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]]> true Slate Podcasts info+695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2@mg-eu.acast.com 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich https://feeds.megaphone.fm/SLT9013902574 episodic https://assets.pippa.io/shows/695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2/show-cover.jpg https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to-do-it How to Do It with Stoya and Rich https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want. My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want. Sun, 27 Mar 2022 09:00:00 GMT 25:04 1000553752361 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f60d1ba84fb8f14e226 695d7f60d1ba84fb8f14e226 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 It feels really unfair. full This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself.

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My New Gender Workbook by Kate Bornstein

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]]> My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend Sun, 20 Mar 2022 09:00:00 GMT 10:26 67ee4f28-d9d9-11f0-8169-9716e9691377 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6339d31c858850ac4c 695d7f6339d31c858850ac4c 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 In retrospect, this may have been a mistake. full Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.

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]]> Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.

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]]> No One Tells You What Happens When You’re Suddenly a Hot Guy No One Tells You What Happens When You’re Suddenly a Hot Guy Sun, 13 Mar 2022 09:00:00 GMT 11:08 1000553752338 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6364fe6d212780f479 695d7f6364fe6d212780f479 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 The women in their 20s are the worst. full This week, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man whose attractiveness is getting in the way of his life and work.

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man whose attractiveness is getting in the way of his life and work.

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]]> I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands Sun, 06 Mar 2022 10:00:00 GMT 20:19 1000552739875 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6039d31c858850abba 695d7f6039d31c858850abba 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I feel like I’m losing my mind. full This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who is overwhelmed by her partner’s daily sexual needs, and they discuss a letter from a man who wonders if his post-sex feelings are normal.

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who is overwhelmed by her partner’s daily sexual needs, and they discuss a letter from a man who wonders if his post-sex feelings are normal.

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]]> The One Thing My Partner Desires in Bed Makes Me Gag The One Thing My Partner Desires in Bed Makes Me Gag Sun, 27 Feb 2022 10:00:00 GMT 22:06 1000552258247 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f60d1ba84fb8f14e21c 695d7f60d1ba84fb8f14e21c 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I think it’s a texture thing. full This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who wonders what they can do to have a better experience giving oral sex, and they discuss a letter from a woman looking for advice on how to explain her specific dating needs. 

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Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who wonders what they can do to have a better experience giving oral sex, and they discuss a letter from a woman looking for advice on how to explain her specific dating needs. 

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Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor

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]]> I’m a Woman With a Very Male Sex Problem I’m a Woman With a Very Male Sex Problem Sun, 20 Feb 2022 10:00:00 GMT 19:38 1000551415197 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f620c30a1408dd2e9c9 695d7f620c30a1408dd2e9c9 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 Plot twist. full This week, Stoya and Rich advise a woman whose partner complains that she orgasms too quickly, and they discuss a letter from a woman who’s puzzled by why her boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex very often.

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So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex by Ian Kerner

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich advise a woman whose partner complains that she orgasms too quickly, and they discuss a letter from a woman who’s puzzled by why her boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex very often.

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So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex by Ian Kerner

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]]> The Simple Way to Have Better Sex After Marriage The Simple Way to Have Better Sex After Marriage Sun, 13 Feb 2022 10:00:00 GMT 20:25 1000550825430 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f638e6dd12efb153254 695d7f638e6dd12efb153254 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 It’s easier than it seems. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter for Valentine’s Day from a man who’s looking for tips on how to spice up his sex life with his wife, and they discuss a letter from a man who’s wondering how to involve himself with his wife’s other relationship.

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Curious Pleasures by The Reverend Dr Eramus St Jude Croom DD

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter for Valentine’s Day from a man who’s looking for tips on how to spice up his sex life with his wife, and they discuss a letter from a man who’s wondering how to involve himself with his wife’s other relationship.

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Curious Pleasures by The Reverend Dr Eramus St Jude Croom DD

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]]> I (Unfortunately) Know What My Husband Has Been Doing in Garage I (Unfortunately) Know What My Husband Has Been Doing in Garage Sun, 06 Feb 2022 10:00:00 GMT 23:42 1000550115195 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f620c30a1408dd2e9d7 695d7f620c30a1408dd2e9d7 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I’m only hurt because of the other reason. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who’s worried about her husband’s secret habit, and offer suggestions for oral sex to a letter writer who has a unique problem. 


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Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers

Is Porn Addiction a Real Thing?

Moody Bitches by Julie Holland

“TMJ and Intimacy” by S. Michael Plaut


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who’s worried about her husband’s secret habit, and offer suggestions for oral sex to a letter writer who has a unique problem. 


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Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers

Is Porn Addiction a Real Thing?

Moody Bitches by Julie Holland

“TMJ and Intimacy” by S. Michael Plaut


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]]> I’ve Only Just Discovered What Really Turns Me On. But What Is This Even Called? I’ve Only Just Discovered What Really Turns Me On. But What Is This Even Called? Sun, 30 Jan 2022 10:00:00 GMT 30:01 1000549319960 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6364fe6d212780f474 695d7f6364fe6d212780f474 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 And how do I tell my wife? full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s just made a new sexual discovery about himself. Then they hear from a woman who’s feeling judged for her boundaries.

Guest: Ryan Scoats

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‘I don’t mind watching him cum’: Heterosexual men, threesomes, and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality.

Understanding Threesomes by Ryan Scoats

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s just made a new sexual discovery about himself. Then they hear from a woman who’s feeling judged for her boundaries.

Guest: Ryan Scoats

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‘I don’t mind watching him cum’: Heterosexual men, threesomes, and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality.

Understanding Threesomes by Ryan Scoats

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]]> What Everyone Gets Wrong About Herpes What Everyone Gets Wrong About Herpes Sun, 23 Jan 2022 10:00:00 GMT 29:43 1000548608687 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f650c30a1408dd2eac5 695d7f650c30a1408dd2eac5 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 A doctor explains whether a woman’s new boyfriend is right about their herpes risk. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who has a tricky question about herpes and a new man she’s seeing. Then they hear from a man who didn’t like the surprise he got in bed.


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“How Herpes Became a Sexual Boogeyman,” by L.V. Anderson, Slate, Dec. 2, 2019.


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who has a tricky question about herpes and a new man she’s seeing. Then they hear from a man who didn’t like the surprise he got in bed.


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“How Herpes Became a Sexual Boogeyman,” by L.V. Anderson, Slate, Dec. 2, 2019.


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]]> <![CDATA[I'm Worried About Cheating on My Girlfriend With My Wife]]> Sun, 16 Jan 2022 10:00:00 GMT 17:36 1000547927826 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f618e6dd12efb153209 695d7f618e6dd12efb153209 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 Let me explain. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s concerned he’s cheating on his girlfriend—with his wife. Then they hear from a woman who wonders how bad it is that she kept a secret from a new romantic interest.


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s concerned he’s cheating on his girlfriend—with his wife. Then they hear from a woman who wonders how bad it is that she kept a secret from a new romantic interest.


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]]> I Have “COVID Dick.” Can I… Grow It Back? I Have “COVID Dick.” Can I… Grow It Back? Sun, 09 Jan 2022 10:00:00 GMT 25:58 1000547221478 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6264fe6d212780f46e 695d7f6264fe6d212780f46e 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 This is a nightmare. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who wonders what he can do about “COVID dick.” Then they hear from a letter writer who doesn’t know if she’s capable of having casual sex—even though she wants it. Guests this episode: Charles Welliver and Ashley G. Winter.

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RestoreX

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who wonders what he can do about “COVID dick.” Then they hear from a letter writer who doesn’t know if she’s capable of having casual sex—even though she wants it. Guests this episode: Charles Welliver and Ashley G. Winter.

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RestoreX

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]]> My Husband Tried Something “New” With His Penis. I’m Dying. My Husband Tried Something “New” With His Penis. I’m Dying. Sun, 02 Jan 2022 10:00:00 GMT 15:10 1000545839103 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f638e6dd12efb15325f 695d7f638e6dd12efb15325f 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 A great modern sex debate arrives in my household. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who’s been traumatized by her husband’s new “look.” Then they hear from a letter writer who wants to bring spanking outside of the bedroom.


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who’s been traumatized by her husband’s new “look.” Then they hear from a letter writer who wants to bring spanking outside of the bedroom.


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]]> The Thing That’s Been Turning Me on the Most Is Completely Unavoidable The Thing That’s Been Turning Me on the Most Is Completely Unavoidable Sun, 26 Dec 2021 10:00:00 GMT 15:23 1000545829995 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6339d31c858850ac53 695d7f6339d31c858850ac53 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 Is this a problem I should feel guilty about? full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who’s keeping a neighborly secret. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders how to bring up a touchy subject with her boyfriend.


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who’s keeping a neighborly secret. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders how to bring up a touchy subject with her boyfriend.


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]]> I Had Another Woman Take Over Sex With My Boyfriend... I Had Another Woman Take Over Sex With My Boyfriend... Sun, 19 Dec 2021 10:00:00 GMT 21:19 1000544979773 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6439d31c858850acad 695d7f6439d31c858850acad 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 It seemed like a great idea at the time. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who feels left out of her partners’ escapades. Then they hear from a letter writer who’s bothered that they don’t know why they didn’t get another date.

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Out of the Shadows by Walt Odets


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who feels left out of her partners’ escapades. Then they hear from a letter writer who’s bothered that they don’t know why they didn’t get another date.

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Out of the Shadows by Walt Odets


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]]> Is What I Just Did Really “Cheating” on My Boyfriend? Is What I Just Did Really “Cheating” on My Boyfriend? Sun, 12 Dec 2021 10:00:00 GMT 19:18 1000544598278 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f64154465cd601f4d21 695d7f64154465cd601f4d21 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I can’t tell if I feel too guilty for this—or not guilty enough. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who wonders if what she just did counts as cheating. Then they hear from a man who wonders how to get his husband to agree to indulge his new desire in bed.


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who wonders if what she just did counts as cheating. Then they hear from a man who wonders how to get his husband to agree to indulge his new desire in bed.


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]]> My Girlfriend’s Real Sexual History Caught Me Off Guard My Girlfriend’s Real Sexual History Caught Me Off Guard Sun, 05 Dec 2021 10:00:00 GMT 18:17 1000543431477 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f640c30a1408dd2ea37 695d7f640c30a1408dd2ea37 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I worry I don’t want her anymore. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who just found out something about his girlfriend that disgusts him. Then they hear from a letter writer who’s wondering what to do about his in-laws’ peculiar pre-wedding tradition.


Mentioned in the episode:

Shameless by Nadia Bolz-Weber


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who just found out something about his girlfriend that disgusts him. Then they hear from a letter writer who’s wondering what to do about his in-laws’ peculiar pre-wedding tradition.


Mentioned in the episode:

Shameless by Nadia Bolz-Weber


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]]> I Have the Curse of the Straight Woman I Have the Curse of the Straight Woman Sun, 28 Nov 2021 09:00:00 GMT 22:12 1000543230054 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f600c30a1408dd2e94c 695d7f600c30a1408dd2e94c 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 What do you think of my solution? full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who can’t quit men. Then they hear from a man who is about to have sex for the first time since he lost his wife. 


Mentioned in the episode:

She Comes First by Ian Kerner


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who can’t quit men. Then they hear from a man who is about to have sex for the first time since he lost his wife. 


Mentioned in the episode:

She Comes First by Ian Kerner


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]]> What Happens After I Fight With My Girlfriend Is … Worrisome What Happens After I Fight With My Girlfriend Is … Worrisome Sun, 21 Nov 2021 09:00:00 GMT 24:20 1000542153614 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6464fe6d212780f4c7 695d7f6464fe6d212780f4c7 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I’m a little concerned. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s getting highly aroused at an inopportune time with his girlfriend. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders what to do about her husband’s strange penis.


Mentioned in the episode:

“Sexual interest as performance, intellect and pathology: A critical discursive case study of dacryphilia”

The Little Death (2014)


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s getting highly aroused at an inopportune time with his girlfriend. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders what to do about her husband’s strange penis.


Mentioned in the episode:

“Sexual interest as performance, intellect and pathology: A critical discursive case study of dacryphilia”

The Little Death (2014)


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]]> I Discovered an Astonishing “Secret” About My Boyfriend I Discovered an Astonishing “Secret” About My Boyfriend Sun, 14 Nov 2021 08:00:00 GMT 28:18 1000541394623 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f64154465cd601f4cfb 695d7f64154465cd601f4cfb 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 There’s no way he did this by accident. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who wonders if she got duped by her boyfriend—including feedback from listeners like you. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders if it’s weird that they hate the most basic form of intimacy there is. 

Mentioned in the episode:

“The reasons humans started kissing,” BBC Future, Aug. 15, 2021

Stoya’s How to Do It column on kissing


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who wonders if she got duped by her boyfriend—including feedback from listeners like you. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders if it’s weird that they hate the most basic form of intimacy there is. 

Mentioned in the episode:

“The reasons humans started kissing,” BBC Future, Aug. 15, 2021

Stoya’s How to Do It column on kissing


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]]> The Big Problem With Well-Endowed Men The Big Problem With Well-Endowed Men Sun, 07 Nov 2021 11:00:00 GMT 24:47 1000540649207 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f678e6dd12efb153660 695d7f678e6dd12efb153660 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who wonders if she can do more to accommodate her partner’s, uh, large needs. Then they hear from a man whose wife has a alarming sex drive.

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who wonders if she can do more to accommodate her partner’s, uh, large needs. Then they hear from a man whose wife has a alarming sex drive.

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]]> I Saw What My Husband Is Secretly Doing on His Computer I Saw What My Husband Is Secretly Doing on His Computer Sun, 31 Oct 2021 10:00:00 GMT 16:10 1000539810371 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f618e6dd12efb153204 695d7f618e6dd12efb153204 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 Do all men do this? full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter about a woman who has noticed her husband’s peculiar secret habit on his computer. Then they advise a woman who wants to know when is the right time to disclose her sexual history and preferences.

Mentioned in this episode:

“Why Do People Watch Porn When They’re Not Masturbating,” Mel Magazine.


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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter about a woman who has noticed her husband’s peculiar secret habit on his computer. Then they advise a woman who wants to know when is the right time to disclose her sexual history and preferences.

Mentioned in this episode:

“Why Do People Watch Porn When They’re Not Masturbating,” Mel Magazine.


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]]> The Truth That Would Devastate My Husband The Truth That Would Devastate My Husband Sun, 24 Oct 2021 10:00:00 GMT 21:43 1000539216537 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f64154465cd601f4d0a 695d7f64154465cd601f4d0a 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 Every time we have sex, I can’t help but think about this. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who feels guilty for what she thinks about during sex with her husband. Then they advise a letter writer who doesn’t want to screw up the new sexual opportunity he’s been given by his wife.

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who feels guilty for what she thinks about during sex with her husband. Then they advise a letter writer who doesn’t want to screw up the new sexual opportunity he’s been given by his wife.

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]]> I Feel Terrible About What Turns Me On. But It’s So Hot. I Feel Terrible About What Turns Me On. But It’s So Hot. Sun, 17 Oct 2021 10:00:00 GMT 17:33 1000538507298 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f628e6dd12efb153216 695d7f628e6dd12efb153216 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 Where do I go to get this removed from my brain? full This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who feels terrible about what turns her on the most. Then they advise another woman who’s suffering from a problem that people usually think only men have.

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who feels terrible about what turns her on the most. Then they advise another woman who’s suffering from a problem that people usually think only men have.

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]]> The Question You Can Never Ask Men on Dating Apps The Question You Can Never Ask Men on Dating Apps Sun, 10 Oct 2021 10:00:00 GMT 16:15 67edea10-d9d9-11f0-8169-832952ef8fcc false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f640c30a1408dd2ea60 695d7f640c30a1408dd2ea60 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 Is this really so bad? full Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now and get $25 off your first year.

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who wonders if she was wrong for asking a certain question on a dating app. They also advise a letter writer who’s caught her husband cheating online.

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]]> Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now and get $25 off your first year.

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who wonders if she was wrong for asking a certain question on a dating app. They also advise a letter writer who’s caught her husband cheating online.

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]]> My Wife’s Devastating Confession About Our Sex Life My Wife’s Devastating Confession About Our Sex Life Sun, 03 Oct 2021 10:00:00 GMT 20:47 67ede0ce-d9d9-11f0-8169-e7d673675d59 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f620c30a1408dd2e9bf 695d7f620c30a1408dd2e9bf 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I’m devastated. full Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus for just $1 for your first month.

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who just found out what his wife secretly thinks of their sex life. Then they respond to an 18-year-old heading off to college with a big question about his first time having sex.

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]]> Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus for just $1 for your first month.

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who just found out what his wife secretly thinks of their sex life. Then they respond to an 18-year-old heading off to college with a big question about his first time having sex.

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]]> I Thought I Was Pro-Sex Work I Thought I Was Pro-Sex Work Sun, 26 Sep 2021 10:00:00 GMT 16:55 67edd6c4-d9d9-11f0-8169-2b7cdacaeb76 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6439d31c858850acc7 695d7f6439d31c858850acc7 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I never knew I’d judge my friends so harshly for a choice with their own bodies. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a woman who thought she was pro-sex work—until her friends started doing it. They also discuss another letter from a woman who is worried about what her boyfriend can’t seem to pull off during sex. 

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a woman who thought she was pro-sex work—until her friends started doing it. They also discuss another letter from a woman who is worried about what her boyfriend can’t seem to pull off during sex. 

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]]> What I Just Caught My Wife Doing What I Just Caught My Wife Doing Mon, 20 Sep 2021 10:00:00 GMT 10:13 67ee86be-d9d9-11f0-8169-076bce5f5668 false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f64d1ba84fb8f14e300 695d7f64d1ba84fb8f14e300 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 I don’t even know how to bring this up. full For launch week only, this Slate Plus episode of How to Do It is free to everyone. Sign up for Slate Plus now so you don’t miss out next Monday.

On this week’s second episode, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man who caught his wife in a compromising position while his friend was visiting.


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]]> For launch week only, this Slate Plus episode of How to Do It is free to everyone. Sign up for Slate Plus now so you don’t miss out next Monday.

On this week’s second episode, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man who caught his wife in a compromising position while his friend was visiting.


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]]> Love at First Jizz Love at First Jizz Sun, 19 Sep 2021 10:00:00 GMT 23:17 67edcd14-d9d9-11f0-8169-4f4c632d2dcb false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f6764fe6d212780f57d 695d7f6764fe6d212780f57d 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 Women tell me I’m a monster because of what I do after we have sex. full This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a man who falls in love for a very embarrassing reason, and a woman whose good friend just started a new OnlyFans account—and seems to be targeting all her friends’ husbands for follows.

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]]> This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a man who falls in love for a very embarrassing reason, and a woman whose good friend just started a new OnlyFans account—and seems to be targeting all her friends’ husbands for follows.

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]]> Introducing: How to Do It Introducing: How to Do It Fri, 10 Sep 2021 21:15:00 GMT 0:50 67eeaacc-d9d9-11f0-8169-6f56730ad55e false https://shows.acast.com/how-to-do-it-with-stoya-and-rich/episodes/695d7f64d1ba84fb8f14e2ec 695d7f64d1ba84fb8f14e2ec 695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2 trailer A sex advice podcast from Slate, coming 9/19.

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]]> A sex advice podcast from Slate, coming 9/19.

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