Dykelemmas

Quick Fire Questions: Negaytiation time!

Tue, 10 Oct 2023 23:01:35 GMT

Join us this week for a little mid-season interlude! On this episode, we're back with some quick-fire questions. Listen as we talk: Cheating, D!irty Talk, Our Ideal P0rn0 and MORE!

Links for this episode:

https://www.negaytiationtime.com/product-page/negaytiation-time-lesbian-edition

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Sapphic Heartbreak: Why does it hurt so damn much?!

Tue, 03 Oct 2023 23:02:13 GMT

If you're in the lesbian or sapphic world, there is one cold hard fact we all know; Sapphic heartbreak sucks! But is it really any worse than heartbreak for other sexualities? Why does it hurt so much? How can we overcome it and see heartbreak as an opportunity for growth?

Links:

Do lesbian breakups hit harder? https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/2021/12/10788135/lesbian-queer-releationship-breakup

Same-sex divorce statistics: https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/divorce/bulletins/divorcesinenglandandwales/2020

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Rainbow Washing: P*ssed Off or Pleased To See It?

Tue, 27 Jun 2023 23:01:02 GMT

Happy Pride Month everyone! To close off this years pride month, Lucy and Juliet are discussing the intricacies of Rainbow Washing and what it can mean for our community. Whilst some members of the community are happy to see the rainbow flag flying high above businesses, others believe it is a shameful display or capitalising on our lives. There is a lot to cover this week, so get yourself strapped in and lets get going!

Links:

What is rainbow-washing? https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/a43713768/rainbow-washing/

Primark proud Families campaign:https://www.primark.com/en-us/a/inspiration/special-occasions/celebrating-found-families

Disney pride: https://disneyparks.disney.go.com/blog/2022/05/share-your-pride/

Gay inclusive companies: https://www.ig.com/uk/trading-strategies/top-10-lgbtq--friendly-companies-220623

Parades, no public posts: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/07/pride-month-boycotts-target-bud-light-brands-companies

Article about H&M and Levi https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-44500638

Stonewall article about China https://www.stonewall.org.uk/system/files/china_global_workplace_briefing_2018.pdf

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Pride Parade: Learn from our Mistakes!

Tue, 20 Jun 2023 23:02:27 GMT

Hi Gays! Happy Pride Month. It's our favourite time of year and it should be yours too! This week we are reminiscing on our previous Pride experiences, discussing our dream prides and offering up some advise if you are thinking of attending your first pride!

Links

Roman Manfredi photography artist who created we/us, find them on Instagram at @butchfemmelove

@pixiepeaches on instagram for the best burlesque performer in London

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/travel/inspiration/best-places-to-celebrate-pride-around-the-world

https://www.wehopride.com

https://csd-berlin.de/en/programm/dyke-march-berlin-2

https://membersdykesonbikeslondon.wordpress.com/london-pride-2019/

https://www.manchesterpride.com/events

https://prideinlondon.org/event/lgbtqia-women-and-non-binary-stage-2qqkVYzLS6MebTgxWMm1t2/

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Lesbianism: Is it an exclusionary term?

Tue, 30 May 2023 23:01:22 GMT

Join Juliet and Lucy this week as they dive into their very first Dykey-Dilemma! This week we hope to explore one listener's query of whether the label of Lesbian is inclusive of non binary genders. Listen as we explore alternative labels such as Gynesexual (It's not what you think) and our personal journeys of using this label.

Links for the episode:

Article about Non-Binary Lesbians - https://radiantbutch.medium.com/non-binary-lesbians-have-always-existed-7db6b9e7e646

Article about Gynesexuality - https://taimi.com/wiki/gynesexual-what-is-it-what-does-it-mean

Another article about Gynesexuality (regarding TERF usage)

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Chasing Straight Girls: Why the hell do we do it?!

Tue, 23 May 2023 23:02:44 GMT

Straight girls and Lesbians. The love story that never was or the perfect friends to lovers love story? The girls talk about their experiences having crushes on straight girls, their celeb straight crushes and why most lesbians have at least one incident of fancying a straight women. Do we really all do it? Can it work out? Let’s find out!

Links for the episode:

Articles:

Guardian Article - https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/apr/20/staceyann-chin-straight-women-thrill-me

Queer Baiting in the music industry - https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/queerbaiting-lgbtq-community-1201273/

True Story - https://gomag.com/article/chasing-the-straight-chick/

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The Lesbian Urge to Befriend an Ex: Can It Ever Work Out?

Tue, 16 May 2023 23:01:31 GMT

The girls drive into the topic of why us Lezzas have such an urge to remain friends with past flings and Ex’s. Lucy and Juliet consider whether this is an accurate stereotype of Lesbians, discuss their own Ex friendship stories, as well as why it might be a good or poor choice to keep your ex in your life. Can it ever work? Let’s find out.

Links Mentioned:

Lesbian Discussion Group Insta - https://instagram.com/lesbiandiscussiongroup?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates - https://www.waterstones.com/book/men-who-hate-women/laura-bates/9781398504653

Channel 4 documentary ' The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD' - Channel 4https://www.channel4.com › the-se...The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD

LGBTQ+ more likely to be friends with exes article - https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inclusive-insight/202109/are-lgbtq-people-more-likely-stay-friends-their-exes

Research about dark personality traits and being friends with an ex - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886916302690

Article about the queer stereotype of staying friends with exes - https://saltyworld.net/not-all-lesbians-stay-friends-with-their-exes-and-thats-ok/

Butch Please Insta - https://instagram.com/butchpleaselondon?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Article about the reasons for why some people stay friends with their Ex's: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12197

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Lesbian Myth Busting: Misconceptions about Femmes

Tue, 09 May 2023 23:00:23 GMT

Who you gunna call? Lesbo myth busters! The girls talk about some of the misconceptions about femme lesbians they learnt from some of their masc, stud and butch friends.

Links Mentioned:

Regional Theatre Young Director Scheme: https://www.rtyds.co.uk

In at the deep end by Kate Davies: https://www.waterstones.com/book/in-at-the-deep-end/kate-davies/9780008311384

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Finding Love Online: She Wore a Strap to the Club?!

Tue, 02 May 2023 23:00:32 GMT

Your favourite London Lezzas are back! Join Juliet and Lucy this week as they discuss whether its possible to make meaningful connections online as a Lesbian. The girls discuss joining dating apps before even being out, confronting cis men on Lesbian dating apps, unicorn hunters and some of their most interesting matches on the apps.

Links mentioned:

The Vaults Festival https://vaultfestival.com

Dating app fatigue article https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/dating-app-fatigue

Tinder Article https://www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/looking-love-tinder-lesbians-must-first-swipe-past-parade-straight-ncna1047721

Her https://weareher.com

Hinge https://hinge.co/en-gb

Bumble https://bumble.com/en/

Tinder https://tinder.com/en-GB

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Intro: Who even are these dykes?

Tue, 25 Apr 2023 23:00:35 GMT

It's finally here, your first ever taste of your new favourite London Lesbians! Get to know Juliet and Lucy as they talk the changing London queer community, matching on tinder and sexy foods. Sound good? Perfect. Get yourself strapped in and lets get chatting about some Dykelemmas!

Links mentioned

GOSH Comics: https://goshlondon.com

Queer Zines on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/uk/market/queer_zines

She bar Soho @shebarsoho on Insta

LGBTQ+ Centre London: https://londonlgbtqcentre.org

Negation Time Lesbian edition card game: https://www.negaytiationtime.com/product-page/negaytiation-time-lesbian-edition

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Trailer

Wed, 19 Apr 2023 08:00:30 GMT

This is Dykelemmas, the show where we talk about all things dykey. We're Juliet and Lucy, best friends and two femme London lesbians just trying to make sense of the dyke world around them. Welcome to our world, where your new girlfriend is your ex's ex, finding a masc that likes you back is harder than resisting the urge to U-haul and the only lesbian bar is full of failed talking stages. So get strapped in for a gay old time.

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