The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast

How to Make Your Wedding Guests Feel Like They Matter

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 11:00:00 GMT

It's one thing to want your guests to have a good time at your wedding. It's another thing to actually design a wedding around your guests, that involves them in the day and proves to them how much you value them as part of your wedding day and part of your life.

In this episode, I'm following up last week's with more ideas on how to engage your guests on your wedding day, connect with them and make them feel like participants on the day, rather than just bystanders. Last week we went over ideas for your pre-wedding and ceremony and this week we'll tackle cocktail hour, reception and post-wedding.

This isn't about spending more money or more time trying to impress your guests. This is about making your loved ones feel loved and like you actually wanted them at your wedding!

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How to Actually Connect With Your Guests at Your Wedding

Tue, 07 Apr 2026 11:00:00 GMT

We all want our guests to have a good time at our wedding, to feel connected by our love story and like they really matter on the big day. But how do you actually make that happen? How do you get your guests involved in your wedding so they feel like part of it, rather than just witnesses to what's happening? How do you take them from a bored audience watching a show to engaged loved ones you actually get to spend time with? And how do you do it all without blowing your budget or adding a million things to your wedding to-do list?

In this week's episode, I'm diving into what connecting with your wedding guests really means and how you can start designing a connective wedding from the early planning stages. I'll share tips for how to involve your guests in your pre-wedding events and your ceremony, then come back in the next episode with tips for the rest of your wedding day.

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My Real Wedding Budget: What I Spent vs What I Budgeted

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 03:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: I'm breaking down my actual wedding budget using the real numbers from my 2021 wedding!

I'm sharing what I originally budgeted, how much I ended up spending, what I splurged on and where I saved, plus how my numbers measure up to what wedding media tells us we "should" be spending. Whether you're planning a low budget wedding or something more luxurious, hearing the real numbers always helps. I think you'll find lots of money saving and money savvy tips in this episode!

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Everything You Need to Know About Wedding Thank You Cards

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 04:00:00 GMT

If there's one wedding tradition I stand by, it's wedding thank you cards. Yes, they're an old school wedding tradition, but they're also a really thoughtful and polite way to thank your guests not only for their gifts, but for the time, effort and love they put into your wedding.

In today's episode, I'm breaking down all of the wedding thank you card do's and don'ts. I'll tell you who gets a card, when to send them, what to do if someone didn't give you a gift and how to actually get all of your cards written on time in a (hopefully) fun way. Plus, I'll share a step-by-step template you can follow to write your own thank you cards!

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6 Ways to Stop Comparing Your Wedding to Everyone Else's

Tue, 17 Mar 2026 04:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: The wedding comparison game: A fun little game all engaged couples play when they compare their wedding to every wedding they attend or see on social media in the months leading up to their big day.

Toxic thoughts include: "Why didn't we get the 3-foot high centerpieces? They look so good", "Thank god we went for the chicken instead of this awful fish" and "A sparkler exit? Now I want one!"

Whether your wedding "wins" or "loses" when you compare, it doesn't feel great. You're inviting in toxic thoughts and it's an ugly place to be leading up to your own wedding. Stop comparing your wedding to everyone else's with the six tips in today's episode!

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Do You Really Need a Day-of Coordinator?

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 04:00:00 GMT

If you're an organized person planning a reasonably small wedding, do you actually need a day-of coordinator? Is it worth adding another $1000-3000 to your wedding budget if you can do the job yourself? Or are DOCs actually worth the cost? Do they really save you time, stress and work?

In today's episode, I'm breaking down what a day of coordinator does (and how that's different from a wedding planner or venue coordinator), sharing how they could save you and your loved ones stress and extra work, and discussing what to do if a DOC isn't in your budget. Plus, I'm getting into why I didn't hire a wedding coordinator for my own wedding (but maybe wish I had!).

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10 More Wedding Traditions You Can Skip

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 04:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: I'm back with 10 MORE wedding traditions you can skip. From parent/child dances to who pays for the wedding, this is a list of items that people are begging engaged folks to just retire already. I'll go through the list, give my take and hopefully give you something to think about. Do these traditions work for you? Will you be including them in your wedding?

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This is part 2 of last week's episode. If you missed last week's, be sure to head back and listen to it!

Inspired by: https://www.buzzfeed.com/asiawmclain/people-are-confessing-wedding-traditions-they-hate

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13 Wedding Traditions You Can Skip

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 04:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: What wedding traditions are begging to be skipped? What are guests tired or seeing and what are couples tired of doing? Find out in today's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast!

And find out whether I agree that these traditions should be skipped, plus some food for thought on whether you should skip them or include them in your wedding day. Then stay tuned for part two with more traditions you can nix!

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Inspired by: https://www.buzzfeed.com/asiawmclain/people-are-confessing-wedding-traditions-they-hate

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Your Wedding Planning Questions, Answered

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 04:00:00 GMT

I'm back with another wedding planning Q&A episode! This time I'm answering questions about where to start with wedding planning, how to plan your timeline, when to have your ceremony and what to do for the parent-child dance if one partner's father has passed away.

Have a wedding planning question you want to ask me? Or a topic you want me to cover on a future episode? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77

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How to Have a Feminist Wedding

Tue, 10 Feb 2026 04:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Trying to make your wedding more feminist and inclusive? Tired of all this "man and wife" and "honor and obey" stuff? Refuse to wear a big white dress or call anyone your "bride tribe?" Then this episode is for you!

And even if you are wearing white and changing your last name, there are still lots of things you can do to make your wedding more feminist and inclusive - which just means a more welcoming, equitable and loving environment for you, your spouse and all your loved ones!

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Planning a Wedding During Political Instability

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 04:00:00 GMT

Wedding planning is stressful in the best of times. But it's that much harder when you're worried about political instability, travel restrictions, safety and the comfort of your guests.

In today's episode, I'm answering a listener question about planning a destination wedding in the USA amidst all of the political upheaval. How do you decide when and where to hold your wedding? What do you say to your international guests? And how can you protect your mental health during a time of so much stress, heartbreak and uncertainty?

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Where to Start with Wedding Planning (Newly Engaged? Start Here!)

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 04:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: If you are newly engaged or just starting your wedding planning journey, you'll want to listen to this episode!

Before you book any wedding vendors or tour any venues, before you choose your wedding party and before you start spending any of your wedding budget, take a listen and ensure you and your fiance are starting wedding planning on the right foot. Happy wedding planning!

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13 More Hidden Wedding Costs You Don’t Want to Forget

Tue, 20 Jan 2026 04:00:00 GMT

This week I'm back with more hidden costs that can sneak their way into your wedding budget and end up costing you hundreds or thousands of dollars! From outfits for your wedding week and overtime fees to vendor meals, welcome bag delivery costs and exchange rates, tune in to hear 13 more wedding hidden costs you need to be aware of so you don't get surprised with a huge bill!

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Inspired by https://www.theknot.com/content/hidden-wedding-costs

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The 5 Worst Questions People Ask Right After You Get Engaged

Tue, 13 Jan 2026 05:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: As soon as you get engaged, people come at you with questions. Everyone wants to know all about your wedding planning - even if you just had your proposal ten minutes ago.

Tune in to hear what questions are coming your way and how to answer them without sabotaging your wedding or your relationships. Plus, a bonus vent session for fiances/fiancees who are feeling the feels right now!

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12 Wedding Hidden Costs You Need to Budget For

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 04:00:00 GMT

When you start wedding planning and putting together your wedding budget, it's easy (and important) to account for big ticket items like your venue, catering, photographer and outfits. But what about the smaller items and hidden costa that no one warns you about? What about the things that are easily forgotten or that creep up at the last minute? You've budgeted out every dollar and now you're stuck with a bill for an extra 20% of your total all thanks to tips, taxes, insurance and more.

In this episode, I'm going to help you to keep your wedding budget on track and to not be surprised by hidden wedding costs. I'll go through 12 wedding hidden fees and show how they could creep into your wedding budget.

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Inspired by https://www.theknot.com/content/hidden-wedding-costs

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7 Things to Do as Soon as You Get Engaged

Tue, 30 Dec 2025 05:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Congratulations, fiance! You're engaged!

If you're newly engaged (or have a proposal around the corner) or even if you've been engaged for a while, tune in to learn the seven things you'll want to do as soon as you're engaged and before you take your wedding planning to the next level. Congrats on your engagement and happy wedding planning!

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How to Announce Your Engagement

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 05:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Congratulations, you're engaged! (Or you're planning on getting engaged soon!) This is a super exciting time for you and your fiance but before you embark on your wedding planning journey, you have to share your engagement news.

Listen in for my top tips on how to announce your engagement, who to share it with and when, how to manage your own expectations and the line you need to memorize for every time someone asks (and they will ask!), "What are your wedding plans?"

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What I Wish Someone Had Told Me Right After I Got Engaged

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 04:00:00 GMT

I got engaged five years ago and even though the proposal was sweet and we had a very happy engagement, there are a few things I wish I could go back and tell myself. But since I can't time travel, I'm going to tell them to you!

From celebrating my engagement more to prioritizing myself and not opening Pinterest, these are the things I wish I someone had told me right after my engagement!

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6 Things to Talk to Your Partner About Before Getting Married

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 05:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Before you get married, make sure you're discussing these six things with your partner! From obvious ones like money and kids, to not so obvious topics like what happens if someone loses their job, these six categories of communication should be a must for all engaged couples during wedding planning.

It's not about having one hard conversation and checking it off your list. It's about opening up communication and making plans for your life together.

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How Are Couples Getting Engaged in 2025?

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 05:00:00 GMT

In 2025, how are couples meeting? How long do they date before getting engaged? Who proposes, when and how? What kind of ring are they proposing with and how much does it cost?

In this week's episode, I'm diving into the data on 2025 engagements and giving my take on some of the emerging trends. The things I love (like more couples talking about marriage long before getting engaged), the things I hate (like the pressure to have an elaborate proposal) and the things that surprise me (people are visiting how many jewelry stores??), tune in to hear all about 2025 engagements - and see how yours compares!

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The study: https://www.theknot.com/content/wedding-data-insights/real-weddings-study

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How to Make Hard Decisions for Your Wedding

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 04:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Wedding planning ain't easy. If you haven't had to make a hard decision as an engaged person planning a wedding...it's coming! Whether it's cutting your guest list, going over budget, changing venues, firing vendors or dealing with restrictions, hard decisions have to be made.

Tune into this week's episode to listen to the story of my latest hard decision (finding a new officiant and photographer 27 days before our wedding!!!) and the lessons you can take with you for your next tough call.

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13 Wedding Budget Mistakes You Don’t Want to Make

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 04:00:00 GMT

Nothing can derail wedding planning more than making a big mistake with your wedding budget. Whether it's overspending, forgetting insurance, stretching your guest list or not talking about your priorities first, trust me, you really can't afford to make any of these wedding budget mistakes!

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Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/wedding-budget-ways-to-save-money

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7 Drastic Ways to Save Money on Your Budget Wedding

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 03:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Calling all extreme budget wedding planners! If you're looking to slash your wedding budget in half and get married as affordably as possible, this is the episode for you.

We've talked budget saving tips on the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast before but today we're getting DRASTIC about it. If you want to have the ultimate budget wedding, tune in for these tips that are sure to save you a lot of money!

Warning: These budget wedding tips are not for the faint of heart. We're about to make some serious cuts to your wedding plans!

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8 More Last Minute Wedding Planning Tasks (+ 5 You Can Skip!)

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 03:00:00 GMT

Wait, don't forget! I'm back with 8 more wedding planning tasks that you don't want to forget in the final days and hours before your wedding. What should you be practicing or writing? Who do you have to call? What should you add to the last minute to-do list?

And maybe more importantly, I'm sharing five last minute wedding tasks that I actually think you CAN go ahead and forget. If these are things you're still planning to do, go ahead and skip them!

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Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/wedding-day-essentials; https://www.weddingshoppeinc.com/blogs/weddings/34-last-minute-wedding-planning-tips-you-cant-forget; https://www.queenslandbrides.com.au/30-last-minute-wedding-tasks-you-wont-want-to-forget/; https://www.rockmywedding.co.uk/wedding-planning/wedding-details-to-remember

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11 Last Minute Wedding Planning Tasks You Don’t Want to Forget

Tue, 28 Oct 2025 03:00:00 GMT

It's only a couple of days before your wedding and your mind is swimming. Do you have everything you need? Does everyone know what they have to do? Will the weather hold out? What on earth are you forgetting about?

Don't worry - I've got you. In today's episode I'm sharing 11 last minute wedding planning tasks you don't want to forget in the final week/days before your wedding. These are things that might slip your mind but once you've added them to your to-do list, you're going to feel a whole lot better. Every single one will help make your wedding day smoother and more stress-free!

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6 Wedding Planning Mantras to Never Forget

Tue, 21 Oct 2025 02:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Don't worry - I'm not going all woo-woo on you.

But we're going there - we're talking all about wedding planning mantras. These are the things you should keep in mind while planning a wedding to help you focus on your goals, prioritize your marriage and ensure your planning aligns with your values. It's not all tablecloths and taffeta! Sometimes it's important to zoom out and focus on the aspects of a wedding and marriage that are most important to you.

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14 Wedding Planning Tasks You Can Tackle More Than A Year in Advance

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 02:00:00 GMT

If you're planning on a long engagement - or maybe you're not even engaged yet but you want to start planning your wedding - this episode is for you! What can you do to get ahead on wedding planning when it's too early to book your venue, choose your caterer or send out invites? Turns out, quite a bit!

Inspired by a listener, I'm sharing 14 things you can do for your wedding even if your wedding date is more than a year in the future. I've also got a few words of caution and things you should watch out for if you're staying in fiance-land for a while!

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Bachelorette Parties Have Gotten Out of Control

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 02:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Whether you call it a bachelorette, a hen do or a stagette - or you're having a bachelor party, stag night or buck and doe - I think it's time we admit that these pre-wedding parties have gotten out of control.

Remember when we used to just go out for drinks and dancing with our best friends? Now it's a week off work, flights to Mexico, five-star villas, boat trips, all new outfits and more. These parties have become A LOT. While I'm all for having fun with friends, we need to reassess why we have these parties and figure out how to make them more affordable, less stressful and more true to us.

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WTF Is a Wedding Party Questionnaire and Do You Need One?

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 02:00:00 GMT

What is a wedding party questionnaire and do you actually need one for your wedding? More commonly known as bridesmaid questionnaires, these surveys help you organize all the info you need from your wedding party in one place.

In today's episode, I'll dive into the best way to craft your wedding party questionnaire, including what questions to ask and which ones to skip, best practices for sending it, and whether or not you really need one!

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Inspired by https://www.brides.com/bridesmaid-questionnaire-8636139 & https://www.theknot.com/content/things-your-bridesmaids-want-you-to-know

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10 Special Moments for the Two of You on Your Wedding Day

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 08:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: So many newlyweds say they barely got to see their spouse on their wedding day because they were too busy talking to the caterer, catching up with relatives, or getting ready with the wedding party. Want to actually spend time with your spouse on your wedding day? Here's how!

I've found 10 moments throughout the wedding day for you and your spouse to actually spend some time together and celebrate your marriage, just the two of you. Trust me, you want to plan for these ahead of time so you don't miss seeing your new spouse all night long!

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How Do You Plan a Backyard Wedding Without Losing Your Mind?

Tue, 16 Sep 2025 08:00:00 GMT

Inspired by listener Michelle, this week's episode is all about backyard weddings and how to plan them without absolutely losing your sh*t! Because it turns out that a laidback and chill backyard wedding is actually a whole-freaking-lot of work!

We'll talk about how to make backyard wedding planning easier on yourself, enlisting help from loved ones and professionals, the essential elements you'll need to figure out (like restrooms, power and insurance), plus the other little wedding tasks you might be worrying about (like cleaning up the garden the next day!).

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Resources: https://junebugweddings.com/wedding-blog/the-ultimate-guide-to-planning-a-backyard-wedding/ & https://www.theknot.com/content/home-wedding-reception-secrets

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11 Wedding Planning Regrets to Watch Out For

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 08:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Back in episode 50 I shared 9 common wedding planning regrets and how to avoid them. So for episode 70, I'm back with 11 more regrets you should watch out for on your wedding day. We're covering everything from long reception lines and uncomfortable heels to DJs who don't have your song and bad photographers. Tune in to make sure you avoid these wedding planning regrets!

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Based on this article: https://www.buzzfeed.com/lizmrichardson/wedding-day-regrets

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How to Choose Your Wedding Date

Tue, 02 Sep 2025 08:00:00 GMT

One of the first major wedding planning tasks you have to accomplish is choosing your wedding date. But how do you actually make that decision? Tune in for my tips on how to narrow down what date is going to work best for you, plus my #1 rule: You don't actually have a wedding date until you have a venue booked!

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Your Wedding Planning Checklist (Part 2)

Tue, 26 Aug 2025 08:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: I'm back with part two of your wedding planning checklist and timeline. We're picking up where we left off with everything you're "supposed" to do from six months until the day of your wedding.

Along the way I'm offering my advice and perspective, as well as where I'm at with my 2021 wedding planning so you can feel better about yours!

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Your Wedding Planning Checklist (Part 1)

Tue, 19 Aug 2025 08:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Welcome to your wedding planning checklist and timeline!

On today's episode I'm taking you through what a typical wedding planning checklist and timeline says you should be doing, from 12 to 6 months out from your wedding. Along the way I'll let you know where I'm at with my planning and whether or not I think the regular wedding media has this checklist right or wrong.

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How to Host an Alcohol-Free, Dry Wedding (But Still Have Fun)

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 08:00:00 GMT

Whether you're sober, not a big drinker or just thinking about not serving alcohol at your wedding to save a little money, there are lots of good reasons to host a dry wedding. But your wedding guests may have some THOUGHTS on your alcohol-free nuptials.

In today's episode, I'm answering a question from listener Becky about how to have a dry wedding but still make sure it's fun for your guests. I'm talking about what your guests might expect (and how you can deal with their reactions), how to prepare your guests for a sober affair, and lots of ways you can still have a blast on your wedding day while sipping on a 0% mocktail!

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Everything You Need to Know About Vows

Tue, 05 Aug 2025 08:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: This episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is all about VOWS!

From how to decide if you want to write your own to how to write them and delivery on the big day, this episode is going to cover it all. Grab your fiance or fiancee and listen up before you start writing your own wedding vows!

In this episode:

How to decide whether you want personal vows or traditional vows
Combo vows! Perfect for those who want vows that are personalized but not written from scratch
When to write your vows
Where to write your vows
Vow writing date night
The vow writing process + writing tips
Why you need to practice your vows
How to deliver your vows on the big day
How to save your vows after your wedding

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8 Things You Never Want Your Wedding Guests to Do

Tue, 29 Jul 2025 08:00:00 GMT

From switching seats at the reception and bringing you a gift that wasn't on your registry to overdoing it at the bar or starting some family drama, I'm back with eight more things you definitely don't want your guests to do at your wedding.

But rather than just stress you out with these wedding guest faux pas, I'm also sharing what you can do to fix these mistakes or even prevent them in the first place!

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How to Not Feel Guilty About Going Over Your Wedding Budget

Tue, 22 Jul 2025 08:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Going over your wedding budget and over-spending SUCKS and can make you feel super guilty. But we don't want to spend our entire wedding planning journey feeling horrible and guilty every time we have to pay a deposit or swipe our credit card.

Tune in for four ways to help you deal with the guilt so you can enjoy your wedding planning experience, but still spend responsibly.

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8 Mistakes Wedding Guests Make (and How You Can Help Fix Them)

Tue, 15 Jul 2025 08:00:00 GMT

As a couple planning a wedding, the last thing you want to deal with is a guest showing up late, ignoring the dress code or not bothering to RSVP. But how do you stop your guests from committing these wedding sins?

In this episode, I'm diving into four major mistakes that wedding guests can make and - most importantly - what you can do to fix these mistakes or stop them from happening in the first place and affecting your wedding day.

Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77

This episode was inspired by: https://www.brides.com/wedding-guest-faux-pas-11704425

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12 Fun Wedding Planning Tasks You Can Do Together

Tue, 08 Jul 2025 11:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: When your wedding planning just feels stressful, chaotic and like way too much work, it's time to focus on the FUN side of wedding planning.

Tune in to hear 12 fun wedding planning tasks that you and your partner can do together! That's not to say your fiance(e) is off the hook for the not-so-fun side of wedding planning, but you can reel them in with these fun tasks first!

This episode includes:

12 fun wedding planning tasks you two can do together, from cake tasting to practicing your first kiss!
How to make all wedding planning tasks fun
What to do when you just need a break from planning your wedding
And my soapbox rant about grooms/partners who think it's okay to give an opinion but not help with the planning!

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Why You Shouldn’t Hire Friends as Your Wedding Vendors

Tue, 01 Jul 2025 11:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Hiring friends to be your wedding vendors (or friendors) isn't all it's cracked up to be. Sure, they know you well and will probably do it for a discount, but that comes at a cost.

Tune in as I share the dangers of hiring friends for professional jobs for your wedding, and some tips if you still want to hire a friend or if you need help turning one down. Happy wedding planning!

In today's episode:

4 reasons why hiring your friends as vendors is a bad idea
What happens if you're not happy with your friend's service?
How to turn down a friendor
Other ways to honor your friends
The best way to still hire a friendor without ruining your wedding (or worse, your friendship!)

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9 Actually Good Wedding Gift Ideas for Your Parents and In-Laws

Tue, 24 Jun 2025 11:00:00 GMT

We're talking wedding gifts and sadly, not just the ones you are going to receive. This week's episode is all about the wedding gifts you have to give - specifically to your parents and your in-laws (or any other special parent-figures in your life).

Rather than going with a generic Father of the Bride handkerchief on Etsy or stressing about what to get your stepmom for weeks, I'll give you nine options for wedding gifts that are parent-approved. These gifts are heartfelt, customizable and can work with any budget. Plus, there's absolutely no plastic crap with your wedding date on it that no one really wants...

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This episode was inspired by: https://www.brides.com/anniversary-gifts-for-parents-5119436; https://www.theknot.com/content/thank-you-gifts-for-parents?; https://www.townandcountrymag.com/the-scene/weddings/g38629795/wedding-gifts-for-parents/

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How to Plan a Wedding with Your In-Laws

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 11:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Planning a wedding is tough enough but now add in family dynamics? Yikes!

What is the best way to involve your in-laws in your wedding planning? How do you work through differences and reach a compromise? When can you force your fiance to deal with it? Why is it easier to call your mom than your mother-in-law? Tune in and find out!

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11 Reasons to Pay for Your Own Wedding

Tue, 10 Jun 2025 11:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Turn down free money? Yeah, maybe.

On today's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm diving into 11 reasons why you should pay for your own wedding, even if it means turning down your parents' contribution. In case you're not totally convinced, I'm also sharing some budget wedding tips for how to compromise with your parents and work with them on planning your wedding budget.

Money problems are the #1 cause of divorce so this is a must-listen episode!

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16 Gen Z Wedding Trends - Love 'em or Hate 'em?

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 11:00:00 GMT

With more of the wedding industry being dominated by Gen Z, this millennial thought she'd weigh in on some Gen Z wedding trends.

What is the younger generation into? Where do they stand on ceremony music, wedding parties, cakes and dress codes? And most importantly, what do I think of it all?

Tune in to hear 16 things Gen Z love to see at weddings - and whether I agree or disagree with their takes. (I promise I only rant about social media once or twice.)

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15 Things to Know Before Planning Your Honeymoon

Tue, 27 May 2025 10:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: So you're planning to go on a honeymoon...congrats! As a big travel lover, the honeymoon is one of (the most?) important part of my wedding planning.

On today's episode I'm sharing 15 things you need to know before you book a honeymoon. Whether you love travel or have never been on a plane, you'll want to listen to this episode. There's a perfect honeymoon out there for every engaged couple!

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How to Navigate Tricky Family Relationships on Your Wedding Day

Tue, 20 May 2025 10:00:00 GMT

Wedding planning is hard enough when you remember that you're combining two families, spending more money than you ever have and planning a once in a lifetime event that's supposed to perfectly sum up your entire relationship and personality. Now add onto that family drama!

In today's episode, I'm replying to a listener, Jack, who wrote in with some tricky family dynamics that are at play at his wedding. How do you make it less obvious that you're closer to your in-laws than your parents? What do you do if guests wonder why certain people aren't attending your wedding? And how do you avoid unnecessary drama around a family member you're no-contact with?

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What to Do When You Have Wedding Regrets

Tue, 13 May 2025 12:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Uh oh! You made a decision about your wedding and now you've changed your mind. But it's too late! What do you do when you have wedding regrets?

Wedding planning is a tough job and you're likely going to make a call now that you will regret by the time your wedding day rolls around. But hindsight is 20/20! Whether you decided to postpone, downsize or go virtual and now regret it, or you bought a dress or booked a venue that you now hate, here's how to deal with wedding regrets.

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What Actually Happens If You Go Over Your Wedding Budget

Tue, 06 May 2025 12:00:00 GMT

There's a lot of wedding content out there about how to stay on budget for your wedding - how to save money, how to set your budget, how to be under budget, etc. But no one really talks about going over budget. What happens when you overspend and blow it?

In this week's episode, I'm diving into the taboo reality that many couples find themselves in: spending more than their wedding budget allows. I'll talk about what this reality looks like, how you can try and fix it, and what you can do to avoid going over budget in the first place.

Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77

You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility, pregnancy or parenthood journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa

This episode is inspired by: https://junebugweddings.com/wedding-blog/i-went-over-my-wedding-budget-now-what/

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To DIY or Not to DIY

Tue, 29 Apr 2025 12:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: The big wedding planning question: to DIY or not to DIY?

We've been told that DIY projects are what makes a budget wedding and that if you want to save money and have a personalized day, you need to bust out the glue gun and get on Pinterest. But are DIY projects worth it? When is it a good time to DIY? And can you enlist your wedding party to help?

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11 Wedding Vendor Red Flags to Watch Out For

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 12:00:00 GMT

So you think you've found an amazing wedding vendor. You've been fawning over their social media pages for years and they just so happen to be available for your wedding date. You should just book, right?

Well, maybe not. You want to make sure you're not missing any of these wedding vendor red flags before you sign on the dotted line or send over your deposit. Tune in to hear about 11 red flags that should send you screaming and running in the opposite direction of your vendors. Or maybe these red flags aren't deal breakers for you, but they're still important to note.

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This episode is inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/how-to-choose-wedding-vendors & https://www.brides.com/wedding-vendor-red-flags-8610876

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How to Tell Someone They’re Not Invited to Your Wedding

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 11:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: This episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is all about that awkward conversation...when you have to tell someone they're not invited to your wedding. Listen in as we chat about who you need to have this conversation with, how to stick to your guns, and exactly what to say. Seriously, you can copy this word for word!

If you have to tell someone they're not invited to your wedding, listen to this episode for a confidence boost and practical tips. Good luck!

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Answering More of Your Wedding Planning Questions

Tue, 08 Apr 2025 11:00:00 GMT

This week we're diving into three listener wedding planning questions tackling subjects like wedding weekends and what your guests expect, how to plan a reception when your partner hates the dance floor, and when is too late to ask someone to be in your bridal party - plus what to do if someone volunteers to be a bridesmaid (red flag alert!).

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All About Wedding Invitations!

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 11:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Today's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is all about wedding invitations. And because this isn't a podcast about etiquette or tradition, we're not going to go over how to formally invite people or how many inner envelopes you need to have.

This episode is all about the point of invites, how to save money on your wedding invites and how to modernize them. Plus, the one traditional aspect I actually think is worth keeping!

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You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility, pregnancy or parenthood journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa

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I Want to Elope and He Wants a Big Wedding. Now What?

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 11:00:00 GMT

What happens when you want to elope and your partner wants a big wedding? Or when you've always dreamt of a destination wedding and your fiance prefers to keep things local? Or when your ideal budget is $100K and theirs is $5K?

Compromising on a wedding is difficult, because the truth is you're two people with your own visions but you're only planning one wedding. In this week's episode, I'm going to talk through the important conversations you need to have before you start planning your wedding, options for compromising when your wedding visions are drastically different, and how to stand up for yourself if you're feeling pressured into a wedding you don't want.

PS: Thanks to listener Mara for suggesting this episode!

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What to Do When Wedding Planning Feels Frivolous

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 11:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: Sometimes wedding planning feels frivolous. Or silly. Or ridiculous. Or just unnecessary. Especially when something big and real and awful happens in our lives, it can be hard to muster the same enthusiasm for napkin colors or invitation font choices. So what do you do when you're dealing with something heavy in the middle of planning your wedding?

Whether it's the death of a loved one or a lost job, it can be hard to keep going with your wedding plans when your life is shook up and put into perspective. Listen along for my tips on how to keep going, how to plan without guilt and why weddings really are meaningful. And if you are in this situation, my heart goes out to you!

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14 More Wedding Details to Cut From Your Budget

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Looking to save money, time and stress? Aren't we all! This week I'm back with even more wedding details and extras that you can CUT from your budget. Not only will cutting these things help you save money, but they'll also save you all of the time and energy that would go into organizing them in the first place.

From welcome drinks and after parties to second wedding outfits and activities for kids, let's get real about our wedding priorities and save you some $$!

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15 Wedding Details to STOP Spending Money On

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 13:00:22 GMT

If you want to chop your wedding budget in half, you're going to need to make some drastic cuts. But what if you just want to save yourself a couple hundred or maybe even thousands of dollars?

In part one of this series, I'm sharing 15 wedding details you can STOP spending time, energy and money on. These are often overlooked parts of a wedding that everyone just assumes they have to do. But the truth is, you don't! Your guests won't miss them and you sure as heck won't miss the time and money spent on them.

Stay tuned for part two next week with 14 more things you can cut!

This episode was inspired by: https://www.brides.com/wedding-details-money-saving-tips-8665181

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How to Tell People You’re Having an Unconventional Wedding

Tue, 25 Feb 2025 13:00:47 GMT

REBROADCAST: If you're planning an unconventional or non-traditional wedding, sometimes you need to break the news to the people in your life ahead of time. How do you tell dad he won't be walking the bride down the aisle? How do you tell mom no one wants her hand-me-down veil? How do you let your best friend know you won't be having a bachelor party?

Listen in for my tips on how to break the news of your unconventional wedding and how to stick to your guns and have the wedding you and your fiance actually want!

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How and When to Ask People to Be in Your Wedding Party

Tue, 18 Feb 2025 13:00:42 GMT

If you're newly engaged, it can be so easy to get swept up in the excitement as you share your news with all of your friends and family. But then all of a sudden, you realize you promised 10 people they can be in your wedding party! Only you have no idea when your wedding is, if you'll still be friends with these people by then or even if you want a wedding party at all...

In this week's episode I'm talking all about exactly when and how to ask someone to be your bridesmaid, maid of honor, groomsman, best man, person of honor, attendant, best person, etc. As exciting as this time is, I strongly recommend you slow things down and listen to this episode. It'll help you avoid a lot of wedding party drama in the future!

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What If You Don't Want to Be Given Away?

Tue, 11 Feb 2025 13:00:45 GMT

REBROADCAST: So what happens if you're a bride and you don't want your father to give you away? Do you have to have your dad walk you down the aisle and hand you to your groom? What if you're two brides or two grooms...then what do you do?

Tune into this episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast to hear my reframe on the aisle walk and other options if the patriarchal idea of being "given away" just doesn't sit right with you. Plus, tips for how to break the news to your dad if he's always envisioned walking his little girl down the aisle!

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12 Wedding After Party Mistakes You Don’t Want to Make

Tue, 04 Feb 2025 14:00:56 GMT

Once upon a time weddings were just ceremonies. Then came receptions. And now we've got welcome parties, rehearsal dinners, next day brunches and, of course, wedding after parties.

If you're planning to host an after party - whether you want to keep the dance floor fun flowing or you want to change up the vibe and enjoy some casual drinks with friends - listen in for 12 mistakes you don't want to make. We're talking food, alcohol, entertainment, decor and more - plus the best timing and use of your after party budget!

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You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa

Inspired by: https://www.brides.com/wedding-after-party-mistakes-8714937

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9 Common Wedding Regrets (& How to Avoid Them!)

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 14:00:53 GMT

REBROADCAST: On today's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm diving into nine common wedding regrets from real brides and grooms. Are these wedding regrets legit? If so, how do you avoid them?

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Is It Just Cold Feet or Something More Serious?

Tue, 28 Jan 2025 14:00:14 GMT

Good news, wedding planners! I used a new recording platform to record this episode and I think the audio is way better! Let me know what you think (contact form below) or if you have any other feedback for the show, episode suggestions, etc.

In less happy news, today we've got a pretty tough topic: cold feet. What's the difference between normal pre-wedding nerves and jitters (aka cold feet) vs a more serious problem that could mean you need to call off your wedding and end your relationship?

No one likes to think about this scary part of wedding planning, but the fact is that many couples (over 80%) deal with cold feet. You owe it to yourself and your partner to figure out if your feelings are normal ones that are wrapped up in wedding stress or if you need to make the tough call to cancel your wedding.

Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/dealing-with-cold-feet

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How to Plan a Budget Wedding for Less Than $5000

Fri, 24 Jan 2025 14:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: I'm back with another wedding planning episode all about budget weddings. Specifically, can you plan a wedding with a budget of only $5000?

Spoiler alert: YES, YOU CAN! In today's episode I'm walking you through my actual wedding plans and sharing the exact numbers of how much everything costs.

A budget wedding is possible and doesn't have to be tacky or something you compromise on. You can still have a beautiful wedding day without spending more than $5000.

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What You Actually Need to Include on Your Wedding Website

Tue, 21 Jan 2025 14:00:28 GMT

Welcome to episode #150, wedding planners - we made it! It only took us 150 episodes to finally talk all about the wedding website. But we're here now, so let's do it.

In this episode I'm sharing the things you actually need to have on your wedding website. What are the required elements and what do you guests actually need to know? I'm also sharing 5 optional extras you can add to your website plus 5 things you definitely want to avoid putting on there!

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How to Survive a Long Engagement

Fri, 17 Jan 2025 14:00:47 GMT

REBROADCAST: So many engaged couples have had to deal with long engagements as their weddings get pushed out, postponed or downsized. Most couples are engaged for just 12-18 months but many couples are finding themselves engaged for 2, 3, 4 or even five years before their big wedding comes around!

So how do you handle it? How do you survive a long engagement? Listen in for my tips about how to make progress with wedding planning without spending your entire engagement glued to Pinterest.

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10 Things Wedding Party Members Should NOT Have to Do

Tue, 14 Jan 2025 14:00:45 GMT

If you're planning to have a wedding party (aka bridal party with bridesmaids, groomsmen, people of honor, etc.) at your wedding, you need to listen to this episode!

Today I'm sharing some tough love and reminding you that as much as your wedding party members love you and want to help make your wedding awesome, there are certain things they should NOT have to do. Wear an itchy outfit? Nope! Give up all their free time and money for your wedding? Also nope!

Tune in to hear what you should and should not expect from your wedding party so you can avoid the drama and leave your wedding with all of your relationships intact!

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How Long Should You Be Engaged For?

Fri, 10 Jan 2025 14:00:32 GMT

REBROADCAST: If you just got engaged, congratulations! With the proposal behind you and wedding planning on the brain, you might be wondering how long this period should last. How long should couples be engaged before they get married?

Listen in as I discuss the pros and cons of a long engagement and a short engagement, and reasons why you might pick each one. Does it matter if you want kids, plan to elope, have money saved up or have your heart set on a venue? What if you're planning a budget wedding or a destination wedding? I cover it all in this episode!

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How to Plan a Wedding When You’re Short on Time

Tue, 07 Jan 2025 14:00:31 GMT

How do you plan a full-scale wedding when you only have <6 months to pull it off? Or how do you plan a wedding for hundreds when you're busy with work, life and family?

In this episode, I'm discussing what you need to consider when planning a wedding if you're short on time - whether that's planning on a short timeframe (<6 months) or you just don't have enough hours in a week to plan it all. There are some harsh truths you'll have to accept, but it absolutely can be done! I'll go over big things to consider and the four steps you should take to pull this off.

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The 7 2025 Wedding Trends I Love

Tue, 31 Dec 2024 14:00:08 GMT

After hating on 2025 wedding trends a couple of weeks ago, I thought I'd end the year with a little love and share the 2025 wedding trends I'm excited about (plus a few that I'm a bit more on the fence about). Tune in to hear which trends I hope will be seen at many weddings in 2025 and beyond!

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The 15 2025 Wedding Trends I Hate

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 14:00:38 GMT

With 2024 coming to an end, it's time to look ahead at the biggest wedding trends for 2025! I'm starting things off with a little hate sharing the 2025 wedding trends I am NOT into (dramatic drapery and monochrome food tables, really?). There are a few controversial ones on this list so just remember, we don't have to agree on everything when it comes to wedding planning!

Plus, stay tuned for a future episode where I talk the 2025 wedding trends I love!

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Part 2: 13 More Wedding Etiquette Rules All Guests Should Follow

Fri, 13 Dec 2024 14:00:11 GMT

I'm back with part two of my wedding etiquette rules all guests should follow. In this episode, we're talking about rules for the reception and after the wedding. Figure out how to stop people from over-indulging at an open bar, ignoring your carefully curated seating chart and totally forgetting about your wedding as soon as it's over.

If you missed part one, go back an episode and check it out!

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Source: https://www.brides.com/wedding-etiquette-tips-for-guests-4704983

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Part 1: 14 Wedding Etiquette Rules All Guests Should Follow

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 14:00:27 GMT

As people planning a wedding, it can be really annoying when your wedding guests don't follow what we assume are basic wedding etiquette rules. Why can't they RSVP on time? Why do they keep asking about a plus one? Why do they think it's okay to show up late to the ceremony?

On this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, we're covering the first 14 of 27 wedding etiquette rules that guests should follow before the wedding and at the ceremony. PLUS how you, as the married couple to-be, can make life easier for your guests and encourage them to actually follow these rules!

PS: This was originally going to be all 27 rules in one episode, but I got chatty. So stay tuned for part two where we talk rules for the reception and after the wedding!

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Source: https://www.brides.com/wedding-etiquette-tips-for-guests-4704983

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How to Combine the Spiritual and Secular in Your Wedding

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:00:30 GMT

What happens if you're religious and your partner isn't? Or they're secular and you're spiritual? Or you're both religious, but they're Pagan while you're Protestant?

In today's episode, I'm tackling the big issue of how to combine religious (and non-religious) beliefs into one wedding day that truly represents you both. Listen in as I give you some big things to consider and lots of options for expressing your values throughout your ceremony and reception.

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5 Hard Wedding Planning Truths You Need to Hear

Fri, 29 Nov 2024 14:00:12 GMT

REBROADCAST: Whether you're planning a budget wedding or a lavish wedding, whether you have a wedding party of 20 or no wedding party at all, whether you're having an elopement this spring or a big bash five years from now, these are the wedding planning truths you need to hear.

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What to Include in Your Wedding Backup Plan

Tue, 26 Nov 2024 14:00:32 GMT

Even the best laid plans can be totally upturned when a vendor no-shows, guests get sick, your partner breaks their leg, and it decides to rain and hail on your wedding day! That's why it's so important for you to have a wedding backup plan - not just for bad weather, but for any situation that might derail your wedding.

Tune in as I discuss how to plan for bad weather, no-show vendors, guest cancellations, wedding party members who can't make it, your own personal issues that might affect the wedding and even a postponement/cancellation.

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Help! My Dad Thinks We’re Being Cheap With Our Wedding

Tue, 19 Nov 2024 14:00:46 GMT

In today's episode, I'm tackling a listener question all about wedding budgets and parents. What happens if your parents think you're being cheap or are ashamed of what you're asking guests to pay for? Do your parents have a point or is what you're planning acceptable?

Tune in to find out my take, plus tips for how to analyze your decisions and repair relationships when you disagree.

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Should You Change Your Last Name?

Fri, 15 Nov 2024 14:00:15 GMT

REBROADCAST: Today we're tackling the big question: After the wedding, should you change your last name? And, if so, what should your married last name be? Are you keeping yours, taking your partner's, hyphenating or doing something totally different? Listen in as I go through the different last name options newlyweds will have to consider and share my own last name dilemma! Happy wedding planning, engaged folk!

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How to Compromise With Your Partner When You Have Different Wedding Visions

Tue, 12 Nov 2024 14:00:12 GMT

You've always envisioned a six-tier wedding cake while your partner wants to serve donut holes. You want an outdoor wedding and they want it indoors. You want to elope with 10 guests while they want to invite 300 of their closest friends.

So what do you do when you and your partner have different wedding visions? Listen in as I share a 3-part formula for reaching a compromise that will leave you both feeling good about your decision, rather than arguing until someone gives in.

PS: I forgot to give a warning about the ad break. It happens around 18:49!

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Who Gets a Plus One?

Fri, 08 Nov 2024 14:00:13 GMT

REBROADCAST: When it comes to your wedding, who gets a plus one? Do you have to give a plus one to all of your single wedding guests? What about the ones in relationships but where you don't know the partner? Or what if the partner is the worst?

Listen in as I break down my rules for who should get a plus one and who really doesn't need one. I also provide some helpful tips on how to push back on guests who try to break your rules and want to bring a plus one anyway. Bottom line: No one needs to have their third date at your wedding!

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How to Plan a Wedding as a Parent

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 14:00:26 GMT

Whether you're chasing after a two year old, creating a blended family with your spouse-to-be or empty nesters, planning a wedding as a parent can look a lot different than planning a wedding without kids in the picture.

In this week's episodes I'm talking about the realities of wedding planning as a parent, what you need to think about in the planning and prep stage, and how to include your children in the different aspects of your wedding.

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Your Wedding Should NOT Be the Best Day of Your Life

Fri, 01 Nov 2024 13:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: We always hear that your wedding day should be the best day of your life - that your wedding day is going to be perfect and you should go all out because it's all about you. But I disagree. Your wedding day should NOT be the best day of your life.

Listen in as I explain why planning the best day of your life hurts your wedding budget, adds stress to your wedding planning and even makes your marriage suffer. Important listen for all brides, grooms and engaged couples planning a wedding. It won't be perfect and it won't be the best - and that's okay!

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13 Low Cost Ways to Reduce Wedding Waste

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 13:00:55 GMT

In this mega-episode I'm covering 13 ways you can reduce wedding waste without increasing your wedding budget. Tune in for lots of practical tips, easy changes and things to think about that will help save your wallet and the planet.

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Source: https://www.lbfphoto.com/blog/75-tips-zero-waste-wedding

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How to Stand Up to Wedding Judgment

Fri, 25 Oct 2024 13:00:49 GMT

REBROADCAST: It's sad but it's true: people are going to judge your wedding.

Wedding judgment is real and people are full of opinions if you're a bride, groom or person in the middle of wedding planning! Whether it's your wedding budget, your choice in flowers or what you decide to serve at the reception, people will judge you for it. So what do you do? How do you deal with wedding judgment, avoid it all together and stick to your decisions? Tune in to find out!

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How to STOP Being a People Pleaser With Your Own Wedding

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 13:00:51 GMT

How do you stop being a people pleaser and prioritize your own feelings and wants in wedding planning? And how do you stop feeling guilty when you finally prioritize yourself and uphold your boundaries? That's what we're tackling on today's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, thanks to a listener who submitted this very question!

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PS: As I announce in this episode, TUWPP is moving to two episodes a week. Enjoy!

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What to Do When You Lose Your Wedding Planning Mojo

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 13:00:27 GMT

REBROADCAST: In last week's episode I talked about hitting wedding planning burnout. So what do you do when you lose your wedding planning mojo?

It is totally normal to not be 100% jazzed about planning a wedding all of the time. But before you throw in the towel and elope (unless that's what you want to do!), check out this episode for my tips on what to do when you hit a wedding planning lull, how to pull yourself out of a planning funk and when a wedding planning low might actually mean something more!

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Planning Your Wedding Before You’re Engaged

Tue, 08 Oct 2024 13:00:14 GMT

You may assume that most couples don't start planning their weddings until after they're engaged. But according to a study by The Knot, you'd be wrong! As many as 70-90% of couples start planning their wedding and talking about it before the proposal!

So if you are not engaged (yet) but want to start planning your wedding, you're not alone.

Listen in as I share what parts of marriage and wedding planning you definitely want to tackle before your engagement, what tasks you may want to avoid, good reasons to start planning early and some important questions to ask yourself if you feel like your pre-engagement planning is getting to be too much.

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It’s Okay to Have a Cheap, Budget Wedding

Tue, 01 Oct 2024 13:00:15 GMT

REBROADCAST: So often couples feel ashamed or guilty if they're not spending $35,000+ on their weddings. But I'm here to tell you: IT'S OKAY TO BE CHEAP!

It is okay to have a budget wedding and to not spend all of your savings (or go into debt!) for just one day. Listen to this episode to find out why it's okay (and maybe actually better) for you to not spend so much on your wedding and ways you can actually save money. Happy (cheap) wedding planning!

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How to Handle Important People Not Being at Your Wedding

Tue, 24 Sep 2024 13:00:01 GMT

Inspired by listener Anna, today we're tackling how to handle important people not being at your wedding. Whether they're not there because you don't have a relationship with them, they're unable to travel to the wedding, they've passed away or whatever other reason, it's hard to deal with the reality that someone you thought would be or should be at your wedding, won't be.

We'll dive into how to deal with your own feelings about these missing people, how to include and honour them (if you want to!), and how to acknowledge their absence and answer any questions from nosy guests.

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Should You Have a Destination Wedding?

Tue, 17 Sep 2024 13:00:37 GMT

REBROADCAST: Is a destination wedding for you or do you prefer to keep things local? What are the pros and cons of planning a destination wedding? Is it just like a long honeymoon? Listen in as I go over all the things you need to know about wedding planning for a destination party and whether that's the right move for you and your fiance!

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18 Things to Do the Week of Your Wedding

Tue, 10 Sep 2024 13:00:39 GMT

Last week we talked about what NOT to do the week of your wedding and this week I'm sharing what you should do instead. From finalizing your wedding timeline and planning your outfits to last minute tasks and preparing for a chill wedding morning, here are 18 things to add to your to-do list for the week of your wedding.

Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/week-of-wedding-planning-to-dos, https://www.brides.com/gallery/week-of-wedding-to-do-list, https://onefabday.com/week-before-wedding-timeline/

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17 Things NOT to Do the Week of Your Wedding

Tue, 03 Sep 2024 13:00:42 GMT

The final countdown to your wedding is on with only a week to go. But there are certain things you want to be sure NOT to do this week. Listen in as I share 17 things to avoid doing the final week before your wedding - and stay tuned for next week's episode where I'll talk about the things you should be doing instead!

Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/what-not-to-do-the-week-of-your-wedding

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How to Talk to Your Partner About Proposing

Tue, 27 Aug 2024 13:00:05 GMT

REBROADCAST: With engagement season coming up (Thanksgiving to Valentine's Day, if you're curious), I thought this episode about proposing and engagements would be the perfect one to rebroadcast. Enjoy!

Ladies, we don't need to trick our men into proposing! But seriously, to anyone eagerly awaiting a proposal, whether in a hetero relationship or not, you do not need to drop hints, wait or trick your partner into proposing to you. You can actually just talk about your engagement! On this episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I walk you through exactly how to talk to your partner about proposing, why it's so important and why it won't actually ruin the surprise.

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How to DIY Your Wedding (Without Making It Tacky!)

Tue, 20 Aug 2024 13:00:43 GMT

So you want to DIY your wedding - either because you want to save money, you're a crafter or you've been inspired by Pinterest. But how do you make sure your DIYs stay on the nice side of tacky? How do you ensure your craft projects don't come off looking cheap or leave you pulling out your hair the night before your wedding?

In this episode, I'm sharing some tips to keep you grounded and to help you escape a crafting rabbit hole and remember the overall goal for your wedding. Put down that glue gun and listen up!

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11 Things to Skip at Your Wedding Reception

Tue, 13 Aug 2024 13:00:41 GMT

REBROADCAST: Following up on last week's seating chart episode, I'm rereleasing this episode all about wedding receptions.

Based on a recent Insider article, I'm breaking down 11 things the experts say you can skip at your wedding reception. Should you really skip them? What are the pros and cons? And what can you do instead? When it comes to your wedding reception, there really are no rules so at the end of the day, you do you! Happy wedding planning, engaged couples!

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Article: https://www.insider.com/things-you-should-never-have-at-your-wedding-reception-2021-8

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14 Seating Chart Mistakes You Don’t Want to Make

Tue, 06 Aug 2024 13:00:47 GMT

Before you start planning out your seating chart, making table arrangements or writing escort cards, take a listen to this week's episode so you avoid some major reception mistakes. Is assigned seating necessary? What about escort cards vs place cards? Should you have a kids' table and a singles' table? Find out!

Inspired by https://www.theknot.com/content/wedding-reception-seating-nightmares-solved

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How to Stay on Budget for Your Wedding

Tue, 30 Jul 2024 13:00:54 GMT

REBROADCAST: It's the big one. It's BUDGET time. In this episode I'm talking all about how to set your wedding budget (and the important conversation you need to have first!), what to do about competing priorities, how to get out of the comparison trap and the very important reality check you need to give yourself whenever you're tempted to go over budget. Happy wedding planning, engaged friends!

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More Wedding Planning Q&A

Tue, 23 Jul 2024 13:00:47 GMT

I'm back with another Q&A episode to answer all of your wedding planning questions! Want in on the next episode or just have an episode suggestion for me? Fill out the Google form below!

This week we're answering how to handle mixed-language speeches at an intercultural wedding, how to earn more money to afford a dream wedding, and how to plan a low key wedding weekend.

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All About Wedding Gifts!

Tue, 16 Jul 2024 13:00:24 GMT

REBROADCAST: Everything you ever wanted to know about wedding gifts! Should you have a registry? How much will people spend on your wedding gift? How can you ask for money? Who gets a thank you card? Listen in for some wedding gift giving etiquette that every engaged couple should know, with lots of modern advice!

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Wedding Gift FAQs

Tue, 09 Jul 2024 13:00:17 GMT

Inspired by a listener question, I'm answering some of the most common questions couples have about their wedding gifts. When should they send thank you cards (and what the heck do they write in them)? When should they set up a registry? How do they ask for cash? And what do they do with a gift they don't like? Tune in to find out!

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How to Deal With People Who Are Upset They Didn’t Get Invited to Your Wedding

Tue, 02 Jul 2024 13:00:06 GMT

REBROADCAST: Had to cut your wedding guest list? Have a budget or a venue that won't let you invite every single person you've ever known?

Yup, that's the harsh reality of wedding planning. And unfortunately, some people are going to be crushed they don't get to attend and have the honour of eating a $45 plate of cold chicken at your reception. Tune in to hear my tips on how to deal with upset wish-they-were guests and my golden rule: You are not responsible for someone else's feelings.

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How to Navigate Family Dynamics Before, During & After Your Wedding

Tue, 25 Jun 2024 13:00:34 GMT

Whether it's an over-involved mother-in-law who thinks this is her wedding, a mom who doesn't seem to care about your wedding, a stepmom who isn't on speaking terms with half of your guests, or not a mom issue at all, it's hard to deal with all of the family dynamics that come up when planning a wedding!

In this episode, I share my advice for how to deal with an uninvolved, over-involved or overly dramatic family member before, during and after your wedding. We discuss how to set boundaries, redirect, communicate clearly and rely on your partner for support.

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MINISODE: Do You Need Wedding Favors?

Tue, 18 Jun 2024 13:00:50 GMT

REBROADCAST: On today's minisode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm answering the big question about wedding favors (or favours!): do you actually need wedding favors? And if you are going to have them, what should they be to ensure your wedding guests don't throw them away or forget about them? Spend a few engaged moments with me on this quick minisode!

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How to Pay Tribute to Passed Loved Ones at Your Wedding

Tue, 11 Jun 2024 13:00:40 GMT

How do you honour a loved one who is no longer with us on your wedding day? How do you pay tribute to them, without it being a major downer? How do you adjust your wedding plans if someone pivotal won't be there?

Listen in as I give suggestions for creative and personal ways to pay tribute to your deceased loved ones and offer alternatives to wedding traditions where a loved one usually has a major role. I'm also reminding you that it's okay to feel your feels about this shitty situation and skip any traditions that make you uncomfortable.

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MINISODE: Should You Do A First Look?

Tue, 04 Jun 2024 13:00:58 GMT

REBROADCAST: Should you do a first look or wait to see your future spouse for the first time at your ceremony? Tune in for reasons why you should, why you shouldn't and some alternatives for brides and grooms who aren't quite ready to commit to the first look. Happy wedding planning!

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6 More Wedding Photography Mistakes You Don’t Want to Make

Tue, 28 May 2024 13:00:28 GMT

In part two of last week's episode, I'm back with six more wedding photography mistakes I learned the hard way that you definitely don't want to make at your wedding. From rushing through your portrait session to not asking your wedding photographer enough questions, listen up so you avoid these photo disasters!

Inspired by https://www.brides.com/wedding-photography-mistakes-7100254

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7 Wedding Photography Mistakes to Avoid

Tue, 21 May 2024 13:00:06 GMT

Even unconventional wedding planners want really beautiful wedding photos! That's why you need to tune in and learn the 7 wedding photography mistakes to NOT make with your wedding photographer. From only looking at social media to (controversially) sending a shot list, here are 7 things you should not do. And sadly, I made a lot of these mistakes at my own wedding - so learn from me! And stay tuned for six more mistakes coming next week.

Inspired by https://www.brides.com/wedding-photography-mistakes-7100254

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MINISODE: Do You Need to Have a Rehearsal/Rehearsal Dinner?

Tue, 14 May 2024 13:00:15 GMT

REBROADCAST: Welcome back to a minisode (mini episode) of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast! Today we're answering the question: Do you need to have a wedding rehearsal and/or rehearsal dinner? Find out my thoughts on this week's episode!

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How to Plan a Semi Destination Wedding

Tue, 07 May 2024 13:00:57 GMT

In this week's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast we're talking about semi or half destination weddings. So this would be a wedding where half or most of your guests are flying in, but it's local to you, or your guests are local, but you're flying into the destination. Most of the advice online for destination weddings imagine you and your guests all flying off to the Caribbean or Italy for a week. But what if it's just half your guests going from New Hampshire to Seattle?

Tune in as I discuss how to make life easy for your out of town guests (and yourselves!), some important things to consider when planning a semi-destination wedding and how to hold your boundaries when planning solo. And shout out to the listeners who requested this topic - thank you!

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Creating a Wedding Ceremony That’s Actually Meaningful to You

Tue, 30 Apr 2024 13:00:21 GMT

REBROADCAST: So many people want to fast forward the wedding ceremony so they can just get to the party. But if you throw out the traditions (no, you don't have to be given away by your father!) or religion and start from scratch, what would it look like to create a wedding ceremony that is actually personal and meaningful to you?

Listen in as I explain why the ceremony is actually the most important part of the wedding and why it deserves your attention.

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How to Not Feel Lonely While Planning Your Wedding

Tue, 23 Apr 2024 13:00:18 GMT

In the movies wedding planning always looks like so much fun. It's trying on outfits, tasting cakes or arranging flowers with your best friends. But in real life, wedding planning can feel kind of lonely.

Turns out, your friends and family don't always want to help plan your wedding - after all, it is your wedding and not theirs. And especially if you're the first or last in your friend group to get married, the whole process can feel kind of isolating.

In this week's episodes, I'm sharing my tips for how to deal with the loneliness and isolation of wedding planning. Where can you find other brides/grooms to connect with, how do you involve your friends and why is being the first/last to get married actually a good thing?

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Why You Don't Need a Wedding Party

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 13:00:41 GMT

REBROADCAST: Do you really need to have a wedding party? Maybe not. Imagine avoiding all of the wedding party drama, saving some money and saving your relationships!

Tune in to hear my reasons for not having a wedding party - no bridesmaids, no groomsmen, no attendants - and why I think the role of wedding party member has gone from honor to JOB! We talk valuing relationships, cutting down on drama, not feeling like we should control our friends' budgets and how to have a version of the wedding party that makes sense for you.

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Help, My Maid of Honor Is a Flake!

Tue, 09 Apr 2024 13:00:49 GMT

Dealing with wedding party drama? This episode is for you!

We hear a lot in wedding planning communities that someone's maid of honor is flaking on their responsibilities, a wedding party member is being difficult about an outfit, a best man isn't responding to texts or an attendant isn't supporting the couple like they should be.

So what can you do about? Tune is as I address a listener question all about an MOH who has changed since she got a boyfriend plus my general tips for how to deal with a wedding party who is letting you down. Warning, there's about to be some tough love coming at you!

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How to Talk to Your Parents About Your Wedding Budget

Tue, 02 Apr 2024 13:00:30 GMT

REBROADCAST: So your parents are contributing to your wedding, right? But how much money are they giving you? Or are they actually giving you any money at all?

Before you begin wedding planning, you need to talk to your parents (or whoever might be contributing to your wedding) about what those numbers look like for your wedding budget and what strings are attached to that money.

Tune in as I share what you need to do beforehand, when you should have this talk, the questions you need to ask and exactly what to say to your parents instead of, "Money, please!"

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11 Wedding Guest List Mistakes to Avoid

Tue, 26 Mar 2024 13:00:18 GMT

In this week's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast we're tackling guest list mistakes. From having a B list to collecting RSVPs, we'll talk about what mistakes you shouldn't make and which ones I actually think are okay. Let's solve your wedding guest list drama!

Inspired by https://www.brides.com/guest-list-mistakes-expert-tips-7111928 & https://www.vogue.in/content/major-wedding-guestlist-mistakes-to-avoid-according-to-experts

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How to Include Your Pet in Your Wedding

Tue, 19 Mar 2024 13:00:11 GMT

REBROADCAST: Since a 2024 listener asked how to best include their pet in their wedding day, I wanted to rebroadcast this episode from the archives all about that very topic. Enjoy!

This one is for all the dog moms, cat dads and fish parents out there. If you have a fur baby (or a scale baby or a feather baby), this wedding planning podcast episode is for you! How do you actually involve your pet in your wedding day? Listen up, engaged couples! I have all of the ideas for you, as well as some practical tips on how to ensure your pet stays safe and happy!

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How to Make Your Wedding a Safe Space for Your LGBTQ+ Guests

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 13:00:50 GMT

On this new episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, I'm answering a listener question all about how to make their wedding a safe, welcoming and inclusive space for their LGBTQ+ guests. Should they say something to their more conservative family members ahead of time?

I'm also sharing tips on how to make your wedding less gendered and more inclusive, because regardless of who is on the guest list, that's always a good idea!

Reference article: https://apracticalwedding.com/trans-non-binary-inclusive-wedding/

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8 Ways to Combat the Post Wedding Blues

Tue, 05 Mar 2024 14:00:00 GMT

REBROADCAST: I'm rereleasing this episode after a listener asked a question during my wedding Q&A about how to feel better once you come down off the high of your wedding day. The post wedding blues are real and you're not alone in feeling them!

The Post Wedding Blues: That sadness that sets in when you wake up the morning after your wedding and say, "That's it? It's just over?" The so-called 'best day of your life' has ended and now you're upset about it. So, how do you navigate your way through those post wedding blues? On today's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning podcast I'm sharing 8 ways to help combat the PWBs and actually wake up with a smile on your face in a post-wedding world!

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The 5 Things Guests Want at Your Wedding

Tue, 27 Feb 2024 14:00:08 GMT

Welcome back, wedding planners! On this week's episode, we're looking at things from the guest perspective. What do your wedding guests actually want? What do they care about? I've broken it down to 5 things that all begin with C. Because they're the 5 things guests want to C at your wedding (get it? I'm sorry, I'll see myself out).

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It’s Not the Woman’s Job to Plan the Wedding

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 14:00:29 GMT

REBROADCAST: I'm rereleasing this episode because in 2024, it's just as important to remember that it's not one partner's job to plan the wedding. Two partners are getting married in a day that's about the TWO of you - therefore two people should be planning it!

In this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning podcast, we are breaking down the harmful stereotype that it is a woman's job to plan the wedding. NOT TRUE! Grooms, it's time to step up. The wedding is not the bride's day. Women are not born better at wedding planning. Tune in to hear why this stereotype is so harmful, what couples miss when they don't plan their wedding together, why grooms shouldn't just "help" (emotional labor, anyone?) and how to get your groom involved in planning his own wedding.

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Wedding Planning Q&A

Tue, 13 Feb 2024 14:00:04 GMT

On this week's episode I'm answering more of your wedding planning questions! We're tackling lopsided wedding parties, brunch receptions, bride self-care, pets at weddings and more!

Want to have your wedding planning question answered on the next Q&A episode? Send it in through the link below!

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17 Unpopular Wedding Opinions You Should Consider

Tue, 06 Feb 2024 14:00:16 GMT

Here at the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, we're all about thinking outside the box and not trying to win a wedding popularity contest. That's why this episode is all about unpopular wedding opinions. From dress codes and guest lists to wedding songs and wedding photographer, this list covers it all. Which unpopular wedding opinions are bogus and which should you consider?

Inspired by https://www.theknot.com/content/unpopular-wedding-opinions

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How to Brutally Cut Your Wedding Guest List

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 14:00:58 GMT

REBROADCAST: This podcast originally aired in Sep 2020 but I'm re-releasing it now because wedding guest drama never goes out of style! Even though we're not dealing with pandemic restrictions, there are still lots of tough wedding guest decisions that have to be made.

On this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm sharing my best tips for how to brutally cut your wedding guest list. Times are tough, budgets are tight and it's very likely your 300 person wedding might need to get down to under 50. So what should you do? Listen for my tips on how to tier your guests, who should and should not receive plus ones, and my two-part rule for who NOT to invite.

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Do You Have to Host Post-Wedding Celebrations?

Tue, 16 Jan 2024 14:00:37 GMT

Are post-wedding celebrations mandatory? Do you have to host brunch the next morning, open up your gifts in front of everyone or invite your guests to a bunch of wedding weekend activities? Since when did weddings become full-on multi-day events?

In this episode, I'm talking all about post-wedding celebrations and how to handle them whether you want to have them, don't want to or are feeling forced to!

(Quick note: It seems like my audio for this episode is a lot quieter than normal. Sorry! The intro/outro are regular volume but the rest is really quiet. I'll try to work on this!)

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How to Plan a Restaurant Wedding Reception

Tue, 02 Jan 2024 14:00:17 GMT

Happy new year and welcome 2024 couples! Are you considering hosting your wedding reception at a restaurant? Then this is the episode for you! A restaurant wedding reception is a great way to (possibly) save some money, embrace your inner foodie and get away from a boring wedding hall or hotel ballroom reception. Tune in and learn why a restaurant reception may be right for you and what to consider before you host your wedding at a restaurant.

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11 Questions to Ask Your Partner About Kids Before You Walk Down the Aisle

Tue, 19 Dec 2023 14:00:57 GMT

In today's episode I'm going through 11 questions all about kids that you and your partner should discuss before you get married. Most of us have asked or been asked the "do you want kids?" question but there's so much more for you and your fiance(e) to talk about.

Based on this article: https://www.thrivecouplescoaching.com/blog/questions-about-kids-before-you-get-married

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Heads up: The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is moving to a bi-weekly schedule. Look out for a new episode in two weeks and have a great holiday!

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13 Tips for Planning a Wedding After Party

Tue, 05 Dec 2023 14:00:49 GMT

Are you planning a wedding after party? A way to keep the party going after your reception? Then this is the episode for you! Even if you're not sure if you want to host an after party (because they are not mandatory!) this episode will give you some great ideas about how to save money on your after party and keep it more casual, if that's more your vibe. Or if you want to go all out, I've got tips for that too!

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How to Actually Get People to Help You With Your Wedding

Tue, 28 Nov 2023 14:00:48 GMT

After missing last week I'm back with another episode inspired by a listener who asked how to delegate, assign and get people to help you with the wedding planning tasks you actually need help with. As soon as you're engaged and planning a wedding, everyone wants to help! But do they really want to? Tune in, because you might find my answer a little controversial!

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Your Guide to Mixed Gender Wedding Parties

Tue, 14 Nov 2023 14:00:27 GMT

In today's wedding planning podcast episode we're talking all about mixed gender wedding parties! In the year of 2023, why do we still feel forced to split wedding parties by gender? Say goodbye to only female bridesmaids and only male groomsmen and hello to your wedding crew of best people, regardless of their gender!

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Everything You Need to Know About Bridal Showers & Bachelorette Parties

Tue, 07 Nov 2023 14:00:33 GMT

When it comes to wedding showers, bridal showers, bachelorette parties, bachelor parties, hen do's, stag do's and any other pre-wedding events, it can be natural to have a lot of questions. Who is responsible for planning this thing? Who pays? Who gets invited? Should you be expecting gifts? And what happens if your wedding is only a few months away and no one has brought up the shower or bach yet?

Tune into today's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast for a crash course on all things showers and bach parties. I'm sharing where these parties came from, what they traditionally looked like and, most importantly, how you can make them your own. I may or may not rant about why you need to step up and help plan your own party since your friends can't read your mind...

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Answering Your Wedding Planning Questions!

Tue, 31 Oct 2023 13:00:00 GMT

In today's episode I'm answering your wedding planning questions! Want to get your q in for the next Q&A show? Fill out my form below!

In this Q&A we tackle post-covid weddings, how to find readings, wedding buffets and what to do at your reception if you don't have a dance floor.

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What Your Guests Actually Care About at Your Wedding

Tue, 24 Oct 2023 13:00:29 GMT

What do your wedding guests actually care about at your ceremony and reception? What do they notice and what do they ignore? What's worth it and what's not? Let's talk about weddings from a guest's perspective!

After having attended a wedding a couple of weeks ago, I'm sharing everything I picked up as a guest so you can apply these lessons to your own wedding planning. From personal vows and speeches to a shockingly empty dance floor, here's how to keep your guests - and yourselves - happy on your wedding day!

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How to Deal with Wedding Night Anxiety

Tue, 17 Oct 2023 13:00:55 GMT

They say your wedding night is supposed to be the most romantic night of your life. But spoiler alert: It's usually not!

So many couples feel the pressure and expectation to start their marriage off with a bang and have the most intimate wedding night ever. But the truth is that rarely happens and that kind of pressure can actually make your wedding night, wedding planning and intimate life so much worse.

In this episode I'm sharing my tips for how to get rid of the pressure and anxiety of wedding night expectations, whether you and your partner are experienced in the bedroom or waiting until you're married.

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6 Things Couples Get Wrong When Wedding Planning

Tue, 10 Oct 2023 13:00:41 GMT

What do couples get wrong when wedding planning? What mistakes do brides and grooms make that end up costing them lots of time, money and even their relationships? Listen in as I share 6 things that couples do wrong, how you can avoid these mistakes, and an epic rant about centrepieces (sorry not sorry).

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The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Speeches

Tue, 03 Oct 2023 13:00:48 GMT

In this extra long episode I'm breaking down absolutely everything you need to know about wedding speeches. I'm covering when speeches should happen and in what order, who should speak, what speakers should and SHOULD NOT say, tips for speakers who are anxious, and what the couple should include in their speech. If you're having anyone speak at your wedding or give a wedding toast, you're going to want to listen to this episode (and send it to them!).

You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey!

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Should You Read Your Wedding Vows at Your Ceremony or in Private?

Tue, 26 Sep 2023 13:00:50 GMT

A big trend these days seems to be saving your personal wedding vows and reading them to your partner in private, rather than at your ceremony. But is that the right call? In this episode I chat through the pros and cons of exchanging vows in front of your guests or on your own, and compromises so you can get the best of both worlds!

You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey!

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The 6 Parts of a Wedding That Still Matter Years Later

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 13:00:19 GMT

Today is my two year wedding anniversary (yay!). In honor of two years of marriage, I'm reflecting on my wedding day. What do I remember about it two years later? What still matters? What were the right choices and what do I regret? If you're in the thick of wedding planning, it might be helpful to know that the huge thing you're stressing about actually won't matter a few years down the line.

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The 2023 Wedding Trends I Hate (+ 4 That I Love)

Tue, 12 Sep 2023 13:05:44 GMT

On this week's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast we're tackling 2023 wedding trends! Which of the predicted trends are we actually seeing in 2023 weddings and, more importantly, which ones do we actually like? I'm sharing 9 trends I dislike and 4 that I actually love. But as always, forget the trends and do what you want to do for your own wedding day!

Articles referenced: https://www.vogue.com/article/wedding-trends-2023 & https://www.marthastewart.com/8360486/wedding-trends

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Welcome Back, Wedding Planners!

Tue, 12 Sep 2023 13:00:57 GMT

After an 18 month hiatus the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is back! I am so excited to be recording new episodes of the podcast and to dive into all things elopements, weddings, marriage and more with you. Listen in for a quick refresher on who I am and what the game plan is for the podcast moving forward.

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Important Announcement for Episode 100!

Wed, 09 Feb 2022 14:00:00 GMT

Can you believe it? We've made it to 100 episodes of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast! Thank you so much for being on this engagement and wedding journey with me for the last 1.5 years. Tune into today's special episode for an important announcement about where this podcast is going and what's coming up next.

Check out my new podcast: "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood"

Available now in your podcast feed with new episodes dropping every Wednesday!

Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.

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How to Not Feel Guilty About Your Wedding Choices

Wed, 02 Feb 2022 14:00:00 GMT

When it comes to wedding planning, there are a lot of decisions that you and your fiance will have to make as soon as you get engaged. But with those decisions comes a lot of opinions...and expectations...and judgment...from your family, your friends, society and even yourselves! On today's episode, I'm diving into five big wedding planning choices you will be making and how to not feel guilty about choosing what's right for you and your spouse-to-be!

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Wedding Party Gifts: What to Give (and NOT to Give!)

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 14:00:00 GMT

Heads up: This is going to be a bit of a controversial episode! In this one, I'm coming for your koozies, your engraved tumblers and your custom, matching robes. IMHO a lot of traditional wedding party gifts are trash and as the incredible bride or groom that you are, I know you can do better. Give your closest loved ones something they actually want and take the stress out of this part of wedding planning!

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How to Manage Money with Your Partner

Wed, 19 Jan 2022 14:00:00 GMT

Money is one of the biggest things couples fight over...both during wedding planning and marriage. And it's also the number one cause of divorce! Figuring out how you and your partner want to manage your money together and sort out your personal finances is so important. Tune in to hear my tips for the first money conversation you should have, the things to consider when deciding how to split your money, and why you need to have a monthly money meeting!

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6 Mistakes I Made While Wedding Planning

Wed, 12 Jan 2022 14:00:00 GMT

While I loved my wedding day, mistakes were definitely made in the planning process! Learn from my wedding planning mistakes so you can avoid them on your wedding day!

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How to Stay Present on Your Wedding Day

Wed, 05 Jan 2022 14:00:00 GMT

It's so easy to spend your entire wedding day in your head. After months and months of wedding planning, you may be too busy worrying about the reception or regretting your outfit choice to remember to stay present. But you want to be in the moment on your wedding day! Tune into this episode to hear my top tips for staying present and grounded on your wedding day so you don't miss a special moment!

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Unconventional Ideas for Your Pre-Wedding Events

Wed, 29 Dec 2021 14:00:00 GMT

Tired of the same old bridal showers? Don't know what the point of an engagement party is? Definitely don't want to go to Vegas for your bachelorette? Not sure you need a rehearsal dinner?

Then you're in the right place! Today's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is all about flipping all of your pre-wedding events on their heads. Throw out tradition, think creatively and host events that really feel like you.

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How to Get Your Partner More Involved in Wedding Planning

Wed, 15 Dec 2021 14:00:00 GMT

Is your partner dragging their feet when it comes to wedding planning? Has your fiance barely lifted a finger while you've been drowning under a mountain of wedding tasks? Are you starting to grow resentful of having to do it all yourself?

I believe both partners should be 100% responsible for planning their own wedding. After all, it's a day for both of you, so both of you should put in the work. But that looks different in every relationship. What kind of involvement are you looking for from your fiance? How do you have that conversation with them? What do you do if they don't want to be more involved in the wedding? Tune in to find out!

PS: Thanks to befan526 for suggesting this episode topic!

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How to Handle Wedding Attention as an Introvert

Wed, 08 Dec 2021 14:00:00 GMT

Are you an introvert planning a wedding? Do you hate attention, dread hanging out with large groups of people and shy away from the spotlight? Same. And while it may feel like the wedding industry is not geared towards people like us, there are lots of ways to create a wedding that is introvert-friendly and not spend your whole engagement worried about all of the people involved in your wedding day.

PS: Thanks to Megan S for suggesting this podcast episode topic! Want to suggest a topic or leave me some feedback? Let me know in the Q&A box (only available on Spotify).

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10 Tips to Have the Best Honeymoon (+ Our Honeymoon Story!)

Wed, 01 Dec 2021 14:00:00 GMT

Want to have the best honeymoon ever after your epic wedding? Let me help you make that happen! We just got back from our 3-week honeymoon (want to know where we went? You'll have to listen to find out!), and it was awesome. But we definitely messed up on a few things. This week I'm sharing our honeymoon story plus 10 tips to help you have the most amazing honeymoon ever. Happy wedding planning and happy honeymoon planning!

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12 Wedding Regrets I Have from My Own Wedding

Wed, 24 Nov 2021 14:00:00 GMT

I've talked a lot about wedding regrets on The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast and now... it's time to admit my own! On today's episode I'm sharing 12 regrets I have from my wedding day, looking back now that I'm married and the day is behind us. All in all, I loved my day and these regrets don't keep me up at night. But if I had to do it all again, there are a few things I'd change. I hope by sharing my regrets you don't make the same mistakes I did and learn from my advice!

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How to Stop Stressing About Your Wedding

Wed, 17 Nov 2021 14:00:00 GMT

Wedding planning can be STRESSFUL! And while I can't eliminate the stress entirely (unless you throw the whole plan out the window and go elope today which...I definitely considered!), I believe these 7 tips will help all engaged couples focus on what matters (hint: your marriage!), cut down on wed stress, and enjoy the wedding planning process a little bit more!

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14 Disasters that Happened in the Weeks Before Our Wedding

Wed, 10 Nov 2021 14:00:00 GMT

We made it down the aisle despite... my dress not fitting, needing to fire and hire a new officiant and photographer, getting a visit from Aunt Flo and 11 more disasters that all happened in the few weeks before our wedding day! Wedding planning is full of disaster-prone situations and odds are you'll face the toughest ones just before your wedding day. But you will make it through and still have the most incredible wedding! Plus, every disaster is just a funny story to tell afterwards, right?

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We’re Married! Our Wedding Story

Wed, 20 Oct 2021 13:00:00 GMT

We did it: WE'RE MARRIED! On today's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm sharing our complete wedding story - from wedding weekend events to ceremony details we loved and everything in between. I know this is a longer episode but I hope you don't mind me gushing all about our big day. And I hope your big day is just as magical!

PS: Just because I'm married now doesn't mean the podcast is going anywhere. I've still got lots of great episodes to share with you!

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Listen to This on Your Wedding Day!

Wed, 08 Sep 2021 13:00:00 GMT

After months (or years!) of planning, you've finally made it. Today is your wedding day!

If today is your wedding day, start the day off with this 12 minute episode that will get you in the perfect mindset for your big day ahead. Deep breath. You've made it. And you only have one job today: get married. As long as you do that, your day was a success! With this episode, I want you to be as present as possible for every moment of your big day. Happy wedding day!

PS: Even if you're not getting married today, give this episode a listen! It will remind you what your wedding day should feel like and help you make the right decisions in your wedding planning.

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How to DIY Live Stream Your Wedding (for less than $100)

Wed, 01 Sep 2021 13:00:00 GMT

On today's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast we're diving into live streaming! Even if you're not getting married in pandemic times, you may want to consider a live stream. It's a great way to connect with guests all around the world.

We're chatting about:

Why you might want to live stream your wedding
Free VS professional live stream options
3 big mistakes you don't want to make (that I've seen as a virtual guest!)
How to share your virtual wedding with your guests
Our DIY live stream wedding set up (that costs less than $100!)
Last minute considerations on the big day

PS: I'm recording this episode about a month out from my own wedding. I'll record an update if our live stream doesn't go well!

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Dishing on Netflix’s Marriage or Mortgage

Wed, 28 Apr 2021 13:00:00 GMT

Have you watched the latest wedding show on Netflix, Marriage or Mortgage? If so, you're going to want to tune in while I dish about the show - my overall thoughts on the premise, whether each couple made the right decision, and where the couples are now! I start off with a spoiler-free discussion of the show so if you're not sure if you want to watch, tune into this episode to get a little taste.

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When to Pull the Plug on Your Covid Wedding

Wed, 14 Apr 2021 13:00:00 GMT

Trying to plan a wedding during a pandemic is no joke. But with restrictions changing almost daily, when do you decide to pull the plug? When do you make a call on whether your wedding is going forward as is? When do you decide to elope, downsize, postpone or change vendors? Tune into this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast to find out!

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We Set the Date!

Wed, 03 Mar 2021 14:00:00 GMT

This week's episode is a mini update on my own wedding planning: We set the date! I'm sharing where we're at with our wedding plans, when our wedding is (fingers crossed!) going to take place and how setting the date has totally reignited my wedding planning excitement. I hope you have something exciting to celebrate in your wedding planning this week!

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So You’ve Got Baby Fever

Wed, 10 Feb 2021 14:00:00 GMT

Not technically a wedding planning episode but definitely a topic many engaged couples find themselves talking about: BABIES! Do you have baby fever? Are you thinking about start a family? Where do babies fit into your timeline? Has covid messed everything up? In this episode, I'm sharing all about my baby fever journey and where I'm at. Hopefully you can relate and not feel so alone the next time you tear up seeing a cute kid in a stroller!

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The Pros & Cons of a Zoom Wedding

Wed, 27 Jan 2021 14:00:00 GMT

By this point in the pandemic, you probably have heard of Zoom weddings - or virtual weddings. You may have even attended one or two (or seven!). But is a live stream wedding right for you? Tune in as I go over the pros and cons of holding your own Zoom wedding and whether or not virtual weddings are here to stay!

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MINISODE: Do You Have to Host a Reception After Your Elopement?

Mon, 14 Dec 2020 14:00:00 GMT

2020 has been the year of postponed weddings, downsized wedding, intimate weddings and elopements. A lot of couples who are choosing to elope this year are planning to host a wedding reception in 2021 or 2022. But do you have to? If you get married now do you have to plan a big party later? Especially if you're planning a budget wedding, is it mandatory to host a big reception? Tune in to this minisode to find out why receptions are NOT mandatory, why you might want to delay booking your reception and what the number one rule of wedding planning is!

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Who to Tell About Your Surprise or Secret Wedding (And When)

Sat, 05 Dec 2020 14:00:00 GMT

Are you planning a surprise wedding, a secret wedding or an elopement? Awesome! There are so many good reasons to get married in secret, elope or surprise your guests. But who should you tell about your wedding plans ahead of time? Who should be let in on the secret? When do you tell your guests and what do you actually tell them? Tune into this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast to find out!

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Wedding Planning Q&A Part 2

Fri, 20 Nov 2020 14:00:00 GMT

For episode 30 I'm back with another edition of Wedding Planning Q&A. In this one, I'm answering questions about videography, MCs, wedding budgets, uninviting guests from your wedding, wedding photography and wedding themes. Listen in to get the answers engaged people are needing for their wedding planning dilemmas!

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How to Plan Your Honeymoon (in the middle of a pandemic)

Wed, 11 Nov 2020 15:00:00 GMT

How do you actually plan a honeymoon (or a minimoon) in the middle of a global pandemic? And how do you do it when all of your time and money are going into wedding planning? As a travel expert, I am so excited to share my tips with you about how to book, when to book, the type of trips to go on and how to plan the perfect honeymoon for you and your fiance/fiancee/fiancx!

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How to Tell People You Got Married

Sun, 08 Nov 2020 16:00:00 GMT

If you decide to have a micro wedding, a surprise wedding, a secret wedding or an elopement, how do you actually share the news of your marriage? What if people get mad at you? Or what if someone lets it slip on Facebook first? Tune in for my advice, especially if you are planning to have a small wedding now and a big reception later!

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Wedding Planning During a Pandemic SUCKS

Fri, 30 Oct 2020 23:39:24 GMT

I'm saying what we're all thinking: trying to plan a wedding during the coronavirus pandemic really sucks! Listen in if you need someone to commiserate and vent alongside you. This is for all of the brides, grooms and engaged couples going through it and trying to find a way to plan a wedding in 2020.

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Should You Just Elope?

Tue, 27 Oct 2020 15:00:00 GMT

With the way 2020 is treating us, many engaged couples are starting to think, "Should we just give up on wedding planning and elope?" Elopements (or micro weddings or minimonies) are a great option. But are they right for you and your fiance? Maybe! Listen in to today's episode to find out why you should elope, why you should not, what it means for your wedding budget, elopements in the time of covid, and the bottom line on doing things your own way.

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Wedding Planning Q&A

Fri, 23 Oct 2020 15:00:00 GMT

On this episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm answering some top wedding planning questions that many engaged couples find themselves baffled by. Tune in to hear all about save the dates, open bars, uneven wedding parties and more!

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All Things Rings! (It’s Okay Not to Have a Diamond Engagement Ring)

Thu, 22 Oct 2020 01:06:35 GMT

On this episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm talking ALL THINGS RINGS! We're discussing engagement rings, wedding rings, rings for ladies, gents and anyone else. And, because this is the unconventional podcast, we're talking about why it's okay to not have a diamond engagement ring, how to choose your ring with your partner and why you might want to skip wedding bands all together! Listen in if you're engaged, about to become a fiance, or dreaming of a proposal!

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How to Cut Your Wedding Budget in Half - Part 3

Fri, 16 Oct 2020 01:28:22 GMT

I'm back with the third and final episode in my series on budget weddings and budget wedding planning tips! Tune in to hear how to save money on your beauty appointments, favors, honeymoon, wedding cake and more - perfect for engaged couples on a budget. Happy wedding planning to all the brides, grooms and people getting married!

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How to Cut Your Wedding Budget in Half - Part 2

Tue, 13 Oct 2020 02:47:37 GMT

I'm back with part two of How to Cut Your Wedding Budget in Half! In this episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm talking all about how to save BIG on things like your music, your outfit and your decor. Must listen for engaged couples on a budget!

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How to Cut Your Wedding Budget in Half - Part 1

Sun, 11 Oct 2020 06:54:54 GMT

On this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm diving into my tips for cutting your wedding budget in half. If you're trying to save money on your wedding, you'll want to listen into these big tips on everything from the guest count and venue to photography and videography. You don't have to spend $30,000+ on just one day! If you're engaged and stressed about wedding finances, this episode is for you. And stay tuned for part 2!

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Why You Don’t Need Wedding Stationary

Sun, 04 Oct 2020 19:00:00 GMT

Do you actually need wedding stationary? I'm talking about anything that is printed: wedding invitations, save the dates, programs, menus, seating cards, table charts, etc. Are any of those things actually necessary? And, if you skip them, what are some alternatives? Find out on this episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast!

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Should You Postpone Your Wedding?

Fri, 02 Oct 2020 03:50:27 GMT

I'm tackling a big one on the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast today: Should you postpone your wedding? This is something all corona couples are having to think about during the pandemic. Should you postpone? Should you downsize? When is it safe to postpone to? What does a micro wedding or elopement even look like? I'm diving deep into all of that today to help you feel confident about your decision and your wedding moving forward. Listen in, leave a review and tell a friend!

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My Plus Size Budget Wedding Dress Shopping Experience

Mon, 28 Sep 2020 02:17:10 GMT

In this episode I'm sharing my journey shopping for a plus size and budget friendly wedding dress - from looking online to trying on in-store, deciding how much I wanted to spend and who to bring with me, and if I even wanted to wear white! If you secretly binge Say Yes To The Dress but are nervous about your own wedding outfit shopping, this episode is for you!

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MINISODE: Do You Need a Photography Shot List?

Mon, 28 Sep 2020 00:25:23 GMT

On this minisode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast I'm answering the big question: Do you actually need to put together a shot list for your photographer? Tune in to hear my answer and the times when you will and won't want to have a list for your wedding photography.

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MINISODE: Do You Need Save The Dates?

Sun, 27 Sep 2020 00:56:05 GMT

In this minisode I'm tackling the big wedding planning question: Do you actually need to send save the dates? Tune in to hear my answer, learn how COVID is affecting save the dates and invites, and for my tips on save the date alternatives!

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6 Reasons to Have a Surprise Wedding

Thu, 10 Sep 2020 03:13:23 GMT

We're talking all things surprise weddings on this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast! I'll share my six reasons why engaged couples should consider having a surprise wedding (TL/DR: less stress and drama!), the major downsides (did someone say no gifts!?!) and my top tips for planning a surprise wedding of your own!

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My Wedding Story

Wed, 09 Sep 2020 02:14:30 GMT

On this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, I'm sharing my wedding story. Or, what I hope will be my wedding story, since I'm in the middle of planning. I'll fill you in on my relationship, what I want out of a wedding and what my ideal wedding day looks like. Spoilers: It doesn't involve any chair covers.

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Trailer: Welcome to The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast!

Wed, 09 Sep 2020 01:45:47 GMT

Calling all brides, grooms and other wedding party people! Welcome to The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast! Find out who this wedding planning podcast is for and why you should listen if you're engaged or planning a non-traditional and unconventional wedding.

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