woman.

In this episode we discuss sexual assault, and how it is dealing with the effects of sexual assault in the years after.

This discussion covers mental health conditions, including PTSD, we break down what it is to be hyper-sexual after assault and honest experiences we have shared through our mental healing journeys. It is often hard to see misinformation being shared across political and media platforms, rest assured we do have a heated discussion on this too.

National Canadian / American Resources

Resources for Greater Victoria, BC, Canada, on the unceded Coast Salish territory of Lekwungen and W̱SÁNEĆ nations:

Vancouver Island Crisis Line (24/7): 1-888-494-3888

WAVAW Rape Crisis Centre Crisis and Information Line (24/7): 1-877-392-7583 (national toll free)

Victoria Sexual Assault Centre (M-F 9am to 5pm): 1-250-383-3232

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Sexual Violence Resource Center - https://www.nsvrc.org/

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

Connect with Alex

Alex Personal Instagram

Alex Linktree

Survivor Support Victoria Instagram

Survivor Support Victoria Website

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

Surviving and Thriving Support Group

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Episode 16 - Shamelessly Shelly

Tue, 18 May 2021 22:00:58 GMT

Survivor of sexual assault Shelly describes her experiences of assault as a young adult. We discuss the freeze response as a survival response to sexual assault, and coping with the feelings of 'freezing' in the aftermath. Through our conversation we touch on consent and sociocultural norms surrounding 'gaining consent'. This was an incredibly insightful and powerful conversation with an incredible survivor.

Connect with Shelly

Shelly Ray Website

Shamelessly Shelly TikTok

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

National American Resources

National Sexual Violence Resource Center - https://www.nsvrc.org/

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines - 855-484-2846 - Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 15 - The Edge Of The Bed

Tue, 11 May 2021 22:00:12 GMT

In this episode, survivor Ryan details the ongoing child sexual abuse he endured at the hands of his step father.

To reach Ryan

Instagram @theedgeofthebed

To reach any of the Reclaim Me Episodes and relative links

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in England / UK please reach out to:

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

SurvivorsUK - https://www.survivorsuk.org/

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

This a US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Part 2 - Episode 14 - Coercive Control Knows No Boundaries

Mon, 03 May 2021 22:00:54 GMT

Episode 13 - Part 2 - Coercive Control Knows No Boundaries

In this episode survivor Cathy Oddie details her experience in an incredibly controlling and abusive relationship. While threats to Cathy's life were present - the insidious nature of coercive control was utterly debilitating.

In this episode we discuss controlling behaviours, financial abuse, physical abuse, threats to her life and much more. This episode is incredibly powerful, and hows the patterns of behaviour that make coercive control so utterly devastating.

To contact Cathy Oddie:

Instagram: @cathy_oddie

Facebook: Cathy Oddie

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cathy-oddie-465b83155/

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 13 - Coercive Control Knows No Boundaries

Tue, 27 Apr 2021 09:55:45 GMT

Episode 13 - Part 1 - Coercive Control Knows No Boundaries

To contact Cathy Oddie:

Instagram: @cathy_oddie

Facebook: Cathy Oddie

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cathy-oddie-465b83155/

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 12 - When 'Little Wave' Becomes Her Own Tsunami

Mon, 19 Apr 2021 22:00:29 GMT

Survivor Galit recounts the repeated sexual abuse she endured as a child, at the hands of her biological Father. For years Galit endured being groomed and molested by her Father. While Galit is now a thriving 23 year old woman, she is still working on the long lasting effects and scars from the abuse she endured.

To contact Galit:

Instagram : @g.a.lit

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 11 - Broken Boundaries

Tue, 13 Apr 2021 05:14:08 GMT

Survivor Taylor details her experience of sexual assault at the hands of an intimate partner.

RESOURCES:

National American Resources

National Sexual Violence Resource Center - https://www.nsvrc.org/

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN- https://www.rainn.org/

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines - 855-484-2846 - Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 10 - The Ripple Effects of Abuse

Wed, 24 Mar 2021 21:00:45 GMT

In this episode Survivor Chani Ra describes her story of an abusive step father, and the ripple effects this had on her life.

We discuss

Chani Ra

@princesschanira

@bychani.ra

Access her books 'Celebrate' and 'So Far, So Close' - https://msha.ke/bychanira/

To reach any of the Reclaim Me Episodes and relative links

https://theawarenesscentre.com/

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in England / UK please reach out to:

For Therapy Services (often discounted)

Rape crisis UK

The Glade

SurvivorsUK - https://www.survivorsuk.org/

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

This a US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 9 - Stop wasn’t an option

Sun, 21 Mar 2021 02:55:35 GMT

In this episode, survivor Charlotte details her ordeal of a violent sexual assault with a man she had met from a dating website. Through this story Charlotte details her experience reporting to the police, evidence collection, the justice system and aftermath.

We discuss further the implications on work, life and relationships and how animals have helped Charlotte with processing her trauma.

To reach Charlotte

Instagram @charlotteellisofficial

To reach any of the Reclaim Me Episodes and relative links

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in England / UK please reach out to:

Rape crisis UK

https://equinetherapy.center/

Equine Therapy

Equine Assisted Therapy

https://beat-uk.com/

The Glade

https://www.theglade.org.uk/

SurvivorsUK - https://www.survivorsuk.org/

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

RAINN- https://www.rainn.org/

This a US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

www.1800respect.org.au

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 8 - Dying to Survive

Sun, 14 Mar 2021 04:18:07 GMT

In this episode of Reclaim Me, Heather details her experience in a controlling and abusive relationship.

Throughout this relationship Heather and her abuser developed a dependency on marijuana, and finally separated after over two years together.

Following the relationship ending, her abusers controlling behaviours were spiked, and his obsession intensified. With a history of mental illness, the ending if a relationship, among many external factors - he chose to hurt Heather one last time as much as he possibly could.

To contact Heather please see @the.heather.flower on instagram, or reach out via the Survivor Support Network on Facebook.

For suicide assistance in the US please contact National suicide prevention lifeline: 800-273-8255

To reach any of the Reclaim Me Episodes and relative links

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

www.1800respect.org.au

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 7 - Best mates, to court dates

Thu, 04 Mar 2021 11:57:51 GMT

In this episode of Reclaim Me, i outline an abuse we seem to gloss over, and never really talk about. And that is abuse that occurs from a loved one that is not a family member or sexual partner. Yes, what happens when the abuser is your friend?

I had a few years of living and travelling with my 'best friend' at the time. I thought i had met someone finally who truely understood me.

Little did i know i was merely a pawn in her game of power, control, manipulation and mind games. Which left me seriously depressed and wondering if i was insane or not.

To reach any of the Reclaim Me Episodes and relative links

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

www.1800respect.org.au

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 5 - A Path 2 Courage

Tue, 02 Feb 2021 20:27:31 GMT

Sophie shares her experience of sexual assault after being drugged at a party, and a subsequent domestic abuse relationship. From seeking help, to telling the truth in therapy we discuss life after abuse, and Sophies steps to create A Path 2 Courage.

A Path to Courage

Website: https://www.apath2courage.org

Instagram: @apath2courage

To reach any of the Reclaim Me Episodes and relative links

RESOURCES:

National American Resources

National Sexual Violence Resource Center - https://www.nsvrc.org/

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

RAINN- https://www.rainn.org/

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

National Hotlines - 855-484-2846 - Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

www.1800respect.org.au

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

https://instagram.com/gaymanity?igshid=1ax569361p0z1

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Episode 4 - It's not 'no means no', it's 'yes means yes'

Thu, 21 Jan 2021 22:09:15 GMT

In this episode, Harry shares his experience of sexual assault after a pride event in London.

This discussion covers drug an alcohol use, consent, and coming to terms with assault when its not as 'clear cut' as the movies show.

We discuss the mantra that its not no means no, its yes means yes, and the importance of gaining enthusiastic consent in sexual experiences.

To see Harry's Gaymanity Instagram page

To reach any of the Reclaim Me Episodes and relative links

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in England / UK please reach out to:

SurvivorsUK - https://www.survivorsuk.org/

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

RAINN- https://www.rainn.org/

This a US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Impulse Group London - https://www.facebook.com/impulsegrouplondon/videos/2108570322613843/

Consent discussion group based in the UK

Daniel Sloss' stand-up show 'X' which ends with the discussion about rape and men's culpable responsibility.

https://www.amazon.com/Daniel-Sloss-X/dp/B07ZV7ZW4B?ref_=d6k_applink_bb_marketplace

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

www.1800respect.org.au

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

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Episode 3 - Part 2 - Advocacy is in my DNA

Fri, 08 Jan 2021 06:30:12 GMT

Cathy Oddie shares her experiences of surviving two domestic abuse relationships and sexual assault by a stranger.

This story highlights the importance of believing survivors, the major failiures that can occur in the system and the ripple effects caused by domestic abuse.

Victim to Victor.

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

www.1800respect.org.au

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia:

Cathy Oddie

Instagram: @cathy_oddie

Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cathy-oddie-465b83155/

Madeleine Heather

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Episode 3 - Part 1 - Advocacy is in my DNA

Thu, 24 Dec 2020 01:40:46 GMT

Cathy Oddie shares her experiences of surviving two domestic abuse relationships and sexual assault by a stranger.

This story highlights the importance of believing survivors, the major failiures that can occur in the system and the ripple effects caused by domestic abuse.

Victim to Victor.

RESOURCES:

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au/

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

www.1800respect.org.au

National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007

WIRE: 1300 134 130

Women’s Legal Services Australia: