60 acast.com Conflict Stories Podcast https://shows.acast.com/conflict-stories-podcast en Conflict Stories conflict, stories, conflict resolution, conflict management, dispute resolution, mediation,conflict coaching, conflict management coaching,workplace conflict Conflict Stories Every conflict has a story Every conflict has a story... what's yours?


Conflict is part of life - and while most of us avoid it (and don’t enjoy it!), it can create powerful opportunities for learning, growth + connection.


Join us on Conflict Stories, where real people share their professional + personal experiences of conflict. Through candid conversations, expert hosts – Sam + Scott – normalise conflict, share strategies for navigating it, and reveal how it can lead to deeper understanding + stronger connections.


Conflict Stories shines a light on the human (+ positive) side of conflict.


Tune in - connect, learn + transform!

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]]> Every conflict has a story... what's yours?


Conflict is part of life - and while most of us avoid it (and don’t enjoy it!), it can create powerful opportunities for learning, growth + connection.


Join us on Conflict Stories, where real people share their professional + personal experiences of conflict. Through candid conversations, expert hosts – Sam + Scott – normalise conflict, share strategies for navigating it, and reveal how it can lead to deeper understanding + stronger connections.


Conflict Stories shines a light on the human (+ positive) side of conflict.


Tune in - connect, learn + transform!

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]]> false Conflict Stories info+6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d@mg-eu.acast.com 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d conflict-stories-podcast episodic https://assets.pippa.io/shows/cover/1745277272210-713d4dbc-785f-4791-a59c-d99c8053c4d7.jpeg https://shows.acast.com/conflict-stories-podcast Conflict Stories Podcast CS - S2 Ep.02: Stigma resilience and courage in mental health and mediation CS - S2 Ep.02: Stigma resilience and courage in mental health and mediation Wed, 25 Mar 2026 13:30:00 GMT 1:01:40 69c1d48a62f6c66afed9ccb6 false https://conflictstories.com 69c1d48a62f6c66afed9ccb6 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d cs-s2-ep02-stigma-resilience-and-courage-in-mental-health-an Dan Berstein full 2 2 US-based mediator, author and mental health advocate Dan Berstein brings a powerful perspective shaped by his lived experience with bipolar disorder and his work in dispute resolution. Founder of MH Mediate and co-founder of the Dispute Resolution in Mental Health Initiative at the CUNY Dispute Resolution Center, Dan has spent more than a decade helping courts, legal practitioners and organisations better navigate mental health and conflict. Through personal stories - including family estrangement and professional challenges - Dan shines a light on stigma, resilience and the courage it takes to find voice + help others do the same.

 

Special Note: We recorded this episode in June 2025. Dan asked to delay the release because he was struggling with next steps related to the mental illness stigma conflicts discussed in the episode. Now, he has launched DisabilityRadar.com to help anyone who might be targeted by the exclusionary mental illness "radars" we discussed in this episode. He also suggested we air the podcast now, nine months after it was recorded.

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]]> US-based mediator, author and mental health advocate Dan Berstein brings a powerful perspective shaped by his lived experience with bipolar disorder and his work in dispute resolution. Founder of MH Mediate and co-founder of the Dispute Resolution in Mental Health Initiative at the CUNY Dispute Resolution Center, Dan has spent more than a decade helping courts, legal practitioners and organisations better navigate mental health and conflict. Through personal stories - including family estrangement and professional challenges - Dan shines a light on stigma, resilience and the courage it takes to find voice + help others do the same.

 

Special Note: We recorded this episode in June 2025. Dan asked to delay the release because he was struggling with next steps related to the mental illness stigma conflicts discussed in the episode. Now, he has launched DisabilityRadar.com to help anyone who might be targeted by the exclusionary mental illness "radars" we discussed in this episode. He also suggested we air the podcast now, nine months after it was recorded.

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]]> CS - S2 Ep.01: Newsrooms #MeToo and AI CS - S2 Ep.01: Newsrooms #MeToo and AI Sun, 08 Feb 2026 06:30:00 GMT 48:09 69817e2813c1477af2f69820 false https://conflictstories.com 69817e2813c1477af2f69820 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d cs12-newsrooms-metoo-and-ai Tracey Spicer AM full 2 1 Award-winning journalist, best-selling author and change-maker Tracey Spicer shares her powerful journey through conflict in the media, advocacy and public life. 

 

From navigating discrimination in Australia’s 1980s and 1990s newsrooms to leading the nation’s #MeToo movement, Tracey shares the personal cost of speaking truth to power. 

 

She opens up about carrying the weight of thousands of victim-survivor disclosures, the online abuse that followed, the impact of long COVID on her wellbeing, and her ongoing concern with bias-built AI. 

 

A trailblazer for social change, Tracey reflects on speaking up in conflict, and the self-care required to stay the course.

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]]> Award-winning journalist, best-selling author and change-maker Tracey Spicer shares her powerful journey through conflict in the media, advocacy and public life. 

 

From navigating discrimination in Australia’s 1980s and 1990s newsrooms to leading the nation’s #MeToo movement, Tracey shares the personal cost of speaking truth to power. 

 

She opens up about carrying the weight of thousands of victim-survivor disclosures, the online abuse that followed, the impact of long COVID on her wellbeing, and her ongoing concern with bias-built AI. 

 

A trailblazer for social change, Tracey reflects on speaking up in conflict, and the self-care required to stay the course.

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]]> CS11: Inner peace to outer peace CS11: Inner peace to outer peace Wed, 17 Dec 2025 06:30:00 GMT 48:38 693ca7ff9bb376c45d6c2b1a false https://conflictstories.com 693ca7ff9bb376c45d6c2b1a 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d cs11-inner-peace-to-outer-peace Mayur Katariya full 1 11 Meditation teacher, filmmaker + university leader Mayur Katariya has lived a life shaped by cultural crossroads and inner evolution. Growing up in Gujarat, conflict largely lay beneath the surface of unspoken expectations; coming to Australia revealed how a more forthright communication style can bring what’s hidden into the light. Mayur’s award-winning film Ek Aasha, amplifying the journeys of transgender communities in India, reflects his belief in storytelling as a force for justice, empathy + visibility. As a long-time meditation practitioner and teacher grounded in non-dual philosophy, Mayur brings a calm, insightful approach to conflict - exploring how awareness, compassion and presence can transform how we understand ourselves and each other.

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]]> Meditation teacher, filmmaker + university leader Mayur Katariya has lived a life shaped by cultural crossroads and inner evolution. Growing up in Gujarat, conflict largely lay beneath the surface of unspoken expectations; coming to Australia revealed how a more forthright communication style can bring what’s hidden into the light. Mayur’s award-winning film Ek Aasha, amplifying the journeys of transgender communities in India, reflects his belief in storytelling as a force for justice, empathy + visibility. As a long-time meditation practitioner and teacher grounded in non-dual philosophy, Mayur brings a calm, insightful approach to conflict - exploring how awareness, compassion and presence can transform how we understand ourselves and each other.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS10: The inner game behind outer success CS10: The inner game behind outer success Wed, 12 Nov 2025 06:30:00 GMT 47:40 690ed2cac1ed8717c5f6bc43 false https://conflictstories.com 690ed2cac1ed8717c5f6bc43 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d cs10-the-inner-game-behind-outer-success Ian Stephens full 1 10 Award-winning speaker, author, and sales + mindset master - Ian Stephens’ story is one of grit, reinvention + deep personal growth. Born “cold, wet, bald and hungry… and then things got worse,” Ian’s journey took him from a tough family upbringing to leading a $200 million sales team by age 28 - and losing it all a year later. Rebuilding himself from the inside out, Ian unlocked the power of mindset + purpose, becoming one of Australia’s most sought-after speakers and trainers in sales + leadership development.

 

Ian unpacks how early family conflict, two marriage breakups, and a search for self-understanding led him to his life’s work: helping others transform pressure into performance. Ian reveals how emotional intelligence, blended with behavioural strategies, can transform communication and strengthen relationships. A raw, wise + unexpectedly funny exploration of the inner game behind outer success.

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]]> Award-winning speaker, author, and sales + mindset master - Ian Stephens’ story is one of grit, reinvention + deep personal growth. Born “cold, wet, bald and hungry… and then things got worse,” Ian’s journey took him from a tough family upbringing to leading a $200 million sales team by age 28 - and losing it all a year later. Rebuilding himself from the inside out, Ian unlocked the power of mindset + purpose, becoming one of Australia’s most sought-after speakers and trainers in sales + leadership development.

 

Ian unpacks how early family conflict, two marriage breakups, and a search for self-understanding led him to his life’s work: helping others transform pressure into performance. Ian reveals how emotional intelligence, blended with behavioural strategies, can transform communication and strengthen relationships. A raw, wise + unexpectedly funny exploration of the inner game behind outer success.

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]]> CS9: When the stories that once silenced us set us free CS9: When the stories that once silenced us set us free Wed, 08 Oct 2025 06:30:00 GMT 46:18 68e398b42298c9c49d0cbfdf false https://conflictstories.com 68e398b42298c9c49d0cbfdf 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d thestoriesthatoncesilencedussetusfree Debbie Dunn full 1 9 Narrative therapist and mediator Debbie Dunn shares her remarkable journey from being dishonourably discharged from the British Women’s Air Force for her same-sex relationship to becoming a pioneering voice in narrative mediation and workplace bullying support. Debbie delves into her personal story of resilience, the significance of narrative techniques in mediation and the transformative power of sharing one's story to move from shame to strength. Debbie's story is a testament to how sharing our narratives - including those shaped through struggle - can become an act of courage, connection + change.

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]]> Narrative therapist and mediator Debbie Dunn shares her remarkable journey from being dishonourably discharged from the British Women’s Air Force for her same-sex relationship to becoming a pioneering voice in narrative mediation and workplace bullying support. Debbie delves into her personal story of resilience, the significance of narrative techniques in mediation and the transformative power of sharing one's story to move from shame to strength. Debbie's story is a testament to how sharing our narratives - including those shaped through struggle - can become an act of courage, connection + change.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS8: What do politics, comedy and conflict have in common? CS8: What do politics, comedy and conflict have in common? Tue, 02 Sep 2025 07:00:00 GMT 1:00:17 68a2a45b59047459269f582d true https://conflictstories.com 68a2a45b59047459269f582d 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d cs8-what-do-politics-comedy-and-conflict-have-in-common Mandy Nolan full 1 8 This podcast episode features an in-depth conversation with Mandy Nolan, a comedian, author, speaker, and politician. Hosted by Sam Hardy and Scott Dutton, the discussion explores Mandy’s tumultuous upbringing marked by domestic violence, the role of humor in navigating life's challenges, and her experiences in stand-up comedy and politics. Mandy discusses her ability to manage conflict, including interactions with audiences and political opponents, emphasizing the importance of resilience, compassion, and listening. The episode also touches on her unconventional family dynamics and her efforts to maintain constructive relationships with her ex-partners for the sake of their children. Through various anecdotes, Mandy illustrates how humor, empathy, and open-mindedness can transform conflict into opportunities for growth.

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]]> This podcast episode features an in-depth conversation with Mandy Nolan, a comedian, author, speaker, and politician. Hosted by Sam Hardy and Scott Dutton, the discussion explores Mandy’s tumultuous upbringing marked by domestic violence, the role of humor in navigating life's challenges, and her experiences in stand-up comedy and politics. Mandy discusses her ability to manage conflict, including interactions with audiences and political opponents, emphasizing the importance of resilience, compassion, and listening. The episode also touches on her unconventional family dynamics and her efforts to maintain constructive relationships with her ex-partners for the sake of their children. Through various anecdotes, Mandy illustrates how humor, empathy, and open-mindedness can transform conflict into opportunities for growth.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS7: Self care and assume good intent CS7: Self care and assume good intent Tue, 05 Aug 2025 08:30:00 GMT 38:52 688f256b0bb12601f066a48e false https://conflictstories.com 688f256b0bb12601f066a48e 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d cs7-self-care-and-assume-good-intent Stacey Ross full 1 7 CEO, Advocate and Change-Maker Stacey Ross is a visionary and dynamic leader transforming how communities respond to domestic, family and sexual violence. As CEO of The Centre for Women & Co. and Men & Co. Services, she leads with purpose - delivering vital support across SE QLD and driving social justice reform nationwide.

 

Stacey shares her leadership approach - turning conflict into growth, embedding values into daily practice and prioritising self-care + staff empowerment as essential to culture. She reveals why self-awareness and assuming good intent are leadership superpowers, and how they sustain high-performance teams in high-pressure, purpose-driven environments.

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]]> CEO, Advocate and Change-Maker Stacey Ross is a visionary and dynamic leader transforming how communities respond to domestic, family and sexual violence. As CEO of The Centre for Women & Co. and Men & Co. Services, she leads with purpose - delivering vital support across SE QLD and driving social justice reform nationwide.

 

Stacey shares her leadership approach - turning conflict into growth, embedding values into daily practice and prioritising self-care + staff empowerment as essential to culture. She reveals why self-awareness and assuming good intent are leadership superpowers, and how they sustain high-performance teams in high-pressure, purpose-driven environments.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS6: High-stakes conflict - and a deeply human approach to resolving it CS6: High-stakes conflict - and a deeply human approach to resolving it Wed, 09 Jul 2025 07:30:00 GMT 37:59 686780f43b5dc9fc22cb29b0 false https://conflictstories.com 686780f43b5dc9fc22cb29b0 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d high-stakes-conflict-and-a-deeply-human-approach Kieran Plasto full 1 6 Clinical psychologist, former police negotiator and counter-terrorism expert Kieran Plasto shares powerful insights from a career spanning armed sieges to executive tensions. With experience across law enforcement and HR, he brings a rare depth of perspective to high-stakes conflict - and a deeply human approach to resolving it. Kieran unpacks his philosophy of conflict resolution, grounded in dignity, kindness and the often-overlooked power of listening. He shares a gripping story of crisis intervention with a young offender, and reflects on why humility and curiosity are superpowers in navigating conflict across cultures, contexts and careers.

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]]> Clinical psychologist, former police negotiator and counter-terrorism expert Kieran Plasto shares powerful insights from a career spanning armed sieges to executive tensions. With experience across law enforcement and HR, he brings a rare depth of perspective to high-stakes conflict - and a deeply human approach to resolving it. Kieran unpacks his philosophy of conflict resolution, grounded in dignity, kindness and the often-overlooked power of listening. He shares a gripping story of crisis intervention with a young offender, and reflects on why humility and curiosity are superpowers in navigating conflict across cultures, contexts and careers.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS5: From being held hostage to institutional discrimination CS5: From being held hostage to institutional discrimination Mon, 02 Jun 2025 14:30:00 GMT 1:05:06 683d4743708e9fc9b41d1efa false https://conflictstories.com 683d4743708e9fc9b41d1efa 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d cs-from-being-held-hostage-to-institutional-discrimination full 1 5 TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of trauma, discrimination, captivity and sexual assault which some listeners may find distressing.

In this episode of the Conflict Stories podcast, Sam and Scott speak with Rabia Siddique, an international humanitarian lawyer and former senior British Army officer. Rabia recounts her journey from a challenging multicultural childhood, through traumatic experiences, including being a hostage in Iraq, to her legal battle against institutional discrimination. She shares insights on personal resilience, the importance of justice, and the power of fighting for equality. Despite facing numerous adversities, Rabia's story is one of immense courage and unwavering commitment to human rights.

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]]> TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of trauma, discrimination, captivity and sexual assault which some listeners may find distressing.

In this episode of the Conflict Stories podcast, Sam and Scott speak with Rabia Siddique, an international humanitarian lawyer and former senior British Army officer. Rabia recounts her journey from a challenging multicultural childhood, through traumatic experiences, including being a hostage in Iraq, to her legal battle against institutional discrimination. She shares insights on personal resilience, the importance of justice, and the power of fighting for equality. Despite facing numerous adversities, Rabia's story is one of immense courage and unwavering commitment to human rights.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS4: Emotional conflicts in property auctions CS4: Emotional conflicts in property auctions Wed, 14 May 2025 02:30:00 GMT 54:44 68229253043ee33ab6b08bca false https://conflictstories.com 68229253043ee33ab6b08bca 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d conflict-stories-episode-4 Tom Panos full 1 4 In this episode of Conflict Stories, Sam Hardy and Scott Dutton are joined by Tom Panos, a renowned real estate coach and auctioneer. Tom shares his experiences growing up in a conflict-averse Greek family, the challenges of managing family conflicts with his children, and the high-stakes emotional conflicts that arise during property auctions. He discusses the importance of pausing, being curious, and assuming that everyone is doing their best in conflict situations. Panos also touches on his personal battles with cancer and how they have influenced his perspective on life and conflict resolution.

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]]> In this episode of Conflict Stories, Sam Hardy and Scott Dutton are joined by Tom Panos, a renowned real estate coach and auctioneer. Tom shares his experiences growing up in a conflict-averse Greek family, the challenges of managing family conflicts with his children, and the high-stakes emotional conflicts that arise during property auctions. He discusses the importance of pausing, being curious, and assuming that everyone is doing their best in conflict situations. Panos also touches on his personal battles with cancer and how they have influenced his perspective on life and conflict resolution.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS3: A machete wielding man and an old lady with a cup of tea CS3: A machete wielding man and an old lady with a cup of tea Mon, 21 Apr 2025 23:37:06 GMT 49:17 6806d41e1da48c8a668a15c9 false https://conflictstories.com 6806d41e1da48c8a668a15c9 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d conflict-stories-episode-3 Bruce Argyle full 1 3 Mediator and social justice advocate Bruce Argyle reflects on a lifetime of resolving conflict - from youth work and parent-teen mediations to navigating high-stakes boardroom disputes and multi-party conflicts in a hospital ward.


He shares the lessons of over 700 mediations, a vineyard sabotage, a Highlander sword siege, and the art of actually being heard. With humour, humility, and heart, Bruce explores what makes mediation work—and why respect is at the centre of it all.

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]]> Mediator and social justice advocate Bruce Argyle reflects on a lifetime of resolving conflict - from youth work and parent-teen mediations to navigating high-stakes boardroom disputes and multi-party conflicts in a hospital ward.


He shares the lessons of over 700 mediations, a vineyard sabotage, a Highlander sword siege, and the art of actually being heard. With humour, humility, and heart, Bruce explores what makes mediation work—and why respect is at the centre of it all.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS2: When your father sues you CS2: When your father sues you Mon, 21 Apr 2025 23:23:24 GMT 55:02 6806d36c3605ee881c030471 false https://conflictstories.com 6806d36c3605ee881c030471 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d conflict-stories-episode-2 Mimi Kwa full 1 2 Journalist and author Mimi Kwa opens up about her tumultuous family history, intergenerational trauma, and journey to healing. She recounts her father’s lawsuit against her, the deep inner work it sparked, and the role of mindfulness and acceptance in moving forward.


Mimi also shares insights from her career, including a memorable clash with Russell Crowe, exploring how conflict - both personal + professional - can shape us.

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]]> Journalist and author Mimi Kwa opens up about her tumultuous family history, intergenerational trauma, and journey to healing. She recounts her father’s lawsuit against her, the deep inner work it sparked, and the role of mindfulness and acceptance in moving forward.


Mimi also shares insights from her career, including a memorable clash with Russell Crowe, exploring how conflict - both personal + professional - can shape us.

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> CS1 Introducing your hosts CS1 Introducing your hosts Mon, 21 Apr 2025 23:20:17 GMT 52:19 6806d2b21aabee4d38dc0b4a false https://conflictstories.com 6806d2b21aabee4d38dc0b4a 6806d1ef4c1756d49cfd751d conflict-stories-pilot Samantha Hardy and Scott Dutton full 1 1 Meet your hosts, Sam Hardy + Scott Dutton – two dynamic voices in the world of conflict resolution.


In this premiere episode, Sam - a ‘pracademic’ – unpacks how conflict can entrap or empower. While Scott - the ‘Conflict Whisperer’ - brings years of wisdom from the

frontlines of mediation + conflict training.


Together, they share the inspiration behind Conflict Stories, drawing on professional + personal experiences. They dive into the emotional landscape of conflict, the

power of mindfulness + self-reflection, and how cultural perspectives shape conflict.


Get ready for real talk, practical tools and expert insights to help you navigate conflict with clarity + confidence!

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

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]]> Meet your hosts, Sam Hardy + Scott Dutton – two dynamic voices in the world of conflict resolution.


In this premiere episode, Sam - a ‘pracademic’ – unpacks how conflict can entrap or empower. While Scott - the ‘Conflict Whisperer’ - brings years of wisdom from the

frontlines of mediation + conflict training.


Together, they share the inspiration behind Conflict Stories, drawing on professional + personal experiences. They dive into the emotional landscape of conflict, the

power of mindfulness + self-reflection, and how cultural perspectives shape conflict.


Get ready for real talk, practical tools and expert insights to help you navigate conflict with clarity + confidence!

Keep track of new stories at https://conflictstories.com.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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