Should I Delete That?

OUR BEST BITS - PART THREE: Our mums, Laura Bates, Lily Phillips and more…

Mon, 19 Jan 2026 00:05:00 GMT

We’re celebrating Should I Delete That by sharing with you some of our best bits and favourite moments from the past four years - we’ve had so many incredible guests join us on the podcast, and we hope you loved them as much as we did!

IN THIS EPISODE:

Al’s Mum (May 2024)
Liv Thorne (August 2025)
Laura Bates (May 2025)
Lily Phillips (September 2025)
Em’s Mum (September 2023)
Payzee Mahmod (November 2024)
James Bellringer (March 2025)
Body Image Series - Giles Harrison (January 2025)
Callie Thorpe (August 2024)
Our final episode (December 2025)

Our entire archive will be staying live - so if you enjoyed any of these segments, you can go back and listen to the episodes in full at any time.

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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OUR BEST BITS - PART TWO: Just Us

Thu, 15 Jan 2026 00:05:00 GMT

It’s time to lean into our chaotic side - today, we’re bringing you some of the best bits of our Just Us episodes (formerly known as Is It Just Me)

Sit back, relax and enjoy our chaos - and also remember some of the huge life moments we’ve lived through together during the podcast.

Our entire archive will be staying live - so if you enjoyed any of these segments, you can go back and listen to the episodes in full at any time.

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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OUR BEST BITS - PART ONE: Jameela Jamil, Jacqueline Hurst, our husbands and more…

Mon, 12 Jan 2026 00:05:00 GMT

IN THIS EPISODE:

Our first ever episode (December 2021)
Jacqueline Hurst (January 2022)
Sherry Lever - Britain’s Oldest Dominatrix (June 2025)
Jameela Jamil (January 2022)
Dave and Alex - Husbands Q&A (December 2023)
GambleAware (October 2022)
Body Image Series - Ozempic (February 2025)
Body Image Series - Professor Phillippa Diedrichs (January 2025)
Michelle Elman (October 2024)
Helen Thorn (May 2024)
Kayley Stead (October 2023)

Our entire archive will be staying live - so if you want to hear more from these guests, you can go back and listen to the episodes in full at any time.

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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The end of Should I Delete That

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 12:30:00 GMT

This is the last episode of Should I Delete That.

We’re so sorry - and we’re really, really sad. As we approach the four year anniversary of the podcast, we have decided mutually that after having the most incredible time making this podcast with each other - now is the right time to stop.

We know you might be disappointed to hear this news - so in this episode we tell you in complete honesty why we have decided to stop and we're also going to remember all the amazing times we have shared over the last few years.

The Should I Delete That community means to much to us and we can’t thank you enough for being with us. We love you so much!

We will be releasing a few “Best Of Should I Delete That” episodes in January - so we’ll see you then. It’s not a goodbye - it’s a see you later.

Stay in touch with us on Instagram:

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Some links to shout out the Should I Delete That team:

Producer: Faye Lawrence - DM me on Instagram if you need a producer!

Studio Manager: Elliot Mckay - a studio legend! Email him if you'd like to book a session in our studio

Video Editor: Celia Gomez - the best video editor in the world! We're lucky to know her

Social Media Manager: Sarah English - as well as being the brains behind our socials, Sarah is also the founder of Wintour - the stunning jewellery box company!

Management: ADA Media - Alex, Em and Flo are an incredible team and have always been our biggest champions.

Thank you all!

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How sex on screen really works - with the intimacy coordinator behind Normal People, Sex Education and I May Destroy You

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Let’s talk about sex…

Today, we’re speaking to Ita O’Brien - the intimacy coordinator behind the intimate scenes in Normal People, I May Destroy You, Bridgerton, It’s a Sin, Sex Education and more…

After training as an actor, dancer and movement coach - Ita created the ‘Intimacy On Set Guidelines’ - which protects actors and performers during scenes that involve nudity or sex.

Her work pre-dates the Me Too movement but was bought to public attention in the wake of the Weinstein scandal. Ita explained why her work is so vital, why having an intimacy coordinator benefits everyone on set, and how creating realistic sex has a positive impact far beyond the actors on set...

Ita’s book Intimacy guides us through how she helps actors create authentic sex scenes, and how we can use those techniques to rebuild a deeper and healthier connection with our bodies, create a safe space for exploration, and rethink how we navigate sex and intimacy in our own lives and in society as a whole. The book contains behind-the-scenes insights, practical exercises and guidance to help us communicate boundaries and navigate everyday relationships. You can get your copy here!

Find out more about Ita's work at https://www.intimacyonset.com/

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Overthinking, Christmas enthusiasm and finding the joy in small things

Thu, 11 Dec 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Guys!!! The goose is getting fat - according to Al...

Today we discuss fully getting into the Christmas spirit - and the morality and mythology of elf on the shelf!

Em tells us about her passion for Super Bass, Faye reveals the secret hiding in her notes app and we present the defence for overthinking…

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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“We take the bins out naked” - with naturist Helen Berriman

Mon, 08 Dec 2025 00:05:00 GMT

How comfortable are you with nudity? Today, we’re speaking to Helen Berriman - who has been a naturist for the last four years - after reluctantly being introduced to it by her husband.

Helen explained the difference between naturism and nudism, she ran through all the practicalities with us and debunked the misconception that naturism is about sex.

We spoke about how being naked can have a huge positive impact on our body image - and the transformational effect being a naturist has had helping Helen to heal from past trauma. We also confront our personal concerns around safety - and consider our own boundaries when it comes to nudity.

Listen to Helen’s podcast - British Naturism: Women In Focus

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Alex goes fist deep, overexposing ourselves and The Great Bedsheet Debate

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Welcome back to another Just Us - in this week’s episode the SIDT Team has been bitterly divided by the ‘how often should you clean your bedsheets?’ debate… we also reveal that Alex is in fact *fussy* - and Em’s once again feeling overexposed…

Do you have any whacky suggestions about how Al can learn to enjoy doing her duvet cover? Or would you be interested in watching a livestream of her attempting to strip the bed? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Jameela Jamil on "The Ozempic Olympics", being unapologetically outspoken and unafraid to be disliked

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 00:05:00 GMT

You asked - so we answered… Jameela Jamil is back on the podcast.

Jameela is an actor and activist - she’s unapologetic and she’s not afraid of being disliked.

There are very few people in Hollywood who speak out so openly, loudly and passionately about social justice, so we spoke to Jameela about why she feels equipped and compelled to speak out, and why others may not do the same… even when they know they should.

We also spoke to Jameela about the death of the body positivity movement, the Ozempic Era and her view on celebrities glamourising the return of ultra-thinness as the mainstream beauty ideal.

Be prepared to get angry, impassioned and ready to fight back...

If you want to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Em in parliament, the stiff hug and 7 million downloads!

Thu, 27 Nov 2025 00:05:00 GMT

In a week marred by awkward greetings - we find out what happened when Em went to parliament and Alex reveals Tommy’s new passion. Meanwhile - Em’s deeply engrossed in her knitting project and Al has a dark TikTok to share with us.

It's also time to celebrate a HUGE milestone - as we’ve reached 7 million downloads! We love all of you for being here and we apologise for how many existential spins we might have sent you on…

Do you have an awkward for us? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Emma Barnett will not be underestimated

Mon, 24 Nov 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Emma Barnett is a broadcaster, journalist and author who we admire hugely. She is one of the BBC’s most high-profile journalists who is currently part of the presenting team on BBC Radio 4’s Today programme - as well as previously hosting Women’s Hour and Newsnight.

Alongside her incredible broadcasting career, Emma has also become a powerful advocate for women’s health - having chosen to speak up about her very difficult IVF journey as well as struggling with both endometriosis and adenomyosis. Emma told us about why she chose to bring her private reality into light to advocate for women’s health and to disrupt the assumptions that we may hold about ‘serious’ news presenters.

We also spoke to Emma about interviewing Kate Bush, what happened when she called out Rory Stewart for lying on air and why she is concerned about women feeling the need to be liked all the time.

Experiences that have reshaped lives. Bold questions, unexpected truths, lots of tea... Emma Barnett invites you into her world for deeply human conversations. You can listen to episodes on BBC Sounds HERE. New episodes of Ready to Talk with Emma Barnett are available every Friday on BBC Sounds.

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Dave got arrested, a spiritual awakening and the £300 journal

Thu, 20 Nov 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Em’s back from Costa Rica! She’s come home with an entirely new perspective and a passion for journaling (she may or may not have found herself)

Meanwhile - Dave’s had a brush with the law in M&S and Al has been deeply, deeply humbled in the garden centre!

Are you capable of journaling without imagining that it will one day be published? Tell us how on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Is this a friendship break up? with Michelle Elman

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Today, we’re continuing our exploration of friendship with the brilliant Michelle Elman.

We spoke to Michelle about how friendship is not taken seriously - and female friendships in particular are trivialised. Michelle gave us practical advice on how to operate in a world where the odds feel stacked against our friendships - where they seemingly have to battle with social media, our adult responsibilities and our romantic relationships.

Our conversation covers everything from confrontation to ghosting - so if you feel like you need help being a better friend, or if you want to navigate a friendship break up - this is the episode for you.

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Michelle’s new book Bad Friend: Why Friendship Breakups Hurt and How to Heal is available now

If you want to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Squeeze the period, backhanded compliments and an existential spiral

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 00:05:00 GMT

We’re back with another Just Us and today we’re unpacking the pure, unadulterated embarrassment of the clear bag - and Al has a new obsession fresh out of 2017!

Meanwhile - we’ve discovered that Boy Alex may have some things to learn about the mechanics of periods and Em has been on a spiral (stay tuned for the live re-enactment)

Can you help Em out of her existential spiral? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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We went to therapy for our friendship

Mon, 10 Nov 2025 00:05:00 GMT

We’re often given advice about how we should nurture our romantic relationships - but sometimes we can leave our friendships by the wayside…

We spoke to Natasha Silverman - a relationship therapist - about how to maintain and nurture our friendships as we navigate our way through adulthood. And to do that - we put OUR relationship under the microscope.

Natasha gave us practical advice about how to maintain friendships when you have children, how to deal with feelings of loss when your friends meet different milestones to you, how to communicate about when you feel left out and how small acts can help your friends feel more loved.

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Read more about Natasha’s work - https://natashasilverman.com/

If you want to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Embarrassing allergies, penis pavlova and an IVF update

Thu, 06 Nov 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Al has about 50 bads today - where do you want to start?!

Today, we’re discussing what it feels like to be embarrassed ALL THE TIME and Em’s got a very specific question about male genitalia…

Al also gives us an update on her IVF journey, and why it's presenting new challenges this time round.

If you want to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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“You’re not even allowed to think for yourself” - surviving a ‘cult’… with Rachael Reign

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Rachael Reign was 13 years old when she joined what she thought was a youth group… the next eight years of her life were dedicated to an organisation that she describes as a 'cult'.

We spoke to Rachael about her experience in the UCKG - a church with over 30 locations in the UK that has been accused by Rachael and other ex-members of dangerous, cult-like behaviour. The UCKG states that they are not a cult - and it is a registered charity in the UK.

Rachael told us about her years within the church - the effect it has had on her life, the fear she felt around leaving and why she has created the UK’s only black-led specialist support group for fellow survivors.

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: The brilliance of Lily Allen, Nelly Furtado’s retirement and Al’s melancholy playlist

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 00:05:00 GMT

We’ve had a busy week being completely and utterly obsessed with Lily Allen’s new album - West End Girl - and we mean TRULY OBSESSED.

We unpack Lily’s radical honesty on the album which narrates the breakdown of her marriage. We dive into her cultural trailblazer status - and just how brave she is to put her relationship under the microscope...

Our pop-culture chat continues - as we discuss Nelly Furtado’s retirement from music and the way people have tied her decision to leave music to recent body-shaming headlines. Is it taking the narrative away from her? And why is the music industry so toxic for “older” women?

Do you have thoughts on Lily or Nelly? We want to hear from you - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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It's not just about dads - paternity leave is political

Mon, 27 Oct 2025 00:05:00 GMT

The UK has the worst paternity leave offering in Europe and the wider implication of this affects everyone, whether you have kids or not.

Today we spoke to Alex Lloyd-Hunter from The Dad Shift and Rebecca Horne from Pregnant Then Screwed about their joint campaign ‘UK Paternity Leave is a Mother F**KER’

We spoke about how the UK’s paternity leave offering is disastrous for mums, dads and kids - but also the devastating wider cultural impact it has on the gender pay gap, discrimination and the workforce.

We have a window of political opportunity now as the government is undertaking a review of parental leave. Get engaged with The Dad Shift and Pregnant Then Screwed to see how you can help make a change.

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SIGN THE OPEN LETTER - The Dad Shift are calling on the new Secretary of State for Business Peter Kyle MP to prioritise making a paternity leave policy that's fit for the 21st century

The government have also opened a new consultation called 'Make Work Pay' looking at building enhanced dismissal protections for pregnant women and new mothers. Pregnant Then Screwed will be sharing information on how to engage on their pages in the coming weeks.

If you want to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Our intense friendship, momentary spirals and why we’ll get arrested…

Wed, 22 Oct 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Another day, another day not being mysterious…

On today’s Just Us - Em’s found a silly online quiz for us to play. We discuss how academic success is not a indicator of intelligence, and we find out that Al has an affinity with a certain ubiquitous bird…

Btw - if you’re like Al and are counting down til Christmas - you’ll be thrilled to know we recorded this LAST week and it’s actually only nine Fridays til Christmas. If you’re like Em… sorry for the existential crisis.

Do you want to get in touch? You can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Are you really ‘fine’? Estelle Bingham on healing your inner child

Sun, 19 Oct 2025 23:05:00 GMT

How are you… really? Do you say ‘I’m fine’ - when you’re not?

This week we’re joined by holistic therapist and fourth-generation psychic, Estelle Bingham, who believes that ‘fine’ might just be a cover story. From the very beginning, we went deep… talking about trusting the universe, finding more joy in the everyday, and what it means to reconnect with your inner child.

This conversation surprised us. It got emotional, it went to places we didn’t expect, and there was even a bit of a role reversal between Em and Al… Estelle opened up something in us, and we have a feeling she might do the same for you.

Find out more about Estelle’s work at https://estellebingham.com/

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Estelle’s podcast Love Purpose Connection is available on all podcast platforms and on YouTube

Buy your copy of Estelle’s book - Manifest Your True Essence

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Taylor Swift, Victoria Beckham and the suffering of being a woman

Wed, 15 Oct 2025 23:05:00 GMT

In the time since we last recorded a Just Us - Taylor Swift has released a new album. So today, our resident semi-swiftie (Em) guides our non-swiftie (Al) through The Life of a Showgirl and we discuss the noise and critique surrounding the album.

Victoria Beckham has also released a Netflix documentary - we discuss the term ‘too posh to push’ which was popularised in 1999 when she gave birth to her son Brooklyn by c-section. Why do women equate parenthood with suffering - and do men feel the same?

We’d love you to join the conversation - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Comedy, autism, and the power of being different... with George Lewis

Sun, 12 Oct 2025 23:05:00 GMT

You might know George Lewis for his hilarious parenting sketches - the chaos, the tantrums, and our collective Bluey obsession... but lately he has been opening up about something much more personal.

George has three children - his eldest has an autism diagnosis, and his younger two are currently being assessed. We spoke about how his view of autism has completely changed, the exhausting fight parents face for diagnosis, and the damage caused by Donald Trump’s baseless claims about paracetamol and autism.

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There are very few tickets remaining for George’s stand-up tour ‘The Best Thing You’ll Ever Do’. Visit georgelewiscomedian.com to buy tickets! You’ll need to be quick!

If you want to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Unsolicited parenting opinions, frightening US politics and cautionary hooliganism

Wed, 08 Oct 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Today we find out that Em’s cycling era might be over… we know you’re all as hooked on this new passion as Alex! We get a small insight into Alex’s clubbing days and we also discuss the internet’s entitlement to give unsolicited parenting advice.

We also discuss Donald Trump’s comments about autism and pregnancy, why Em is feeling slightly more hopeful about our political landscape here in the UK, and why some echo chambers are worth cultivating.

Have you got opinions about the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders or The Summer I Turned Pretty? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

This episode was recorded on 30th September

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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“I brace myself for sexism, misogyny and racism” - Eni Aluko on being a female football pundit

Sun, 05 Oct 2025 23:05:00 GMT

We have a Lioness in the studio!

Today - we’re joined by Eni Aluko. Eni is a broadcaster, football executive and former professional football player who has represented England on the world stage and at the Olympics. She’s also a qualified lawyer - there’s nothing this woman can’t do.

Since retiring from professional football - she has become one of the country’s most recognisable football pundits. As a former international player, with a lifelong passion for football - Eni is more qualified than anyone for this role - however, the culture of racism and sexism around football has made it an toxic environment for her.

We spoke to Eni about the reality of misogyny, racism in football, how she has dealt with the online abuse she is subjected to and how we can move forward to make football a better (or at least more tolerable environment for women)

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Accidental nudity, Emma Watson and the cult of matcha

Wed, 01 Oct 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Hello, hello, hello!

This week we’ve got two surprisingly similar awkwards… apologies to anyone who has been in the vicinity of either Em or Alex’s windows over the last week.

We also discuss JK Rowling’s comments following Emma Watson’s appearance on Jay Shetty’s podcast. Do the Harry Potter actors have a responsibility to publicly speak out against her comments - and what is the effect of JK Rowling vehemently doubling down on her anti-trans views?

And we take a moment to discuss a very serious question - is everyone pretending to like matcha?

YOUTUBE: ContraPoints

PODCAST: The Witch Trials of JK Rowling

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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One false allegation destroyed my career... with Jess Thorpe

Sun, 28 Sep 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Jess was an NHS nurse working on a mental health ward when a false accusation was made against her, which led into a spiral of bureaucracy that ended her nursing career and changed her life forever…

Although Jess very rarely does interviews - her story was highly publicised in the UK press, so we wanted to give her the opportunity to tell her story in full and in her own words.

We spoke to Jess about the fragility of women’s reputations, the pressures on nurses and healthcare professionals and how we can both love the NHS but also hold it accountable on the occasions that it does let us down.

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If you want to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: WhatsApp overwhelm, kids on planes and bringing more joy into our lives…

Wed, 24 Sep 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Yassou! Al’s back from Cyprus and she’s had a digital detox… but meanwhile Em has 1622 unread WhatsApp messages on her phone. We try to find a way to streamline our personal and work lives - surely we’re not the only people who are completely overwhelmed by our phones?

We also discuss our experience of taking kids onto flights - and how people react differently to mothers and fathers when they’re holding a screaming child.

And - we bring you our much-promised chat about exercise, motherhood and finding space to prioritise yourself.

If you want to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Elliott Mckay

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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How to get over a breakup… with Toni Tone

Sun, 21 Sep 2025 21:05:00 GMT

It’s time for a conversation with the internet’s big sister… the writer, speaker and content creator Toni Tone.

We spoke to Toni about the complexities of modern relationships and heartbreak. Are all relationships transactional? Why do we seem to be shifting towards traditional values in relationships? And why does Toni think it’s so important to be selfish in our relationships?

Toni’s new book No Fucks Given is out this week - it’s a no accountability guide to navigating a break up. You can get your copy here!

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You can listen to Toni’s podcast Toni Told Me on all podcast platforms!

If you'd like to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Music: Alex Andrew

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Just Us: Inappropriate estate agents, cycling and the ultimate mug competition

Wed, 17 Sep 2025 23:05:00 GMT

This week - we have a much-needed dose of nonsense for you. We’re actually a little bit giddy.

Em shares the story of a bizarre encounter with an estate agent and Al has found a new so-called ‘life hack’ to help you keep your house tidy.

We also bring you the long awaited Should I Delete That Mug Off. We’ve each bought in our favourite mug, spoon and fork - so we can find out once and for all who has the most elite crockery choices. Does it work in audio only? Questionable. Head to our Instagram to see our choices for yourself.

Do you have strong opinions on crockery? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew

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“When I lost my hair, I lost my identity” - England Rugby player Heather Fisher on overcoming alopecia and a life changing injury

Sun, 14 Sep 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Today’s episode is all about finding your purpose and redefining your identity.

Heather Fisher - aka Fish - is a retired England rugby player. She was part of two Women’s Rugby World Cup teams, she represented Team GB at the 2016 Rio Olympics and if that’s not enough she also represented Team GB in bobsleigh!

This woman has had an incredible sporting career - but she has also faced and overcome numerous challenges which made her question her identity and purpose. After overcoming an eating disorder at a young age, Fish broke her back and subsequently lost her hair due to alopecia.

We spoke about what drives her to overcome life’s challenges, how she has found her feet after retiring and how she finds the balance of being a strong role model, but also accepting her vulnerability.

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Read more about Fish's work at https://www.heatherfisher.co.uk/

If you'd like to get in touch, email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Just Us: The rise of Reform and GLP-1s - our honest thoughts

Wed, 10 Sep 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Over the past couple of weeks - we’ve found ourselves in some very noisy places online. So, we’re using today to share some of out thoughts and reflecting on what they mean for society as a whole...

First up - we’re talking about Reform and why Em has decided to start speaking about politics online. Then - we'll be discussing the impact of Serena Williams choosing to advertise GLP-1s for weight loss.

It feels like a heavy time for humanity at the moment - if you have something you’d like to add to our conversation or if you can share some hope… email us on shouldideletethat@gmail.com

This episode was recorded on Tuesday 2nd September

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Dopamine, phone addictions and how our brains work - with neuroscientist TJ Power

Sun, 07 Sep 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Do you find it impossible to stop scrolling? Do you struggle to get motivation? Do you need to listen to a podcast to fall asleep? Today’s guest is here to help you re-balance your brain chemistry...

TJ Power is a neuroscientist and founder of The DOSE Lab - who has made it his mission to explain how our brains work and help us tobreak our addiction to dopamine.

TJ explained how our brains work and gave us real practical advice on how we can re-balance our brain chemistry to live a happier, less anxious life. And boy… did we have a lot of questions to ask him - we basically used this as a personal therapy session.

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Get your copy of The DOSE Effect: Everyday habits to balance your brain for a healthier, happier life here!

Spotify Premium users can listen to The Dose Effect for free!

If you'd like to get in touch, email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Just Us: Are we sorry for platforming Lily Phillips?

Wed, 03 Sep 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Today, we’re reflecting on this week's episode in which we interviewed OnlyFans creator Lily Phillips, who is best known for sleeping with 101 men in a day.

The episode had a huge response - so we’ve decided to take some time today to address some of the comments we received when it was released on Monday.

If you haven't heard the episode yet - you can find it here

Were we right to give Lily a platform? Did we question her hard enough? Are women who interview Lily held to a higher standard than men who interview her? We have a lot of thoughts - and we don’t know all the right answers. But we hope this chat helps illuminate you on our thought process behind the interview - and why we believe it’s important to have these conversations in a kind, safe space.

We love you guys for listening - if you have something else you’d like to add - we’d love to hear from you. You can email us on shouldideletethat@gmail.com

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OnlyFans star Lily Phillips: 'There’s only so many men you can f*** in a day'

Sun, 31 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

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This is a conversation that we’ve wanted to have for a LONG time - we’re speaking to OnlyFans star Lily Phillips.

Lily is an adult performer and OnlyFans star - her name reached the mainstream in late 2024, when released a video on her OnlyFans account where she had sex with 101 men in one day.

She has gone on to be one of the most well-known OnlyFans creators in the UK. We spoke to her about why she began on the platform - and how she took the leap from producing solo content to large scale public-events.

We also asked Lily about her thoughts on feminism, empowerment and if she feels a responsibility towards young people - both those who consume pornography and young people who are considering OnlyFans as a viable career option.

Lily features in Stacey Dooley Sleeps Over series 6 which is available to stream for free on U.

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Watch Lily’s YouTube Channel here

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Just Us: The stag do dildo, deadly animals and why we should be honest about motherhood…

Wed, 27 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

OUR LIVE SHOW IN EDINBURGH IS NEXT WEEK. JOIN US ON 3RD SEPTEMBER! Head to SIDTLive.com for more information and to purchase tickets.

In today’s episode - we weigh up the fact that the way that we speak about giving birth and motherhood *may* influence your guys’ decisions to have babies… and why it’s so important to be honest about the aspects of motherhood that we love, and the moments that are harder.

We also reminisce about an incident on Boy Alex’s stag do, Al’s had her life ruined by some new pans and we find out which animals we should be most afraid of…

If you'd like to get in touch (or if you think Em's sport's day idea is the best thing ever) email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Music: Alex Andrew

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What 90s TV did to my body image… Katy Hill on her experience as a Blue Peter presenter

Sun, 24 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

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Today, we’re speaking to a TV icon - Katy Hill. At just 24, she landed her dream job as the 22nd presenter of Blue Peter.

Katy had dreamed of being a Blue Peter presenter since she was 5 years old. However - once she got there, she was exposed to the brutal, toxic media landscape of the 90s - and she found herself - and her body under immense scrutiny.

We spoke to Katy about her first hand experience of the 90s tabloids, what happened when she did a a shoot for a lads mag and how her Blue Peter years shaped the rest of her life.

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Katy is now an Internationally Certified Success and Confidence coach. You can read more about her work at https://www.katyhill.com/

If you'd like to get in touch, email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Just Us: “How I lost 10 pounds” - is toxic diet culture back for good?

Wed, 20 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

It feels like the online conversation about weight loss has shifted - in a huge way. In this episode we discuss why and how big creators are suddenly talking openly about weight loss - and the effect that it’s having on us.

On 3rd September in Edinburgh - we’ll be continuing this discussion live on stage. If you’d like to join us - you can get tickets at SIDTLive.com

We also have lots of goods and bads and awkwards for you… (mainly bads and awkwards actually) - if you have an awkward that you’d like to share, or if you would like to join in with our conversation around weight loss noise, you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Music: Alex Andrew

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Boomers vs Millennials vs Gen Z? Ann Russell proves we’re not so different

Sun, 17 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

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How do you get a stain out of your favourite top? Why should you add a bayleaf to your pasta sauce? And why should you learn to darn a sock? One woman knows all the answers - and she’s made it her mission to share her knowledge with the world.

Ann Russell is a self-described ‘middle class English old bag’… she’s a self-employed cleaner who has 2.8 million followers on TikTok, where she regularly shares cleaning and general life advice.

She spoke to us about her incredible, accidental journey to TikTok fame, how she feels about the generational divide, and why she’s not afraid to speak her mind on the internet.

Ann’s new book How To Be An Adult: everything you need to know about being a grown up, from bills to break-ups is out on 28th August. You can buy your copy here!

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Just Us: Free will, mole mapping and the drawer full of teeth

Wed, 13 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

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Put your seatbelts on because we’re about to take you on a ride - this is one of our most unhinged episodes ever.

We’ve had a very awkward week with incidents in the DMs, thong mishaps and medical mysteries…

We also discuss the concept of free will, how Em gave up smoking and the drawer in Al’s Dad’s study that will be giving all of us nightmares.

If you have an awkward you’d like to share with us - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com !!

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Ozempic, egg freezing and the fertility timeline: your questions answered

Sun, 10 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

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Today - we’re discussing a topic that’s deeply personal, sometimes overwhelming and often very difficult to talk about: fertility.

We are joined by an incredible guest - Mr Ali Al Chami - a leading fertility doctor and the medical director of the Avenues fertility clinic in London. We asked you on Instagram for your questions for Ali - when is the right time to freeze your eggs? Could taking Ozempic or a GLP-1 help you to get pregnant? How can our lifestyles affect our fertility? We asked Ali all of those questions - and many more - to attempt to demystify fertility.

Whether you're actively going through treatment, thinking about your future, or just want to better understand the emotional and medical realities of fertility... we hope this episode is a useful tool.

You can find out more about Ali's work at Avenues here: https://avenues.life/

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Just Us: The Skims face wrap, impossible beauty standards and perimenopause

Wed, 06 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

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Before we start: some important context about today’s episode - Em recorded while wearing Kris Jenner style sunglasses because she has a migraine. So please keep that image in your mind while you’re listening!

Today - we’re discussing Em’s shampoo disaster and a revelation that might explain why Al struggles so much in the heat.

We also discuss Skims’ latest release - a face wrap that supposedly ‘shapes and sculpts’ your jaw as you wear it overnight. We discuss why our current cultural climate is making beauty standards spiral, why we feel guilty when we do participate in beauty trends and why we can sometimes feel hypocritical when we discuss this topic.

If you’d like to join in the conversation - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com - we love you guys!

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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I bought sperm on the internet - now I’m finally a mum … with Liv Thorne

Sun, 03 Aug 2025 23:05:00 GMT

When Liv reached her mid-thirties as a single woman, she made a decision that would change her life: to have a child on her own. In this episode, she talks to us about navigating fertility clinics, buying sperm from Denmark, and the emotional rollercoaster of choosing solo parenthood.

Liv shares the grief she carried through her twenties and thirties watching people around her start families, the moment she decided to go it alone, and the incredible journey that brought her son Herb into the world..

We chat about the impossible task of choosing a donor, the challenges of doing it all solo, and what’s surprised her about Herb as he’s grown up.

Plus - Herb joined us in the studio, and honestly, it melted our hearts!

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You can buy your copy of Liv’s Alone: Amateur adventures in solo motherhood here!

We’re heading to Edinburgh for our biggest live show ever. We’ll be taking over the iconic Usher Hall for one night only on 3rd September. Head to SIDTLive.com for more information and to purchase tickets.

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Just Us: Wedding regrets, vanity and social media validation

Wed, 30 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Hello! On this week’s Just Us - we’re continuing a discussion we’ve been having over the last couple of weeks - wedding weight loss.

We hear from two of our listeners who wanted to give their perspective on the conversation - we discuss wedding regrets, why it’s okay to not feel positive all the time and our relationship with ‘vanity’.

If you’d like to join in the conversation - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com - we love you guys!

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Rugby made me love my body… with Wales International Rugby Union player Gwen Crabb

Sun, 27 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

It’s a massive year for women’s rugby - so today we’ve teamed up with the Rugby World Cup 2025 - to speak to Wales International Rugby Union player Gwen Crabb!

With the Rugby World Cup 2025 fast approaching, Gwen spoke to us about the barriers young women face in sport, how she overcame them to rise to the top of her sport, and why this moment matters so much for women’s sport.

We talked body confidence, media narratives, and how rugby has helped Gwen feel powerful - not just physically, but also mentally. She also shared her hopes for the next generation of girls, and how rugby is evolving to be a place where everyone feels like they belong.

The Rugby World Cup 2025 is a huge moment in time for us to show that rugby is sport where everyone belongs, as a fan or as a player. Gwen wants to inspire a new generation of women and girls to feel strong and confident in whatever they do and know they can be anything, do anything and belong anywhere.

Every body belongs in sport. Join the conversation to inspire a new generation to feel strong and confident in whatever they do. #StrongBodiesStrongMinds #WhereWeBelong

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Just Us: The euphoria of women’s football and Al’s slip ’n slide nightmare

Wed, 23 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

We are back in the studio after an unintentional recording hiatus and we are ENERGISED today… mainly because we’re buoyed by the joy of watching the Lionesses reach the finals of the Euros. We discuss how much we’re loving seeing women’s sport soar at the moment - and how exciting this tournament has been!

Al’s bad is also Em’s good this week - would you dare to go down the slip 'n slide? And do you reckon you’d have better technique than Al?

Do you fancy getting in touch? You can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com - slip 'n slide stories encouraged!

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Sex, orgasms and libido: your questions answered by a sexologist

Sun, 20 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

This week on Should I Delete That, we’re talking about sex.

Our guest is Catriona Boffard: clinical psychosexologist, psychotherapist and globally recognised expert on sex and relationships.

She’s here to help us understand the real reasons why so many of us often struggle with intimacy - and she explains that it’s often not *just* about sex.

With your questions in hand, in this episode we cover everything from orgasms and libido to shame, pleasure and desire. And one of the biggest things we took away from this conversation was that it’s normal to have questions about sex - and that it’s healthy to talk about problems that we may be having.

You can find out more about Catriona’s work at https://catrionaboffard.com/

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You can listen to Catriona’s podcast Asking For A Friend here

JOIN US FOR OUR BIGGEST LIVE SHOW EVER! We’re heading to Edinburgh for our biggest live show ever. We’ll be taking over the iconic Usher Hall for one night only on 3rd September. Head to SIDTLive.com for more information and to purchase tickets.

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Just Us: Wedding weight loss pressure and the parent-childfree ’divide’

Wed, 16 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Today, we’re diving into the inbox… look at us adding some structure to the occasion!

There’s an email about wedding weight loss pressure and how to handle it when people positively reinforce drastic weight loss. We also go into detail about how difficult it is to maintain friendships when some of your friends have kids, and some of you don’t. They're big topics which we think a lot of you to will be able to relate to - so we hope this episode is helpful in some way if you're dealing with similar issues.

Do you have any advice that you’d like to share? Or is there a question that you’d like to ask us? You can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

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Daisy from Below Deck: “I don’t chase airtime - but some cast members do”

Sun, 13 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

We have a reality TV legend on board today - Daisy Kelliher, the Chief Stewardess from Below Deck Sailing Yacht.

We all fell in love with Daisy on the show - she’s funny, incredibly capable and she always tells it like it is, whether she’s juggling demanding charter guests or dealing with complicated boatmances.

We had SO many questions for Daisy - how do you get cast on Below Deck? How does she manage working so hard and playing so hard? How much of what we see is real? and do cast members fight for screen time?

Daisy gave us such an amazing insight into two fascinating worlds - reality TV and yachting - and if you’re not hooked on Below Deck already, you will be after listening to this.

You can catch Daisy on Below Deck Sailing Yacht on HayU!

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Just Us: Rage bait bots, heatwave influencing and the ham sandwich incident

Wed, 09 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

It’s one of those episodes where we *literally* just chat shit the entire time… who’s ready?!

In today's Just Us we cover everything from early 00s reality TV, making our Sims WooHoo, the joys of snacking on cheese, Al’s heatwave superstar influencer status and the frequent misuse of vocabulary.

Would you like to get in touch? You can DM us on Instagram or email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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“I’m constantly compared to Rio’s first wife”… Kate Ferdinand on building a blended family

Sun, 06 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

It’s estimated that up to 1 in 3 families in the UK are blended - and in today’s episode, Kate Ferdinand came to speak to us about what that looks like for her and her family.

Kate is a much loved TV personality who shot to fame as part of ITV’s The Only Way Is Essex. In 2019, she married professional footballer Rio Ferdinand - and took on the role of stepmum to his three young children.

Kate and Rio have since had two more children - and she has become the leading voice for blended families in the UK. On her podcast, Blended, she speaks about the challenges and joys of blended families - and navigating grief and motherhood in the public eye.

In this chat, Kate tells us about what it felt like to become a mum to three kids overnight, the criticism that people place on her and Rio and how she navigates difficult conversations about grief.

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Blended is a celebration of blended families - exploring the stories of relationships bound by love, no matter what their circumstances are. The series covers subjects such as second marriages, divorce, grief and life after loss, adoption, fostering and really changes perception on the old age trope of stepmothers being wicked! You can listen to Blended on all podcast platforms!

You can watch Blended on YouTube here!

Kate’s book How To Build A Family: The essential guide for blended families and becoming a step-parent is available now. You can buy your copy here!

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Just Us: “Shocking” news, Tattle Life and AI brainrot

Wed, 02 Jul 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Greetings hot people!

On this week’s Just Us - Em has an update for us on her ADHD diagnosis journey. She also has an announcement… and an un-announcement for us!

Meanwhile - Al’s become the symbolic leader for the world’s hot people. Has she finally managed to convince Em that it’s a valid complaint?

We also dive into a topic that we’ve never spoken about in detail before… the gossip forum Tattle Life. After its owner was sued for defamation - he has now lost his right to anonymity - and the conversation about Tattle has hit the mainstream. We discuss the effect that it’s had on us, our friends - and how users of the site are feeling now…

Do you want to get in touch… or are you willing to invigilate our IQ tests? DM us on Instagram or email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Britain’s Oldest Dominatrix: “It’s far more than whips and chains…”

Sun, 29 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Today, we're stepping into the world of BDSM...

We’re joined by the brilliant Sherry Lever, who is known professionally as Mistress Sofia. She is a 74-year-old grandmother who just so happens to be Britain’s oldest professional dominatrix.

From the outside, the world of BDSM might seem intimidating… and we certainly had a lot to learn. But Sherry breaks down the myths for us, highlighting the importance of communication, consent and boundaries within her work, to reveal the more emotional side of being a dominatrix.

She even introduced us to a very different kind of CBT (and it’s not the type your therapist offers...)

As self-confessed members of the vanilla population, we came away from this conversation with our eyes opened and our assumptions challenged - we hope you find it as fascinating as we did!

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You can read more about Sherry’s work at www.mistress-sofia.co.uk

Sherry’s book From “The Mrs” to Dominatrix - is available now digitally and as an audiobook

If you'd like to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Just Us: Sabrina Carpenter’s controversial album cover, IQ tests and an overshare…

Wed, 25 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Today, we take some time to show some major appreciation to Kesha, we discuss if we may *potentially* have low IQs and Em tells us about an important decision that she’s made this week!

And we also discuss Sabrina Carpenter’s new album cover. Can we work out what her intentions behind the image were? Or do the intentions not matter when we consider it’s potential impact…

Do you have a higher IQ than us and want to tell us your thoughts about Sabrina’s album cover? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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“Why I’m no longer BodyPosiPanda” with Megan Jayne Crabbe

Sun, 22 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

It’s time to start taking up space…

This week, we’re joined by an icon of the internet and one of our favourite content creators - Megan Jayne Crabbe.

Megan shot to fame under the handle BodyPosiPanda, becoming a leading force in the body positivity space online. Nearly a decade later, she has stepped away from that username and in this episode, she tells us why.

We speak honestly about the pressures of online visibility, the toll it took on her self-esteem, and what it really means to show up as herself online.

We also chat about the body positivity movement’s rise and fall, the Ozempic era, and why Megan believes we need radical authenticity.

Megan’s new book We Don’t Make Ourselves Smaller Here is an insightful and empowering guide for dealing with adversity and embracing authenticity in all areas of our lives - encouraging us to exist as our biggest, most unapologetic and most whole selves. It’s out on Thursday 26th June - you can get your copy here!

Follow @meganjaynecrabbe on Instagram

If you'd like to get in touch, you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

JOIN US FOR OUR BIGGEST EVER LIVE SHOW - we'll be taking over Edinburgh's iconic Usher Hall for one night only on 3rd September 2025 for an evening of unfiltered chat, big laughs, and meaningful connection, live on stage. You can buy tickets at SIDTlive.com!

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Just Us: The rise of SkinnyTok and a very embarrassing story

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Today we’re discussing the various dents in our skulls, the dramatic ways we came earthside and a Danny O’Donoghue jumpscare (trust me… it will make sense eventually)

We also dive into the overwhelming rise of SkinnyTok on Instagram and TikTok - a trend which sees influencers and creators sharing weightless tips and tricks - reminiscent of the pro-anorexia content we saw online during our teenage years. We discuss the hashtag being banned, what it means for the way we look at our bodies and how we feel targeted by the algorithms.

Is SkinnyTok getting to you? If you want to tell us about it - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Fame, power and the women seeking justice: inside the trials of Diddy, Brand, Depp vs Heard and Lively vs Baldoni…. with The Crime Analyst

Sun, 15 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

If you’ve felt overwhelmed, confused or angry about the high-profile court cases going on at the moment… this is the episode for you.

Today, we’re joined by criminal behavioural analyst and creator of The Crime Analyst podcast - Laura Richards. She came in to help us unpack and understand the media and public conversation around the high profile cases of Sean Diddy Combs, Blake Likely vs Justin Baldoni, Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard and Russell Brand.

Laura trained at New Scotland Yard and the FBI Behavioural Analysis Units and is an international expert on domestic violence, stalking, sexual violence, homicide and risk assessment.

Laura breaks down what’s happening inside these high profile courtrooms and with her expertise in coercive control, power dynamics and the criminal justice system, she helps us understand how these cases reflect misogyny, victim-blaming and institutional failure. We also explore how these stories are framed, how narratives are manipulated, and how society often protects the powerful at the expense of the vulnerable.

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If you are curious about the ‘who dunnit’ and the ‘why dunnit’ and how and why victims become footnotes in their own murders, Laura’s podcast Crime Analyst is for you. You can listen here or on your favourite podcast platform.

Find out more about Crime Analyst Squad here!

For more resources visit: thelaurarichards.com and https://www.dashriskchecklist.com/

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Just Us: Em lost her job, Bonnie Blue’s petting zoo and plastic surgery normalisation

Wed, 11 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Em’s back from her holiday… and a LOT happened while she was away. Be prepared to be witness to a very stressful succession of events…

We also discuss the proliferation of celebrity hair extensions, Kylie Jenner’s apparent transparency about her cosmetic procedures and the complicated question of Bonnie Blue’s petting zoo.

We want to know where you guys land on Bonnie Blue - send us a DM or an email on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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"I was 15 when my naked picture was leaked"... with Jess Davies

Sun, 08 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

In recent episodes, we’ve been discussing the disturbing rise in male violence against women and girls, and how technology is accelerating and amplifying these threats. From AI-generated deepfakes to the non-consensual sharing of intimate images, the digital world has created new frontiers for abuse and it’s more important than ever to talk about it.

Today, we're continuing that conversation with presenter, women’s rights campaigner, and former model Jess Davies.

Jess opens up about her personal experience of being a victim of image abuse multiple times in her life, including when she was a child. She talks about the long-lasting impact that trauma had on her sense of self, her career, and her relationships and how she has used that experience to become an advocate for women.

Jess’s new book No One Wants To See Your Dick - is a handbook for survival in the digital world to help us understand and tackle online misogyny and question society's understanding (or lack of) when it comes to consent. You can buy your copy here!

Follow @_jessdavies on Instagram

Jess’s BBC documentary ‘Deepfake Porn: Could You Be Next’ was used to lobby the UK government to criminalise deepfake porn in the Online Harms Safety Bill. You can watch it here!

If you'd like to get in touch, you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Just Us: Break up practicalities, Krispy Kreme conspiracies and Daddy Pig’s weaponised incompetence

Wed, 04 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

This is possibly one of our most chaotic episodes ever. Expect animal noises, a little bit of sick and some absolutely outrageous claims…

Join us to discuss Daddy Pig’s weaponised incompetence, a Krispy Kreme conspiracy and we also read a listener email which has reminded us that people actually listen to these conversations…

We love reading your messages - if you want to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

JOIN US IN EDINBURGH FOR OUR BIGGEST LIVE SHOW EVER! We’ll be taking over the iconic Usher Hall for one night only on 3rd September. Head to SIDTLive.com for more information and to purchase tickets. We guarantee that buying tickets will ding your rewards centre.

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Periods, pain and being ignored: Naga Munchetty on the women’s health crisis

Sun, 01 Jun 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Women's healthcare is in crisis - and things need to change.

Today’s guest is the legendary broadcaster Naga Munchetty - Naga is one of the UK’s most high-profile journalists known for her work on BBC Breakfast and BBC 5 Live. But behind her incredible career, Naga has been living with a debilitating condition: since her teenage years, she’s suffered from excruciatingly painful periods… so severe they caused her to vomit, faint, and miss out on everyday life.

After being diagnosed with a condition called adenomyosis at the age of 47 - Naga made it her mission to advocate for better healthcare for women and in Naga’s new book It’s Probably Nothing she draws on her own experience of being dismissed, undiagnosed and misdiagnosed to explores the devastating outcome of decades of ingrained medical misogyny.

It’s Probably Nothing: Critical Conversations on the Women's Health Crisis and What We Can Do About It is out now. You can buy your copy here!

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Just Us: We have a HUGE announcement…

Wed, 28 May 2025 23:05:00 GMT

It was bad vibes all round in the studio today - so we’re bought the chaotic energy together to try and cheer ourselves up… and it might have actually worked?!

In this episode - we found out that Al really isn’t like other girls, we discuss a very awkward birthday greeting and whether it’s acceptable to say you don’t like Taylor Swift…

We also tell you our big news - we’re heading to Edinburgh for our biggest live show ever. We’ll be taking over the iconic Usher Hall for one night only on 3rd September. Head to SIDTLive.com for more information and to purchase tickets. Bring on the train snacks!

Has your week been as awkward as ours have been? Tell us about it on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Rethinking farming: mental health, loneliness, and breaking boundaries… with Clarkson's Farm's Harriet

Sun, 25 May 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Harriet Cowan is not your stereotypical farmer.

British farmers are under pressure and are often misunderstood. Harriet is making it her mission to change our perception of farmers and farming. Not only does this woman run two farms with her boyfriend - she also works five days a week as a nurse - we're pretty sure she's one of the hardest working people in the country.

She came in to tell us all about the fascinating, relentless farming industry - what it means to take over a family farm, the pressures she and other farmers are under and the mental health impact of loneliness amongst farmers.

We had a lot to learn from Harriet - she’s an incredibly passionate, driven woman - and she taught us so much about this vital industry.

Follow @harrietcowan_x on Instagram

You can watch Harriet in action on series 4 of Clarkson’s Farm. The first four episodes are available now on Prime Video and the next four episodes will be released on May 30th and June 6th.

If you'd like to get in touch, you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Just Us: Running with boobs, protecting Blue Ivy and the indignity of diarrhoea

Wed, 21 May 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Guys, a miracle has happened - Al is happy with the weather today!

On today’s episode we’re discussing Em’s food poisoning *situation*… which miraculously didn’t actually originate in the Light household.

We chat about sports bras - and how much of a barrier boobs can be for women getting into exercise. And we discuss the internet’s reaction to Blue Ivy - why do people feel like they can speak about a 13-year-old child in the way they do online?

And if you’re curious about the shared vibrator… we will never reveal our secrets.

If you have any suggestions of people who we can talk to for our upcoming series looking at Trad Wives - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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‘Woman killed’ - but by who? Dismantling the media spin on male violence

Sun, 18 May 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Words matter and the way we use them can either uphold or challenge harmful systems.

This week we’re joined by Sydney - the co-founder of This Ends Now, a not-for-profit dedicated to preventing male violence against women and girls through reframing conversations. Sydney tells us how language plays a powerful role in shaping our understanding of sexism and male violence and how changing the words we use can help dismantle the patriarchy.

We dive into their powerful ‘Red Pen’ campaign, which calls out the victim-blaming, misogynistic language too often used in headlines and police reports and corrects them to advocate for responsible reporting.

Our chat with Sydney was fascinating, and really opened up our eyes to how simple changes to the language we use can make a huge difference - and felt particularly important off the back of our conversation with Laura Bates last week. Do go back and listen to that episode if you haven’t already.

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Read more about all the work of This Ends Now at https://www.thisendsnow.co.uk/

Read the Words Matter Reporting Guidelines here

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Just Us: Cannes nudity ban, hair loss and a drainoscopy

Wed, 14 May 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Greetings loved ones! Happy Al’s Got A Fringe Day to all who celebrate!

It’s been a big week for us - not only has Em’s had a man look up her drain - but we’ve also been loving seeing your comments on Monday’s episode with Laura Bates. We’ve decided to continue the conversation on this Monday’s episode with a very exciting interview… which seems especially pertinent in light of the Gérard Depardieu being charged for sexually assaulting two women - and Cannes Film Festival announcing their new red carpet nudity ban. Why is the landscape for women becoming more and more difficult - and how can our use of language help us to overcome it?

If you want to join in the conversation - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Cyber brothels, AI girlfriends and misogynistic algorithms: Laura Bates on the new age of sexism

Sun, 11 May 2025 23:05:00 GMT

The Netflix show Adolescence opened up the conversation about male violence and the radicalisation of young boys online into the mainstream. But how much do we really know about what young boys are viewing online and the effect is has on them?

This week, we're joined by someone whose work has shaped the conversation around gender, power, and the internet for over a decade - writer, activist, and founder of the Everyday Sexism Project, Laura Bates.

We were so thrilled to welcome Laura back on the podcast to talk about her brand new book, The New Age of Sexism - an examination of how misogyny is evolving in the digital age. We spoke to her in light of the rise in incel culture, the mainstreaming of online radicalisation, and the links between toxic masculinity and real-world male violence,

This conversation touches on some upsetting themes - specifically violence against women and sexual abuse. But Laura gives us practical advice on a personal and policy level to help us eradicate this new wave of gendered hate. We learned so much from this conversation and we hope you will too.

Follow @laura_bates__ on Instagram

The New Age of Sexism: How the AI Revolution is Reinventing Misogyny is out on 15th May 2025. You can get your copy here!

If you'd like to get in touch, you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Just Us: Are we all arguing with our partners?

Wed, 07 May 2025 23:05:00 GMT

This week, we’re discussing all things adulthood: the good, the bad, and the “oh god, no one’s coming to rescue me.” From the never-ending responsibilities to the realisation that the buck officially stops with you, we’re discussing all what it's like to be a responsible adult (spoiler: it’s exhausting)

We’re also reminding ourselves - and you - why it’s so important to prioritise yourself. Al’s long-overdue facial is officially on the agenda.

Plus, we dive into a listener email with a relationship dilemma and do our best to offer some honest advice (with minimal chaos). Got something you want to ask us? Slide into our inbox: shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

And remember: die, cry, hate (with love) 💌

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“I got trapped in an underwater cave” - the life of a cave diver

Sun, 04 May 2025 23:05:00 GMT

What would you do if you got stuck in a cave?

Cave diving is something that has fascinated - and terrified - us for a long time - and today we had the opportunity to get all our questions answered by acclaimed explorer and cave diver - Rannvá Jørmundsson.

Rannvá has a background as a professional diving instructor, specialising in cold water. Rannvá is originally from the Faroe Islands, but currently lives in Cornwall, where she works for the diving equipment company Fourth Element. Rannva has been diving since 2008 and is an IDC Staff instructor and full cave CCR diver, and she is a member of the Explorers Club in New York.

Rannvá told us all about her passion for diving, how she feels it's the best form of mediation and also how she uses her extensive training to handle the risks and dangers involved in cave exploration. Stay tuned to find out if she can convince us to take a dive...

Follow @rannvaj on Instagram

Rannvá cofounded Nixie Expeditions - an organisation dedicated to Aquifer Exploration and Conservation. You can see more about their work on their Instagram - @nixie_expeditions

If you'd like to get in touch, you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Just Us: Al’s deepfake, Russell Brand and reading your comments

Wed, 30 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Al (aka Revolting Santa Claus) has come into the studio today armed with many, many, many awkwards for us.

We also pull back the curtain a bit and read some of your comments on our latest episodes… turns out, we’re VERY responsive to feedback. It really does help us out if you rate and follow the show on your podcast platforms - so we’d LOVE it if you could leave us a good review if you love the show! Five stars pretty pleeeeeeasseeee!

And we also chat about Al’s recent experience of being turned into a deepfake - and what it tells us about the fragility of women’s reputations in comparison to men - particularly in light of Russell Brand’s recent rape and sexual assault charges.

Have you managed to have an even more awkward week than Al? We want to know about it. Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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‘I shut down Stansted Airport with my psychotic episode’ - destigmatising bipolar disorder with Rosie Viva

Sun, 27 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

In 2018, model Rosie Viva was arrested after she caused Stansted Airport to evacuate all its waiting passengers following a psychotic episode. The aftermath saw her hospitalised, sectioned, and diagnosed with bipolar disorder - a dramatic moment that would alter the course of her life.

Rosie joins Em to share her story and shed light on what it's really like to live with bipolar disorder, a complex and often misunderstood mental health condition. Whether you or someone you know lives with bipolar disorder or if you're simply curious to learn more - we hope you find this conversation helpful!

Rosie’s book, Completely Normal and Totally Fine, is out on May 8th. You can get your copy here!

Follow @rosieviva on Instagram

Read Rosie’s Women’s Health piece: 'The hypomanic state can be really beautiful': What life is really like when you have bipolar disorder’ here

If you'd like to get in touch, you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Just Us: Girl boss feminism, billionaire vanity projects and a postpartum identity crisis

Wed, 23 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Em was thirty minutes late to the studio today - she arrived looking fabulous and with a tale to tell… it was a hell of a 12 hours to be Em (or her hair). We also discuss mispronouncing words in a professional capacity and the true meaning of the phrase 'take heed'.

Listener Vanessa emailed us about the first all female space flight - so we dive into the questions that it has raised about girl boss feminism, tokenism and billionaire vanity projects.

Do you have something you want to share with us? We’d love to hear it - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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When IVF doesn’t work out... with Anna Hart

Sun, 20 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

When it comes to IVF - the narrative can often be to keep going and going, and going until you have a baby.

Sometimes, however, the more sensible decision is to stop - and that is what was right for Anna Hart and her husband.

Anna is content creator, interiors planner and digital strategist. After starting her IVF journey during lockdown, and after three unsuccessful rounds - they made the decision to stop.

This is a side of the IVF conversation we don’t often hear about - Anna tells us about what she went through and how she has found happiness after coming out the other side of IVF without a baby.

Follow @annaelerihart on Instagram

Read Anna's piece "things i wish i knew about ivf" on her Substack. She is donating all paid subscriber revenue to Tommy's during April 2025.

Find out more about all of Anna’s work here

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Just Us: White Lotus, information overload and a bad wax

Wed, 16 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

This week - Em’s recovering from a patchy wax and Al has an Is It Just Me about information overload. We discuss the conundrum of leaving bad reviews, brands that don’t pay their influencers and the joy of seeing men get toupees.

We also chat about White Lotus - and there’s a strong loved it vs hated it divide in the studio.

Do you have an Is It Just Me for us? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Did weight gain change my relationship? with Tally Rye

Sun, 13 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

If you want to postiviely reframe the narrative of weight gain - this is the episode for you!

Today, we’re speaking to the personal trainer, intuitive movement coach, content creator and podcaster Tally Rye.

Tally shares her powerful journey of healing her relationship with her body image, food, and exercise. She opens up about moving away from the relentless pursuit of thinness and embracing a more compassionate, balanced approach to health and self-worth.

We dive into the positives of weight gain, how it’s impacted Tally’s life for the better, and how she navigates conversations with people who don’t quite see it the same way.

This conversation was recorded back in October 2024 as part of our body image series - so if you haven’t listened to that yet, head back and explore more insights from Tally and other incredible guests diving deep into all things body image.

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Just Us: This should stay private

Wed, 09 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Brace yourselves…. we’ve got an awkward episode for you today.

Em and Alex start us off by sharing some awkward accidental online encounters and tales of naked hilarity… then we dive into your awkwards. Prepare to have sticky toffee pudding ruined for you for the rest of your life…

We also ask a question about parody videos - Em Rata blocked Celeste Barber after she posted parodies of her online. Should people who post online be prepared to be parodied? And why do we feel like it’s okay to make fun of beautiful people online?

Do you have an awkward tale for us? We wanna hear it! Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Convicted drug-dealer to award-winning artist: Kevin Devonport

Sun, 06 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Kevin Devonport is a multi-award winning artist - his work has been displayed worldwide to much acclaim… but his entry to the art world is not what you might expect because he learned to paint whilst he was serving a prison sentence for drug offences.

In this conversation - we discuss how art helped Kevin rebuild his life from rock bottom. Prison reform is a complicated and nuanced topic - but Kevin’s story is testament to how creative programmes in prisons can inspire and give hope of a new life beyond prison.

You can see Kevin’s work at https://kevindevonportfineart.co.uk/

Follow @kevindevonportfineart on Instagram

This episode was recorded in November 2024

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Just Us: Chappell Roan on motherhood, Remi Bader’s weight loss surgery and why we need to stop policing women’s opinions

Wed, 02 Apr 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Get ready because we're sharing Em’s problematic sunbathing plans for this summer and Al’s been dropping some more French references… quelle surprise!

We also discuss two of the biggest moments of internet discourse from this week… firstly Remi Bader made a splash by talking about her weight loss surgery on Khloe Kardashian’s podcast and then Chappell Roan said that all her friends with children are in hell. We discuss our collective policing of women’s choices and opinions - and why some people feel entitled to criticise women online for things they choose to do.

Read Em’s Metro column “Chappell Roan’s controversial comments exposed a divide that mothers are sick of” here!

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Gender surgery saves lives… with Mr James Bellringer

Sun, 30 Mar 2025 23:05:00 GMT

Mr James Bellringer is a surgeon who specialises in gender surgery in transwomen.

James has been doing gender surgery since 2000 - and in this conversation, he discusses what the climate around gender surgery was like when he started and how he sees it now. He tells us about his experiences of the transformative effects of gender surgery, how vital it is for the mental health of his patients, and how he feels the treatment should be managed appropriately.

This episode was recorded in November 2024

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Just Us: We need to talk about Adolescence...

Thu, 27 Mar 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Mercury is in retrograde and we’re all feeling it…

Em, Al and Xanthe are in the studio today - and we’re gonna be honest… it was a little hard for us to find goods for this week’s GBA. Al’s been getting violent at the dentist and Em’s household has been hit by the flu.

We also dive into the conversations that have been opened up in the mainstream in the wake of the Netflix show Adolescence - which follows the story of a 13 year old boy who is arrested for the murder of a girl in his school. We discuss the rise of online misogyny, how it’s affecting young boys and what hope we have of stopping it.

This conversation does discuss plot points from Adolescence - but if you haven’t seen it - the conversation mainly focuses on the issues the show brings up rather than the details of the plot. It won’t ruin the show, but you may get more from this conversation if you’ve seen at least the first two episodes of the series.

Listen to Sam Browne’s spoken work piece ‘Silly Billy’. Follow Sam to hear more of his brilliant work.

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Money = power: why financial freedom is a feminist issue

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Who here thinks they’re rubbish with money? We did, until we spoke to Alexia De Brogile.

Alexia is the co-founder of YourJuno - the financial education app, by women, for women.

In this episode, we find out how women’s attitudes to money are set from our childhood and how that lack of confidence follows us into adulthood - and stops us from growing our wealth…

Alexia and her sister Margot created their platform to essentially be the Duolingo of financial education for women. They have helped thousands of women to learn about every aspect of personal finance.

If you have any questions about personal finance - What’s investing? Is the stock market safe? What is an ISA? - this a judgment free zone and this episode is for you!

You can download the YourJuno app for free here

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This episode was recorded in November 2024

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Just Us: I like it dense and wet

Thu, 20 Mar 2025 00:05:00 GMT

We have *muchos* to discuss today!

Em’s got an awkward that Boy Alex won’t let her talk about and she needs to get off her chest. Meanwhile, Al has potentially given Betty a taste for human blood…

We also discuss internet accountability - we know that that people say hurtful things online but why do people feel the need to do it? And why do people feel so comfortable to do it publicly?

Alex has been completely outnumbered in the studio today with her very controversial opinion about tea. We’re pretty sure she’s in the minority - but if you feel like giving her some support, you can email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com - send us your awkwards too please, we LOVE reading them!

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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"Stand-up comedy is a drug" ... with Russell Kane

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 00:05:00 GMT

We think stand-up comedy is possibly one of the most terrifying professions on the planet - and today, we’re speaking to a man who has mastered it.

In this episode, we’re speaking to the multi-award-winning comedian, presenter, actor, author, and scriptwriter Russell Kane.

He tells us about this experience growing up funny in a working class household with a hyper-masculine father and how that experience built his career and how it has been reflected in his own attitude to fatherhood.

This conversation goes so much further than comedy - as we touch on everything from evolutionary biology, male sperm counts to emotional vulnerability - to unpack what Russell sees as a new vision for young men.

This episode was recorded in November 2024.

Follow @Russell_Kane on Instagram

You can find all of Russell’s work at https://www.russellkane.co.uk/

Russell is on tour throughout 2025 - you can find a date near you here!

You can buy your copy of Pet Selector: A hilarious guide to all the usual and unusual household pets here!

Evil Genius with Russell Kane is available on BBC Sounds - or wherever you get your podcasts!

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Just Us: Do you want to see my bum?

Thu, 13 Mar 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Welcome to the new format of our Thursday episodes - this is where everything with Just Us will live: GBA, Is It Just Me and all our general nonsense! And - boy - we have got a lot of nonsense for you today!

Al’s bads are BAD today. We find out about her very bad week - and we’re even treated to a little bit of nudity. Lucky Dex!

We also discuss a mega star who gave us a ‘polite decline’ - then we catch ourselves being potentially a tiny bit problematic.

Do you want to weigh in on whether it’s okay for us to objectify men? It is different when men and women do it? Email us on shouldideletethat@gmail.com

We love you!

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Em’s back! A catch up about life with Xanthe

Mon, 10 Mar 2025 00:05:00 GMT

She’s BACK! And we have a very special guest in the studio…

Join Em and Al for a big old catch up after Em has been on maternity leave.

We find out about all about Xanthe’s arrival into the world - she’s a total ray of sunshine! We also find out how Em’s feeling now she’s no longer unwell…

And take a deep breath - because we have a little format update for you - we PROMISE this is the last time we’re moving things around and we promise you’re going to love it.

Do you have an Is It Just Me for us? Is there someone you really want us to interview? Do you have an idea for Em's 30,000 exercise challenge? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com!

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Emma-Kirsty Fraser

Music: Alex Andrew

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It's feedback time... brace position

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 00:05:00 GMT

It’s time to dive into the mailbag!

Our amazing community sent in so many brilliant messages and emails in response to our body image series - so we thought it was important to take some time to acknowledge your thoughts and feedback - both the positive and the negative.

Em’s still officially on maternity leave until next week - so we’ve drafted in a VERY eager substitute - it’s Sister Jen!

We always love hearing from you - whether you want to challenge us or praise us, it’s so important for us to hear it. You can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com !

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Influencers on Ozempic: Sasha Pallari’s experience on Mounjaro

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 00:05:00 GMT

We’re talking Ozempic, again.

Our deep dive into body image may have wrapped up last week, but we all know this topic is far from over. So, we’re jumping back in…

This time, we’re joined by influencer and longtime friend of the podcast, Sasha Pallari. After hearing our Ozempic episode, she reached out to share her own experience with Mounjaro — a journey she’s been candid about online over the past four months.

In this conversation, Sasha opens up about why she chose to take the drug, how its impact goes beyond just weight loss, and where she sees potential dangers. Sasha offers us her unique perspective on the drug - how it has changed her life and why she has chosen to be so open and honest about it online.

Follow @sashapallari on Instagram

You can listen to Sasha’s podcast Spill which she co-hosts with Billie Bhatia wherever you get your podcasts!

Watch Sasha’s YouTube video “OZEMPIC: has this weightloss trend gone too far?” here

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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"I made the wrong choices": Alice Liveing and the 'wellness' lie

Thu, 27 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Throughout our body image series - we’ve had so many powerful, inspiring and life-affirming conversations with people who have incredible advice on how we can build better relationships with our bodies. One of those people is Alice Liveing.

Alice is a personal trainer, influencer, columnist, podcaster and bestselling author who has inspired thousands of people with her relatable, motivational and balanced health advice.

In this conversation, we take a look back to the 2010s - when she inadvertently became the poster girl for so-called “clean eating”. We found out how Alice found herself in that situation and what led her to move away from it to build a healthy relationship with her body image.

If you want to hear our full investigation of wellness - you can listen to our episode ‘The “Wellness” Rebrand’ which is available now.

Follow @aliceliveing on Instagram

You can buy your copy of Alice’s book Give Me Strength here

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Music: Dex Roy

Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Trailers: Sophie Richardson

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What if we stopped hating our bodies?

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

We’ve downed tools - because it’s time to reflect on everything that we’ve learned and felt throughout our big body image series.

Join Em and Al to discuss what we’ve learned through this series - from the history of diet culture to the way the diet landscape is shifting and morphing in front of our eyes.

We chat about where we’re at with our own body image journeys, how we’re going to move forward from this series, and how we might be able to - as a society - fix our relationships with our bodies.

Thank you to our brilliant listeners who sent us their voice notes for this episode - we couldn't feature all of them in this episode but we loved listening to them all. A special thanks to: Sophie, Jessica, Marsy, Hannah, Riss, Aimee, Eimear and Catherine from the IVF BFF Podcast

If you want to dig further into diet culture, self-acceptance and making peace with your body - Alex’s book You Are Not A Before Picture is available now. You can buy your copy here!

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Music: Dex Roy

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Trailers: Sophie Richardson

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Ozempic: miracle or myth? ... with Dr Giles Yeo

Thu, 20 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

It’s time to address the elephant in the room - Ozempic.

We know that Ozempic will change - and is already changing - the body image landscape. There is so much noise online, in the media and in our personal lives about the so called ‘miracle’ drug - so we decided to call in the help of an expert, to clear up the myths from the facts.

Dr Giles Yeo is a professor at the University of Cambridge, whose research focuses on food intake, genetics and obesity. We got him in the studio to answer all the questions we had about Ozempic - to help us understand the science behind the drug that everyone is talking about.

You can buy Giles’ latest book Why Calories Don’t Count here

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If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Trailers: Sophie Richardson

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Ozempic: the truth behind the weight loss revolution

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

The body image landscape is changing in front of our eyes - and we have Ozempic to blame - or thank - for that.

For the last few years - Ozempic has been the topic that has dominated the cultural conversation. Is it the silver bullet to help us with our body image or are pharmaceutical companies taking advantage of our collective desire to be thin?

In this episode we speak to a doctor who is an expert on Ozempic, a psychologist and someone who has taken the drug to dig right to the core of this thorny, controversial topic.

Is Ozempic a miracle or is it causing more damage than it’s worth? We don’t know where it’s going to end - but we know for certain that this isn’t the last we’ll hear of the drug.

Thank you to our amazing guests who feature in this episode: Dr Giles Yeo, Daniel Cooper and Phillippa Diedrichs

You can buy Giles’ latest book Why Calories Don’t Count here

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Read more about Phillippa’s work at https://www.phillippadiedrichs.com/

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You can read Dan's article 'Wegovy helped me lose three stone in three months - and ruined my life' here

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Trailers: Sophie Richardson

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Growing up in a world that hates your body… with Stephanie Yeboah

Thu, 13 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

After growing up in a world that teaches us to hate our bodies - how can we come to feel at peace with, or even begin to feel positive about our bodies? And what happens when the movement that made you feel better about your body shifts to a position you no longer align with?

Stephanie Yeboah is a content creator, author and journalist - and we spoke to her as part of our exploration of the body positivity movement. It was a movement that she was closely associated with, but one that she has moved away from in recent years. In this extended edition of our conversation we find out why - and how we can move forward in dismantling fatphobia as a society.

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Pre-order Stephanie’s book Chaotic Energy: The hilarious, heartfelt, must-read romantic comedy now!

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Music: Dex Roy

Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Trailers: Sophie Richardson

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Emma-Kirsty Fraser

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What happened to body positivity?

Mon, 10 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

If you’re listening to this episode, we reckon it’s safe to say you’re well aware of the body positivity movement, or at the very least, one of the fractions of its evolution; whether that be the self love movement or body confidence one. It’s within those, after all, that we really made our names.

Today, we’re taking you back to the inception of the body positive movement, which started by and for plus-size black women. In this episode, we dive into how the movement has changed beyond recognition - and where its future may lie.

Thanks so much to our amazing guests who feature on this episode: Stephanie Yeboah, Jade Elouise, Holly Hagan and Phillippa Diedrichs

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Pre-order Stephanie’s book Chaotic Energy: The hilarious, heartfelt, must-read romantic comedy now!

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Read more about Phillippa’s work at: https://www.phillippadiedrichs.com/

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Trailers: Sophie Richardson

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Busting diet myths with Dr Joshua Wolrich

Thu, 06 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Have you ever felt bombarded by the information on the internet about heath and wellness? Today on the podcast - we’re speaking to a man who can clear everything up for us.

Dr Joshua Wolrich is an NHS doctor, nutritionist and the Sunday Times bestselling author of “Food Isn’t Medicine”. When we started our body image series - we knew we had to speak to him to understand his take on the “wellness” rebrand of the 2010s - when diet culture shifted to a focus on “health”.

You can go back to Monday’s episode to hear more of our exploration of the wellness era - but in this episode, you’ll hear our chat with Dr Joshua in full to as he debunks the health myths that defined the wellness era - and beyond.

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Read more about Dr Joshua’s work here: https://drwolrich.com/

You can buy your copy of Food Isn’t Medicine here!

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Trailers: Sophie Richardson

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

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Kale, Keto and a fear of carbs: unlearning wellness myths

Tue, 04 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Welcome back to the second part of our investigation of the “wellness” era. In the first part of this episode, we found out that the era is actually not over at all. Many of us still carry beliefs and behaviours from that time - and today we’re going to attempt to uncover what’s true and what’s just utter nonsense….

Thanks so much to our amazing guests who feature on this episode: Dr Joshua Wolrich and Tally Rye

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Find out more about Tally’s work here

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Read more about Dr Joshua’s work here: https://drwolrich.com/

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Trailers: Sophie Richardson

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The "Wellness" Rebrand

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 00:05:00 GMT

The 2010s is a time we have come to think of as the ‘wellness’ rebrand. The era in which we declared that we wanted to be ‘strong not skinny’ and that we discarded what we now thought of as ‘fad’ diets and traded them in for consistent ‘healthy’ living. Skin and bones were out, toned arms, visible abs and curves in all the right places were in.

Today we’re investigating if by replacing thinness as the thing to which we should aspire to with “healthy”, many of us fell into a false sense of healing, not realising how unhealthy our new and ‘healthy’ habits really were….

Thanks so much to our amazing guests who feature on this episode: Alice Liveing, Melissa Hemsley and Tally Rye

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Find out more about Tally’s work here

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Order Melissa’s latest book Real Healthy here

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You can buy your copy of Alice’s book Give Me Strength here

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Music: Dex Roy

Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Trailers: Sophie Richardson

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Emma-Kirsty Fraser

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I made Supersize vs Superskinny - this is why…

Thu, 30 Jan 2025 00:05:00 GMT

Colette Foster was the executive producer of Channel 4’s factual entertainment show Supersize vs Superskinny.

The show was hosted by Dr Christian Jessen and each week it saw two contestants, one overweight and one underweight, swap diets whilst at a Feeding Clinic, under the supervision of Dr Jessen. Both participants were shown the extent of their poor diet.

This week, we have been exploring the role that television played on how we feel about our bodies - and we were thrilled when Colette agreed to come and speak to us. We were keen to find out about the inception of Supersize vs Superskinny, what safeguarding was in place for contributors and how the production team reacted to criticism directed at the show.

Colette is founder and Creative Director of Full Fat TV, a new factual entertainment company based in Birmingham, focusing on factual entertainment and feature formats with an emphasis on emerging talent. You can read about their work here: https://fullfattv.co.uk/

If you would like to get in touch - you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Trailers: Sophie Richardson

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Emma-Kirsty Fraser

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Fat suits, food tubes and public shaming: how TV shaped our body image

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 00:05:00 GMT

It’s something anthropologists will no doubt look at with bewilderment in years to come: the extraordinary breadth of TV shows that were aired during the 00s. From Fat Families to How To Look Good Naked, we’re not sure there was anything more ruthless than the presenter of a show commissioned by Channel 4 between the years of 2001 and 2010.

From the endless stream of TV shows capitalising on the nation’s almost hysterical fatphobia, to the background hum of misogyny that had weaved its way into every conversation broadcasted at the time, this was a truly WILD time to have eyes, ears, or a television license. In this week’s episode - we’re taking a look at the role television has played, and still plays, in our collective body image.

Thanks so much to our amazing guests who feature on this episode: Colette Foster, Dr Joshua Wolrich and Stephanie Yeboah

Colette Foster is the founder and Creative Director of Full Fat TV, a new factual entertainment company based in Birmingham, focusing on factual entertainment and feature formats with an emphasis on emerging talent. You can read about their work here: https://fullfattv.co.uk/

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Read more about Dr Joshua’s work here: https://drwolrich.com/

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Pre-order Stephanie’s book Chaotic Energy: The hilarious, heartfelt, must-read romantic comedy now!

And a special thank you to our guest who wished to remain anonymous in this episode

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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

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Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Trailers: Sophie Richardson

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Behind the ‘Circle of Shame’: I worked at Heat magazine in the 00s

Thu, 23 Jan 2025 00:05:00 GMT

This week, we’ve been examining the role that nurture played in building our relationships with our bodies - and specifically the role played by the tabloid media of the 90s and 00s.

To really understand how that seismic impact the tabloids had on us - we had to speak to someone who knew how they work from the inside - that’s where Isabel comes in...

Isabel is a writer who started her career in era-defining journalism, most notably at Heat magazine during its mid-noughties peak - where she contributed, alongside a huge team of people, to some of the most iconic features of that time… including The Circle of Shame.

Em spoke to Isabel to find out what it was like working at a magazine that focused so heavily on women’s bodies, the effect it had on her - and how she feels about it now looking back on that time.

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Subscribe to Isabel’s substack here: https://keepitupfatty.substack.com/ - where she writes about the major journey she has been on with body image and how she has now made it her mission through writing to encourage more people, especially women, to be more active and confident.

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‘A celebrity in a bikini? Gold’: the toxic tabloids of the 00s

Mon, 20 Jan 2025 00:05:00 GMT

At the height of their popularity newspapers like The Sun and The Mirror were selling over 5 million copies a day, while magazines like Heat were distributing over 600,00 copies weekly.

As we go one step further into understanding the ways in which we feel about our own bodies - we thought we needed to explore more than just nature’s part in our story, and look at nurture’s involvement in this too.

In the UK, tabloids were HUGE and as a result, were massively instrumental in informing so much of how we viewed the world and the women around us, but in the context of this series, we wanted to explore how pivotal they were in establishing how we curated the relationship we had with ourselves and our bodies.

Thanks so much to our amazing guests who feature on this episode: Giles Harrison, Holly Hagan and Isabel Mohan

Find out more about Giles’ work here: https://londonentertainmentgroup.com/

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It’s Almond Dads too… with Molly Forbes

Thu, 16 Jan 2025 00:05:00 GMT

This week on Should I Delete That, we’re investigating the ‘Almond Mom’ phenomenon. This is our conversation with the brilliant Molly Forbes - she is an author, campaigner, and the founder of The Body Happy Organisation.

Our chat with Molly is full of incredible practical advice and insight into how we can build positive body image for both ourselves and our children.

We also spoke to Molly about how it’s not just mums who play a role in building up our body image - and why perhaps we shouldn’t be placing all the pressure on mothers…

You can find The Body Happy Organisation’s free resources here: https://www.bodyhappyorg.com/start-here

Molly’s books Every Body and Body Happy Kids are available now - get your copies here!

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What is an Almond Mom?

Mon, 13 Jan 2025 00:05:44 GMT

A term made famous by Yolanda Hadid, Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star and mother to supermodels Bella and Gigi Hadid, “Almond Mom” refers to the type of mother who sets their child up to be obsessed with food and their bodies in ways that are both toxic and harmful.

In this, the second episode of our Body Image series, we explore generational trauma in the context of diet culture, and take a deeper look at the wounds passed down from our grandmothers, to our mothers and in turn - to us. Many millennials feel very passionately that they want to be the ones to break this cycle, that we don’t want our kids to watch us starting a new diet every Monday, or never wearing a swimming costume or eating a biscuit without first apologising for it, and as relatively new mothers ourselves, this is something we feel deeply passionate about.

Thanks so much to our amazing guests who feature on this episode: Phillippa Diedrichs, Molly Forbes, Beth and Bev.

Molly’s books Every Body and Body Happy Kids are available now - get your copies here!

You can find The Body Happy Organisation’s free resources here: https://www.bodyhappyorg.com/start-here

Read more about Phillippa’s work at https://www.phillippadiedrichs.com/

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How to feel better about our bodies... with Professor Phillippa Diedrichs

Thu, 09 Jan 2025 00:05:33 GMT

Phillippa Diedrichs is a Professor of Psychology and body image and mental health expert. She works at the Centre for Appearance Research and has spent the last 20 years studying body confidence - what influences how we think and feel about how we look and what we can do as a society to create an environment where we can accept and love our bodies.

She also works with brands and organisations within the beauty and fitness industries to help them think about what they put out into the world, and how they can be part of the solution to help create a world that is accepting of bodies of all sizes.

This series grew so much bigger than we ever expected it to be thanks to the amazing insights our guests gave us - so we decided to release some of those expert conversations in their entirely. Each Thursday, you will hear an in depth conversation which will drill down into different themes which we will explore across the eight weeks of this series. This is the first of those conversations and we hope you love it.

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The Shocking History of Diet Culture

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 00:05:09 GMT

New year, new me? Welcome to our expansive eight-part series deconstructing our relationships with body image.

From the historical origins of diet culture, to the present day where injectable weight loss drugs are available from high street pharmacies, Alex and Em will strip back our assumptions about diet culture and body image, to find out how we got here, and how we can find a healthy way to look forward.

By speaking to a range of experts, from dieticians to fitness influencers - we’ll explore the damaging effects of tabloid media and weight loss TV shows, we will examine the phenomenon of the ‘Almond Mom’ and we will uncover diet culture’s ‘wellness’ rebrand - to equip our listeners with the knowledge and practical steps to navigate a world where diet culture lurks around every corner.

Today - we’re starting off by taking a look at the origins of diet culture, because to really get a sense of the magnitude of diet culture and the effects that it has had on our lives, we need to go back to its roots.

So, in this episode, we’re going back in time to the advent of diet culture, in the hope it helps us figure out how these debilitating body issues that burden so many women have come to be – and why… Is it all innate? Do we have a biological predisposition to desiring to be thin? Let’s dig in.

If you want to dig further into diet culture, self-acceptance and making peace with your body - Alex’s book You Are Not A Before Picture is available now. You can buy your copy here!

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Is It Just Me: 2024’s best bits!

Thu, 02 Jan 2025 00:05:10 GMT

Today, we’re celebrating another year of lols by revisiting some of our favourite moments from this year’s Is It Just Mes!

Be prepared… there’s a lot of wheezing and a *lot* of giggles in this episode.

We take a look back at the best advice Al was ever given, then we ponder deep sea exploration and discover Em’s *unusual* phone contract set up.

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Chessie King, Michelle Elman, Lorna Luxe and more… 2024’s Best Bits!

Mon, 30 Dec 2024 00:05:10 GMT

Today we’re taking a look back at some of our favourite interview moments from 2024!

We have had so many incredible interviews this year, and we’ve learned so much from ALL of our guests - but today, we’ve picked a selection of some of our very favourites.

In this episode you will hear selections from the following episodes - follow the links if you would like to listen to any of those interviews in full!

Thank you for spending the year with us! If there is someone you’d love for us to speak to in 2025 - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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2024 Round Up! (Part Two)

Thu, 26 Dec 2024 00:05:27 GMT

It’s time for the second part of our annual round up! Today, we’re going through everything that happened in the second half of 2024 in our lives and in the world of news and pop culture!

This half of the year bought an ICONIC pole vaulting incident at the Olympics, a Labour general election win and the end of Molly-Mae and Tommy Fury.

We discuss celebrities vocalising their boundaries, the Blake Lively controversy, and how you guys - our lovely listeners - helped us through a year that was at times *turbulent*… WE LOVE YOU!

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2024 Round Up! (Part One)

Mon, 23 Dec 2024 00:05:16 GMT

Welcome to our annual round up! Have we done enough of these to call it annual now? We think so!

In today’s episode - we’re taking you through our biggest news, pop culture and personal moments from Q1 and Q2 of 2024.

It was the year that bought us Tommy, Baby Reindeer and Brat Summer. We discuss the general feeling of discontent that we’ve felt this year, the rise in online cruelty and the absolute joy of going on our first ever podcast tour.

We’ll be back on Thursday to take you from July to December!

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Is It Just Me: He thinks you're in a thruple!

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 00:05:30 GMT

Happy Christmas Eve Eve Eve Eve Eve Eve (we think?!)

We’re catching you up on some of our recent awkwards… we’re actually kind of mortified by all of them.

But don’t worry - you’re sharing our awkward pain because we’re also reading out YOUR submissions. Do you have one for us? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

We also dive into our Google search histories… and it’s *very* revealing.

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Alex’s IVF Journey

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 00:05:22 GMT

Today, we’re going to talk about Alex’s IVF story.

After watching the new Netflix film JOY - Al was inspired to speak about her journey to having IVF, after having felt like it wasn’t something she was able to discuss online.

We go through the entire journey that has led to Tommy being with us here today - and we hope this conversation is helpful for anyone else who is experiencing something similar or who might not understand the complexity of IVF - and how amazing that it is that science enables us to do this.

JOY - The Birth of IVF

HERTILITY: At home hormone and fertility tests

LAURA ADLINGTON ON SIDT: Bake off and body acceptance

THE INFERTILE MIDWIFE ON SIDT

EMMA THE EMBRYOLOGIST ON SIDT: Demystifying Fertility

ED JACKSON

KERRI NORTHCOTT: Life with Ivy Coco

GLASS BY MICHELLE ANDREWS

GAIA FAMILY

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Is It Just Me: Exposing your cartoon crushes

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 00:05:01 GMT

After Al revealed she has *romantic feelings* for Shrek - we decided to ask you guys about your cartoon crushes… and be warned - they get a little freaky.

Can you have a crush on a candle? Could you be in a long term relationship with Aladdin? Is the Beast as Beastly as he seems?

We also segue into hypothetical wishes, a hilarious childhood prank and Hugh Grant’s hatred of backpacks.

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‘I did wrong and I’m sorry’: Love Island star Faye Winter

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 00:05:43 GMT

Faye Winter appeared on Love Island in 2021 and when she left the villa she was faced with a lot of noise and a lot of criticism. In this episode, Faye chats candidly about seeing herself in a different light, admitting she was wrong, and how she apologised and is working towards becoming a better person.

Faye tells us about her desire to live a normal life after appearing on the show - but how some people can perceive that as a failure, and how the choices that influencers make are dictated and driven by their audience engagement.

We also have a candid chat about Faye’s experience with filler - and how it is unregulated in the UK. Faye shares a horror story about botox and explains why she’s so vocal about the topic now.

Thanks so much to Hinge for sponsoring this episode. The dating app, which is designed to be deleted, inspires daters to take it slow this holiday season and reflect on the learnings from the past year. As we near the end of 2024, it’s the perfect time for a profile refresh demonstrating the person you’ve grown into this year and creating New Year’s intentions #HingePartner AD

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Is It Just Me: You literally can’t do it all

Thu, 05 Dec 2024 07:02:35 GMT

Lucky you - it’s another episode featuring husky Alex!

It’s all been A LOT lately, so in this week's IIJM we lift the lid onto how much we’re literally hanging on by a thread.

We’ve been working hard getting our body image series ready for the new year - so today we have a chat about putting pressure on ourselves, our organisational styles and how we cope working so closely together. It turns into a bit of a therapy session...

We have an awkward all the way from Cape Town, a deep chat about animal hybrids and we ponder how far the human species would have got if it was made up of only Als and Ems (spoiler alert: probably not far)

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A sober-curious Christmas - with Millie Gooch

Mon, 02 Dec 2024 00:05:20 GMT

Silly season is upon us - and a lot of us associate Christmas with drinking. But it doesn’t necessarily have to be that way.

Today - we’re speaking to Millie Gooch, the founder of Sober Girl Society - the largest community for sober and sober curious women on the planet. Millie tells us the story of how and why she stopped drinking and gives us some practical advice on how we can navigate Christmas if we’re trying to stay sober, become sober or even just explore more sober experiences.

Find out more about The Sober Girl Society’s events and workshops here: https://sobergirlsociety.com/

Millie's new book, Booze Less, provides a mindful guide to sobriety and personal growth, designed to help readers rethink their relationship with alcohol while practicing self-compassion. Millie would love to share insights from Booze Less with your audience, discussing practical ways to approach sobriety and mindfulness, and offering her perspective on wellness trends and the cultural shift around drinking habits. You can buy your copy here!

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Is It Just Me: 1 out of every 5 people fancy Shrek

Thu, 28 Nov 2024 00:05:51 GMT

Al has a sore throat so this week’s Is It Just Me gets a little sexy… you have been warned!

Today, we discuss why people might fancy Shrek - and we're also going to break down some movie magic for you.

Then, things get a little more serious because we also dive in to our personal reasoning for not sharing our children online and we discuss some of the judgement placed on parents and how we find out what works for us personally.

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I was diagnosed with HIV at 21... with Ellie Harrison

Mon, 25 Nov 2024 00:05:57 GMT

Ellie was a 21 year old university student in a long term relationship - then she found out she was HIV positive after taking a home STI test - and her life changed… and in her opinion, it might have been for the better.

Ellie is incredibly inspiring and she is a force for change - she tells us her story and how it drove her to become an activist, raising awareness and breaking the harmful misconceptions a lot of us hold about HIV.

Be prepared to be blown away - Ellie is an amazing person and you are going to love this interview.

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World Aids Day is on Sunday 1st December 2024 - https://worldaidsday.org/

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Is It Just Me: Ariana and Cynthia - leave their bodies out of it!

Thu, 21 Nov 2024 00:05:34 GMT

It’s time to get topical!

The highly anticipated Wicked film came out this week and guess what… we weren’t invited to the premiere (unlike the rest of Instagram!) We also get serious about the body shaming we’ve seen in the media around Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo. Why do people feel like it’s okay to talk about their bodies and why are we so reductive when it comes to women?

We also discuss camel anatomy, I’m A Celeb and the love of Em’s life… Hugh Jackman.

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Escaping child marriage… with Payzee Mahmod

Mon, 18 Nov 2024 00:05:24 GMT

Payzee Mahmod is an activist, campaigner and public speaker who advocates for women and children’s rights. She is campaigner at the KWRO women’s rights organisation and an Obama Leader.

She tells us the incredibly moving story of how she became a victim of child marriage at the age of sixteen. After her sister Banaz was murdered in of an ‘honour’ killing - Payzee bravely left her marriage and started a new life. She now campaigns for women and girls around the world - working to end harmful practices including child marriage and female genital mutilation.

Payzee tells us about the successful campaign to criminalise child marriage in the UK, what it was like to see her sister’s story told in an ITV drama and her journey to healing.

As a content warning, this episode contains some content some people may find distressing - including discussion of violence against women and murder.

IKROW is a charity supporting women & girls in the UK at risk of ‘honour’ based abuse, domestic violence, FGM and forced marriage. You can find more information about their work here.

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Is It Just Me: I fancy Danny Dyer now

Thu, 14 Nov 2024 00:05:20 GMT

We’re feeling *tousled* for today’s Is It Just Me!

Join Em and Al for a mini spelling bee and a *very* high-brow discussion about Naked Attraction and the Netflix show that everyone is talking about… Rivals. Is the world ready for a David Tennant sex scene? And do we all have a crush on Danny Dyer now?

The email inbox has provided us with some incredibly embarrassing awkward from you guys. Have you had the most awkward day of your life? Tell us about it on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com!

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I’m a Just Stop Oil activist - for my children’s future

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 00:05:13 GMT

Have you ever heard a non-confrontational confrontation with a Just Stop Oil activist? Today we’re speaking to Gill Tavner. She’s a Just Stop Oil campaigner - but perhaps doesn’t fit the image that the media might paint you of one.

Gill was one of the warmest and most lovely people that we’ve spoken to on the podcast. She also has a criminal conviction - for walking in the road as part of a Just Stop Oil slow march.

She tells us how her activism was inspired by increasing desperation and anger about her daughters’ futures and she explains in simple, accessible and clear terms what Just Stop Oil is demanding - and it might not be as extreme as you think.

We know that climate anxiety is a real thing - and we know sometimes it can be easy to avoid difficult conversations about climate change. But Gill makes the conversation digestible and understandable - and she might just make you want to take action.

You can read about Just Stop Oil’s campaign to end fossil fuels by 2030 here - https://juststopoil.org/

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Is It Just Me: Maybe it was a naked sauna?

Thu, 07 Nov 2024 00:05:01 GMT

It’s time for some listener lols! We’ve got LOADS of your awkwards for you this week - and boy, are they awkward…

We’re asking what’s worse - walking in on your friends having sex or reading their dirty texts? Em has a very strong case to make thanks some *very* awkward personal experiences.

We also have a cringe sauna incident to tell you about… and Em spills the beans on what happened when she got the call from Love Island. And guess what... Alex has some huge news - she’s made a friend!

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Mythbusting with a midwife ... with Mamadinya!

Mon, 04 Nov 2024 00:05:50 GMT

Even though we have babies - it turns out, we don’t know *that* much about giving birth. So, today on the podcast - we’re talking to Mamadinya… the internet’s favourite’s midwife.

Mamadinya came to the studio to answer everything you’ve always wanted to ask a midwife. What happens if you poo in a birthing pool? If you want to take your placenta home - do they give it to you in a bag? What happens during birth if you have hemorrhoids?

Whether you have kids, want kids, are unsure, or if you're certain they're not for you - Mamadinya throws open the door onto something that most of us probably should know more about. If you're curious about life - this episode is for you.

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Is It Just Me: Daisy's Live Exit Interview

Thu, 31 Oct 2024 00:05:59 GMT

As you all know - we’ve got no HR department… which is why today we’re doing a live exit interview with the legendary Daisy Grant!

Daisy has left the team after two and a half years, she’s moved to Wales to live an idyllic life with her fiance, who you all know, is also called Daisy.

She’s been here since the beginning, so today we say an emotional goodbye and we remember some of our favourite moments together - and we look forward to the future of the podcast with our expanded team.

Listen to Doing The MAFS with Daisy and Daisy here!

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I clean hoarder houses for a living

Mon, 28 Oct 2024 00:05:53 GMT

It’s one of those episodes where we dive into a TikTok curiosity hole - and we end up learning something quite profound on the way. It turns out cleaning is about a lot more than just mess...

Today, we’re speaking to Vicki - who is a biohazard cleaning specialist. You might know her from her TikTok videos - where she shows us what she does for a living - cleaning hoarder houses, crime scenes and anything which involves bodily fluids.

We explore the mental health reasons why someone might become a hoarder, how Vicki copes with the mental strain of her job - and why she choses to use her TikTok income to finance free cleans for those in need.

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You can find out more about Vicki’s company - Pocket Rockets Cleaning Rescue on their website: https://www.pocketrocketcleaningrescue.co.uk/

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Is It Just Me: Reflecting on the week’s internet noise

Wed, 23 Oct 2024 23:05:45 GMT

It's been a very big week on the internet - so we're bringing you a topical episode to reflect on three topics that have felt particularly important for us.

Firstly - take a look at the internet's reaction to the tragic news of Liam Payne's death. The noise on the internet around this topic has felt extraordinarily loud this week - so we discuss the cycle of trolling and tragedy that we have seen play out so many times and how we're feeling about it.

Then, it's time to go back in time because the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show is back. Have we just taken a massive step back in terms of our collective relationship with body image, or is this a reinvention that was desperately needed?

And talking about society's obsession with thinness - we also chat about the government's conversation about Ozempic as a tool to get people back into the workforce.

In the new year, we will be releasing a series on the podcast dissecting our relationship with body image. If there's something you want us to cover or is if there something you want to tell us: you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com!

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They wrote me off - then I won gold… with Dame Kelly Holmes

Sun, 20 Oct 2024 23:05:44 GMT

We have our first Dame on the podcast! The incredible Dame Kelly Holmes joins Em and Alex this week for a honest and vulnerable chat about mental health, motivation and ageing.

Dame Kelly tells us about how her incredible story started when a PE teacher told her she could be good at something - and then, how watching the Olympics inspired a twenty-year long dream of becoming Olympic Champion.

She tells us how she became a world class athlete whilst serving in the Army - and how she defied those who wrote her off because of her age to achieve her dreams, and then why she chose to speak out about the mental health struggles she dealt with during her career.

Where does she find her motivation? How do athletes deal with being put on a pedestal? And more importantly…. how do you ACTUALLY get into the Olympics?

Thanks so much to Ancient + Brave for facilitating this interview and sponsoring this episode. Ancient + Brave is a wellness brand that’s all about supporting your health goals, whether it’s improving your sleep, managing stress or boosting your energy. Ancient + Brave is one of the top-scoring B Corps in the world, and they donate to 1% for the Planet. That means every purchase you make is helping to support both your health and the environment.

Follow Dame Kelly on Instagram @damekellyholmes

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Is It Just Me: The reality of influencer events

Thu, 17 Oct 2024 00:00:01 GMT

This week - Alex has a fresh batch of beef with TikTok for uniniviting her to an event (AGAIN) - so we’ve decided to spill the tea on influencer events... is it all just posing for pics and not speaking to each other?

Em tells us the story of a rental handbag that came with a little extra suprise… and we’re also asking why people at weddings won’t explain the economy to us - and why can't they just print more money?

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The only person that was going to find my cancer was me... with The Titty Gritty

Sun, 13 Oct 2024 23:05:24 GMT

Six years ago, Helen Addis (aka The Titty Gritty) found a lump. Despite having no history of cancer in her family - it was an aggressive form of breast cancer. A week after her diagnosis - she had a masectomy, followed by 18 months of active treatment.

Being well under the screening age, the only person who would have found Helen’s cancer - was Helen.

During her treatment, Helen asked her friends and family if they checked their boobs - and when most of them said no - she made it her mission to spread awareness about checking your breasts. So, she launched the Change+Check campaign - it is a simple sticker which goes on shop and gym changing room mirrors reminding people to check themselves for signs of breast cancer. She also almost got the queen with a pair of boobs on a Royal Mail stamp…

This Breast Cancer Awareness month - Helen is part of a campign to make a life-extending drug called ENHERTU available in England, Wales and Northen Ireland. Despite petitions, protests, campaigns and even government pressure the secondary breast cancer community is being met with constant rejection. They are now fundrasing to raise the legal fees to take legal proceedings to continue the fight for those who need this drug urgently and for the thousands upon thousands who will need it in months and years to come. You can read more about the campaign - and donate here

You can stream and buy Love Is All Around with Marti Pellow and The Change+Check Choir here!

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Is It Just Me: Would you try rejection therapy?

Wed, 09 Oct 2024 23:05:52 GMT

On today’s podcast we have a live unboxing… is this the beginning of our new career as ASMR-tists?

Alex also has a theory about drinking water… is it all just a conspiracy? We also take a mildly horrifying look at our average step counts and we delve into the world of rejection therapy.

Em’s also had a DM saying that everything was better in our grandparents’ days. Could that possibly true and would we survive in a world without tuna baguettes?

If you have an Is It Just Me for us - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com!

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The DM that ended my engagement… with Michelle Elman

Sun, 06 Oct 2024 23:05:17 GMT

If you’re dating, if you’re dealing with a difficult break up or if you just need a postive spin on a tough situation - this is the episode for you.

The brilliant life coach, activist and author Michelle Elman joins Em and Alex in the studio today - to speak candidly about her engagement ending earlier this year, and how she’s thrived in the subsequent months.

One Instagram DM completely changed the course of Michelle's life - but she tells us why she chose forgiveness, why she started sharing that she was dating this summer, and how that has helped her to heal.

Follow Michelle on Instagram @michelleelman

Michelle’s podcast In All Honesty is available on all podcast platforms

You can get your copy of Michelle’s book The Selfish Romantic here and you can pre-order Bad Friend now!

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Is It Just Me: We’ve been stood up!

Wed, 02 Oct 2024 23:05:11 GMT

Sooooo, we got stood up by a guest. Will it lead to a negative thought spiral? We’re about to find out!

Em has a cringe wedding-related IIJM for us and we also attempt to unpack why pregnant women who cheat on their partners are treated differently to men who chat on their pregnant partners.

Meanwhile - we’re back on the Housewives… and we find out about Em’s longest relationship… with a man called Gary.

If you have any thoughts, feelings, suggestions or people who you are desperate for us to talk to for our upcoming series on diet culture - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com!

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Pulling yourself out of a negative spiral… with Jacqueline Hurst

Sun, 29 Sep 2024 23:05:01 GMT

Alex is away this week - so Em has invited life coach, author, columnist and friend of the podcast Jacqueline Hurst into the studio for a bit of a therapy session... and we think it's well needed!

Jacqueline shares some of her practical steps and ways in which we can change our thought patterns when we are entering a negative thought spiral. She also answers some of your questions about self-worth and feeling like we are a burden to others.

For more of Jacqueline’s wisdom, you can follow her on Instagram @jacqueline_hurst_

You can get your copy Jacqueline's book How To Do You here!

And find out more about The Life Class here

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Is It Just Me: Can you disagree on politics and still be friends?

Wed, 25 Sep 2024 23:05:46 GMT

Get ready to be fired up because today we’re bringing you an accidentally ragey episode - it's time to read the Daily Mail Showbiz section together…

We’re also asking if pregnant women should be showing off their bumps more in public, and whether you can be friends with someone you disagree with politically.

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Life as a Woman in the British Army

Sun, 22 Sep 2024 23:24:13 GMT

TW: sexual assault, rape, suicide

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Gemma Morgan. When Gemma joined the Army, she discovered very quickly how she had to behave as a woman to get by: prove your strength by pushing yourself harder than you ever thought possible, but ensure you act small enough so you don't step on the toes of your male counterparts. This balancing act proved near impossible under the weight of oppressive misogyny deeply entrenched within the structure of the British Armed Forces, where razors were supplied for men to shape their facial hair while sanitary products for her and others that needed them weren't even a consideration. Gemma's Army career didn't go to plan, with trauma, abuse and PTSD all featuring in her story. She explains how she went from outstanding soldier to suffering a near-fatal mental health crisis, and why she is now demanding change. Gemma found help and hope, and wants to show others that they can too.

If you have been affected by any topics in this episode, or you want to talk to someone, you can call the Samaritans free, anytime, at 116 123

If you are a member of the Armed Forces community and you need help, you can call Help For Heroes weekdays 9-5 on 0300 303 9888 you can also submit a form anytime at https://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/application/

You can buy Gemma's book, Pink Camouflage, here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Pink-Camouflage-soldiers-resilience-leadership/dp/1804251232

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Is It Just Me: My bumhole's not my business

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 23:55:15 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss some hilarious awkwards one unfortunate listener has sent in, whether you should declare the state of your bumhole when you get a wax and how to know if your husband's having an affair with a peach...

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The Magic of Marian Keyes

Sun, 15 Sep 2024 23:32:55 GMT

It is a HUGE day for the podcast... the girls are joined by Em's hero: Marian Keyes! A woman who needs little introduction, Marian is one of the most successful Irish novelists of all time. She released her debut novel, Watermelon, almost thirty years ago, after embarking on a journey of recovery from alcoholism. She tells the girls how becoming sober helped give her the sense of hope she needed to start writing a novel. She also discusses families, life, and the menopause in this fascinating interview. They say don't meet your heroes, but Em is overjoyed that she did!

You can buy any of Marian's books from her website here: https://www.mariankeyes.com/books/

And listen to her podcast, Now You're Asking, with Tara Flynn

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Is It Just Me: It can't be THAT hard to be a criminal

Wed, 11 Sep 2024 23:19:47 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss drug smugglers, feeling nostalgia and the new potential smoking ban...

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Life as a Female Racing Driver with Abbi Pulling

Sun, 08 Sep 2024 23:23:21 GMT

In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by racing driver, Abbi Pulling. Avid listeners will know how obsessed the girls are with Formula One, so getting Abbi on the pod was a massively exciting day! Abbi talks the girls through her career, the importance of the F1 Academy and how she avoids feeling afraid. She even offers to take a reluctant Alex (Safety Susan according to Em) for a spin!

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Is It Just Me: Taylor Swift vs Queen Elizabeth II

Wed, 04 Sep 2024 23:59:33 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss imaginary children, failed petitions and the world's most famous women...

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How Not to be a Supermodel with Ruth Crilly

Sun, 01 Sep 2024 23:01:17 GMT

In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by influencer, writer and former model Ruth Crilly! Ruth has written a new book called How Not to be a Supermodel, all about her noughties escapades and modelling career. She shares her most glamorous and unglamorous moments, how her body image was impacted by her career and why she didn't make it to supermodel status.

Follow Ruth on Instagram @ruthcrilly and buy her new book How Not to be a Supermodel here: https://geni.us/hownottobeasupermodel

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Is It Just Me: Is being a millenial uncool?

Wed, 28 Aug 2024 23:22:39 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss the backlash to their episode on Blake Lively, what it means to be brat, and that time that Alex got arrested...

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Is Screen Time the Enemy? with Dr Elaine Kasket

Sun, 25 Aug 2024 23:31:10 GMT

In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by cyberpsychologist Dr Elaine Kasket! After discussing the uptake in consistent negativity and hate online, the girls decided they wanted to talk to an expert about what was happening. Elaine's expertise, however, ended up pointing them in an unexpected direction. She shares her thoughts on restricting screen time, limiting social media and online vitriol. The answers may look a little different to what you thought...

You can get Dr Elaine Kasket's book, RESET: Rethinking Your Digital World for a Happier Life, here: https://eandtbooks.com/books/reset/

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Why is Blake Lively being cancelled?

Wed, 21 Aug 2024 23:48:23 GMT

In this week's episode, the girls take a deep dive into the current viral takedown of Blake Lively. They discuss why she is being cancelled, whether she should be and what this means for women in the public eye...

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Why is the World so Tough on Mothers?

Sun, 18 Aug 2024 23:14:15 GMT

This week, Em and Alex are joined by founder of Motherkind, Zoe Blaskey! After a rollercoaster of an email from a listener last week, the girls were feeling a bit deflated. It was beginning to feel like there wasn't enough space to be open about the realities of motherhood, and that it wasn't clear to listeners how happy they were despite finding things hard. This is where Zoe came in to clear things up. Zoe is on a mission to help mothers shift from guilt, exhaustion and comparison to confidence and empowerment. She explains why a mother's instinct isn't innate, what matrescence is and why you shouldn't tell mothers that they will get back to their "old self". This enlightening conversation is for mothers, future mothers, those questioning whether they want to be mothers and those who have decided against parenthood all together!

Follow Zoe @zoeblaskey on Instagram

Buy Zoe's new book Motherkind here: https://beacons.ai/zoeblaskey

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Is It Just Me: Tummy rubbin' and colon strugglin'

Wed, 14 Aug 2024 23:13:54 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex tackle a triggering rollercoaster of a listener email, share some hilarious embarrassing stories and discuss their favourite podcast at the moment...

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I’m More Than ‘Plus-Size’: Callie Thorpe

Sun, 11 Aug 2024 23:46:44 GMT

In this week's podcast, Em and Alex are joined by writer and influencer Callie Thorpe. Callie's content focusses on travel and wellbeing, but it didn't start out this way. Callie is plus-size, and over the years has been scrutinised for her appearance: namely over a 'controversial' Cosmopolitan magazine cover where she was featured. Callie talks about recovering from the backlash of the cover, the fear of letting women down by stepping out of the limelight and how she rebuilt her confidence, brick by brick. Callie explains how she rediscovered herself by living a joyful existence, and why she wants to share this joy online.

Follow Callie on Instagram @calliethorpe

Join Callie's newsletter, Just Good Things, here: https://calliethorpe.substack.com/

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Is It Just Me: Gooch scooch

Wed, 07 Aug 2024 23:46:58 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Alex and Em chat about parasocial relationships, new fears being unlocked and the lack of empathy on the internet...

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Life as a Stripper

Sun, 04 Aug 2024 23:54:43 GMT

In this week's podcast, Em and Alex are joined by journalist, podcast host and stripper, Heidi Holland! Heidi quit her 9-5 to dance in strip clubs and is ready to spill the tea in this episode! She shares her thoughts on the term sex worker, why she's not afraid to take her top off and why she finds being called "sexy" boring. She also dives into what drives men in particular to visit strip clubs, including their desire to open up to someone or become a hero. Alex and Em fired as many thoughts as they could at Heidi, about sex trafficking, her relationship with women and how much money she makes. but with so many more burning questions, stay tuned for a part two!

Follow Heidi's work on Instagram @sexonomic.pod and listen to Sexonomic here: https://taplink.cc/sexonomic

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Is It Just Me: Double standards at the Olympics

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 23:26:24 GMT

TW: sexual abuse, child sexual abuse

In this week's IIJM, Alex and Em chat about letting go of control, managing anxiety and the double standards at the Olympics...

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The Mixed Race Experience with Nicole Ocran and Emma Slade Edmondson

Sun, 28 Jul 2024 23:12:30 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by the hosts of the Mixed Up podcast, Emma Slade Edmondson and Nicole Ocran! Nicole and Emma met back in 2018 and when they started chatting, they realised they had something in common that they hadn't spoken about in depth with even their family before: being mixed-race. After jokingly suggesting that their discussion should be a podcast, they launched the critically acclaimed Mixed Up podcast and have now written a book called The Half of It. In this episode, they discuss the ways in which being mixed-race is misunderstood, why many mixed-race people feel as though they can't comment on race issues, and why no one really discussed identity when they were younger. They also chat about privilege, the complex history of mixed-race people and the stereotypes that are pushed upon them.

Follow Emma on Instagram @emsladedmondson, Nicole @nicoleocran and the Mixed Up podcast @mixedup.podcast

Listen to Mixed Up and order Emma and Nicole's book The Half of It here: https://msha.ke/mixedup

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Is It Just Me: Fuzzy muffs and fart muffles

Wed, 24 Jul 2024 23:50:39 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex join us from their new studio to discuss Em's birthday party, why they might have to swap husbands and the surprising bonus of wearing a thong...

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Em's Pregnancy (!!), Hyperemesis and the Awkward to End All Awkwards

Sun, 21 Jul 2024 23:44:47 GMT

In this week's episode, the girls are in their brand new studio ready to discuss what's been happening with Em over the past few months. She's been growing another baby! As you are probably aware from her last pregnancy, Em suffers with hyperemesis gravidarum (HG), a debilitating, chronic condition caused by a reaction to a particular pregnancy hormone which causes severe nausea, vomiting and dehydration and, in Em's case, can last an entire pregnancy. Em details her experience with HG, the internet's reaction to her announcement and the inevitable, horrendous trolls that emerge when she chose to be vulnerable. To top off the conversation, Em shares the awkward to end all awkwards that she's been holding on to for well over a week now...

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Is It Just Me: Why isn't my friend liking my posts?

Wed, 17 Jul 2024 23:48:44 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss putting your seat back on a flight, how to confront your friends and Dave's new online career...

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Lorna Luxe on marriage, eating disorder recovery & life on Instagram

Sun, 14 Jul 2024 23:38:38 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by OG influencer Lorna Luxe! Lorna's reign on Instagram has long been symbolised by aesthetic perfection, which, as she explains in this conversation, ultimately stems from addictive tendencies. Lorna started as an air hostess, but as her eating disorder began to take over,her ability to work was impacted. Losing the job that was her whole identity meant she had to work out another way to find herself. Lorna talks us through this journey to recovery, all things beauty, ageism, the choice to be child-free and her relationship with Mr Luxe!

Follow Lorna on Instagram @lornaluxe

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Is It Just Me: Am I supposed to be a natural girly?

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 23:27:05 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss separating the art from the artist, staying "natural" and the response to Emma Raducanu's recent dropout...

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The Right to Lose Weight with Billie Bhatia

Sun, 07 Jul 2024 23:36:20 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by journalist Billie Bhatia! Back in February, the Sunday Times published an article written by Billie all about her desire to lose weight and the difficulties she has faced in the process. The girls wanted to talk to Billie and confront their own conflicting feelings and values as they are immersed in an online culture where self acceptance is key. The fear around publishing this episode is that it could trigger listeners, and despite it being purposefully confronting, if you feel the need to skip this episode, do what you need to do! This conversation dives deep into the thin ideal, the fear we have around calories, what it means to be happy and why, exactly, does Billie have the right to lose weight?

Follow Billie on Instagram @billie_bhatia

Listen to Billie and Sasha Pallari's podcast, Spill, here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spill/id1745067669

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Is It Just Me: In another life I'm a political commentator

Wed, 03 Jul 2024 23:35:49 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss today's election, growing older and whether retinol is worth it...

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Casting Bridgerton with Kelly Valentine Hendry

Sun, 30 Jun 2024 23:08:34 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by iconic casting director, Kelly Valentine Hendry! Kelly has cast for, as Alex put it, a shit tonne of stuff, including: Bridgerton, Fleabag, Broadchurch and even High School Musical! Kelly talks the girls through the casting process, how she is planning to make the acting world more inclusive and what it means to be the 'Bridgerton type'. They also discuss the reaction to Nicola Coughlan's infamous Bridgerton sex scene and why we have a long way to go with body diversity on our screens. The girls are obsessed with this peek behind the curtain and they hope you are too!

Follow Kelly's work on Instagram @kvhcasting

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Is It Just Me: I remember when I lost my mind...

Wed, 26 Jun 2024 23:27:18 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss all the cringy things you've all done to impress a crush, the dangers of LinkedIn and the hen parties the girls are organising...

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Model and amputee Sian Lord on resilience, forgiveness and recovery

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 23:49:49 GMT

In today’s episode, Em and Alex are joined by model, motivational speaker and content creator Sian Green-Lord. Sian and Em have paired up with ASICS for their latest campaign, 15 Minute Weight Loss, to remind people of the importance of exercise for their mental health. In 2013, Sian underwent a leg amputation after an accident on holiday. Sian shares how the accident affected her life, her body and her mental health. Sian found that exercise did wonders for her mind, and after feeling like an outsider and an imposter at the gym, she quickly focussed on how much her body was capable of doing. Sian went from hiding herself to proudly displaying her prosthetic leg. The girls even set you some homework at the start of this episode…

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Three Peaks World Record

Sun, 23 Jun 2024 23:27:34 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by world record holder Imogen Boddy! Imogen tackled the 3 Peaks Challenge, but not only that, she ran between every climb and became the fast woman to ever complete it. Over the gruelling six days, five hours and forty-three minutes, Imogen had to combat exhaustion, extreme sleep deprivation and unbelievable swelling. She shares what inspired her to give it a go, and how exactly she managed it.

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Is It Just Me: Swifties & Mammograms

Wed, 19 Jun 2024 23:57:32 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss concerts, saggy boobs and girl code hypotheticals...

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Ask Us Anything! The Big Fat & Awkward Q&A

Sun, 16 Jun 2024 23:17:49 GMT

This week the girls answer your burning questions in an episode they had to re-record after, in true SIDT fashion, deleting the first draft!

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Is It Just Me: Hypnotisation for Organisation

Wed, 12 Jun 2024 23:00:32 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss adults peeing the bed, replying to DMs, and how best to get Em more organised...

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Chessie King: I Chose to Save My Marriage

Sun, 09 Jun 2024 23:03:45 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Chessie King. A few months ago, Chessie shared that her marriage to her husband Mat wasn't all it seemed. Behind closed doors, they'd been struggling, and even contemplating divorce. Once they finally confronted one another though, they decided to build up their relationship, brick by brick, all on the foundations of having fun. Chessie also shares details of Mat's postnatal depression, something that isn't discussed enough in men.

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Is It Just Me: Final Destination

Wed, 05 Jun 2024 23:29:35 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls sift through their junk mail and find your lost messages!

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Life as a Surrogate

Sun, 02 Jun 2024 23:03:28 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Kim, a traditional surrogate who is known online as the Travelling Surrogate. Kim shares her story, which includes two surrogacy journeys thus far, and answers all of the girls' burning questions about the incredible life of a surrogate.

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Is It Just Me: Bum fun air mattress

Wed, 29 May 2024 23:43:06 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex come to you from backstage discuss Al's hand eye coordination, the phrase bum fun and why being a stand up comedian is the bravest job ever...

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Al's Mum on Postnatal Depression, Breastfeeding Struggles & Life with the Lights

Sun, 26 May 2024 23:20:48 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by none other than AL'S MUM! First off, the girls record their GBA from backstage ON TOUR, BABY! Norma and the girls dive deep into her experience of early motherhood, and how she handled 5 girls under 6! They cover it all, from shame and guilt to the freedom and joy of motherhood. This episode is an insight into how to help those who may be struggling in those early days, and if you can relate yourself, see this as a big, warm hug from the gorgeous Norma.

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Is It Just Me: Am I too sensitive?

Wed, 22 May 2024 23:20:01 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex chat tradwives, double-taps on Insta DMs and the death of cancel culture...

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Get Divorced, Be Happy with Helen Thorn

Sun, 19 May 2024 23:33:11 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Scummy Mummy Helen Thorn! Helen had been with her husband for over twenty years when out of the blue, she discovered he'd been having an affair. It was at the start of the pandemic when her life was thrown into chaos and she began her life as a single parent. Helen shares how she harnessed the earth-shattering news to carve out a better life for herself.

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Is It Just Me: WE TAKE IT ALL BACK!!

Wed, 15 May 2024 23:34:57 GMT

Get ready for whiplash... the Is It Just Me's are returning! We heard you, and we listened! Please enjoy this silly episode with chats about penis museums, Snow White and fake bellybuttons. Enjoy!

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Man vs. Bear: Is Misogyny Worse Than Ever?

Sun, 12 May 2024 23:05:42 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Farah Benis, founder of Catcalls of London, a campaign which raises awareness and amplifies stories of public sexual harassment. Following the internet's recent obsession with the man vs bear debate, Farah and the girls delve into one big question: is misogyny worse now than ever?

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Ozempic and the Met Gala

Wed, 08 May 2024 23:55:39 GMT

In this week's Thursday ep, the girls gather your responses to last week's episode and discuss Monday's Met Gala looks.

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Reclaiming Slut with Beth Ashley

Sun, 05 May 2024 23:39:53 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by writer Beth Ashley. They delve into the origins of slutshaming: where it comes from, why we do it and how we should fight it.

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Have We Got the Right to Lose Weight?

Wed, 01 May 2024 23:33:05 GMT

In this week's Thursday ep, the girls discuss the resurgence of skinny culture. They dive into the responsibility of body confidence advocates, whether diet culture is being hidden under the guise of health and if Alex and Em have the right to lose weight and talk about it.

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Why Do We Want to Be Beautiful? with Ellen Atlanta

Sun, 28 Apr 2024 23:52:30 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by writer Ellen Atlanta. They delve into the desire to be beautiful and explore how current toxic beauty standards affect women today.

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Did Em mention that she ran London Marathon….

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 23:28:06 GMT

In this week's bonus episode, Em details her experience of running the London Marathon, and ABSOLUTELY SMASHING IT!

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A real-life Magic Mike: Jake Brewer

Sun, 21 Apr 2024 23:56:55 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by a real-life Magic Mike... Jake Brewer! Jake has been a member of the MAGIC MIKE LIVE cast since it first premiered on the London stage. Jake shares his thoughts on body image, the pressures of his role and why he very nearly declined the Magic Mike audition.

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Is It Just Me: Loo fresh disc

Wed, 17 Apr 2024 23:04:23 GMT

In this week's IIJM the girls talk nuggets, moral quandaries and Bridget Jones...

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Bryony Gordon on being a Mad Woman

Sun, 14 Apr 2024 23:46:21 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Bryony Gordon! Bryony was a guest on the podcast way back in its early days and she is back to tell the girls all about her new book, Mad Woman. Detailing her experience of various mental health illnesses, Bryony shares how she navigates a world that doesn't encourage self acceptance.

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Why is Everyone Laughing at Jojo Siwa?

Wed, 10 Apr 2024 23:33:12 GMT

In this week's IIJM the girls break down Karma, Jojo Siwa's brand new single, and all of the backlash that she has faced because of it...

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Jacq's Back for ANOTHER Live Therapy Session!

Sun, 07 Apr 2024 23:05:35 GMT

Thank God Jacq is back! The girls have been going through it and NEEDED life coach and #1 selling author Jaqueline Hurst back on the pod. Jacqueline talks about the power of choice, tackling feelings of overwhelm and how good enough, is good enough.

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Is It Just Me: I wanna lick the wall

Wed, 03 Apr 2024 23:46:08 GMT

In this week's IIJM the girls talk poached eggs, marriage and Elvis...

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Send Nudes with Sophie Tea

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 23:30:44 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by artist Sophie Tea! Sophie's career began 10 years ago, she was backpacking and ran out of money so offered painting services to a hostel in order to cover her stay. This flipped a switch for her: she left her job back home and decided that she was going to pursue a career in art. Sophie shares her journey from having her bank card declined at the post office to having her work in the National Portrait Gallery. Her main inspiration is women and their power, and she wants to share the magic that happens when women come together.

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Is It Just Me: Pudding rice

Thu, 28 Mar 2024 00:38:07 GMT

Al is back for her first IIJM post-partum and the girls get straight to it with chats about cocktail tinnies, St Patrick's Day and dead caterpillars...

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Back Together with Big News!

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 01:00:37 GMT

Alex is back! Listen for huge news, massive updates and all of the baby Tommy updates!

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Elbows Out, Take Up Space with Nadiya Hussain

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 00:49:51 GMT

This week on the podcast the girls are joined by none other than Bake Off legend Nadiya Hussain. Nadiya talks about her lifelong journey with anxiety, how Bake Off changed her life (not always for the better) and the advice she gives to her children.

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Is It Just Me: Cake gives me the willies

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 00:47:34 GMT

Kat is back for this week's IIJM answering your all your questions, from sisterhood to tattoos to Ozempic...

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Hurt to Healing with Pandora Morris

Mon, 11 Mar 2024 00:04:57 GMT

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by Pandora Morris. Pandora struggled with her mental health from a very young age, which manifested in OCD and eating disorders working in tandem to make her life almost impossible. Now on her recovery journey, Pandora shares her story from breaking out of school to crossing the border in Mexico to the US to seek medical assistance during lockdown.

You can listen to Pandora's podcast Hurt to Healing here: https://www.hurttohealing.co.uk/podcast or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Is It Just Me: Millennial vs Gen Z

Thu, 07 Mar 2024 00:16:36 GMT

In this week's IIJM, Em is joined by the legendary Katya, SIDT Live's resident storyteller and Em's sister. They discuss what it means to come from different generations...

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Supermodel: Jodie Kidd

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 00:37:19 GMT

This week on the pod, Em and Al are joined by former model, horse rider, polo player, racing driver and pub landlady Jodie Kidd! She does it all! After knowing Jodie for a lot of her life, Em wanted to ask questions she'd never asked her before. Jodie takes us back to the 90s and 00s and shares what it was really like to be a supermodel, and why, despite being successful, she gave it all up.

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Is It Just Me: Puppies and pickles

Thu, 29 Feb 2024 00:44:57 GMT

On this week's special IIJM, Em attempts to rile up Georgie...

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Everyday Racism

Mon, 26 Feb 2024 00:12:58 GMT

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by Naomi Evans, one half of the Instagram account Everyday Racism. Naomi and Natalie are award-winning writers, educators, speakers and sisters! Naomi talks us through how Everyday Racism came to be, why the school curriculum needs to be updated and why the UK is so reluctant to admit it has a racism problem.

You can follow Naomi and Natalie on Instagram @everydayracism_

You can purchase The Mixed Race Experience here, Everyday Action Everyday Change here, and if you want more details on the Anti-Racist School course, you can find them at https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-anti-racist-school-tickets-314601470467?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=escb

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Is It Just Me: Pamplemousse

Thu, 22 Feb 2024 00:53:14 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss thongs, swingers and pineapples...

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Surviving Playboy with Crystal Hefner

Mon, 19 Feb 2024 00:24:00 GMT

This week on the pod, Em is joined by the incredible Crystal Hefner. Crystal met Hugh Hefner, who was 60 years her senior, when she was 21 years old. Quickly, she became one of his girlfriends and a few years later went on to marry him. The Playboy Mansion became a location for abuse: physical, financial and emotional. Crystal reveals what really happened, why she married Hef and asks, why did no one stop him?

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Is It Just Me: The Mannersphere

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 00:41:05 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss manners, parenting styles and the patriarchy...

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The Science of Finding Love

Mon, 12 Feb 2024 00:38:14 GMT

This week on the pod, the girls are joined by the newly coronated (by Em) Queen of Dating, Logan Ury! Logan is Hinge’s director of relationship science and is here to impart all of her dating wisdom. She talks through attachment styles, the problems with modern dating and why you should let go of the ick…

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Is It Just Me: Put your bum away

Thu, 08 Feb 2024 00:58:31 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss people pleasing, falling out of love and watering your grass...

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Period Power with Maisie Hill

Mon, 05 Feb 2024 00:31:05 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by author of Period Power, Maisie Hill. Ever since her period began, Maisie experienced debilitating pain when bleeding. After fifteen years of pain, she tried everything she could to relieve it and find answers. One day, she realised she could address more than just her physical symptoms, and began to explore the ways her emotions and mental health affected her during this time. She was finally able to deal with her period pain, and was inspired to teach others how to do the same.

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You can buy her books Period Power here and Perimenopause Power here

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Is It Just Me: "Grating your fingings"

Thu, 01 Feb 2024 00:14:13 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls explore more of your intrusive thoughts, the benefits of screaming and Em's lack of impulse control...

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The Story of The One Armed Wonder

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 00:10:40 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Dan Richards AKA The One Armed Wonder. Em met Dan back in 2016 during a cycling event for Help For Heroes. Em was so moved by his story that she asked him to come onto the podcast to share it. Dan was in a motorcycle accident which flipped his world upside down. He was kicked out of the armed forces, couldn't get a job and ended up living at his parents with only 15p to his name. Dan shares how, through determination and self belief, he changed his life and became the man he is today.

If you are affected by any of the topics discussed in today's episode, you can call the Samaritans on 116 123.

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Is It Just Me: Intrusive thoughts

Thu, 25 Jan 2024 00:18:30 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss deleted texts, your intrusive thoughts and the BEST advice Alex has ever received...

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Building Yourself Back Up with Kaz Crossley

Mon, 22 Jan 2024 00:48:25 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by former Love Islander Kaz Crossley! Kaz's empathy and passion really stood out throughout this recording, making her such an endearing guest. Kaz was embroiled in an incredibly public scandal which saw her detained at an Abu Dhabi airport on suspicion of drug offences. She explains how this incident effected her, and why she continues to harness her social media platform to help disadvantaged people. Kaz has a deep love for Muay Thai and has made it her mission to empower women through the sport.

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Is It Just Me: Holophobia

Thu, 18 Jan 2024 00:25:39 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls continue their exploration of intimate things, discuss phobias and the size of the ocean...

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Crisis: Lessons from a Hostage Negotiator

Mon, 15 Jan 2024 00:13:56 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by crisis and hostage negotiator Nicky Perfect. After working in the Met Police for over two decades, it was recommended that Nicky try negotiating. She quickly realised it was her calling, and something she wanted to do for the rest of her career.

Nicky's day-to-day life as a crisis and hostage negotiator was adrenaline fuelled: she was constantly dealing with people at breaking point and immersed in life-or-death situations, such as terrorist incidents and kidnappings.

On this episode, Nicky shares her proudest moments, toughest negotiations, and biggest mistakes. She also explains why empathy is the most important factor in defusing highly volatile situations.

You can purchase Nicky's book, Crisis, here

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Is It Just Me: Intimate things that shouldn't be intimate

Thu, 11 Jan 2024 00:53:53 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss things that aren't intimate but feel really intimate...

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Sober Awkward

Mon, 08 Jan 2024 00:31:50 GMT

As we welcome in the new year, many of you will be dabbling with sobriety through Dry January. It can feel like the perfect antidote to a heavy month of boozing and indulging over the festive period, but how many of us actually consider why we drink? Sober Awkward is a podcast run by sober pals Victoria Vanstone and Hamish Adams-Cairns, and they join Alex and Em to discuss what it really feels like to be sober and why they were both compelled to do it. They share the best things and worst things about being sober, and how to tell people to just f**k off when you need to...

You can listen to Sober Awkward here or follow them on Instagram @soberawkward

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Is It Just Me: Is this a personal attack?

Thu, 04 Jan 2024 00:20:40 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls dissect a list of things that should be left behind in 2023, and they disagree with quite a few...

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2023 Round Up!

Mon, 01 Jan 2024 00:24:54 GMT

Happy New Year! As per annual tradition, Em and Alex present to you a round up of the year, featuring chats about Gwyneth Paltrow's court case, the missing submersible, Blue Ivy's dancing, Russell Brand's expose and much much more...

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Is It Just Me: The Christmas Gooch

Thu, 28 Dec 2023 00:49:27 GMT

In this festive IIJM special, the girls discuss their Christmas traditions, dealing with difficult expectations and how self-care routines go out the window...

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The Best of 2023!

Mon, 25 Dec 2023 00:16:45 GMT

Merry Christmas everyone! As our festive gift to you, we have collated our best moments of 2023. You will hear from top guests Milly Pickles, Jacqueline Hurst, Emma the Embryologist, Em's Mum, Tess Holliday, Sarah de Lagarde, Andrea Cheong and Dr Amanda Brown. Cue unheard moments, wisdom, laughs and burps...

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Is It Just Me: Mr & Mrs with girl Dave and boy Alex

Thu, 21 Dec 2023 00:29:51 GMT

For this IIJM, Alex and Dave rejoin Alex and Em to play Mr & Mrs (albeit incorrectly). Get ready to hear even more wild quirks and strange habits, cue plastic bag straggles...

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The Husbands of SIDT Q&A

Mon, 18 Dec 2023 00:54:33 GMT

This week on the pod, the girls are joined by their husbands, Alex and Dave! They answer all your questions about each other, their relationships, their icks and their bad habits. Dave is perpetually confused.

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Is It Just Me: No plates!

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 00:22:06 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss blue sweets, trigger warnings and laser tag...

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TMI with Laura Henshaw

Mon, 11 Dec 2023 00:32:53 GMT

This week on the pod, the girls are joined by co-founder and CEO of Kic, Laura Henshaw! Laura was over from Australia on a whistle-stop visit and tried to book in a coffee with Em, who convinced her to come on the pod instead. With no real plan, this episode turned out to be a chaotic, fun-filled ride all about hygeine, puddles and diet culture.

You can follow Laura on Instagram @laura.henshaw and her work with Kic over at @kic.app

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Is It Just Me: I'd rather be an ape

Thu, 07 Dec 2023 00:11:03 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss being too selfless, printing money and appendicitis in Antarctica...

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Leanne Pero on Creating the Community She Needed

Mon, 04 Dec 2023 00:40:25 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Al are joined by founder of Black Women Rising, Leanne Pero MBE! Leanne is a Social Entrepreneur, Author, Speaker, Breast Cancer Survivor. She shares her story with us today: from childhood trauma and entrepreneurship, to a cancer diagnosis and finding herself again.

Follow Leanne on Instagram @leanneperoofficial and Black Women Rising @blackwomenrisinguk

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Is It Just Me: The Feral and The Beautiful

Thu, 30 Nov 2023 00:20:59 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss Em's new look, weighing yourself and looking silly in public...

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Talking Taboo with Ruby Rare

Mon, 27 Nov 2023 00:30:50 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Al are joined by sex and relationships expert, author and presenter Ruby Rare! In this episode, Ruby and the girls steer away from sex-only chats to delve into relationships. They discuss navigating porn, cheating, solo sex and life drawing.

You can follow Ruby on Instagram @rubyrare

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Is It Just Me: Where are they all

Thu, 23 Nov 2023 00:58:11 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss bridesmaid woes, Hailey Bieber's arms and vaginal steaming...

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The Prison Doctor: meet Amanda Brown

Mon, 20 Nov 2023 00:55:37 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by Dr Amanda Brown. Twenty years ago, Amanda was content working as a GP at a quiet, suburban family practice, with many patients she'd seen throughout their entire lives. One day, after a shock meeting, she decided to leave the practice with no idea what was coming next. Out of the blue, she was asked if she wanted to take a shift at a prison. Despite never even thinking doctors worked in prisons, Amanda went on to have the most fulfilling years in her career as a prison doctor. She worked in both men's and women's prisons and talks us through their differences. She also shares why women are being failed in the prison system and how she only ever once had to ring the panic button.

You can purchase Amanda's books The Prison Doctor, Women Inside and The Final Sentence here

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Is It Just Me: The wheels on the boat

Thu, 16 Nov 2023 00:57:57 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss minor and mundane things that are SO annoying: the wind, airpod connection and tangles of all kinds...

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Addiction: Opening Up the Conversation

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 00:45:57 GMT

This week, Em and Al are joined by Issy Hawkins. Issy came onto Em's radar after the recent passing of Matthew Perry, who famously struggled with addiction issues his whole life. Issy went into recovery at the age of 21 for alcohol addiction after her life tumbled down around her. Issy breaks stereotypes around addiction and alcoholism with her honesty and vulnerability every day online. You can check out her TikTok and Instagram @issyhawkins_

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Is It Just Me: Breastfeeding in the main hall

Thu, 09 Nov 2023 00:28:27 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss more auto-correct fails, out of context willies and mums that overstep boundaries...

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My big boobs with Jackie Adedeji

Mon, 06 Nov 2023 00:58:37 GMT

This week on the pod, Em and Alex are joined by the brilliant Jackie Adedeji. When Jackie was 11, she woke up to find she had FF cup boobs. She was unable to do the things her peers around her were doing, limited by the size of her breasts. Jackie was shamed into feeling as though her breasts made her a burden, and strongly considered getting a breast reduction. However, she decided practiced body neutrality as a stepping stone towards self acceptance. Jackie is now thriving, but it isn't always easy. Her energy is joyous, and you can follow her on Instagram @ohmygoshitsjackie or check out her Channel 4 documentary here: https://www.channel4.com/programmes/my-big-boobs-untold/on-demand/74692-001

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Is It Just Me: My wife is down!

Thu, 02 Nov 2023 00:21:05 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss homework, Em's granny and auto-correct mishaps.

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Demystifying Fertility with Emma the Embryologist

Mon, 30 Oct 2023 00:43:48 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Al are joined by embryologist and lab technician at the Evewell Clinic, Emma The Embryologist! Emma's mission is to reduce fertility journey anxiety. Alex met Emma during her own fertility journey, and wanted to get her on the pod to demystify common misunderstandings around fertility. She discusses eggs, sperm, discharge, and stresses that there is no such thing as a fertility cliff.

Follow Emma on Instagram @emmatheembryologist

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Is It Just Me: Canine conundrum

Wed, 25 Oct 2023 23:03:29 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss the illuminati, supermarket conveyor belts and coping with a new puppy...

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"I went on 28 dates in 28 days!"

Sun, 22 Oct 2023 23:51:26 GMT

Marin was tired of being in a dating rut. Dating toxic co-workers, rehashing old patterns, she decided to take action. In the month of love, February, she undertook a challenge: to go on a date every single day. She went on 28 dates in 28 days, and as she shared her challenge on socials, it went viral. She shares how she did it and what she learnt along the way. She talks splitting bills, the pink tax and waiting 90 days before having sex...

You can follow Marin on Instagram @lifeofmarinnyc

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Is It Just Me: Whale fart bubbles

Wed, 18 Oct 2023 23:10:29 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss more TikTok wisdom, friendship breakups and the human body...

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Your Skincare Questions Answered with Dr Alexis Granite

Sun, 15 Oct 2023 23:26:26 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by consultant dermatologist Dr Alexis Granite. She answers all of your questions about skincare: from filler to acne and pimple popping to verrucas! Alexis breaks down what we really need to maintain healthy skin, and how to get a routine you can really stick to.

You can follow Alexis on Instagram @DrAlexisGranite

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Is It Just Me: The opposite of whelmed is crossfit

Wed, 11 Oct 2023 23:17:57 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss crossfit, slides and just wanting to be whelmed...

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Milly Pickles: World Record Holder

Sun, 08 Oct 2023 23:42:35 GMT

This week, the girls are joined by Milly Pickles! Milly is an online fitness coach, amputee, electrocution survivor and world record holder. After an accident six years ago that almost took her life, Milly had to have one of her legs amputated. She embraced her survival by living life like never before: she blazed through physiotherapy to get back to work, got a first in her degree, became a world record holder as the first amputee to complete the Red Bull 400 and learnt to never accept bullshit in her love life. Milly's fierce can-do attitude is iconic, and we can't wait to see what she gets up to next.

Follow Milly on Instagram @millypickles

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Is It Just Me: Just suck it up!

Wed, 04 Oct 2023 23:37:01 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls decipher internet behaviour: people being judgmental, passive aggressive and outright mean online...

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Including The Curve with Felicity Hayward

Sun, 01 Oct 2023 23:59:39 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by model Felicity Hayward! Over the course of Felicity's twelve-year modelling career, she started noticing that although brands wanted to use her to represent plus-sized people, they weren't actually increasing the sizing range of their clothing or making their products more accessible for larger people. Tired of being used as a gimmick to boost brands' false facade of inclusivity, Felicity invented the hashtag #IncludingTheCurve to shine a light on authentically inclusive brands and designers. Keen to make a long-term impact on the fashion industry, Felicity has continued to analyse every single show at every fashion week, persisting in her mission to discover who is and isn't making real changes. Felicity dives deep with the girls about the realities of modelling, her love of fashion and why she boycotted the British Fashion Awards...

Follow Felicity on Instagram @felicityhayward

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Is It Just Me: Consent, wokeness and Russell Brand

Wed, 27 Sep 2023 23:23:25 GMT

This week's Is It Just Me is a little different... Due to popular demand, Em and Al take a deep dive into the reaction to the recent accusations surrounding Russell Brand. This episode contains discussions of sexual assault.

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Why don't I have anything to wear? with Andrea Cheong

Sun, 24 Sep 2023 23:11:17 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by fashion educator Andrea Cheong. Andrea founded the Mindful Monday Method on Instagram to challenge consumers to consider whether what they are buying is actually worth their money. Andrea teaches her audience how to look for quality, value and sustainable practices when it comes to clothing and accessories. On this episode, she demonstrates how to successfully clear out your wardrobe, examine brands and understand your own personal fashion needs.

You can explore Andrea’s methods further through her book: Why Don’t I Have Anything To Wear? available here: https://geni.us/AndreaCheongBook

Follow Andrea on Instagram @andreacheong_

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Is It Just Me: Finn Germy

Wed, 20 Sep 2023 23:38:46 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls chat lifts, wind and washing your feet in acid...

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Em's Mum: 10-time Ironman and Queen of Having a Go

Sun, 17 Sep 2023 23:04:57 GMT

Today, we share one of our most highly requested episodes. It’s an interview with Em’s Mum! Having favoured smoking and drinking over exercise her entire life, Francie was given the opportunity to partake in an Ironman and said yes… without knowing what it actually was. An Ironman is a gruelling triathlon that consists of a 2.4-mile swim, a 112-mile bicycle ride and a marathon. Yep, a 26.2 mile run ON TOP of all that. Francie’s can-do attitude and endless hard work pushed her to compete in 10 Ironmans over the course of her 50s. Francie takes us through her extraordinary journey, how she still experiences imposter syndrome and you will see why Em is her number one fan (soon you will be too)!

Don't forget to check out The Hags @thehaveagos

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Is It Just Me: Catching deer is a lot of drama

Wed, 13 Sep 2023 23:01:29 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls chat ice baths, bare bums and the downstairs loo...

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Al's having a baby!

Sun, 10 Sep 2023 23:43:39 GMT

Our Alex is pregnant! To celebrate, Em and Al have a gorgeous solo episode to share, where they answer your questions (pretty much every single one was baby related) and have a general catch up. Not one to miss!

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Is It Just Me: I'm going home to Take That

Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:43:55 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls chat boybands, reverse parking and Taylor Swift...

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Why criticism doesn't exist with Jacqueline Hurst

Sun, 03 Sep 2023 23:25:13 GMT

Jacq is BACK! With as many truth bombs as ever and more wisdom to impart on the listeners who sent in questions. She tells you how to avoid waiting for him to text you back, how to trust your gut and how to ignore the naysayers…

You can follow Jacqueline on Instagram @jacqueline_hurst_

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Is It Just Me: Betty ≠ Julie's children

Wed, 30 Aug 2023 23:08:34 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls deep dive into dogs, babies, and whether people should call their dogs their babies...

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The evolution of Vicky Pattison

Sun, 27 Aug 2023 22:31:20 GMT

This week on the pod, Em and Al are joined by the one and only Vicky Pattison! This interview has been a long time coming, and boy, do they cover everything: Geordie Shore, body image, being in the public eye, challenging expectations, egg freezing, success, love and self worth. Vicky’s journey to a happy and healthy life came with huge leaps, many sacrifies, and a whole lot of judgement, but she wouldn’t have it any other way. Her positive energy radiates throughout this episode and it was a joy to have her on the podcast.

You can follow Vicky on Instagram @vickypattison

And listen to her podcast, The Secret To, here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/vicky-pattison-the-secret-to/id1510516160

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Is It Just Me: Suntanned raisin

Wed, 23 Aug 2023 23:35:06 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls talk running, waxing and christianity...

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Being a good person with Alice Liveing

Sun, 20 Aug 2023 23:50:02 GMT

This week, Em and Alex are joined by personal trainer and OG Instagram influencer Alice Liveing. When Alice started using social media, the support and praise she received from the online world kept her afloat; but soon, her desire for virtual validation had become all-encompassing, and she realised it was preventing her from truly knowing herself. She knew she needed to accept her whole self, and this meant accepting that she wasn’t perfect. She and the girls discuss how little space is given to existing imperfectly online. Alice also shares her heartbreaking experience of living through an abusive relationship. If you or someone you know are affected by any of the topics discussed in this podcast, you can check out Women’s Aid at https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ or Refuge at https://refuge.org.uk/ or call the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247

Follow Alice on Instagram @aliceliveing

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: You can do it on my iPad 💩

Wed, 16 Aug 2023 23:47:43 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls dive deep into the questions of the universe: why haven't we been back to the moon? Where does all the poo go? Why are all the cemeteries full? How do you become an air-traffic controller? How many people in the world are having blow jobs right now?

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The Infertile Midwife

Sun, 13 Aug 2023 23:48:56 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by Sophie Martin, AKA The Infertile Midwife. After getting married and settling down, Sophie and her husband decided they wanted to have a baby. After years of trying, and spending all their savings on IVF, Sophie’s hope was waning, and all the while she was surrounded with new mothers and babies every single day at work. Sophie shares all the trials and tribulations in her pursuit of motherhood, the indescribable highs and heartbreaking lows. This episode contains discussions of baby loss, so please listen with caution.

You can pre-order Sophie’s memoir here: https://geni.us/theinfertilemidwife

And follow Sophie on Instagram @the.infertile.midwife

Sands Support: https://www.sands.org.uk/

Dad Still Standing: https://www.dadstillstanding.com/

The Miscarriage Association: https://www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/

Get A Life: His & Hers Survival Guide to IVF: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Get-Life-Hers-Survival-Guide/dp/1409155013

The Fertility Network: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/

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Is It Just Me: Hetero chocolates

Wed, 09 Aug 2023 23:38:54 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls talk dad bods, worms and chocolate...

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Nudity, masturbation and dancing with Imogen Ivy

Sun, 06 Aug 2023 23:01:43 GMT

In this week’s episode Em and Al are joined in the studio by Imogen Ivy. Self proclaimed ‘Aussie Cowgirl in London’ Imogen came to London as a documentary maker ended up being scouted as a model. Promoting body neutrality, Imogen has done campaigns for Superdrug and Pretty Little Thing.

Imogen talks about how she grew up in a nudist household in Australia, and how her parents promoted open communication and healthy mental and physical health.

Follow Imogen on Instagram @imogenfkingivy

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Produced by Daisy Grant & edited by Hattie Moir

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Just don't get a spray tan

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 23:08:11 GMT

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss the perils of micellar water, spray tans and building sites...

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Stalking: How romantic comedies have deceived us

Sun, 30 Jul 2023 23:30:10 GMT

This week, Em and Alex are bringing you a special episode in collaboration with the Gloucestershire Police, to highlight their new campaign all about stalking. This episode shows how to look out for signs of stalking and what to do if you, or a loved one, is affected by stalking. Em opens up about her experience with a stalker when she was younger and how it has impacted her life, ‘Maddy’ details her frightening story of her dangerous and obsessive ex-partner, Sophie Jarrett explains the importance of the campaign and finally, Sarah Louise from the Suzy Lamplugh trust joins us to show how we can support victims.

For more details on the Gloucestershire Constabulary’s stalking campaign, follow this link: https://bit.ly/GC-Talking-Stalking there you will find helpful tips to identify stalking behaviours

For further support, you can visit the Suzy Lamplugh Trust here: https://www.suzylamplugh.org/

Or call the National Stalking Helpline at 0808 802 0300

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Is It Just Me: Strap down your plums

Wed, 26 Jul 2023 23:35:19 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss why you shouldn't compare your life to others and how to avoid a traumatic brain injury...

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Sex work, kinks and fetishes with Reed Amber

Sun, 23 Jul 2023 23:42:01 GMT

This week, we bring back one of our most popular guests of all time, sexpert and co-creator of Come Curious, Reed Amber! Reed is back to answer your questions on dirty talk, anal play and shame. Reed also shares how she got into the world of sex work and what it's like to be censored online, and she opens up about her own fetish...

Follow Reed on Instagram @reedamberx

Follow Come Curious on Instagram @comecurious

Buy Florence's book This Book Will Make You Feel Something here: https://geni.us/thisbookwill

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Is It Just Me: TWENNYNINE!

Wed, 19 Jul 2023 23:30:07 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls talk Grey's Anatomy, wedgies and Em's scooter skillz...

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Sentimental Garbage with Caroline O'Donoghue

Sun, 16 Jul 2023 23:59:53 GMT

This week on the pod, Em and Al talk all things pop culture with Caroline O'Donoghue, author and host of the incredible podcast Sentimental Garbage. They discuss why women’s interests are devalued in society and why, artistically, women’s work is taken less seriously than men’s. They deep dive into the death of romcoms, the 2010s and Leonardo DiCaprio’s taste in women…

Follow Caroline on Instagram @czaronline

Buy Caroline's latest book here: https://store.virago.co.uk/products/the-rachel-incident

Listen to Sentimental Garbage here: https://open.spotify.com/show/6w97FzDaRfaE4jWz98npWQ?si=74a1e6b14b0548af

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Is It Just Me: Are we all dieting our personalities?

Wed, 12 Jul 2023 23:42:59 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls chat about being too much, super bendy and overreactive...

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The truth behind Married at First Sight

Sun, 09 Jul 2023 23:30:35 GMT

TW: Suicide

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Married at First Sight UK contestant Gemma Rose Barnes. Gemma wanted the perfect partner to complete her life, and so she signed up to MAFS in the belief that she was going to find just that, even getting a tattoo in honour of this man who she hadn’t met yet. She ended up becoming a controversial figure on MAFS due to her willingness to make crude jokes and openly talk about sex. She shares that her words were edited and taken out of context, and that her new husband’s keenness was edited out all together. Gemma experienced various mental health and addiction struggles, exacerbated due to the show, and had to make a change. Now sober, Gemma shares the reality behind this “reality” TV show, and how we as viewers need to take a more discerning attitude towards it.

EDIT- A Channel 4 Spokesperson said: "Contributor care and wellbeing is of paramount importance and appropriate support is available to contributors before, during and after broadcast. Any concerns raised by contributors about safety would always be taken extremely seriously and we would take prompt and appropriate action when needed. Any action taken would always be agreed with the cast members involved to ensure they were satisfied with the resolution and outcome. Contributors are able to leave the process at any time. During filming, alcohol consumption is at the discretion of individuals, but it is monitored and limited by the production team and contributor welfare is always prioritised. All broadcast episodes of MAFS U.K. are a fair and accurate reflection of the events that took place."

Follow Gemma on Instagram @reallifeofgemrose

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Is It Just Me: Picklewinkers

Wed, 05 Jul 2023 23:47:34 GMT

In this week's very phallic IIJM, the girls discuss the male anatomy, Al's hypothetical boner and we are joined by our resident penis...

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We need to talk about the housing crisis with Kwajo

Sun, 02 Jul 2023 23:14:15 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by social housing activist Kwajo Tweneboa. Kwajo grew up in social housing, and his family were housed in inhabitable conditions: unsafe spaces riddled with mould, cockroaches, mice, leaks and damp. Kwajo’s father was diagnosed with cancer and, whilst being nursed in this environment, passed away from his illness. After receiving little to no help in making their home habitable, Kwajo decided enough was enough, and gathered evidence from over 500 tenants that lived on his estate; this enabled them to shame their housing association into finally carrying out the works that were needed. From there, Kwajo has been continuing the fight, shaming landlords and housing associations across the UK into providing safe, sanitary homes for all.

Follow Kwajo on Instagram and Twitter @kwajohousing

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Do lemons cure anxiety?

Wed, 28 Jun 2023 23:09:34 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss emergencies abroad, body conscious therapy and buying loo roll...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Q&A with The Sex Doctor

Sun, 25 Jun 2023 23:29:14 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by Dr Karen Gurney AKA The Sex Doctor on Instagram. She answers your questions about mismatched libidos to waning desire, and enlightens us with a few new terms – blue labia, for example!

Follow Karen @thesexdoctor on Instagram

Buy Karen’s book, Mind the Gap, here

Free resources to improve your sex life: https://thehavelockclinic.com/resources/

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: I'm gonna get a big Thai

Wed, 21 Jun 2023 23:56:45 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss loggy logs, staring at the dentist and refusing chivalry...

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Life after cancer with Georgie Swallow

Mon, 19 Jun 2023 06:15:38 GMT

This week, the girls are joined by creator, cancer survivor and close friend Georgie Swallow. At 26, Georgie was diagnosed with stage 4 Hodgkin Lymphoma. Without any time to think, she had to jump into chemotherapy to save her life. The only way to get through the exhausting and devastating process was to remain positive and power through. Now, after a second diagnosis and treatment, Georgie is living life at her healthiest. However, this doesn’t mean that cancer doesn’t still cause her daily issues. From infertility to gut health issues, Georgie marches through each day, and as the girls say, all while exuding sunshine. Georgie uses her platform to spread joy, body confidence and share what life is like after cancer.

Follow Georgie on Instagram @georgieeswallow

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Laughed at a funeral

Wed, 14 Jun 2023 23:10:50 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss their dream homes, the embarrassment of treading water and answer a listener's question about death (promise they get into it once they got the uncomfortable giggles out of the way!)

Megan Rose Lane's book recommendation on the subject is Dying to be Me by Anita Moorjani

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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90210 and beyond with Shenae Grimes-Beech

Sun, 11 Jun 2023 23:04:24 GMT

This week on the pod, the girls chat to actress and content creator Shenae Grimes-Beech. Shenae shot to fame on 90210, after featuring in the tv show Degrassi in her native Canada. Shenae was alone in Hollywood, navigating her late teens, and grappling with misinformation and harassment from the tabloid press. This newfound attention caused rifts within the cast and meant that she felt more alone than when she arrived to the States. Shenae shares her story, smashes the misconceptions invented by the tabloids, and discusses life beyond 90210.

Follow Shenae on Instagram @shenaegrimesbeech and Youtube @shenaegrimesbeech

and Tiktok @joshandshenaebeech

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: RIP to the girlboss?

Wed, 07 Jun 2023 23:31:16 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss noughties fashion faux pas, fake tanning and whether girlbossing is good for one's health...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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The price women pay to be good

Sun, 04 Jun 2023 23:48:42 GMT

This week on the pod, the girls talk to author, podcaster and former chief content officer of goop, Elise Loehnen. Elise has co-written twelve books, five of which have been New York Times bestsellers, and Em and Alex are joined by her to discuss her latest, On Our Best Behaviour: The Price Women Pay to be Good.

Why can women rarely recover from their failures? Why is the patriarchy so devastating to boys and men?

Elise shares her manifesto, which argues that the seven deadly sins (lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy and pride) have been used by the patriarchy to control women throughout our history. This fascinating theory expands on our episode with Jameela Jamil, back in January 2022, in which the girls spoke about why, as a society, we build women up only to tear them down.

Pre-order Elise's book On Our Best Behaviour: The Price Women Pay to be Good

Listen to Elise's podcast: Pulling the Thread

Follow Elise on Instagram @eliseloehnen

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me LIVE: Lazy eyed boobs

Wed, 31 May 2023 23:01:05 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls are back with their amazing live audience to dive into some breathtaking embarrassing stories, and share some wisdom around body positivity with summer approaching.

Thank you to all of those who came to the show, we're looking forward to doing more in the future!

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Produced by Daisy Grant & edited by Hattie Moir

Music by Alex Andrew

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Charlie Craggs: ‘Trans rights and women’s rights can co-exist’

Mon, 29 May 2023 05:56:21 GMT

In this week’s episode, Em and Al are joined in the studio by Charlie Craggs, a British transgender actress, activist, and author from London. Charlie talks about her recent experience in court, where she was fighting a trans hate crime. She talks about how she was misgendered in court, and how the court handled her case by letting her attacker off, and what message this sends.

From this, Charlie is setting up free self defence classes for trans women, to ensure other trans people feel safe in public. The three discuss activism online and the media’s role in the debate around trans rights.

NOTES:

Self Defence Classes for Trans People Go Fund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/free-self-defence-classes-for-trans-people

Charlie’s book ‘To My Trans Sisters’: https://www.amazon.co.uk/My-Trans-Sisters-Charlie-Craggs/dp/1785923439

Charlie’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/charlie_craggs/?hl=en

Charlie’s BBC3 documentary: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p093wyx7

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: The plight of the plumber

Wed, 24 May 2023 23:01:08 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss some constructive feedback, making friends as an adult and plumbing.

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Is this normal? with Gynae Geek Dr Anita Mitra

Sun, 21 May 2023 23:13:10 GMT

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by none other than the Gynae Geek herself: Dr Anita Mitra, who is on a mission to make it less scary to own a vagina. Anita answers a bunch of your questions: from discharge to pap smears, cysts to douches and answers the most important question of all: 'what's the weirdest thing you've found up someone's vagina?' Anita shares how to advocate for yourself at the doctors and how to really get to know your own vagina.

Follow Anita on Instagram @gynaegeek

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Faked it til I maked it

Wed, 17 May 2023 23:51:46 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss Irish twins, Bill Nighy and covid testing...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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What is a Saturn return? with Caggie Dunlop

Sun, 14 May 2023 23:55:26 GMT

On this episode, Alex and Em are joined by Caggie Dunlop, who you may recognise from the earliest iteration of Made in Chelsea. Caggie's late twenties were a mixture of confusion and instability, seeing her friends settling down and having babies just as her life seemed to be at its most turbulent. Then she was introduced to the astrological concept of Saturn returns, which made her understand she wasn't alone in her discomfort. Now, with a podcast and a new book dedicated to Saturn returning, Caggie shares her story and this concept with Alex and Em. And it does happen to send Em into a bit of a spin...

Find out more about Caggie and her work at https://caggiedunlop.komi.io/

Follow Caggie on Instagram @caggiesworld

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Do it with gousto

Wed, 10 May 2023 23:46:17 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss breast reductions, sexual shame and gym knickers...

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'I didn't know I was pregnant until I gave birth'

Sun, 07 May 2023 23:54:30 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex chat to Marla McEntire. Her pregnancy was not traditional by any stretch, most notably because Marla actually had no idea that she was pregnant. She only found out 40 weeks into her pregnancy, when she went to the bathroom and after pushing, she realised a baby was in the toilet! This is Marla’s baffling, incredible and heart-warming story…

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Is It Just Me: I'm going straight for the breast

Wed, 03 May 2023 23:35:40 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls talk wine gums, breast milk and the male gaze...

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Mama's Still Got It

Sun, 30 Apr 2023 23:58:30 GMT

This week on Should I Delete That? Em and Alex are joined by model, content creator and wearer of tiny hands: Louise Boyce! When Louise started her instagram to aid her modelling career, she never thought that hilarious videos of her impersonating a toddler with a high pitched voice effect and tiny plastic hands would be what catapulted her professional life. Now, three kids later, almost half a million instagram followers and a book being released in June, Louise shows that Mama really has still got It...

Louise's book is out on June 8th 2023, click here to pre-order

Follow Louise on Instagram @mamastillgotit_

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: The British's

Wed, 26 Apr 2023 23:10:42 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss queuing, hyper wipers and what's been giving Al the ick lately...

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Blame it on the Moon: Understanding Astrology

Sun, 23 Apr 2023 23:46:53 GMT

In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by astrologer Francesca Oddie. Francesca shares her journey into astrology and explores what Em and Alex's birth charts say about them. As avid listeners will be well aware, Alex is a skeptic of astrology, can Francesca persuade her of the power of the stars? So, whether you are a cynic or a fanatic, you're sure to take something from this episode!

Follow Francesca on Instagram @francescaoddieastrology

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Mystical wolves and lizards

Wed, 19 Apr 2023 23:36:13 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls talk about athletics, horse racing and whether Alex is in fact down with the kids...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Dropping filters and cultivating confidence with Sasha Pallari

Sun, 16 Apr 2023 23:46:46 GMT

This week on the pod, Em and Alex are joined by Sasha Pallari. Sasha is an influencer, YouTuber and the creator of #FILTERDROP, a hashtag and movement on instagram dedicated to showing real skin. Sasha also took this movement to the Advertising Standards Authority in order to prevent make up and skincare brands from advertising with filtered skin, and she won! Sasha talks about her journey with confidence, and how #FILTERDROP and theatre have helped her along the way…

Find Sasha on YouTube, Instagram and TikTok @sashapallari

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: The whole of the moon

Wed, 12 Apr 2023 23:32:49 GMT

In this week's IIJM, the girls talk about the end of the ick, the Kardashians and why you should always wear pyjamas...

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Healing things we're ashamed of with Megan Rose Lane

Sun, 09 Apr 2023 23:08:25 GMT

This week the girls are joined by mentor, coach and Instagram icon Megan Rose Lane. Megan shares her incredible wisdom, with a particular focus on the shadow self and what that means to her. She explains that all growth and understanding, whether with oneself or others, comes first from compassion.

Follow Megan on Instagram @megan_rose_lane

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: No worries if not x

Wed, 05 Apr 2023 23:01:33 GMT

This week, the girls talk men's egos x sex toys, how to conduct oneself in a whatsapp group and how to deal with weight talk at the doctors...

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Mental health, body image and lots of lols with Austyn Farrell

Sun, 02 Apr 2023 23:14:47 GMT

This week, the girls have possibly their funnest interview yet! They sit down with content creator, choreographer and dancer Austyn Farrell. During the first lockdowns, Austen starred in some incredible viral videos that showed him entertaining his neighbours and anyone who happened to walk past. His videos even caught the attention of Kim Kardashian, who shared his impersonation of her on her own socials! Austyn has been a beacon of joy and light on the internet, despite sometimes struggling through some pretty dark times himself. Austyn shares his story, including his battles with mental health, but still manages to make Em and Alex laugh all the while.

Follow Austyn on Instagram and TikTok @austyn_farrell

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Sitting on a wall eating an egg sandwich x

Wed, 29 Mar 2023 23:16:03 GMT

This week, the girls get a follow up from some previous advice they gave, discuss what it's like to go for a wax and the collective Millennial fear of Gen Z...

Tickets for our next live show at The Podcast Show in London can be found here: https://tourlink.to/ShouldIDeleteThatTPS (pre-sale Thursday 30th March, on sale from Friday 31st March)

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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'It's my body, why do you care?' with Tess Holliday

Sun, 26 Mar 2023 23:09:34 GMT

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by none other than the ICONIC Tess Holliday. Tess is renowned for her modelling career; as a plus-size woman she has been a role model for many, and has garnered a lot of attention, unfortunately not all of it positive – Piers Morgan, we're looking at you! In this episode, Tess opens up like never before about her relationship with her body, notably her anorexia diagnosis and how it feels to get older in the public eye.

Follow Tess on Instagram @tessholliday

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Knowledge is power

Thu, 23 Mar 2023 00:55:09 GMT

This week, the girls discuss balloon animals, misheard quotes and slugs...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Alasdair Gill: How My Late Dad Saved Me From Addiction

Mon, 20 Mar 2023 00:33:48 GMT

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by chef and writer Alasdair (Ali) Gill. Ali and Em - whose parents were close friends - have been mates for years. Ali’s late father is the renowned journalist, author and critic A. A. Gill. Like his father, Ali has suffered with addiction, which led him on a journey to rehab; it was there, during his recovery, that he sought comfort in his father’s memoir, which details his own struggles with alcohol. Though this moment came after his father’s death, Ali felt seen, and finally understood that he wasn’t alone.

You can follow Ali on Instagram @aligill421 and check out his catering business @gordonandgill

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Teaching with Ms Whiston - BONUS EPISODE

Fri, 17 Mar 2023 00:09:48 GMT

In this special bonus episode in partnership with Get into Teaching, Alex is joined by Nicola Whiston. Nicola is an Assistant Principal from Stoke-on-Trent AND 2018 Math’s Teacher of the year. In this chat, Nicola told us about what made her get into teaching, the influence of social media on young people and her most memorable moments. Teachers are such foundations in our youth and this conversation got a little emotional so if you listen, are feeling inspired and are looking for a career where every day is totally different and every lesson can shape a life, then search Get Into Teaching now to find out more.

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Is It Just Me: Two girls on a sofa

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 00:14:43 GMT

This week, the girls discuss the ethics of The Chase, Alex's limited car knowledge and explore a new theme: Ick or Sick...

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Life with alopecia- “I was 13 when I started losing my hair”

Mon, 13 Mar 2023 00:21:01 GMT

This week, the girls chat to Laura Mathias. Laura was 13 when she started losing her hair. No one could help her – not her mum, her friends or even her doctor. She was told, as a teenager, that stress was contributing to her development of alopecia. Stress management wasn’t easy, how could it be at that age? And as Laura’s hair continued to fall out, she finally plucked up the courage to ask for a wig. Now, almost two decades later, Laura has found herself finally ready to accept herself and her baldness. She’s starred in photoshoots, appeared on national television and even walked a runway, all without her wig. Laura wants other women and young girls with alopecia to not feel the helplessness that she did. Laura’s confidence #journey is incredible, and Em and Alex are so proud to share her story.

Follow Laura on Instagram @relightalopecia

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Is It Just Me: Bread leather

Thu, 09 Mar 2023 00:55:19 GMT

It's round two of your unpopular opinions, covering bagels, Beyonce and babies...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Em’s back! And we’ve added one more to our gang…

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 00:33:19 GMT

This week, the girls welcome the newest member of the podcast crew... Em's baby! Em shares her birth story and what the first month of being a mum has really been like for her. Welcome back Em and welcome to the gang, Arlo Rose!

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Is It Just Me: Unpopular opinions

Thu, 02 Mar 2023 00:58:02 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss YOUR unpopular opinions. They cover pizza, alcohol, parenting and even things you don't like about their content...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Is it my hormones? with Dr Sohere Roked

Mon, 27 Feb 2023 00:57:19 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex talk to hormones expert Dr Sohère Roked. Sohère is a GP who specialises in Integrative medicine. She works to understand the emotional, spiritual, environmental, social, nutritional, lifestyle and psychological issues that influence the health and well-being of her patients, something she feels conventional medical practice does not provide.

In this episode, she answers your questions and covers myths and misconceptions around progesterone, polycystic ovaries, PMS and more! She will challenge you to track your period, deconstruct your preconceptions and make you ask, “is it my hormones?”

You can find Sohère's website here: https://drsohereroked.co.uk/

Sohère's book: The Tiredness Cure

Sohère's podcast: It's Your Hormones!

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: It's in the game

Thu, 23 Feb 2023 00:37:33 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss Al's dream life, video games and unfortunate places to feel a bit under the weather...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Lucy Davis on making peace with her body and toxic media

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 00:54:52 GMT

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex talk to The Office star, Lucy Davis. Lucy shares her story from performing skits to her friends at school to facing scrutiny in the press due to her appearance. She details her experience with eating disorders and body dysmorphia, and how now, she has learnt to accept herself. Her wit and wisdom inspires the girls, so much so that they suggest she should become a life coach!

In the GBA, Alex is joined by a not so special guest…

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Is It Just Me: It's not right, but it's okay

Thu, 16 Feb 2023 00:34:54 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss co-parenting, understanding your partner's kinks and Em's varied career...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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"My name is Sarah, I don't want to die"

Mon, 13 Feb 2023 00:27:17 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls talk to Sarah de Lagarde. In September 2022, Sarah was involved in a freak accident that would change her life forever. After falling asleep on the tube, Sarah woke up and realised that she had slept past her stop. Like anyone in that situation would, she promptly got up and raced over towards another train that would get her home. As she did, she slipped on the wet platform and the unimaginable happened: she tripped and ended up falling down onto the tracks. Sarah lost her arm and her leg after the train took off, and with sheer determination she shouted for help by saying “My name is Sarah, I don’t want to die”. Twenty minutes later, after what must have felt like an eternity, someone finally heard her and got her the help she needed. Almost four months on from the accident, Sarah joined Alex and Em in the studio to discuss the incident and how she has managed to get through it all so gracefully.

Sarah's Instagram @sjdelargarde

Sarah's Go Fund Me

Donate to London's Air Ambulance

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Is It Just Me: etc.

Thu, 09 Feb 2023 00:10:37 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss sleep paralysis, the english language and winning the raffle...

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The Best of Should I Delete That?!

Mon, 06 Feb 2023 00:57:15 GMT

It's here! All the best bits of Should I Delete That? in one place. Taken from the start of our *journey* all the way back in December 2021 to now.

In this compilation you will hear snippets from our episodes with: Bonita Norris, Jameela Jamil, Come Curious, Jules Von Hep, Candice Brathwaite, Holly Hagan, Laura Bates, Kayley Stead and our resident coach Jacqueline Hurst. On top of all that goodness, we've picked out some never before heard gems, our top funniest moments with Em and Alex and the most embarrassing stories sent in by you, our amazing listeners!

Thank you for all your support as ever. We can't wait to bring you even more incredible interviews and laughs as the show grows!

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Less bitter more glitter!

Thu, 02 Feb 2023 00:19:05 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls friendship breakups, over-sensitivity and whether Em could be a spy...

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"If I go home, I'll be arrested" with Iranian feminist Samaneh Savadi

Mon, 30 Jan 2023 00:19:25 GMT

This week, Alex and Em talk to Iranian feminist activist Samaneh Savadi. The Islamic Republic of Iran has been experiencing turmoil as a result of the government’s misogynistic regime and the murders of many protestors and dissenters.

After noticing their story views drop significantly whenever they spoke out about this issue, the girls wanted to bring a deeper awareness of it to themselves and to others by talking to Samaneh about her understanding and experience. Samaneh herself cannot go home to Iran out of fear of being arrested, or worse, for speaking out and campaigning for women’s rights. She suggests that one of the best ways to help women in Iran is by continuing to speak out, so hopefully this episode gives you the impetus to do so.

Follow Samaneh on Instagram @samaneh_savadi

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Is It Just Me: The shower fork

Thu, 26 Jan 2023 01:42:33 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss cheating, dodgy bumcracks and confusing aioli for areola...

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Revenge against revenge porn with Georgia Harrison

Mon, 23 Jan 2023 00:48:59 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls meet influencer and reality TV star Georgia Harrison. Em and Alex wanted to talk to Georgia about how, over the past few years, she has been living a nightmare after falling victim to revenge porn. Her ex, sex offender and fellow reality TV star, Stephen Bear, non-consensually recorded him and Georgia having sex. He spread the video across the internet, subsequently profiting from it, which became an all-consuming battle for Georgia as she fought to not only remove the video, but to have Bear convicted. The girls get the details of this betrayal, the brave steps Georgia took to prosecute and how it felt when she finally saw justice.

You can follow Georgia on Instagram @georgialouiseharrison

Find out more about Refuge here: https://www.refuge.org.uk/

You can call the UK's National Domestic Abuse Hotline on 0808 2000 247

or access their live chat Monday to Friday, 3–10pm at www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk

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Is It Just Me: Hot takes

Thu, 19 Jan 2023 00:47:34 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls answer 0 emails, discuss Em's special friendship with Molly Mae and catch up on "current affairs"...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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"White bread isn't evil" with dietitian Aleeza Rosenberg

Mon, 16 Jan 2023 00:13:38 GMT

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by Aleeza Rosenberg. Aleeza is a dietitian who specialises in eating disorders and she is actually the person that helped Alex on the path to a healthy relationship with food. She also went on to contribute to Alex’s book, You Are Not A Before Picture, and this interview shows why she had such an impact on Alex. Aleeza is incredibly warm and compassionate, and also full of facts and wisdom ready to bust what you thought you knew about diets and, specifically, carbs!

This episode does discuss eating disorders and so if you’d prefer to skip it after the Good, Bad and Awkward segment, we’ll catch you next week.

Follow Aleeza @aleezarosenberg_dietitian or visit her website here

Click here to buy You Are Not A Before Picture

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Why is my penis throbbing?

Thu, 12 Jan 2023 00:32:38 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss Excel spreadsheets, watching sex scenes with your family and forgetting to wash in the shower...

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Music by Alex Andrew

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There's a traitor in our midst...

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 00:16:57 GMT

This week, there’s a traitor in our midst…

It’s Wilf! And Hannah, lovely faithful Hannah!

Just like the rest of the nation, Al and Em have been completely obsessed with The Traitors. They had to get best friends, legends and rivals Hannah and Wilf to share their experiences, secrets and gossip! It was everything they hoped for and more, leaving Al well and truly starstruck…

Follow Hannah on Instagram @hannahbitch_cough_ski and Wilfred @wilfredwebsterofficial

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Is It Just Me: Mandatory training at the zoo

Thu, 05 Jan 2023 00:24:31 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss canned applause, Spotify wrapped and whether or not a proposal should be a surprise...

Big shout out to Rachel xxx

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Self-acceptance with The Birds Papaya

Mon, 02 Jan 2023 00:01:12 GMT

This week, the girls are joined by the incredible Sarah Nicole Landry, AKA @thebirdspapaya. What a woman - Sarah, a divorced and remarried mum of four (from babies to teens), shares her own self love and self acceptance story and breaks down the nuances of why we police women’s bodies in the most brilliant way.

Em and Alex bring in the New Year with their resolutions; less guitars and more whiteboards, not to mention a baby!

Follow Sarah on Instagram and listen to her podcast here.

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Is It Just Me: Church stilettos

Thu, 29 Dec 2022 00:53:20 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss your festive embarrassing stories and IIJMs. A lot of you don't like roast dinners? Seriously?!

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2022 Round up!

Mon, 26 Dec 2022 00:43:03 GMT

Should I Delete That? is now one year old! If you've been with us from the very start, you'll know our first episode was a year ago almost to the day. In what now can be considered annual tradition, Alex and Em are going to give you their round up of the tumultuous year that was 2022: sharing with you their news, cultural and personal highlights!

Thank you for being with us and supporting us all along the way, we couldn't do it without our wonderful, ICONIC listeners. Bring on 2023!

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Is It Just Me: Our first LIVE show! Part 2

Thu, 22 Dec 2022 00:24:17 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls are back with their brilliant live audience to delve into even cringier embarrassing stories, share their reasons for potential divorce and sing you out for the year...

Thank you so much to all of those who attended, we're looking forward to doing more live shows in the future!

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Spotlight on Ukraine this Christmas

Mon, 19 Dec 2022 00:43:07 GMT

This week, in the run up to Christmas, Em and Al speak have decided to turn the spotlight onto Ukraine. With the war still raging on, the girls wanted to understand more about what was happening on the ground and what we can all do to help. First, they spoke to Ukrainian lawyer Nadiya Bilous who is on the board of Dattalion. Dattalion is an open-source database containing Ukraine war footage and a list of verified eyewitnesses to the invasion. Founded and run by women, it was created to fight disinformation. They then spoke to Liza, a musician who escaped Ukraine (and coincidentally lives with previous guest Lizzie Pickering in the UK) about the emotional impact of fleeing her home.

Find out more and follow Dattalion's work here: https://dattalion.com/

Check out the White Eagle Appeal

You can find Liza's music on Spotify, Youtube and follow her on Instagram @slozaworld

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Is It Just Me: Our first LIVE show! Part 1

Thu, 15 Dec 2022 00:19:10 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls are joined by a BRILLIANT live audience to discuss google searches, surprise (and unwelcome) poos and what they've learnt from doing the podcast this year...

Thank you so much to all of those who attended, we're looking forward to doing more live shows in the future!

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Overthinking with Hayley Morris

Mon, 12 Dec 2022 00:46:23 GMT

This week, Em and Alex are joined by iconic TikTok comedian Hayley Morris. You would have seen her nail various different characters: concierge at the illustrious Vagina Hotel, the fake orgasm and of course, her own labia. Hayley breaks taboos in a masterful and hilarious way, making us all feel less alone. She also shares how she got into comedy, with inspiration from her brilliant late father, and why she will never take it for granted...

Follow Hayley on TikTok and Instagram

Pre-order her book "Me vs Brain: An Overthinker's Guide to Life"

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Is It Just Me: Depressing disgusting and confusing

Thu, 08 Dec 2022 11:22:34 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss gym embarrassment, the pressure around having kids and dodgy cubicles...

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More than a mother's rage with Mother Pukka

Mon, 05 Dec 2022 00:45:46 GMT

This week, the girls chat to Anna Whitehouse, AKA Mother Pukka. Anna is an incredible writer, campaigner and radio host, and is the founder of the Flex Appeal campaign, calling for all workers to be entitled to flexible working. This conversation took some twists and very unexpected turns, with Anna’s quick wit and brilliant sense of humour peppered throughout. Everyone could benefit from flexible working, not just mothers, and Anna shares how...

Follow Anna on Instagram @mother_pukka

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Is It Just Me: Cannibalex

Thu, 01 Dec 2022 00:18:22 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss impulse control (including farting in your sleep), avoiding small talk and whether Alex is feral...

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Money money money with Makala Green

Mon, 28 Nov 2022 00:05:55 GMT

This week, the girls chat to financial planner and money expert Makala Green. Makala is the author of The Money Edit, a fantastic book that helps its readers feel more confident and in control when it comes to their finances. Em and Alex take this opportunity to pick Makala's brain about the things they've always wanted to know but were too scared to ask. They discuss debt and mortgages and recessions, and Makala shares a breakdown of what a pension actually is...

Follow Makala on Instagram @thewealthcheck

Buy Makala's book The Money Edit

Em's Alex has been reading Hate Inc.: Why Today's Media Makes us Despise One Another

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Is It Just Me: The Anxiety Aunts

Thu, 24 Nov 2022 00:01:31 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls answer a moral dilemma, chat baby names and try to solve a gaslighting mystery...

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Andrew Le Page on Love Island or whatever...

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 00:46:34 GMT

This week, Em and Alex talk to former Love Island contestant Andrew Le Page. His very public misstep and subsequent apology went viral as he uttered “I sucked on her tits or whatever…”. These simple words sent the general public into a tailspin while Andrew, living in Mallorca with the UK’s most eligible singles and no access to the outside world, was completely oblivious to the frenzied response. He shares what this was like, opens up about his relationship with Tasha, and enlightens the girls with some production secrets (our fave!).

Alex and Em teased this announcement on socials, and you might already know what’s coming, but listen to find out what exactly it is that they’ve been hiding!

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Is It Just Me: "Dick Van Dyke would do it"

Thu, 17 Nov 2022 00:01:56 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss how to deal with body image with children, period disasters and choking...

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Healing is a forever love with Alex Elle

Mon, 14 Nov 2022 00:21:05 GMT

This week the girls talk to the incomparable Alex Elle. Alex is an author and restorative writing teacher, and she shares some of her incredible wisdom on boundaries, healing and generational trauma on the pod today. Her unique and sage perspective gave Alex and Em food for thought, especially around the complexities of prescription medication for mental health.

Follow Alex on Instagram @Alex (our Al is incredibly jealous of this handle)

Order her latest book How We Heal

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Is It Just Me: The fate debate

Thu, 10 Nov 2022 00:03:18 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss destiny, Antarctica and being a Londoner vs being British...

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Living after a life changing injury with Ed Jackson

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 00:22:36 GMT

This week, Em and Alex chat to author, mentor, broadcaster and former professional rugby player Ed Jackson. Ed shares his his incredible story with us, explaining how an injury completely transformed his life. When Ed was 27, he was involved in a tragic accident and suffered a spinal injury that left him paralysed from the neck down. Despite being told his body wouldn’t recover from below the level of injury, he defied all odds. Now, Ed shares his journey with us, and you can follow the work of his foundation Millimetres 2 Mountains here.

Click here to buy Ed's book, Lucky

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Is It Just Me: Brosnan VS Carell

Thu, 03 Nov 2022 00:19:14 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls give some grown up advice, Em gives us an exquisite reading list and Alex shares her ideal type of man...

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Stop just "shoving it in" with sexpert Oloni

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 00:22:09 GMT

This week the girls chat to iconic sex and relationships expert, Oloni! Oloni answers your all burning questions, from working with mismatched libidos to how to squirt. She tells them what it really takes to have the best sex of your life, and how to communicate your way there.

You can buy Oloni’s book, The Big O, here, or follow her on Instagram @oloni

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Is It Just Me: Catcalling clap-backs and hairy buttcracks

Wed, 26 Oct 2022 23:16:56 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss catcalling, waxing and CORN!

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Women gamble too — and we need to talk about it

Sun, 23 Oct 2022 23:20:55 GMT

This week, the girls sat down with GambleAware CEO Zoë Osmond, psychologist Dr Linda Papadopoulos and two women with lived experience of gambling harms, Jo and Lisa, to learn more about women and gambling. They spoke about the unique challenges women who experience gambling harms may face, and what could we all do to have better conversations about this topic.

If you are worried about your gambling or that of a loved one, or are starting to lose track of time, spending more than you can afford, or hiding your gambling from others, please don’t hesitate to visit BeGambleAware.org for free confidential support, or call the National Gambling Helpline on 0808 8020 133

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Is It Just Me: Finger guns and migratory geese

Wed, 19 Oct 2022 23:20:04 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss body neutrality, crossing the road and why you should love pigeons...

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What to do when you’re left at the altar?!

Sun, 16 Oct 2022 23:19:12 GMT

Imagine you had been engaged for two years, had your wedding dress for the same amount of time, paid £12k for the big day, invited guests from all over the UK and on the DAY of your wedding your partner doesn't show... Well, this happened to Kayley Stead. Rather than cancelling, she indulged in the ultimate act of self love and spent the big day celebrating herself with family and friends holding her up. The girls find out how she did it, get the dirt on her ex and celebrate Kayley even more...

Follow Kayley on Instagram and TikTok

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Is It Just Me: "There's your breakfast"

Wed, 12 Oct 2022 23:01:35 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? it's Al's followers that kill it with a variety of quick-fire embarrassing stories, Daisy pops in to share an Is It Just Me? of her own, and Alex asks Em how to use a washing machine.

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Are we all guilty feminists? With Deborah Frances-White

Sun, 09 Oct 2022 23:01:10 GMT

This week, the girls are graced by feminist Quing (don't ask) writer, podcaster and comedian Deborah Frances-White! They sit down to talk all things from makeup to Roe Vs Wade to pud. Deborah's insight and wisdom gave us the hope we didn't know we were looking for and, as expected, the laughs we needed too.

Follow Deborah on Instagram @dfdubz and Twitter @DeborahFW, find out more about The Guilty Feminist on their website, www.guiltyfeminist.com

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Is It Just Me: The night meal

Wed, 05 Oct 2022 23:01:41 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls talk boundaries, blagging it and cover possibly the most embarrassing story to top all embarrassing stories #mayonnaise...

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Magic, mind reading and hypnosis with Joel M

Sun, 02 Oct 2022 23:01:13 GMT

This week, Em shares big some news and the girls chat to magician Joel M joins the girls in the studio for a chat, some magic and mentalism. He blows their minds with some unbelievable tricks and manages to make it all entirely accessible in an audio format, who knew! He shares how he got into magic, why he does it and how it truly is better to not know how the trick works.

Check out Joel’s new podcast Influenced! wherever you get your podcasts, and follow him on Instagram and TikTok

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Is It Just Me: Toolbox surprise

Wed, 28 Sep 2022 23:01:57 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? Em rapid fires embarrassing stories at Al, airing all your dirty laundry from pantyhose nightmares to period pad hell...

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A big hug of an episode with Jules Von Hep

Sun, 25 Sep 2022 23:01:48 GMT

This week, the girls chat to co-founder of Isle of Paradise, podcaster and body confidence legend Jules Von Hep. Jules started out in fashion and fell into spray tanning, and while his relationship with his own body suffered, he was uplifting women day in and day out as they entered the booth for a bit of fun and a glimmer of hope. Jules shares his own body confidence journey, and how that was influenced by the thousands of women he spray tanned over the years. He certainly still has the ability to uplift and put one at ease, and we hope you feel that from this conversation.

Follow Jules on Instagram @julesvonhep

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Is It Just Me: Chewing gum and curly twirlies

Wed, 21 Sep 2022 23:01:23 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls discuss untrustworthy drivers, pressured friendships and getting unusual things stuck in train doors...

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Everyone's Invited with Soma Sara

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 23:03:37 GMT

This week, the girls chat to Soma Sara, author and founder of Everyone’s Invited: a forum for people to anonymously share their experiences of sexual assault and harassment. Through opening up that space, Soma was inundated with stories from survivors and has dedicated her time to assist in making a change. She shares her belief in the importance of empathy, compassion and understanding, and how this, above all else, is the key to making that change. With a rapidly changing world that is increasingly focussed online, and where 9 out of 10 school girls are pestered to send nudes, this change couldn’t come quicker.

Everyone's Invited

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Is It Just Me: Skellingtons and queefing

Wed, 14 Sep 2022 23:01:43 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls discuss prescription goggles, queefing and how signatures are embarrassing...

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Bake Off and body acceptance with Laura Adlington

Sun, 11 Sep 2022 23:03:54 GMT

We recorded this episode before the news of Queen Elizabeth II's passing broke. As the UK mourns their monarch, we want to acknowledge the Queen’s 70 years of service and send our love to all members of her family and those who are dealing with grief at this time.

This week, the girls chat to Laura Adlington: podcaster, fashionista and 2020 Bake Off finalist. Laura opens up about her experience with trolling from the public, her disordered eating and journey with body confidence. In the Good, the Bad and the Awkward, the girls end up in a spiral about their personal style at a recent event...

Follow Laura on Instagram @laura.adlington

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Is It Just Me: Bleached brows at the kids table

Wed, 07 Sep 2022 23:01:02 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls discuss the lies of the Kardashians, old people and Em’s ego…

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Get ok with getting old with Nadine Baggott

Sun, 04 Sep 2022 23:04:10 GMT

This week, Em and Alex chat to Nadine Baggott, beauty expert, writer and presenter, who happens to have recently turned 60. She gives the girls an insight into ageism and her thoughts on how the beauty industry needs to change in order to be fully inclusive. Why are ageing men seen as attractive and ageing women considered unsightly? Why should you have older friends in your life?

You can follow Nadine on Instagram @nadinebaggott and watch her YouTube videos here

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Is It Just Me: Marriage and pink flamingos

Wed, 31 Aug 2022 23:01:44 GMT

What do do gnomes, pampas grass and pineapple door knockers have in common? Listen to find out...

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Being body-shamed on America's Next Top Model

Sun, 28 Aug 2022 23:01:30 GMT

After sharing a clip of Tyra Banks telling a America’s Next Top Model contestant to eat a burger without the bread, Alex was sent a DM. The message was from that very model, Keenyah Hill, who had been essentially told to eat less by Tyra on cycle 4 of ANTM. Keenyah, 19 at the time, had also been compared to an elephant by the judges, and edited in a way that exaggerated how much and how often she was eating. Keenyah wanted to share her version of events, how being on ANTM affected her life and what it taught her about the real world of modelling. Now a pose coach and model mentor, Keenyah teaches aspiring models how to be confident in themselves and let that confidence carry them through.

You can follow Keenyah and check out her work via her Instagram @keenyah.hill

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Is It Just Me: Fireworks and toesies

Wed, 24 Aug 2022 23:01:10 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss pampas grass, super yachts and catherine wheels...

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Ask Us Anything - plus some BIG news...

Sun, 21 Aug 2022 23:01:20 GMT

This week, we’ve got an extra delicious summer special for you! With no guest this week, the girls answer YOUR questions and have a big announcement to make.

Em explains why she is being targeted by Limp Bizkit fans, asks Al if she's done anal and (TW) opens up about the premature death of her husband’s prized plant. They reflect on what they’ve learnt from doing the pod and even Daisy pipes up to have her say… enjoy!

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Is It Just Me: "Perhaps... answer differently"

Wed, 17 Aug 2022 23:01:46 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss mansplaining, geology (what exactly is it?) and park rangers...

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My mum put me on a diet at age 8 - and wrote about it in Vogue

Sun, 14 Aug 2022 23:01:47 GMT

This week the girls chat to Betty Kubovy-Weiss. When Betty was 7, she was diagnosed with childhood obesity and her doctor told her mother that she would need to lose weight for the good of her health. She was put on a diet, and then, her mother wrote about that experience in Vogue. Now, at 18, she shares with Alex and Em how this has affected her self confidence and body image. We are excited to hear your thoughts on this conversation! DM and email us to share.

Em has a lot of awkwards to share, and Al suddenly realises that a lot of people actually listen to the pod: that’s you people!

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Is It Just Me: Golden shorts and sunburnt penguins

Wed, 10 Aug 2022 23:01:44 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss whether straight boys and girls can be platonic mates, how playing "guess who?" is a terrible idea and Ben Shepherd in his little golden shorts...

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Breathe In Breathe Out with Stuart Sandeman

Sun, 07 Aug 2022 23:01:47 GMT

This week, the girls speak to Stuart Sandeman of Breathpod. He teaches them the basics of breath work, despite their initial trepidation, and details why these basics could be the unexpected practice that helps you in the most surprising places...

In the Good, Bad and Awkward, Em traumatises Alex with her hair, they celebrate the Lionesses and I think Em says the plural of sheep is sheeps? Anyway, you decide, and let Daisy know in the emails… I may have misheard. Enjoy!

Follow Stuart @breathpod on Instagram, buy his book Breathe In Breathe Out, and catch Decompression Session on BBC Radio 1.

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Is It Just Me: Casual sexism and roasted veg

Wed, 03 Aug 2022 23:01:32 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss the public reactions to the Lionesses' legendary victory against Germany (especially from the men in your lives), wedding dress photos and Em's air-fryer obsession...

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Sex parties & squirting with the Come Curious girls

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 23:01:49 GMT

This week, Em and Al are joined by sexy legends Florence and Reed of Come Curious! They get really deep in a conversation about non-monogamy, sex parties and anal play. The girls ask YOUR questions at the end too, once they got their own curiosities out of the way!

In the Good, Bad and Awkward, the girls are back in London to talk more about puffins and discuss boot camps...

Follow Florence, Reed and Come Curious on Instagram and listen to F**ks Given here!

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Is It Just Me: Broad beans and OnlyFans

Wed, 27 Jul 2022 23:01:52 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss your responses to last week's OnlyFans debacle. Em opens up a Pandora's box of embarrassing situations to keep you awake at night and Al searches for allies in her life without cooking...

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Jamie and Shaaba: A beautiful trans love story

Sun, 24 Jul 2022 23:01:43 GMT

This week the girls chat to iconic couple Shaaba and Jamie. We hear their love story: from being best friends, to Jamie coming out as trans, to him professing his love for Shaaba. Due to Shaaba’s family having problems with their relationship, they had to make some pretty bold commitments to one another at a young age. Em can't wait to adapt their gorgeous love story into a film! Would suggest staying until the end to hear a pretty brilliant outtake.

The girls join us from the Isle of Man and talk about mental health, grief and puffins…

Check out Shaaba and Jamie's website here

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Kilt tickles and puppy blues

Wed, 20 Jul 2022 23:01:49 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss men wearing kilts (yes with no pants), forgetting childhood memories and why Em can never fly a plane...

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Can I have plastic surgery AND be a feminist? with Sophie Milner

Mon, 18 Jul 2022 19:09:17 GMT

This week the girls chat to fashion and lifestyle influencer Sophie Milner. They deep dive into the contentious topic of surgery, coming away with potentially more questions than answers. Sophie has been open about her surgical procedures online, something that Em and Alex applaud, but does it mean that everyone in her position should be just as open?

The podcast goes on tour again with the girls on holiday. They talk geography, kayaking and the red room…

Follow Sophie on Instagram and TikTok

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Is It Just Me: Black tie and bisexuality

Wed, 13 Jul 2022 23:01:26 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss how to dress for a black tie event (with VERY differing views), Em's premium karaoke set up and a listener asks about coming out as bisexual when in a long term heterosexual relationship...

Al suggests checking out Alicia McCarvell who recently came out as bisexual and is happily married to her husband.

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Jac is Back: let other people be wrong about you

Sun, 10 Jul 2022 23:01:49 GMT

Jac’s back… another emergency call to our resident coach Jacqueline Hurst. This week, Em opens up about her slip into checking online forums. She talks to Jacqueline about how it has really impacted her self esteem, and Jac helps dissect exactly why. This isn’t only for people who, on the off chance, may find themselves being spoken about on a forum, but for anyone who has ever been criticised. Jacqueline wants to show you how to not let it impact you, and as Al sees it, how you can use your skin as a barrier against negativity.

In a slightly switched format to usual, the girls discuss snapping gussets, foul moods and why we should all #PrayForDave at the end of the episode...

Check out Jacqueline's website here: https://www.jacquelinehurst.com/

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Is It Just Me: Slow, steady and sexible

Wed, 06 Jul 2022 23:01:19 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? we receive our first EVER voicenote (email us baby)!! The girls discuss unconventional ways to soothe yourself to sleep, Em’s quest to uphold good name of women drivers and Alex’s forthcoming Only Fans account… (just kidding)

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Gemma Styles: it’s not a bandwagon it’s a party bus

Sun, 03 Jul 2022 23:01:55 GMT

Last week we lost Em’s dear friend and inspiration to us all, the incredible Dame Deborah James. You can support the Bowel Babe Fund here: https://www.bowelbabe.org/

In this episode, the girls talk with mental health ambassador and podcast host, Gemma Styles. They discuss how she chooses to be a good influence while working through her own mental health and making peace with her ADHD diagnosis. If you want more, you’re in luck! You can listen to Alex and Em on Gemma’s podcast, Good Influence, available here.

Al also talks us through her decision to freeze her eggs and Em accuses her of dressing like a postman…

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Hen dos and feet (sorry)

Wed, 29 Jun 2022 23:01:31 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me?, the girls explore when and why hen dos can be hen don’ts, why feet and restaurants should be a dish left unserved and, er, biting your dentist. Enjoy!

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Frankie Bridge on living with depression and anxiety

Sun, 26 Jun 2022 23:01:00 GMT

A heads up, this episode contains talk of suicide and eating disorders. If you'd rather skip this ep, take care, and we'll catch you on Thursday!

This week the girls chat to presenter, author and former member of The Saturdays, Frankie Bridge. Frankie lives with depression and anxiety, and was one of the first celebrities to openly and publicly discuss their mental health, so the girls wanted to chat to her about this in more depth.

In the Good, Bad and Awkward, the weather is again the hot topic of discussion, as are fridge magnets…

This episode is sponsored by WUKA, use the code SIDT20 this week to get 20% off your first order!

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Bellybuttons and gratitude journals

Wed, 22 Jun 2022 23:01:13 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls receive some kinky wisdom, explore their own bellybuttons and discover the true horror of Wagamama’s firecracker chicken….

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Shaughna Phillips: from lipoedema to Love Island

Sun, 19 Jun 2022 23:01:25 GMT

This episode discusses disordered eating and dieting. If you need to sit this one out, no worries, we’ll see you on Thursday!

Em and Al chat to Love Island star Shaughna Phillips. She gives them a deeper insight into what happens behind the scenes on the show. We hear more about her experience with lipoedema and her decision to have, and pay for, surgery to treat her legs.

In the Good, Bad and Awkward, Em and Al deep dive into the weather before they decide that there are in fact NO bads this week…

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Is It Just Me: Kinks and what-about-isms

Wed, 15 Jun 2022 23:01:14 GMT

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls dive into bellybuttons and Dolmio sauce as they cover cousins, kinks and what-about-isms…

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Music by Alex Andrew

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"I immediately thought my life is over" - Patsy Stevenson

Sun, 12 Jun 2022 23:02:11 GMT

This week, we've got a slightly different episode that saw us take the podcast into central London to join the Women’s Equality Party as they Marched On The Met.

When we initially contacted Patsy Stevenson, we thought this would be a standard interview week, but then we realised that there was much more that needed to be shared. Patsy attended the Sarah Everard vigil on Clapham Common in March 2021; she quickly became synonymous with the arrests that took place that day, carried out by police who saw the vigil as a breach of covid regulations. Her face was suddenly everywhere, the face of the unrest that happened when women's attempts to mourn were crushed.

The story is bigger than this though. After Patsy shared her thoughts on what really happened that day, we followed her to Trafalgar Square to join a protest against institutional misogyny and racism within the police. We heard from some incredible women there, and wanted to share their thoughts with you.

The speakers you heard from today were:

Patsy Stevenson

Mandu Reid

Marvina Eseoghene Newton

Southall Black Sisters

Also, we suggest checking out Sistah Space and their work on Valerie's Law.

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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You Are Not a Before Picture with Alex Light!

Wed, 08 Jun 2022 23:02:25 GMT

For this week’s Thursday episode, Em interviews our very own best-selling author, Alex Light! Alex talks about her new book, You Are Not A Before Picture, and why YOU deserve a better life than what diet culture gives you...

Please take care with this episode as the girls do discuss eating disorders and Alex’s experience, so if this episode isn’t for you, we’ll catch you on Monday!

If you’re struggling with an eating disorder and are in the UK, the Beat Eating Disorders charity has a hotline. The number is 0808 801 0677 or you can visit the website at beateatingdisorders.org.uk.

You can now buy Alex's book here or from all good book shops!

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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International superstar Harry Trevaldwyn

Sun, 05 Jun 2022 23:01:10 GMT

Em’s drunk again and Al’s sick of her new stairs…

This week, the girls interview Em’s school friend and drama partner Harry Trevaldwyn, now an incredibly successful superstar actor in his own right. After deciding to take his career into his own hands during the pandemic, Harry reluctantly began posting sketches to his Instagram. They went viral, he got an agent, landed a role in The Bubble with comedy giants and then starred in the UK’s take on the cult hit Call My Agent! A true breath of fresh air, he brightened our days and we hope he brightens yours!

Check out Ten Percent on Amazon and Harry’s Comedy Blap, Billi, on All4

Follow Harry on Instagram @HarryTrevaldwyn

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Is It Just Me: Diet culture and selective hearing

Wed, 01 Jun 2022 23:01:15 GMT

Welcome to the first Is It Just Me? Thursday special! Em calls in from her honeymoon after a few glasses of wine and Alex from the midst of moving chaos to discuss diet culture, selective hearing and yep, you guessed it, poo. Enjoy!

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Tackling the taboo: time to talk gynae cancers

Sun, 29 May 2022 23:01:40 GMT

Em's on her Honeymoon and Al's moving house, but there will always be an episode of Should I Delete That? to bless your ears! This week's topic is one particularly close to Em's heart. In partnership with Venus and The Lady Garden Foundation, the girls talk to Jess Brown and Dr John Butler about cancer, specifically gynaecological cancer. They chat about the importance of the doctor patient relationship, knowing your body and why a cancer diagnosis isn't always doom and gloom.

Follow Jess @jessbrown.98 & John @drjohnbutler

This week's episode is sponsored by Venus!

#KnowYourPubic

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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HUGE ANNOUNCEMENT! We can't delete it now!

Sun, 22 May 2022 23:01:47 GMT

This week, we’ve got a tasty little episode for you! Not only are we celebrating half a million downloads, but we are signed to the Acast Creator Network! We couldn’t be prouder. In honour of the news, our gorgeous Amy asks the girls YOUR questions. So buckle up because its gonna be full of confessions, drum kit updates and a sprinkling of the usual poo chat…

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Alex on Go Love Yourself

Tue, 17 May 2022 23:01:27 GMT

Here’s an episode from our friends at the Go Love Yourself podcast that we think you’ll LOVE! Laura and Lauren had Alex on to chat about diet culture, loving your clothes, and the f***ed up beauty standards that come with weddings. They also chat about the time Alex had to get Dave to take campaign photos of her in the bath, and how Betty won’t stop humping her…

TW: This episode contains references to eating disorders. If you’re struggling with an eating disorder and are in the UK, the Beat Eating Disorders charity has a hotline. The number is 0808 801 0677 or you can visit the website at beateatingdisorders.org.uk.

Additionally, if you're experiencing a mental health crisis, you can call the Samaritans at 116 123, or visit crowdnetwork.co.uk/helplines for a list of people you can go to for help.

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Men Who Hate Women with Laura Bates

Sun, 15 May 2022 23:01:07 GMT

This week has been a tough one for Em and Al since hearing that their friend, Dame Deborah James, is now receiving end-of-life care for her battle with cancer. Em pops in to say a few words about Deb, and we encourage you to donate the cost of a drink (the girls reckon a rosé, as you will hear!) to the Bowelbabe Fund to raise money for Cancer Research UK.

The girls have the honour of being graced by feminist royalty, Laura Bates. Laura is the author of now six books including her latest, Fix The System Not The Women. Although troubling and shocking, Laura's message is filled with hope and optimism for future generations to work and fight towards equality.

You can follow Laura on Instagram @laura_bates__

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:15

Interview with Laura - 00:25:38

Is It Just Me? - 01:22:55

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Loving and losing Azaylia

Sun, 08 May 2022 23:01:03 GMT

This week is Mental Health Awareness Week in the UK. This week Alex and Em are joined by the incredible Safiyya Vorajee, who lost her baby daughter, Azaylia, to childhood cancer just one year ago. Driven by the love for her daughter, she and Azaylia's father started a foundation in her honour, The Azaylia Foundation. Safiyya bravely takes on life with optimism and determination, and we want to shine a light on her story. In the usual segments of the pod, Al tries her hand at amateur gymnastics and Em wants to start a gang...

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:04:39

Interview with Safiyya - 00:28:08

Is It Just Me? - 01:28:15

You can order Safiyya's book, Loving and Losing You, Azaylia here: https://smarturl.it/lsofot

And to donate to The Azaylia Foundation, click here

Follow @beducatedcom

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Deliberate Live Therapy Session

Sun, 01 May 2022 23:02:25 GMT

Jacq's back! Life coach Jacqueline Hurst re-joins the girls for an EMERGENCY podcast recording after their candid confessions last week around miscommunication with one other. They delve deep into what it really means to be a people pleaser, and how Em is finally free from the pressure to be just that. They also talk through Em's hen do, advocate for Popworld and debate who would win in a physical fight...

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:20

Interview with Jacqueline - 00:30:43

Is It Just Me? - 01:30:00

https://www.jacquelinehurst.com/

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Love Island, cabaret and taking risks with Amber Davies

Sun, 24 Apr 2022 23:01:07 GMT

This week, Em is back from her holiday and she and Alex get deep about the difficulties of maintaining a work-life balance post covid. The girls are joined by Amber Davies and they discuss her performing career, her intentions behind going on Love Island and why she would never go on again. Em also gets caught out by Siri and Al gives us a bit too much information about Dave's toilet habits...

Follow Amber on Instagram: @amb_d

Tickets to Proud Cabaret

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:03:28

Interview with Amber - 00:31:31

Is It Just Me? - 01:22:38

Sponsored by Mindler, use code DELETE22 for 50% off your first therapy session.

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Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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"I don't wanna spend my life being relatable" with Soph Butler

Sun, 17 Apr 2022 23:01:14 GMT

This week, Alex is back from an eventful stint in Manhattan, and Em joins us from her holiday to talk to Sophie Butler. Soph shares how being experimental and playful with makeup and fashion has helped her become her best self. She talks about being unapologetically joyful despite the critics, and the perils of trying to be relatable.

Follow Soph on Instagram @sophjbutler

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:03:46

Interview with Soph - 00:25:18

Is It Just Me? - 01:23:22

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

Sponsored by Mindler, use code DELETE22 for 50% off your first therapy session.

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Feeling Myself with Natalie Lee

Sun, 10 Apr 2022 23:01:04 GMT

Heads up, this episode contains a lot of heavy themes including sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised, so take care, and if you decide to sit this one out, we will see you next week!

The girls have an emotional and inspiring conversation with Natalie Lee (@stylemesunday) about her journey from sexual shame to sexual freedom. They discuss when to start talking to kids about sex, owning and demanding pleasure, and how masturbation can increase your self esteem and communication skills… as well as much, much more! Alex and Em also fill us in on their holiday mishaps, including sweaty feet, solo dates and dissolving sick bags.

Click here to pre-order Natalie's book from Amazon

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:34

Interview with Natalie - 00:27:57

Is It Just Me? - 01:25:46

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

Sponsored by Mindler, use code DELETE22 for 50% off your first therapy session.

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Trolls, forums and being an influencer with Nelly London

Sun, 03 Apr 2022 23:01:23 GMT

In this episode, Em and Alex talk to Nelly London about her life as an influencer and her methods for dealing with incessant trolling. Nelly also describes how being objectified and sexualised as a young person affected her relationship to her body, and influenced her anxiety. As well as that, Em and Alex talk periods and awkward accidental hand-holding!

Follow Nelly on Instagram @_nelly_london

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:04:40

Interview with Nelly - 00:23:25

Is It Just Me? - 01:31:32

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

Sponsored by Mindler, use code DELETE22 for 50% off your first therapy session.

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Sarah Jayne Dunn: OnlyFans and taking back autonomy

Sun, 27 Mar 2022 23:01:59 GMT

This week Alex and Em talk to Sarah Jayne Dunn about double standards and hypocrisy in the media. They delve into her exit from Hollyoaks and how she has found empowerment through OnlyFans.

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:14

Interview with Sarah - 00:22:23

Is It Just Me? - 01:28:55

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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No such thing as normal with Bryony Gordon

Mon, 21 Mar 2022 00:01:57 GMT

In part 2 of their live episode at the FENOMENAL festival, Alex and Em chat to writer Bryony Gordon. Together, they talk about Bryony’s journey with Pure O and addiction, breaking mental health stigmas paving the way for future generations to talk more openly about these issues. As always, the girls discuss your Is It Just Me?'s, and this week they explore how it feels to a partner who doesn’t understand your body image struggles.

You can find Bryony's most recent books below:

No Such Thing As Normal

Glorious Rock Bottom

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:01:36

Interview with Bryony Gordon - 00:25:36

Is It Just Me? - 01:00:55

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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LIVE with Candice Brathwaite!

Mon, 14 Mar 2022 00:01:00 GMT

This week, Alex and Em interviewed Candice Brathwaite for their first ever live episode! The recording took place on International Women's Day at George's FENOMENAL festival, a day dedicated to celebrating and redefining femininity. Candice talks about childbirth and how, as a black woman, her concerns were dismissed and she was almost fatally mistreated, an all too common experience that is explored further in her first book I Am Not Your Baby Mother (link below). The girls also explore And Just Like That, the pitfalls of comparison and, of course, Candice's incredible style...

You can find Candice's books below:

Sista Sister

I Am Not Your Baby Mother

And you can follow her on Instagram @candicebrathwaite

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:21

Interview with Candice Brathwaite - 00:20:34

Is It Just Me? - 01:01:04

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Domestic Abuse: International Women's Day with Refuge

Mon, 07 Mar 2022 00:01:22 GMT

For International Women's Day, we have partnered up with the incredible charity Refuge, who are tirelessly working to put an end to domestic abuse and violence against women and children. We speak to three women: survivor Natasha Saunders, barrister Cherie Blair and Refuge's CEO Ruth Davison. We hope this episode gives you a deeper insight into the importance of Refuge's work and mission, and if you are able, please consider donating to Refuge via their website, link below.

Find out more about Refuge here: https://www.refuge.org.uk/

You can call the UK's National Domestic Abuse Hotline on 0808 2000 247

or access their live chat Monday to Friday, 3–10pm at www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk

Natasha's website is https://www.natashasaunders.co.uk/

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Debunking Diet Myths with Dr. Joshua Wolrich

Mon, 28 Feb 2022 00:01:42 GMT

On the release of this episode, it didn’t feel right to ignore or fail to address the tragic, heartbreaking developments in Ukraine.

Depending on our schedules, we often pre-record our episodes before they goes live and for this reason, we haven’t acknowledged the devastating events that are currently unfolding in this upcoming episode.

While we’re still not entirely sure what we can do to help in even the smallest way, we are currently speaking with trusts and charities on how best to bring more light to the situation and share with you. Unfortunately, time isn’t always on our side and we haven’t been able to make this happen as quickly as we would have hoped.

We’re sending love out to everyone and hope that we can help direct you to channels that share the facts on the situation and also what we as individuals can do to help.

This week, we grill Dr. Joshua Wolrich on common dieting misconceptions. He busts myths about sugar, gluten, diet coke and even microwaves...

You can find Dr. Josh's book here: https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/1120378/food-isn_t-medicine/9781785043451.html

And you can follow him on Instagram @drjoshuawolrich

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:20

Interview with Dr. Joshua Wolrich - 00:18:40

Is It Just Me? - 01:17:00

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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When Grief Equals Love

Mon, 21 Feb 2022 00:01:13 GMT

In this episode, the girls talk to grief guidance counsellor Lizzie Pickering, who Em has a special personal connection with. Lizzie shares her heart-rending experience of losing her son Harry to a rare form of muscular dystrophy, and explains how her grief taught her to live more in the moment and love even deeper.

If you want to support the publication of Lizzie’s book When Grief Equals Love, you can donate at https://unbound.com/books/when-grief-equals-love/.

Follow Lizzie @lizzie.pickering on Instagram, and you can find out more about Helen & Douglas House on their website: https://www.helenanddouglas.org.uk/

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:38

Interview with Lizzie Pickering - 00:15:57

Is It Just Me? - 01:23:00

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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Pink Flags with LalalaLetMeExplain

Mon, 14 Feb 2022 00:01:39 GMT

Happy Valentine's Day! Dating Educator @LalalaLetMeExplain joins the girls this week to share some priceless pearls of wisdom. She explains how to spot the pink and red flags in relationships, and why women should never settle for second best. Later, Is It Just Me? gets scatological as Em and Alex learn a little too much about the term “cup-caking”.

Contacts:

GIVE US A SHOUT - Text 'Shout' to 85258

THE SAMARITANS - Call 116 123

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:05:36

Interview with LalalaLetMeExplain - 00:21:28

Is It Just Me? - 01:23:07

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Produced & edited by Daisy Grant

Music by Alex Andrew

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The Girl Who Climbed Everest

Mon, 07 Feb 2022 00:01:48 GMT

Al is back from her honeymoon and FINALLY learns of the surprise guest that Em has lined up for her — luckily she couldn’t have been more prepared for this one! The girls also dive back into your embarrassing stories and Is It Just Me’s, and dish out a little bit of advice…

Show timestamps:

Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:07:25

Interview with Bonita Norris - 00:23:17

Is It Just Me? - 01:38:12

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

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Music by Alex Andrew

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Honeymoon Special with Dave & Alex

Mon, 31 Jan 2022 00:01:02 GMT

This week, Alex and Em chat to their partners Dave and Alex. We get a glimpse of the boys’ sensitive sides as they talk proposals, the pros and cons of life with an influencer, and their increasing anal bead collections...

Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com

Sponsored by Mindler

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Jameela Jamil on being a feminist in progress

Mon, 24 Jan 2022 00:01:35 GMT

It’s a biggie this week! Em and Alex chat to none other than Jameela Jamil about the portrayal of women in the media. Jameela recounts her own experiences of being demonised online, and reflects on the ways that women have been taught to tear each other down. She talks about her attempts to buck this trend, and her mission to make I Weigh a non-judgmental space in which people can learn and grow. On top of all this, Em shares the difficulties of wedding-planning as a feminist, and Alex confesses to a Candy Crush addiction...

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Holly Hagan on being body shamed and selling weight-loss teas

Mon, 17 Jan 2022 00:01:09 GMT

In this episode of ‘Should I Delete That?’ Em and Alex talk to the lovely Holly Hagan about her drastic shift in perspective when it comes to diet culture. Holly recalls the early abuse she received from trolls and the media, who put pressure on her to change her appearance but then judged her when she did so. She chats about the importance of having the space to make mistakes online and learn from them. The girls also get candid about marriage, contraception mishaps and even peeing in the shower!

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Accidental Live Therapy Session

Mon, 10 Jan 2022 06:00:30 GMT

Welcome to ‘Should I Delete That?’, and our first episode of 2022! In their brand new segment ‘the good, the bad, and the awkward’, Em and Alex reflect on the past few weeks, covering everything from reaching number one in the podcast charts to getting shadow banned by Instagram! The girls turn to life coach Jacqueline Hurst for some fantastic tips on how to become less reactive to criticism, and they discuss the importance of feeling your feelings fully. In the final segment, Em and Alex share listeners’ embarrassing stories, and even let slip some zingers of their own…

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2021 Round Up!

Mon, 27 Dec 2021 07:23:56 GMT

Welcome to 'Should I Delete That?' In this Christmas cracker of a first episode, Em and Alex look back on 2021 month-by-month. They discuss standout news stories and share memorable moments from their personal lives.

Listen out for more episodes from Em and Alex, coming up in the new year!

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Should I Delete That?

OUR BEST BITS - PART THREE: Our mums, Laura Bates, Lily Phillips and more…

OUR BEST BITS - PART TWO: Just Us

OUR BEST BITS - PART ONE: Jameela Jamil, Jacqueline Hurst, our husbands and more…

The end of Should I Delete That

How sex on screen really works - with the intimacy coordinator behind Normal People, Sex Education and I May Destroy You

Just Us: Overthinking, Christmas enthusiasm and finding the joy in small things

“We take the bins out naked” - with naturist Helen Berriman

Just Us: Alex goes fist deep, overexposing ourselves and The Great Bedsheet Debate

Jameela Jamil on "The Ozempic Olympics", being unapologetically outspoken and unafraid to be disliked

Just Us: Em in parliament, the stiff hug and 7 million downloads!

Emma Barnett will not be underestimated

Just Us: Dave got arrested, a spiritual awakening and the £300 journal

Is this a friendship break up? with Michelle Elman

Just Us: Squeeze the period, backhanded compliments and an existential spiral

We went to therapy for our friendship

Just Us: Embarrassing allergies, penis pavlova and an IVF update

“You’re not even allowed to think for yourself” - surviving a ‘cult’… with Rachael Reign

Just Us: The brilliance of Lily Allen, Nelly Furtado’s retirement and Al’s melancholy playlist

It's not just about dads - paternity leave is political

Just Us: Our intense friendship, momentary spirals and why we’ll get arrested…

Are you really ‘fine’? Estelle Bingham on healing your inner child

Just Us: Taylor Swift, Victoria Beckham and the suffering of being a woman

Comedy, autism, and the power of being different... with George Lewis

Just Us: Unsolicited parenting opinions, frightening US politics and cautionary hooliganism

“I brace myself for sexism, misogyny and racism” - Eni Aluko on being a female football pundit

Just Us: Accidental nudity, Emma Watson and the cult of matcha

One false allegation destroyed my career... with Jess Thorpe

Just Us: WhatsApp overwhelm, kids on planes and bringing more joy into our lives…

How to get over a breakup… with Toni Tone

Just Us: Inappropriate estate agents, cycling and the ultimate mug competition

“When I lost my hair, I lost my identity” - England Rugby player Heather Fisher on overcoming alopecia and a life changing injury

Just Us: The rise of Reform and GLP-1s - our honest thoughts

Dopamine, phone addictions and how our brains work - with neuroscientist TJ Power

Just Us: Are we sorry for platforming Lily Phillips?

OnlyFans star Lily Phillips: 'There’s only so many men you can f*** in a day'

Just Us: The stag do dildo, deadly animals and why we should be honest about motherhood…

What 90s TV did to my body image… Katy Hill on her experience as a Blue Peter presenter

Just Us: “How I lost 10 pounds” - is toxic diet culture back for good?

Boomers vs Millennials vs Gen Z? Ann Russell proves we’re not so different

Just Us: Free will, mole mapping and the drawer full of teeth

Ozempic, egg freezing and the fertility timeline: your questions answered

Just Us: The Skims face wrap, impossible beauty standards and perimenopause

I bought sperm on the internet - now I’m finally a mum … with Liv Thorne

Just Us: Wedding regrets, vanity and social media validation

Rugby made me love my body… with Wales International Rugby Union player Gwen Crabb

Just Us: The euphoria of women’s football and Al’s slip ’n slide nightmare

Sex, orgasms and libido: your questions answered by a sexologist

Just Us: Wedding weight loss pressure and the parent-childfree ’divide’

Daisy from Below Deck: “I don’t chase airtime - but some cast members do”

Just Us: Rage bait bots, heatwave influencing and the ham sandwich incident

“I’m constantly compared to Rio’s first wife”… Kate Ferdinand on building a blended family

Just Us: “Shocking” news, Tattle Life and AI brainrot

Britain’s Oldest Dominatrix: “It’s far more than whips and chains…”

Just Us: Sabrina Carpenter’s controversial album cover, IQ tests and an overshare…

“Why I’m no longer BodyPosiPanda” with Megan Jayne Crabbe

Just Us: The rise of SkinnyTok and a *very* embarrassing story

Fame, power and the women seeking justice: inside the trials of Diddy, Brand, Depp vs Heard and Lively vs Baldoni…. with The Crime Analyst

Just Us: Em lost her job, Bonnie Blue’s petting zoo and plastic surgery normalisation

"I was 15 when my naked picture was leaked"... with Jess Davies

Just Us: Break up practicalities, Krispy Kreme conspiracies and Daddy Pig’s weaponised incompetence

Periods, pain and being ignored: Naga Munchetty on the women’s health crisis

Just Us: We have a HUGE announcement…

Rethinking farming: mental health, loneliness, and breaking boundaries… with Clarkson's Farm's Harriet

Just Us: Running with boobs, protecting Blue Ivy and the indignity of diarrhoea

‘Woman killed’ - but by who? Dismantling the media spin on male violence

Just Us: Cannes nudity ban, hair loss and a drainoscopy

Cyber brothels, AI girlfriends and misogynistic algorithms: Laura Bates on the new age of sexism

Just Us: Are we all arguing with our partners?

“I got trapped in an underwater cave” - the life of a cave diver

Just Us: Al’s deepfake, Russell Brand and reading your comments

‘I shut down Stansted Airport with my psychotic episode’ - destigmatising bipolar disorder with Rosie Viva

Just Us: Girl boss feminism, billionaire vanity projects and a postpartum identity crisis

When IVF doesn’t work out... with Anna Hart

Just Us: White Lotus, information overload and a bad wax

Did weight gain change my relationship? with Tally Rye

Just Us: This should stay private

Convicted drug-dealer to award-winning artist: Kevin Devonport

Just Us: Chappell Roan on motherhood, Remi Bader’s weight loss surgery and why we need to stop policing women’s opinions

Gender surgery saves lives… with Mr James Bellringer

Just Us: The rise of SkinnyTok and a very embarrassing story

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