Not As We Planned

I Can't Stop Comparing Myself to His Ex | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 08 Apr 2026 22:47:43 GMT

This episode discusses worrying about your boyfriend’s ex moving back into town, feeling on edge around a suspicious colleague who's just disappeared into thin air, and dealing with fears about your partner’s connection with his children’s mum. We also hear a powerful story of a woman who’s been through hell and come out stronger.

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My Ex is my Guilty Pleasure | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 01 Apr 2026 23:00:00 GMT

Tash shares her news which is life changing, when you have an affair with your ex and you’re not sure what to do, when going no contact is the only way, and when your boyfriend has been hiding a whole other life for over 2 years!

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Should I Have an Affair? | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 26 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT

Carly shares a deeply emotional update while trying to hold everything together.

We hear from a woman in a sexless marriage considering an affair with her boss, a chaotic dating story involving a back-door escape, and a shocking discovery that points to a partner cheating.

Plus, a powerful anonymous confession from a mum who admits she’s been gaslighting her own son.

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Colin @loudsingledad: Our First Male Guest! A Man’s Perspective on Separation, Coparenting & Dating! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 19 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT

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When Hope Ends Up Costing You A Lot | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 12 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT

Tash shares the hurdles she’s had to face during her break-up, when you stick by your partner through his addiction, a man shares an extremely moving explanation of his addiction, and needing the courage to walk away from a man who has allowed you to carry him through your whole relationship.

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Sabrina Zohar: Everything You Need to Know About Dating & Relationships | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 05 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT

Dating can feel confusing, frustrating and at times completely overwhelming. In this episode, renowned dating and relationship expert Sabrina Zohar joins us to answer your most pressing questions - from navigating no contact and mixed signals to building healthy, secure relationships that actually last.

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I Can’t Stop Sleeping With My Daughters Boyfriend | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 25 Feb 2026 23:54:20 GMT

It’s a dating episode guys and we have delivered the goods! First up, the man that shat himself on a first date, the most shocking affair we have EVER come across, the romantic stroll along the dirty river and being the third wheel with the ‘platonic bestie’

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Poor Excuse of a Man | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 00:00:00 GMT

We’ve had some shocking updates from our listeners. In one case, an affair turned out not to be just one, but two. Another story involved a man desperately trying to hide his whereabouts during a FaceTime call. One mum was excited for her family holiday, only to discover her partner had already been frolicking in the sea with another woman. Another man had an affair with someone 13 years younger and, as if that wasn’t enough, she later found out he had been visiting prostitutes… more than 40 in just six months.

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You Need To Leave This Relationship NOW!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 12 Feb 2026 00:00:00 GMT

Tash gives us an update on finally going no contact but what occurred beforehand, we share some dating stories just in time for valentines day… the man who wanted to drive into a brick wall, playing hide and seek when the date isn’t going well, being presented with a penis in the car, wanting to leave your marriage but guilt is stopping you and when you get caught in the lie!

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The Worst Affair Story You've Ever Heard | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 05 Feb 2026 00:00:00 GMT

When you realise you’re carrying your whole relationship, when your partner leaves you for someone else, when your baby daddy is mia for a year and then you find out the most shocking news as to why, and stopping the cohabiting with your ex!

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Me & My Boyfriend Broke Up | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 29 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT

Tash shares the sad update that her and her boyfriend have broken up. When the man you’re with punishes you for keeping your baby, a random Facebook message that brings you the truth about your partner and the worst pocket dial confession

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Nicole is this me: A Real & Raw Conversation About Her Husband's Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 22 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT

We unpack how she found out and how she felt with it only happening 2 weeks ago!

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I've Been Sleeping With My Boss... Who's Married

Thu, 15 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT

This week, we hear a confession from someone sleeping with her married boss, a long-term boyfriend exposed on an Are We Dating the Same Guy page and our advice as to whether we think a listener's boyfriend might be cheating on her.

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Shelley J Whitehead: How to Heal Your Heartbreak, Set Boundaries and Gain Self Worth.

Thu, 08 Jan 2026 08:32:57 GMT

Divorce week has hit us, and this episode is not one you will want to miss if you’re struggling with healing.

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Don’t Be a Ho Ho Ho!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 06:49:16 GMT

We speak about the struggles we can face over xmas, being newly single or not having your children, when staying for the kids is not an option, an email that sets us off emotionally with a lovely thank you, and we hear from a male listener whose repeatedly being cheated on….

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The Neighbourhood Bicycle Where Everyone Had a Ride | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 11 Dec 2025 00:00:00 GMT

Trigger warning: Domestic Abuse

When your ex partner is using drugs and tries it on with your sister, a very abusive relationship that’s hard to get out of when you’re in it, and when your perfect life falls apart when he decides he wants to leave out of nowhere!

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Jessica Miller: The Truth Behind The Breakdown Of Her Marriage And All The In-Between | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 00:00:00 GMT

Jess shares the reasons behind the breakdown of her marriage, behind the camera of OnlyFans and where she sees her life moving forward

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The Truth Is They Never Change... | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 27 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT

We unpack the lies we’ve told ourselves to stay in an unhappy relationship, when your husband blames your appearance for the reason he left and when all the lies get uncovered from the dreaded phone!!!

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The Not So Magic Mike Show... | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 20 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT

When your ex gives you an unintentional strip tease, the Christmas party affair that eventually comes out, when you’re chasing closure from the wrong person and questioning if you gave up too soon on your marriage due to motherhood.

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The Messy Wife Swap | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT

We hear about the constant betrayal throughout a marriage with some brutal advice given, a shocking story which left someone homeless, the reality of ignoring every red flag and the when love turns into survival

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When Your Situationship Even Lied About His Name!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 06 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT

We give our brutal opinion on what we believe is bare minimum rather than princess treatment, when the guy you’re dating even lied about his name and figuring out whether a second chance could work.

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The Intentional Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 11:29:34 GMT

We hear from a broken listener who we give some much needed advice to, when the trust is broken and if you can really move forward from the deceit, and we hear from an ‘imposter’ who shares a different story!

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Jessica May: the untold events of her partner's affair and the signs that she ignored | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 22 Oct 2025 23:00:00 GMT

For the first time ever, Jessica reveals the detailed truths about her partner's affair, the way she found out, and what she did afterwards!!! Not one to miss!

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It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 15 Oct 2025 23:00:00 GMT

We actually beg a listener to take our advice, or she will regret it, the lying boyfriend who made out he ended it to do her a favour, the shocking 9-year affair and watching history repeat itself!

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Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 08 Oct 2025 23:00:00 GMT

A very eye-opening episode which will give you an insightful understanding into the coparenting world, how to manage the legal battle with your children’s parent and growing through the trauma.

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Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 01 Oct 2025 23:00:00 GMT

We share the most embarrassing moments when you text the wrong person, Tash shares a mortifying experience, finding out you're the home wrecker only after the relationship ends and when your husband leaves you for a man

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I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 24 Sep 2025 23:00:00 GMT

We get an update on Carly's dating drama after being ghosted, how she joined dating app Wisp https://wisp.global/ (ad) which bans ghosters, the most graphic sexual encounter by a male listener, the 5ft7 liar, and dating a criminal!

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Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 17 Sep 2025 23:00:00 GMT

We discuss whether it’s a good idea to date multiple men at once, swapping stories with the other woman, planning another baby with your ex and how to meet the love of your life and a lovely email to give is all hope!

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The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Thu, 11 Sep 2025 06:22:40 GMT

Carly gives us a big life update, we have a little scroll on ‘are we dating the same guy’, realising you’ve outgrown your partner and don’t know if you should end it, and should you give your cheating partner one more chance?

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We’re Back in Our BRAND NEW Studio! Breakups, Divorce & Dating Real Talk | Not As We Planned Podcast

Wed, 03 Sep 2025 22:59:00 GMT

Welcome to a brand-new era of Not As We Planned - and our very first episode in the NEW studio! 💖 It’s a total pinch-me moment, and we’re so excited to share it with you. Same raw honesty and bestie vibes, but with a fresh new space and energy.

In this opener, we dive deep into the realities of love, heartbreak, and fresh starts. You’ll hear the jaw-dropping story of a woman who stayed in a toxic relationship for 30 years before finally breaking free, an empowering reminder that it’s never too late to put yourself first. We also answer listener questions about cheating, red flags, and “should I have stayed?” moments. Plus, catch up with us as we share the highs and lows of single life, dating apps, co-parenting, and everything in between.

If you’re ready for real talk, belly laughs, and conversations that feel like therapy with your best friends, you’re in the right place.

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100. Unfortunately Men Like This Exist…

Wed, 30 Jul 2025 23:01:00 GMT

We discuss the difficulties of splitting your time with the kids over the holidays, someone who needs some serious tough love from us, a clear comparison with how your life could look when leaving or staying and the man who was sleeping with 9 women!!!

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99. He Did Cheat.. But it Was My Fault

Wed, 23 Jul 2025 23:01:00 GMT

We have an honest conversation about the financial pressures of being a single mum, when you catfish your partner by pretending to be the other woman, and a hard story of emotional abuse whilst managing to break the trauma bond

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98. I Was The Other Woman But Didn’t Know!!!

Wed, 16 Jul 2025 23:01:00 GMT

Mr British airways by who took so many women for a ride, when the man you’ve been dating lied about EVERYTHING… even his name! And when you compare notes with the other woman to find that he shat on both your beds!!

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97. He Told Me He Was a Vampire

Wed, 09 Jul 2025 23:01:00 GMT

You guys share your most embarrassing date scenarios, when your partner informs you that he wants to watch you sleep with other men, when his memory of you is taken away and a thanks for the podcast making you not feel alone through your divorce.

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96. An Unexpected Turn of Events

Wed, 02 Jul 2025 23:01:00 GMT

We hear from an absolute queen showing just how to handle being cheated on, when you think you’re over your husband but don’t want to leave because of the kids and an unexpected turn of events when we get told off by a listener….

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95. The Signs Of An Affair

Wed, 25 Jun 2025 23:01:00 GMT

When you hear from the other woman who tells you all about the affair, a man who needs our help, and yet another affair with you guessed it… ANOTHER ONE

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94. A Massive Orange Dildo

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 23:01:00 GMT

When your boyfriend has an issue with your baby daddy, an update from a man whose wife cheated, the massive orange dildo, and proof that no consequences means no changes

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93. I Thought He Would Change For Me

Wed, 11 Jun 2025 23:01:00 GMT

When a short situationship does a lot of damage, your partner tells you it’s you or the dog, and when your ex has moved on but you weren’t ready for this change

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92. Describe Your Ex As a Brand

Wed, 04 Jun 2025 23:01:00 GMT

We share the hilarious comparisons of brands that remind you of your ex, if it’s too early to date an old flame straight after a separation, and watching your partner VANISH out of nowhere!!!

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91. She’d Flirt With a Pint Of Milk

Thu, 29 May 2025 05:45:00 GMT

We hear from a woman who’s tried everything to make her marriage work, a man who’s wife cheated on him with her best female friend and an update from the woman who was comparing herself to the girl her partner cheated on her with.

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90. You Hooked Up With a Murderer

Thu, 22 May 2025 05:40:00 GMT

It’s time for an overdue dating episode and you’ve delivered the goods!!

The 15 minute date with a drunk, when your situationship prioritises spiders over you, having sex in his single bed and we share some weird prompts on the dating apps

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89. It’s Giving… Love Bomb

Thu, 15 May 2025 05:40:00 GMT

We share a story from a girl who tash met, when you realise you are with a serial cheater and the confessions of a micro penis

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88. I Tried To Tame a F*** Boy

Thu, 08 May 2025 05:40:00 GMT

We speak about being married to an addict and how that can impact your life, when blaming the other woman won’t make your problems go away and realising he’s not going to change!!

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87. Comparing Myself To The 'Other Woman'

Thu, 01 May 2025 05:40:00 GMT

We both share our realisations from our previous relationships, we give some rare advice and suggest a reconciliation, and the dangers of comparing yourself to the other woman

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86. Catfish and Chlamydia

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 05:40:00 GMT

We discuss how Staying for the kids and for financial stability doesn’t need to be a thing, finally getting that lightbulb moment and filling for divorce, and how a cheeky bit of milk can go a long way!

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85. Things Just Got Juicy

Thu, 17 Apr 2025 05:40:00 GMT

Finally getting confirmation that your cheating suspicions were correct, being the new partner and having to deal with an uncomfortable coparenting relationship, and being torn whether to leave my partner although there’s been no pinnacle event!

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84. How To Text a Guy

Thu, 10 Apr 2025 05:40:00 GMT

We discuss how it’s sometimes better raising a child on your own than allowing a toxic parent to be a part of their life, realising you’re not yet ready to date yet and never settling for someone who isn’t willing to put in the work!

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83. He Had a Whole Other Family

Thu, 03 Apr 2025 05:40:00 GMT

We talk about how you shouldn’t blame yourself for him cheating, finding out he had a whole other family, we see the definition of bread crumbing and for the first time we feel uncomfortable to give advice…..

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82. My Gut Told Me To Look At His Phone

Thu, 27 Mar 2025 06:40:00 GMT

We discuss the danger of staying in a relationship just because there’s no infidelity, when you catch your husband cheating on you, and wanting some reassurance from us about making that decision to leave!

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81. Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

Thu, 20 Mar 2025 06:40:00 GMT

We talk about the difference between mums and dads and how men get praised for doing the bare minimum, getting told your marriage is over with a letter left in the kitchen and we give advice about that first break up after divorce

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80. Are They Swingers?

Thu, 13 Mar 2025 06:40:00 GMT

We discuss the clues of trying to spot a swinger, finding out your friend was having an affair with your husband and realising it’s time to call it a day with your cheating partner!

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79. Something Is Wrong With Me

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 06:40:00 GMT

We both deeply reflect on our previous relationships after divorce and how we came to accept they weren’t right for us, and we also discuss why it’s important to know as single mums what we offer to the table, knowing our kids are not bagge but a privilege!

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78. His Accountant Sent Him Vagina Pictures

Thu, 27 Feb 2025 06:40:00 GMT

Finding out your husband is having a fling with his accountant! Having to come clean to your ex about your secret new partner and learning to finally DO THE WORK!

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77. Me and My Boyfriend Broke Up

Thu, 20 Feb 2025 06:40:00 GMT

Carly opens up about her break up, we explain how to move forward and let go of feeling attached to your ex, and managing someone with an addiction.

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76. Are We Dating The Same Guy?

Thu, 13 Feb 2025 06:40:00 GMT

Carly shares an emotional update, we hear from the woman who cheated, we get a lovely update from a listener and the dreading question of are we dating the same guy?

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75. Get the F*ck Out

Thu, 06 Feb 2025 06:40:00 GMT

Would you go back to a relationship where there’s no trust? Learning to set boundaries when coparenting, how to help your children handle big emotions about your divorce and finding pills for herpes.

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74. He Was Messaging Other Girls On OnlyFans

Thu, 30 Jan 2025 06:40:00 GMT

We talk about managing your kids emotions and feelings after a break up, having to watch an affair unfold in front of your eyes and catching your partner on ONLY FANS!

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73. He Has 6 Girlfriends

Thu, 23 Jan 2025 06:40:00 GMT

Trigger Warning: Rape

When a man gets caught with 6 girlfriends, hitting rock bottom after finding out about your husbands infidelity and trying to work out if you’re the toxic one!

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72. He Cheated On Me With My Midwife

Thu, 16 Jan 2025 06:40:00 GMT

We dive into the daily mundane life with young kids and how that can impact your relationship with your partner negatively, but how it can be improved. When you take him back time and time again, and you want our advice if he deserves one more chance?? And finding out your partner cheated on you with your midwife!

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71. We May Be The Villain But They Are The Clowns

Thu, 09 Jan 2025 06:40:00 GMT

Tash shares a big update in her relationship, we are hit with a dilemma when you find out your partner cheated on you 2 years ago at the beginning of your relationship, a thank you from a grateful follower for repairing her marriage and realising you chose the wrong man to have a baby with!

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70. If She Asks, Say I Was With You!

Thu, 02 Jan 2025 06:40:00 GMT

Happy new year you to all our amazing listeners! We kick off our first episode of 2025 seeing cracks beginning to show in a new relationship and if someone can really put on a front for a year? Going through a breakup after divorce and wondering how to trust again and it’s time to write down that one goal for 2025!!

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69. He’s Unstable

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 06:40:00 GMT

Our last episode of 2024, we discuss our 2025 goals, we get a final update from the fuck buddy situationship, knowing you should run a mile but can’t seem to stop and finding out your husband is gay.

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68. And People Say Men Can’t Multitask

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 06:40:00 GMT

When you find a new partner but you’re missing the bad boy, a segment of women in male fields, struggling to let go of your abusive ex and we finish with a gorgeous happy ending after a narcissistic relationship.

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67. He Would Shag His Mum If He Could

Thu, 05 Dec 2024 06:40:00 GMT

When your partner just ups and leaves for no reason, talking about how divorce doesn’t fuck up the kids, when he leaves you for his ex and hearing from a man who wants our advice on coparenting

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66. I’m a Girlfriend

Thu, 28 Nov 2024 06:40:00 GMT

Tash makes an announcement about her relationship, Carly has an emotional birthday, we share some epic hacks you’re going to want to know and a fiancé gets up to no good on his stag!

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65. I Knew He Was Proposing

Thu, 21 Nov 2024 06:40:00 GMT

An email that has us disagreeing with the outcome, having someone leave you and blaming it on your weight, how to find hope on dating apps and a confession about a proposal!!!

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64. You’ve been Exposed!!

Thu, 14 Nov 2024 06:40:00 GMT

We get a response from the woman who got cheated on by the man who wrote in to us a few weeks ago!!! We get such a warm felt update from an OG, we hear about a swinging holiday and someone’s feedback on taking our advice.

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63. Your Husband Gave You Chlamydia

Thu, 07 Nov 2024 06:40:00 GMT

We reflect on how far we have come in the last year, we have a sneaky peak of the new love honey calendar, when your husband gets caught with the other woman by your boss, and finding out you caught chlamydia from your cheating husband!!

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62. His Thumb Was Bigger Than His D***

Thu, 31 Oct 2024 06:40:00 GMT

We talk about if you would have kids with someone who only wants to have them for you not him, an update where he got two women pregnant at the SAME time and finding out you’re not only the other women once but TWICE!

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61. Baby Loss Awareness Month

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 05:40:00 GMT

Trigger warning: we talk in detail about baby loss, having to deal with you partner going back to his ex in your darkest days and stalking your ex on social media

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60. I’m One Of Those Men Who Cheated

Thu, 17 Oct 2024 05:40:00 GMT

We hear from the cheating man himself, we share the ultimate instagram hack, finding naked AI pictures of your friends on your partners phone and deciding whether to stay after he cheated or if it’s time to finally let go.

Producer: @TristanHehir

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59. Green Flag or Bare Minimum

Thu, 10 Oct 2024 05:40:00 GMT

Figuring out if it’s a green flag or just bare minimum, getting the inside scoop at a swingers club, seeing the repercussions of taking back that cheating ex husband and finding out you’re the other woman and his whole story was a lie!

Producer: @TristanHehir

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58. I Fell In Love With My Friends Husband

Thu, 03 Oct 2024 05:40:00 GMT

We delve into the world of swinging, hotwifing and dogging, when you fall in love with your friends husband and hearing from someone who found out their husband was cheating today!

Producer: Tristan Hehir

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57. What A Mistake I Made

Thu, 26 Sep 2024 05:40:00 GMT

Tash talks about Blake’s diagnosis, having your partner stop you going ahead with your planned ivf, having your ex breadcrumb you and the ultimate betrayal right under your nose!!

Producer: Tristan Hehir

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56. I Met HER

Thu, 19 Sep 2024 05:40:00 GMT

The first encounter meeting the new woman in your children’s’ life, an update about fuck buddy situation, a woman at rock bottom struggling with the worries of custody and divorce and a man who got two women pregnant…at the same time.

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55. He Had a Porn Addiction

Thu, 12 Sep 2024 05:40:00 GMT

Married to a porn addict with an ending we were not expecting, when he pretends his mental health is the reason for his shady behaviour, and a man’s story when his wife finds another one.

Producer: Tristan Hehir

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54. A LOT happened this summer….

Thu, 05 Sep 2024 05:40:00 GMT

We are so happy to be back and with a new name and look! We have a big catch up to update you on what you’ve been missing, we hear from the ex husband of an email we’ve shared previously and seeing how he never changed because he’s gone and done it to the other woman!!!

Producer: Tristan Hehir

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53. My Husband Had an Affair With a Lesbian

Thu, 25 Jul 2024 05:40:00 GMT

When he’s playing away from home with 3 different women, finding out your husband is having an affair with a lesbian, and the continued abuse from the ex wife.

Producer: Tristan Hehir

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52. Not Just Another One… Another 3

Thu, 18 Jul 2024 05:40:00 GMT

Producer: Tristan Hehir

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51. The Micro Penis Debate...

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 07:06:00 GMT

Learning that sometimes the news we dread is a blessing in disguise, finding love again but losing the naivety of forever, the coparenting dilemma and the micro penis scenario

Producer: Tristan Hehir

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50. All He’s Bringing To The Table Is Chlamydia

Thu, 04 Jul 2024 05:40:00 GMT

A man’s side of the story, the getaway escape, catching your partner paying for prostitutes and do you tell your friend their husband is cheatingProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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49. Can Women Really Have Casual Sex?

Thu, 27 Jun 2024 05:40:00 GMT

We discuss the coparenting holiday, the fuck buddy dilemma when dating a walking red flag, how many chances you should give before it’s time to leave and we talk about having a partner with an addiction problemProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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48. Control Your Hapiness

Thu, 20 Jun 2024 05:40:00 GMT

Talking about the challenges of co-parenting, seeing that therapy can make all the difference and infinitely doesn’t always ruin a relationshipProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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47. The Hunky Hot Fireman

Thu, 13 Jun 2024 05:40:00 GMT

Our theory on being ghosted, whether a rape fantasy is a red flag and a major breakthrough from a previous story.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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46. He Left because I Got Too Fat

Thu, 06 Jun 2024 05:45:00 GMT

When you are to blame for your partner cheating, the 29 year old barmaid, and a dog shit blowj*bProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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45. Gaslighting 101

Thu, 30 May 2024 07:08:00 GMT

Talking about getting the snip, when your partner cheats on you with his ex, working out if money can really buy you happiness and phone full of prostitutes.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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44. What's That Around Your Ankle?

Thu, 23 May 2024 05:40:00 GMT

When you realise you’ve been dating a criminal, trying to catch your sister cheating on her husband and turning lesbian when you’re sick of men!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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43. I Want to Store You In My Basement In a Duffle Bag

Thu, 16 May 2024 05:40:00 GMT

TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Abuse and RapeWe talk about self sabotaging a good thing after dealing with a toxic relationship, the strangest messages you’ve received on dating apps and the sad reality of continuing to stay in a relationship where you see no change.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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42. A 3 Year Age Gap Between your Daughter and Mistress

Thu, 09 May 2024 05:40:00 GMT

When she finds out her partner is cheating on the other woman with another one, the cheating husband whose dating a 21year old when he has a 19 year old daughter, and sharing an experience that allows her to go no contactProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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41. The Home Wrecking Teenage Work Colleague

Thu, 02 May 2024 05:40:00 GMT

When your best friend of 25years starts having sleepovers with your baby daddy, your man finally changes but is it too late and the teenage work colleague who loves a country lane!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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40. The Live Podcast

Thu, 25 Apr 2024 05:40:00 GMT

Marking episode 40 with our first ever live podcast with an audience! We never would have dreamed we could get here and this quickly and that’s because of all our amazing listeners so thank you! We talk about the other woman meeting your kids, how to give a blowjob and being invited to a threesome you weren’t aware of. Here’s to the first of many live events!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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39. He's Literally a Walking Talking Red Flag

Thu, 11 Apr 2024 05:40:00 GMT

We talk about second chances and if they really work, befriending the ex girlfriend and girl boss energy vibes only.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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38. One of the Confessions Is Mine!

Thu, 04 Apr 2024 05:40:00 GMT

It's another dating episode and this might be the most shocking one yet! The stories had us on the edge of our seats, in fits of laughter and then a surprise confession from one of the hosts!

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37. Good Luck to the New Woman

Thu, 28 Mar 2024 06:40:00 GMT

We share your bad scenarios in your relationships which you found yourself in but still stayed! Normalising staying and it’s not always easy to leave. Witnessing Tash’s new glow and hearing from a now happy couple who took on our adviceProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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36. You Make Your Bed, You Lay In It

Thu, 21 Mar 2024 06:40:00 GMT

For the first time we share some updates with you from previous stories we have shared and showing that there is light at the end of the tunnelProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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35. Apparently I Give Better Blowjobs

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 06:40:00 GMT

A lot of laughs and tears this week as we share some male perspectives on relationships as well as some crazy dating stories, listening to your gut and hearing your blowjobs are better than the other woman!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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34. Buy Me a F****** Meal First Hun

Thu, 07 Mar 2024 06:40:00 GMT

We answer some intrusive questions we always get asked… also sharing our biggest icks, green flags and teaching men what women really likeProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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33. Lydia Bright: The Single Mum Club

Thu, 29 Feb 2024 06:40:00 GMT

We talk about becoming single mums and the highs and lows as well as dating, fostering and Lydia shared her new and exciting venture with us!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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32. Hindsight Is A Wonderful Thing

Thu, 22 Feb 2024 06:45:00 GMT

This week we talk about setting those boundaries, learning lessons from past relationships and not staying in those toxic envoirnments.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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31. Babe... He's Married!

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 06:40:00 GMT

A man whose most certainly married, whether you should go back to your maiden name and being submerged in balls….Talking about it all this week!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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30. What Would You Rather??

Thu, 08 Feb 2024 06:45:00 GMT

Valentine’s Day might be approaching but we aren’t talking all roses and sunshine’s this week. We share your date fails, terrible valentines stories and want to know if you would rather give up sex toys or microwaves!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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29. You Made a Lucky Escape

Thu, 01 Feb 2024 13:06:12 GMT

Should you tell your kids about infidelity? Do you admit to having children when dating and how to cope with feeling insecure. We discuss it all on this week’s episode.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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28. He Actually Spent the Evening In a Motorway Hotel

Thu, 25 Jan 2024 06:40:00 GMT

From the obvious red flags to the in law dramas we share your stories and continue to give our opinions to your questions. And don’t worry the confessions will forever be anonymousProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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27. We Broke Up

Thu, 18 Jan 2024 06:40:00 GMT

January seems to be a hard month when it comes to break ups and separation. We talk about this raw topic as one of us goes through the motions of a break upProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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26. Jessica Hayes: An Honest Chat About Being a Single Parent

Thu, 11 Jan 2024 09:29:57 GMT

We talk to Love Island star and influencer Jessica Hayes about becoming a single parent, loss and navigating coparentingTrigger Warning: Baby LossProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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25. A Fresh New Year

Thu, 04 Jan 2024 11:45:40 GMT

This week we talk all about resolutions, lessons learnt and focuses for the year ahead.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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24. He Was Cheating on Me With 4 People

Thu, 21 Dec 2023 06:40:00 GMT

Hearing and sharing your dilemmas and experiences with some shocking stories and giving you our advice the best way we can. We love hearing from you so make sure you continue emailing in anything you want to be shared anonymously of coursehas context menuProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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23. That’s Triggering

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 06:40:00 GMT

This episode we talk about discovering triggers following trauma in past relationships and what we’re doing to work on themProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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22. Shelley J Whitehead: Healing your Heartbreak

Thu, 07 Dec 2023 06:40:00 GMT

We talk all about fixing relationships, how to leave bad ones and learning more about yourself in order to make your relationship successful.Shelly's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shelleyjwhitehead/Shelly's Website:https://shelleyjwhitehead.comProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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21. Tis the Season

Thu, 30 Nov 2023 06:40:00 GMT

We talk about the anxiety surrounding Christmas as a single parent, elf on the shelf and a cheeky surpriseProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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20. The Legal Queen: The Knowledge of all Things Divorce

Thu, 23 Nov 2023 07:40:00 GMT

Helping understand the financial battles, how to split the children and all those questions surrounding divorceProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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19. Daniel Chidiac: His Take on Relationships

Thu, 16 Nov 2023 06:40:00 GMT

We are so excited to have our first guest Daniel Chidiac chatting to us all about relationships. He’s an Australian author with two amazing books which you need to check out. His insight on relationships, and present day dating really resonated with us and we think you will love what he has to say as much as we didProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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18. Reasons to Stay or Leave

Thu, 09 Nov 2023 06:40:00 GMT

We talk about what we believe to be the key reasons to leaving or staying in a relationship. Of course no relationship is perfect but we feel like these topics we touch on our important foundations for successful relationships. We also share our experiences along the way as well as some of your emails.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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17. Trying to Parent With Your Ex

Thu, 02 Nov 2023 06:40:00 GMT

Sharing your children and parenting with someone you’re trying to move on from can be a challenge to say the least. We share both ours and your experiences, hopefully showing you that your feelings and doubts are valid and so normal.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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16. The Downside of Social Media

Thu, 26 Oct 2023 05:40:00 GMT

This week we talk all things social media. Including the impact it has on mum guilt, pressure, comparisons and the list goes on ... Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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15. Mum Guilt... But has Anyone Heard of Dad Guilt?

Thu, 19 Oct 2023 05:40:00 GMT

It’s like the minute you become a mum you feel guilty for everything? You can’t win because even if you don’t feel guilty you feel guilty for not feeling guilty. It’s safe to say mum guilt is real.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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14. He Asked Me If I Wanted to Be Spanked and Whipped

Thu, 05 Oct 2023 09:07:36 GMT

Let's talk about sex fetishes. The sexy, the dirty and the downright weird.

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13. Friends… some you gain and some you lose

Thu, 28 Sep 2023 05:30:00 GMT

This week we talk all things friendship; how it changes with motherhood, going through different situations and how they can serve different purposes as we navigate life.Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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12. Continuing the Healing Journey

Wed, 20 Sep 2023 23:30:01 GMT

Discussing more into our healing journey, our biggest fears of ending our relationships and how it can impact new relationships.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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11. Becoming a Mother

Thu, 14 Sep 2023 05:30:00 GMT

Trigger WarningWe chat all about our first experiences becoming mothers, explaining those overwhelming feelings and sadly some births not going as planned. We also touch on how becoming parents has an effect on your relationship with your partner.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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10. Dating in your 30s

Thu, 07 Sep 2023 05:40:00 GMT

Let’s delve deeper into dating in your 30s, talking about those first date rules and sharing your good and bad experiences as well as ours.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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9. Manifesting a positive mindset

Thu, 31 Aug 2023 05:40:00 GMT

We share in more detail our healing processes through journaling, manifesting and vision boards. The perfect way to make change and you can start now.Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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8. Second Chances

Thu, 24 Aug 2023 05:40:00 GMT

Second chances… do you believe in them? With different opinions, we share our experiences and your stories that you’ve sent in to give you an insight into whether second chances can workProducer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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7. Let’s Talk Dating Apps

Thu, 17 Aug 2023 05:45:00 GMT

It’s time to start dating again and we are here to talk all about dating apps, things to avoid on those first dates and knowing when you’re ready to start dating again after heartbreakProducer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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6. Our First Holiday As Solo Parents

Thu, 10 Aug 2023 05:40:00 GMT

Going on holiday with your children is hard enough but going without your partner was definitely a new challenge for us both in different ways. Also chatting about other firsts as single parents and accepting those changes.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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5. Trusting Again After Heartbreak

Thu, 03 Aug 2023 05:30:00 GMT

When trust is broken it’s hard to believe you will ever get it back. We share our experiences as well as some of yours and what we feel are the next steps in helping to feel like one day you can trust.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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4. Red Flags

Thu, 27 Jul 2023 05:40:00 GMT

Talking about those red flags in relationships that we might be aware of but choose to ignore, or just find it hard to notice when we are living with them.Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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3. New Beginnings

Thu, 20 Jul 2023 05:45:00 GMT

Episode 3 - Finding our feet with our new solo parenting journey and discussing the highs and lows of coparenting. Giving advice on how to tell your children about separation and sharing some of your stories and experiences.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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Motherhood:Not As We Planned (Trailer)

Thu, 13 Jul 2023 14:52:44 GMT

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2. Having your psycho moment

Thu, 13 Jul 2023 05:00:00 GMT

We are talking all about healing and trying to move on from a break up.Learning that this stage isn't linear and hearing some of your stories about those crazy moments you had after a break upProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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1. It's Over

Thu, 13 Jul 2023 05:00:00 GMT

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges and changes one goes through and managing it around your children whilst trying to heal.Come and join us on our journey and we would love to hear anything you want to share to. Email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.comProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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