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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 3, Bonus Episode  - Mastering Communication for Healthier Relationships with Amira MansourHow can you learn to communicate better in your relationships?In this episode of the 'How to Love Successfully' podcast, host Dr. Mari Kovanen speaks t...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Bonus Episode  - Mastering Communication for Healthier Relationships with Amira Mansour<p>How can you learn to communicate better in your relationships?</p><p>In this episode of the 'How to Love Successfully' podcast, host Dr. Mari Kovanen speaks to Communication Expert, Amira Mansour. </p><p> </p><p>Together, they delve into the importance of effective and conscious communication in shaping successful relationships. </p><p> </p><p>Amira discusses her journey from experiencing a long, unhealthy relationship and a challenging corporate career to mastering the art of communication, both personally and professionally. She shares actionable tips on identifying authentic communication styles, developing self-awareness, and handling conflicts. </p><p> </p><p>She suggests focusing on one relationship at a time to improve communication skills gradually. Tune in to learn more about taking control of personal and professional conversations and creating more fulfilling relationships.</p><p> </p><p>Amira’s bio:</p><p> </p><p>Amira aka The Communication Expert works with</p><p>companies and individuals to help them communicate</p><p>with themselves. This in turn enables them to get the</p><p>best out of their relationships. She’s a believer that</p><p>communication is the essence of understanding who you</p><p>are and creating relationships where you feel heard and</p><p>understood makes you feel happier on a deeper internal</p><p>level. </p><p> </p><p>Communicating is something we’re all doing all the</p><p>time, whether we realise it or not. However, it’s not</p><p>always something we’ve learnt how to do well.</p><p> </p><p>Through a combination of 12 years in the corporate</p><p>world, working with a diverse range of people and her</p><p>own experiences, she’ll help you learn to understand the</p><p>power of your internal dialogue, how this impacts your</p><p>work, friendships, relationships and support you to get</p><p>the promotion you want, the career you’re dreaming of,</p><p>be the business leader you desire, the partner you’ve visualised, to live life on your terms honouring who you were always meant to be.</p><p> </p><p>Whether it’s through her monthly masterclasses, podcast</p><p>or 1:1 coaching program, Amira will help you understand</p><p>your values, your motivations and your shadow self to</p><p>not only be able to stop overthinking what you, but to say</p><p>what you mean and communicate as your authentic self.</p><p>She’ll guide to be able to resolve the conflict in your life,</p><p>assert your boundaries and master the hard</p><p>conversations so you get out of the negative spiral of self</p><p>talk and communicate with confidence and ease in every</p><p>area of your life!</p><p> </p><p>If you want to hear more from Amira aka The</p><p>Communication Expert, then give her a follow</p><p>on IG @the_communicationexpert and if you’re</p><p>thinking of working with here why not book</p><p>your free 30 minute call to see if this is right for</p><p>you: </p><p>https://hello.dubsado.com:443/public/appointment-</p><p>scheduler/65035c7c3b2c42003a537d75/schedule</p><p> </p><p>You can also check out her podcast OPEN UP.</p><p>You can listen on Soundcloud or here on Spotify</p><p> </p><p>https://open.spotify.com/show/2tZpAiGdjZpbc</p><p>ZgLIrD5Ur</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>03:48 Amira's Personal Journey and Insights</p><p>09:46 Impact of Cultural Background on Communication</p><p>13:03 Amira's Corporate Career and Communication Challenges</p><p>19:05 Turning Point and Transformation</p><p>22:54 Current Life and Work</p><p>25:37 Common Communication Problems and Solutions</p><p>29:56 Top Tips for Effective Communication</p><p><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></p><p>Would you like to transform your love life and finally meet the right person?</p><p>FREE 20 Min Love Connection Call </p><p> </p><p>You have tried everything and still can't find the right person...</p><p> </p><p>You feel nervous about putting yourself out there again.</p><p> </p><p>You find yourself getting preoccupied with dating and then exhausted with it all.</p><p> </p><p>Dating can feel like such a jungle. I know it first hand but there is a way out.</p><p> </p><p>💗Would you love to....</p><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Feel confident when dating?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and know who is the right person for you?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Build a long-term committed relationship with a compatible loving man?</li></ul><p> </p><p>💧Dating is a very modern process of finding the right relationship and most people try to wing it.</p><p> </p><p>🌟To fast track the process...</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to understand psychobiology and how we operate as humans.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to remove internal blocks from past relationships that are holding you back.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to have clarity on yourself and the person you want to meet.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need a place to review and feel supported in the process.</p><p><br><br></p><p>You may ask: “Really, all of that, it sounds complicated?”</p><p> </p><p>Well, when you have tried everything you need to take out the big tools so we get the best results.</p><p> </p><p>As a trained psychologist / therapist doing dating coaching, I've got it all and more covered.</p><p> </p><p>If you would like to know more, book a call to get clear on your next steps.⤵️</p><p> </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall</a></p><p><br><br></p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Bonus Episode  - Mastering Communication for Healthier Relationships with Amira Mansour<p>How can you learn to communicate better in your relationships?</p><p>In this episode of the 'How to Love Successfully' podcast, host Dr. Mari Kovanen speaks to Communication Expert, Amira Mansour. </p><p> </p><p>Together, they delve into the importance of effective and conscious communication in shaping successful relationships. </p><p> </p><p>Amira discusses her journey from experiencing a long, unhealthy relationship and a challenging corporate career to mastering the art of communication, both personally and professionally. She shares actionable tips on identifying authentic communication styles, developing self-awareness, and handling conflicts. </p><p> </p><p>She suggests focusing on one relationship at a time to improve communication skills gradually. Tune in to learn more about taking control of personal and professional conversations and creating more fulfilling relationships.</p><p> </p><p>Amira’s bio:</p><p> </p><p>Amira aka The Communication Expert works with</p><p>companies and individuals to help them communicate</p><p>with themselves. This in turn enables them to get the</p><p>best out of their relationships. She’s a believer that</p><p>communication is the essence of understanding who you</p><p>are and creating relationships where you feel heard and</p><p>understood makes you feel happier on a deeper internal</p><p>level. </p><p> </p><p>Communicating is something we’re all doing all the</p><p>time, whether we realise it or not. However, it’s not</p><p>always something we’ve learnt how to do well.</p><p> </p><p>Through a combination of 12 years in the corporate</p><p>world, working with a diverse range of people and her</p><p>own experiences, she’ll help you learn to understand the</p><p>power of your internal dialogue, how this impacts your</p><p>work, friendships, relationships and support you to get</p><p>the promotion you want, the career you’re dreaming of,</p><p>be the business leader you desire, the partner you’ve visualised, to live life on your terms honouring who you were always meant to be.</p><p> </p><p>Whether it’s through her monthly masterclasses, podcast</p><p>or 1:1 coaching program, Amira will help you understand</p><p>your values, your motivations and your shadow self to</p><p>not only be able to stop overthinking what you, but to say</p><p>what you mean and communicate as your authentic self.</p><p>She’ll guide to be able to resolve the conflict in your life,</p><p>assert your boundaries and master the hard</p><p>conversations so you get out of the negative spiral of self</p><p>talk and communicate with confidence and ease in every</p><p>area of your life!</p><p> </p><p>If you want to hear more from Amira aka The</p><p>Communication Expert, then give her a follow</p><p>on IG @the_communicationexpert and if you’re</p><p>thinking of working with here why not book</p><p>your free 30 minute call to see if this is right for</p><p>you: </p><p>https://hello.dubsado.com:443/public/appointment-</p><p>scheduler/65035c7c3b2c42003a537d75/schedule</p><p> </p><p>You can also check out her podcast OPEN UP.</p><p>You can listen on Soundcloud or here on Spotify</p><p> </p><p>https://open.spotify.com/show/2tZpAiGdjZpbc</p><p>ZgLIrD5Ur</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>03:48 Amira's Personal Journey and Insights</p><p>09:46 Impact of Cultural Background on Communication</p><p>13:03 Amira's Corporate Career and Communication Challenges</p><p>19:05 Turning Point and Transformation</p><p>22:54 Current Life and Work</p><p>25:37 Common Communication Problems and Solutions</p><p>29:56 Top Tips for Effective Communication</p><p><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></p><p>Would you like to transform your love life and finally meet the right person?</p><p>FREE 20 Min Love Connection Call </p><p> </p><p>You have tried everything and still can't find the right person...</p><p> </p><p>You feel nervous about putting yourself out there again.</p><p> </p><p>You find yourself getting preoccupied with dating and then exhausted with it all.</p><p> </p><p>Dating can feel like such a jungle. I know it first hand but there is a way out.</p><p> </p><p>💗Would you love to....</p><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Feel confident when dating?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and know who is the right person for you?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Build a long-term committed relationship with a compatible loving man?</li></ul><p> </p><p>💧Dating is a very modern process of finding the right relationship and most people try to wing it.</p><p> </p><p>🌟To fast track the process...</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to understand psychobiology and how we operate as humans.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to remove internal blocks from past relationships that are holding you back.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to have clarity on yourself and the person you want to meet.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need a place to review and feel supported in the process.</p><p><br><br></p><p>You may ask: “Really, all of that, it sounds complicated?”</p><p> </p><p>Well, when you have tried everything you need to take out the big tools so we get the best results.</p><p> </p><p>As a trained psychologist / therapist doing dating coaching, I've got it all and more covered.</p><p> </p><p>If you would like to know more, book a call to get clear on your next steps.⤵️</p><p> </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall</a></p><p><br><br></p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2024 00:11:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Season 3, Bonus Episode 1 - Season 3, Bonus Episode 1 - Importance of Self-connection in Intimacy with Gemma NiceIn this enlightening conversation, relationship coach Gemma Niece and I, Dr Mari Kovanen, delve into the challenges female leaders face ...</itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Bonus Episode 1 - Season 3, Bonus Episode 1 - Importance of Self-connection in Intimacy with Gemma Nice<p>In this enlightening conversation, relationship coach Gemma Niece and I, Dr Mari Kovanen, delve into the challenges female leaders face in establishing and maintaining quality, intimate connections. </p><p> </p><p>We explore the impacts of high-achieving careers on personal relationships, discuss the importance of open communication, and offer valuable tips to enable personal and relationship healing. </p><p> </p><p>Gemma shares her personal journey and how yoga opened a new path for her in dealing with stress and relationships.</p><p> </p><p> We discuss common difficulties in being intimate when we're always striving for more in our work. </p><p> </p><p>We round up the discussion with actionable suggestions for enhancing intimacy and achieving work-life balance. </p><p> </p><p>Yoga, breathwork, and candid conversations come out as key. This episode is loaded with rich insights and practical takeaways for fostering deeper connections, both with oneself and one's partner.</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:38 Gemma's Background and Journey</p><p>07:53 Challenges of High Achieving Women in Relationships</p><p>11:58 Importance of Self-Care and Balance</p><p>14:04 Understanding Women's Cycles and Its Impact</p><p>16:51 The Role of Communication in Relationships</p><p>25:16 Working with Clients: Process and Techniques</p><p> </p><p>Gemma’s bio:</p><p>Gemma is an international $ex And Relationship Coach/Yoga</p><p>Coach For High Achieving Women - Teaching Women How</p><p>To Have Intimate, Loving And Healthy Relationships That</p><p>Last. Gemma and her husband Darren suffered with their</p><p>relationship after many years of trying and now have</p><p>overcome those factors and have been together for over 23</p><p>years. They suffered trauma through a miscarriage in 2012 but</p><p>once recovered it made their relationship stronger.</p><p>Gemma and her husband have 2 children. She is located just</p><p>outside of Brighton, England. And they love outdoor walks</p><p>and being in nature and love spending time together as a</p><p>family. Gemma and her husband backpacked around the</p><p>world for 7 months in 2006 to save their relationship.</p><p> </p><p>Your social media handles:</p><p>Calendly Link</p><p>https://calendly.com/gemmahayleynice</p><p>Website : https://www.gemmanice.com</p><p>Social Platforms:</p><p>Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/gemmahayleynice/</p><p>Pintrest – https://www.pinterest.co.uk/GemmaHayleyNice/</p><p>YouTube -</p><p>https://www.youtube.com/@gemmanicerelationshipcoach</p><p>Twitter – https://twitter.com/GemmaHayleyNice</p><p>Linkedin</p><p>https://www.linkedin.com/in/gemmanicerelationshipcoach</p><p>EasYoga Podcast - https://link.chtbl.com/BUafvby8</p><p>Insight Timer Meditation App -https://insighttimer.com/yogigemma</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life and finally meet the right person?</p><p>FREE 20 Min Love Connection Call </p><p> </p><p>You have tried everything and still can't find the right person...</p><p> </p><p>You feel nervous about putting yourself out there again.</p><p> </p><p>You find yourself getting preoccupied with dating and then exhausted with it all.</p><p> </p><p>Dating can feel like such a jungle. I know it first hand but there is a way out.</p><p> </p><p>💗Would you love to....</p><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Feel confident when dating?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and know who is the right person for you?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Build a long-term committed relationship with a compatible loving man?</li></ul><p> </p><p>💧Dating is a very modern process of finding the right relationship and most people try to wing it.</p><p> </p><p>🌟To fast track the process...</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to understand psychobiology and how we operate as humans.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to remove internal blocks from past relationships that are holding you back.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to have clarity on yourself and the person you want to meet.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need a place to review and feel supported in the process.</p><p><br><br></p><p>You may ask: “Really, all of that, it sounds complicated?”</p><p> </p><p>Well, when you have tried everything you need to take out the big tools so we get the best results.</p><p> </p><p>As a trained psychologist / therapist doing dating coaching, I've got it all and more covered.</p><p> </p><p>If you would like to know more, book a call to get clear on your next steps.⤵️</p><p> </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall</a></p><p><br><br></p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Bonus Episode 1 - Season 3, Bonus Episode 1 - Importance of Self-connection in Intimacy with Gemma Nice<p>In this enlightening conversation, relationship coach Gemma Niece and I, Dr Mari Kovanen, delve into the challenges female leaders face in establishing and maintaining quality, intimate connections. </p><p> </p><p>We explore the impacts of high-achieving careers on personal relationships, discuss the importance of open communication, and offer valuable tips to enable personal and relationship healing. </p><p> </p><p>Gemma shares her personal journey and how yoga opened a new path for her in dealing with stress and relationships.</p><p> </p><p> We discuss common difficulties in being intimate when we're always striving for more in our work. </p><p> </p><p>We round up the discussion with actionable suggestions for enhancing intimacy and achieving work-life balance. </p><p> </p><p>Yoga, breathwork, and candid conversations come out as key. This episode is loaded with rich insights and practical takeaways for fostering deeper connections, both with oneself and one's partner.</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:38 Gemma's Background and Journey</p><p>07:53 Challenges of High Achieving Women in Relationships</p><p>11:58 Importance of Self-Care and Balance</p><p>14:04 Understanding Women's Cycles and Its Impact</p><p>16:51 The Role of Communication in Relationships</p><p>25:16 Working with Clients: Process and Techniques</p><p> </p><p>Gemma’s bio:</p><p>Gemma is an international $ex And Relationship Coach/Yoga</p><p>Coach For High Achieving Women - Teaching Women How</p><p>To Have Intimate, Loving And Healthy Relationships That</p><p>Last. Gemma and her husband Darren suffered with their</p><p>relationship after many years of trying and now have</p><p>overcome those factors and have been together for over 23</p><p>years. They suffered trauma through a miscarriage in 2012 but</p><p>once recovered it made their relationship stronger.</p><p>Gemma and her husband have 2 children. She is located just</p><p>outside of Brighton, England. And they love outdoor walks</p><p>and being in nature and love spending time together as a</p><p>family. Gemma and her husband backpacked around the</p><p>world for 7 months in 2006 to save their relationship.</p><p> </p><p>Your social media handles:</p><p>Calendly Link</p><p>https://calendly.com/gemmahayleynice</p><p>Website : https://www.gemmanice.com</p><p>Social Platforms:</p><p>Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/gemmahayleynice/</p><p>Pintrest – https://www.pinterest.co.uk/GemmaHayleyNice/</p><p>YouTube -</p><p>https://www.youtube.com/@gemmanicerelationshipcoach</p><p>Twitter – https://twitter.com/GemmaHayleyNice</p><p>Linkedin</p><p>https://www.linkedin.com/in/gemmanicerelationshipcoach</p><p>EasYoga Podcast - https://link.chtbl.com/BUafvby8</p><p>Insight Timer Meditation App -https://insighttimer.com/yogigemma</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life and finally meet the right person?</p><p>FREE 20 Min Love Connection Call </p><p> </p><p>You have tried everything and still can't find the right person...</p><p> </p><p>You feel nervous about putting yourself out there again.</p><p> </p><p>You find yourself getting preoccupied with dating and then exhausted with it all.</p><p> </p><p>Dating can feel like such a jungle. I know it first hand but there is a way out.</p><p> </p><p>💗Would you love to....</p><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Feel confident when dating?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and know who is the right person for you?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Build a long-term committed relationship with a compatible loving man?</li></ul><p> </p><p>💧Dating is a very modern process of finding the right relationship and most people try to wing it.</p><p> </p><p>🌟To fast track the process...</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to understand psychobiology and how we operate as humans.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to remove internal blocks from past relationships that are holding you back.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to have clarity on yourself and the person you want to meet.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need a place to review and feel supported in the process.</p><p><br><br></p><p>You may ask: “Really, all of that, it sounds complicated?”</p><p> </p><p>Well, when you have tried everything you need to take out the big tools so we get the best results.</p><p> </p><p>As a trained psychologist / therapist doing dating coaching, I've got it all and more covered.</p><p> </p><p>If you would like to know more, book a call to get clear on your next steps.⤵️</p><p> </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall</a></p><p><br><br></p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Season 3, Episode 10 - 5 Powerful questions to find love in 2024In this episode, I, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, guide you through five powerful questions designed to help you unlock the secrets to finding ...</itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 10 - 5 Powerful questions to find love in 2024<p>In this episode, I, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, guide you through five powerful questions designed to help you unlock the secrets to finding love in 2024. </p><p>These insightful questions will encourage you to challenge your beliefs about love, assess your individual needs, reflect on your past relationships and consider the values you desire in a future partner. </p><p>I also introduce my 'empowered love blueprint' model and offer the chance for a personal consultation. </p><p>Designed for female leaders looking to build a successful love life alongside their careers, this episode offers an empowering, reflective approach to dating.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:36 Five Powerful Questions for Finding Love in 2024</p><p>04:00 Question 1: Beliefs about Dating and Finding Love</p><p>06:36 Question 2: Lessons from Parents and Past Relationships</p><p>08:42 Question 3: Considering Your Own Needs</p><p>11:15 Question 4: Identifying Your Values and Qualities</p><p>13:17 Question 5: Aligning Words and Actions in Dating</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life and finally meet the right person?</p><p>FREE 20 Min Love Connection Call </p><p> </p><p>You have tried everything and still can't find the right person...</p><p> </p><p>You feel nervous about putting yourself out there again.</p><p> </p><p>You find yourself getting preoccupied with dating and then exhausted with it all.</p><p> </p><p>Dating can feel like such a jungle. I know it first hand but there is a way out.</p><p> </p><p>💗Would you love to....</p><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Feel confident when dating?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and know who is the right person for you?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Build a long-term committed relationship with a compatible loving man?</li></ul><p> </p><p>💧Dating is a very modern process of finding the right relationship and most people try to wing it.</p><p> </p><p>🌟To fast track the process...</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to understand psychobiology and how we operate as humans.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to remove internal blocks from past relationships that are holding you back.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to have clarity on yourself and the person you want to meet.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need a place to review and feel supported in the process.</p><p><br><br></p><p>You may ask: “Really, all of that, it sounds complicated?”</p><p> </p><p>Well, when you have tried everything you need to take out the big tools so we get the best results.</p><p> </p><p>As a trained psychologist / therapist doing dating coaching, I've got it all and more covered.</p><p> </p><p>If you would like to know more, book a call to get clear on your next steps.⤵️</p><p> </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall</a></p><p><br><br></p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 10 - 5 Powerful questions to find love in 2024<p>In this episode, I, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, guide you through five powerful questions designed to help you unlock the secrets to finding love in 2024. </p><p>These insightful questions will encourage you to challenge your beliefs about love, assess your individual needs, reflect on your past relationships and consider the values you desire in a future partner. </p><p>I also introduce my 'empowered love blueprint' model and offer the chance for a personal consultation. </p><p>Designed for female leaders looking to build a successful love life alongside their careers, this episode offers an empowering, reflective approach to dating.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:36 Five Powerful Questions for Finding Love in 2024</p><p>04:00 Question 1: Beliefs about Dating and Finding Love</p><p>06:36 Question 2: Lessons from Parents and Past Relationships</p><p>08:42 Question 3: Considering Your Own Needs</p><p>11:15 Question 4: Identifying Your Values and Qualities</p><p>13:17 Question 5: Aligning Words and Actions in Dating</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life and finally meet the right person?</p><p>FREE 20 Min Love Connection Call </p><p> </p><p>You have tried everything and still can't find the right person...</p><p> </p><p>You feel nervous about putting yourself out there again.</p><p> </p><p>You find yourself getting preoccupied with dating and then exhausted with it all.</p><p> </p><p>Dating can feel like such a jungle. I know it first hand but there is a way out.</p><p> </p><p>💗Would you love to....</p><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Feel confident when dating?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and know who is the right person for you?</li></ul><p> </p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Build a long-term committed relationship with a compatible loving man?</li></ul><p> </p><p>💧Dating is a very modern process of finding the right relationship and most people try to wing it.</p><p> </p><p>🌟To fast track the process...</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to understand psychobiology and how we operate as humans.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to remove internal blocks from past relationships that are holding you back.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need to have clarity on yourself and the person you want to meet.</p><p> </p><p>🔹️You need a place to review and feel supported in the process.</p><p><br><br></p><p>You may ask: “Really, all of that, it sounds complicated?”</p><p> </p><p>Well, when you have tried everything you need to take out the big tools so we get the best results.</p><p> </p><p>As a trained psychologist / therapist doing dating coaching, I've got it all and more covered.</p><p> </p><p>If you would like to know more, book a call to get clear on your next steps.⤵️</p><p> </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/20minloveconnectioncall</a></p><p><br><br></p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 3, Episode 9 -Overcoming your dating anxiety</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 3, Episode 9 -Overcoming your dating anxiety</p><p>In this episode of 'How to Love Successfully', host Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, discusses how to tackle dating anxiety faced by many women. </p><p>Dr. Mari talks about the typical signs of dating anxiety, its impact on life and relationships, and the importance of dealing with it. </p><p>With the help of various therapeutic tools, she suggests self-love practices as a starting point, focusing on feeling good about oneself, understanding feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, practicing mindfulness, and cultivating self-compassion. Dr. Mari also emphasizes building a healthy self-esteem that is not tied to external factors. </p><p>She also talks about how reprocessing key negative experiences that are directly linked to dating related situations can be reprocessed through EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing). </p><p>It is a psychological tool Dr Mari is trained in and it is borrowed from trauma therapy and can significantly help in reducing dating anxiety. This way you can be more open to letting love and find the right relationship for you.  </p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:16 Understanding Dating Anxiety</p><p>01:55 Recognizing Symptoms of Dating Anxiety</p><p>03:43 Addressing Dating Anxiety</p><p>05:14 Self-Love Practices for Overcoming Dating Anxiety</p><p>08:47 Impact of Past Relationships on Dating Anxiety</p><p>09:19 EMDR Processing for Overcoming Dating Anxiety</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 3, Episode 9 -Overcoming your dating anxiety</p><p>In this episode of 'How to Love Successfully', host Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, discusses how to tackle dating anxiety faced by many women. </p><p>Dr. Mari talks about the typical signs of dating anxiety, its impact on life and relationships, and the importance of dealing with it. </p><p>With the help of various therapeutic tools, she suggests self-love practices as a starting point, focusing on feeling good about oneself, understanding feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, practicing mindfulness, and cultivating self-compassion. Dr. Mari also emphasizes building a healthy self-esteem that is not tied to external factors. </p><p>She also talks about how reprocessing key negative experiences that are directly linked to dating related situations can be reprocessed through EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing). </p><p>It is a psychological tool Dr Mari is trained in and it is borrowed from trauma therapy and can significantly help in reducing dating anxiety. This way you can be more open to letting love and find the right relationship for you.  </p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:16 Understanding Dating Anxiety</p><p>01:55 Recognizing Symptoms of Dating Anxiety</p><p>03:43 Addressing Dating Anxiety</p><p>05:14 Self-Love Practices for Overcoming Dating Anxiety</p><p>08:47 Impact of Past Relationships on Dating Anxiety</p><p>09:19 EMDR Processing for Overcoming Dating Anxiety</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 3, Episode 8 - Is dating anxiety is ruining your dating experience?</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 3, Episode 8 - Is dating anxiety is ruining your dating experience?</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Fri, 22 Dec 2023 00:14:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  8 - Is dating anxiety is ruining your dating experience?<p>In this episode, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, explores dating anxiety, particularly as it affects successful women. She explains how dating anxiety rises from insecurities, attachment issues and previous relationship experiences, and how it often leads to confusion and discomfort during the dating process. </p><p>She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's anxiety sources and gives an insight into attachment styles. Dr. Mari also provides three crucial questions to assess potential partner's behaviours for consistency, effort, and alignment between words and actions. This episode sets the stage for the upcoming second part, which will focus on practical tips to help cope with dating anxiety.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:15 Understanding Dating Anxiety</p><p>03:13 Exploring the Causes of Dating Anxiety</p><p>04:58 The Impact of Past Relationships on Dating Anxiety</p><p>09:57 How to Recognize and Address Dating Anxiety</p><p>10:49 Dating Clinic Consultations</p><p>11:25 Three Key Questions to Ask When Dating</p><p> </p><p>Previous episodes talking about attachment adaptations. </p><p>https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-hm97p-1410ec7</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  8 - Is dating anxiety is ruining your dating experience?<p>In this episode, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, explores dating anxiety, particularly as it affects successful women. She explains how dating anxiety rises from insecurities, attachment issues and previous relationship experiences, and how it often leads to confusion and discomfort during the dating process. </p><p>She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's anxiety sources and gives an insight into attachment styles. Dr. Mari also provides three crucial questions to assess potential partner's behaviours for consistency, effort, and alignment between words and actions. This episode sets the stage for the upcoming second part, which will focus on practical tips to help cope with dating anxiety.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:15 Understanding Dating Anxiety</p><p>03:13 Exploring the Causes of Dating Anxiety</p><p>04:58 The Impact of Past Relationships on Dating Anxiety</p><p>09:57 How to Recognize and Address Dating Anxiety</p><p>10:49 Dating Clinic Consultations</p><p>11:25 Three Key Questions to Ask When Dating</p><p> </p><p>Previous episodes talking about attachment adaptations. </p><p>https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-hm97p-1410ec7</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 3, Episode  7 - Surviving the Holidays as a Single Woman: Strategies for Staying True to Yourself</title>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Season 3, Episode  7 - Surviving the Holidays as a Single Woman: Strategies for Staying True to YourselfIn this episode, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and a conscious dating coach, discusses how single women can navigate the holiday se...</itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  7 - Surviving the Holidays as a Single Woman: Strategies for Staying True to Yourself<p>In this episode, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and a conscious dating coach, discusses how single women can navigate the holiday season, which often brings heightened awareness of being single. She suggests strategies like volunteering, maintaining a busy social calendar, and practicing self-love to mitigate loneliness or discomfort. </p><p>Dr. Kovanen emphasizes that not having found one's 'person' yet doesn't make anyone less valuable even if the social message may give this impression  and urges listeners to stay true to themselves. </p><p>01:19 Surviving the Holiday Season as a Single Woman</p><p>03:11 Personal Experiences and Challenges</p><p>04:21 Strategies to Navigate the Holiday Season</p><p>08:03 Self-Care and Mindfulness Practices</p><p>09:38 Dating Clinic Consultations</p><p>10:18 Dealing with Uncomfortable Questions</p><p>11:55 Staying True to Yourself</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  7 - Surviving the Holidays as a Single Woman: Strategies for Staying True to Yourself<p>In this episode, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and a conscious dating coach, discusses how single women can navigate the holiday season, which often brings heightened awareness of being single. She suggests strategies like volunteering, maintaining a busy social calendar, and practicing self-love to mitigate loneliness or discomfort. </p><p>Dr. Kovanen emphasizes that not having found one's 'person' yet doesn't make anyone less valuable even if the social message may give this impression  and urges listeners to stay true to themselves. </p><p>01:19 Surviving the Holiday Season as a Single Woman</p><p>03:11 Personal Experiences and Challenges</p><p>04:21 Strategies to Navigate the Holiday Season</p><p>08:03 Self-Care and Mindfulness Practices</p><p>09:38 Dating Clinic Consultations</p><p>10:18 Dealing with Uncomfortable Questions</p><p>11:55 Staying True to Yourself</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 3, Episode 6 - Building healthy self-esteem practices for successful dating and relationships</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 3, Episode 6 - Building healthy self-esteem practices for successful dating and relationships</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Fri, 08 Dec 2023 01:17:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  6 - "Building healthy self-esteem practices for successful dating and relationships<p>This week host Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, discusses the importance of healthy self-esteem in creating successful relationships. The episode delves into healthy self-esteem, and its meaning, and defines the 'One Down' and 'One Up' positions (a theory by Terry Real), which are both connected to low self-esteem. She explores ways to build a healthy sense of self-worth through self-connection strategies like meditation and journaling, and the practice of self-compassion. The podcast underscores the idea that showing kindness and compassion towards oneself is fundamental in building successful relationships and attracting the right person in one's life.</p><p> </p><p>01:22 Understanding Self Esteem in Relationships</p><p>02:07 Exploring the Concept of Healthy Self Esteem</p><p>04:41 Building Healthy Self Esteem for Dating and Relationships</p><p>06:09 Building Healthy Self Esteem: Practical Steps</p><p>08:33 The Role of Self Compassion in Building Self Esteem</p><p>10:08 Maintaining Healthy Self Esteem in Relationships</p><p>12:46 Daily Practices for Building Healthy Self Esteem</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  6 - "Building healthy self-esteem practices for successful dating and relationships<p>This week host Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, discusses the importance of healthy self-esteem in creating successful relationships. The episode delves into healthy self-esteem, and its meaning, and defines the 'One Down' and 'One Up' positions (a theory by Terry Real), which are both connected to low self-esteem. She explores ways to build a healthy sense of self-worth through self-connection strategies like meditation and journaling, and the practice of self-compassion. The podcast underscores the idea that showing kindness and compassion towards oneself is fundamental in building successful relationships and attracting the right person in one's life.</p><p> </p><p>01:22 Understanding Self Esteem in Relationships</p><p>02:07 Exploring the Concept of Healthy Self Esteem</p><p>04:41 Building Healthy Self Esteem for Dating and Relationships</p><p>06:09 Building Healthy Self Esteem: Practical Steps</p><p>08:33 The Role of Self Compassion in Building Self Esteem</p><p>10:08 Maintaining Healthy Self Esteem in Relationships</p><p>12:46 Daily Practices for Building Healthy Self Esteem</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 3, Episode 5 - From Self-Love to Soulmate: A journey of Discovery through Nutrition and Finding True Love with Caroline Heaton-Tate</title>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  5- "From Type A to Heart-Centered: Embracing Vulnerability in Dating"In this episode of 'How to Love Successfully', host Dr. Marie Kovanen, a registered psychologist and dating coach, speaks with Caroline Heaton Tate, an award-win...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  5- "From Type A to Heart-Centered: Embracing Vulnerability in Dating"<p>In this episode of 'How to Love Successfully', host Dr. Marie Kovanen, a registered psychologist and dating coach, speaks with Caroline Heaton Tate, an award-winning eating psychology expert. </p><p>Caroline discusses her journey, from losing her mother to breast cancer and struggling with an unhealthy relationship with food, to overcoming adversities, developing self-love, and discovering her passion for helping women transform their health. </p><p>She shares valuable insights into the connection between physical health and overall success in life. </p><p>Caroline also talks about her 'Healthy Wealthy Goddess Club', where women explore their relationship with food, improve their health and self-love, and consequently grow wealth. </p><p>The episode concludes with Caroline giving actionable tips on mindful eating and being more in tune with nature.</p><p> </p><p>02:01 Caroline's Personal and Professional Journey</p><p>03:03 Overcoming Personal Challenges and Discovering Self-Love</p><p>05:40 Navigating New Relationships Post-Divorce</p><p>20:29 Maintaining Relationships Amidst Busy Schedules</p><p>23:13 Transforming Health and Wealth</p><p>26:31 Tips for Starting a Health Transformation</p><p> </p><p>Bio:</p><p>Caroline helps female leaders master their health to gain more time, energy, &amp; confidence to grow wealth. Award Winning Eating Psychology expert.</p><p> </p><p>Contact Caroline:</p><p>Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Carolineheatontate/</p><p>Instagram https://www.instagram.com/carolineheatontate/</p><p>LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/caroline-heaton-tate-970301145/</p><p>Website https://www.carolineheatontate.com/Home</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode  5- "From Type A to Heart-Centered: Embracing Vulnerability in Dating"<p>In this episode of 'How to Love Successfully', host Dr. Marie Kovanen, a registered psychologist and dating coach, speaks with Caroline Heaton Tate, an award-winning eating psychology expert. </p><p>Caroline discusses her journey, from losing her mother to breast cancer and struggling with an unhealthy relationship with food, to overcoming adversities, developing self-love, and discovering her passion for helping women transform their health. </p><p>She shares valuable insights into the connection between physical health and overall success in life. </p><p>Caroline also talks about her 'Healthy Wealthy Goddess Club', where women explore their relationship with food, improve their health and self-love, and consequently grow wealth. </p><p>The episode concludes with Caroline giving actionable tips on mindful eating and being more in tune with nature.</p><p> </p><p>02:01 Caroline's Personal and Professional Journey</p><p>03:03 Overcoming Personal Challenges and Discovering Self-Love</p><p>05:40 Navigating New Relationships Post-Divorce</p><p>20:29 Maintaining Relationships Amidst Busy Schedules</p><p>23:13 Transforming Health and Wealth</p><p>26:31 Tips for Starting a Health Transformation</p><p> </p><p>Bio:</p><p>Caroline helps female leaders master their health to gain more time, energy, &amp; confidence to grow wealth. Award Winning Eating Psychology expert.</p><p> </p><p>Contact Caroline:</p><p>Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Carolineheatontate/</p><p>Instagram https://www.instagram.com/carolineheatontate/</p><p>LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/caroline-heaton-tate-970301145/</p><p>Website https://www.carolineheatontate.com/Home</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 3, Episode 4 - From Type A to Heart-Centred Embracing Vulnerability in Dating</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 3, Episode 4 - From Type A to Heart-Centred Embracing Vulnerability in Dating</itunes:title>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 4 - "From Type A to Heart-Centered: Embracing Vulnerability in Dating"In this episode of the podcast 'How to Love Successfully', Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and a conscious dating coach, explores the concept of vuln...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 4 - "From Type A to Heart-Centered: Embracing Vulnerability in Dating"<p>In this episode of the podcast 'How to Love Successfully', Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and a conscious dating coach, explores the concept of vulnerability, particularly in the context of dating and relationships for strong female leaders. </p><p>Dr. Mari notes that successful relationships require certain ingredients, including emotional safety, connection, shared values, and mutual compassion. She underlines the fact that we all long to be seen as we are and underscores the importance of vulnerability in this context. The episode places a particular emphasis on the need to embrace all parts of ourselves, even the uncomfortable ones, and how these aspects can determine the depth of our relationships. </p><p>Dr. Mari offers tips for successful dating, including resilience against rejection and mindful communication. The podcast episode is designed to guide listeners on how to navigate vulnerability and build meaningful, emotionally safe relationships.</p><p>Listen to the podcast episode mentioned about building rejection resilience <a href='https://drmarikovanencoaching.com/season-2-episode-4-7-steps-to-building-rejection-resilience-for-dating/'>here</a>. </p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:18 Understanding the Strong Female Leader Identity</p><p>02:42 The Journey from Childhood to Adulthood</p><p>03:43 Ingredients for Successful Relationships</p><p>06:04 The Role of Vulnerability in Relationships</p><p>07:48 Reflections on Past Relationships</p><p>09:06 Understanding Fear of Vulnerability</p><p>11:07 The Importance of Vulnerability in Dating</p><p>14:31 Creating Depth in Dating</p><p>16:19 Paying Attention to Body Responses</p><p>17:08 Navigating Vulnerability with a Dating Coach</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 4 - "From Type A to Heart-Centered: Embracing Vulnerability in Dating"<p>In this episode of the podcast 'How to Love Successfully', Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and a conscious dating coach, explores the concept of vulnerability, particularly in the context of dating and relationships for strong female leaders. </p><p>Dr. Mari notes that successful relationships require certain ingredients, including emotional safety, connection, shared values, and mutual compassion. She underlines the fact that we all long to be seen as we are and underscores the importance of vulnerability in this context. The episode places a particular emphasis on the need to embrace all parts of ourselves, even the uncomfortable ones, and how these aspects can determine the depth of our relationships. </p><p>Dr. Mari offers tips for successful dating, including resilience against rejection and mindful communication. The podcast episode is designed to guide listeners on how to navigate vulnerability and build meaningful, emotionally safe relationships.</p><p>Listen to the podcast episode mentioned about building rejection resilience <a href='https://drmarikovanencoaching.com/season-2-episode-4-7-steps-to-building-rejection-resilience-for-dating/'>here</a>. </p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>01:18 Understanding the Strong Female Leader Identity</p><p>02:42 The Journey from Childhood to Adulthood</p><p>03:43 Ingredients for Successful Relationships</p><p>06:04 The Role of Vulnerability in Relationships</p><p>07:48 Reflections on Past Relationships</p><p>09:06 Understanding Fear of Vulnerability</p><p>11:07 The Importance of Vulnerability in Dating</p><p>14:31 Creating Depth in Dating</p><p>16:19 Paying Attention to Body Responses</p><p>17:08 Navigating Vulnerability with a Dating Coach</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 3 - "Understanding your Relationship Patterns and Values for Successful Dating with Sophie GwinnettIn this podcast episode, host Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, talks to guest Sophie Gwinnett...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 3 - "Understanding your Relationship Patterns and Values for Successful Dating with Sophie GwinnettIn this podcast episode, host Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, talks to guest Sophie Gwinnett, a clinical psychologist and a TEDx Speaker. The conversation revolves around both personal and professional experiences with relationships, focusing on the importance of understanding past relationship patterns and aligning values when dating. Sophie shares her insights on attachment theories and how they affect an individual's relationship dynamics. An important highlight is Sophie's three steps to a better romantic future gleaned from decades of experience in psychology: exploring past patterns, identifying relationship values, and committing to act on those values.Bio:Sophie Gwinnett is a Clinical Psychologist, TEDx Speaker and Director of Brightside Psychology. Over her 20-year career she has worked with individuals, couples and families to heal relational trauma and build healthy, secure connections. More recently she has applied her professional (and some personal!) knowledge to the area of dating, sharing her ideas in her 2022 TEDx Talk ‘Breaking Free: Three Steps For ABetter Romantic Future’. Sophie is passionate about all things attachment-related and helping people to not only survive, but to thrive in their relationships.<br>Contact SophieInstagram: @drsophiegwinnettLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/drsophiegwinnettFacebook: @brightsidepsychology Would you like to transform your love life?Dating ClinicIf you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinicTime stamps:02:49 Understanding Attachment Theory11:04 Sophie's Personal Journey and Insights17:36 The Importance of Aligning Values in Relationships25:10 Exploring Past Relationship Patterns27:12 Identifying and Acting on Relationship Values <p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 3 - "Understanding your Relationship Patterns and Values for Successful Dating with Sophie GwinnettIn this podcast episode, host Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, talks to guest Sophie Gwinnett, a clinical psychologist and a TEDx Speaker. The conversation revolves around both personal and professional experiences with relationships, focusing on the importance of understanding past relationship patterns and aligning values when dating. Sophie shares her insights on attachment theories and how they affect an individual's relationship dynamics. An important highlight is Sophie's three steps to a better romantic future gleaned from decades of experience in psychology: exploring past patterns, identifying relationship values, and committing to act on those values.Bio:Sophie Gwinnett is a Clinical Psychologist, TEDx Speaker and Director of Brightside Psychology. Over her 20-year career she has worked with individuals, couples and families to heal relational trauma and build healthy, secure connections. More recently she has applied her professional (and some personal!) knowledge to the area of dating, sharing her ideas in her 2022 TEDx Talk ‘Breaking Free: Three Steps For ABetter Romantic Future’. Sophie is passionate about all things attachment-related and helping people to not only survive, but to thrive in their relationships.<br>Contact SophieInstagram: @drsophiegwinnettLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/drsophiegwinnettFacebook: @brightsidepsychology Would you like to transform your love life?Dating ClinicIf you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinicTime stamps:02:49 Understanding Attachment Theory11:04 Sophie's Personal Journey and Insights17:36 The Importance of Aligning Values in Relationships25:10 Exploring Past Relationship Patterns27:12 Identifying and Acting on Relationship Values <p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 3, Episode 2 - Are men scared of strong women?</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 10 Nov 2023 00:11:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 2 - "Are men scared of strong women?"<p>Welcome to "How to Love Successfully," a podcast designed for accomplished female leaders ready to enrich their love lives, mirroring their professional success. I'm your host, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a seasoned psychologist and conscious dating coach. With 15 years of experience, I've helped individuals and couples navigate their relationships. </p><p>In this podcast episode, Dr Mari delves into the question, "Are men scared of strong women?" Dr Mari begins by addressing the concept of being a strong female leader and how this might affect dating experiences. The episode explores the idea of "strong women" as individuals who are career-focused, outspoken, and goal-oriented, often embodying a classic Type A personality. Dr Mari draws from her 15 years of clinical work and experience in therapy to shed light on the dynamics and energies that come into play in dating.</p><p>The episode emphasizes the importance of emotional safety and highlights that both men and women seek comfort and cues for safety during dates. It discusses the interplay of energies in relationships, such as the balance between the doer/provider/leader energy and the being/receiver/intuitive energy. Dr Mari emphasizes that a mismatch in these energies can lead to competition rather than a harmonious connection. The episode concludes by underlining the significance of healthy self-esteem and self-compassion in dating, encouraging strong women to shift gears from their work mode to a more relaxed and open mindset when dating.</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>Topics covered in this episode:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Defining Strong Female Leaders </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Challenges Faced by Strong Women in Dating </li><li style="font-weight:400;">The Need for Emotional Safety </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Understanding Relationship Energies </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Balancing Doer and Receiver Energies </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Mismatched Energies and Competition </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Shifting Gears for Successful Dating </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Cultivating Healthy Self-Esteem </li></ul><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 2 - "Are men scared of strong women?"<p>Welcome to "How to Love Successfully," a podcast designed for accomplished female leaders ready to enrich their love lives, mirroring their professional success. I'm your host, Dr. Mari Kovanen, a seasoned psychologist and conscious dating coach. With 15 years of experience, I've helped individuals and couples navigate their relationships. </p><p>In this podcast episode, Dr Mari delves into the question, "Are men scared of strong women?" Dr Mari begins by addressing the concept of being a strong female leader and how this might affect dating experiences. The episode explores the idea of "strong women" as individuals who are career-focused, outspoken, and goal-oriented, often embodying a classic Type A personality. Dr Mari draws from her 15 years of clinical work and experience in therapy to shed light on the dynamics and energies that come into play in dating.</p><p>The episode emphasizes the importance of emotional safety and highlights that both men and women seek comfort and cues for safety during dates. It discusses the interplay of energies in relationships, such as the balance between the doer/provider/leader energy and the being/receiver/intuitive energy. Dr Mari emphasizes that a mismatch in these energies can lead to competition rather than a harmonious connection. The episode concludes by underlining the significance of healthy self-esteem and self-compassion in dating, encouraging strong women to shift gears from their work mode to a more relaxed and open mindset when dating.</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to transform your love life?</p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute Dating Clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>Topics covered in this episode:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Defining Strong Female Leaders </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Challenges Faced by Strong Women in Dating </li><li style="font-weight:400;">The Need for Emotional Safety </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Understanding Relationship Energies </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Balancing Doer and Receiver Energies </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Mismatched Energies and Competition </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Shifting Gears for Successful Dating </li><li style="font-weight:400;">Cultivating Healthy Self-Esteem </li></ul><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 3, Episode1 - What is the biggest barrier to a loving connection?</title>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 1 - "What is the biggest barrier to a loving connection?"Welcome to "How to Love Successfully," a podcast designed for accomplished female leaders ready to enrich their love lives, mirroring their professional success. I'm your hos...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 1 - "What is the biggest barrier to a loving connection?"<p>Welcome to "How to Love Successfully," a podcast designed for accomplished female leaders ready to enrich their love lives, mirroring their professional success. I'm your host, Dr. Maria Kovanen, a seasoned psychologist and conscious dating coach. With 15 years of experience, I've helped individuals and couples navigate their relationships. </p><p>In this episode, we dive deep into the most common obstacle to love: the fear of rejection. Whether you're actively dating, feeling stuck, or yearning to strengthen existing relationships, understanding and conquering this fear is paramount. We explore its origins, impact, and the path to overcoming it. You deserve love, and by the end of this episode, you'll be better equipped to claim it. </p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute dating clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>Topics covered in this episode:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Unraveling the Fear of Rejection</li><li style="font-weight:400;">The Significance of Self-Understanding</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Impact of Early Life Experiences</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Conquering the Fear of Rejection</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Cultivating Self-Love for Attracting the Right Person</li></ul><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 3, Episode 1 - "What is the biggest barrier to a loving connection?"<p>Welcome to "How to Love Successfully," a podcast designed for accomplished female leaders ready to enrich their love lives, mirroring their professional success. I'm your host, Dr. Maria Kovanen, a seasoned psychologist and conscious dating coach. With 15 years of experience, I've helped individuals and couples navigate their relationships. </p><p>In this episode, we dive deep into the most common obstacle to love: the fear of rejection. Whether you're actively dating, feeling stuck, or yearning to strengthen existing relationships, understanding and conquering this fear is paramount. We explore its origins, impact, and the path to overcoming it. You deserve love, and by the end of this episode, you'll be better equipped to claim it. </p><p>Dating Clinic</p><p>If you've ever questioned what's holding you back from love, consider a free 30-minute dating clinic consultation. Discover the barriers in your path to love and leave with a plan for your journey. Details are in the show notes. Now, back to today's episode, as we unravel the roots of the fear of rejection and how to break free for the love you deserve. </p><p> </p><p>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</p><p> </p><p>Topics covered in this episode:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Unraveling the Fear of Rejection</li><li style="font-weight:400;">The Significance of Self-Understanding</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Impact of Early Life Experiences</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Conquering the Fear of Rejection</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Cultivating Self-Love for Attracting the Right Person</li></ul><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Most downloaded 3- From perfection to connection - Overcoming barrieres in love with Michaela Thomas</title>
			<itunes:title>Most downloaded 3- From perfection to connection - Overcoming barrieres in love with Michaela Thomas</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 26 Oct 2023 23:28:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Most downloaded- From Perfection To Connection: Overcoming Barriers In Love and Intimacy with Michaela Thomas</p><p> </p><p>Book a FREE 30Min Dating Clinic Consultation here and get clear on what is stopping you from finding love and how to resolve it. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><p>How to love successfully podcast is on a recording break and we are revising previously heard interviews that have been popular with our audience. </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, has a conversation with Michaela Thomas about perfectionism and how it can be a barrier to a deeper love. </p><p>Michaela Thomas is a Clinical Psychologist, couples therapist, coach and founder of the private practice The Thomas Connection. Michaela specialises in perfectionism and has authored the book The Lasting Connection - develop love and compassion for yourself and your partner.</p><p> </p><p>Michaela helps high-striving women to let go of the pressure of perfection – and burn bright, without burning out. She has an online program Burn Bright.  <a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/</a> </p><p> </p><p>Michaela can be found on her Pause Purpose Play podcast and on Instagram under <a href='https://www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection/'>@the_thomas_connection</a>. Her course The Compassionate Couple has been described as 'life changing'.</p><p><a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/</a> </p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>Topics covered:</p><p>How <a href='mailto:info@thethomasconnection.co.uk'>Michaela Thomas</a> got interested in relationship work</p><p> Meeting her husband</p><p> What creates connection</p><p>What stops connection</p><p>Values</p><p>Compatibility</p><p>Pressure to be perfect</p><p>What creates disconnection in couples</p><p> How to get back to intimacy</p><p>When perfectionism may hinder dating</p><p>Hollywood love versus real relationships</p><p>What is behind perfectionism</p><p>What is the antidote to perfectionism?</p><p>Cultivating compassion </p><p>Flows of compassion</p><p>What is love?</p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Most downloaded- From Perfection To Connection: Overcoming Barriers In Love and Intimacy with Michaela Thomas</p><p> </p><p>Book a FREE 30Min Dating Clinic Consultation here and get clear on what is stopping you from finding love and how to resolve it. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><p>How to love successfully podcast is on a recording break and we are revising previously heard interviews that have been popular with our audience. </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, has a conversation with Michaela Thomas about perfectionism and how it can be a barrier to a deeper love. </p><p>Michaela Thomas is a Clinical Psychologist, couples therapist, coach and founder of the private practice The Thomas Connection. Michaela specialises in perfectionism and has authored the book The Lasting Connection - develop love and compassion for yourself and your partner.</p><p> </p><p>Michaela helps high-striving women to let go of the pressure of perfection – and burn bright, without burning out. She has an online program Burn Bright.  <a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/</a> </p><p> </p><p>Michaela can be found on her Pause Purpose Play podcast and on Instagram under <a href='https://www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection/'>@the_thomas_connection</a>. Her course The Compassionate Couple has been described as 'life changing'.</p><p><a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/</a> </p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>Topics covered:</p><p>How <a href='mailto:info@thethomasconnection.co.uk'>Michaela Thomas</a> got interested in relationship work</p><p> Meeting her husband</p><p> What creates connection</p><p>What stops connection</p><p>Values</p><p>Compatibility</p><p>Pressure to be perfect</p><p>What creates disconnection in couples</p><p> How to get back to intimacy</p><p>When perfectionism may hinder dating</p><p>Hollywood love versus real relationships</p><p>What is behind perfectionism</p><p>What is the antidote to perfectionism?</p><p>Cultivating compassion </p><p>Flows of compassion</p><p>What is love?</p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Most downloaded - Why have been you been attracted to the wrong men</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 19 Oct 2023 23:58:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[BOOK a FREE 30 Min Dating Clinic Consultationhttps://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic Most downloaded - Why have you been attracted to the wrong men?This is the second "Most downloaded" episode as we are on a recording break for October....]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>BOOK a FREE 30 Min Dating Clinic Consultation</p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clini'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clini</a><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic'>c</a></p><p> </p><p>Most downloaded - Why have you been attracted to the wrong men?</p><p>This is the second "Most downloaded" episode as we are on a recording break for October.</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully,  Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach will talk about why you may have been attracted to a similar type of relationship over and over again. Dr Kovanen also discusses how you can start to change your relationship patterns and finally find the right relationship for you. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.00 Understanding Attraction to Wrong Relationships</p><p> </p><p>02.59 Relationship Blueprints and Early Experiences</p><p> </p><p>04.22 Forces Guiding Relationship Dynamics</p><p> </p><p>10.23 How do you change your relationship patterns</p><p> </p><p>12.52 Having clarity on the type of relationship you want </p><p>  </p><p>14.24 The pace of dating </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calehttps://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</a></p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>BOOK a FREE 30 Min Dating Clinic Consultation</p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clini'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clini</a><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic'>c</a></p><p> </p><p>Most downloaded - Why have you been attracted to the wrong men?</p><p>This is the second "Most downloaded" episode as we are on a recording break for October.</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully,  Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach will talk about why you may have been attracted to a similar type of relationship over and over again. Dr Kovanen also discusses how you can start to change your relationship patterns and finally find the right relationship for you. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.00 Understanding Attraction to Wrong Relationships</p><p> </p><p>02.59 Relationship Blueprints and Early Experiences</p><p> </p><p>04.22 Forces Guiding Relationship Dynamics</p><p> </p><p>10.23 How do you change your relationship patterns</p><p> </p><p>12.52 Having clarity on the type of relationship you want </p><p>  </p><p>14.24 The pace of dating </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calehttps://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</a></p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Most downloaded - Preventing dating burnout with Duana Welch, PhD</title>
			<itunes:title>Most downloaded - Preventing dating burnout with Duana Welch, PhD</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Fri, 13 Oct 2023 14:03:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle>The most downloaded episodes: Preventing Dating Burnout: Strategies for Successful Dating with Duana Welch, Phd Dating Clinic is now open for FREE 30min dating consultations to get clear why dating is not working for you.Book here https://calendly...</itunes:subtitle>
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			<itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>The most downloaded episodes: Preventing Dating Burnout: Strategies for Successful Dating with Duana Welch, Phd</p><p> </p><p>Dating Clinic is now open for FREE 30min dating consultations to get clear why dating is not working for you.</p><p>Book here <a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</a></p><p> </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, has a conversation about preventing dating burnout and finding love scientifically with Dr Duana Welch. Topics covered are Dr Duana’s personal journey of finding love with her husband, what research says about dating strategy, setting standards and women’s high self-esteem.  </p><p>Dr Welch is known for writing and dating coaching that relies on science rather than opinion to help men and women find and keep the love of their lives. A former professor in Florida, California, and Texas across 20 years, she has contributed to NPR, Psychology Today, and numerous other outlets and podcasts. Her first book, <em>Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do</em>, is now out globally in five languages; its revised and updated edition released in 2022. <em>Love Factually for Single Parents</em> is the second book in the series, specifically geared for finding the right partner not only for readers, but their families. She is an expert for Paired, the couples relationship app. Her client practice is global, via Zoom and other technologies.</p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink or maybe in the summer you want cooling down.. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>Get in touch with Dr Duana Welch:</p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor/'>https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor/</a></p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyBooks/'>https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyBooks/</a></p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/duanawelch/'>https://www.facebook.com/duanawelch/</a></p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/lovefactuallybooks/'>https://www.instagram.com/lovefactuallybooks/</a></p><p>Website <a href='http://www.lovesciencemedia.com/consult'>www.lovesciencemedia.com/consult</a></p><p> </p><p>Topics covered</p><p>What is dating burnout?</p><p> </p><p>How not to burnout in the dating process</p><p> </p><p>According to science what does being in a relationship bring to a person</p><p> </p><p>Adjusting your mindset to dating</p><p> </p><p>Finding a dating strategy that works and stops wasting time</p><p> </p><p>Treat dating as a part-time job</p><p> </p><p>A common mistake in dating </p><p> </p><p>Identifying your non-negotiables </p><p> </p><p>Preparation is essential for dating</p><p> </p><p>Meeting now husband in seven dating from publishing an online dating profile</p><p> </p><p>Stick to your priorities under pressure</p><p> </p><p>Psychology of dating ads </p><p> </p><p>Importance of taking taking dating seriously</p><p> </p><p>Current fast dating model and related problems</p><p> </p><p>Having high standards</p><p> </p><p>Co-habitation and science</p><p> </p><p>Clarity on standard to prevent wrong relationships</p><p> </p><p>Women’s high self-esteem and research on men</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. 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			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>The most downloaded episodes: Preventing Dating Burnout: Strategies for Successful Dating with Duana Welch, Phd</p><p> </p><p>Dating Clinic is now open for FREE 30min dating consultations to get clear why dating is not working for you.</p><p>Book here <a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/dating-clinic</a></p><p> </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, has a conversation about preventing dating burnout and finding love scientifically with Dr Duana Welch. Topics covered are Dr Duana’s personal journey of finding love with her husband, what research says about dating strategy, setting standards and women’s high self-esteem.  </p><p>Dr Welch is known for writing and dating coaching that relies on science rather than opinion to help men and women find and keep the love of their lives. A former professor in Florida, California, and Texas across 20 years, she has contributed to NPR, Psychology Today, and numerous other outlets and podcasts. Her first book, <em>Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do</em>, is now out globally in five languages; its revised and updated edition released in 2022. <em>Love Factually for Single Parents</em> is the second book in the series, specifically geared for finding the right partner not only for readers, but their families. She is an expert for Paired, the couples relationship app. Her client practice is global, via Zoom and other technologies.</p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink or maybe in the summer you want cooling down.. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>Get in touch with Dr Duana Welch:</p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor/'>https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor/</a></p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyBooks/'>https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyBooks/</a></p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/duanawelch/'>https://www.facebook.com/duanawelch/</a></p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/lovefactuallybooks/'>https://www.instagram.com/lovefactuallybooks/</a></p><p>Website <a href='http://www.lovesciencemedia.com/consult'>www.lovesciencemedia.com/consult</a></p><p> </p><p>Topics covered</p><p>What is dating burnout?</p><p> </p><p>How not to burnout in the dating process</p><p> </p><p>According to science what does being in a relationship bring to a person</p><p> </p><p>Adjusting your mindset to dating</p><p> </p><p>Finding a dating strategy that works and stops wasting time</p><p> </p><p>Treat dating as a part-time job</p><p> </p><p>A common mistake in dating </p><p> </p><p>Identifying your non-negotiables </p><p> </p><p>Preparation is essential for dating</p><p> </p><p>Meeting now husband in seven dating from publishing an online dating profile</p><p> </p><p>Stick to your priorities under pressure</p><p> </p><p>Psychology of dating ads </p><p> </p><p>Importance of taking taking dating seriously</p><p> </p><p>Current fast dating model and related problems</p><p> </p><p>Having high standards</p><p> </p><p>Co-habitation and science</p><p> </p><p>Clarity on standard to prevent wrong relationships</p><p> </p><p>Women’s high self-esteem and research on men</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. 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			<title>Season 2, Episode 10 - Finding love again after divorce with Natasha Caleel</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 10 - "Finding love again after divorce with Natasha Caleel"<p>Secrets to successful dating FREE masterclass is up for grabs. Download it now!</p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</p><p>💥 In this masterclass, you'll:🌟 Uncover the hidden secrets to dating that will empower you and make you feel excited again about meeting your dream man in the future.</p><p>🌟 Gain invaluable insights into why past attempts at love may not have yielded the results you desired. </p><p>🌟 Walk away armed with a strategic roadmap to seize control of your love life and propel yourself toward the relationship of your dreams.</p><p>PLUS, you'll be learning from a seasoned expert with over 15 years of experience in guiding men and women on their journey to fulfilling relationships.</p><p>Don't let love slip through your fingers. Secure your spot now and embark on a journey that will revolutionize your approach to dating. Say YES to your love story and click the link below to lock in your seat at the Secrets to Successful Dating Masterclass!</p><p>👉 [Reserve Your Spot] 💘🌠 #LoveTransformation #DatingMastery #DreamRelationship</p><p><br><br></p><p>LINK <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>In this insightful episode of "How to Love Successfully" with Dr. Mari Kovanen, Natasha Kleem, a prenatal and postpartum corrective exercise specialist, shares her journey of rediscovering love after a failed marriage. Natasha emphasizes the importance of self-discovery as a fundamental step before venturing into a new relationship. She highlights the significance of understanding your goals, desires, and what truly motivates you. Taking one's time is also crucial; Natasha recommends avoiding rushing into a new relationship to ensure compatibility and prevent repeating past mistakes.</p><p>Communication and clear expectations play a pivotal role in Natasha's advice. Openly discussing expectations and roles within the relationship is vital to building a strong foundation. Natasha encourages individuals to have the courage to express their needs and desires. Lastly, Natasha touches on the courage to fail, emphasizing the importance of taking risks and understanding that failure is a natural part of the journey toward finding love and happiness.</p><p>In conclusion, this episode underscores the significance of self-awareness, patience, effective communication, and the courage to pursue new opportunities in the pursuit of love and fulfilling relationships. Natasha Kleem's valuable insights provide a roadmap for those looking to navigate the challenges of post-divorce dating and build successful, meaningful partnerships.</p><p>Natasha Caleel’s bio:</p><p>Natasha Caleel is a prenatal and postpartum corrective exercise specialist, Occupational Therapist and owner of Fit Mama Santa Barbara, an online women’s health coaching platform. </p><p> </p><p>Natasha is originally from Ontario, Canada, she moved to California in 2011 to start her career in healthcare and now 10 years later, after many pivots both personally and professionally she is running a full time business, navigating life with 3 kids and blended family, and lives with her husband and dogs in the hills of Santa Barbara. </p><p> </p><p>Connect with Natasha:</p><p>instagram.com/fitmamasb</p><p>facebook.com/fitmamasb</p><p>pinterest.com/fitmamasb</p><p>tiktok.com/@fitmamasb</p><p>http://fitmamasb.com</p><p><br><br></p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[04:28] - Natasha's current busy life as a business owner with three kids and a blended family.</p><p>[05:24] - Natasha's previous marriage, the initial excitement, and the challenges that led to divorce.</p><p>[07:28] - The realization that opposites attract but can lead to challenges in a long-term relationship.</p><p>[10:41] - Natasha's decision to take it slow and not rush into a new relationship after her divorce.</p><p>[12:32] - Discovering the importance of finding someone with similar life goals and values.</p><p>[19:32] - Navigating a blended family and setting boundaries with ex-spouses.</p><p>[24:32] - Managing a busy household with multiple schedules and responsibilities.</p><p>[26:55] - The importance of knowing yourself, taking it slow, and communicating in a new relationship.</p><p><br><br></p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 10 - "Finding love again after divorce with Natasha Caleel"<p>Secrets to successful dating FREE masterclass is up for grabs. Download it now!</p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</p><p>💥 In this masterclass, you'll:🌟 Uncover the hidden secrets to dating that will empower you and make you feel excited again about meeting your dream man in the future.</p><p>🌟 Gain invaluable insights into why past attempts at love may not have yielded the results you desired. </p><p>🌟 Walk away armed with a strategic roadmap to seize control of your love life and propel yourself toward the relationship of your dreams.</p><p>PLUS, you'll be learning from a seasoned expert with over 15 years of experience in guiding men and women on their journey to fulfilling relationships.</p><p>Don't let love slip through your fingers. Secure your spot now and embark on a journey that will revolutionize your approach to dating. Say YES to your love story and click the link below to lock in your seat at the Secrets to Successful Dating Masterclass!</p><p>👉 [Reserve Your Spot] 💘🌠 #LoveTransformation #DatingMastery #DreamRelationship</p><p><br><br></p><p>LINK <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>In this insightful episode of "How to Love Successfully" with Dr. Mari Kovanen, Natasha Kleem, a prenatal and postpartum corrective exercise specialist, shares her journey of rediscovering love after a failed marriage. Natasha emphasizes the importance of self-discovery as a fundamental step before venturing into a new relationship. She highlights the significance of understanding your goals, desires, and what truly motivates you. Taking one's time is also crucial; Natasha recommends avoiding rushing into a new relationship to ensure compatibility and prevent repeating past mistakes.</p><p>Communication and clear expectations play a pivotal role in Natasha's advice. Openly discussing expectations and roles within the relationship is vital to building a strong foundation. Natasha encourages individuals to have the courage to express their needs and desires. Lastly, Natasha touches on the courage to fail, emphasizing the importance of taking risks and understanding that failure is a natural part of the journey toward finding love and happiness.</p><p>In conclusion, this episode underscores the significance of self-awareness, patience, effective communication, and the courage to pursue new opportunities in the pursuit of love and fulfilling relationships. Natasha Kleem's valuable insights provide a roadmap for those looking to navigate the challenges of post-divorce dating and build successful, meaningful partnerships.</p><p>Natasha Caleel’s bio:</p><p>Natasha Caleel is a prenatal and postpartum corrective exercise specialist, Occupational Therapist and owner of Fit Mama Santa Barbara, an online women’s health coaching platform. </p><p> </p><p>Natasha is originally from Ontario, Canada, she moved to California in 2011 to start her career in healthcare and now 10 years later, after many pivots both personally and professionally she is running a full time business, navigating life with 3 kids and blended family, and lives with her husband and dogs in the hills of Santa Barbara. </p><p> </p><p>Connect with Natasha:</p><p>instagram.com/fitmamasb</p><p>facebook.com/fitmamasb</p><p>pinterest.com/fitmamasb</p><p>tiktok.com/@fitmamasb</p><p>http://fitmamasb.com</p><p><br><br></p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[04:28] - Natasha's current busy life as a business owner with three kids and a blended family.</p><p>[05:24] - Natasha's previous marriage, the initial excitement, and the challenges that led to divorce.</p><p>[07:28] - The realization that opposites attract but can lead to challenges in a long-term relationship.</p><p>[10:41] - Natasha's decision to take it slow and not rush into a new relationship after her divorce.</p><p>[12:32] - Discovering the importance of finding someone with similar life goals and values.</p><p>[19:32] - Navigating a blended family and setting boundaries with ex-spouses.</p><p>[24:32] - Managing a busy household with multiple schedules and responsibilities.</p><p>[26:55] - The importance of knowing yourself, taking it slow, and communicating in a new relationship.</p><p><br><br></p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 2, Episode 9 - How to heal from past hurts and start dating again. </p><p>In episode the season two, episode nine of "How to Love Successfully" with Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, the focus is on helping high-achieving, successful women transition from their careers to finding love. Dr. Mari emphasizes the concept of conscious dating, discussing the importance of building meaningful connections while navigating the dating world. She introduces her free "Secrets to Successful Dating Masterclass" as a resource for listeners, providing insights into understanding oneself, identifying the right partner, and avoiding common dating mistakes.</p><p>The main topic of this episode centers on overcoming past relationship hurts and the fear of dating again. Dr. Mari acknowledges the challenges faced by individuals who have experienced emotional scars from previous relationships and offers guidance on healing and building confidence. She breaks down the process into four key stages: turning attention inward to understand oneself, practicing self-love and self-nurturing, identifying the qualities of an ideal partner, and gaining knowledge about the science and skills of dating.</p><p>Through her coaching program, Dr. Mari helps clients feel more empowered and confident to approach dating consciously. By focusing on self-improvement and understanding individual needs, listeners can gain the tools and self-belief necessary to navigate the dating world and ultimately find the right person for a fulfilling and meaningful relationship. The episode concludes with a reminder to give oneself the love sought after, as it's the key to finding the love desired.</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p> [01:52] Discussion on the various stages individuals may be in after ending a previous relationship. </p><p>[03:50] Exploring the importance of natural healing and the impact of earlier relationships on one's readiness to date. </p><p>[05:20] Introduction to the Empowered Love Blueprint Process. </p><p>[13:34] Step one of the process - turning attention inwards, understanding oneself, and identifying blocks to love. </p><p>[17:02] Step two - adding another layer of self-love and self-nurturing. </p><p>[19:18] Recognizing the importance of focusing on self before seeking a partner. </p><p>[21:29] Step three - considering who would be a great match based on one's current self. [25:18] Emphasizing the importance of assessing a potential partner based on who they are today, not just their potential. </p><p>[28:09] Step four - acquiring dating knowledge and understanding the science and skills of dating. </p><p>[32:35] Highlighting that dating is a social skill that can be learned. </p><p>[34:18] The outcome of Dr. Vannen's coaching program and its impact on clients' confidence and self-belief. </p><p>[36:35] The idea that a strong connection with oneself makes dating less anxiety-inducing. </p><p>[38:55] Encouraging listeners to explore the "Secrets to Successful Dating Masterclass." </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p><br><br></p><p>REGISTER FOR THE FREE SECRETS TO SUCCESSFUL DATING MASTERCLASS REPLAY NOW</p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 2, Episode 9 - How to heal from past hurts and start dating again. </p><p>In episode the season two, episode nine of "How to Love Successfully" with Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, the focus is on helping high-achieving, successful women transition from their careers to finding love. Dr. Mari emphasizes the concept of conscious dating, discussing the importance of building meaningful connections while navigating the dating world. She introduces her free "Secrets to Successful Dating Masterclass" as a resource for listeners, providing insights into understanding oneself, identifying the right partner, and avoiding common dating mistakes.</p><p>The main topic of this episode centers on overcoming past relationship hurts and the fear of dating again. Dr. Mari acknowledges the challenges faced by individuals who have experienced emotional scars from previous relationships and offers guidance on healing and building confidence. She breaks down the process into four key stages: turning attention inward to understand oneself, practicing self-love and self-nurturing, identifying the qualities of an ideal partner, and gaining knowledge about the science and skills of dating.</p><p>Through her coaching program, Dr. Mari helps clients feel more empowered and confident to approach dating consciously. By focusing on self-improvement and understanding individual needs, listeners can gain the tools and self-belief necessary to navigate the dating world and ultimately find the right person for a fulfilling and meaningful relationship. The episode concludes with a reminder to give oneself the love sought after, as it's the key to finding the love desired.</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p> [01:52] Discussion on the various stages individuals may be in after ending a previous relationship. </p><p>[03:50] Exploring the importance of natural healing and the impact of earlier relationships on one's readiness to date. </p><p>[05:20] Introduction to the Empowered Love Blueprint Process. </p><p>[13:34] Step one of the process - turning attention inwards, understanding oneself, and identifying blocks to love. </p><p>[17:02] Step two - adding another layer of self-love and self-nurturing. </p><p>[19:18] Recognizing the importance of focusing on self before seeking a partner. </p><p>[21:29] Step three - considering who would be a great match based on one's current self. [25:18] Emphasizing the importance of assessing a potential partner based on who they are today, not just their potential. </p><p>[28:09] Step four - acquiring dating knowledge and understanding the science and skills of dating. </p><p>[32:35] Highlighting that dating is a social skill that can be learned. </p><p>[34:18] The outcome of Dr. Vannen's coaching program and its impact on clients' confidence and self-belief. </p><p>[36:35] The idea that a strong connection with oneself makes dating less anxiety-inducing. </p><p>[38:55] Encouraging listeners to explore the "Secrets to Successful Dating Masterclass." </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p><br><br></p><p>REGISTER FOR THE FREE SECRETS TO SUCCESSFUL DATING MASTERCLASS REPLAY NOW</p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 8 - "The stories you tell yourself about dating"Secrets to successful dating FREE masterclass on 27th of September at 1pm BST/8am EST. 💥 In this masterclass, you'll:🌟 Uncover the hidden secrets to dating that will empower you and...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 8 - "The stories you tell yourself about dating"<p>Secrets to successful dating FREE masterclass on 27th of September at 1pm BST/8am EST. </p><p>💥 In this masterclass, you'll:</p><p>🌟 Uncover the hidden secrets to dating that will empower you and make you feel excited again about meeting your dream man in the future.</p><p>🌟 Gain invaluable insights into why past attempts at love may not have yielded the results you desired. </p><p>🌟 Walk away armed with a strategic roadmap to seize control of your love life and propel yourself toward the relationship of your dreams.</p><p>PLUS, you'll be learning from a seasoned expert with over 15 years of experience in guiding men and women on their journey to fulfilling relationships.</p><p>Don't let love slip through your fingers. Secure your spot now and embark on a journey that will revolutionize your approach to dating. Say YES to your love story and click the link below to lock in your seat at the Secrets to Successful Dating Masterclass!</p><p>👉 [Reserve Your Spot] 💘🌠 #LoveTransformation #DatingMastery #DreamRelationship</p><p><br><br></p><p>LINK <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Welcome to "How to Love Successfully" with Dr. Mari Kovanen, a podcast designed for high-achieving women seeking committed, long-term relationships. In this episode, Dr. Mari dives into the crucial role of mindset in dating. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and challenging limiting beliefs that can hinder your dating journey.</p><p>Dr. Mari discusses three common stories that women often tell themselves when it comes to dating. First, the belief that there are no good men out there can be a significant obstacle. She highlights the difference between a closed mindset, where you accept limiting beliefs, and a growth mindset, which encourages exploration and learning in dating.</p><p>The second story revolves around the idea that you need to change something about yourself, such as your appearance, to find love. Dr. Mari reminds listeners that they are worthy of love just as they are and offers insights into building self-confidence.</p><p>Finally, she addresses the misconception that you need to take control and exert immense effort in dating. Dr. Mari encourages a more relaxed approach, allowing space for meaningful connections to develop naturally.</p><p>Listeners are invited to reflect on their own dating beliefs and are encouraged to attend Dr. Mari's upcoming masterclass on 27th of September at 1pm BST / 8am EST to learn more about cultivating the right mindset for successful dating. The key takeaway is that by giving yourself love and nurturing a positive mindset, you can attract the love you desire.</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[02:40] Story #1 - There are no good people in my environment / online</p><p>[06:03] Story #2 - I need to be…X…to find love</p><p>[08:51] Story #3 - I have to be in charge…</p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>REGISTER FOR THE FREE SECRETS TO SUCCESSFUL DATING MASTERCLASS</p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 8 - "The stories you tell yourself about dating"<p>Secrets to successful dating FREE masterclass on 27th of September at 1pm BST/8am EST. </p><p>💥 In this masterclass, you'll:</p><p>🌟 Uncover the hidden secrets to dating that will empower you and make you feel excited again about meeting your dream man in the future.</p><p>🌟 Gain invaluable insights into why past attempts at love may not have yielded the results you desired. </p><p>🌟 Walk away armed with a strategic roadmap to seize control of your love life and propel yourself toward the relationship of your dreams.</p><p>PLUS, you'll be learning from a seasoned expert with over 15 years of experience in guiding men and women on their journey to fulfilling relationships.</p><p>Don't let love slip through your fingers. Secure your spot now and embark on a journey that will revolutionize your approach to dating. Say YES to your love story and click the link below to lock in your seat at the Secrets to Successful Dating Masterclass!</p><p>👉 [Reserve Your Spot] 💘🌠 #LoveTransformation #DatingMastery #DreamRelationship</p><p><br><br></p><p>LINK <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Welcome to "How to Love Successfully" with Dr. Mari Kovanen, a podcast designed for high-achieving women seeking committed, long-term relationships. In this episode, Dr. Mari dives into the crucial role of mindset in dating. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and challenging limiting beliefs that can hinder your dating journey.</p><p>Dr. Mari discusses three common stories that women often tell themselves when it comes to dating. First, the belief that there are no good men out there can be a significant obstacle. She highlights the difference between a closed mindset, where you accept limiting beliefs, and a growth mindset, which encourages exploration and learning in dating.</p><p>The second story revolves around the idea that you need to change something about yourself, such as your appearance, to find love. Dr. Mari reminds listeners that they are worthy of love just as they are and offers insights into building self-confidence.</p><p>Finally, she addresses the misconception that you need to take control and exert immense effort in dating. Dr. Mari encourages a more relaxed approach, allowing space for meaningful connections to develop naturally.</p><p>Listeners are invited to reflect on their own dating beliefs and are encouraged to attend Dr. Mari's upcoming masterclass on 27th of September at 1pm BST / 8am EST to learn more about cultivating the right mindset for successful dating. The key takeaway is that by giving yourself love and nurturing a positive mindset, you can attract the love you desire.</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[02:40] Story #1 - There are no good people in my environment / online</p><p>[06:03] Story #2 - I need to be…X…to find love</p><p>[08:51] Story #3 - I have to be in charge…</p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>REGISTER FOR THE FREE SECRETS TO SUCCESSFUL DATING MASTERCLASS</p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 7 - "Unmasking Love: 5 Dating Myths We Need to Crush"In this episode of "How to Love Successfully" Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, dives headfirst into the world of dating myths and how they ...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 7 - "Unmasking Love: 5 Dating Myths We Need to Crush"<p>In this episode of "How to Love Successfully" Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, dives headfirst into the world of dating myths and how they can mess with your love life. Dr. Mari is on a mission to set the record straight on five common misconceptions about dating. </p><p>First, she smashes the idea that you need to juggle a bunch of dates to find your match; she's all about strategic dating and self-awareness. Next up, she warns against mistaking those heart-pounding, head-spinning feelings on a date for true love – they could just be jitters. And for the ladies, Dr. Coon drops a truth bomb – waiting for the guy to make the first move in real life isn't always a surefire plan; sometimes, you got to drop some hints.</p><p>Throughout this eye-opening episode, Dr. Mari encourages listeners to be mindful of these dating myths and how they might be steering them in the wrong direction. Her expert advice centers on empowering individuals to make conscious and fulfilling choices in their dating lives. So, if you're looking to step up your love game and leave these myths behind, this episode is a must-listen.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[02:31] Myth #1 - Dating as Many People as Possible</p><p>[04:21] Myth #2 - Relying Solely on Feelings</p><p>[07:44] Myth #3 - Meeting People in Face-to-Face Situations</p><p>[08:57] Myth #4 - The Third Date Rule</p><p>[12:27] Myth #5 - Women's Empowerment and Casual Sex</p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p>REGISTER FOR THE FREE SECRETS TO SUCCESSFUL DATING MASTERCLASS</p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Previous episodes mentioned </p><p>Season 1, Episode 3 - How our psychobiology affects dating https://www.podbean.com/pu/pbblog-8wn3y-f865a0</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 7 - "Unmasking Love: 5 Dating Myths We Need to Crush"<p>In this episode of "How to Love Successfully" Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and conscious dating coach, dives headfirst into the world of dating myths and how they can mess with your love life. Dr. Mari is on a mission to set the record straight on five common misconceptions about dating. </p><p>First, she smashes the idea that you need to juggle a bunch of dates to find your match; she's all about strategic dating and self-awareness. Next up, she warns against mistaking those heart-pounding, head-spinning feelings on a date for true love – they could just be jitters. And for the ladies, Dr. Coon drops a truth bomb – waiting for the guy to make the first move in real life isn't always a surefire plan; sometimes, you got to drop some hints.</p><p>Throughout this eye-opening episode, Dr. Mari encourages listeners to be mindful of these dating myths and how they might be steering them in the wrong direction. Her expert advice centers on empowering individuals to make conscious and fulfilling choices in their dating lives. So, if you're looking to step up your love game and leave these myths behind, this episode is a must-listen.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[02:31] Myth #1 - Dating as Many People as Possible</p><p>[04:21] Myth #2 - Relying Solely on Feelings</p><p>[07:44] Myth #3 - Meeting People in Face-to-Face Situations</p><p>[08:57] Myth #4 - The Third Date Rule</p><p>[12:27] Myth #5 - Women's Empowerment and Casual Sex</p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p>REGISTER FOR THE FREE SECRETS TO SUCCESSFUL DATING MASTERCLASS</p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/datingmasterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Previous episodes mentioned </p><p>Season 1, Episode 3 - How our psychobiology affects dating https://www.podbean.com/pu/pbblog-8wn3y-f865a0</p><p> </p><p>OTHER FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 2, Episode 6 - Does strong woman energy hinder your love life?</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 2, Episode 6 - Does strong woman energy hinder your love life?</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 23:29:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 6 - "Is strong woman energy hindering your love life?"In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, we're diving into the world of "strong w...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 6 - "Is strong woman energy hindering your love life?"<p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, we're diving into the world of "strong woman energy" and how it's messing with our love lives. Dr Kovanen spills the beans on how being a go-getter can mess up our connection game. Drawing from her own Finnish upbringing with a hard working grandma, she talks about the hustle culture and how it's taking a toll on our well-being and relationships.</p><p>The episode breaks down the myth that all those career wins will validate us and be enough in life. Dr Kovanen highlights reality – that job role won't cuddle you when you're feeling down. She gets real about dating too, how the fear of vulnerability can keep us swiping left on potentially great matches. But she's all about finding that balance, embracing the slower side of life, and creating space for genuine connections.</p><p>Whether you're a powerhouse or just looking to navigate the modern dating scene, this episode's got you covered. Dr Kovanen delivers insights on making space for vulnerability, appreciating the ebb and flow of life, and inviting harmony into our relationships. So, if you're hustling like there's no tomorrow, it might be time to slow down, tune in, and let some of that strong woman energy take a back seat – just for a moment.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[01:57] Growing up in Finland with a strong woman role model.</p><p>[05:56] The challenges of hustling and being overstimulated in modern times.</p><p>[10:20] The struggle of balancing strong woman energy and nurturing relationships.</p><p>[11:02] Addressing the fear of rejection and vulnerability in relationships.</p><p>[14:48] Acknowledgment of the beauty of the female body and hormonal fluctuations.</p><p>[15:26] Inviting a masculine partner into one's world and creating harmony.</p><p>[16:53] Regulating the nervous system, finding harmony, and improving relationships.</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 6 - "Is strong woman energy hindering your love life?"<p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, we're diving into the world of "strong woman energy" and how it's messing with our love lives. Dr Kovanen spills the beans on how being a go-getter can mess up our connection game. Drawing from her own Finnish upbringing with a hard working grandma, she talks about the hustle culture and how it's taking a toll on our well-being and relationships.</p><p>The episode breaks down the myth that all those career wins will validate us and be enough in life. Dr Kovanen highlights reality – that job role won't cuddle you when you're feeling down. She gets real about dating too, how the fear of vulnerability can keep us swiping left on potentially great matches. But she's all about finding that balance, embracing the slower side of life, and creating space for genuine connections.</p><p>Whether you're a powerhouse or just looking to navigate the modern dating scene, this episode's got you covered. Dr Kovanen delivers insights on making space for vulnerability, appreciating the ebb and flow of life, and inviting harmony into our relationships. So, if you're hustling like there's no tomorrow, it might be time to slow down, tune in, and let some of that strong woman energy take a back seat – just for a moment.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[01:57] Growing up in Finland with a strong woman role model.</p><p>[05:56] The challenges of hustling and being overstimulated in modern times.</p><p>[10:20] The struggle of balancing strong woman energy and nurturing relationships.</p><p>[11:02] Addressing the fear of rejection and vulnerability in relationships.</p><p>[14:48] Acknowledgment of the beauty of the female body and hormonal fluctuations.</p><p>[15:26] Inviting a masculine partner into one's world and creating harmony.</p><p>[16:53] Regulating the nervous system, finding harmony, and improving relationships.</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 2, Episode 5 - ”Fast-Track to Love: Exploring Speed Dating and Other Dynamic Dating Events with Sarah Payne”</title>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 5 - "Fast-Track to Love: Exploring Speed Dating and Other Dynamic Dating Events with Sarah Payne"Get ready for an exciting episode of "How to Love Successfully" as Dr. Mari Kovanen  sits down with the lively Sarah Payne, a true exp...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 5 - "Fast-Track to Love: Exploring Speed Dating and Other Dynamic Dating Events with Sarah Payne"<p>Get ready for an exciting episode of "How to Love Successfully" as Dr. Mari Kovanen  sits down with the lively Sarah Payne, a true expert in the world of speed dating events. Sarah's journey into this realm is like a whirlwind romance itself, sparked by a spontaneous invitation from her tutor to dive into a summer internship at a speed dating company. Throughout her five-year journey, Sarah has become an ardent advocate for real-life connections in the age of digital dating.</p><p>Join the conversation as Sarah spills the beans on how speed dating events really work, offering insights into the swift but impactful four-and-a-half-minute conversations that participants engage in. She unveils the magic of these encounters, emphasizing the value of keeping an open mind and seeing beyond first impressions. Not to mention, Sarah's company doesn't just stop at regular speed dating. Get ready to be wowed by the array of themed events, from wine tastings to quirky parties, catering to everyone's tastes.</p><p>With an infectious enthusiasm, Sarah and Dr. Mari remind us of the beauty of in-person interactions. They debunk the myth that dating apps are the only way to go and highlight how speed dating brings back the charm of real connections. The episode leaves you eager to explore the varied events Sarah's company has to offer, all in pursuit of meaningful connections that make your heart skip a beat.</p><p> </p><p><a href='mailto:sarah.payne@together.com'>Sarah Payne</a>’s bio</p><p>Sarah has been a speed dating events manager and cupid's minion for over 5 years.</p><p>I am a hopeless romantic and an advocate for helping singles to meet face to face rather than through a phone screen. </p><p> </p><p>Contact Sarah:</p><p>@speeddaterevents - speeddater </p><p>@snazzy123_ - personal </p><p>@solos.bar - passion project</p><p>www.speeddater.co.uk</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[00:53] Sarah shares her background and how she got into running speed dating events </p><p>[02:14] Sarah explains the structure of speed dating events</p><p>[03:37] Tips from Sarah on how to make the most of speed dating events</p><p>[07:38] Sarah and Dr. Mari discuss the importance of considering different types of events to find meaningful connections.</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p> </p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 5 - "Fast-Track to Love: Exploring Speed Dating and Other Dynamic Dating Events with Sarah Payne"<p>Get ready for an exciting episode of "How to Love Successfully" as Dr. Mari Kovanen  sits down with the lively Sarah Payne, a true expert in the world of speed dating events. Sarah's journey into this realm is like a whirlwind romance itself, sparked by a spontaneous invitation from her tutor to dive into a summer internship at a speed dating company. Throughout her five-year journey, Sarah has become an ardent advocate for real-life connections in the age of digital dating.</p><p>Join the conversation as Sarah spills the beans on how speed dating events really work, offering insights into the swift but impactful four-and-a-half-minute conversations that participants engage in. She unveils the magic of these encounters, emphasizing the value of keeping an open mind and seeing beyond first impressions. Not to mention, Sarah's company doesn't just stop at regular speed dating. Get ready to be wowed by the array of themed events, from wine tastings to quirky parties, catering to everyone's tastes.</p><p>With an infectious enthusiasm, Sarah and Dr. Mari remind us of the beauty of in-person interactions. They debunk the myth that dating apps are the only way to go and highlight how speed dating brings back the charm of real connections. The episode leaves you eager to explore the varied events Sarah's company has to offer, all in pursuit of meaningful connections that make your heart skip a beat.</p><p> </p><p><a href='mailto:sarah.payne@together.com'>Sarah Payne</a>’s bio</p><p>Sarah has been a speed dating events manager and cupid's minion for over 5 years.</p><p>I am a hopeless romantic and an advocate for helping singles to meet face to face rather than through a phone screen. </p><p> </p><p>Contact Sarah:</p><p>@speeddaterevents - speeddater </p><p>@snazzy123_ - personal </p><p>@solos.bar - passion project</p><p>www.speeddater.co.uk</p><p> </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[00:53] Sarah shares her background and how she got into running speed dating events </p><p>[02:14] Sarah explains the structure of speed dating events</p><p>[03:37] Tips from Sarah on how to make the most of speed dating events</p><p>[07:38] Sarah and Dr. Mari discuss the importance of considering different types of events to find meaningful connections.</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p> </p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 2, Episode 4 -  ”7 Steps To Building Rejection Resilience For Dating”</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 2, Episode 4 -  ”7 Steps To Building Rejection Resilience For Dating”</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 24 Aug 2023 23:37:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 4 - "7 Steps To Building Rejection Resilience For Dating"In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks about a part of dating that may...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 4 - "7 Steps To Building Rejection Resilience For Dating"<p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks about a part of dating that may even put some women off dating completely. Rejection is a part of dating but ultimately the way we approach dating makes the most difference. There is a way to cultivate resilience in dating and reducing the likelihood of rejection.  This episode focuses on building rejection resilience so that your dating journey can be more comfortable and successful.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[02:21] The importance of reducing the risk of rejection </p><p>[03:34]  Moving away from autopilot dating and conscious dating</p><p>[05:42]  Increasing self-awareness and understanding relationship dynamics </p><p>[06:46]  Self-acceptance </p><p>[07:51] Developing self-loving practices and prioritizing self-connection </p><p>[08:51] Setting standards and boundaries as protective factors </p><p>[09:52] Approaching dating with detachment </p><p>[12:50]  Practicing self-compassion and handling rejection gracefully </p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 4 - "7 Steps To Building Rejection Resilience For Dating"<p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks about a part of dating that may even put some women off dating completely. Rejection is a part of dating but ultimately the way we approach dating makes the most difference. There is a way to cultivate resilience in dating and reducing the likelihood of rejection.  This episode focuses on building rejection resilience so that your dating journey can be more comfortable and successful.</p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[02:21] The importance of reducing the risk of rejection </p><p>[03:34]  Moving away from autopilot dating and conscious dating</p><p>[05:42]  Increasing self-awareness and understanding relationship dynamics </p><p>[06:46]  Self-acceptance </p><p>[07:51] Developing self-loving practices and prioritizing self-connection </p><p>[08:51] Setting standards and boundaries as protective factors </p><p>[09:52] Approaching dating with detachment </p><p>[12:50]  Practicing self-compassion and handling rejection gracefully </p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 2, Episode 3 - ”Love Starts Within: Understanding the Power of Self-Love in Relationships with Krystalore Crews”</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 2, Episode 3 - ”Love Starts Within: Understanding the Power of Self-Love in Relationships with Krystalore Crews”</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 17 Aug 2023 23:55:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 3 - "Love Starts Within: Understanding the Power of Self-Love in Relationships with Krystalore Crews"<p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks to Krystalore Crews, an entrepreneur, speaker, coach and much much more about how self-love transformed her own life and how she helps others to do the same . </p><p>Krystalore’s bio:</p><p>Krystalore Crews is a 21-year US Air Force Veteran, former NFL Cheerleader, 26-time Marathoner, Fitness &amp; Resilience Coach, Motivational Speaker, Author, and Leadership Consultant. Her igniting energy paired with her story of resilience packs a punch! She empowers others to #CrewsBeyondLimits by sharing her experience from the military, cancer, and wheelchair bound struggles to her days as a competitive professional athlete, dancer, and entrepreneur. She’s a motivational Speaker, Author, Coach, Business Consultant, and Retreat Leader, on a mission to empower every person on the planet to put themselves and their health first for just 34 minutes per day!</p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[05:01] Meeting husband</p><p>[08:40] Krystalore Crews opens up about her past struggles, including a toxic relationship and health issues. </p><p>[10:10] How she rebuilt her life and career, finding her voice and independence. </p><p>[12:33] Falling in love with running and discovering her intuitive understanding of her body's needs. </p><p>[14:56] Making a challenging decision-making process about their future as a couple. </p><p>[15:41] Negotiating the relationship between two high-achieving individuals.</p><p>[17:17] How to Cultivate a Healthy Relationship and Practice Self-Love</p><p>[22:25] Values and Commitment to Self-Love Practices &amp; Non-Negotiables </p><p>[28:20] Daily Self-Love Practices in 34 Minutes</p><p>[34:21] Energetic State &amp; Dating</p><p><br><br></p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 3 - "Love Starts Within: Understanding the Power of Self-Love in Relationships with Krystalore Crews"<p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks to Krystalore Crews, an entrepreneur, speaker, coach and much much more about how self-love transformed her own life and how she helps others to do the same . </p><p>Krystalore’s bio:</p><p>Krystalore Crews is a 21-year US Air Force Veteran, former NFL Cheerleader, 26-time Marathoner, Fitness &amp; Resilience Coach, Motivational Speaker, Author, and Leadership Consultant. Her igniting energy paired with her story of resilience packs a punch! She empowers others to #CrewsBeyondLimits by sharing her experience from the military, cancer, and wheelchair bound struggles to her days as a competitive professional athlete, dancer, and entrepreneur. She’s a motivational Speaker, Author, Coach, Business Consultant, and Retreat Leader, on a mission to empower every person on the planet to put themselves and their health first for just 34 minutes per day!</p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>[05:01] Meeting husband</p><p>[08:40] Krystalore Crews opens up about her past struggles, including a toxic relationship and health issues. </p><p>[10:10] How she rebuilt her life and career, finding her voice and independence. </p><p>[12:33] Falling in love with running and discovering her intuitive understanding of her body's needs. </p><p>[14:56] Making a challenging decision-making process about their future as a couple. </p><p>[15:41] Negotiating the relationship between two high-achieving individuals.</p><p>[17:17] How to Cultivate a Healthy Relationship and Practice Self-Love</p><p>[22:25] Values and Commitment to Self-Love Practices &amp; Non-Negotiables </p><p>[28:20] Daily Self-Love Practices in 34 Minutes</p><p>[34:21] Energetic State &amp; Dating</p><p><br><br></p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 2, Episode 2: ”The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Modern Dating”</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 2 - "The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Modern Dating”In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks about emotional intelligence and why it is a game-changer not only for your well-being but also for your relationships. She will also talk about how you can cultivate your emotional intelligence. <p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>1.35 Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Dating</p><p>02.24 Understanding Your Emotions in Dating</p><p>10.05 Emotional Intelligence and Empathy</p><p>13.59 Developing Emotional Intelligence</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season 2, Episode 2 - "The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Modern Dating”In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks about emotional intelligence and why it is a game-changer not only for your well-being but also for your relationships. She will also talk about how you can cultivate your emotional intelligence. <p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p>Time stamps:</p><p>1.35 Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Dating</p><p>02.24 Understanding Your Emotions in Dating</p><p>10.05 Emotional Intelligence and Empathy</p><p>13.59 Developing Emotional Intelligence</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>FREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU FIND MR RIGHT:</p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle so that you can meet the right person for you and stand out amongst 100s of women out there? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p>Make your profile shine! When your profile is optimised to call in the right kind of men, that is almost like a half of the job has been done for you. </p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 2, Episode 1 - ""Present in Love: How Mindfulness Enhances Relationship Success with Anna Mizera" </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks with her dear friend Anna Mizera, a mindfulness practitioner about how mindfulness can not only benefit your general well-being and mental health but also it can be hugely beneficial for relationships. </p><p>Anna Mizera is a Mindfulness and Meditation Teacher that brings people closer to calm whilst reducing anxiety, stress, daily overwhelm and depression. I teach how to quieten a scattered overactive mind, and find moments of peace and simple joy in everyday chaotic life.</p><p><br><br></p><p>Connect with Anna on socials:</p><p>Instagram <a href='http://www.instagram.com/am.mindful.transformations'>www.instagram.com/am.mindful.transformations</a></p>Facebook <a href='http://www.facebook.com/am.mindful.transformations'>www.facebook.com/am.mindful.transformations</a><p>Website <a href='http://www.annamizeramindfulness.com'>www.annamizeramindfulness.com</a></p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p>3.31 What is mindfulness</p><p>04.24 Formal and informal mindfulness</p><p>05.29 Combining Mindfulness for Mindful Living</p><p>06.41 Anna´s Personal Journey with Mindfulness</p><p>11.17 Evaluating Relationship Needs</p><p>11.49 The Power of Mindfulness Meditation</p><p>15.15 Discovering True Self through Mindfulness</p><p>17.40 Mindfulness and Dating &amp; Being Yourself Truly </p><p>20.47 Mindfulness and Improved Communication</p><p>33.14 Mindful Presence in Relationships</p><p>36.52 Tips for Mindful Relationships</p><p><br><br></p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p><br><br></p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 2, Episode 1 - ""Present in Love: How Mindfulness Enhances Relationship Success with Anna Mizera" </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, talks with her dear friend Anna Mizera, a mindfulness practitioner about how mindfulness can not only benefit your general well-being and mental health but also it can be hugely beneficial for relationships. </p><p>Anna Mizera is a Mindfulness and Meditation Teacher that brings people closer to calm whilst reducing anxiety, stress, daily overwhelm and depression. I teach how to quieten a scattered overactive mind, and find moments of peace and simple joy in everyday chaotic life.</p><p><br><br></p><p>Connect with Anna on socials:</p><p>Instagram <a href='http://www.instagram.com/am.mindful.transformations'>www.instagram.com/am.mindful.transformations</a></p>Facebook <a href='http://www.facebook.com/am.mindful.transformations'>www.facebook.com/am.mindful.transformations</a><p>Website <a href='http://www.annamizeramindfulness.com'>www.annamizeramindfulness.com</a></p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p>3.31 What is mindfulness</p><p>04.24 Formal and informal mindfulness</p><p>05.29 Combining Mindfulness for Mindful Living</p><p>06.41 Anna´s Personal Journey with Mindfulness</p><p>11.17 Evaluating Relationship Needs</p><p>11.49 The Power of Mindfulness Meditation</p><p>15.15 Discovering True Self through Mindfulness</p><p>17.40 Mindfulness and Dating &amp; Being Yourself Truly </p><p>20.47 Mindfulness and Improved Communication</p><p>33.14 Mindful Presence in Relationships</p><p>36.52 Tips for Mindful Relationships</p><p><br><br></p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p><br><br></p><p>Are you meeting the wrong men online?</p><p>Does your online dating profile need a touch of sparkle? </p><p>I have created a free SuccessfulLoveProfile to help you to:</p><ul><li style="font-weight:400;">Stand out in the crowd of other women</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Attract and draw the attention of eligible, high quality men</li><li style="font-weight:400;">Repel wrong guys so you are not wasting your time</li></ul><p>Download SuccesfulLoveProfile here…<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/SuccessfulLoveProfile</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you started dating someone?</p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p>Have you got a first date coming up but the nerves are getting the best of you?</p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. </p><p>It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. </p><p>Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. </p><p>Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Bonus Episode 3 - ”Love, Vows, and Traditions: Exploring the Relevance of Marriage in Today’s World”</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, Bonus Episode 3 - ”Love, Vows, and Traditions: Exploring the Relevance of Marriage in Today’s World”</itunes:title>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 1, Bonus Episode 3 - "Love, Vows, and Traditions: Exploring the Relevance of Marriage in Today's World"In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, di...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Bonus Episode 3 - "Love, Vows, and Traditions: Exploring the Relevance of Marriage in Today's World"</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, discusses is marriage outdated for a modern woman. Dr Kovanen shares her own thoughts and experiences before getting married and after being married to her husband now for 12 years. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>2.27 Mindset of not believing in marriage </p><p> </p><p>03.00 Fears about marriage</p><p>04.20 Feelings when getting married</p><p>05.21 What keeps the marriage going</p><p>07.13 What does marriage bring to ones life </p><p>09.00 If marriage feels suffocating, what do you need to do</p><p>10.15 How the legal commitment helps your relationship to survive</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a></p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a></p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>Fill in an application for 1:1 coaching that follows the Empowered Love Blueprint: Attract the love you deserve coaching process. If it is a good fit, you will be invited for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a></p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'>https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website <a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'>www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Bonus Episode 3 - "Love, Vows, and Traditions: Exploring the Relevance of Marriage in Today's World"</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, discusses is marriage outdated for a modern woman. Dr Kovanen shares her own thoughts and experiences before getting married and after being married to her husband now for 12 years. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>2.27 Mindset of not believing in marriage </p><p> </p><p>03.00 Fears about marriage</p><p>04.20 Feelings when getting married</p><p>05.21 What keeps the marriage going</p><p>07.13 What does marriage bring to ones life </p><p>09.00 If marriage feels suffocating, what do you need to do</p><p>10.15 How the legal commitment helps your relationship to survive</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a></p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a></p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>Fill in an application for 1:1 coaching that follows the Empowered Love Blueprint: Attract the love you deserve coaching process. If it is a good fit, you will be invited for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a></p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'>https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website <a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'>www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Season 1, Bonus Episode 2- Love & Success- Navigating the dating world as a high-achieving woman]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[Season 1, Bonus Episode 2- Love & Success- Navigating the dating world as a high-achieving woman]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jul 2023 23:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 1, Bonus Episode 2 - Love &amp; Success: Navigating the Dating World as a High-Achieving Woman With Kat HillIn this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coac...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Bonus Episode 2 - Love &amp; Success: Navigating the Dating World as a High-Achieving Woman With Kat Hill</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, has a conversation with Kat Hill who is an osteopath, yoga instructor and a business owner about the realities of dating as a high-achieving woman. Dr Mari also offers some tips for making dating more efficient and effective.  </p><p>Kathleen Hill (B.Ost, PGCeACE, NLP practitioner)</p><p>Kat is an international osteopath, graduating from Oxford Brookes University in 2011. She fell in love with osteopathy after having various dance injuries and seeing the rewarding results of osteopathic treatment. After training as an osteopath Kat continued her education and acquired her PGcE Ace in higher education and has taught as a lecturer on the Osteopathy degree at Swansea University and has also worked as a lecturer in Health and Social care at Gloucestershire College. </p><p>As well as an interest in paediatrics, Kat works closely with many athletes including dancers and competing MMA fighters before and after their tournaments, helping them to achieve their full potential.   </p><p>Kat embraces keeping active and healthy living; she is an Advanced yoga instructor, teaching classes around Gloucester weekly. She realised early on in her career that physical pain was connected with mental and emotional health and that inspired her yoga, meditation and breathwork path- further down the line she trained as a neurolinguistics practitioner and wellness coach- she offers online 1-2-1 wellness coaching sessions for those looking to bring awareness to their mindset blocks and helps them create actionable steps to move forward with clarity.</p><p>Kat delivers online and in-person CPD events to other osteopaths and healthcare practitioners around the world and speaks to groups on various topics such as mindset blocks, stress and anxiety and how stress shows up in the physical body.</p><p>Recently she ran our first yoga and wellness retreat in Malaga, Spain which was incredible and powerful! She is currently running a series of summer Yoga Brunches which has sole out within the first week of release and will be running her next full yoga and wellness retreat in Italy next April.</p><p>Kat's mission and purpose is to bring healing, peace and empowerment to as many people as she can.</p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>1.54 Kat’s love for osteopathy and healing</p><p>04.51 Holistic approach to well-being</p><p>06.30 Being a busy professional and social life </p><p>07.31 Dating life</p><p>09.20 Pattern of relationships and wanting change</p><p>15.09 Assessing suitability before a date</p><p>17.24 Meeting the right men </p><p>17.52 Speed dating</p><p>19.10 Online dating</p><p>21.37 Auto-pilot dating</p><p>23.33 Dating and fear of unknown</p><p>26.11 Learning to receive in dating </p><p>31.04 How to feel more in control of the dating process</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment &amp; share with a friend who needs to hear this. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Bonus Episode 2 - Love &amp; Success: Navigating the Dating World as a High-Achieving Woman With Kat Hill</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, has a conversation with Kat Hill who is an osteopath, yoga instructor and a business owner about the realities of dating as a high-achieving woman. Dr Mari also offers some tips for making dating more efficient and effective.  </p><p>Kathleen Hill (B.Ost, PGCeACE, NLP practitioner)</p><p>Kat is an international osteopath, graduating from Oxford Brookes University in 2011. She fell in love with osteopathy after having various dance injuries and seeing the rewarding results of osteopathic treatment. After training as an osteopath Kat continued her education and acquired her PGcE Ace in higher education and has taught as a lecturer on the Osteopathy degree at Swansea University and has also worked as a lecturer in Health and Social care at Gloucestershire College. </p><p>As well as an interest in paediatrics, Kat works closely with many athletes including dancers and competing MMA fighters before and after their tournaments, helping them to achieve their full potential.   </p><p>Kat embraces keeping active and healthy living; she is an Advanced yoga instructor, teaching classes around Gloucester weekly. She realised early on in her career that physical pain was connected with mental and emotional health and that inspired her yoga, meditation and breathwork path- further down the line she trained as a neurolinguistics practitioner and wellness coach- she offers online 1-2-1 wellness coaching sessions for those looking to bring awareness to their mindset blocks and helps them create actionable steps to move forward with clarity.</p><p>Kat delivers online and in-person CPD events to other osteopaths and healthcare practitioners around the world and speaks to groups on various topics such as mindset blocks, stress and anxiety and how stress shows up in the physical body.</p><p>Recently she ran our first yoga and wellness retreat in Malaga, Spain which was incredible and powerful! She is currently running a series of summer Yoga Brunches which has sole out within the first week of release and will be running her next full yoga and wellness retreat in Italy next April.</p><p>Kat's mission and purpose is to bring healing, peace and empowerment to as many people as she can.</p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>1.54 Kat’s love for osteopathy and healing</p><p>04.51 Holistic approach to well-being</p><p>06.30 Being a busy professional and social life </p><p>07.31 Dating life</p><p>09.20 Pattern of relationships and wanting change</p><p>15.09 Assessing suitability before a date</p><p>17.24 Meeting the right men </p><p>17.52 Speed dating</p><p>19.10 Online dating</p><p>21.37 Auto-pilot dating</p><p>23.33 Dating and fear of unknown</p><p>26.11 Learning to receive in dating </p><p>31.04 How to feel more in control of the dating process</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment &amp; share with a friend who needs to hear this. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Bonus Episode 1- Commitment Unveiled - Empower Women To Get What They Want In Love</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, Bonus Episode 1- Commitment Unveiled - Empower Women To Get What They Want In Love</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jul 2023 23:33:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Season 1, Bonus Episode 1 - "Commitment Unveiled: Empowering Women to Get What They Want in Love " In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, discusses can...]]></itunes:subtitle>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Bonus Episode 1 - "Commitment Unveiled: Empowering Women to Get What They Want in Love " </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, discusses can a “situationship” become a committed relationship and the foundations of a committed relationship. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>0.44 Exploring Situationships</p><p>04.18 Biological Responses and Emotional Bonds</p><p>05.19 Benefits without Commitment</p><p>06.17 Misaligned Expectations </p><p>08.40 Evaluating Relationship Needs</p><p>10.56 Self-Reflection and Self-Worth</p><p>11.29 Making Difficult Decisions &amp; Taking Actions for Self-Growth</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential &amp; which questions/topics to cover in your conversations?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>Fill in an application for the Empowered Love Blueprint: Attract the love you deserve coaching process. If it is a good fit, you will be invited for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Bonus Episode 1 - "Commitment Unveiled: Empowering Women to Get What They Want in Love " </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist &amp; conscious dating &amp; relationship coach, discusses can a “situationship” become a committed relationship and the foundations of a committed relationship. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>0.44 Exploring Situationships</p><p>04.18 Biological Responses and Emotional Bonds</p><p>05.19 Benefits without Commitment</p><p>06.17 Misaligned Expectations </p><p>08.40 Evaluating Relationship Needs</p><p>10.56 Self-Reflection and Self-Worth</p><p>11.29 Making Difficult Decisions &amp; Taking Actions for Self-Growth</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential &amp; which questions/topics to cover in your conversations?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</a> </p><p> </p><p>Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?</p><p>Fill in an application for the Empowered Love Blueprint: Attract the love you deserve coaching process. If it is a good fit, you will be invited for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6'>https://forms.gle/kPAwKbUVMzJTsC2F6</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Episode 10 - From Perfection To Connection: Overcoming Barriers In Love and Intimacy with Michaela Thomas</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, Episode 10 - From Perfection To Connection: Overcoming Barriers In Love and Intimacy with Michaela Thomas</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2023 23:17:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 10 - From Perfection To Connection: Overcoming Barriers In Love and Intimacy with Michaela Thomas</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach, has a conversation with Michaela Thomas about perfectionism and how it can be a barrier to a deeper love. </p><p>Michaela Thomas is a Clinical Psychologist, couples therapist, coach and founder of the private practice The Thomas Connection. Michaela specialises in perfectionism and has authored the book The Lasting Connection - develop love and compassion for yourself and your partner.</p><p> </p><p>Michaela helps high-striving women to let go of the pressure of perfection – and burn bright, without burning out. She has an online program Burn Bright.  <a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/</a> </p><p><br><br></p><p>Michaela can be found on her Pause Purpose Play podcast and on Instagram under <a href='https://www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection/'>@the_thomas_connection</a>. Her course The Compassionate Couple has been described as 'life changing'.</p><p><a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/</a> </p><p><br><br></p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>1.54 How <a href='mailto:info@thethomasconnection.co.uk'>Michaela Thomas</a> got interested in relationship work</p><p> </p><p>02.38 Meeting her husband</p><p> </p><p>05.25 What creates connection</p><p> </p><p>06.06 What stops connection</p><p> </p><p>07.26 Values</p><p> </p><p>08.32 Compatibility</p><p>10.58 Pressure to be perfect</p><p> </p><p>13.13 What creates disconnection in couples</p><p> </p><p>14.19 How to get back to intimacy</p><p> </p><p>15.29 When perfectionism may hinder dating</p><p> </p><p>18.14 Hollywood love versus real relationships</p><p> </p><p>19.57 What is behind perfectionism</p><p> </p><p>24.26 What is the antidote to perfectionism?</p><p> </p><p>30.10 Cultivating compassion </p><p> </p><p>34.04 Flows of compassion</p><p> </p><p>36.01 What is love?</p><p><br><br></p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 10 - From Perfection To Connection: Overcoming Barriers In Love and Intimacy with Michaela Thomas</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach, has a conversation with Michaela Thomas about perfectionism and how it can be a barrier to a deeper love. </p><p>Michaela Thomas is a Clinical Psychologist, couples therapist, coach and founder of the private practice The Thomas Connection. Michaela specialises in perfectionism and has authored the book The Lasting Connection - develop love and compassion for yourself and your partner.</p><p> </p><p>Michaela helps high-striving women to let go of the pressure of perfection – and burn bright, without burning out. She has an online program Burn Bright.  <a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/</a> </p><p><br><br></p><p>Michaela can be found on her Pause Purpose Play podcast and on Instagram under <a href='https://www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection/'>@the_thomas_connection</a>. Her course The Compassionate Couple has been described as 'life changing'.</p><p><a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/</a> </p><p><br><br></p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>1.54 How <a href='mailto:info@thethomasconnection.co.uk'>Michaela Thomas</a> got interested in relationship work</p><p> </p><p>02.38 Meeting her husband</p><p> </p><p>05.25 What creates connection</p><p> </p><p>06.06 What stops connection</p><p> </p><p>07.26 Values</p><p> </p><p>08.32 Compatibility</p><p>10.58 Pressure to be perfect</p><p> </p><p>13.13 What creates disconnection in couples</p><p> </p><p>14.19 How to get back to intimacy</p><p> </p><p>15.29 When perfectionism may hinder dating</p><p> </p><p>18.14 Hollywood love versus real relationships</p><p> </p><p>19.57 What is behind perfectionism</p><p> </p><p>24.26 What is the antidote to perfectionism?</p><p> </p><p>30.10 Cultivating compassion </p><p> </p><p>34.04 Flows of compassion</p><p> </p><p>36.01 What is love?</p><p><br><br></p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Episode 9 - Preventing Dating Burnout: Strategies for Successful Dating with Duana Welch, Phd</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 9 - Preventing Dating Burnout: Strategies for Successful Dating with Duana Welch, Phd</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach, has a conversation about preventing dating burnout and finding love scientifically with Dr Duana Welch. Topics covered are Dr Duana’s personal journey of finding love with her husband, what research says about dating strategy, setting standards and women’s high self-esteem.  </p><p>Dr Welch is known for writing and dating coaching that relies on science rather than opinion to help men and women find and keep the love of their lives. A former professor in Florida, California, and Texas across 20 years, she has contributed to NPR, Psychology Today, and numerous other outlets and podcasts. Her first book, <em>Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do</em>, is now out globally in five languages; its revised and updated edition released in 2022. <em>Love Factually for Single Parents</em> is the second book in the series, specifically geared for finding the right partner not only for readers, but their families. She is an expert for Paired, the couples relationship app. Her client practice is global, via Zoom and other technologies.</p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink or maybe in the summer you want cooling down.. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>04.28 What is dating burnout?</p><p> </p><p>06.09 How not to burnout in the dating process</p><p> </p><p>07.70 According to science what does being in a relationship bring to a person</p><p> </p><p>09.59 Adjusting your mindset to dating</p><p> </p><p>10.20 Finding a dating strategy that works and stops wasting time</p><p> </p><p>12.39 Treat dating as a part-time job</p><p> </p><p>12.56 A common mistake in dating </p><p> </p><p>13.34 Identifying your non-negotiables </p><p> </p><p>16.45 Preparation is essential for dating</p><p> </p><p>17.45 Meeting now husband in seven dating from publishing an online dating profile</p><p> </p><p>21.32 Stick to your priorities under pressure</p><p> </p><p>22.33 Psychology of dating ads </p><p> </p><p>23.27 Importance of taking taking dating seriously</p><p> </p><p>24.53 Current fast dating model and related problems</p><p> </p><p>29.17 Having high standards</p><p> </p><p>31.52 Co-habitation and science</p><p> </p><p>33.56 Clarity on standard to prevent wrong relationships</p><p> </p><p>35.21 Women’s high self-esteem and research on men</p><p> </p><p>Get in touch with Dr Duana Welch:</p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor/'>https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor/</a></p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyBooks/'>https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyBooks/</a></p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/duanawelch/'>https://www.facebook.com/duanawelch/</a></p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/lovefactuallybooks/'>https://www.instagram.com/lovefactuallybooks/</a></p><p>Website <a href='http://www.lovesciencemedia.com/consult'>www.lovesciencemedia.com/consult</a></p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 9 - Preventing Dating Burnout: Strategies for Successful Dating with Duana Welch, Phd</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach, has a conversation about preventing dating burnout and finding love scientifically with Dr Duana Welch. Topics covered are Dr Duana’s personal journey of finding love with her husband, what research says about dating strategy, setting standards and women’s high self-esteem.  </p><p>Dr Welch is known for writing and dating coaching that relies on science rather than opinion to help men and women find and keep the love of their lives. A former professor in Florida, California, and Texas across 20 years, she has contributed to NPR, Psychology Today, and numerous other outlets and podcasts. Her first book, <em>Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do</em>, is now out globally in five languages; its revised and updated edition released in 2022. <em>Love Factually for Single Parents</em> is the second book in the series, specifically geared for finding the right partner not only for readers, but their families. She is an expert for Paired, the couples relationship app. Her client practice is global, via Zoom and other technologies.</p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink or maybe in the summer you want cooling down.. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>04.28 What is dating burnout?</p><p> </p><p>06.09 How not to burnout in the dating process</p><p> </p><p>07.70 According to science what does being in a relationship bring to a person</p><p> </p><p>09.59 Adjusting your mindset to dating</p><p> </p><p>10.20 Finding a dating strategy that works and stops wasting time</p><p> </p><p>12.39 Treat dating as a part-time job</p><p> </p><p>12.56 A common mistake in dating </p><p> </p><p>13.34 Identifying your non-negotiables </p><p> </p><p>16.45 Preparation is essential for dating</p><p> </p><p>17.45 Meeting now husband in seven dating from publishing an online dating profile</p><p> </p><p>21.32 Stick to your priorities under pressure</p><p> </p><p>22.33 Psychology of dating ads </p><p> </p><p>23.27 Importance of taking taking dating seriously</p><p> </p><p>24.53 Current fast dating model and related problems</p><p> </p><p>29.17 Having high standards</p><p> </p><p>31.52 Co-habitation and science</p><p> </p><p>33.56 Clarity on standard to prevent wrong relationships</p><p> </p><p>35.21 Women’s high self-esteem and research on men</p><p> </p><p>Get in touch with Dr Duana Welch:</p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor/'>https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor/</a></p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyBooks/'>https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyBooks/</a></p><p>Facebook <a href='https://www.facebook.com/duanawelch/'>https://www.facebook.com/duanawelch/</a></p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/lovefactuallybooks/'>https://www.instagram.com/lovefactuallybooks/</a></p><p>Website <a href='http://www.lovesciencemedia.com/consult'>www.lovesciencemedia.com/consult</a></p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Season 1, Episode 8 - Love & Ambition: Decoding the Struggles of High-Achieving Women in Finding Love]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[Season 1, Episode 8 - Love & Ambition: Decoding the Struggles of High-Achieving Women in Finding Love]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2023 23:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach, discusses why high-achieving women may struggle to find love and she offers solutions to overcome this challenge. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the energy one brings to dating experiences and explores the impact of women's empowerment and false beliefs about being a woman, and the "good girl syndrome" on relationships.</p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>2.07 Energy and Dating Experience</p><p> </p><p>02.51 Women's Empowerment</p><p> </p><p>03.51 The Good Girl Syndrome</p><p> </p><p>04.29 Potential Pitfalls of being in doing & giving mode </p><p> </p><p>07.34 Observing Compatibility</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of How to love successfully, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach, discusses why high-achieving women may struggle to find love and she offers solutions to overcome this challenge. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the energy one brings to dating experiences and explores the impact of women's empowerment and false beliefs about being a woman, and the "good girl syndrome" on relationships.</p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>2.07 Energy and Dating Experience</p><p> </p><p>02.51 Women's Empowerment</p><p> </p><p>03.51 The Good Girl Syndrome</p><p> </p><p>04.29 Potential Pitfalls of being in doing & giving mode </p><p> </p><p>07.34 Observing Compatibility</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>The Relationship Compatibility Checklist: 20 Questions to Determine His Suitability for a Serious Relationship</a></p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/Relationshipcompatibilitychecklist</a></p><p> </p><p> Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Episode 7 - Love Starts Within: Harnessing the Power of Self-Love in Attracting the Right Man</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, Episode 7 - Love Starts Within: Harnessing the Power of Self-Love in Attracting the Right Man</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2023 05:01:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 7 - Love Starts Within: Harnessing the Power of Self-Love in Attracting the Right Man</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist, conscious dating & relationship coach will talk about self-love and how significant it is in finding that right person for you and how lack of self-love and self-loving practices can be detrimental to your love life. She also shares how to improve your relationship with yourself and ensure that you are feeling the best you can within you. . </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>0.55 Understanding Self-Love</p><p> </p><p>02.16 Benefits of Self-Love in Dating</p><p> </p><p>03.06 Forming a Conscious Relationship From the Place of Self-Love </p><p> </p><p>03.56 Boundaries and Self-Love </p><p> </p><p>05.50 Lack of Self-Love & Difficulty with Self-Expression</p><p> </p><p>06.17 Radiating Self-Love</p><p> </p><p>09.59  Cultivating Self-Love</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download “Is he ready for love?” 20 Most important first date questions. </p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/ishereadyforlove'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/ishereadyforlove</a> </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 7 - Love Starts Within: Harnessing the Power of Self-Love in Attracting the Right Man</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist, conscious dating & relationship coach will talk about self-love and how significant it is in finding that right person for you and how lack of self-love and self-loving practices can be detrimental to your love life. She also shares how to improve your relationship with yourself and ensure that you are feeling the best you can within you. . </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>0.55 Understanding Self-Love</p><p> </p><p>02.16 Benefits of Self-Love in Dating</p><p> </p><p>03.06 Forming a Conscious Relationship From the Place of Self-Love </p><p> </p><p>03.56 Boundaries and Self-Love </p><p> </p><p>05.50 Lack of Self-Love & Difficulty with Self-Expression</p><p> </p><p>06.17 Radiating Self-Love</p><p> </p><p>09.59  Cultivating Self-Love</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to know how to assess him and whether he has potential?</p><p>Download “Is he ready for love?” 20 Most important first date questions. </p><p><a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/ishereadyforlove'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/ishereadyforlove</a> </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, episode 6- Your mindset determines your dating outcome</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, episode 6- Your mindset determines your dating outcome</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jun 2023 23:08:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 6 - Your mindset determines your dating outcome</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach will talk about how important your dating mindset (your beliefs and feelings around dating and finding love) is in finding love. </p><p> Dr Kovanen also discusses fixed versus growth mindset and the consequences of not challenging your mindset gremlins and developing a more open mindset to find love.. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>0.55 Understanding Your Dating Mindset</p><p> </p><p>01.38 The Impact of Mindset on Dating Energy</p><p> </p><p>02.03 Fixed Mindset vs. Growth Mindset</p><p> </p><p>03.26 The Power of Inner Work</p><p> </p><p>05.32  Understanding Your Emotions</p><p>  </p><p>06.25 Emotional Availability</p><p> </p><p>06.56 Adopting a Growth Mindset</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 6 - Your mindset determines your dating outcome</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach will talk about how important your dating mindset (your beliefs and feelings around dating and finding love) is in finding love. </p><p> Dr Kovanen also discusses fixed versus growth mindset and the consequences of not challenging your mindset gremlins and developing a more open mindset to find love.. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>0.55 Understanding Your Dating Mindset</p><p> </p><p>01.38 The Impact of Mindset on Dating Energy</p><p> </p><p>02.03 Fixed Mindset vs. Growth Mindset</p><p> </p><p>03.26 The Power of Inner Work</p><p> </p><p>05.32  Understanding Your Emotions</p><p>  </p><p>06.25 Emotional Availability</p><p> </p><p>06.56 Adopting a Growth Mindset</p><p> </p><p>If you learnt something new, please leave a review, a like or a comment. </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Episode 5 - Why have you been attracted to the wrong men?</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2023 20:43:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 5 - Why have you been attracted to the wrong men?</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach will talk about why you may have been attracted to a similar type of relationship over and over again. Dr Kovanen also discusses how you can start to change your relationship patterns and finally find the right relationship for you. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.00 Understanding Attraction to Wrong Relationships</p><p> </p><p>02.59 Relationship Blueprints and Early Experiences</p><p> </p><p>04.22 Forces Guiding Relationship Dynamics</p><p> </p><p>10.23 How do you change your relationship patterns</p><p> </p><p>12.52 Having clarity on the type of relationship you want </p><p>  </p><p>14.24 The pace of dating </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 5 - Why have you been attracted to the wrong men?</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist & conscious dating & relationship coach will talk about why you may have been attracted to a similar type of relationship over and over again. Dr Kovanen also discusses how you can start to change your relationship patterns and finally find the right relationship for you. </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.00 Understanding Attraction to Wrong Relationships</p><p> </p><p>02.59 Relationship Blueprints and Early Experiences</p><p> </p><p>04.22 Forces Guiding Relationship Dynamics</p><p> </p><p>10.23 How do you change your relationship patterns</p><p> </p><p>12.52 Having clarity on the type of relationship you want </p><p>  </p><p>14.24 The pace of dating </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>How to date successfully masterclass</p><p>Learn everything you need to understand about successful dating and finding love with the right person. </p><p> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/masterclass</p><p> </p><p>Frustrated with dating and want clarity?</p><p>Book a complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. </p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'>https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p><br><br><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Episode 4 - How our early relationships impact dating and relationships</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, Episode 4 - How our early relationships impact dating and relationships</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 25 May 2023 19:47:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 4 - How our early relationships impact dating and relationships</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist, and a conscious dating & relationship coach will talk about how our early environment creates a blueprint for relationships and what this means for us. Understanding the basic principles of these blueprints helps us to make sense of dating behaviours and work towards communicating in a more open manner about what we want and need in a relationship.   </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.50 Relationship blueprints</p><p> </p><p>02.27 Attachment adaptations</p><p> </p><p>05.17 Secure attachment </p><p> </p><p>08.39 Insecure-ambivalent attachment (anxious)</p><p> </p><p>11.47 Insecure-avoidant attachment</p><p>  </p><p>15.38 The dance of ambivalent and avoidant attachment adaptations</p><p> </p><p>16.27 Insecure-disorganized attachment (fearful attachment)</p><p> </p><p>11.43 Attaching to the partner</p><p> </p><p>17.17 Attachment styles and online dating</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>Book a free 30min Love Connection Call to get clarity on your dating situation and what are you best next steps in finding love.</p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'> https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a></p><p> </p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p> </p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p> </p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 4 - How our early relationships impact dating and relationships</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I, Dr Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist, and a conscious dating & relationship coach will talk about how our early environment creates a blueprint for relationships and what this means for us. Understanding the basic principles of these blueprints helps us to make sense of dating behaviours and work towards communicating in a more open manner about what we want and need in a relationship.   </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.50 Relationship blueprints</p><p> </p><p>02.27 Attachment adaptations</p><p> </p><p>05.17 Secure attachment </p><p> </p><p>08.39 Insecure-ambivalent attachment (anxious)</p><p> </p><p>11.47 Insecure-avoidant attachment</p><p>  </p><p>15.38 The dance of ambivalent and avoidant attachment adaptations</p><p> </p><p>16.27 Insecure-disorganized attachment (fearful attachment)</p><p> </p><p>11.43 Attaching to the partner</p><p> </p><p>17.17 Attachment styles and online dating</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>Book a free 30min Love Connection Call to get clarity on your dating situation and what are you best next steps in finding love.</p><p><a href='https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall'> https://calendly.com/drmaricoaching/30minloveconnectioncall</a></p><p> </p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p> </p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p> </p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Episode 3 - How our psychobiology affects dating</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, Episode 3 - How our psychobiology affects dating</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 18 May 2023 18:22:58 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Season 1, Episode 3 - How our psychobiology affects datingIn this episode of How to love successfully, I will talk about how our psychobiology, our hormones and our evolution still continue to affect our dating and mating behaviours whether we like ...</itunes:subtitle>
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			<itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 3 - How our psychobiology affects dating</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I will talk about how our psychobiology, our hormones and our evolution still continue to affect our dating and mating behaviours whether we like it or not. Understanding the basic principles of these internal systems helps us to make sense of dating behavious and then navigate dating situations in a more informed and conscious way.  </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.23 Modern beliefs about humans</p><p> </p><p>02.02 Women’s empowerment and matriarchal views </p><p> </p><p>04.00 What was the purpose of dating rituals</p><p> </p><p>04.47 Motivators of early man</p><p> </p><p>06.25 What drives attraction?</p><p> </p><p>07.49 The meaning of intermittent rewarding in dating </p><p> </p><p>08.50 Motivation for the woman in dating </p><p> </p><p>11.07 Physical intimacy </p><p> </p><p>11.43 Attaching to the partner</p><p> </p><p>13.56 Other influences on dating behaviours </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 3 - How our psychobiology affects dating</p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I will talk about how our psychobiology, our hormones and our evolution still continue to affect our dating and mating behaviours whether we like it or not. Understanding the basic principles of these internal systems helps us to make sense of dating behavious and then navigate dating situations in a more informed and conscious way.  </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.23 Modern beliefs about humans</p><p> </p><p>02.02 Women’s empowerment and matriarchal views </p><p> </p><p>04.00 What was the purpose of dating rituals</p><p> </p><p>04.47 Motivators of early man</p><p> </p><p>06.25 What drives attraction?</p><p> </p><p>07.49 The meaning of intermittent rewarding in dating </p><p> </p><p>08.50 Motivation for the woman in dating </p><p> </p><p>11.07 Physical intimacy </p><p> </p><p>11.43 Attaching to the partner</p><p> </p><p>13.56 Other influences on dating behaviours </p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Episode 2 - The biggest dating mistake most people make</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, Episode 2 - The biggest dating mistake most people make</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 11 May 2023 21:11:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Season 1, Episode 2 - The biggest dating mistake that most people make  In this episode of How to love successfully, I will talk about the most common dating mistake that I see daters making when looking for love. Having a good roadmap for dating is...</itunes:subtitle>
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			<itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 2 - The biggest dating mistake that most people make  </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I will talk about the most common dating mistake that I see daters making when looking for love. Having a good roadmap for dating is essential to avoid time being wasted on the wrong men and saving energy & finally meeting the right person for you. </p><p>I have also personal experience of making this dating mistake that led me to change my dating strategy in the end and then meeting my now husband. </p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.18 Auto-pilot dating</p><p> </p><p>02.05 The consequences of auto-pilot dating</p><p> </p><p>02.40 My assumptions about dating</p><p> </p><p>03.35 Misreading your physical symptoms when dating</p><p> </p><p>03.35 Without a dating map you end up in the wrong place</p><p> </p><p>05.20 What should you do to be more intentional with dating?</p><p> </p><p>06.20 Conscious dating</p><p> </p><p>06.32 Early relationships</p><p> </p><p>06.46 Values</p><p> </p><p>07.02 Owning yourself</p><p> </p><p>7.46 Self-love</p><p> </p><p>08.12 Dating from a place of "I am whole"</p><p> </p><p>08.36 I am evolving</p><p> </p><p>09.41 Relationship non-negotiables</p><p> </p><p>09.51 Vetting process</p><p> </p><p>10.12 Detaching from the outcome</p><p> </p><p> 11.22 Benefits of dating consciously</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 2 - The biggest dating mistake that most people make  </p><p>In this episode of How to love successfully, I will talk about the most common dating mistake that I see daters making when looking for love. Having a good roadmap for dating is essential to avoid time being wasted on the wrong men and saving energy & finally meeting the right person for you. </p><p>I have also personal experience of making this dating mistake that led me to change my dating strategy in the end and then meeting my now husband. </p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>01.18 Auto-pilot dating</p><p> </p><p>02.05 The consequences of auto-pilot dating</p><p> </p><p>02.40 My assumptions about dating</p><p> </p><p>03.35 Misreading your physical symptoms when dating</p><p> </p><p>03.35 Without a dating map you end up in the wrong place</p><p> </p><p>05.20 What should you do to be more intentional with dating?</p><p> </p><p>06.20 Conscious dating</p><p> </p><p>06.32 Early relationships</p><p> </p><p>06.46 Values</p><p> </p><p>07.02 Owning yourself</p><p> </p><p>7.46 Self-love</p><p> </p><p>08.12 Dating from a place of "I am whole"</p><p> </p><p>08.36 I am evolving</p><p> </p><p>09.41 Relationship non-negotiables</p><p> </p><p>09.51 Vetting process</p><p> </p><p>10.12 Detaching from the outcome</p><p> </p><p> 11.22 Benefits of dating consciously</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free<a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'> https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p>LinkedIn<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'> https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram<a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'> https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p>Website<a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'> www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Season 1, Episode 1 - How did I find love?</title>
			<itunes:title>Season 1, Episode 1 - How did I find love?</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 11 May 2023 21:08:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 1 - How did I find love?  </p><p>In this episode I, will talk about how I was a single woman dating in my 30s and worried about never meeting the one to have a long-term relationship with and how I then did meet my husband and father of my two boys. </p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>00.59 Being a single girl about town.</p><p> </p><p>02.10 The excitement turns sour </p><p> </p><p>02.56  Dating burnout</p><p> </p><p>04.35 Love bombing</p><p> </p><p>07.02 Finding my feet again</p><p> </p><p>09.19 The change </p><p> </p><p>09.45 Early days of talking </p><p> </p><p>11.35 Meeting “the one”</p><p> </p><p>14.28 What made the difference?</p><p><br><br></p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p> </p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p> </p><p>LinkedIn <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'>https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Website <a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'>www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Season 1, Episode 1 - How did I find love?  </p><p>In this episode I, will talk about how I was a single woman dating in my 30s and worried about never meeting the one to have a long-term relationship with and how I then did meet my husband and father of my two boys. </p><p> </p><p>Take a seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>00.59 Being a single girl about town.</p><p> </p><p>02.10 The excitement turns sour </p><p> </p><p>02.56  Dating burnout</p><p> </p><p>04.35 Love bombing</p><p> </p><p>07.02 Finding my feet again</p><p> </p><p>09.19 The change </p><p> </p><p>09.45 Early days of talking </p><p> </p><p>11.35 Meeting “the one”</p><p> </p><p>14.28 What made the difference?</p><p><br><br></p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p> </p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p> </p><p>LinkedIn <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'>https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Website <a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'>www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p>Youtube How to love successfully video podcast <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels'>https://www.youtube.com/@howtolovesuccessfullypodcast/channels</a> </p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Bonus episode - Inspirations, loves & interests behind How to love successfully podcast]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[Bonus episode - Inspirations, loves & interests behind How to love successfully podcast]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Sun, 07 May 2023 23:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Bonus episode - Inspirations, loves and interests behind How to love successfully podcast In this episode I talk about what kind of topics and people have inspired me along my professional career and now starting this podcast. Take seat and you...</itunes:subtitle>
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			<itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p> </p><p>Bonus episode - Inspirations, loves and interests behind How to love successfully podcast</p><p> </p><p>In this episode I talk about what kind of topics and people have inspired me along my professional career and now starting this podcast. </p><p><br><br></p><p>Take seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>00.39 Inspirations for learning about relationships</p><p> </p><p>01.21 Attachment theory</p><p> </p><p>02.08  Dr Stan Tatkin</p><p> </p><p>02.18 Dr Sue Johnson</p><p> </p><p>03.02 Duana Welch, PhD</p><p> </p><p>03.56 The Huberman Lab</p><p> </p><p>04.41 <a href='mailto:info@thethomasconnection.co.uk'>Michaela Thomas</a></p><p> </p><p>06.40 Dr <a href='mailto:karin@loveandlifemedia.com'>Karin Anderson Abrell</a></p><p><br><br></p><p>Resources mentioned:</p><p> </p><p>Wired for Love and Wired for Dating books by Dr Stan Tatkin</p><p>Hold me Tight by Dr Sue Johnson</p><p>Love Factually books by Duane Welch, PhD <a href='http://www.lovesciencemedia.com/about/'>http://www.lovesciencemedia.com/about/</a></p><p>The Huberman Lab by Professor Huberman <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab'>https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab</a></p><p>Pause, Purpose, Play podcast with Michaela Thomas <a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/</a></p><p>Love & Life podcast with Dr <a href='mailto:karin@loveandlifemedia.com'>Karin Anderson Abrell</a> https://www.loveandlifemedia.com/podcast</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p> </p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p> </p><p>LinkedIn <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'>https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Website <a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'>www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p> </p><p>Bonus episode - Inspirations, loves and interests behind How to love successfully podcast</p><p> </p><p>In this episode I talk about what kind of topics and people have inspired me along my professional career and now starting this podcast. </p><p><br><br></p><p>Take seat and your favourite warm drink. I hope you enjoy this episode! </p><p> </p><p>00.39 Inspirations for learning about relationships</p><p> </p><p>01.21 Attachment theory</p><p> </p><p>02.08  Dr Stan Tatkin</p><p> </p><p>02.18 Dr Sue Johnson</p><p> </p><p>03.02 Duana Welch, PhD</p><p> </p><p>03.56 The Huberman Lab</p><p> </p><p>04.41 <a href='mailto:info@thethomasconnection.co.uk'>Michaela Thomas</a></p><p> </p><p>06.40 Dr <a href='mailto:karin@loveandlifemedia.com'>Karin Anderson Abrell</a></p><p><br><br></p><p>Resources mentioned:</p><p> </p><p>Wired for Love and Wired for Dating books by Dr Stan Tatkin</p><p>Hold me Tight by Dr Sue Johnson</p><p>Love Factually books by Duane Welch, PhD <a href='http://www.lovesciencemedia.com/about/'>http://www.lovesciencemedia.com/about/</a></p><p>The Huberman Lab by Professor Huberman <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab'>https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab</a></p><p>Pause, Purpose, Play podcast with Michaela Thomas <a href='https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/'>https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/podcast/</a></p><p>Love & Life podcast with Dr <a href='mailto:karin@loveandlifemedia.com'>Karin Anderson Abrell</a> https://www.loveandlifemedia.com/podcast</p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully calm on your first date?</p><p> </p><p>Pre-date Bliss Meditation to download for free <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p> </p><p>Connect on socials</p><p> </p><p>LinkedIn <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'>https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p>Website <a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'>www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Trailer - How to love successfully</title>
			<itunes:title>Trailer - How to love successfully</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2023 20:24:24 GMT</pubDate>
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			<itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>This is a podcast for high-achieving women looking for a committed long-term relationship. We talk about everything and anything to do with you and your relationships from building a more loving relationship with yourself to creating a conscious relationship from the day of your meeting your person.</p><p>Your host Dr Mari Kovanen is a registered psychologist, a relationship therapist and a conscious dating coach. She has dedicated her career to understanding relationships and supporting individuals in different stages of their relationships. </p><p>Dr Mari is a mother of two boys and a wife, and been with her husband for 17 years. She loves nature and brings her knowledge not about about relationships, but also on neuroscience and psychobiology to help you to navigate date situations and find your special person. </p><p>The best ways to get in touch with Dr Mari</p><p>LinkedIn <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'>https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully relaxed on your date?</p><p>Download Pre-date Bliss Meditation for free help you to have the best first date experience  <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p>Website <a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'>www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>This is a podcast for high-achieving women looking for a committed long-term relationship. We talk about everything and anything to do with you and your relationships from building a more loving relationship with yourself to creating a conscious relationship from the day of your meeting your person.</p><p>Your host Dr Mari Kovanen is a registered psychologist, a relationship therapist and a conscious dating coach. She has dedicated her career to understanding relationships and supporting individuals in different stages of their relationships. </p><p>Dr Mari is a mother of two boys and a wife, and been with her husband for 17 years. She loves nature and brings her knowledge not about about relationships, but also on neuroscience and psychobiology to help you to navigate date situations and find your special person. </p><p>The best ways to get in touch with Dr Mari</p><p>LinkedIn <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarikovanen</a> /</p><p>Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/'>https://www.instagram.com/drmarikovanencoaching/</a></p><p> </p><p>Would you like to feel blissfully relaxed on your date?</p><p>Download Pre-date Bliss Meditation for free help you to have the best first date experience  <a href='https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation'>https://drmarikovanen.kartra.com/page/predateblissmeditation</a> </p><p>Website <a href='http://www.drmarikovanencoaching.com'>www.drmarikovanencoaching.com</a></p><p><br><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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