Becoming Emotionally Available

The Hidden Cost of Rushing into a First Date

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 13:38:23 GMT

I went on a date with a man who said all the right things, until dinner. What he said within 20 minutes revealed the biggest red flag in dating... and it shook me. But here's the real story: it's not just about him. It's about how we ignore our gut, move too fast, and call it chemistry when it's actually anxious attachment. If you've ever felt that tension between excitement and discernment, this one's for you.

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I matched with a covert narcissist on Bumble

Sat, 31 Jan 2026 05:03:01 GMT

I’m a relationship coach. I’ve done the work. And still… I almost dated a covert narcissist. In this episode, I share how it happened, what I missed, and the 6 big lessons I learned. Because even the “experts” get it wrong sometimes, and that’s okay. Join me on my upcoming workshop to create a clear vision and not miss these signs: www.insidesmatchjourney.com

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Stop Saying I Want You Be Married By The End of This Year

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 01:04:47 GMT

If your love goal is tied to a deadline, it might be keeping you stuck. In this episode, dating coach Dagmar Kusiak shares why focusing on outcomes (like getting married this year) backfires, and what to do instead. Learn how to Shift from pressure to purpose, Build a clear, honest relationship vision, Spot real emotional safety, and Ask the right questions early. Plus, get the scoop on Dagmar’s free two-day workshop to map your relationship goals with clarity and confidence. Register here: www.insidesmatchjourney.com

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Attract the Relationship You Want in 2026

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 17:36:16 GMT

Ever fallen hard for someone, only to find out they’re emotionally unavailable with a side of chaos? Yeah, me too. In this episode, I unpack why that “spark” often means familiar trauma, not true connection. We’ll dive into the neuroscience behind attraction, how your brain’s filter (the Reticular Activating System) keeps pulling you toward the wrong partners, and the 6 areas that actually matter when choosing love. This isn’t manifestation fluff, it’s brain science meets real talk.

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Why I Realized He Wasn't My Person And What That Taught Me About Healthy Dating

Thu, 11 Dec 2025 15:18:52 GMT

In this episode, I open up about a recent 3-month dating experience that started with promise and ended with clarity.

I share what drew me in, what I overlooked, and the subtle misalignment I didn’t want to see. You’ll hear the difference between emotional transparency and true vulnerability, and why chemistry isn’t the same as compatibility.

More than anything, this is about getting honest, with yourself and with what you really need in a relationship.

Whether you're dating, healing, or just trying to make sense of your patterns, this one’s for you.

You'll learn:

✔️ How to recognize dating blind spots

✔️ Why emotional safety matters more than surface compatibility

✔️ What to focus on early in dating (and what to stop chasing)

✔️ How to write a dating profile that reflects the real you

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The Shift That Helped Me Finally Meet My Person

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 19:38:47 GMT

If you’ve done the therapy, read the books, journaled your heart out, and still wonder where your person is, this episode is for you. Today, I’m talking with Dr. Corey Seemiller, author of The Soulmate Strategy, a powerful guide for people who are ready for deep, conscious love. She’s not just a speaker and thought leader, she’s someone who’s lived it. And in this episode, she’s sharing the one shift that helped her finally meet her person, after doing all the self-work and still coming up empty. We’re not talking quick fixes. We’re talking real transformation. So if you’re serious about love that aligns with who you really are, this one’s for you.

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The Mindset Shift That Saved Their Marriage After Everything Changed

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 22:39:35 GMT

What happens when life flips your relationship upside down, when roles shift, plans shatter, and you're suddenly carrying more than you ever expected? In this deeply honest and hopeful episode, we sit down with Morgan Templar, whose story of love, loss, and loyalty will move you. She and her husband Steve faced sudden illness, financial strain, and massive life changes, but they stayed connected. The key? A single mindset shift that changed everything. If you're in a season of “this isn’t what I signed up for,” this conversation is for you.

Check out my mastermind, a space for singles who are ready to shift their mindset, grow, and get real support on the journey to transformation. www.insidesmatchjourney.com/beam

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What Binge-Watching Charlie Kirk Taught Me About Lies, Truth, and Violent Communication

Mon, 15 Sep 2025 02:45:07 GMT

After the news of Charlie Kirk’s murder, I spiraled into a 12-hour binge of his debates. Not because I agreed with him, but because I was escaping my own fears. In this episode, I share how that binge taught me about the lies we tell ourselves, the radical truths that set us free, and how violence shows up not just in actions, but in the way we communicate.

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Unmasking the Armour: Why Men Struggle with Vulnerability and How to Heal

Wed, 10 Sep 2025 01:27:40 GMT

Today on the podcast, I’m joined by entrepreneur and author Christopher Tricola. Chris’s journey is one of resilience, from surviving cancer to rebuilding after financial devastation. What makes his story powerful isn’t just the success he’s built, but how he’s learned to drop the armour, embrace vulnerability, and redefine what true strength really means. That shift has paid off—with a thriving business and a healthy marriage. In this episode, he shares the secrets behind both. I'm opening 3 spots for men to join my single BEAM group community with both single men and women to unmask the armour. Book a quick call with me to learn more: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/dkcal

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Scared to Be a Burden? The Surprising Power of Vulnerability

Sat, 06 Sep 2025 21:55:39 GMT

Do you hold back from sharing your needs because you’re scared of hurting someone or being “too much”? You’re not alone. In this episode, we explore the fear of speaking up, the roots of why we stay silent, and how choosing vulnerability (even when it’s scary) can create deeper, more authentic connections. Whether it’s asking for a hug or setting a boundary, we’ll talk about how to start small, speak truthfully, and build relationships that hold space for the real you.

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Dating with Depth: How Inner Work Leads to Lasting Love

Wed, 13 Aug 2025 02:32:33 GMT

In this episode, fitness coach Elliot Hasoon opens up about the mindset shifts, therapy, and healing work that helped him move from dating burnout to deep connection and ultimately, to a happy marriage. We talk emotional availability, clarity, and the power of doing your inner work. Ready to date with more intention? Join my workshop at www.insidesmatchjourney.com to start attracting love that lasts.

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Learning to Feel Safe Talking About Money

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 23:04:11 GMT

Ever felt like your bank account knows more about your childhood than your therapist does? You’re not alone. In this heartfelt (and occasionally hilarious) episode, Dagmar sits down with financial expert Cherie Wagner to unpack the money beliefs we inherit, the shame we carry, and the weird things we do with our wallets because of it.

From first paychecks to fights about Roth IRAs, this episode dives deep into how our financial fears show up in relationships. Learning to talk about money with honesty and compassion can change everything. Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode will help you feel a little less alone and a lot more hopeful.

Spoiler alert: There’s no judgment here. Just real talk, big laughs, and a whole lot of healing.

Ready to date with more intention? Join my workshop at www.insidesmatchjourney.com to start attracting love that lasts.

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The Hard Conversations You Need Before Saying ‘I Do'

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 23:14:13 GMT

In this episode, Dagmar Kusiak and guest Michelle Willard dive into the tough conversations you need before marriage: from money and kids to faith and boundaries. Learn why meeting your own needs first creates safer relationships and how to talk about the topics that often get avoided. Tune in for real stories, real tools, and real talk on building a secure, lasting partnership. Plus Michelle shares personal stories about her own journey, including marrying her husband in just 27 days and the hard work it took to build a healthier marriage after separation. Subscribe and tune in for real talk on becoming more emotionally available and building love that lasts.

Ready to date with more intention? Join my workshop at www.insidesmatchjourney.com to start attracting love that lasts.

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The #1 Communication Secret That Changes Who You Attract

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 02:49:46 GMT

Turiya Hodge, a successful business owner and social media strategist, shares what it truly means to be emotionally available. She reveals the surprising parallels between the walls she built in business and in love and how learning to be vulnerable changed everything. Discover the business strategy that helped her shift her mindset on love. Turiya opens up about the steps she took to get past her insecurities, how she prepared for a healthy relationship, and how she knew her fiance is the one. Plus, she offers powerful tips for communicating with clarity and intention to build a lasting, secure relationship.

Ready to date with more intention? Join my workshop at www.insidesmatchjourney.com to start attracting love that lasts.

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Episode 1: My Story & Why This Podcast Exists

Sat, 31 May 2025 03:13:30 GMT

In this very first episode, I get honest about why I started Becoming Emotionally Available and why it took me so long to get here. I’m sharing my personal journey through heartbreak, healing, and learning to open up emotionally. If you’ve ever felt stuck, scared to love, or unsure where to begin, this episode is for you. Let’s start this journey together.

Ready to date with more intention? Join my workshop at www.insidesmatchjourney.com to start attracting love that lasts.

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