Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

Live at PAX East w/ Anica Cihla

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 13:00:00 GMT

Anica Cihla (@anica_cihla) joins Emmy and Ify on an impromptu panel for PAX East that was perfectly timed because they didn't record an episode today. We dive into matching hobbies with your partner, dealing with a cheater who hates magic, and wondering if a friend is addicted to a vtuber they watch in secret. The energy of this pod is amazing and Ify wants to apologize a second time to the family that was in attendance who had no clue what they were in for.

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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More Than One Was Suprising w/ Stanzi Potenza

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 16:14:05 GMT

We are back on the couch with our friend Stanzi Potenza (@stanzipotenza) this time, and wouldn't you believe it? More people are bad and weird. We have a situation with a trucker that is so bad I don't even want to put into words and risk having this podcast banned, a husband's weird habits, and even more wild behavior on the subreddit that gives this podcast life!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Grindin' Since the Early 90s w/ Jon Gabrus

Tue, 17 Mar 2026 22:42:11 GMT

Our good friend Jon Gabrus (@Gabrrus) plopped on the couch with us to chat about kissin' the homies, trying out kink, and even more silliness. You gotta jump into this one because it's filled with laughs!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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How Do Black Holes Work? w/ Kira Noir

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 13:00:00 GMT

Kira Noir (@thekiranoirgram) sits down with Emmy and Ify to discuss polyamory discomfort with visiting metas from an email, then they hop into Reddit and dive into truly toxic relationship cycles, a partner who might lack joy, and dealing with someone talking bad about you to your friend group. Lots of bad boyfriends and closing out on dealing interpersonal drama. As always, there's a huge tangent and this one dives into AI and how we're losing the recipes with experts in the world. This episode has it all!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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BYHuge Detective Work w/ Matt Moynihan

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 22:24:50 GMT

Super producer, director, and friend Matt Moynihan sits down with us to dive into this mess! A listener has questions about moving in with a partner and on Reddit a foot guy tries to hard, a BYU student is setting his future child up for failure, someone dealing with their partner blowing up, and a man with a fake supervisor. We have a lot of fun dissecting these questions, but the deep dive into our BYU guy might be an all timer!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Addictions and Back Seat Births w/ Witchy and Danielle DeNicola

Wed, 25 Feb 2026 21:40:00 GMT

Listeners win this week as I was swamped yet again and am uploading this on Wednesday. Like Emmy said, new episodes Tuesday or Wednesday! We're joined by our friends Witch (@witchy.brew) and Danielle DeNicola (@danielledenicola) to dive into the mess of the week and they're such a treat. We talk about relationship escalation with a listener, and then go to Reddit to talk about the fallout of a baby being born in a backseat and look into finding trust after it's been broken. Lots of thoughts and lots of laughs!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Surprise Group Play w/ BiqtchPuddin

Wed, 18 Feb 2026 19:03:06 GMT

Our friend Biqtchpuddin (@biqtchpuddin) is joining us for todays mess and boy is it messy! [Sorry for the delay this week! My car was broken into this weekend and I had to get myself together to remember all my responsibilities. As a reminder, this episode an the next have high reverb, but after that it'll be fixed!] We tackle a listener with questions about a LDR, a redditor looking for loyalty with a sneaky link situation, and even more mess!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Don't Pack Your Sparkle w/ Chris Grace

Tue, 10 Feb 2026 15:00:00 GMT

Happy Mess Day y'all! Feels good to be consistent with the episodes. We jump into another email and a bunch of Reddit posts with the amazing comedian Chris Grace (@chrisgracecomedy). We got people asking about kink, dads afraid of the gay, and more! As a reminder we have a few more episodes with this weird high reverb audio and then we'll have it fixed! Thank you for bearing with us. I'll do a better job of testing out new stuff when batch recording so you don't have to suffer through the reverb this long again!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Contagious Divorce w/ Chris Mejia and Siri Dahl

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 13:00:00 GMT

We are back with SEASON TWO of Our Relationship Pod that's filled with the juice and also we have video yet again! We're joined by comedian Chris Mejia (@chrismejiacomedy) and and porn royalty, content creator, and activist Siri Dahl (@thesiridahlagain)! Very juicy intro segment on our first episode back and the mess doesn't begin until we 23:23, but you wanna hear what we have to say up top! Lots of updates and good conversation about... you know... everything! We jump into a reddit thread about a husband who thinks his wife's friend is the only reason she may be considering divorce, helping a listener through issues with a friend, and then back to reddit for a boyfriend who loves to give his partner psychic damage. Safe to say, we are so back!

Editor's note: There will be noticeable big room reverb for the next four episodes as the room we recorded in was large and we used lavalier mics instead of the our usual ones. That'll be changed with the next batch recording!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Are We Dating the Same Guy? (Positive)

Tue, 28 Oct 2025 13:00:00 GMT

Back from Australia and back into your ears! It's time for more mess!

We're hopping into:

Email about a heart that still wants.
I (28f) commented on a post of my boyfriend (29m) on a "are we dating the same guy" page and he found out. What are my next steps?
My (37f) Husband (38m) was fired for sexual harassment
Boyfriend (29M) keeps accidentally hurting me (28F) and I’m scared it will happen again

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Ask Us Anything!

Tue, 21 Oct 2025 13:00:00 GMT

Mixing things up this week and answering questions that were asked on our IG! We're hopping into our own mess and sharing advice on some questions asked by the Mess Hall!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Finding What You're Looking For

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 13:00:00 GMT

Whaddup Mess Hall! We're back with another episode filled with the internet's mess!

We're hopping into:

I (28F) went through my boyfriends’s (31M) phone and can’t unsee what I saw.
37M with 38F for 4-5 years. Not sure how I should feel...
Confused by mixed signals from an 18F need perspective,i 20M.
Me (40M) and my wife (40F) tried a threesome, and now I feel insecure. How do I talk to her about it?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Proposing Problems

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 13:00:00 GMT

Friend of the pod BJ hops in with some advice for Jayne in Cleveland and we jump into some spicy questions on Reddit. Lots of weird behavior, catching the ick, and stressed out partners. It's like they say, "we are so back".

We're hopping into:

My (f26) ex-bf (m27) said he was gonna propose for the last 4 years. When I finally found the courage to break it off, he did. I don’t know if I should give it another chance?
My bf (27M) got sun poisoning during our 2 week vacation together and I (26F) want to breakup with him
Girlfriend (36F) let me borrow her apple watch to track my (31M) heart rate for my anxiety. Turns out my heart rate only lowers when I’m not with her. What’s the path forward?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Whole Lotta Advice

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 13:00:00 GMT

We just got back from Atlanta and we're ramblin', tangentin', and taking pregnant ass pauses to think about the things that we asked this week.The emails are POPPIN', so we have to take the time to sit through em and chop it up with the mess hall.

We're hopping into:

Thoughts on the Age Gap
Nice words from Jayde
Shame around D/S relationships
First sex party tips

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Laundry Day pt. 2

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 13:00:00 GMT

Lil update for the Mess Hall while we're out and about!

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Laundry Day

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 23:15:36 GMT

While Ify washes his clothes for a big trip, they answer two emails from listeners and head to reddit to close things out! Come hang and laugh with your messy friends who will give it to you straight.

We're hopping into:

Age Gap Relationships
The Return of Jayde
I (F25) struggle to have sex with my husband (M28)

Thanks for listening!

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Projecting From The Comments

Mon, 08 Sep 2025 21:35:49 GMT

We're coming at y'all like from the Big Cut! That's Connecticut for all the folks who haven't adopted my weird slang for this New England treasure. We're in the harbor side cabin talking a whole buncha mess while Em's nephews and niece have fun downstairs!

We're hopping into:

An Email Requested Reddit Post
A hello from a long time listener
Someone's GF might secretly be unhoused
BF at all the jalapeño poppers
Husband didn't buy a birthday gift!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Sam! Sam! Sam!

Thu, 04 Sep 2025 02:22:29 GMT

Took us a while, but we're officially back! We are deep in our e-mail backlog and we are so happy to talk to everyone again! Someone even made Ify cry!!!

We're talkin' bout:

Dealing with a tough break up.
How to flirt.
Some words of praise.
Asking out a coworker.

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Mental Health and Stuff

Tue, 06 May 2025 08:58:28 GMT

We're back and so is my voice! We bust through some emails and have a deep chat about mental health and what's going on with our brains. A few updates and some questions about being a good friend to a new parent and transitioning into friends after dating.

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Throwback Bonus Episode!

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 14:48:49 GMT

In our mad dash to prep for Neo we didn't get a chance to record an episode, so we're throwing it back with a bonus episode form Patreon around this time last year (4/17/24)! See you cuties next week!

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Daddy Needs Care Too

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 06:10:04 GMT

We're back! After a quick aside to chat about tackling the big thoughts on the previous episode, we jump into some listener emails and get into some reddit threads. We're tackling body image issues, caring for our kink daddies, and talking about old people's outdated child care tricks. It's all fun and goofs this episode!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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20 Seconds of Sin

Thu, 03 Apr 2025 19:16:40 GMT

Very explosive episode this week! Wow! So much love from the mess hall and probably our messiest email yet! We talk about a lot of great topics like where you stand in queerness, loneliness, sex while parenting, and some fun updates from the mess hall. Then, we close it out with a silly Reddit thread. Lots to dig into this week!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Bamboozled in the Mailbag

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 07:49:55 GMT

We're diving into more emails this week and we even throw in a bonus Reddit post! Lots of love in the mess hall community, some friends not digging partners, and diabolical miscommunication amongst swingers! Lots to dig into this week! Buckle up!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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The Crystals Podcast

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 19:55:16 GMT

We're back home and we got tons of mess for you this week! We answer some follow up emails and jump into two reddit threads! I totally forgot what I said I would link in the notes, but will run back here to post it when I remember*

*Listen to it or am reminded by a listener

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Live from JoCo Cruise 2025 w/ Daphne Always

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 21:56:50 GMT

We're out at sea, but apparently the sea has internet! So buckle up for the live episode recorded in the Rolling Stone Lounge on the JoCo Cruise! We are joined by the wonderful Daphne Always to wade through the mess thrown at us this time. Buckle up for this wild ride with audience reactions to our reddit thread reads! It's super fun and we can't wait to do it again!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Post Game Mess

Tue, 25 Feb 2025 06:00:00 GMT

It's been a while since y'all have gotten a sleepy episode from us, so you know we had to do it to you! Ify keeps Emily up late after his hockey game to jump into the mess with you all! We even threw in a reddit question for you! We kick off with an email with someone from the mess hall having words of advice for another listener who emailed in last week! Then, we tackle an email about course correcting gift giving from someone you care about. After that... remember the Boys Night Out email from a while ago? It was episode 42 for the newcomers, well we go an EXPLOSIVE update! Lots was revealed during that talk we suggested. We close it out with a reddit thread about snooping partners!

Thanks for listening!

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Boundary Breaking Grindr Humiliation Sub Part III

Tue, 18 Feb 2025 09:45:37 GMT

Hello everyone! Looks like another mailbag episode and this one is FUN! We have the pod's first trilogy along with some amazing questions that give insight into nervousness around new relationships and desiring independence, the return of the humiliation sub breaking boundaries in new and disappointing ways, and an almost thirty year old virgin! Huge intro where Ify overshares about his mental health and loves up on Em's work.

Thanks for listening!

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We Are So Back!

Mon, 10 Feb 2025 07:54:02 GMT

I mean, ending it at 50 would've been a neat number to leave it off on, but we couldn't do it. Not when we're needed more than ever probably. We knock out all the listener emails today and we even throw in a bonus ep! To skip past question 1 fast forward to 27:41!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Hello there! We're back next week!

Thu, 23 Jan 2025 19:41:01 GMT

Hello everyone! Just giving everyone a quick update on where we've been and what's happening! See you next week! We're back!

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Therapyspeak Gone Wild

Wed, 11 Dec 2024 01:00:38 GMT

Hello Mess Hall! We're back from Philly and got a fresh new poddy cheesesteak for ya. Check Spotify or our socials to get in on the poll!

We're hopping in these threads:

Email: BDSM in the Bible Belt
My (29M) partner (29F) has recently started frequently making claims about me I feel are extreme. How do I navigate this?
Friendship gone sour: I (33F) have completely ghosted a close friend (35F) of a decade. Is there a better approach to end this friendship?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Holiday Mailbag

Wed, 04 Dec 2024 19:49:56 GMT

This is totally on time y'all trust us! We're jumping into some listener mess today, so buckle up!

We're hopping in these email:

What it means to be polyam/ENM
Roommates to lovers
Goal based partners
Batting out of his league update

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Knowing What You Want w/ Krys T

Tue, 19 Nov 2024 21:02:23 GMT

It's a mailbag episode! Thank you to all the anon listeners being vulnerable enough to share!

We're hopping in these topics:

Friend Batting Out of His League
Boundary Breaking Degradation Sub
Home For The Polydays
Woke White GF
Autoromantic Anon

Thanks for listening!

Socials: Krys T is @krys_t_ @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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The Breakup Episode

Wed, 13 Nov 2024 20:53:55 GMT

Not OUR break up mind you, there's just a lot of breaking up

We're hopping in these threads:

EMAIL: Update from anon
EMAIL: Friends growing distant
My (35M) girlfriend (33F) is urging me to quit my band because she doesn't like the other members. How do I explain to her that it isn't fair for her to make me do this?
BIL(40M) tried to make a pass on me(31F), told husband (35M)and he didn’t react! What am I supposed to do with that?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Dogsgiving Dilemma w/ OJ Stellar

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 20:01:00 GMT

Guests are back and we're hanging with the amazing OJ Stellar! What a time to be had!

We're hopping in these threads:

My (31F) Husband (31F) and I Cannot Handle My Mom (60F) and Dad's (75M)'s Decisions?
I (27F) got dumped by a guy (31M) because he didn't want to wait one month for sex after 5 dates. Is this common for guys to do?
I (20F) have reason to believe my boyfriend (22M) stole my passport (together 2 yrs). How do I talk to him about this?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: OJ Stellar is @ojstellar, @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Why Did You Get Her Number?

Wed, 30 Oct 2024 01:55:43 GMT

We spend a good bit of time yapping in this one. We spent 5 days in Vegas and somehow only talk about MagicCon and not about that fact that Ify won $14, until you take into consideration that the Casino ATM fee was $12...

We're hopping in these threads:

I [27F] decided to shoot my shot with my guy friend [27M], but what signs did I misread?
[27M] My ex-girlfriend [25F] pushed for an open relationship, then left me for a woman. I feel like I was just a stepping stone in her journey, and I'm left broken. Any Advice?
I [38M] met her [42F] after 15 years. How do I handle the possibility that I possibly have a child with her?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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If you wanna be my lover

Wed, 23 Oct 2024 23:41:28 GMT

Wednesday is basically Tuesday, so let's just go with that! Got an email and some reddit questions! Let's boogie!

We're hopping in these threads:

Email: Accidental ghosting
My (38F) husband (36M) completely dropped the ball on our wedding day - how to move past it?
I (29F) want to tell my husband's (34M) affair partner (21F) that she is the other woman in the most supportive way possible. If you've been the other woman, what would you want me to say and what would make you leave him?
My (28f) boyfriend (33m) started dating my friend after we opened the relationship. Where to go from here?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Karen Adjacent

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 03:41:03 GMT

Look at us getting you your new episode on time for your commute! I'm proud of us! Happy Tuesday, y'all! This one is a rollercoaster of emotions and a lot of open and shut cases, but that doesn't mean we don't get to have a great discussion about it!! Come one, come all, to the messiest show on the internet!

We're hopping in these threads:

Me(20 M) and my gf (18F) had a fight due to her obsession with her ex and she somehow thinks I am just being insecure. I need advice as to how exactly I should solve this problem or like is this relationship just done for?
I (32f) think that I have to break up with my fiancé (35m) after he embarrassed me in public over a sandwich
My partner 25M and i 24F have broken up but he still wants to remain friends and i was wondering if anyone has an ex to friends to lovers again story?
What if I (M18) feel uncomfortable that my gf (F18) told me she wants to get passed around?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Boys Night Out!

Tue, 08 Oct 2024 19:13:58 GMT

****UPDATE****

Sorry for the confusion, but we have now uploaded the right episode! Delete your current downloaded episode and refresh to get the new episode!!!

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Hello there! We're back with another venture into the mail bag and we have some nice tea for you all. Come on a wild ride into the internet today!

We're hopping in these threads:

Ersties.com clarification
TLDR; Best friend of 10+ years has revealed that he actually doesn't support me being polyamorous
My 34F husband 32M of 9 years said I'm too loose for him to finish. What do I do?
i 22F caught feelings for a prisoner 26M. do i cut ties or stay?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Bad Boyfriends Episode

Wed, 02 Oct 2024 00:45:13 GMT

Happy Afternoon y'all! We got some goods again!

We're talking about:

My (36M) Wife (37F), said some really disrespectful and unpleasant things to my parents recently, thinks she was right. I think that she might have some trauma which is causing this thoughts. How do I approach this?
My 22f boyfriend 21m makes me feel so gross during sex. How can I fix this?
Suspicious texts on my (29F) husband’s (31M) phone. What would you do?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Brother Is A Love Cop!

Tue, 24 Sep 2024 08:36:27 GMT

We are back with another ep and we get right into the emails and reddit questions!

We're talking about:

A brother who wants his brother to stop flirting
How to silence that fear in your head.
How can I have an open conversation with my husband (30M) about him using escorts when I (27F) am away? Looking for advice on how to handle this situation and move forward.
I (F26) accidentally had my baby at my friend’s (F31) house, and now she’s pissed. How do I solve this?
I (26f) am a doctor, but my boyfriend(27m) isnt and peoples reactions start to worn him out?

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Hood Housekeeping

Thu, 19 Sep 2024 00:23:46 GMT

We're doing something completely different this week, we're talking about our mess in full detail. Walk with us through this fun transition (we're not breaking up) and a ton of tangents, of course.

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Factory Standard Equipment

Tue, 10 Sep 2024 19:08:29 GMT

Happy Tuesday, Mess Hall! We're deep into listener's this question after giving you some insight into the adventure that Ify's car went on while we were in London.

We're hopping in these topics:

Email: Are ~equipment~ preferences okay?
Email: How to stay close friends with people who just started dating?

Thanks for the questions and thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Tough Love Letters

Wed, 04 Sep 2024 05:58:10 GMT

We thought it was Monday, so that's why you're getting it late this week! We don't even need to go to Reddit this episode, because so many listener questions came in! So listen in as we discuss getting back out on the dating scene, feeling like you can do more to support your partner, and what it might look like when you don't. Thanks to everyone who submitted a question!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Talking About bell hooks Gain!

Tue, 27 Aug 2024 21:14:52 GMT

Another listener question!!! Thank you to anon and I hope we helped you out. We also spend another episode kicking it off with a long discussion about OUR deal. We still got some mess for y'all tho!

I'm (m22) pretty sure my friend (m22) and my mom (f51) hooked up. What should I do now?
I (27F) had a threesome with a couple (29M and 29F) and we all loved it, what now?

Yep! We talked so much we only had time for two questions!

Thanks for listening!

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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First Listener Question!

Thu, 22 Aug 2024 04:22:56 GMT

We're kicking this late episode off with a long talk about Magic: the Gathering and parenting! So, buckle up for that! Then we have our first listener question read anonymously! This is what else we tackle:

Every time my wife (43f) gets home after a few days away, leaving me (42m) to look after the kids, she has a go at me. Why?
My 30M coworker 50F keeps commenting on my eating habits and saying I love food. How should I approach her to tell her to stop?
My vegan partner (24m) doesn’t want me (24f) cooking pork/beef when he’s home. What do i do?

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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We're not talking about Jazz

Tue, 13 Aug 2024 16:59:27 GMT

We're back with some more fun! I explain where I was and what I was up to, don't worry! Today we're hopping into these:

My (18F) Mom (50F) is suddenly obsessed with my hygiene because I "don't take long enough to pee." Help?!
How do I (F27) handle a demanding friend (F27) who ignores boundaries?
I 23F have a 22M boyfriend with a problematic fetish, any advice?
My mother F 70 cheated on my dad M 72 years ago with a married man- now he’s back in the picture?

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Eighty Two Dollar Water!?

Tue, 23 Jul 2024 06:54:50 GMT

Siena East joins up as we stumble through more mania!

What do I (33f) say to my suddenly Conspiracy Theorist boyfriend (40m)
My GF's (28F) parents think I (28M) peed the bed, but it was her squirt. What should I do?
70M 60F been together for two months (Trigger warning Old People having sex ) advice needed??
I (20F) am potentially getting a US green card and I do not know how to tell my bf (21M)?

Socials: @sienaeast @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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(23f) Homewreckers with Demi Adejuigbe

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 02:35:47 GMT

Better late than never, right? We're coming in hot a day late with another great episode with our good friend Demi Adejuigbe who is coming in with some good advice and some illegal advice. We're jumping into these questions today!

I saw (f32) tinder bank charge on husband’s (m39) bank statement. Not sure what to believe?
My (21f) boyfriend (20m) is somewhat friends with my ex-friend (23f) who is a homewrecker. Should I leave it alone?
My (23F) boyfriend (24M) wants me to “stop having my period.” Can I even recover from this?
My (28F) husband (33M) has been babied by his mother all his life and now its ruining our marriage, what can I do?

Socials:

Demis is at @electrolemon on IG and Twitter, @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Lewd Cheese Balls

Tue, 02 Jul 2024 07:03:42 GMT

On todays episode it gets wild and spicy as Ify has a bone to pick with some of these posters. Annoying people dealing with annoying people, potentially outing your husband because you snooped, and familial beef all go off in these week's episode!

Here's what we're getting into:

How do I (F23) shut down being friendly with a guy friend (M22) without insulting him?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dtb0su/how_do_i_f23_shut_down_being_friendly_with_a_guy/

I (F29) found gay porn on my husband’s (M30) phone, I need advice on what to do now?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dt9nir/i_f29_found_gay_porn_on_my_husbands_m30_phone_i/

What can I (27 F) do to get over a family grudge regarding my boyfriend’s (29 M) family member?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dt6o5h/what_can_i_27_f_do_to_get_over_a_family_grudge/

My [24F] boyfriend [25M] told me that snacking on mozzarella cheese balls might be a dealbreaker, what should I do?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dtaegt/my_24f_boyfriend_25m_told_me_that_snacking_on/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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51M with a Treasure Chest

Tue, 25 Jun 2024 05:53:12 GMT

Just Ify and Emmy on this one and this feels like another classic! A 19 year old man wonders if he should be spending less time in Applebees and more time in some DMs, another person deep in a relationship finally decides to speak up about not wanting kids, and a freaky zaddy is leaving one poster feeling used! Listen in for our takes on these and what tangents we go one. Spoiler alert: we take a very long detour to talk about a time Naomi wanted to make a lava lamp instead of going ice skating.

I (19M) feel like my friends (20M, 22M, and 23M) are holding me back, are they?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dl7ckj/i_19m_feel_like_my_friends_20m_22m_and_23m_are/

How do I, F30 start the conversation with my fiancé, M33 that I don't want kids knowing that he wants them?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dl5uvy/how_do_i_f30_start_the_conversation_with_my/

How can I tell if a 51M I am dating (47F) is addicted to porn or sex? 😓

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dl8eko/how_can_i_tell_if_a_51m_i_am_dating_47f_is/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Viral in 2020 w/ BJ Colangelo

Tue, 18 Jun 2024 18:53:22 GMT

This week our friend BJ Colangelo dropped in to drop some banger takes. We really have some fun with this one. Stinky boyfriends, annoying parents, and weird viral hits. Here's what we jumped into:

I (31m) just found out my partner (29f) went viral for something in 2020 but she won't tell me why, should I try find out?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dh5aab/i_31m_just_found_out_my_partner_29f_went_viral/

Why am I (24F) so agrivated by my mom (54F)

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhhbd3/why_am_i_24f_so_agrivated_by_my_mom_54f/

Please tell me if I, 31f (pregnant), am over reacting to my boyfriends 33m, aunt’s texting behavior??

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhh3lg/please_tell_me_if_i_31f_pregnant_am_over_reacting/

My (F20) bf (M22) of 2 years’ smell is becoming unbearable… what do I do?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhgyvg/my_f20_bf_m22_of_2_years_smell_is_becoming/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

BJ is @bjcolangelo

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Girlfriend's Sister Has Got It Going On w/ Jarvis Johnson

Tue, 11 Jun 2024 17:32:49 GMT

Jarvis Johnson joins us on today's episode to talk through girlfriends who don't want you looking at ANYONE, mouthy boyfriends, and anti-friend couple behavior. This week we're jumping into these threads:

My (19M) girlfriend (22F) made me walk out of the circus last night because of the female dancers; What should I do?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d8oc7p/my_19m_girlfriend_22f_made_me_walk_out_of_the/

My boyfriend 36M admitted he thinks my sister 27F is prettier than me 29F. How do I overcome his comment?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d8vyo3/my_boyfriend_36m_admitted_he_thinks_my_sister_27f/

My SO (M31) and I (F30) have no interest in being the "friend couple", how to help my friend understand?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d9fp9y/my_so_m31_and_i_f30_have_no_interest_in_being_the/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Safe Words and Hard Limits w/ Matt Apodaca

Tue, 04 Jun 2024 05:57:36 GMT

The second end of that "mega-sode" we talked about on this week's Candy Dinner. Matt Apodcaca sits down to discuss his own high school lore, not lasting long enough, and hyperbole. Good discussions are had and we get deep! Here's what we're jumping into this week:

How long do I (28f) stay with my bf (29m) if he constantly cums quick and I never do?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5i1jd/how_long_do_i_28f_stay_with_my_bf_29m_if_he/

My 34F wife has been messaging her friends husband about having a 3 way sexual relationship with his wife. How should I approach this?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5nqg1/my_34f_wife_has_been_messaging_her_friends/

I (23M) Said my partner (20NB) "becomes some sort of demon" during an argument away recently had, now I feel terrible about it and just need advice, what can i do to make things right?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5spsc/i_23m_said_my_partner_20nb_becomes_some_sort_of/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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What's Your Fantasy? w/ Alison Haslip

Tue, 28 May 2024 13:36:32 GMT

We have guests again!!! Emmy and Ify are joined by Alison Haslip as they sit down and discuss all the hits. Potentially weird fantasies, infidelity, and people buying drinks for your hot wife.

I (27F) am one of twins, and just discovered that my BF (31M) enjoys watching videos of twins on adult websites. What steps do I need to take here?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwdk4x/i_27f_am_one_of_twins_and_just_discovered_that_my/

I’m a 38M who recently divorced a 36F. During the divorce process, she had an affair with a married man in his 40s. My question is: should I inform said married man’s wife about their affair, or should I just leave it and let karma take its course?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwzjxe/im_a_38m_who_recently_divorced_a_36f_during_the/

Men buy my (28m) wife (28f) drinks?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cxczc7/men_buy_my_28m_wife_28f_drinks/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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How Daddy Got His Groove Back!

Tue, 21 May 2024 21:21:46 GMT

We are late, but are we?

Today we're jumping into:

My (24F) dad (62M) is currently going out with a girl younger than I am (23F). I have no idea how to deal with this situation - what can I do?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwfe1k/my_24f_dad_62m_is_currently_going_out_with_a_girl/

Caught my bf (31M) in a bizarre situation and I (27F) don't know if and how to talk about it?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwkdre/caught_my_bf_31m_in_a_bizarre_situation_and_i_27f/

How do I (M45) change the power dynamic with my wife (F45) after being married 20+ years?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cvokk9/how_do_i_m45_change_the_power_dynamic_with_my/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Heated Gamer Moments

Tue, 07 May 2024 14:20:43 GMT

More chaos from the subreddit this week! We take a second up top to discuss hard conversations and talking about relationship needs no matter the type of relationship you're in, then we got more sex questions, some gamer behavior, and a question that reminded me of that episode of Full House where she fell off that horse. (ISN'T IT IRONIC!? SHOUT OUT TO ALANIS!)

We're hopping in these threads:

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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Mixed Signals

Tue, 30 Apr 2024 21:24:01 GMT

A sandwich of fun episodes and some good conversations. We have some discussion of back door activities, a roller coaster of a story, some issue dealing with depression and anxiety, and people ducking visits to down town. We got into it and really dove into our freaky selves.

We're hopping in these threads:

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Condumbs

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 18:10:01 GMT

This week we dive into our stuff a bunch, which kinda makes the "enough of our mess" part funny to say, but you better believe when we jump into the internet's mess it get's wild! Fist ball or life type beat, keeping up with the Jessica's, and male insecurity are all on display this week!

We're hopping in these threads:

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Cousins For Life

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 22:05:44 GMT

This week is a peek into madness because the subreddit was POPPIN'! Dead bedrooms, child choices, boyfriends that should be arrested, and cousin on cousin fighting!

Wife never wants to have sex. Tried everything but Im fed up with the answer of “do things her way”. When do my needs come first? 37m 33f. Married 7 years
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5hnr2/wife_never_wants_to_have_sex_tried_everything_but/

Leave my(31M) GF(32F) because we can't agree on having children?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5ep9o/leave_my31m_gf32f_because_we_cant_agree_on_having/

My boyfriend baby trapped me?25f 27m
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5duhj/my_boyfriend_baby_trapped_me25f_27m/

My childhood best friend (30F) ended up marrying the guy I fell in love with (30M). I don't want to be around either of them ever again, they are calling me immature, do you think I'm being unfair?
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c4p3bq/my_childhood_best_friend_30f_ended_up_marrying/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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All About Love

Tue, 09 Apr 2024 06:50:32 GMT

This week opens with a deep conversation about our actualy relationship and communication styles. Then we dive into this mess:

[UPDATE] I (31F) booked a trip with my two friends (31F & 26M) only for them to tell me after that they’ve been dating for months. Now I’m expected to third wheel this trip and don’t know what to do?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bylg7u/update_i_31f_booked_a_trip_with_my_two_friends/

I [29M] have been dating my GF [37F] for 4 years - why don't I feel like I want to marry her yet?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bzf190/i_29m_have_been_dating_my_gf_37f_for_4_years_why/

My (25M) husband is excited for me (26F) to come and clean his parents house. Should I file for divorce after my husband told me he was excited for me to visit so I can clean for him?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bzij5n/my_25m_husband_is_excited_for_his_26f_to_come_and/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Losing Our Religion

Tue, 02 Apr 2024 20:38:21 GMT

We're back with quite a few spicy questions that run the gamut! We're talking birth, friendship, and religion. Buckle up!

We're hopping in these threads:

My (34F) husband (30M) has been secretly donating sperm on Facebook. Is there any way back from this?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bu1211/my_34f_husband_30m_has_been_secretly_donating/
I (29F) refused to let my MIL (63F) be present while I give birth. We think she'll try to show up anyway - how can we stop this?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1btx6t4/i_29f_refused_to_let_my_mil_63f_be_present_while/
My (30F) family won’t stop pushing religion on my daughter (5F). How can I make it stop?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bu2z6o/my_30f_family_wont_stop_pushing_religion_on_my/
I (31F) booked a trip with my two friends (31F & 26M) only for them to tell me after that they’ve been dating for months. Now I’m expected to third wheel this trip and don’t know what to do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1btqy5m/i_31f_booked_a_trip_with_my_two_friends_31f_26m/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Late Night Episode

Tue, 26 Mar 2024 08:02:24 GMT

This is the sweepy episode.

We're hopping in these threads:

I (28M) broke up with my partner (26F) a few years ago, I'm very close with her parents, but recently learned she is now getting married and she's asked can I not contact them anymore?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bcp5g3/i_28m_broke_up_with_my_partner_26f_a_few_years/

My [22f] best friend [23f] forgot my birthday. Is it dumb I’m sad?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bd6swn/my_22f_best_friend_23f_forgot_my_birthday_is_it/

Wife (34F) got into performing standup comedy a few years ago and I (32M) can't take it anymore.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1baywkd/wife_34f_got_into_performing_standup_comedy_a_few/

i think i (23f) ruined my fiancee's (23m) friend group?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bc3vmi/i_think_i_23f_ruined_my_fiancees_23m_friend_group/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Top Wife

Tue, 19 Mar 2024 05:33:31 GMT

Lots of wedding talk in this one! Some weddings that should happen and one that shouldn't!

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Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Thought It Was A Drought

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 03:44:08 GMT

Sometimes you brainwash yourself into not wanting to sleep with your wife. You know, normal marriage things.

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Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Get Rich Memes

Wed, 06 Mar 2024 07:26:55 GMT

Did you notice that I forgot to remove add a [Fun anecdote] last week and just left it in there because I was in a rush to upload the latest episode? Anyway we go through it all in this one. Friends getting scammed potentially, what information should be upfront when dating, poop alerts, and baby delivery woes. Come for the relationship advice and stay for the poop jokes!

We're hopping in these threads:

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Talkin' Bout The F Numbers

Wed, 28 Feb 2024 09:01:28 GMT

[Fun anecdote]

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Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Step Broh No!

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 08:54:03 GMT

I promise to stop complaining about our cats one day.

We're hopping in these threads:

I’m (F27) starting to think my “best friend” (F27) doesn’t like me very much.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1auzxip/im_f27_starting_to_think_j_my_best_friend_f27/

How do I (20F) build healthy communication with my partner (21M) and stop shutting down?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1av78tf/how_do_i_20f_build_healthy_communication_with_my/

I (35F) just found out my bf (36M) slept with his step sister

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1atxto9/i_35f_just_found_out_my_bf_36m_slept_with_his/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

I (24F) was worried I was being too mean to my boyfriend (27M). He says I’m keeping things interesting.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1auvnn5/i_24f_was_worried_i_was_being_too_mean_to_my/

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Good Dads Aren't Creepy

Wed, 14 Feb 2024 01:42:42 GMT

Happy Valentine's Day, we go deep in the episode and there's an interesting Dad theme.

We're hopping in these threads:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1agdb71/my_23f_boyfriend_25m_thinks_my_dads_59m_gifts_are/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1agee6r/my_36f_husband_47m_says_its_inappropriate_to_wear/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/19a0omr/my_29f_wife_has_lost_alot_of_weight_i_want_to31m/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/187w18h/my_girlfriends_23f_dad_died_a_week_before_i_24m/

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Flooded Out

Tue, 06 Feb 2024 03:35:21 GMT

Hey everyone! Just giving y'all an update on things. Mother Nature took out my Rodecaster Pro II's power adapter, and now I'm waiting for a replacement. Going to upload those videos for previous episode to give you something to look at while we fix things.

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Tell yourself whatever you need to w/ Damian Haas

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 06:19:06 GMT

Good sweet all around cutie, Damian Haas joins us for today's episode. It runs the whole gamut! Grieving crushes, exes crawling back to you, terrible talk about your partner, and incels!

Socials: Damian is @damianhaas, we are @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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The Rub Down w/ Arielle Zadok

Tue, 23 Jan 2024 07:47:43 GMT

This week we are joined by relationship coach, pro intimacy coordinator, and all around awesome human Arielle Zadok! We get real insightful as we delve deep into some more relationship mess!

We're hopping in these threads:

Arielle Zadok is at @ariellezadok

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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They Might Be Cousins w/ Ethan Nestor

Wed, 17 Jan 2024 01:21:17 GMT

What a fun episode with our first guest, Ethan Nestor aka Crankgameplays! We're getting really wild with this one talking about eating, emotional cheating, and racist meetings.

We're hopping in these threads:

Socials:

Ethan is @ethannestor

@ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

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The Blast Zone

Tue, 09 Jan 2024 16:40:25 GMT

Happy New Year! After a week hiatus we are back into mess in the new year. Lots of fun light ones this episode. Child birth, intrusive thoughts, weird politics, and potential butt slapping? Hop into the conversation and if your new years resolution is to support your favorite people, sign up for the patreon!

We're hopping in these threads:

Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily

YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9

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Lil poop as a treat!

Tue, 26 Dec 2023 21:05:04 GMT

Merry Chrystler and Happy Honda Days! We're back with another episode to help you dissociate from a trip that you are now realizing might be a day or two too long, or maybe you actually like your family! Either way, this one is fun! We have video! Since it's post Christmas and we have family in town, that's probably going up tomorrow (12/27) but we'll blast the news on socials when it's up!

We're hopping in these threads:

The pod's IG is @ourrelationshippod, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, and Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Femboyfriend

Tue, 19 Dec 2023 08:12:02 GMT

Em picked this week's questions and these are some good conversations, talking all elements of relationships and communication.

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Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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We have 3 cats!

Tue, 12 Dec 2023 07:50:18 GMT

I think we can call this one our Christmas episode because we have a festive question to answer. This one gets deep and Ify gets distracted as their cats go wild in the background. You may or may not hear the cats, but you'll definitely hear Ify complaining about this one. This episode is tangent heavy, but breaks into solid conversations about dating outside your race, non-monagamy (as always), and seeing your partner getting active with someone else on video.

We're hopping in these threads:

Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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C*m Alarm

Tue, 05 Dec 2023 00:59:39 GMT

What an episode! We get sooo spicy at the end of this one. We open with a conversation about bedroom media and behaviors, then jump into a very valid fiancee's anger, the we step into a discussion that starts in the bedroom and evolves into a talk about mind reading. We're not talking about X-men either... there is a reference tho!

We're hopping in these threads:

Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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Well Done Feet

Tue, 28 Nov 2023 04:44:21 GMT

Hope you enjoyed eating ya meats and sides! Em and Ify are back with another set of messy questions from r/relationship_advice. This week is for the freaks, a ruined proposal is bookended by a potential feet freak unwilling to go full form and a potential threesome poly relationship type thing. Just listen!

We're hopping in these threads:

Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG

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