Hear a summary trailer of our wonderful guests, who told their unique birth experiences across episodes 41 - 52.

12 local mothers bravely shared their birth stories in their own words, with fascinating topics and perspectives.

Deeply emotional, educational, surprising, amusing and inspirational... these stories are told by women living right here in Gibraltar!

💜 12 episodes (January - March 2026)

💜 Over 15 hours of audio

💜 Stories from 1989 - 2025

💜 27 babies!

Birth is so intimate and life-changing... your experience is unique.

Want to share your story? Contact Lucinda: bornontherock@gbc.gi 

Thank you for listening, and join us for Season 5 starting in May 2026!

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Local doctor, author and campaigner Meenal Viz changed UK law during the pandemic… while starting her family! This driven mum-of-three is passionate about positive change, shares her motherhood journey in this end-of-season special.

Meenal discovered she was pregnant while working for the NHS with her doctor husband… as the pandemic hit. She was profoundly affected by the death of a fellow pregnant medical worker amid conflicting Covid advice, and campaigned against inadequate protection for healthcare workers. Meenal staged a solo protest outside 10 Downing Street... while 6-and-a-half months pregnant.

The couple's first daughter was born by caesarean in 2020, in over-stretched conditions with Covid restrictions. Breastfeeding was initially difficult, and Meenal spent lonely postpartum months working on her legal challenge and coping with - rather than enjoying - motherhood.

The couple moved back to Gibraltar in 2023 when Meenal was in the third trimester of her second pregnancy. She juggled more sickness while parenting and writing her book. She had a far more positive CS birth, feeling safe and respected – Meenal speaks highly of the midwives, and began to enjoy motherhood more.

A third pregnancy in 2024 brought challenges - hospital admissions for worsening hyperemesis, Covid, plus caring for two young children! Meenal felt this pregnancy passed in a blur, before another positive CS birth experience.

We have an interesting chat about her Indian Hindu heritage and relationship with her own mother, as well as the importance of supporting new mothers and speaking up for creating positive change. Thank you Dr Meenal for sharing your inspirational birth stories! (Recorded February 2026).

Instagram: https://www.meenalviz.com/

Book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Power-Protest-Healthcare-Meenal-Viz/dp/1839978414

GibTalks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MYx3dvu9-CU

GBC: https://www.gbc.gi/news/gibraltarian-doctor-shares-story-of-ppe-protest-during-pandemic

UK news: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/apr/24/doctor-couple-challenge-uk-government-on-ppe-risks-to-bame-staff

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Welcome to an educational episode with mum of two, Stephanie Marzan. She describes parenting a child with PKU - a rare metabolic disorder affecting just 1 in 15,000 babies, where too much protein can lead to irreversible brain damage.

Stephanie became pregnant easily and had a good pregnancy in 2017. She was induced and had a long labour, before their daughter arrived safely at almost 42 weeks - however, just days later the couple received a call to say their baby's heel-prick test result showed a serious issue. More blood tests followed over several weeks, with an emergency trip to Evelina Children's Hospital, before they finally received a diagnosis of phenylketonuria (PKU). 

Stephanie explains the complex steps she faces daily, to keep her daughter on a strict diet of low phenylalanine - an amino acid commonly found in high protein foods and artificial sweetener. Weaning required training by a dietician, and Stephanie became an expert at reading food labels, navigating party bags and restaurants - even carrying scales in her bag to measure food. The pandemic made things harder for the family to source foods, leading to costly bulk shipments. We discuss the impact on family life and work, and how Stephanie successfully lobbied local medical authorities to get a specialist medication made available in Gibraltar 💪

And then: another pregnancy! This journey in 2021 was trickier with pain and weekly monitoring through the third trimester, before another induction and natural delivery. The heel-prick test for their second daughter was clear; an experience most new parents take for granted. We discuss how their younger daughter understands PKU dietary restrictions, the difficulty in planning logistics around hobbies, plus the vital role of support from family and friends. It's an honest and powerful story of true parental devotion - thank you Stephanie for bravely sharing your two Gibraltar birth stories (Recorded January 2026).

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Welcome to a bumper episode with Layla Bates! This mum of two tells her eventful motherhood journey, step-by-step and in honest detail. She and her partner had a uncertain start to their first pregnancy, with the baby not visible on the scan partly due to the shape of Layla's uterus, and a large hematoma that caused worrying bleeding into the second trimester.

Although their daughter was born safely, Layla hemorrhaged and required surgery for retained placenta. Combined with the pandemic, it was an eventful time as the couple adjusted to family life! We chat about balancing work and childcare after maternity leave.

Sadly, the couple had two miscarriages in the following years. Please note there are graphic descriptions that some listeners may find difficult to hear. Layla highlights a meaningful 'sign' before discovering her fourth pregnancy. Deemed high-risk, she was monitored closely with use of progesterone, aspirin and bedrest due to pelvic pain and low-lying placenta. She faced anxious decisions about her birth plan, though happily this labour was a far more ‘textbook’ experience; her daughter arrived quickly and without complications.

We discuss the bond between her daughters, Layla’s seemingly changed uterus shape after pregnancies, and excitingly – the couples’ upcoming wedding! Layla hopes her story is encouraging to other women who might have uterine anomalies, bleeding through pregnancy or face miscarriage. Thank you Layla, for sharing your story! (Recorded January 2026).

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Welcome to our first guest formally recognised on the New Year's Honours list for her trailblazing local charity work! Isobel Ellul was made Member of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire (MBE) for services to the community - most notably setting up Breast Cancer Support Gibraltar. This is a rollercoaster story of Isobel's journey into parenthood, whilst overcoming several of her own health challenges.

Isobel grew up during the closed Frontier times, before becoming pregnant in the mid-1990's. Very sadly she experienced two miscarriages at 9 & 13 weeks, and recalls specific details of that time. Happily a third pregnancy saw the safe natural delivery of her son in 1997. Isobel found that working postpartum (as a former GBC TV presenter!) was good for her mental health.

Two years later, a doctor saved Isobel's life by recognising signs of an ectopic pregnancy. With surgery, she expected her fertility to be impacted... but went on to welcome a Millennium baby! Local TV audiences saw her grow bigger across the pregnancy, before her second son was born with a much easier labour.

Isobel discovered a cancerous lump in her breast, while the boys were still very young. She speaks candidly about her mastectomy, recovery, bringing her sons to awareness-raising events, and lobbying Government to establish screening processes and support. Serious spinal surgery and a second breast cancer diagnosis followed years later, which she overcame.

We chat about being a parent to adults, the importance of self-care and checking your breasts, and her positive mindset approach to life's challenges. Thank you Isobel for sharing your Gibraltar Birth Stories in this fascinating, empowering episode! (Recorded January 2026).

For support, please see https://breastcancergib.com

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Please note there is discussion of loss in this emotional episode of two halves, as we meet brave local mother Vanessa Correa who describes her four birth experiences.

Vanessa begins by fondly recalling how she was engaged, married and a mother... all by the age of 20. She and her husband welcomed their first baby after a good pregnancy and long labour, in the summer of 2004. They settled into family life, although Vanessa shares some funny anecdotes of how their son never seemed to sleep!

Soon after, the couple discovered they were expecting again. After another straightforward pregnancy and long labour, their second son was born in 2006. We chat about what it's like to raise teens and young adults with differing personalities.

At the start of 2013, Vanessa and her husband were devastated by the spontaneous late miscarriage of their third baby, a little girl at 21 weeks. She speaks bravely about trying to come to terms with grief, with no obvious answers... and factors that made the situation worse. Later that same year, the unthinkable happened - another late miscarriage, another little girl, this time at 19 weeks. It's an incredibly difficult listen as Vanessa describes insensitive comments and a lack of counselling, as she and her husband supported each other in their darkest grief - while continuing to parent their young sons.

Although very rare, late miscarriages do happen in 2-3% of pregnancies... and it's Vanessa's hope that sharing her story may offer support to others grieving the loss of a child. She spoke so bravely about her parenting journey and the longer-term physical impacts, including her functional neurological disorder potentially linked to the stress of her birth trauma. This episode honours the memory of Vanessa's two daughters (Recorded January 2026).

If you've been affected by topics raised in this episode, please find support at:

GibSams by free phone 116 123, Whatsapp 56003612 or online: gibsams.gi/

BabyStepps (Support Through Early Parenthood & Pregnancy): www.facebook.com/babystepps.gibraltar/

Sands: www.sands.org.uk

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We’re heading back to the late 80’s today, with Ivana Finlayson and her husband – both nurses at the old St Bernard’s hospital. It’s a dramatic and emotional listen for the second half of our story.

Ivana was a young mother with a good pregnancy, and her son was born on his actual due date! She required a caesarean with both of her children – at a time when these were carried out under general anaesthetic. She returned to work two months postpartum, and speaks about a special bond with her own mother.

By 1991, Ivana was expecting again. Soon after the birth, her baby’s health deteriorated due to differing blood types between mother and baby (ABO incompatibility now rarely presents complications, thanks to advances in early detection).

She describes a traumatic few days as her daughter’s jaundice worsened; she became so poorly that a priest was called. Just two days postpartum, Ivana took a flight to King’s College Hospital, terrified by warnings that her baby might die. She remembers emergency care being excellent, as staff discovered the shocking reason her daughter hadn’t improved in Gibraltar.

Back on the Rock, Ivana adjusted to life with a newborn and toddler… while taking her nursing exams. She feels that navigating her daughter’s near-fatal experience made her a more empathetic nurse, and she describes a touching ‘full-circle’ moment towards the end of our chat. It was lovely to hear Ivana’s advice to her younger self, as well what it’s like to be a grandmother. Thank you Ivana for sharing your two Gibraltar Birth Stories (Recorded December 2025).

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Welcome to an uplifting episode of empowerment, positivity and humour! We meet Dulcie Edwards, her husband and their two children, born either side of the pandemic.

For years Dulcie never dreamed of becoming a parent - but when the time came to start a family in her early 30's, she describes tricky menstrual cycles and hormonal treatment for fertility issues. After a sad miscarriage, the couple found they were expecting their daughter in 2019.

There's some very funny anecdotes through Dulcie's pregnancy journey (especially from her workplace at a school!), before a long labour began. She describes how her baby seemed 'stuck,' due to a transverse position and her posterior uterus. A fast birth followed with a good recovery for both, though Dulcie speaks about processing her emotions in the early postpartum months.

After the pandemic, the family found they were expecting a little boy. At full-term Dulcie was induced due to the risk of infection. She describes an intense labour with no pain relief, and her son making his arrival known! We chat about her recovery, the children's bond and personalities, plus her hopes for their futures - especially in a digital world. This was a fun and empowering one to record, and I'm very grateful to Dulcie for sharing her two Gibraltar Birth Stories! (Recorded December 2025).

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We meet Nicole Byrne this week: a mother of three boys who really learned to speak up! It's an episode of growth as Nicole overcame challenges and stigma - she describes negative local attitudes to being young, pregnant and unmarried in the 1990's.

For all three pregnancies, Nicole experienced nausea, sensitivity to smell and minimal weight gain. Much of her first labour was without pain relief, and her son was born with no complications. Despite him being a 'good' baby, Nicole's fatigue led to a diagnosis of Hashimoto's thyroiditis, requiring lifelong treatment.

When pregnant with her second son, Nicole was advised to have a caesarean due to his breech position. In the months after his birth, she felt certain there was something wrong... yet felt dismissed by doctors with no medical answers. Nicole insisted on a referral to a UK hospital - where he was diagnosed with a very rare condition affecting the neck, shoulder and spine (Klipper-Feil Syndrome with Sprengel's deformity). Despite family support it was a difficult time for Nicole - she became involved with the Disability Society and took a career break to care for her young boys.

There's humour in our chat as Nicole describes a surprise pregnancy with her new partner, almost a decade later! After a scare in the third trimester, her third son was born very quickly. We have a lovely chat about the boys' relationships, and what it's like to parent adults. This was such an interesting episode about trusting your intuition, learning to advocate, and growing in confidence as a mother. I'm so grateful to Nicole for sharing her Gibraltar Birth Stories! (Recorded November 2025).

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We meet local mother Roxane and her husband in this episode, plus their son and daughter born two years apart. Roxane discovered she was pregnant after treatment for endometriosis... and just as the world locked down with the pandemic in 2020.

She describes the uncertainty of changing Covid restrictions, and how severe sickness from six weeks made for a challenging pregnancy. After a lengthy labour, their little girl arrived by assisted delivery. Roxane describes the use of forceps as traumatic, and her recovery slow as they adjusted to life as a family of three.

In her second pregnancy, Roxane again suffered with hyperemesis that led to three hospital admissions in her first trimester. This time she accepted more family support, and describes finding a pattern to taking anti-sickness medications... while parenting her toddler.

Due to her previous difficult experience, Roxane was offered an elective caesarean. She describes feeling torn between her options, before a 'lightbulb' decisive moment. However, the birth of her son coincided with an unsettling event for the family, leading to an emotional week in hospital.

Despite being major surgery, Roxane describes her caesarean recovery as far less painful and a complete contrast to her first birth experience. It's lovely to hear her increased self-confidence across this episode! We also discuss her hopes and concerns for the children's futures - including the rise of social media, and her positive parenting approach from a counselling background. Thank you Roxane for sharing your two Gibraltar Birth Stories! (Recorded October 2025).

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This is a great episode about what it's like for a world class athlete to undergo dramatic physical changes to become a mother, as well as manage type one diabetes through pregnancy. Olivia and her husband Mark are parents to a one year old little girl and are both elite cyclists, having represented Gibraltar at the Commonwealth and Island Games.

The couple had to find time period between competitive events to try for a family, and quickly became pregnant in 2023. The physical change for Olivia was stark - from 100km cycles and personal bests, to a 25kg weight gain and being breathless climbing the stairs. She describes becoming hyper-vigilant in monitoring her daily sugar levels to ensure the baby's healthy development. She also experienced an erratic heart rate and nausea through pregnancy, alongside working full-time and moving house!

This is a great example of a successful induction and straightforward labour without complications - aside from the smell of her husband's lunch! It was emotional meeting their daughter for the first time, and after a short stay in hospital due to jaundice, they settled into life as a family of three.

Olivia's postpartum journey saw her restart gentle exercise with her husband's support a few weeks later. Remarkably within just three months, she regained much of her fitness and qualified for the Orkney Island Games! Olivia went on to win gold and bronze medals at the event in 2025 - when her daughter was just over a year old. She describes juggling training and parenting in such a down-to-earth way - I loved recording this fun and inspirational episode! Thanks Olivia for sharing your Gibraltar Birth Story (Recorded September 2025).

https://www.gbc.gi/news/orkney-island-games-two-gold-a-bronze-for-gibraltars-womens-cycling-team

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We meet Maggie Henshaw in this episode, a mum to two boys born either side of the pandemic. The way she discovered both pregnancies was unusual!

Maggie and her husband had been trying to start their family for over three years, when they found they were expecting their son. She had a positive pregnancy journey, natural delivery and good recovery in early 2019, with her son experiencing temporary 'conehead' after delivery. As a toddler, he began speech and language therapy due to glue ear and later received a diagnosis of autism… while Maggie was pregnant with the couple’s second son.

Her second pregnancy was difficult due to worsening pelvic pain - by her second trimester, Maggie was using crutches. Pelvic Girdle Pain (PGP) meant she experienced increasing discomfort around her hips, sacroiliac joints and lower spine… especially as the baby grew. This affects 1 in 5 pregnant women, and Maggie’s story really highlights its’ impact before and after birth. She went into spontaneous labour in the summer of 2023 and had another natural delivery – without any pain relief! 

Maggie speaks warmly of her supportive husband, her mum and mother-in-law – as well as Early Birds nursery. We discuss her mixed feeding journey, parenting a child with autism, and what it’s like to have children that look so similar! Thank you Maggie for sharing your two Gibraltar Birth Stories (Recorded September 2025).

Early Birds Nursery: https://www.stmartinsschoolgibraltar.com/our-school/early-birds-nursery

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Kick-starting Season 4 of the podcast is local nurse Kelly Bingham! In this episode we meet her family - her ex-military husband and two boys... born six years apart at the same weight of 9lbs 2oz!

The couple learned they were expecting their first baby in the summer of 2013, and Kelly experienced a good pregnancy - aside from nausea and working a physically demanding job. She describes a good labour and natural delivery, although with fluctuating blood pressure (pre-eclampsia) and an issue with uterus contraction afterwards. At six weeks old, her baby’s jaundice levels required an urgent referral to a London hospital – a period Kelly describes as very difficult. Thankfully he had no serious complications and returned to the Rock soon after.

For her second pregnancy Kelly was not as nauseous… but from 14 weeks her baby remained in breech position. She talks about the higher-risk situation making her nervous for a different kind of birth, an elective caesarean. Thankfully it went well, and after being treated for an infection she had a good recovery too. Although her second son also had jaundice investigations, he was deemed healthy.

Throughout our chat, Kelly references gratitude for her strong family support. She describes adjusting to becoming a family of four - there's a funny story about how her sons first met! - and she speaks fondly about the bond between her two sons. This was a fun one to record! (August 2025) Thank you Kelly for sharing your two Gibraltar Birth Stories.

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Listen to the the voices of these local mothers, and a summary of the huge range of topics covered:

💜 15 episodes (July to October 2025)

💜 Over 18 hours of audio

💜 Stories ranging from 1975 to this summer

💜 27 babies born!!

As the national broadcaster, it's been a privilege to capture these life-changing and emotional local stories... providing support and a powerful resource to others in our community. Thank you for listening, and join us for Season 4 starting in January 2026!

If you'd like to share your story, email: bornontherock@gbc.gi

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Welcome to part 2 of Chloe's journey - a diary special to end Season 3 of the podcast! We track Chloe's pregnancy with their surprise baby that she and her husband conceived naturally... just months after welcoming their little girl born via IVF.

Episode 39 (part one) was recorded when Chloe was 19 weeks pregnant. This episode begins at 29+2 weeks, as Chloe recaps her second trimester– with a flight to America, plus discovering an unusual gynae issue. Going into trimester 3, she’s uncertain whether to have an elective caesarean or natural labour.

At our full term update (38+1), Chloe is more confident about her birth plan, and speaks so highly of her supportive husband. She outlines the physical and emotional strains of being heavily pregnant in August with a toddler, but shares a great beach tip and some funny anecdotes about how people respond to her bump! She speculates (incorrectly!) about when her daughter might be born. Another update (39+1) sees more discomfort kick in.

Short voice notes at 40 weeks, 40+2 and 40+3 capture progress of appointments...and Chloe’s emotions! Remarkably, she recorded an update on the ACTUAL day her daughter was born, and the very next day too... but from the Critical Care Unit, due to another postpartum haemorrhage. Thankfully her daughter was well, and Chloe tracks her recovery with voice notes 2 & 5 days postpartum.

Two weeks after the birth, Chloe gives a more detailed account of events. Despite another traumatic experience requiring a blood transfusion, she’s full of praise for the medical team and feels she had a better physical recovery this time. We have final catch-ups at 1 and almost 2 months postpartum, where Chloe discusses her daughter’s emerging personality, reflects on self-care and shares her hopes for the future.

I’m so grateful to Chloe for recording this very special episode over half a year! :)

Season 4 begins in January 2026,

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Welcome to the first of a two-part special, to end Season 3 of the podcast! Chloe Loddo and her husband had been trying to start their family for over 2 years, before receiving a diagnosis of infertility. She speaks poignantly about the increasing impact on her mental health at that time, before the couple began their IVF journey at a Spanish private clinic in 2023.

Chloe had a successful first treatment cycle - and she describes her 'cautiously optimistic' mindset throughout a good pregnancy journey. There's some humour in how she describes labour starting, before her daughter was born via an assisted natural delivery (kiwi vacuum) in the Spring of 2024.

However she sustained significant blood loss, and in the following days Chloe became even more poorly with a dangerous complication. She was admitted to hospital for an emergency procedure to remove retained placenta… and some weeks later, a second postpartum haemorrhage (PPH) led to another hospital admission. Chloe explains how her difficult start to motherhood was a blur, of feeling very unwell and being separated from her little girl.

She praises her husband and mum for their support during her recovery, and happily they settled well into family life together. Chloe shares some great positive advice to others trying to conceive or facing infertility, and speaks about wishing she’d opened up to close family and friends sooner for support. And then! A HUGE surprise that Chloe simply describes as 'wild.' You'll be smiling so much by the end of this episode! We'll continue Chloe's story in part two, Episode 40.

If you found this episode particularly interesting, check out episode 29 too.

For more episodes about IVF, find episodes 2, 7, 17, 18, 20, 22 and 25.

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We're heading back to 1985, 1987 and 1991 today with Jackie Catania and her three children. This is a great episode for hearing about very smooth pregnancies... although she describes medical factors after each birth.

Jackie was 23-years old and full-term with her first child... when she got chicken pox! She was very uncomfortable, and it presented the maternity ward with a delivery challenge. A fast natural labour followed and thankfully her daughter was unaffected, but Jackie was advised not to hold or feed her daughter until the pox had gone... a full week later. She speaks about feeling overwhelmed when she finally brought her daughter home, although speaks fondly about support from her mother and sister.

Two years later Jackie experienced another smooth pregnancy, fast labour and natural delivery with her son. However he had breathing difficulties as a baby and child, and she describes a trip to the UK for investigations. Doctors discovered the root of his manageable condition, and Jackie explains her concern and care throughout his childhood.

A last textbook pregnancy followed, but with a spontaneous labour six weeks early. Jackie describes how her waters broke in a very public place, and how medical professionals deemed a caesarean delivery best... against her wishes. Jackie describes painful healing while travelling to hospital in London post-partum, for her daughter to be monitored. Happily she was well, and Jackie was able to breastfeed for the first time, before returning to the Rock.

We have an interesting discussion about the benefits of hindsight, and what it's like to be a grandparent. I’m so grateful to Jackie for sharing her three Gibraltar Birth Stories (Recorded August 2025).

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⚠️Trigger warning: Discussion of birth trauma in the second half of this episode.

We're meeting Tina Reyes and her husband in this episode, whose two boys were born in 2012 and 2015. Tina underwent gynae investigations and treatments for suspected infertility, before falling pregnant with her first son. She had a textbook pregnancy before a lengthy labour and natural delivery. Tina gives a great description of her breastfeeding journey with local support.

She had a positive second pregnancy... until a hospital admission at 17 weeks due to placenta previa. It's a serious complication with a high risk of bleeding, commonly requiring caesarean delivery. Tina describes how online groups helped yet hindered: she learned alot but felt intense anxiety into her third trimester. She was hospitalisied again at 32 weeks.

A full-term caesarean delivery followed, but with a sudden medical emergency. Tina cites instances that she feels impacted events surrounding the birth - with some details she only learned months later. It's an emotional listen as Tina speculates whether outcomes may have been avoided or managed differently. Thankfully her son was well after a delayed blood transfusion, although her own recovery understandably took longer.

Family support has been a major factor in Tina's journey, and we chat about raising boys as the teenage years approach. She's passionate about self advocacy, and I'm very grateful to Tina for bravely sharing her two contrasting Gibraltar birth stories (Recorded August 2025).

If you have been affected by any of the topics in this episode, GibSams offer a listening service on free phone number 113 123, or find support online at: https://gibsams.gi/

Disclaimer: views expressed in this article are those of Tina Reyes and do not reflect the views of GBC.

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We’re meeting 68-year old Anne Martinez in this episode who takes us back to the 1970’s for a UK birth, and the 1980’s for a birth on the Rock. Unusually, both of Anne’s babies were born prematurely and - more unusually - required minimal intervention!

Anne describes a good healthy pregnancy in 1975, and what it was like to go into spontaneous labour as a married 19 year old far away from family. Her daughter arrived by natural delivery at a healthy weight after a straightforward and quick labour – she had no complications and avoided a stay in an incubator. Anne recovered well, but alludes to a serious incident that led to her returning to the Rock with her daughter.

Some years later a second pregnancy followed with her new husband. Anne was well, but again went into spontaneous labour at 7 months, while watching a popular 80’s TV drama! Her son arrived by natural delivery – the same week that Anne was due to use the first ultrasound scanner that had arrived in Gibraltar. She describes him born at a good weight, but experiencing jaundice. She also sought a second opinion and medical treatment across the (recently re-opened) border, for her son's gastrointestinal issues.

We chat about what it’s like to be a great-grandmother, as well as something very important to Anne: her faith. There’s family links to a guest from episode 25 on the podcast too! I’m so grateful to Anne for sharing her premature birth stories from over 40 years ago (Recorded August 2025).

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Laura Bradshaw and her military husband found themselves posted to Gibraltar in 2010, at a stage where they'd already been trying to start a family for a few years - unsuccessfully. Laura describes irregular cycles, polycystic ovaries and her weight as issues in not receiving more timely help with fertility treatment... but when this was finally prescribed, it proved very effective! 

Laura had a good pregnancy and felt well, but describes rising anxiety in her second trimester as she was repeatedly warned by military medical staff that she would have to return to the UK to give birth alone. Unhappy with this plan, she switched her care to the GHA and was instantly happier with a more attentive and caring approach, plus regular monitoring for her gestational diabetes. She describes a lengthy labour, induction and tricky assisted delivery as they welcomed their little boy, before spending a very happy year on the Rock as a family of three.

Laura explains what it was like to discover a surprise second pregnancy soon afterwards, and to move from Gibraltar for their next posting while expecting! This time it was textbook pregnancy with a faster, spontaneous labour and natural delivery of their second son. Some years later (and while living in yet another location!) Laura became pregnant again with their daughter. But this journey was trickier due to nausea, gestational diabetes, a longer induced labour and a jaundice scare requiring specialist treatment.

We chat about juggling care for three young children while far away from family, the military way of life, and the things Laura misses about Gibraltar (especially one detail about St Bernard's hospital!)... as well as the power of advocating for yourself and seeking support. This story was so interesting to record and I'm very grateful to Laura for adding a fascinating insight to the podcast, about giving birth on the Rock when it's not your permanent home! (Recorded August 2025).

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We're squeezing a huge range of topics into this fascinating episode, with Lesley Anne Viñales and her husband. This couple married young and took a relaxed approach to starting their family, but as the years passed with two sad early miscarriages, they began to think parenthood could be out of reach. Happily, they became pregnant... but as the pandemic hit! Lesley speaks about the challenges of being an expectant mother when the whole world locked down.

At 33 weeks while in Spain, she felt increasing pain... followed by a sudden, heavy bleed. A frightening rush followed to get to Gibraltar, and thanks to the actions of a quick-thinking border officer, the couple reached St Bernard's quickly. It's an emotional listen as Lesley describes the blur of an emergency caesarean - her doctor detected life-threatening placental abruption, and safely delivered their daughter.  Unusually for a premature baby, she didn't have to leave the Rock for specialist care. Lesley reflects on how different the outcome could have been. She healed well and they settled into family life in the summer of 2020.

Then along came a second, unexpected pregnancy! Lesley explains the irony of the new baby's due date, and speaks about navigating gallbladder issues, another haematoma and more hyperemesis. She was monitored closely, and an elective caesarean was deemed the safest option. Their second daughter arrived healthy at full-term, and Lesley reflects on the two contrasting birth experiences, describing them as like 'night and day.'

There's an interesting discussion about autism towards the end of this episode, and the parenting challenges that presents. She has been supported by family and Early Bird's nursery, and speaks so fondly about both her girls - their personalities really shine through! It's clear she and her husband are an incredibly strong team together, and I'm so grateful to Lesley for sharing her - remarkably different - birth stories (Recorded July 2025).

Early Bird's Nursery information: https://www.stmartinsschoolgibraltar.com/our-school/early-birds-nursery

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Benvenuti to an international episode of the podcast! We’re jetting between Gibraltar and Rome in this story, with local mum Rochelle Ferreri and her Italian husband. 

Rochelle sets the scene describing gynaecological issues from her from teenage years, with PCOS and debilitating painful periods. This was medically managed through her adult life, until the couple decided to start trying for a baby. Rochelle fell pregnant quickly in 2014, and found comfort spending time at the beach. Despite sickness and sciatica, she had a generally good pregnancy and a straightforward natural delivery on the Rock. Rochelle was supported by her mum and husband – who thankfully made it back in time from Italy for his son’s birth!

She explains what it was like to travel with a newborn, highlighting both the exciting opportunities and challenges of bringing up a baby over a thousand miles away from family. Rochelle found a support network of other ex-pat parents, and emphasises the importance of creating connection in early parenthood. 

There's mention of a sad miscarriage in this episode, as Rochelle navigated medical investigations for her returning heavy periods approaching her forties. She shares the fertility information she wishes she’d known years ago, and we discuss the importance of listening to your body. There's an interesting chat about raising a child in a trilingual household, and her hopes for her son in the future. This was a really thought-provoking episode, and I’m very grateful to Rochelle - grazie! - for sharing her Gibraltar Birth Story (Recorded July 2025).

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We're heading back to the late 1990's in this episode, to meet teenage sweethearts Claire Ellul and her then partner. Claire experienced very erratic periods, and on advice from her doctor she began medication to regulate her cycles. Some time later, she discovered she was pregnant... and already entering her third trimester! 😮 Claire describes the shock of this news and the absence of traditional early pregnancy symptoms. There's some humour with her mother-in-law's novel suggestion to confirm the pregnancy!

Claire tried old wives' tales to facilitate the labour and had a good experience with a natural birth. She safely delivered her son in the summer of 1998, and got married (very!) soon afterwards. Claire describes money as tight, with the couple having made financial commitments before learning about their son. 

After returning to work, she discovered ANOTHER cryptic pregnancy late in her second trimester! Claire speaks about adjusting to welcoming a second baby, with cravings and a bump appearing as she neared her due date. Another good natural delivery followed in the summer of 1999, and the couple settled into life as a family of four... all this before Claire reached her 20th birthday!

Her two sons share the same age for part of each year - we reflect on the realities of parenting a small age gap, and her whirlwind start to motherhood. Claire shares the advice she would give herself as a new mum, and reflects on what it's like to parent young adults now. I really enjoyed hearing this remarkable story, and I'm so grateful to Claire for sharing her two 'cryptic' birth stories! (Recorded July 2025). 

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We’re meeting qualified nurse Nicole Pizarro in this episode, a mum who’s two daughters were born 10 years apart. She describes a good first pregnancy, with parentcraft classes helping her feel more prepared for her daughter’s arrival in 2012… a rare example of a baby born on their actual due date!

Nicole describes a natural delivery, the process of placenta stem cell retrieval, and then the difficult months that followed as she adjusted to a breastfeeding journey alongside silent reflux. She’s open about anxiety she experienced, and we discuss her daughter’s diagnosis of nut and egg allergies. It’s an educational listen as Nicole outlines many challenges across the years in keeping her little girl safe, and how it's changed her as a parent. She speaks fondly of the bond with her daughter, as well as navigating the pandemic and a wedding to her new partner.

A much-wanted second pregnancy came along in 2023 with a fun gender reveal, and Nicole describes issues faced as an older mother approaching 40. There are positives though – her gestational diabetes was controlled, placenta previa resolved, and the baby turned from breech position before birth. A fast natural delivery followed, and Nicole speaks about what it’s like adjusting to a larger age gap, and the importance of support for mothers. I’m so grateful to Nicole for sharing her birth stories! (Recorded June 2025).

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In this episode we meet serving police officer Patricia Gonzalez, who sets the scene with a history of gynaecological issues over many years, and a diagnosis of unexplained infertility. She accepted that she’d always be the ‘fun aunt’ and not a mother... until her late 30’s when she naturally conceived!

After a sad miscarriage, Patricia speaks about feeling more ready for motherhood… and then becoming pregnant again in 2016. She describes feeling uncomfortably large due to fluid retention, and her pregnancy was classed as high-risk as she approached her 40th birthday. Patricia had an elective caesarean, with a less-common vertical incision to remove a large fibroid. She required a blood transfusion during recovery, due to anemia. Patricia speaks very openly about her anxiety at being a good mum, and about bonding with her little girl.

This episode highlights an older mother’s physical journey after birth – Patricia describes painful gynae issues, sciatica and peri-menopause symptoms. Tests indicated her at heightened risk of ovarian cancer, requiring an urgent hysterectomy. She shares her experience of navigating this difficult stage with fluctuating hormone levels, a toddler and working full-time… through the pandemic! Despite these big topics, there’s lots of laughs and candid honesty in this episode, and it's lovely to hear about the relationship she has with her daughter. I’m so grateful to Patricia for sharing her birth story (Recorded June 2025).

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Get ready for a rollercoaster episode with Bryony Rovegno and her family! In just a few short years, this local Mum experienced an incredible journey with a range of unexpected complications. Bryony and her partner were told that their chances of natural conception were very low from medical tests, so they began a fertility journey with a Spanish clinic. Three rounds of IVF later, the couple became pregnant with their daughter. Bryony had a haematoma and was severely sick until labour, when she had an assisted natural delivery… but things quickly took a turn for the worse, as her baby stopped breathing.

It's an emotional listen as Bryony describes the frightening medical emergency, with her little girl needing CPR and intubation plus a trip to Malaga. Staff battled to treat her daughter’s unexplained hypoxia and tried unconventional methods in a desperate bid to save her… against the odds she recovered, as the very rare (and usually fatal) cause was finally discovered. Bryony believes her daughter’s survival chances were a one in a billion.

Adjusting to their baby’s dramatic arrival, she describes the complete shock of then becoming pregnant again – naturally this time. Another haematoma and sickness followed, before placenta previa and an infection led to an emergency caesarean delivery of their son in early 2024. Bryony and her son recovered well, and the couple adapted to life as a family of four. She speaks openly about the challenges of colic, parenting a very small age-gap and working full-time.

Bryony hopes her episode offers support to anybody going through any similar issues, and highlights positive moments throughout her journey. I’m very grateful to Bryony for sharing her amazing birth stories (Recorded June 2025).

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We're meeting Natalie Baitson in this episode: a mother whose labours got progressively faster - from 6 hours, to 1 hour... to just 17 minutes! 

Natalie and her partner were teenage sweethearts before starting their family in their early twenties, with baby Kaila in 2013. There's an unusual twist about about how the couple discovered they were expecting, but the pregnancy was straightforward and Natalie had a good natural delivery at hospital. The only concern was that she measured small for all three pregnancies - although her babies were all around 6lbs born, and she herself has a slight frame.

In 2017 Natalie experienced her only pregnancy that involved sickness, before Baby Kleo was born unexpectedly quickly at home. It was a high-risk situation due to breech position, with Natalie's partner delivering the baby as the ambulance was delayed. She believes they were able to manage the situation as it was their second birth. Natalie describes a complication affecting baby Kleo's hip, that required months of monitoring and trips to the Evelina hospital in London. Natalie tried an unusual treatment technique that proved successful, and happily Kleo now has a full range of movement with no lasting effects.

Her third birth in 2022 is described as Natalie's most traumatic, due to the sheer speed of events. This time her husband insisted on taking her to hospital when he recognised the first sign of labour... Natalie describes a race against time, and another dramatic birth at the entrance of the Maternity ward! She has time stamps on her phone messages that prove just how rapidly the labour progressed - something she points out can be very difficult to adjust to physically and emotionally. I'm very grateful to her for sharing her very fast birth stories! (Recorded June 2025).

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We're meeting Lucy Ware in this episode, mother to little ray of sunshine toddler Lottie! This is the most impressive gender reveal story so far, at the concert of a famous pop star in 2023 (that even made the news!) A few weeks later however, Lucy and her partner Jake were told that anomalies seen at the 20 week scan showed their little girl had spina bifida. This lead them on a journey away from the Rock for stressful scans and medical consultations... Lucy describes those weeks as being the worst of her life, as the couple grappled with questions and uncertainty.

A naturally positive couple, they decided to continue with the pregnancy and learn how best to support their daughter. They discovered that her bowel, bladder, ankles and feet would be most affected, and that her birth was too high-risk for Gibraltar. Lucy describes how in her third trimester, she and Jake undertook a roadtrip, relocating to London for the caesarean birth and specialist care. Lottie was born safely but then underwent major surgery within hours, spending weeks in hospital before the family could travel back to the Rock.

Lucy speaks so eloquently about Lottie's journey, and what it's like learning to care for a child with a physical disability. Lottie is developing into a bright and happy little girl, handling her physiotherapy and follow-up appointments well and settling into nursery. This is a proud loving family raising awareness and promoting inclusivity within the community, with a message of hope and positivity in the face of a difficult diagnosis. It's been a real privilege to capture this story (recorded May 2025), and I'm so grateful to Lucy for sharing.

For support, UK Charity Shine: https://www.shinecharity.org.uk/

Local charity PossAbilities: https://possabilities-gib.com/

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This special episode is in two parts, with General Practitioner Dr Olivia Gonzalez. In the first half she gives an overview of her professional background, and the services at the GHA Well Woman clinic where she's worked since 2020. Olivia explains how to book an appointment, what to expect on attendance, and gives great advice on discussing sensitive topics such as menopause, periods, fertility, contraception and postnatal care. She mentions some useful resources, outlined in the notes below.

In the second half, Olivia shares the two birth stories of her boys. She experienced a good first pregnancy and natural delivery, before settling into family life... just as the pandemic hit. Olivia speaks very openly about the challenges of managing anxiety and adjusting to her son's autism diagnosis.

Her second pregnancy followed a diagnosis of polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) with gestational diabetes, requiring dietary management. Deemed high risk, Olivia was encouraged to have a caesarean - but her son had other ideas! Immediately after both births Olivia felt physically well, and she speaks so fondly about the support from her husband and family. 

There's lots of sensible advice and positivity in this episode, with a real emphasis on self-kindness. I'm very grateful to Olivia for sharing her valuable professional experience and honest birth stories here. (Recorded May 2025).

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To contact the GHA Well Woman clinic, call 2000 7842 or use the egov.gi portal

The National Autistic Society Early Bird Parenting https://www.autism.org.uk

Local charity PossAbilities: https://possabilities-gib.com

NHS health advice: https://patient.info

Tommys pregnancy & baby charity: https://www.tommys.org

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To complete season 2, it’s a privilege to capture the very special story of a Llanita baby born *off* the Rock, to Gibraltarian mother Stephanie Galea via a surrogate. This is a powerful and fascinating listen to a complex five-year journey, for Stephanie and her husband to become parents to their daughter.

Our story begins in the year 2000, when as a teenager Stephanie received a very rare medical diagnosis… confirming she would never naturally conceive or carry a baby. When she met her husband in her 30’s, the couple explored surrogacy options and underwent medical tests and a successful first round of IVF in 2017. However, they discovered that Gibraltarians were not eligible for surrogacy in the UK at that time, which came as a devastating blow. With few other options available to them in Europe, the couple made huge financial sacrifices to seek a surrogate in America where the process is well-established. They somehow fit in a wedding in 2019!

Stephanie is so composed as she explains complicated legal processes, logistical challenges and costs involved in working with a surrogacy agency. Due to the pandemic, Stephanie and her husband met their chosen surrogate couple online… and she describes how they ‘just clicked.’ What followed was nerve-wracking journey into 2021, as the pregnancy successfully progressed. Stephanie speaks about key dates etched in her mind, and how their daughter’s arrival three weeks early led to a race across the Atlantic to meet her! The moment she finally held her longed-for baby makes for a very emotional listen.

There was further paperwork to complete as the couple navigated their way back home to the Rock, but they settled into family life and their daughter is now starting school locally. Stephanie and her husband have remained in contact with their surrogate couple, and she speaks about her huge gratitude to the surrogate mother, as well as to her family for their support. Her motto is very much “Anything is Possible,” and I’m so grateful to Stephanie for sharing this remarkable birth story. (Recorded May 2025).

https://www.gbc.gi/news/surrogacy-bill-finally-published

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We meet Charlotte today, a mother of two boys born through the pandemic. This is a very insightful episode for anybody wondering what its like to parent a child with special needs, as her eldest child has a diagnosis of nonverbal autism. Charlotte highlights some beautiful positives in her journey.

After early miscarriages, she and her ex-husband were thrilled to experience a good healthy pregnancy, and prepared for a peaceful natural birth... but due to pre-eclampsia concerns her son arrived by emergency caesarean. She speaks about her recovery and the challenges of being a new parent while the world locked down in 2020. Charlotte's unexpected second pregnancy came along... just in time for the second lockdown! She had severe sickness this time - while working from home with a toddler. She speaks about a better birth experience via elective caesarean in 2021, with a positive breastfeeding journey too. Charlotte describes the early signs of autism in her eldest son, the fast referral process with the GHA, as well as communication techniques and the special bond between her sons.

A particularly disastrous fitness incident (!) prompted Charlotte to became passionate about promoting gentle postpartum exercise and body positivity, challenging societal expectations. She's a qualified Pilates instructor and works to empower new mothers on their health journeys, pre and postnatally. She tells her story so calmly and with humour and warmth; I'm very grateful to Charlotte for sharing her two Gibraltar Birth Stories! (Recorded April 2025).

Core Life by Charlotte: www.corelifebyc.com

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In this episode we're meeting babies born to Claire Hernandez and her husband, in the noughties: 2004 & 2009. This is a very strong, loving family unit!

Claire was fortunate to become pregnant soon after the couple began trying to start their family, and had what she describes as a 'textbook' pregnancy. Her morning sickness eased off in the second trimester, and Claire spontaneously went into labour before her due date. Their son arrived quite quickly with a natural delivery, and she speaks movingly about how it felt to hold her baby for the first time. Claire describes her feeding journey transitioning from breast to bottle, and a straightforward start to parenting. Sadly a few years later, the couple experienced a miscarriage in the first trimester, which came as a complete shock after their previous successful pregnancy. She speaks eloquently about the mix of emotions involved, and the support of family and friends.

The following year Claire experienced another textbook pregnancy, and speaks about her positive mindset throughout. This time the baby was induced, and Claire remembers a longer, more intense labour with her daughter's cord wrapped around her neck. She was delivered safely, and Claire was able to go home the same day and settle into life as a family of four. She describes her toddler son responding well to his new sibling.

We chat about family dynamics and efforts to keep things fair when parenting two, as well as the impact of the pandemic when her kids were just starting and finishing secondary school. This episode concludes with a reflection on the positives of her parenting journey and Claire's hopes for her children's futures. She's very proud of her family, and I'm very grateful to Claire for sharing her Gibraltar Birth Stories (Recorded May 2025).

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Hold tight for a dramatic story in this episode, as we meet Louise Ann - who arrived pregnant on the Rock in 2007! Louise and her partner began trying for a baby in the early 2000's in the UK, but were met with unexplained infertility. She describes the toll of three unsuccessful IVF cycles and exploratory surgery, before eventually falling pregnant. However, she suffered severe sickness and further complications in her second trimester... discovered once she relocated to the Rock with her partner's job at 31 weeks pregnant.

Louise was admitted to St. Bernard's hospital on arrival, then put on bedrest for several weeks as placenta previa and associated bleeding deemed her high risk. She used her time to learn about newborn care, and describes a steep learning curve while forming good connections with medical staff. She recalls the details surrounding the frighteningly fast arrival of her daughter by emergency caesarean at 34 weeks. Louise required a blood transfusion, but was lucky to avoid transfer of care to Spain. 

Mother and baby recovered well, and Louise speaks about her determination to overcome postnatal depression. She describes the surprising power of instinct and positive mindset, and speaks fondly about staff at the GHA supporting her. Louise is certain she would not have received the same care in England, and remains forever grateful to local staff for saving their lives. We conclude our chat discussing what it's like to go from proudly parenting a tiny preemie to a young adult. I'm very grateful to Louise for sharing her dramatic Gibraltar Birth Story! 

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Heidi Jeffries is our guest on an episode we’re calling ‘Plain Sailing,’ as her birth experiences were very straightforward… and the family has multiple nautical connections! We’re travelling back to the year 2000, when Heidi and her husband started their family soon after getting married. After convincing her husband that the pregnancy was not an April Fool’s joke (!) Heidi had a good pregnancy journey – with an unusual craving.

She received conflicting medical advice about her labour due to a back condition in the third trimester, which influenced her choice of birth position for the natural delivery of her son. He had a safe textbook arrival… but Heidi describes how feeding and sleep issues then hugely overshadowed the following years, as her son suffered with several allergies and intolerances. She speaks candidly about the toll it takes on tired parents, trying to find solutions to make a child comfortable. Heidi mentions her mother’s support, as well as amusing nicknames she and husband had for the boys.

Heidi found it hard to become pregnant with her second child, and investigations revealed that she had polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). Treatment helped her conceive, and she experienced another good pregnancy, but this time with a different craving. As with her other son, Heidi’s second child arrived before his due date and quickly – with his birth weight matching his date and month of birth! She describes the challenge of raising a child prone to accidents and injuries, and we chat about what it’s like to parent young adults, and the special bond between the two boys. Heidi is so proud of her sons, and I’m very grateful she’s shared her Gibraltar Birth Stories (Recorded April 2025).

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In this episode we meet Megan Ballestero, who describes her unexpected parenting journey to become a family of four!

Megan and her husband began trying for a baby soon after their wedding... but experienced recurring miscarriages over several years. Extensive tests revealed a 'medically complex' case: a genetic mutation (MTHFR gene), a blood clotting disorder (Factor V Leiden) and a uterus abnormality requiring surgery, which - all combined - made it almost impossible to get past the first trimester.

At significant financial cost, the couple began an IVF journey with a fertility clinic in Spain and were thrilled to experience a healthy full-term pregnancy. Deemed high-risk due to her medical issues, Megan was prepared for an elective caesarean... but her son had other ideas! She describes a very positive and smooth start to motherhood after his fast birth in December 2018.

When her son was a toddler, Megan attended a session run by the Care Agency seeking foster families. The realisation that there are local children in need was an eye-opening experience that Megan could not ignore. Her husband understood the compulsion to help, and eventually they welcomed a similar-aged little boy into their home! Proving that you don't have to give birth to be a loving parent, I'm very grateful to Megan for sharing her fascinating journey here (Recorded February 2025).

For information about the Care Agency: https://www.gibraltar.gov.gi/health/care-agency

More about becoming a Foster Carer: https://www.gbc.gi/news/care-agency-calling-out-foster-carers-their-social-media-campaign

For details about Care Link charity: https://carelink.gi/

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Let’s welcome our youngest mother to the podcast so far: Victoria Sanguinetti born in 1999. She’s packed in a rollercoaster few years since the pandemic - getting married, moving house and giving birth to her daughter in 2022, then son in 2023 (prematurely)… all while working and supporting her husband through an organ transplant!

Victoria describes both pregnancies as healthy but very different. She experienced a frightening haematoma complication after the rapid birth of her daughter that almost led to a blood transfusion. Victoria had postnatal depression after the traumatic event, but physically healed well and established breastfeeding. The following year she and her partner conceived their second child faster than planned... and he arrived sooner than expected too, at 34 weeks on Boxing Day! The birth and recovery was a positive experience, and the couple were fortunate not have to transfer care to Spain as is often the case for premature arrivals. 

All of this happened just a few months before the couple’s wedding – and Victoria describes how much harder things could have been if her son was born later, while she supported her husband undergoing months of medical treatment in England. It’s an incredibly busy set of events, and she describes her story so calmly, showing true strength and resilience. I’m so grateful to Victoria for sharing her Gibraltar Birth Stories… and wish her family a very quiet and settled few years ahead! (Recorded February 2025).

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We welcome our first pregnant guest onto the podcast in this episode! Meet Krisanne Orciel, full-term with her second baby at the time of recording (February 2025).

Krisanne describes her decade-long parenting journey, including an ectopic pregnancy loss at nine weeks. The procedure to remove the affected fallopian tube was followed by repeated, unexplained early miscarriages over several years. A second ectopic pregnancy and salpingectomy procedure left Krisanne unable to naturally conceive, and she describes the intense feelings of hopelessness, believing she might never become a mother.

Krisanne and her partner qualified for fertility treatment through the Gibraltar Health Authority using a clinic in Spain. She explains the many tests involved, and how they finally discovered the treatable reason for her previous losses. After an unsuccessful first IVF cycle, Krisanne speaks about her mindset change for their second attempt, and - despite an additional risk factor - the couple were able to enjoy a healthy pregnancy before the elective caesarean birth of their boy in 2022! They underwent another cycle of fertility treatment the following year at a different clinic, and were lucky to become pregnant again with their second son. She speaks about the contrasting experiences at the clinics, and feels grateful she's had these opportunities to grow her family.

This is a story with an over-riding message of positivity in the face of adversity. Krisanne tells her story in such an engaging way, you’ll be gripped from start to finish. We’ve popped a little update at the end too, with a surprising twist on her second caesarean as well as her recovery journey. Thank you Krisanne for sharing your Gibraltar Birth Stories so beautifully!

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We meet Somaya Anakkar in this story, who describes her son as a miracle! She wanted to be a mother for a very long time, but discovered that she is a carrier of the genetic disorder Fragile X syndrome, which - along with a diagnosis of painful endometriosis - vastly reduced her chances of natural fertility. Two decades passed without the right circumstances for conceiving, and she was acutely aware of the threat of menopause as she neared her late 30’s.

Somaya describes herself as a woman of faith, and placed trust in the concept of ‘what is meant for you will not pass you by.’ She met her husband when she least expected to, and after a pandemic wedding they began a fertility treatment journey… with unexpected results defying doctors! After a pregnancy involving hyperemesis gravidarium and then a fast labour, Somaya’s much-wanted little boy arrived safely. It’s a fascinating set of events, right down to the meaning behind her son’s beautiful name.

This is a story of faith, hope and love when the odds seem completely stacked against becoming a parent. Somaya’s gratitude at motherhood is so heartwarming to hear, and she tells her story in such an engaging way. Thanks to Somaya for sharing this wonderfully uplifting episode of Born on the Rock! (Recorded February 2025).

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Today we're heading back to the old St Bernard's hospital with Eileen Sanchez, who had three children with her husband in 1985, 1986 and 1988.

⚠️ As a trigger warning, please note the first half of this episode contains discussion of baby loss, as Eileen tragically experienced the stillbirth of her first child at 8 months pregnant. She describes key moments in the weeks before the loss of her daughter, leading Eileen to question 'what if..?' ever since.

She explains the bewilderment of a first-time mother, feeling that her intense pain was not recognised, and even dismissed. After spontaneous labour, she reflects on approaches deemed helpful at the time but that compounded her grief, leading to depression. Poignantly, she recalls specific details and dates in retelling her story even 40 years later, and addresses the difficult topic of grief. Eileen had the support of her concerned husband and family members.

She went on to have two nerve-wracking but healthy pregnancies, resulting in the safe births of her sons...the third labour being her easiest with least pain! Eileen emphasises the importance of communication and mental health awareness, and hopes her story offers support to other parents coping with loss. There's a heart-warming chat towards the end of this episode about the joy of becoming a grandparent, and it’s clear she's very proud of her family. I'm so grateful to Eileen for bravely sharing her Gibraltar Birth Stories (Recorded February 2025).

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Jenny Ainsworth is our guest today, describing the births of her three children in 2000, 2004... and 2019. Jenny's pregnancies were unplanned but straightforward, and she references feelings of strong maternal instinct. She's a single mum, and regards motherhood as the best experience of her life.

Pregnancy generally suited Jenny, and her natural births were painful but without complication. She describes what it was like to welcome a newborn again... 16 years after her last child! Jenny speaks about the challenges of raising a baby during the pandemic, her breastfeeding experience, choosing names and the special bond she has with her youngest daughter.

Very sadly, Jenny's firstborn - her son - passed away as a baby. We do not discuss details of his loss in this episode, but acknowledge his memory by name. I'm very grateful to Jenny for braving the microphone to share her Gibraltar Birth Stories in this episode. (Recorded January 2025).

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Jo Abergel and her husband are parents to three children, born in 2002, 2005 and 2011. After over a year of trying for a baby and investigations that identified PCOS, the couple conceived when they least expected! A serious issue throughout all of Jo’s journeys was the severe and debilitating vomiting she experienced – plus anti-sickness treatments that left her almost bed-bound by her third pregnancy.

Jo’s first birth was an elective caesarean turned emergency, when spontaneous labour began at 38 weeks. She recovered well and had strong family support after the birth of her son. Her next two babies were born prematurely at 34 and 35 weeks… coincidentally, both at home and quickly on the couple’s bathroom floor! Jo recalls feeling very little pain as her husband helped deliver both babies, while waiting for the ambulance to arrive. It's a remarkable listen!

There’s high drama and humour in this episode, plus a glimpse of the old St Bernard's hospital as everything transferred to the current premises with Jo's second baby. She mentions instances of Jewish faith traditions within her parenting journey, lots of family support, and is full of praise for the hospital staff too. Thanks for sharing these fascinating birth stories, Jo! (Recorded January 2025).

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To finish season 1, it’s wonderful to welcome local midwife Denise Camilleri with almost 20 years experience delivering babies on the Rock! This episode is in two halves – the first is an insight into the Maternity Unit at St Bernard’s Hospital and the workload of a midwife, as Denise gives a fascinating insight into trends over time and her many varied professional experiences.

The second half is her own positive story from naturally delivering her son in 2016... imagine giving birth in your workplace! She shares the techniques that she found to be successful, and gives advice to women preparing for pregnancy and labour (see the chapters below for topics covered). Huge thanks to Denise for this incredibly engaging and inspiring episode!

03:10 – Work of the Maternity Unit: Staff numbers, shifts and caseloads. What’s the most babies born in a 24hr period? Does a full moon really affect activity?

14:09 – Pandemic: How did restrictions impact midwives, mothers and birthing partners?

18:30 – The Waiting Room: Support versus pressure from family members, plus recent changes.

23:54 – Parental Education Classes: Teaching parents-to-be about labour, pain relief, coping mechanisms, infant feeding and newborn care.

27:37 – Birth Plans: Preferences versus reality, pressure of own expectations, impact of emotions such as guilt, fear and stress; benefits of staying open-minded

35:04 – Mindset Tools: Mantras, hypnobirthing & mindfulness, plus the negative impact of phones on the ward.

38:25 – Birthing Pool: Can women have a water birth in Gibraltar?

40:37 – Birthing Interventions: Have caesarean rates increased, and if so, why? How important is maternal self-care?

45:40 – The Hard Stuff: How do midwives cope when things go wrong? And when a baby dies?

51:15 – What Women Say: What are some of the strangest/funniest things labouring mothers say? How do you handle confrontation at work?

56:33 – Qualities to be a Midwife: Compassion, empathy, patience and communication to name but a few! What are the career path options into midwifery?

1:01:23 – Recognition of Maternity Unit Work: Do people on the outside realise the value of the Unit? What’s the community perception of midwifery work?

1:03:00 – Kids Grow Up: What’s it like to see the babies and mothers years later? How many babies have you delivered across your career?

1:05:40 – DENISE’S BIRTH STORY

Denise reflects on the questions: Can you be a good midwife if you’ve never had a baby? And does it help or hinder to have extensive maternity knowledge?

She describes a good pregnancy in her mid-30’s, with nutrition and self-care very important in helping her feel well. Denise went into labour spontaneously at 38 weeks, and explains how she juggled her professional training versus the uncertainty and pain of a new mother as contractions increased and a fast birth approached. Delivering her baby alongside colleagues, she describes a positive and instinctual experience, as well as her adjustment to feeding and parenthood. Thank you Denise for this amazing episode!

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In this episode we meet our first 1990's babies, born to Justine Fava-Cartwright and her ex-partner. They faced fertility struggles due to Justine's hormonal imbalances and erratic cycles... in later life she was diagnosed with premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD). Justine highlights the emotions involved when facing challenges to become pregnant. Soon after starting Clomid treatment, she conceived! Justine had a good pregnancy, but a difficult and lengthy labour resulting in an emergency caesarean under general anaesthetic. She explains how the experience left her feeling 'robbed,' and impacted her initial bonding with her first son. Combined with the 90's stigma about being "too posh to push," it lead to suspected postnatal depression.

There's some humour as Justine describes the moment she discovered she was pregnant again... when her first baby was just 4 months old! This time the birth was a far more positive experience, as her second son arrived by elective caesarean. Justine talks about the tough juggling act of adjusting to life with twin-like toddlers, while also returning to work with limited childcare. She openly admits feeling pushed to her mental health limit during those early years, yet reflects on the positives of a small age gap and a supportive ex-partner.

This episode concludes with a discussion of what it's like to parent grown-ups and enter grandparent territory, plus the continued special bond between the two brothers. There's poignant, emotional moments and funny anecdotes throughout this chat, and I'm grateful to Justine for so honestly sharing her Gibraltar Birth Stories! Recorded January 2025

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In this emotional episode, we meet Louise Busto and her partner: parents to twin boys born in 2010, and a third son born in 2014. As a trigger warning, please note that this episode is a very difficult listen as it involves discussion of baby loss.

Louise describes a generally good healthy pregnancy, before complications set in at 23 weeks requiring her transfer to Spain for specialist monitoring and facilities at 25 weeks pregnant. Poignantly, she describes her trust in the medical professionals, and how the gravity of her situation did not immediately seem apparent. The time spent delaying labour makes for tense listening, before the boys were born by caesarean section at 27 weeks. It’s hard to hear how helpless Louise and her husband felt in the following weeks, as the boys’ health took twists and turns... and when medical complications eventually led to the unbearable loss of one twin: Owen.

Louise had the support of family, but describes the difficult return to the Rock and the impact on her mental health. She channelled her grief into a positive force and with the help of other brave mothers, established the charity BabySTEPPs in 2012 to support other parents in their journeys through early parenthood and pregnancy. After two miscarriages, Louise became pregnant again with their third son Theo. She describes how it felt to carry to full-term this time (actually past the due date!), and what it was like to have a contrasting 'textbook' experience. There’s an interesting conversation about how the family keep Owen’s memory alive to their sons, particularly with surviving twin, Leon.

Louise speaks so eloquently about an experience that is every parent’s worst nightmare. Tragically baby loss does impact families, and Louise hopes that sharing her story provides some support for others to know: you are not alone. She also shares advice on what to say, and what *not* to say to grieving parents. I’m so grateful for this powerful addition to the podcast and want to thank Louise for her bravery and strength in sharing. Please visit BABYSTEPPS on Facebook for support, or UK charity SANDS.

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Our guest in this episode is Annette Tunbridge, a Gibraltarian wife, mother and grandmother in her early 70's at the time of recording (November 2024). Annette first met her husband when she was just 15 years old, and the two quickly fell in love and made plans to marry. She speaks about how they just 'knew,' they were to be together and start a family, despite their young age. She describes both families' reactions, local traditions, and their romantic honeymoon - despite the closed land border with Spain in the early 1970's.

Annette had an uncomplicated first pregnancy, aside from concern over rhesus disease - differing mother/baby blood types. But due to her son's slowed growth and pre-eclampsia concerns, she underwent a traumatic delivery with high forceps... a practice that rarely happens in modern times. Annette references the effects of her epidural (felt for decades afterwards), and how infection during her recovery impacted the ability to breastfeed; she recounts an example of wet-nursing from another mother to assist with her son's first feeds. Her second son was born naturally two years later, but this time it was a much easier and more positive experience - without requiring any pain relief!

Annette describes the invaluable support of bringing up babies surrounded by other mothers in a multi-generational home. She gives a wonderful analogy about love being elastic...there is always enough for a growing family. This is a heart-warming look at Annette's journey to becoming a very young parent and then grandparent, and overall, is a very positive and uplifting story. Thank you so much Annette for sharing!

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In this episode we meet Katrine Borge, her husband and four sons. Kat had a tough start to motherhood with an early miscarriage, then difficult first pregnancy with hyperemisis gravidarum and an emergency caesarean. Her recovery was hindered by a complication from her spinal tap in labour… with an interesting (yet effective) cure!

Kat describes the moment two years later, that she discovered she’d naturally conceived triplets.. and the surprising initial medical advice she received. She recounts her husband’s reaction as they contemplated the logistics of a rapid family expansion, and the shock news that the babies needed to be born... in London. She describes the stress of sourcing accommodation, meals and travel that cost thousands of pounds. Kat experienced several touching moments of kindness from strangers, as London became her new temporary home.

Thankfully her mum was a huge source of support, as Kat's husband and son stayed in Gibraltar. She spontaneously went into labour at 30 weeks, and describes the frightening critical condition of each of the triplets in the early weeks, plus her own faltering postpartum health. Kat overcame several administration hurdles to finally bring the triplets home… with an emotional family reunion! She describes with humour the celebrity-like status the family attracted on the Rock, and the blur of caring for four very young children. Plus you'll hear a twist on how the boys were named. This is an incredible story of strength, love and support, and I’m so grateful to Kat for sharing her remarkable Gibraltar Birth Stories! (Recorded December 2024).

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In today’s episode, Hetty describes her experience of starting a family with her ex-husband in the late 2000’s. As a trigger warning, please be aware that Hetty suffered miscarriages and tragically lost her daughter before viability at 22 weeks pregnant, due to her cervix shortening and spontaneous labour. There are some very upsetting and poignant descriptions about the events surrounding her little girls’ stillbirth, and listener discretion is advised for the first third of this episode. She speaks beautifully about the local support that she received, with physical mementos that she values to this day.

Hetty and her ex-partner went on to have two further children – boys this time – and she describes the fear and anxiety during those pregnancies of another loss. She was closely monitored, with a cervical cerclage procedure both times – a stitch to temporarily sew the cervix closed until the start of labour. She talks about unexpected postnatal depression after her first son, linked to breastfeeding struggles and unresolved trauma from her daughter’s arrival. Both births required assisted deliveries involving ventouse and episiotomy… yet somehow Hetty infuses very relatable and dry humour in her descriptions of invasive medical checks procedures! She also explains what it’s like to give birth - on Christmas Day! Find more on our Facebook and Instagram pages: born_on_the_rock

I’m so grateful to Hetty for speaking so candidly about her incredible journey, and in such an engaging way. You’ll be in tears one moment, yet smiling the next in this emotional rollercoaster episode (recorded November 2024). For support, Hetty references local baby loss charity: BABYSTEPPS, who can be found on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BABYSTEPPSGIB/ and UK baby loss charity SANDS: https://www.sands.org.uk/

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We’re meeting Kadiuska in this episode, a wife and mother of three. Kadi is one half of our first same-sex couple on the podcast, and she gave birth to their daughter in 2016 and boy/girl twins in 2022, with the assistance of a Spanish fertility clinic. She talks us through what it’s like to grow a family within a same-sex relationship and describes the many steps and tests involved, including selecting a sperm donor for the IVF process. Kadi speaks candidly about their very different experiences at the clinic pre- and post- pandemic, including her determination to maximise their chances of pregnancy once she was classed as a 'geriatric' mother, and the crushing disappointment of an unsuccessful cycle. She describes the huge support from her wife and family throughout the journeys.

Kadi had very different labours; her first baby was born naturally and quickly, while for the twins, placenta previa led to an elective caesarean at 36 weeks. She faced medical complications in the pregnancies (including being hospitalised with Covid), and describes the pressure she felt to breastfeed - which she believes contributed to postnatal depression after her first child. Kadi speaks with humour about the new life skill she learned while pregnant, how they unexpectedly discovered the gender of their first child... and her extreme squeamishness for some medical procedures! There's a lovely story about the children's names towards the end of this episode too.

This is a fascinating insight into the options and costs involved in the IVF journey for a same-sex couple, as well as what it's like to raise twins. I was struck by Kadi's determination and strong personality that shone through in this episode (recorded November 2024), and she hopes that sharing her experience may help other same-sex couples navigate the process. Thanks for sharing, Kadi!

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We welcome our first non-Gibraltarian to the podcast in this episode: Michaela, a first-time mother from South Africa! Michaela explains how she and her husband moved to Gibraltar after the pandemic, and how the Rock quickly felt like home. They conceived their little boy very soon after trying for a baby, and she describes the one thing she couldn't tolerate through pregnancy... plus the fun ways they shared the news with both sets of parents.

In her third trimester, Michaela had symptoms of pre-eclampsia and was induced, but after a lengthy labour (involving lots of dancing!) and an unsuccessful epidural, she was able to deliver her 4kg/8.8lb baby naturally. Michaela's Mum made the 18hr journey from South Africa just in time to meet her grandson! It's clear that she was a huge support throughout the labour, alongside Michaela's husband.

For a month post-partum, Michaela experienced PUPPPS, a pregnancy-related hive rash, but she generally feels that her first birth experience was a very positive one. Michaela compares St Bernard's hospital favourably to those back in her home country, and hopes to grow her family in Gibraltar. This is a really fun listen (recorded November 2024) as Michaela re-lives events, and describes what it's been like adjusting to parenthood. It's lovely to feature our youngest baby on the podcast so far - and a big thanks to Michaela, our newest Mum!

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We're heading back to 1979 for this episode, as Priscilla Mañasco tells us about having her only child - a daughter - at the old St Bernard's hospital.

Antenatal care has certainly changed since those days: Priscilla describes the many different practices surrounding health check-ups, feeding advice, visiting rules at the hospital and washing cloth nappies, plus how she felt old as a first-time mother... at 26!

Priscilla suffered pre-eclampsia in the later stages of pregnancy and endured a lengthy labour in distressing conditions: she describes a violent forceps delivery, a very hostile consultant and intimidated nurses. It's a difficult listen as dramatic events unfolded when her daughter was born. Her recovery included a suspected postnatal embolism, a blood transfusion and undiagnosed postnatal depression. Priscilla's late husband was very supportive, but she reflects on her mental health toll from the traumatic birth experience... including how it influenced the decision not to further grow their family.

Her description of adjusting to early motherhood while returning to full-time work is a fascinating snapshot of life on the Rock in the late seventies and early eighties. This episode (recorded November 2024) makes for a compelling listen, and I'd like to thank Priscilla so much for bravely sharing her experience.

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In this episode we’re meeting Michelle Rugeroni (known as Rouge) whose two adult kids were born in 2004 and 2006. This is a fast paced chat covering a range of topics. Rouge was told to expect difficulty conceiving due to fibroids and endometriosis… yet fell pregnant very quickly after trying! She describes how large fibroid tumours on her ovaries grew during pregnancy, leading doctors to recommend caesarean sections for both of her large babies.

Rouge had good pregnancy experiences but developed post-natal depression after the birth of her first baby, which she directly attributes to the difficulty of breastfeeding and implied pressure. She speaks very candidly about that difficult time and feeling unable to care for her baby – the support from her own mother proved invaluable, and she describes how hard the issue is for fathers too. Hear how she moved past the PND, and how her mindset was very different after the birth of her second child. She encourages mothers to speak up and ask for help, and to prioritise their own mental health and wellbeing.

Rouge had five abdominal surgeries in the space of just a few years, and describes the two hysterectomy procedures she went through.. plus the symptoms of menopause hitting as the children left the nest! She's incredibly proud of her son and daughter, and has such a positive energy that really comes across in this episode. You can find her own podcast online: ‘On the Sofa with Rouge.’

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Get ready to meet our biggest family so far! In this episode, Kathy Feetham talks about giving birth seven times over an 18 year period... to all girls! She describes how each of the pregnancies compared, with a mix of 'easy' textbook journeys, alongside more complicated deliveries. There is one mention of early miscarriage towards the very end of this episode.

Kathy's stories have amazing twists and turns, as you might expect. Did she find out the gender each time? Did she breastfeed all seven? Why does she describe her last child as a miracle baby? You’ll hear how she naturally delivered twins... with different birth dates. About the incredible power of intuition, how one baby arrived during a family event, and how she responds to the many questions and comments from strangers.

I loved recording this episode - Kathy describes herself as a calm person and exudes gentle warmth and humour in this episode. It’s lovely hearing about the supportive role of her husband throughout too. Kathy has a way of making remarkable events sound quite straightforward, and her obvious love of motherhood just shines through from start to finish. I hope you'll find as much pleasure in hearing her stories, as I did recording them! (November 2024).

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We're meeting Tara Montegriffo in this episode: a Gibraltarian wife and mother of one young daughter at the time of recording (November 2024). Please be aware that this is an emotional listen, involving discussion of baby loss.

Tara describes her three difficult pregnancy journeys, involving debilitating sickness until delivery. After the safe caesarean birth of her first daughter, she went on to suffer two devastating miscarriages... one in the second trimester, due to Turner's syndrome, omphalocele and cardiology complications. Tara speaks candidly about the trauma surrounding the loss of her second child, including weeks of travelling between Spain, Gibraltar and London for genetic testing and specialist care.

As Tara and her husband dream of growing their family, she describes the challenges in facing secondary infertility, including hidden costs and burdens involved in the IVF process. I'm very grateful to Tara for sharing her story, to help raise awareness and normalise conversations for others going through difficult pregnancy journeys. She feels strongly about women supporting one another, and during our discussion Tara spoke so eloquently and with composure about her experiences. I would love to welcome Tara back on the podcast in future, hopefully with happy news of a sibling for her daughter.

If you feel affected by details in this story, BabySTEPPS Gibraltar offer baby loss support through pregnancy and parenthood:

https://www.facebook.com/BABYSTEPPSGIB

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In the very first episode of Gibraltar Birth Stories, we meet Kathy - who has a great story about her own arrival on the Rock in the 1980's! She and her husband first met at primary school, and they have two young children together.

Kathy and her husband encountered fertility issues due to polycystic ovary syndrome when they began trying to conceive. After tests and treatment, they fell pregnant in 2020... and found out just a week before the global lockdown! She describes what it was like to be pregnant at that vulnerable time, plus the fast natural births of her daughter, and then son almost two years later. Kathy was at risk of pre-eclampsia with her first birth, and talks about recovery from retained placenta with her second. She shares her experience of becoming a family of four, and the advice she would go back and give herself as a new mother.

This is a really heartwarming listen (with quite a few food references too!) - and I'm hugely grateful for Kathy's support in being the very first Born on the Rock podcast story. This episode was recorded in October 2024.

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New for 2025, GBC presents a collection of emotional, inspiring and true stories from parents about what it's like to have a baby on the Rock.

Every experience is completely unique, and deserves to be heard! If you've had a baby in Gibraltar in any decade, we want to hear from you.

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