60 acast.com Be The Parent https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/be-the-parent en Debbie Gilly Kelly parenting, education ,children,advice ,how to,help,educators Three longtime educators come together for a friendly, honest conversation about what really helps kids thrive. Drawing on decades of classroom and leadership experience, we share practical insights that empower parents with clarity and confidence. Our mission is simple: help you be the parent your child needs. Join us each episode for practical guidance and thoughtful conversation to help you thrive as a parent.


Debbie is a licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-C) with over 30 years of experience working with individuals and families. Her background includes works in family service agencies, hospitals, and schools. She has supported a wide range of age groups, from elementary school students through college-aged young adults.


Gilly dedicated her career to supporting children, from teaching four-year-olds to leading a preschool and guiding students in grades five through eight. She earned master’s degrees in School Counseling and Special Education, along with Early Childhood certification, driven by her commitment to helping children who struggled in school. She created learning environments where every child felt safe, valued, and encouraged to reach their full potential.


Kelly brings over 25 years of experience in teaching and school administration across middle and high schools in public, independent, and international settings. She is dedicated to building strong partnerships with families, working closely with parents to support students’ academic success as well as their social and emotional growth. Kelly holds a Master of Arts in Teaching.



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]]> Three longtime educators come together for a friendly, honest conversation about what really helps kids thrive. Drawing on decades of classroom and leadership experience, we share practical insights that empower parents with clarity and confidence. Our mission is simple: help you be the parent your child needs. Join us each episode for practical guidance and thoughtful conversation to help you thrive as a parent.


Debbie is a licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-C) with over 30 years of experience working with individuals and families. Her background includes works in family service agencies, hospitals, and schools. She has supported a wide range of age groups, from elementary school students through college-aged young adults.


Gilly dedicated her career to supporting children, from teaching four-year-olds to leading a preschool and guiding students in grades five through eight. She earned master’s degrees in School Counseling and Special Education, along with Early Childhood certification, driven by her commitment to helping children who struggled in school. She created learning environments where every child felt safe, valued, and encouraged to reach their full potential.


Kelly brings over 25 years of experience in teaching and school administration across middle and high schools in public, independent, and international settings. She is dedicated to building strong partnerships with families, working closely with parents to support students’ academic success as well as their social and emotional growth. Kelly holds a Master of Arts in Teaching.



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]]> false betheparent.dgk@gmail.com 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f be-the-parent serial https://assets.pippa.io/shows/cover/1775652848808-92396385-f1d6-4a88-9aa0-bbe1036e06d6.jpeg https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/be-the-parent Be The Parent Boredom is a Superpower! Boredom is a Superpower! Mon, 22 Jun 2026 18:19:00 GMT 8:55 6a397bed520e6781344f4b48 false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/6a397bed520e6781344f4b48 6a397bed520e6781344f4b48 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 9 Tired of playing constant entertainer? This episode dives into why boredom is actually a gift for both parents and kids. Discover how stepping back and letting boredom take over can unlock a child's imagination, foster self-regulation, and spark unexpected new interests.


Resources:

A Kid's Book about Boredom by Kyle Steed

I'm Sooo Bored! What Should I Do? By Chad Ritchey


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]]> Tired of playing constant entertainer? This episode dives into why boredom is actually a gift for both parents and kids. Discover how stepping back and letting boredom take over can unlock a child's imagination, foster self-regulation, and spark unexpected new interests.


Resources:

A Kid's Book about Boredom by Kyle Steed

I'm Sooo Bored! What Should I Do? By Chad Ritchey


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]]> Summer Activities - Fun, Learning, and Skills Summer Activities - Fun, Learning, and Skills Mon, 08 Jun 2026 18:00:23 GMT 26:07 6a270337401089d02d5c851c false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/6a270337401089d02d5c851c 6a270337401089d02d5c851c 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 8 In this episode, Gilly and Kelly discuss ideas for summer activities for children and young adults based around the ideas of fun, learning, and skill development. Debbie is on vacation and will be back soon!


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]]> In this episode, Gilly and Kelly discuss ideas for summer activities for children and young adults based around the ideas of fun, learning, and skill development. Debbie is on vacation and will be back soon!


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]]> Learning From Children’s Books Learning From Children’s Books Mon, 01 Jun 2026 17:51:18 GMT 16:00 6a1dc696302b9e359c05156e false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/6a1dc696302b9e359c05156e 6a1dc696302b9e359c05156e 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 7 Reading children’s books like The Jester Has Lost His Jingle by David Saltzman—one of Debbie and Gilly’s favorites—sparked meaningful conversations about the valuable life lessons stories can teach. While the book explores many themes, its most powerful messages center on hope, courage, laughter, and perseverance. 


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]]> Reading children’s books like The Jester Has Lost His Jingle by David Saltzman—one of Debbie and Gilly’s favorites—sparked meaningful conversations about the valuable life lessons stories can teach. While the book explores many themes, its most powerful messages center on hope, courage, laughter, and perseverance. 


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]]> Grades Do Not Define One Grades Do Not Define One Mon, 25 May 2026 14:31:05 GMT 16:58 6a145cfcb9ac1c860c49de37 false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/6a145cfcb9ac1c860c49de37 6a145cfcb9ac1c860c49de37 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 6 In this podcast, Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly explore the often artificial methods used to grade children. Although they recognize that grades are an important and lasting part of education, they argue that grades fail to reflect many essential life skills that contribute to a child’s overall growth. They encourage parents to look beyond academic performance and value traits such as strong character and social skills, which play a major role in long-term success.


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]]> In this podcast, Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly explore the often artificial methods used to grade children. Although they recognize that grades are an important and lasting part of education, they argue that grades fail to reflect many essential life skills that contribute to a child’s overall growth. They encourage parents to look beyond academic performance and value traits such as strong character and social skills, which play a major role in long-term success.


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]]> The Phone - A Constant Temptation The Phone - A Constant Temptation Mon, 18 May 2026 11:23:34 GMT 14:24 69d685c22a193257adf7974d false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/69d685c22a193257adf7974d 69d685c22a193257adf7974d 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 5 In this podcast, Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly emphasize that parents should model healthy phone habits for their children. They highlight that excessive phone use can hinder a child’s growth, creativity, and communication skills, making it important for parents to set a positive example.


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Some resources for further listening/reading:


https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/left-to-their-own-devices/id1840912030


https://www.anxiousgeneration.com/



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]]> In this podcast, Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly emphasize that parents should model healthy phone habits for their children. They highlight that excessive phone use can hinder a child’s growth, creativity, and communication skills, making it important for parents to set a positive example.


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Some resources for further listening/reading:


https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/left-to-their-own-devices/id1840912030


https://www.anxiousgeneration.com/



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]]> Embrace the Struggle - Expect Hardships Embrace the Struggle - Expect Hardships Mon, 11 May 2026 04:00:00 GMT 9:03 69d68570e257f11e038b29f9 false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/69d68570e257f11e038b29f9 69d68570e257f11e038b29f9 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 4 Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly have found that some students may struggle not only academically, but also socially and emotionally. Parents shouldn’t remain passive while this happens. Instead, they should listen to their child, validate their feelings, and work with the school to make sure their child receives the support they need.


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Some resources for further listening/reading:


https://angeladuckworth.com/grit-book/

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]]> Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly have found that some students may struggle not only academically, but also socially and emotionally. Parents shouldn’t remain passive while this happens. Instead, they should listen to their child, validate their feelings, and work with the school to make sure their child receives the support they need.


We want to hear from you! Share your questions, comments, and suggestions for upcoming episodes at BetheParent.dgk@gmail.com.


Some resources for further listening/reading:


https://angeladuckworth.com/grit-book/

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]]> The Struggling Students - Our Emotions Affect Academics The Struggling Students - Our Emotions Affect Academics Mon, 04 May 2026 13:27:57 GMT 14:52 69d68607086c93c18bbae71b false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/69d68607086c93c18bbae71b 69d68607086c93c18bbae71b 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 3 In this podcast, Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly highlight the importance of parents understanding their children’s needs in order to build effective study skills. By creating supportive study environments and collaborating with teachers and schools, parents can help set their children up for success.


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]]> In this podcast, Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly highlight the importance of parents understanding their children’s needs in order to build effective study skills. By creating supportive study environments and collaborating with teachers and schools, parents can help set their children up for success.


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]]> The Struggling Student - Be Proactive vs. Reactive The Struggling Student - Be Proactive vs. Reactive Mon, 04 May 2026 13:27:36 GMT 17:35 69d687502a193257adf7faed false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/69d687502a193257adf7faed 69d687502a193257adf7faed 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 2 Addressing the serious issue of school bullying, Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly urge parents to take a proactive role. They recommend partnering with the school to confront unacceptable behavior and ensure that children feel safe and supported.


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]]> Addressing the serious issue of school bullying, Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly urge parents to take a proactive role. They recommend partnering with the school to confront unacceptable behavior and ensure that children feel safe and supported.


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]]> The Struggling Student - Understanding and Guiding your Child The Struggling Student - Understanding and Guiding your Child Mon, 04 May 2026 13:12:29 GMT 19:13 69d653c234b90cef2b912c03 false https://shows.acast.com/be-the-parent/episodes/69d653c234b90cef2b912c03 69d653c234b90cef2b912c03 69d6505334b90cef2b8f9d2f full 1 1 Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly note that students may struggle not only academically, but also socially and emotionally. Parents shouldn’t remain passive while this happens. Instead, they should listen to their child, validate their feelings, and work with the school to make sure their child receives the support they need.


We want to hear from you! Share your questions, comments, and suggestions for upcoming episodes at BetheParent.dgk@gmail.com.


Some resources for further listening/reading:


An oldie but important book -- Multiple Intelligneces  Howard Gardner. Harper Collins Publisher 1993


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]]> Debbie, Gilly, and Kelly note that students may struggle not only academically, but also socially and emotionally. Parents shouldn’t remain passive while this happens. Instead, they should listen to their child, validate their feelings, and work with the school to make sure their child receives the support they need.


We want to hear from you! Share your questions, comments, and suggestions for upcoming episodes at BetheParent.dgk@gmail.com.


Some resources for further listening/reading:


An oldie but important book -- Multiple Intelligneces  Howard Gardner. Harper Collins Publisher 1993


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