Divorce Story

If I knew then what I know now...with Constance Hall

Mon, 11 May 2020 05:24:17 GMT

For our last show we’re hearing from people reflect on what they wish then knew then. With the benefit of hindsight, what advice they wish they could go back and tell themselves when they were going through their toughest days. Plus we are also going to be chatting to social media sensation and author of the book “Happily Ever Fuck That”– our mate Constance Hall about co parenting with new partners and some of her best bits of advice to thriving after separation.

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

With thanks to Constance Hall

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

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Relaunching your career

Mon, 11 May 2020 00:22:55 GMT

In many families, it’s common for one person in a relationship to take a step back in their career to help with the mental load and logistics of running the home and children. But, when a relationship ends, the person who has been the primary carer will often find themselves needing to increase their earning capacity and in some cases, they might have been out of the workforce for years. On the show today, we talk about relaunching your career. What options are available? What do you say on your CV? Where do you even begin?

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

With thanks to Gillian Fox and Nama Winston

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

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Guiding children through separation

Thu, 07 May 2020 07:15:22 GMT

On the show today we’re going to be talking about how you can successfully guide your children through separation. We’ll be speaking to child psychologist Belinda Jones about tips and tricks you can take home to guide you about how to speak to your child. And we’ll be joined by the author of Surviving Your Split, Lucy Mannering to walk us through how to be the sane parent during a separation.

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

With thanks to Lucy Mannering and Belinda Jones

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

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How to help a friend going through separation

Tue, 05 May 2020 20:00:00 GMT

How do you help a friend who is going through separation or a divorce? With 1 in 3 marriages ending in divorce in Australia, chances are you’ll need to support a friend going through divorce - so what are some of the most helpful things you can do? How can you make them smile? Cass and Annaliese share their tips for how you can be the best support network for your friend...

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

With thanks to Lucy Mannering

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

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How to deal with gossip after a separation

Tue, 28 Apr 2020 20:00:00 GMT

Remember that scene in Bridget Jones’ Diary when she was the only single lady at a dinner party? Surrounded by smug married couples? Well, chances are that could be you right now. On the show today, once you’re single - how the heck do you navigate couple-ville as a single woman? Plus how do you handle gossip about your relationship?

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

With thanks to Dr Nikki Goldstein

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

With thanks to Rachel Voysey https://rachelvoysey.com/

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How to have a civil relationship with your ex

Tue, 21 Apr 2020 20:00:00 GMT

When a person goes from your partner to your ex it can be incredibly hard to remember that you can’t talk to them the way you used to. You can’t vent to them, and you can’t express your anger at them like you might have done when you were together. Ex-etiquette is tricky - but, it’s do-able. And that’s what we’re here to help you achieve. On the show today Cass and Annaliese are joined by Rachel Voysey from the Relationship Room to walk us through how to have a civil relationship with your ex.

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

With thanks to Rachel Voysey https://rachelvoysey.com/

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Dating after divorce...

Tue, 14 Apr 2020 20:00:00 GMT

There’s an old expression - that to get over someone, you have to get under someone. But when it comes to the end of a marriage, is that still the case? On the show today Cass and Annaliese are joined by sexologist, psychologist and relationship expert Dr Nikki Goldstein.

Nikki’s going to be helping us talk about everything from dating apps to sex for the first time post divorce...

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

With thanks to Dr Nikki Goldstein

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Let's talk about money

Tue, 07 Apr 2020 20:00:00 GMT

You’ve decided who lives where, and maybe you’re even working on a settlement agreement. But when it comes to dividing up your finances, how are you best to go about it? And what bills and paperwork do you need to have access to? Because as we all know, when you share your life with someone you share pretty much everything. On this episode of Divorce Story Cass Thorburn and Annaliese Dent are joined by financial expert Melissa Browne to discuss money, from financial stock takes to budgets.

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

With thanks to Melissa Browne.

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Fleeing an abusive relationship

Tue, 31 Mar 2020 19:00:00 GMT

Just a warning - this episode deals with the topic of domestic violence - if you need help please call 1800RESPECT now and if you are ever in any danger please call the Police on 000.

When it comes to leaving it’s not always as easy as ‘who gets what’ - if you are in an abusive relationship, often the time leading up to and just after leaving can be one of the most dangerous. Because often, telling the abuser that the relationship is over can result in violence. So if you need to flee, where can you go? We are joined by the CEO of Women’s Community Shelters Annabel Daniels and

Louise Elkington from Relationships Australia to discuss mediation.

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

With thanks to Annabel Daniel from Women's Community Shelters https://www.womenscommunityshelters.org.au/what-we-do/

And Louise Elkington from Relationships Australia https://www.relationships.org.au/

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How to co-parent in a global pandemic

Tue, 24 Mar 2020 16:00:00 GMT

Co-parenting with an ex, at the best of times can come with so many complications and issues. The global COVID-19 pandemic is a frightening, unprecedented and constantly evolving crisis. Which is why on today’s episode of Divorce Story we have created this special episode all about how to co-parent in COVID-19. Join Cass and Annaliese as they chat to Lawyer Lucy Mannering about potential future complications of co-parenting throughout this global issue.

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

With thanks to Lucy Mannering

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Do I need a Lawyer?

Tue, 17 Mar 2020 19:00:00 GMT

When it comes to divorce, do you need a lawyer? And what help is out there? Cass and Annaliese are joined by Ruth Pilkinton from Legal Aid NSW and family lawyer Alana Boyle to talk about what help you can access for free and what rights you can forgo if you move out of the family home.

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

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How to tell people about your separation

Tue, 10 Mar 2020 19:00:00 GMT

Not everyone has a choice when it comes to their marriage ending. For some people, it can be sudden - for others it can feel like a long time coming. But how do you get through those first few weeks of what is commonly referred to as the second most stressful life event - second to the death of a spouse? We’ll be joined by psychologist Jacqui Manning to talk about how to grieve a sudden marriage breakdown and the tips you need to get you motivated during a pretty shitty time. And we’ll be walking you through how to tell your friends, family and kids that your relationship is over…

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

With thanks to Jacqui Manning

Notes

Find out more about Jacqui Manning here.

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Is the marriage over?

Tue, 03 Mar 2020 19:00:00 GMT

What happens when your life becomes the one that you hadn't planned? How do you know if your relationship is over? And what happens if you choose to walk away from your relationship? On the first episode of Divorce Story Cass & Annaliese speak to the CEO of Relationships Australia Elisabeth Shaw and psychologist Jacqui Manning about what to do when you realise that your marriage is over. From spotting a toxic relationship to looking after yourself during this difficult time, this episode of Divorce Story will help you work out what your Plan B life looks like.

Credits

Produced by Cass Thorburn (@cassthorburn) & Annaliese Dent (@annaliesedent)

The Executive Producer & Head of Audio at Pacific is Elissa Ratliff

The original music used in Divorce Story is composed by Jackson Stefanovic

With thanks to Elisabeth Shaw & Jacqui Manning

Notes

Visit Relationships Australia here.

Find out more about Jacqui Manning here.

The book Cass mentioned in this episode was Option B by Sheryl Sandberg

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Divorce Story...coming March 4

Thu, 27 Feb 2020 02:41:57 GMT

Just over three years ago Cass Thorburn had to hit restart on her life. Her relationship ended and she found herself a single, stay-at-home mum to her three kids. In Australia one in three marriages end in divorce, but when you find yourself in that situation it can be hard to know where to turn, who to ask for help and how to get your life in order. Which is where Divorce Story comes in. Hosted by Cass Thorburn and Annaliese Dent, Divorce Story is a 12-week series that will help you navigate your separation, provide advice from the experts and help you relaunch your life post divorce. Launching March 4th...

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