The Scrutiny of Things

To Stay or To Return

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 11:00:52 GMT

After two years of living in Northern Ireland and sharing my experiences across 11 episodes, I take a moment to reflect on this journey. I recount the lessons learned and challenges faced along the way. I also tackle one lingering question, should I stay or return home?

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Diaspora Privilege

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 11:00:00 GMT

Working abroad changes how you see the world—and sometimes how you see home. In this episode, I unpack how living and working in a different country can alter your perspective, from the assumption that successful methods abroad can be easily replicated back home to the challenges of navigating cultural and systemic differences. I’ll also explore the concept of diaspora privilege.

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Where is Zambia?

Tue, 26 Nov 2024 11:00:49 GMT

One of the most common questions I get is, "Where is Zambia?" In this episode, I share the struggles I encounter as well as the fun and innovative ways I’ve learned to describe my where the country is located, from comparing it to familiar landmarks to using creative maps and quirky references. I also delve into the things that need to change to make it better to describe where we are.

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Long Distance Grief

Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:00:09 GMT

In this episode, I open up about experiencing grief while living away from home, sharing a story of loss and the unique challenges it brought. Grief is universal, but this episode delves into how distance reshapes the experience and highlights how people cope while far from home.

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Of Faith and Religion

Wed, 13 Nov 2024 17:29:51 GMT

In this episode, I explore the significant role religion has played in shaping Northern Ireland’s history, delving into the deep-rooted religious and political divides that have defined the region for decades. I’ll also share my personal journey of finding a local church, the challenges of connecting with a new congregation, and some intriguing observations of church life in Belfast.

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My Racist Encounters

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:00:59 GMT

In this episode, I share some of the racist incidents I’ve faced while living in Belfast and reflect on how I handled each situation. From subtle prejudices to overt encounters, I’ll walk you through these experiences, along with my initial reactions and the lessons I’ve learned along the way.

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Why Family and Friends Scare Us

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 11:00:44 GMT

In this episode, I open up about a dilemma many in the diaspora face: trusting family and friends back home to manage our hard-earned investments. I’ll discuss the fears and challenges encountered. I’ll also explore alternative investment options worth considering.

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Show Me The Money

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 10:00:05 GMT

In this episode, I dive into how expats in the UK make a living and manage their finances. What are the possibilities of working multiple jobs or side hustles to navigating different industries, I’ll explore the various ways individuals support themselves as well as the sacrifices made to send money back home and for investment.

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How Expensive is Belfast?

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 10:00:27 GMT

In this episode, I break down the realities of living in Belfast, from rent to groceries, and everything in between. I’ll walk you through my monthly expenses, giving you insights into how much it costs to maintain a comfortable life in this vibrant city and some of the considerations to make if you wish to make the move.

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A Cup of Tea and Other Things

Wed, 09 Oct 2024 10:00:01 GMT

From discovering a newfound appreciation for endless cups of tea to the challenges of finding accommodation that feels like home, I'll share the moments that defined my early days. And of course, no story about moving to a Northern Ireland is complete without battling the unpredictable weather—rain, wind, and all!

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Stranger in Unfamiliar Places

Tue, 01 Oct 2024 10:00:35 GMT

In this episode, I dive into the challenges of settling into a new work environment in Northern Ireland while navigating the unfamiliar places of a new city. Along the way, I explore my search for familiar comforts and connections that remind me of my old life in Lusaka, blending past and present in my journey of adaptation.

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Becoming an Expat

Tue, 24 Sep 2024 12:54:31 GMT

In this episode, I take you along on my personal journey from the vibrant landscapes of Zambia to the rolling green hills of Northern Ireland. I share what it was like to leave behind the familiar warmth of my home country and dive into a brand new world as an expat.

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