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]]> false info+6498d8ddcec87100116721b6@mg-eu.acast.com 6498d8ddcec87100116721b6 a-secret-third-thing episodic https://assets.pippa.io/shows/cover/1687737785197-4dce870e809e6767a193e66b219bab92.jpeg https://shows.acast.com/a-secret-third-thing A Secret Third Thing Carta Monir Carta Monir Sun, 23 Mar 2025 12:00:00 GMT 1:18:55 67df7cf2ec9837e25eeda516 true https://shows.acast.com/a-secret-third-thing/episodes/carta-monir 67df7cf2ec9837e25eeda516 6498d8ddcec87100116721b6 carta-monir full 2 1 In this episode, Jet and Ren return after a long hiatus and are joined by your favorite girlfriend, author, artist, and porn performer: Carta Monir!


Discussion includes the subjects of gracefully navigating complex relational webs, figuring out how to advocate for our desires in contexts where people don't know how to communicate, as well as learning self-acceptance and embracing sexuality as a person with emerging disabilities.


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Carta's Links


Samuel Delany


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]]> In this episode, Jet and Ren return after a long hiatus and are joined by your favorite girlfriend, author, artist, and porn performer: Carta Monir!


Discussion includes the subjects of gracefully navigating complex relational webs, figuring out how to advocate for our desires in contexts where people don't know how to communicate, as well as learning self-acceptance and embracing sexuality as a person with emerging disabilities.


Episode Transcript


References/Resources


Carta's Links


Samuel Delany


Cover Photo Credit: Wondra

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]]> Pod Mapping for Radical Relating Pod Mapping for Radical Relating Sat, 09 Dec 2023 17:00:40 GMT 41:41 6573cecf34c2dd0011ab841e true https://shows.acast.com/a-secret-third-thing/episodes/pod-mapping-for-radical-relating 6573cecf34c2dd0011ab841e 6498d8ddcec87100116721b6 pod-mapping-for-radical-relating full 1 4 In this episode of A Secret Third Thing, Jet and Ren record themselves while presenting live to an audience of people from their locale (the Midwest) and talk about the importance of Pod Mapping when carving out intentional non-traditional relationships. They also respond in real time to questions from their curious audience. Content Note: This was recorded outside near a busy road. We did the best we could to minimize noise interference but the audio is harsher than our other content.


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Pod Mapping (BATJ)


Pacing Protocol

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]]> In this episode of A Secret Third Thing, Jet and Ren record themselves while presenting live to an audience of people from their locale (the Midwest) and talk about the importance of Pod Mapping when carving out intentional non-traditional relationships. They also respond in real time to questions from their curious audience. Content Note: This was recorded outside near a busy road. We did the best we could to minimize noise interference but the audio is harsher than our other content.


Transcript


Resources

Pod Mapping (BATJ)


Pacing Protocol

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]]> Rejection Rejection Fri, 28 Jul 2023 12:30:49 GMT 47:15 64c1de080e1a7c00111a4e95 true https://shows.acast.com/a-secret-third-thing/episodes/rejection 64c1de080e1a7c00111a4e95 6498d8ddcec87100116721b6 rejection full 1 3 In this episode Jet and Ren discuss the theme of rejection and the ways that it has shown up in their lives as a window in to how it plays a bigger role in disconnection within the queer community.


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Access Intimacy - Mia Mingus


RA Smorgasbord - Maxx Hill


"Fucking Trans Women" - Mira Bellwether

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]]> In this episode Jet and Ren discuss the theme of rejection and the ways that it has shown up in their lives as a window in to how it plays a bigger role in disconnection within the queer community.


Episode Transcript


References/Resources:


Access Intimacy - Mia Mingus


RA Smorgasbord - Maxx Hill


"Fucking Trans Women" - Mira Bellwether

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]]> The Pandemic Fucked Us The Pandemic Fucked Us Tue, 04 Jul 2023 13:00:55 GMT 53:35 64a3ae2de2cdb300116043f3 true https://shows.acast.com/a-secret-third-thing/episodes/the-pandemic-fucked-us 64a3ae2de2cdb300116043f3 6498d8ddcec87100116721b6 the-pandemic-fucked-us Time To Fuck Back full 1 2 In this episode, Jet and Ren discuss the ways the pandemic has impacted their relationship with each other and with their desires more generally.


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Panzine


Queer Desire Party Zine



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]]> In this episode, Jet and Ren discuss the ways the pandemic has impacted their relationship with each other and with their desires more generally.


Episode Transcript



References/Resources:


Panzine


Queer Desire Party Zine



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]]> Introduction Introduction Mon, 26 Jun 2023 13:00:48 GMT 49:52 6498e0a0eca6e20011572d9d true https://shows.acast.com/a-secret-third-thing/episodes/introduction 6498e0a0eca6e20011572d9d 6498d8ddcec87100116721b6 introduction full 1 1 In this episode, Jet and Ren introduce themselves and the podcast by sharing about their secret third things and their journeys to get to where they are in understanding their orientations towards intimate relationships.


Episode transcription


References/Resources:

Earthseed - Octavia Butler

RA Manifesto - Andie Nordgren

Pod Mapping - Mia Mingus

RA Smorgasbord - Maxx Hill

NRE - Multiamory Podcast

Aromantic Manifesto - yingchen & yingtong

Disability Justice - Sins Invalid



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]]> In this episode, Jet and Ren introduce themselves and the podcast by sharing about their secret third things and their journeys to get to where they are in understanding their orientations towards intimate relationships.


Episode transcription


References/Resources:

Earthseed - Octavia Butler

RA Manifesto - Andie Nordgren

Pod Mapping - Mia Mingus

RA Smorgasbord - Maxx Hill

NRE - Multiamory Podcast

Aromantic Manifesto - yingchen & yingtong

Disability Justice - Sins Invalid



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