MissPerceived

Breast Cancer, Big Dreams, and the Mental Load of Complex Care

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 11:07:00 GMT

Right before launching her book Drained: Reduce Your Mental Load to Do Less and Be More, Leah found a lump in her breast on vacation and was diagnosed with breast cancer. In this deeply personal episode, she shares what it feels like to carry the emotional thinking work of a serious health crisis on top of everyday life: worrying about your child’s future, your career, your dreams, and everyone else’s feelings while trying to process your own.

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Harsh Truth: Your Parents Can’t Fix This For You

Tue, 07 Apr 2026 11:07:00 GMT

In this episode, Leah says the quiet part out loud: your parents (and older generations) are probably not the people who can help you solve your biggest life problems right now. Drawing on themes from Drained: Reduce Your Mental Load to Do Less and Be More, she unpacks why the world you’re managing—pandemics, political instability, climate anxiety, precarious work, AI, and always-on social media—is fundamentally different from the one they came of age in.

She explores what happens when you go looking “up” or “down” generations for support and end up with blame, outdated advice, or total misunderstanding instead of comfort. Leah talks about the mental load of carrying your own crises and doing relationship repair across generations, and offers a compassionate reframe: stop asking people to understand a world they don’t live in, and start finding the people who can actually see you, support you, and tell you what you most need to hear—you’re doing a great job.

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The Real Reason You're So Exhausted (it's not what you think)

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 11:07:00 GMT

Today, Professor Leah pulls back the curtain on a sneaky problem hiding inside your already overloaded brain: duplicated mental load. Drawing on her new book Drained: Reduce Your Mental Load to Do Less and Be More, she explains why mental load is emotional thinking work, how it stretches across eight types and seven stages, and why so much of it is being quietly double- (or triple-) handled in our homes and relationships.

Leah shares a story about how one unpredictable morning (RIP Spuds) blew up her carefully planned day, then uses it to show why mental load is more like a limited bank account than an endless resource. You’ll learn how to spot where you and others are all worrying about the same tasks, when that duplication actually helps, and when it’s just burning you out. If you’re waking up exhausted, constantly planning for everyone, and wondering why you never feel “finished,” this conversation will help you see your mental load clearly and give you a simple first step: find the duplication, and drop what isn’t yours to carry.

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How to Talk to Your Partner About the Mental Load Without Fighting

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 11:07:00 GMT

If every conversation about housework, childcare, careers, and the mental load seems to end in frustration, resentment, or a full-blown fight, this episode is for you. Leah breaks down why these talks get stuck, how gender norms shape what each partner hears, and why leading with your dreams instead of your overwhelm can change the entire conversation.

Drawing from her research and her upcoming book Drained: Reduce Your Mental Load to Do Less and Be More, Leah shares a practical approach for getting clearer on what you want, what support you need, and who is actually best equipped to help you get there. She also explains why both partners may be telling the truth about their fears, even when they feel like they’re speaking completely different languages.

This episode offers a powerful shift: instead of asking, “Why aren’t you doing what I’m doing?”, ask, “How do we support each other’s goals as a family?” Leah’s advice is equal parts honest, compassionate, and actionable, with a focus on reducing conflict, sharing the load more fairly, and building a relationship that makes room for both people’s ambitions.

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The Parenting Problem No One Prepared Us For: Social Media

Tue, 17 Mar 2026 11:07:00 GMT

Should kids be on social media? Or should we ban it entirely?

In this episode of Misperceived, we tackle one of the most complicated parenting questions today: social media and children.

Parents everywhere are struggling to figure out the right approach. Should kids have smartphones early so they can learn how to navigate the digital world? Should parents strictly monitor and limit access? Or should children stay off social media entirely until they’re older?

The truth is—there’s no simple answer.

As a social scientist who studies the mental load, I’ve heard from countless parents who say that monitoring their children’s digital lives is one of the biggest sources of stress and cognitive burden they face today. From worrying about online safety and misinformation to navigating addictive algorithms and social pressure, parents are being asked to manage something previous generations never had to deal with.

In this episode, we explore:

Why social media creates a huge mental load for parents
The challenge of raising kids in a digital-first world
Why government bans on social media for teens may not work
How algorithms and addictive content affect young people
The growing problem of misinformation and polarization online
Why parents cannot solve this problem alone
What a society-wide response to social media addiction might look like

We also talk about what it means to help kids become responsible digital citizens, how to have honest conversations about what they see online, and why this issue requires solutions from families, tech companies, schools, and governments—not just parents.

If you’re a parent, educator, or anyone trying to understand how technology is shaping the next generation, this episode is for you.

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The Coming Care Crisis: Gray Tsunami, Mental Load, and Why Our Systems Will Break

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode of Misperceived, Leah unpacks the “gray tsunami” and explains why the real future-of-work crisis isn’t just AI—it’s caregiving. She widens the lens on care beyond moms and little kids to include aging parents, partners, friends, disabled family members, and even our future selves, showing how this rising care demand is slamming into already maxed‑out mental loads and pushing especially women out of the labor market. Leah breaks down what an aging population means for our economies, workplaces, and daily lives, why relying on families’ unpaid labor and low‑wage workers is an unsustainable strategy, and how putting care—not just GDP and productivity—at the center could spark new policies, business models, and community solutions. You’ll be invited to imagine what a “care-first” society and workplace might look like, and how we can start building it before the wave fully hits.

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Is It Really Your Fault? How Social Norms Shape Your Life

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode of Misperceived, Leah asks a deceptively simple question: Is it actually your fault—or did society make you do it? Drawing on her training as a sociologist and her book Drained: Reduce Your Mental Load to Do Less and Be More, she breaks down what sociology is (and how it’s different from psychology) and shows how invisible social norms quietly script our choices, behaviors, and sense of failure. From the myth that women are “naturally” great multitaskers to the pressure to be the perfect mom with the perfect home—and the stereotype that dads are inherently bad at caregiving—Leah reveals how these stories overload women, sideline men, and keep everyone stuck. You’ll learn how to spot when you’re carrying the blame for broken systems instead of actual mistakes, how to question the “shoulds,” “musts,” and “what ifs” running your life, and how to start using sociology as your superpower so you can move through the world with more agency, less guilt, and a lot more self-compassion.

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This is Actually Why You Wake Up Exhausted

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode of Misperceived, Leah gets honest about her late-night doomscrolling habit and why “just checking your phone” leaves so many women wired, anxious, and exhausted the next day. Drawing from her research and her upcoming book Drained: Reduce Your Mental Load to Do Less and Be More, she explains how constant exposure to heavy news and social media pings our mental load to care, to keep our families safe, and to emotionally support others—draining the limited energy we need for work, parenting, and showing up in the world with any sense of power or hope. You’ll learn how to see doomscrolling as a mental load leak instead of a moral obligation, what to do in those 2 a.m. wakeups instead, and how to realign your time, feeds, and attention so you can actually rest and still have capacity to take meaningful action on the things you care about.

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Dream Building in a Broken System: Why Your Mental Load Isn’t the Problem

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 12:07:00 GMT

In this episode of Misperceived, Leah pulls back the curtain on a powerful mental load category from her forthcoming book, Drained: Reduce Your Mental Load to Do Less and Be More—dream building. She explains how women’s dreams get quietly starved as they carry invisible, boundaryless, and enduring thinking work for their families, workplaces, and communities, and why that’s a loss for everyone, not just women. Leah digs into why work and caregiving feel impossible to combine, why so many women are stepping out of the labor market, and how ageism and a rapidly changing, AI-driven economy make it so hard to get back in. You’ll hear why you cannot personally fix broken systems, why adaptability is now a core future-of-work skill, and how the Mental Load Audit can help you make small, strategic shifts toward the life you actually want—without burning yourself out trying to “do it all.”

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Valentine’s Day, Mental Load, and Loving Yourself

Mon, 09 Feb 2026 16:36:49 GMT

On this episode Prof Leah breaks down why Valentine’s Day can feel less like a celebration and more like a mental load marathon for moms, partners, and singles. She talks about the pressure to plan the “perfect” day, the emotional exhaustion of dating apps, and the hidden expectations women carry around romance, gifts, and feeling seen. You’ll hear practical reframes for taking the pressure down, spreading love across all 365 days, and turning February 14th into a day of self-nurturing on your own terms

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Unlearning Body Shame

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 12:07:00 GMT

On this episode, Leah explores how generational messages have taught women to feel shame about their changing bodies—from tight jeans and bodysuits in the 80s and 90s to today’s high-waisted shorts and leggings. She reflects on growing up hyperaware of every outline and curve, and how that discomfort still echoes when she sees her own daughter getting dressed. Through personal stories, a feminist lens on choice and self-expression, and a look at how media and beauty culture have policed women’s bodies, Leah asks what it means to stop hiding, stop apologizing, and allow girls and women to exist in their bodies without embarrassment. In the end, she celebrates a new generation that seems less interested in shrinking themselves and more interested in living fully, visibly, and unapologetically in the skin they’re in.

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Illness and Guilt: When Being Sick Feels Like Failing

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 12:00:00 GMT

Everyone is sick right now—and somehow, you still feel bad for needing to lie down. In this episode of Misperceived, Leah unpacks why so many women feel guilty when they get sick, even when their families are fine, fed, and happily living on Hot Pockets and Uncrustables.

Drawing on global stories from the U.S., Australia, and Sweden, she breaks down how culture, capitalism, and the lack of a safety net teach us that illness is a personal failure and rest is something we have to earn. She then connects this to the mental load of motherhood: when you’re the keeper of everyone’s schedules, prescriptions, and needs, being “out of commission” feels dangerous—like everything might fall apart.

Leah offers a different script: letting others step in is not neglect, it’s necessary. You are one essential piece of your family, not the only one. You deserve rest in your body and your mind without narrating a guilt spiral the whole time. If you’ve ever felt anxious under the covers instead of actually recovering, this episode is your permission to be sick, be cared for, and stop apologizing for being human.

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Stop Trying to Fix Your Whole Life in January: Mental Load, Resolutions, and Real Rest

Tue, 20 Jan 2026 12:07:00 GMT

January isn’t a fresh start if you’re already running on fumes from making everyone else’s holidays magical. In this episode of MissPerceived, Leah unpacks why so many women swing from December over-giving straight into “new year, new me” overachieving—launching businesses, overhauling their bodies, and rewriting their whole lives before February even hits.

She breaks down the mental load hangover, why perfectionist resolutions backfire, and how to set goals that are actually aligned with your values, your energy, and your real life. You’ll hear why you don’t need to shrink, hustle, or “upgrade” yourself to deserve rest, and how to enter 2026 from a place of “I’m already enough” instead of “I am the project.”

If you’re tired of vision boards, bingo-card resolutions, and self-improvement that feels like self-punishment, this one’s your permission slip to do less, eat carbs, and build a life that expands you instead of drains you.

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Post-Holiday Chaos, Mental Load, and Why You're So Exhausted

Tue, 13 Jan 2026 12:00:00 GMT

Feeling like you have to declutter the entire house, redesign your space, and fix consumerism itself… all before the tree is even down? This episode breaks down the post-holiday “mental load hangover” and explains why the pressure to create and then undo all the holiday magic is not a personal failing, but part of the eight types of mental load described in Leah’s upcoming book, Drained. Leah dives into magic making, gendered expectations around home and mess, and why your cortisol spikes when your space is chaotic, then offers a way to audit your mental load so you can spend your energy more strategically and give yourself some grace this season.

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Are Women Really “Less Ambitious”? The Truth Behind the Research

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 11:00:00 GMT

Did women suddenly lose their ambition—or did the 2025 Lean In & McKinsey “Women in the Workplace” report give everyone the wrong story about what’s actually going on? In this episode, Professor Leah takes a blowtorch to the idea of a so‑called “ambition gap,” arguing that the real problem isn’t women’s drive, it’s burnout, mental load, and structural barriers at work and at home. Leah breaks down why women, who now earn more degrees and participate in the workforce at historically high rates, can still look at the next promotion and think “I literally cannot carry one more thing,” while men are socially rewarded for chasing the top job.

You’ll learn:

How stats about “wanting a promotion” are being misused to claim women are less ambitious than men—and why that’s a myth.

The role of mental load, caregiving expectations, and workplace bias in draining women’s capacity long before ambition ever disappears.

Why reframing this as a burnout and structural problem—not a confidence or personality flaw—is key to closing gender gaps in leadership.

If you’ve ever been told you’re “not ambitious enough” while simultaneously doing everything for everyone, this episode is your permission slip to call bullshit—and to start imagining a version of success that doesn’t require you to disappear to achieve it. Keywords: women in the workplace, ambition gap, Lean In report, McKinsey, burnout, mental load, working moms, gender bias, promotions, women’s careers.

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Is Your Messy House Making You Sick? Clutter, Cortisol, and the Invisible Mental Load

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Is the clutter in your home actually messing with your health—or are you just “too sensitive”? In this episode of Misperceived, Professor Leah Ruppaner breaks down the science on clutter, stress, and the mental load, including a landmark UCLA study showing that women who describe their homes as cluttered and unfinished have elevated cortisol patterns across the day, while men in the same homes don’t show the same spike. Leah unpacks why a messy house hits women harder, how invisible labor and constant “noticing” turn piles of stuff into a 24/7 to‑do list, and why you are not the problem for feeling overwhelmed by dishes, laundry, and half‑done projects.

You’ll learn:

How clutter, disorganization, and “unfinished” spaces are linked to women’s cortisol, mood, and long‑term health.
Why gendered expectations around housework and presentation of the home make women feel personally judged by the mess, even when everyone lives in it.
Practical ways to lower your mental load without turning yourself into the unpaid project manager of everyone else’s stuff—plus how to claim one restorative space that’s just for you.

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Who Do They Call First? The Hidden Mental Load of Being the “Default Parent”

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode of MissPerceived, Professor Leah unpacks what really happens when something goes wrong with your kids and the school, coach, or doctor has to pick up the phone: who do they call first, and why is it almost always mom? Drawing on new research from the Quarterly Journal of Economics and her own mental load interviews, Leah breaks down how schools and other institutions default to mothers as the family “911 call center,” even when parents explicitly ask them to call dad instead. She explains how this constant correspondence quietly reshapes women’s careers, health, and relationships, and offers practical ways dads, schools, and couples can push back on these norms so the burden is shared more fairly at home

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Your College Bestie Changed Your Brain (And Your Adult Friendships)

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Why do college besties hit different from every other friendship you’ve had since? In this episode of Misperceived, Prof Leah breaks down what makes university friendships so intense and enduring, weaving in research on brain development, “self‑authorship,” and how women use friendships to test ideas, build identity, and stay sane in a hostile world. She explains why that 3 a.m. pizza‑and‑life‑chat friend often becomes your lifelong go‑to for truth, comfort, and tough love—and why those bonds set an almost impossibly high bar for adult friendships that get squeezed into work, school pick‑ups, and spin class. This episode doubles as a love letter to your uni bestie and an invitation to notice (and nurture) the people who have walked with you through your biggest growth spurts, even if they didn’t happen on a beach campus with epic house parties.

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Helicopter Parenting, Teen Sex, and the Crushing Mental Load

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 12:00:00 GMT

When does keeping your kids safe turn into quietly wrecking their chances to grow up? In this episode, Prof Leah unpacks teen dating—covenants, text surveillance, and all—and asks what happens when parents’ fear of the future swallows their kids’ present. Drawing on her research on the mental load (and her forthcoming book Drained), she connects helicopter parenting, constant digital surveillance, and perfection pressure to teens’ isolation, anxiety, and lack of room to fail, urging parents to back off, drop the impossible standards, and let kids be gloriously imperfect humans.

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Phone a Friend: Why Texting Your Bestie Is Science-Backed Stress Relief

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 08:00:00 GMT

Ever feel like your day is just one “Are you kidding me?” moment after another? This week, Prof. Leah breaks down why some meetings should be illegal, how flat tires seem to know when you’re at your limit, and why venting to your best friend might actually be the healthiest thing you can do after a week of emotional overload . Drawing on new research from the Journal of Adolescent Health, we look at how teens—and adults—really cope with stress, and why texting a trusted friend trumps doomscrolling or actually sitting with your feelings (no judgment if you still want that bath and a glass of wine) .

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How’s Dad Doing? The New Mental Load of Fatherhood

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 08:00:00 GMT

On this episode of MissPerceived, Leah flips the script on the mental load, shifting focus from mothers to the evolving experience of dads. Drawing from new research and hundreds of interviews across the US and Australia, Leah unpacks how modern fathers are navigating emotional thinking work-what she calls the “mental load logics”-while managing family, work, and parenting standards that have changed almost overnight. From comparing themselves to their own fathers (as anti-models or “good, but I can do better”) to wrestling with gendered expectations in their partnerships, today’s dads face a cognitive challenge that’s often overlooked. Leah explores the concept of metaparenting, the self-reflective work of deciding who you want to be as a parent in a society with few clear role models for engaged fatherhood.

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Why You Can’t Outsource Your Mental Load: The Sticky Truth for Moms

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 16:01:00 GMT

On this episode, Professor Leah dives into new research revealing why high-powered, high-earning mothers still can’t shake their mental load—no matter how much money, help, or flexibility they gain. Discover the difference between core and episodic mental load, why domestic cognitive labor sticks to women regardless of income or status, and how “gender stickiness” explains persistent burnout among mothers. With insights from over 2,000 parents and fresh findings on fatherhood, this episode gives a validating look into why women can outsource chores but not the relentless task of organizing, remembering, and anticipating every detail of family life.

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Back to Work? Why Motherhood, Work, and Gender Myths Still Trip Us Up

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 16:01:00 GMT

We’re digging into the real deal behind that “return to work” moment after having a baby. Have you ever wondered if you’re supposed to feel overwhelmed, lost, or suddenly less “yourself” as a mother, or if it’s just you? Spoiler: it’s not just you, and it’s not a flaw. On this episode, Leah breaks down what brand new research tells us about why mothers feel double the time pressure (hint: it’s not just diapers and sleepless nights), how cutting back work hours really affects mental health, and why all those stories about “doing it all” are misperceived from the get-go.

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Midlife Divorce: The (Real) Costs, Gender Myths, and What to Never Give Up

Tue, 28 Oct 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Let’s get brutally honest about what really happens when you split up after 40. Professor Leah dives into the latest divorce research (with a little side-eye at bad advice and bad exes). Whether you’re thinking of leaving or just hanging on by a thread, you’ll get clear-eyed advice about dividing up homes and pensions, what happens when “the kids are grown,” and why being practical (and maybe a little ruthless) matters. Expect global stories, a few laughs, and plenty of “don’t be scared, be prepared” truth bombs. This episode is for anyone staring down a midlife divorce and wanting the inside scoop on protecting your heart and your future security.

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Stop Saying These 5 Phrases at Work If You Want a Promotion

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Professor Leah breaks down five everyday phrases women use—“I’m sorry for unloading,” “I don’t want to step on toes,” “I’m not that smart,” “I’m not sure, but…,” and “I’m so sorry for…”—and exposes the gender myths that fuel them, from needing to be liked to staying small and humble even when right. Together we’ll learn why taking up space, speaking with conviction, and sharing imperfect ideas drive innovation, reduce self-doubt, and build more equitable workplaces and relationships. You’ll get practical language shifts to help you own your expertise, stop over-apologizing, and lead with confidence. Perfect for women in leadership, early-career professionals, and allies committed to gender equity, future of work conversations, and culture change.

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Remote Work Burnout?

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Discover the realities behind the work-life balance choices facing women. Leah tackles myths about workplace flexibility, exploring why so many women are leaving traditional jobs for the gig economy and digital platform work. This episode unpacks the promises—and pitfalls of becoming your own boss, including the realities of algorithm-driven “digital bosses,” blurred personal boundaries, and the relentless mental load many face at home. If you’ve ever wondered whether freelancing or platform work truly delivers more autonomy, flexibility, and family time, this episode offers research-backed answers and practical insights.

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Why Women Tune Out Politics: The Hidden Cost of Mental Overload

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Dive into the mental load crisis as Profrssor Leah uncovers how motherhood leads to burnout and impacts women’s political engagement. This episode explores why overburdened mothers are tuning out of politics, the persistent gender gap in civic participation, and the unique ways mothers channel energy into causes like gun violence prevention. Discover the real story behind domestic cognitive labor, the consequences for democracy, and why amplifying mothers’ voices could change our communities for the better.

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Better Multitaskers: Women, Men, or Just a Myth?

Tue, 16 Sep 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, we unpack one of the most enduring cultural beliefs: that women are inherently better multitaskers than men. Drawing on research, cognitive science, and the history of gender roles, we examine whether this assumption is rooted in real performance differences or if it’s a product of societal expectations and labor divisions. How much of “multitasking ability” is biological, and how much is the result of women being socialized (and often expected) to juggle domestic, professional, and emotional responsibilities simultaneously? We also discuss what this debate reveals about the value we place on different types of work, and whether the very concept of multitasking undermines our understanding of productivity and fairness in modern life.

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Work-Life Chaos Is Making You A Jerk (And Yes, The Science Proves It)

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this brutally honest episode, Leah exposes how all that work-life juggling isn’t just making people tired it’s rewiring who they are. Pulling from top research and real stories, she shows how juggling kids, deadlines, and never-ending to-do lists transforms us into more anxious, less fun, slightly pricklier humans (especially if you’re a mom). Leah doesn’t just talk stats; she dishes out real talk, science-backed validation, and gives doctor’s orders for carving out sanity, connection, and a sense of self…even when life feels like a 24/7 circus.

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What Happens When Women Earn More? The Breadwinner Myth

Tue, 02 Sep 2025 15:01:00 GMT

How does it affect families (and gender roles) when women out-earn men? In this eye-opening episode of MissPerceived, sociologist and gender equity leader Leah unpacks the latest research on household income dynamics, challenging the persistent breadwinner myth. Discover what happens behind closed doors when women become primary earners, how traditional norms shape family finances from the U.S. to the UAE, and why women’s contributions are still too often invisible or discounted.

Leah explores the complex emotions, negotiations, and subtle power shifts that arise when gender expectations clash with financial realities.

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Are Female-Named Hurricanes More Destructive?

Tue, 26 Aug 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Do hurricanes with women’s names really cause more damage? In this thought-provoking episode of MissPerceived, sociologist and gender equity expert Leah Ner dives deep into the origins of hurricane naming and the science behind the headline-grabbing myth that female-named hurricanes are deadlier. Leah explores the gendered history of hurricane naming, revealing how old traditions and modern stereotypes have shaped public perceptions and fueled persistent gender myths.

Discover what the data actually shows about hurricane impact since naming conventions changed, and learn how these myths tie into broader issues of women’s anger, societal expectations, and intersectionality. Backed by recent research and powerful sociological insight, this episode challenges you to rethink how subtle biases influence our understanding of both storms and gender.

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Blondes and the Beauty Premium: Does Hair Color Shape Women’s Paychecks?”

Tue, 19 Aug 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Do blondes really have more fun or just fatter paychecks? We dig into new research on the “beauty premium,” focusing on whether women with blonde hair actually earn more. Using fascinating data from a decades-long national survey, Leah explores why women’s physical appearance—especially hair color—may shape their income, career prospects, and even who they marry. Is being blonde an economic advantage, or does it feed into harmful stereotypes and workplace discrimination? What does this say about lasting beauty standards, bias, and double standards for women in professional life? Join us as we explore!

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Smiling Women, Crying Men: How Gender Shapes Emotional Response

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Leah unpacks the deeply ingrained social rules around emotion and gender. Why are women expected to smile constantly at school, at work, even on planes? What does it cost them when they do, or don’t? Why are men discouraged from expressing sadness but given a free pass to anger? Drawing from new research and decades of gender studies, Leah explores how cultural norms shape when and where women and men are permitted to show their feelings and why violating those norms can impact everything from workplace authority to family dynamics.

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Pretty Privilege, Backlash, and the Power of Genes

Wed, 06 Aug 2025 16:57:46 GMT

The internet’s explosive reaction to Sydney Sweeney’s headline-grabbing American Eagle jeans ad set social media alight and reignited debates about “pretty privilege” and the supposed “genetic lottery.” As critics dissect the campaign’s tagline—“Sydney Sweeney has great jeans”—for its double entendre and uncomfortable brush with eugenics rhetoric, we ask: What happens when beauty standards meet the politics of who counts as ‘desirable’? We explore how conventions of attractiveness continue to drive hiring, career advancement, and salary in 2025, with new data showing significant workplace bias, and how these standards intersect with issues of race and exclusion. Is the celebration of “good genes” a harmless compliment or a window into social hierarchies and the historic discrimination that persist in modern institutions?

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Breaking the Cage: Ellie Angell on the Cost of Living Authentically

Tue, 29 Jul 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this powerful episode of Misperceived, Leah sits down with Ellie Angell, a trans woman who shares her raw, personal journey toward living as her true self. Diving into gender identity, Ellie discusses the emotional realities of transitioning—gains, losses, and the courage it takes to confront deeply rooted misperceptions. Through heartfelt conversation, Leah and Ellie expose the impact of societal myths on the trans community and challenge listeners to rethink what it means to truly be authentic.

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Men Doing ‘Women’s Work’: Myths, Truths, and What We Overlook

Tue, 22 Jul 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode of MissPerceived, Professor Leah Ner tackles the fraught label of “women’s work”—and what really happens when men step into these traditionally gendered roles. Leah pulls apart the stubborn myths about who should do what in our homes, communities, and institutions, drawing on her decades of research and candid conversations.

You’ll hear:

• How the phrase “women’s work” shapes our assumptions about care, trust, and responsibility—even when men are just as involved.

• Why men who take on domestic, emotional, or supportive roles often face stigma, skepticism, or even suspicion.

• The hidden harms of closing off these roles to men, including what’s overlooked, undervalued, or outright ignored—sometimes with heartbreaking consequences.

• What it really takes to untangle deeply held beliefs and build a culture where everyone’s contributions are recognized, no matter their gender.

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The Breastfeeding Guilt Trap: Unpacking All the Feels

Tue, 15 Jul 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Leah dives into the social construct of breastfeeding and the overwhelming guilt often placed on mothers. Drawing from research and lived experiences, Leh explores how cultural expectations, medical advice, and shifting family structures have created an impossible standard for mothers—one that demands exclusive breastfeeding as proof of being a “good” parent.

Leah challenges the narrative that mothers must navigate these pressures alone, highlighting the historical context of communal caregiving and the modern isolation of the nuclear family. She discusses the emotional toll of breastfeeding distress, the pain of inauthenticity, and the disproportionate impact on women from different socioeconomic backgrounds.

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Hot or Cold? Why your office might be freezing you out

Tue, 08 Jul 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Ever wonder why you're freezing in your office while your male coworkers seem perfectly comfortable?

Turns out, the temperature war isn’t just personal—it’s deeply gendered.

In this episode, Professor Leah puts her sociology and gender equity expertise to work: breaking down the science, history, and sexist assumptions behind workplace temperature settings. From menopause and pregnancy - to outdated 1970s standards based on men in business suits, Leah explores how the "ideal office climate" has been built to suit male bodies—leaving women literally out in the cold.

Learn how this invisible bias affects women’s health, confidence, and productivity

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Tradwife Trend vs. Reality

Tue, 01 Jul 2025 15:01:45 GMT

What’s behind the trending TikTok “tradwife” and 1950s housewife nostalgia? Leah unpacks the myths and realities of traditional homemaking—examining why so many yearn for a past that was far from idyllic for most women. Discover the historical roots of domesticity, the limited rights and resources women actually had, and why today’s push for “going back” ignores the progress we’ve made for gender equity. Leah explores the risks of romanticizing the past, the importance of choice, and how societal constraints still shape women’s decisions today. Whether you’re curious about gender roles, feminism, or just want to understand the viral “tradwife” trend, this episode is your essential guide to separating fact from fantasy.

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Failure to Launch! Should You Date a Man Who Still Lives at Home?

Tue, 24 Jun 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Is it really a red flag if a man is still living with his parents in his late twenties or early thirties? In this episode of MissPerceived, sociologist Leah Ruppanner breaks down the latest research on young men who stay at home longer, exploring what it means for their employment prospects, mental health, and relationships. Drawing on a major new study, Leah reveals why a short stint at home can actually boost a man’s career… or maybe not. She unpacks the social and economic factors driving this trend, the cultural differences around leaving the nest, and what it all means for dating today.

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Unraveling Trauma and True Crime with Courtney Lund O’Neil

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode of MissPerceived, Leah welcomes author Courtney Lund O’Neil to discuss her book, Postmortem: What Survives the John Wayne Gacy Murders. The conversation explores the often-overlooked stories of those living in the shadow of infamous crimes, focusing on the intergenerational impact of trauma, the mental load carried by mothers, and the power of storytelling to reclaim narratives from perpetrators. They address the importance of honoring victims’ humanity, breaking gender stereotypes—especially around raising boys—and the unique ways women process and are drawn to true crime.

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Do Men Have Higher Libidos?

Tue, 10 Jun 2025 12:52:55 GMT

Are men really wired to desire more sex, or have we just been taught to think so? In this episode, Leah dives into the age-old question: do men have higher sex drives? Join us as we unpack the science behind libido, explore how hormones, culture, and social norms shape our desires, and challenge the stereotypes that keep this conversation stuck in the bedroom.

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DO We Have the Right to Disconnect From Work?

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Is the workday really over when you leave the office, or does your boss live in your pocket? Join Leah as she explores the growing movement to reclaim life outside of work through the right to disconnect. From late-night emails to weekend pings, we unpack how work culture has blurred the boundaries between on and off—and what it means to reclaim your time in an always-on world.

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What is a Pink Tax? And is it Real?

Tue, 27 May 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Why do razors, deodorants, and even a haircut cost more for women? In this episode, Leah unpacks the so-called pink tax - what it means, where it shows up, and how it quietly shapes our spending. From personal care products to pricing tricks, find out why being a woman can come with a higher price tag (and yes, it's often pink).

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How Have Feminist Views on Pornography Evolved Over Time?

Tue, 20 May 2025 15:01:00 GMT

From fierce debates in the '70s to today’s OnlyFans era, feminist views on pornography have shifted dramatically. In this episode, Leah traces the complex history of feminist discourse on porn - exploring battles over empowerment vs. exploitation, the rise of feminist porn, and the growing influence of social media and AI on how we create and consume erotic content. What does the future of porn look like in an increasingly digital, decentralised world, and where do feminist values fit in?

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Money Talks: Are Salary Secrets Hurting Your Team?

Tue, 13 May 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Is salary transparency the key to closing the pay gap? In this episode, we explore whether we should know each other’s salaries, especially among women. Could sharing pay help us understand our worth and spark important conversations about raises? Or is it too much of a social taboo? Listen now for a thought-provoking discussion on pay transparency and its potential impact!

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Is Baby Brain Real?

Tue, 06 May 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Ever caught yourself searching for your keys… again? In this episode, Leah explores the truth behind pregnancy brain fog, cognitive changes after childbirth, and how your menstrual cycle might affect your mind. Did you experience brain fog during these times, or is it all just in our heads? Listen now to find out!

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Is Being in a Long Distance Relationship a Bad Idea?

Tue, 29 Apr 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Is being in a long-distance relationship a recipe for heartbreak or could it be the secret to lasting love? In this episode, Leah unpacks the realities of loving from afar. From immigration to job deployments, we explore why couples live apart, whether distance actually harms relationship quality, and what the research says about staying connected across the miles. Spoiler: it's not all bad.

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The Mental Load: “Can it be solved?’” (w/ Leah Ruppanner interviewed by Haley Swenson)

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Haley Swenson (Better Life Lab, New America Foundation) takes over the mic to interview Leah on the invisible weight of the mental load and her upcoming book Drained. How is the mental load talked about in academia versus everyday life? What does the data reveal—and what are we still missing? They unpack why language matters, how gender shapes the conversation, and what real solutions might look like.

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Do Women Who Have Children Later in Life Live Longer?

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 15:01:00 GMT

This week, Leah tacks a question sent in by one of our listeners that’s been making the rounds on TikTok and Insta reels: Do mothers who have babies later in life actually live longer? It’s a viral claim that’s got people talking—but what does the research really say? We dig into the science behind fertility timing and maternal longevity, explore the biological theories, and ask whether social and economic factors are playing a bigger role than we think.

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The Mental Load: “The Challenges Faced by Migrant Mothers and Women of Color” (w/ Mira Gunawansa)

Thu, 17 Apr 2025 15:01:00 GMT

What does the mental load look like for women with intersectional identities, especially migrant mothers from Southeast Asia? In this episode, Leah and Haley are joined by Mira Gunawansa to dive into her groundbreaking PhD research exploring how the mental load manifests for women of colour and how their unique experiences—navigating visas, cultural assimilation, familial expectations, and racism—are often overlooked in current literature. How are the solutions for these women different and how can we better account for this in the research? Tune in for an eye-opening discussion on how intersectionality shapes the mental load and how we can rethink support for diverse groups of women.

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Connect with Mira Gunawansa through instagram @mgunawansa, and to read her most recent article on the Mental Load of Christmas you can visit the UniMelb website - https://pursuit.unimelb.edu.au/articles/maybe-just-think-about-whos-carrying-the-mental-load-at-Christmas.

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Do Parents Like Daughters More than Sons?

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Do parents secretly prefer their daughters over their sons? In this episode, Leah unpacks the complexities of parental favouritism: Is it about gender, birth order, or a child’s personality? And what happens when kids perceive they’re treated differently from their siblings? We explore how these dynamics shape identity, self-esteem, and family relationships.

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The Mental Load: “How Can Tech Help Parents?’” (w/ Avni Patel Thompson & Verity Tuck)

Thu, 10 Apr 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, Leah and Haley chat with Avni Patel Thompson, founder of Milo & Verity Tuck and co-founder of Goldee AI, about how technology can help lighten the mental load of parents. Avni and Verity share how AI and language modeling are streamlining day-to-day tasks, easing the mental burden, and letting parents breathe a little easier. Tune in for real-life stories and practical insights on using tech to help share the load and make parenting a little bit easier!

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The Mental Load: How Do we Create Space to Let Women Shine? (w/ Eve Rodsky)

Thu, 03 Apr 2025 15:01:00 GMT

Leah and Haley are joined by Eve Rodsky, author of Fair Play, to reframe how we understand the mental load. They explore how men and women conceptualise invisible labour, the systems that uphold these imbalances, and how boundaries and communication can essential to creating more equitable and fair partnerships. Eve shares real-life stories of couples negotiating their mental loads using the Fair Play system—not just as a way to split tasks, but as a tool for reimagining fairness at home.

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Does Being a Parent Make You a Bad Employee?

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, we challenge the misconception that being a parent makes you a bad employee. We dive into how taking time out for caregiving can be career enhancing, how parenting skills are highly transferable to the workplace, and why these skills are crucial for the future of work. Plus, we introduce the Parenting Work Skills Certificate—our team’s initiative to highlight the value of parenting in professional settings. Tune in to discover how the experience of being a parent can enhance your professional journey!

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The Mental Load: "Where Are We Now?" (w/ Haley Swenson)

Thu, 27 Mar 2025 15:01:00 GMT

The mental load isn’t just about managing household tasks and mental to-do lists —it’s about carrying the weight of everything happening around us. From the rise of AI to the cost-of-living crisis and threats to democracy, our cognitive and emotional burdens are shifting in ways we’re only beginning to understand.

In this episode, Leah and Haley Swenson from the New America Better Life Lab dive into the meaning of "mental load," who carries it, and whose responsibility it is—individuals, families, organizations, or governments. We also explore how partners share (or don’t share) the load and what solutions exist for a more balanced future.

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Should You Freeze Your Eggs?

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, we dive into the sociology of egg freezing—who it’s for, how it’s marketed, and what it really offers. We unpack the classed experience of this costly procedure, from its strategic targeting of high-income, unmarried women to its role in the ‘economy of hope.’ Join Leah as she examines the intersection of assistive reproductive technology, gendered marketing, and the complexities of medically assisted fertility and risk management.

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How the Death of a Parent Impacts Family Dynamics

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 15:01:00 GMT

This week, join Leah as she delves into how sibling dynamics shift after a parent's passing, from unresolved childhood rivalries to the burden of caregiving and inheritance. When a parent dies, family relationships can change in unexpected ways. What sparks tension—or strengthens bonds—between brothers and sisters in grief? And how do gender roles influence the way sons and daughters navigate loss?

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Is Life More Expensive When You're Single?

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 15:01:00 GMT

In this week's episode, Leah discusses the economics of being single. Ever noticed how flying solo can cost more? We dive into the ‘single tax’ - from paying for utilities to groceries alone - to explore economies of scale, the power of shared resources, and why going it alone often comes with a higher price tag.

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Is International Women's Day Nonsense?

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 16:01:00 GMT

Join us this week as we talk all things International Women's Day! In this episode, Leah takes us through the history of IWD—from its radical socialist roots to its modern-day celebrations—and asks whether we’ve lost sight of its purpose. More than just a day for hashtags and brunches, IWD should be a call to action. Join us as we unpack what this day really means and why the fight for gender equality is far from over.

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Are Girls Actually Bad at Math(s)?

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 16:01:00 GMT

Why do people still believe the myth that girls aren’t good at maths? In this episode, join Leah as she breaks down the gender stereotypes that hold women back in STEM, unpack the so-called “leaky pipeline,” and talk about what we really wants our daughters and younger generations to know about their educational potential. Because talent isn’t gendered—so why are opportunities?

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Is Menopause Still a Workplace Taboo?

Tue, 25 Feb 2025 16:01:00 GMT

Menopause is a natural transition in life, but should you talk about it at work? In this episode, Leah dives into the latest research on menopause in the workplace, your reproductive rights, and the policies (or lack thereof) supporting women through this stage. How do symptoms impact your career? And what does this mean for your identity at work? Tune in for expert insights on navigating menopause on the job.

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Do Queer Couples Share Housework More Equally?

Tue, 18 Feb 2025 16:01:00 GMT

Do queer couples break free from traditional gender roles, or do old patterns creep in? In this weeks episode, Leah explores how LGBTQIA+ partners divide housework compared to heterosexual couples. Is the split more equal, or do unseen forces shape who scrubs the dishes and who takes out the trash? Tune in for an academic deep dive into love, labour, and the politics of domestic life!

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Gift-Giving: A Timeless Love Language or An Outdated Burden?

Tue, 11 Feb 2025 16:01:00 GMT

Love languages say gifts = love, but should we rethink the way we give? Women often take on the emotional and financial labour of gift-giving—planning, making, and wrapping—while men’s gifts can sometimes feel like a quick fix for deeper issues. And with rising costs, is the pressure to give even sustainable? In this episode, we unpack the gendered side of gift-giving, the financial weight of presents, and whether it’s time to break free from the expectation that love = stuff. Tune in as Leah discusses the politics of presents!

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Are Men Smarter than Women?

Tue, 04 Feb 2025 16:01:00 GMT

In this episode, we break down the science of intelligence—cognitive, emotional, and beyond—to challenge outdated stereotypes. Is intelligence a spectrum? How do we measure it? And why do we still equate IQ with superiority? Tune in as we dismantle the myths, explore the biases, and reveal what intelligence really looks like. Who’s smarter—men or women? Or is that the wrong question entirely?

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Are Workplace Friendships a Problem?

Tue, 28 Jan 2025 16:01:00 GMT

Can friendships at work boost connection or blur the lines between professional and personal life? In this episode, we dive into why workplace friendships matter, their impact on productivity, and whether they foster belonging or complicate boundaries. Tune in as Leah explores the surprising role of camaraderie in the workplace!

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Are Women’s Friendships Fragile or Fierce?

Tue, 21 Jan 2025 16:01:00 GMT

In this episode, Leah explores the research on the power of women’s friendships—how they evolve, fade, and transform over time. We delve into why society often undervalues these special bonds in favor of romantic relationships and examine the unique ways friendships sustain and empower women. From moments of shared laughter to unwavering support, discover how these connections help women navigate challenges and celebrate life’s milestones.

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Do Women Gossip More than Men?

Tue, 14 Jan 2025 16:01:00 GMT

Do women really gossip more than men, or is that just another stereotype? In this episode, we unpack the loaded word “gossip” and explore its surprising role in strengthening social bonds. Why are women often judged harshly for it, while men seem to get a free pass? And is it even gossip—or just sharing information that matters? Join us for a thought-provoking chat on the power, perception, and potential of a little juicy conversation.

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Who's the CEO of Your Family?

Tue, 07 Jan 2025 16:01:00 GMT

"Who keeps the family ties from unravelling? From buying gifts to organising holiday dinners, kinkeeping often falls on mothers, stepmothers, aunts, and oldest sisters. But why is it mostly women? In this episode, we dive into the unsung labour of kinkeeping, explore the roles women play in holding families together, and uncover what the research reveals about this invisible work."

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Are New Year's Resolutions BS?

Tue, 31 Dec 2024 16:01:00 GMT

Happy New Year! Join Leah for our first podcast of 2025, where we'll be diving into why resolutions often fail, the difference between bold goals and bite-sized ones, and the strategies that actually work to make your goals stick all year long. If you’re ready to ditch the guilt and set yourself up for success, this episode is for you!

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Can Women Thrive in Tomorrows Workplace?

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 16:01:00 GMT

As workplaces evolve, what does the future hold for women? In this episode, we dive into how women are positioned in the changing job market, the skills they’ll need to thrive, and whether the future of work is truly equitable. From automation to AI, we unpack the trends shaping women’s careers. Don’t miss this thought-provoking episode about the challenges, opportunities, and road ahead for women at work.

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Is the “Mom flu” real?

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 16:01:00 GMT

Is the "Mom flu" a real thing—or just another parenting myth? This episode unpacks the infamous “Mom flu” and explore how it stacks up against science. Plus, the facts about why mums might actually get sick more often, exploring the link between caregiving, stress, and immune systems.Tune in for a fun and insightful look at sickness, gender, and the invisible load of caregiving!

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Do women have higher pain thresholds?

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 16:01:00 GMT

Are women really better at handling pain, or is it more complicated than that? In this episode, join Leah as she dives into the fascinating world of pain thresholds, exploring the biological and social factors that shape how men and women experience pain. From hormones to social conditioning, discover what research reveals about gendered perceptions of pain—and why it matters.

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Are women's mental loads heavier?

Thu, 21 Nov 2024 16:01:00 GMT

Join us for a special live recording of MissPerceived, where Leah explores the complexities of the mental load and examines whether the invisible burdens of daily life contribute to burnout. Join us as we engage with our live audience through interactive polls and thought-provoking questions to investigate how this experience varies among different groups, including women, parents, and caregivers, and uncover the connections between mental load and burnout.

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Are men dirtblind?

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Do men really not see mess, or is there more to it? In this episode, we explore the 'dirtblind' debate—are men just wired differently, or is it all about gender roles and societal expectations? Join us as we unpack the myths, norms, and realities behind housework, cleanliness, and the invisible labor that keeps homes running.

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Are intelligent women more likely to stay single?

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Today we ask: Do more intelligent people struggle to find a partner? And are highly intelligent women more likely to stay single? Join us as we dive into the complex intersection of intelligence, relationships, and the challenges smart women face in love. Can brains really complicate the heart?

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Is BMI bullsh*t?

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, we dive into the shady origins of the Body Mass Index, exposing its gender bias, discriminatory roots, and why it's a flawed measure of health. Discover how a centuries-old equation became mainstream—and why it's time to ditch it for good.

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Are Women More Burnt Out Than Men? Understanding the Mental Load

Tue, 08 Oct 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Join Leah as we explore why burnout is an epidemic among women. Is it a gender issue, is it all because of the kids, or is something deeper at play? Tune in as we dive into the causes, consequences, and solutions of reclaiming balance in a post pandemic world.

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Are Dads Being Shut Out of Childcare? Breaking Down the "Maternal Gate"

Tue, 01 Oct 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Have you heard of 'maternal gatekeeping'? Join Leah as she dives into how control over parenting decisions can impact the division of labor and whether it perpetuates gender gaps in childcare responsibilities.

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Do Women Have Fewer Orgasms Than Men? Understanding the Pleasure Gap

Tue, 24 Sep 2024 15:01:00 GMT

In this weeks eye-opening episode, we share awkward laughs and blushing moments as we talk about the "orgasm gap"—is it really true that women have fewer orgasms than men? We unpack the facts around gender, age, and even sexual orientation to find out more about the big 'O'. Get ready for a fun, candid conversation that sheds light on a topic people don't talk about nearly enough!

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What’s Holding Women Back at Work? Breaking Down 5 Career Barriers

Tue, 17 Sep 2024 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, we dive into 5 common phrases women say that are unknowingly holding them back—like "I'm sorry for unloading on you" and "I don't want to step on anyone’s toes." We unpack the myths behind these statements, why women need to stop using them, and how ditching them can empower you to own your voice. Get ready for some serious truth bombs and a confidence boost!

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Will Women Vote for Kamala Harris? Analyzing Female Voter Trends

Tue, 10 Sep 2024 15:01:00 GMT

How Will Woman Vote in 2024?

Join us to explore the factors influencing women's voting patterns in 2024 with a focus on the US presidential race and Kamala Harris's candidacy. We delve into the concept of "gender linked fate" and how it varies among different groups of women, challenging the assumption that women automatically vote for female candidates.

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Why Should There Be More Women in Government? The Case for Female Representation

Tue, 03 Sep 2024 15:01:00 GMT

We’re delving into the world of politics to explore the challenges and misconceptions surrounding women in office, such as being perceived as less competent or too emotional for high-stakes decision-making. By examining how these misconceptions impact both their campaigns and governance, we shed light on the ongoing struggle for gender equality in politics and celebrate the women who are redefining leadership.

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Should You Date Someone Older? Pros and Cons of Age Gap Relationships

Tue, 27 Aug 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Age gaps in relationships often spark stereotypes and double standards, especially for women. In this episode, we dive into why these biases exist, how they impact couples, and how those in age-gap relationships view themselves versus how the world sees them.

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Does Your Boss Understand You? Bridging the Workplace Communication Gap

Tue, 20 Aug 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Join Leah as she explores the challenges that arise when your boss doesn’t quite get you, particularly through the lens of gender differences and diverse family arrangements. We delve into how traditional views on gender roles and family responsibilities can create misunderstandings and impact workplace dynamics.

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Is Pretty Privilege Real? Exploring Beauty Bias in Society

Tue, 13 Aug 2024 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, we delve into the concept of "pretty privilege" and its significant impact on income, hiring practices, and bias in the workplace. We explore how physical appearance can influence career opportunities and salary, and examine how racial bias affects this. Join us for an insightful discussion on how beauty standards affect professional dynamics.

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Does Part-Time Work Reduce Parental Stress? Finding the Right Balance

Tue, 06 Aug 2024 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, we tackle the age-old question: Should parents transition to part-time work after having a baby? Join us as we explore the intricacies of work-life balance and the impact of part-time employment on parental stress levels. Discover whether part-time work truly offers a path to reduced stress and greater fulfillment in parenthood or if its all a myth.

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Do Women Sleep Differently Than Men? Understanding Gender Sleep Patterns

Tue, 30 Jul 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Leah explores the fascinating intersection of sleep and society. Is sleep merely biological, or does it hold deeper social significance? Delve into the intricate connections between sleep patterns, societal norms, and gender dynamics. From cultural expectations to physiological differences, we examine how women and men experience sleep differently.

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Is the Second Child Less Work? Comparing Parenting Challenges Between Siblings

Tue, 23 Jul 2024 15:01:00 GMT

In this episode, Leah will delve into the concept of second child syndrome. Are second-born children really less work than their elder siblings? Join us as we explore the dynamics of birth order, societal expectations, and the unique experiences of being a second child.

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Are Gender Norms Becoming More Progressive? Tracking Societal Changes

Tue, 16 Jul 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Are we truly progressing towards gender equality? Join us as we delve into the complexities of generational change, questioning if each era brings us closer to true egalitarianism in this thought-provoking episode.

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Do Women Really 'Nest'? Examining the Instinct in Modern Times

Tue, 09 Jul 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Join us for a hilarious episode as we question whether women are actually hormonally driven to 'nest' before pregnancy, or if this is in fact a myth. Laugh along as we explore the truth behind this gender stereotype and its origins in discussions surrounding mammal nesting habits.

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Did the Pandemic Worsen Work-Life Balance for Women? Analyzing the Impact

Tue, 02 Jul 2024 15:01:00 GMT

In this revealing episode, we tackle the pressing question: 'Did COVID make home and work more difficult for women, or did it simply expose the realities of the working mother?' Explore the profound implications for families as we uncover the challenges, inequalities, and shifting dynamics brought to light by the pandemic.

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Do Women Have Deeper Friendships Than Men? Exploring Emotional Connections

Tue, 25 Jun 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Join Leah as we explore the nuances and complexities of male friendships. Delve into the societal constructs and emotional barriers that hinder men from forging the same depth of connections as women, in this introspective podcast episode.

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Can We Close the Chore Gap? Teaching Gender Equality to Future Generations

Tue, 18 Jun 2024 15:01:00 GMT

In this eye-opening episode, Leah will unpack the future of household chores and gender equality. Delve into the complexities as we debunk the myth that our daughters will achieve domestic equity with their partners, examining societal norms and the imperative for intentional change in achieving true equity.

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Are Modern Dads More Involved? The Evolution of Fatherhood

Tue, 11 Jun 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Discover the evolution of fatherhood in this enlightening episode, where we explore how modern dads are reshaping masculinity and parenting norms. Join Leah as she celebrates the diverse expressions of fatherhood and the changing landscape of parental roles.

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Is Pooling Money Bad for Relationships? The Impact on Women's Finances

Tue, 04 Jun 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Dive into the debate over finances and relationships with Leah in this revealing episode. We'll explore the often contentious and taboo topic about whether women should maintain a separate bank account or if couples should pool their money. Uncover the implications for trust, independence, and partnership dynamics as we navigate all things financial.

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Is AI Truly Gender-Neutral? Examining Bias in Artificial Intelligence

Tue, 28 May 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Uncover the impact of AI on creating a fairer world in this thought-provoking episode. We delve into the intersection of gender bias, algorithms, and inequality to answer the burning question: 'Does AI truly promote fairness?' Join Leah as she discusses the complexities, challenges, and potential solutions in the quest for equality in the digital age.

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Are Women Better At Multitasking? Debunking the Myth

Tue, 21 May 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Prepare to challenge the stereotype as we dive into the age-old belief that 'women are better multitaskers.' Join us for a captivating podcast episode that unveils the realities and nuances to debunk the myth surrounding gendered capabilities and multitasking prowess.

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Does Sharing Housework Lead to Better Sex? The Chore-Intimacy Connection

Tue, 14 May 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Let’s Talk Dirty…Dishes.

Have you heard of ‘Choreplay’? On this episode we unpack if it is a misperception that people who do more housework have more sex. From division of labor to intimacy, we delve into how household chores impact your relationship dynamics and connections in a sultry and eye-opening episode.

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Why Are Women Having Fewer Babies? Exploring the Declining Birth Rate

Tue, 07 May 2024 15:01:00 GMT

Let’s explore the intriguing question of “Why are women having fewer babies?”

We'll unravel common misperceptions surrounding women's fertility, delving into the complex web of societal, economic, and cultural factors shaping this trend. Join Leah as she challenges assumptions and uncovers the real drivers behind changing birth rates.

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Introducing MissPerceived

Thu, 02 May 2024 16:55:44 GMT

Welcome to MissPerceived! Join Professor Leah Ruppanner as she challenges assumptions, sparks dialogue, and inspires listeners to question the myths that have held us back for too long. Launching May 8th with new episodes every Wednesday.

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