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			<title>How To Pin a Social Butterfly</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the first ever episode of Why Can’t We Be Friends! I’m Lillian Li and I’m kind of obsessed with friendships and friend breakups. I wrote an entire novel, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/bad-asians-a-novel-lillian-li/536aea0d7121761b?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=dsa_nonbrand&amp;utm_content={adgroupname}&amp;utm_term=dsa-19959388920&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=12440232635&amp;gbraid=0AAAAACfld41cVzS09ekjy_qYV7rywMm9Z&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjw_vnQBhCxARIsADcZyxJ71WJ-dc65f4D6xbw5Xs0VQpVd0LmjaDIwSdKVlL71x-7KxncmYHkaAsMXEALw_wcB" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">BAD ASIANS</a>, centered on a huge friend breakup, and it’s a topic I feel like so many people share, but also one that not that many people talk about, even though these breakups can be as hard, or sometimes harder, than a romantic breakup.</p><br><p>So I started this podcast, where every episode I take a friendship breakup story shared by an anonymous volunteer, and I go through it with one of my dearest friends: from the conflict to the resolution to the reflections. Throughout we also share our friendship highs and lows.</p><br><p>Today, my guest is Sam Krowchenko, a writer, a bookseller, my friend for 11 years, and my husband for 2. Our friendship breakup story comes from a man I’ll call Peter, who is 88-years-young, a true social butterfly whom I met swimming at a local pond.</p><br><p><em>The Why Can’t We Be Friends podcast is produced by JT Godfrey, edited by Anita Li, music by </em><a href="https://aboynamedmadelyn.bandcamp.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Mads Henke</em></a><em>.</em></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the first ever episode of Why Can’t We Be Friends! I’m Lillian Li and I’m kind of obsessed with friendships and friend breakups. I wrote an entire novel, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/bad-asians-a-novel-lillian-li/536aea0d7121761b?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=dsa_nonbrand&amp;utm_content={adgroupname}&amp;utm_term=dsa-19959388920&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=12440232635&amp;gbraid=0AAAAACfld41cVzS09ekjy_qYV7rywMm9Z&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjw_vnQBhCxARIsADcZyxJ71WJ-dc65f4D6xbw5Xs0VQpVd0LmjaDIwSdKVlL71x-7KxncmYHkaAsMXEALw_wcB" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">BAD ASIANS</a>, centered on a huge friend breakup, and it’s a topic I feel like so many people share, but also one that not that many people talk about, even though these breakups can be as hard, or sometimes harder, than a romantic breakup.</p><br><p>So I started this podcast, where every episode I take a friendship breakup story shared by an anonymous volunteer, and I go through it with one of my dearest friends: from the conflict to the resolution to the reflections. Throughout we also share our friendship highs and lows.</p><br><p>Today, my guest is Sam Krowchenko, a writer, a bookseller, my friend for 11 years, and my husband for 2. Our friendship breakup story comes from a man I’ll call Peter, who is 88-years-young, a true social butterfly whom I met swimming at a local pond.</p><br><p><em>The Why Can’t We Be Friends podcast is produced by JT Godfrey, edited by Anita Li, music by </em><a href="https://aboynamedmadelyn.bandcamp.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Mads Henke</em></a><em>.</em></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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