FatherShould Podcast

Spoken Words Unspoken

Tue, 27 Jun 2023 20:04:00 GMT

In this riveting episode of the FatherShould Podcast, we're thrilled to welcome special guest Dr. Nakeisha Savage, author of the self-published book, "Spoken Words Unspoken." Through her deeply personal narrative, Dr. Savage bravely explores the landscape of abusive relationships, fatherhood/parenting, and the transformational journey of learning to love oneself.

This conversation uncovers the significant role of fatherhood in shaping a child's perspective toward relationships. We dive into the lessons Dr. Savage has learned from her own experience and how she navigated the turbulent waters of an abusive relationship. Together, we delve into the path of self-love and healing, providing valuable insights for those in similar situations.

Join us as we shed light on the power of breaking free from toxic patterns, the healing strength of self-love, and the vital role fathers play in these narratives. This episode is to be noticed - a testament to resilience, a path toward healing, and an exploration of the intertwined narratives of fatherhood and self-love. Tune in for an enlightening and empowering discussion.

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The Upside of a Lie... Finding Carlos

Fri, 16 Jun 2023 18:02:48 GMT

In this emotional and inspiring episode of FatherShould, Fleming and Ms. Von speak with guest Carlos Buskey about his experience of being lied to by his mother about the identity of his father. Carlos shares how he always sensed that something was off, but it wasn't until he was an adult that he discovered the truth. It was a complicated journey, but ultimately Carlos found his biological father and established a meaningful relationship with him.

He also talks about how therapy was an essential part of his healing process, helping him to work through his emotions and preparing him for this moment.

Throughout the conversation, all three stress the importance of therapy for anyone going through a significant life change or trauma. They discuss the stigma against therapy and how seeking professional help can be empowering and life-changing.

This episode is a powerful reminder of the importance of honesty, communication, and seeking support when faced with difficult challenges. It also showcases how therapy can be essential for personal growth and healing.

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Put Us Behind God In Your Acknowledgments

Fri, 09 Jun 2023 03:12:56 GMT

In this episode of FatherShould, we explore the crucial role of parenting as a team effort. Sharing the challenges and rewards of working together to raise children while effectively communicating and collaborating with your co-parent.

Listen as we discuss the importance of setting clear expectations and boundaries, the benefits of sharing responsibilities and decision-making, and the impact a strong parentship can have on your children's emotional and social development.

Whether you're a new parent or have been co-parenting for years, both parents are needed to maintain the balance in parenthood that benefits everyone.

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Bromosexual Friendships

Thu, 01 Jun 2023 20:31:19 GMT

We believe in breaking down the stigma surrounding male friendships, regardless of sexual orientation! It’s so important to acknowledge that platonic relationships between men, no matter their sexual identity, are just as valid and important as any other friendship.

On this week’s episode, we welcome Keith, Maurice, and Tone to ask the question can a gay and straight man have a friendship?

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Mother’s Day & Sidenotes

Thu, 25 May 2023 18:08:43 GMT

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Raising A Different Ability

Thu, 11 May 2023 23:18:56 GMT

This week on FatherShould Podcast, we sat down with Gerald and his wife, Felicia Williams, to discuss raising a child with a different ability.

Although challenging initially, the couple focused on their son's strengths and interests. They found incorporating creativity and various sports into his daily activities helpful while fostering a supportive community, primarily through family and friends raising amazing kids with different abilities.

Remember that every child with autism is unique and has their own strengths and challenges. Don't compare your child to others. Celebrate their unique qualities.

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You’re Not Your F’n Resume!

Thu, 04 May 2023 19:08:05 GMT

FatherShould Podcast returns for its fourth season!!!! This week Fleming and Ms. Von discuss cryptocurrency, bad dad jokes, the need not to prove ourselves to people, therapy and strippers. We are back to bring you fresh perspectives and insights on the joys and challenges of fatherhood, co-parenting and surrogacy in #20Today.

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This Time It’s Personal!

Thu, 08 Sep 2022 10:00:20 GMT

Season 3 finale of FatherShould, Karen Faustin joins the show, turning the tables on Fleming and Ms. Von to gauge their reflections on the latest season. Among other poignant and thought-provoking questions, she asks them both to summarize the season in three words, and has each expand on the other’s chosen words. They touch on the sacrifice and hard work of building a successful podcast, what they appreciate about each other, and what they’ve learned from their guests. It’s emotional. For Ms. Von the biggest takeaway from this season was the importance of being your own self-advocate, while Fleming felt the running theme was how people can make a healthy functioning family dynamic work through all kinds of adversity. They also look to the future, to Season 4 and beyond, and reveal what shape they hope the show will take. Fleming, notably hoping for it to become an agent of change. As long as men, and their crucial role in society, especially as fathers, continue to be undervalued, Fleming and Ms. Von will continue to champion them through thoughtful dialogue, unflinching storytelling, and humor.

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You Sound Just Like Your…

Thu, 01 Sep 2022 10:00:19 GMT

“There’s nothing wrong with needing a time-out from your kid,“ says Ganell Lewis, who returns to the podcast to talk about the challenges of co-parenting, custody arrangements, and the influence of parents on children via both nature and nurture. Ganell argues that family courts work to keep children with their mothers regardless of the childrens’ best interest, and that the role of fathers is not taken seriously because it’s not recognized. Ms. Vonn argues that men don’t make the same sacrifices as women in terms of child rearing and therefore co-parenting should be divided more equally. Fleming argues that if women want equal custody, they have to give up a certain amount of power and control (and some will have to be willing to part with the extra money). Throughout this lively hour, all three dare to be honest about issues society tends to gloss over, fairly turn over both sides of every issue, and check themselves as gamely as they check each other and the rest of society. As always, they find humor and camaraderie amidst even the heavier topics, and you’ll find yourself nodding along–and shaking your head–throughout.

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Freedom Home

Thu, 25 Aug 2022 10:00:28 GMT

“One thing’s for certain, there will not be a student that came out of Freedom Home Academy ill-prepared academically,” says Marcus Kline. After their first son was born, Marcus and his wife, decided to homeschool their son, developed the school’s original curriculum based on neuroscientist Glenn Doman’s flash method. The school opened in February of 2008, for parents who were looking for alternatives to the public schools in Chicago. Since then, they’ve welcomed hundreds of students through their doors, expanding into a School of Literacy for kids coming out of daycare. Academic rigor and an understanding of culture remains at the heart of the curriculum at Freedom Home Academy.Even students who were failing in, (and/or were failed by) the public system, have gone on to achieve academic excellence, either when transferring to elite private high schools or going on to elite universities. Marcus tells the heartbreaking-turned-life-affirming story of C.J., who went from a class pariah at his previous school to Dean’s List thanks to Freedom Home’s commitment to reaching students where they are. His own son Oba makes an appearance to demonstrate how effective the Academy’s methods are in children as young as five.

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The Kid Is Alright!

Thu, 18 Aug 2022 10:00:26 GMT

This week’s guest Fred Brown, is a father of three and raising his niece Nia in the wake of the death of both of her parents. While navigating her unique trauma, Fred and his village work to assure his niece that she’s not alone. Knowing he would be the one to raise Nia, Fred continues to instill in her the legacy of academic rigor that meant so much to her parents. On the firmer side of things are the whoopings they all endured that are no longer allowed and they trade stories from the trenches. On the softer side is the therapy that they all advocate for. Fred also makes sure to spend individual time with each child, knowing what they like and shares his confusion at their ever-changing interests. As always, FatherShould takes a firm/soft approach, taking us from the most poignant moments of life and loss, and back to the hilarious. Join to hear what Fleming advises parents what to look for in potential godparents and Ms. Von’s tireless defense of Geminis everywhere.

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Wait… What!

Thu, 11 Aug 2022 10:00:26 GMT

“I feel like the people who are loyal to us are about to throw us away,” Ms. Von manages to say while nearly crying with laughter, “I apologize in advance.” No apology is necessary for the hilarity that ensues. The episode opens with the term “boomerang baby,” which Fleming thinks he coined to describe an unexpected pregnancy resulting from a one-night stand. Ms. Von is quick to correct him explaining it actually refers to a grown child who returns home to live with his or her parents. This leads to discussions about how expensive it is to raise children, the baffling clothing and hygiene choices of teenagers, and why all of Ms. Von’s girlfriends insist having kids is a scam.

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Victory Hereafter

Thu, 04 Aug 2022 10:00:22 GMT

“You two should lead seminars,” Fleming tells Virginia (Rita) and her ex-husband Victor of how they maintain a strong family unit and exemplary co-parenting since their divorce. And it’s a relationship that’s had perhaps more than its fair share of challenges. Having had their first son Victor at the end of high school, they credit both of their parents for helping them raise a new baby while just becoming adults themselves. Though they’d eventually realize they were better off as good friends, they continued to prioritize their sons above all, and now each socializes, attends family functions and even vacations with the other’s new spouses. Their foundation of respect is evident even in the way that Rita alternately turns to prompt Victor’s opinion on a topic, after she’s given her own.Join the conversation to hear Victor Sr.’s ambivalence toward protests against gun violence, the strength of his and Rita’s faith, and the one issue he and Rita ever argued about as co-parents.

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Genetic Roulette

Thu, 28 Jul 2022 10:00:22 GMT

“You only get one body,” Ms. Von reminds us on this episode of FatherShould, “Most people don’t realize it until it’s too late, until it's literally too late.” A large part of keeping our bodies in optimal health is knowing our genetic risks and predispositions. Both agree on the importance of self-advocacy, which includes knowing your body and paying attention to those changes. Besides genetics, our family influences our health by the habits they instill in us, habits we shouldn’t be afraid to change, especially as we get older. We naturally grow out of certain tastes, or otherwise suddenly develop allergies to foods we’ve always eaten. Once you begin to upgrade your eating habits, Ms. Von explains, foods you once couldn’t live without just cease to be appealing. Fleming and Ms. Von weigh in on the great peanut butter debate, the popular and/or traditional foods they don’t like and which foods are worth a trip to the hospital.

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Adventures in Kid Listening

Thu, 14 Jul 2022 15:57:49 GMT

“Self-care is about consistency, doing things routinely,” says Shanta Hayes, therapist and licensed clinical social worker. Structure and routine are the foundation of raising a successful child who practices their own self care. Creating structure doesn’t just make life easier for parent and child, it also builds bonds. This can be challenging particularly when co-parenting, but it’s vital to consistency. Shanta explains that parents shouldn’t be afraid to walk the child through the reasons, consequences and benefits of the rules they have to follow, letting them know how certain behaviors are connected. It's vital that parents mirror the behavior they wish to see, and teach children the "how" of things, rather than demand "why" when the child can't produce what they haven't learned. They also need to be taught the vocabulary to be able to express their specific feelings. On this week's episode Shanta, Von and Fleming reiterate the importance of your body language matching your verbiage, the importance of finding a therapist with the right fit, and why anger in adolescence is often a sign of depression.

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Kids Say The Darndest Things

Thu, 07 Jul 2022 10:00:37 GMT

What starts off as a conversation about the quirky yet honest things children say, transitions into observations about how closely children pay attention to their parents. This means they know when adults are fighting, and need adults to confide in, whether it be a therapist, mentor or older family member. Fleming and Von are baffled by the clothing choices and hygiene practices of the young people in their life. Other challenges with children include how protective and territorial they get when introducing new family members into the family dynamic. In turn, the adults have to adjust and learn to let go as the children grow up, gain independence and prefer the company of their peers. Join the conversation to learn about the power of Cinnamon Toast Crunch, whether Fleming’s greatest fear with his son was ever realized and vital warning in the song “Cat’s in the Cradle” by Harry Chapin.

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Co - Parenting In A Blended Life

Thu, 30 Jun 2022 10:00:27 GMT

Today’s guests, Tarasha and Ryan Bell, discuss the joys and challenges of raising a blended family, including their two daughters from previous relationships who are the same age. They highlight the importance of recognizing all the children as theirs, and making sure the kids are aware that no one is being replaced even as they adjust to having to share parents and living spaces. The same goes for the adults, who have to recognize that there are now other parents in the children’s lives who have similar standing. Parents must be willing to learn their personalities and discipline– and accommodate– accordingly. It’s also important to receive feedback from people with the opposite parenting styles, so that you don’t fall into a parenting echo chamber and can continue to grow. Today’s episode includes a spirited debate about the equivalent of a push present for fathers, the importance of taking the time before responding emotionally, and finding the humor in it all.

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Dads Like Spa Days Too!

Thu, 23 Jun 2022 10:00:23 GMT

On this episode of FatherShould, Fleming and Ms. Von discuss how more Dads have been vocal this year about how they want to be properly celebrated and what they want to receive for gifts. Men are beginning to embrace the tradition that some usually would have shied away from – or been shy about vocalizing it. They also discuss why children need to have a healthy fear of adults and why you should always remember that however a relationship ends, the children involved are innocent.

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Growing In Fatherhood

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 10:00:17 GMT

Ms. Von's father, Albert Tompkins joins the conversation to talk about his journey of fatherhood. He discusses how his daughters and life softened his rigid edges, as he approached being the dad he never had himself. Father and daughter look back on situations ranging from uncomfortable to tragic. But every situation only inspired togetherness, communication, and evolution both individually and with each other. On this episode of FatherShould, hear Albert describe the special relationship he has with his grandson, what he is proud of and the many situations that can be explained with a car analogy.

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Faith Vs. Fear

Thu, 09 Jun 2022 10:00:14 GMT

“I was staying up very late on Sunday nights, because I didn’t want to face Mondays,” says Steve E. Ballard explains on this episode of FatherShould. This was more than just that “dreary Monday” feeling. Mondays represented reality, having to face the business he had built and the mounting decisions that came with it, fear of dealing with himself and with life. He was unable to make even the most basic decisions, paralyzed, like so many people, by the worry of how others would judge him. It nearly drove him to have a breakdown. Only when he reconciled with his sexuality, enrolled in therapy and gave his life over to God, did he free himself. On this episode of FatherShould, learn why acknowledging your talents leads to recognizing your purpose, how fear plays into the evolving relationship between parent and child, and how to free yourself from worrying about what others think of you.

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In Pursuit Of Emotional Intelligence

Thu, 02 Jun 2022 10:00:30 GMT

“Do you think there’s ever a time when emotions are not required in a situation?” Fleming asks in this conversation with Ms. Von. They discuss the myriad situations that require emotions and emotional restraint. Whether it’s being overly invested in the 24-hour news cycle during the pandemic, staying in relationships despite both parties no longer being emotionally invested, and having inappropriate emotional reactions at somber events. Part of emotional intelligence is knowing when to not let your needs supersede the other person’s. When a person doesn’t want to talk, leave them be. When they don’t have something to say, respect it. On this episode of FatherShould, the difference between a villain and a repeat offender, why it’s crucial for your body language to match your words, and which are the conversations worth having

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Fighting For You And Yours (You Gotta Fight For Your Rights)

Thu, 19 May 2022 10:00:19 GMT

After finding out his divorce via publication, this week’s guest Stanley Thompson Jr. decided to make sure that the ending of his marriage would not negatively impact his children or well-being. He learned his rights, fought the court system and WON!! Tune into this week’s episode of FatherShould for an inspiring conversation on fighting for your rights.

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Family Court Debunked

Thu, 12 May 2022 10:00:23 GMT

“The family court work is some of the most meaningful work that I've done in my time on the bench,” says guest Judge David Baker. For his first two years in the courtroom, Judge David was dedicated to family court, presiding over many child custody cases. With Fleming and Ms. Von, Judge David debunks false perceptions of family court and what goes into the process.

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Loving With No Agenda Or Expectations

Thu, 05 May 2022 10:00:33 GMT

“My personal motto is to be there for the ones that you love. Show up and walk your talk,” explains Diane Del Conte, host Fleming’s surrogate aunt, and role model. Years ago, Diane met Fleming’s mother while at work and they immediately became friends. Since then, Diane has been an enormous part of Fleming’s life and positively influences everyone she knows. Tune into this week’s episode of FatherShould for a heartfelt conversation about mother figures.

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Losing A Queen...Gaining A Princess

Thu, 28 Apr 2022 10:00:21 GMT

“There's no manual for this thing called life,” says returning guest Dr. Siah. When he became a new father, Dr. Siah also became a caretaker to his mother before she passed. With hosts Fleming and Ms. Von, Dr. Siah shares the highs and lows of that time and the complicated emotions of gaining and losing the most important people in your life.

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Blame It On Your First Piece Of…

Wed, 20 Apr 2022 19:25:34 GMT

Whether it’s sex or food, anything can look good if you haven’t indulged in a while, according to Fleming and Gerald. Although they understand that it’s not right, men will do anything, even lie, to fulfill their “hunger.” However, Dr. LaShauna and Ms. Von recognize that once people become adults, it’s time to take responsibility, not just in their relationships but for themselves. With this in mind, all sides can agree that you should have the love life you want, regardless of social conditioning.

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Father Figures

Thu, 14 Apr 2022 10:00:34 GMT

After experiencing the tremendous loss of their uncles, hosts Fleming and Ms. Von reflect on what it means to lose important father figures. By walking through their family dynamics, the hosts highlight how the people around us shape us.

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You're Talking... But Are You Listening?

Fri, 23 Jul 2021 20:19:14 GMT

As humans we talk daily. However, how effectively are we communicating what our needs are...and hearing the needs of others? This week we talk with Life Coaches Terri Hase and Kenneth Mitchell on practical tools we can use to effectively communicate one’s needs.

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Court: Collision Course...Vol. 1

Thu, 15 Jul 2021 18:32:02 GMT

Ryan Bell of The Bell Effect talks about his experience with the court system, fighting for his rights as a dad to be in his children's lives.

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Trilogy of Change

Thu, 08 Jul 2021 19:39:35 GMT

Micheal Cristal discusses the importance of being spiritually grounded and how the absence of his father has influenced his relationship with his children.

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Dear Dad - Fifth Anniversary

Thu, 01 Jul 2021 23:21:53 GMT

June 28th marked five years since the transition of Eugene Fleming Jr., father of co-host and Fathershould founder, Fleming, and the inspiration behind the podcast. This week he discusses the evolution of their relationship as father and son.

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From Boys To Men - Father's Day Special

Thu, 17 Jun 2021 21:48:20 GMT

A conversation on how these men, who have been like-family friends for years, hold each other accountable while raising kids within their brotherhood.

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Inspired By Dad

Thu, 10 Jun 2021 20:58:05 GMT

Neville Forsythe II, of Son of Chef, sat down to share the relationship he had with his father.

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Thoughts of a First Time Dad

Thu, 03 Jun 2021 23:16:54 GMT

First time dad Talon Hurst talks about how he manages being an attorney, dad and husband.

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Necessary Forgiveness

Thu, 20 May 2021 21:30:22 GMT

A mom's perspective on being a co-parent, life coach and working as a family law attorney.

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Connecting: From Then ‘til Now

Thu, 13 May 2021 20:12:32 GMT

FatherShould co-hosts Fleming and Ms. Von discuss their childhoods while addressing the challenges today’s kids face.

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Courage, Determination & Understanding: Mother’s Day Special

Thu, 06 May 2021 16:25:05 GMT

A discussion about having the courage to leave home, and your support system, in order to start a new life elsewhere.

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Staying Out Of Court

Thu, 29 Apr 2021 21:17:17 GMT

See how putting your child first, combined with understanding, respect, and a co-parenting arrangement, can keep you out of court.

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Audio Diary of a Father

Fri, 23 Apr 2021 02:21:32 GMT

A discussion on the importance of communicating with children, leaving them documentation of your life as their dad and what was important to you.

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Lyrics And Fatherhood

Thu, 15 Apr 2021 16:00:36 GMT

Jason Wallace, of Lyrics and Lattes, discusses how he balances juggling working a demanding job with being a dad, podcaster and social media influencer.

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Dad...Put A Focus On Your Mental Health

Thu, 08 Apr 2021 23:24:30 GMT

Raschid Smith, President/CEO and Program Director of AGS Programs, discusses the importance of men making their mental health a priority.

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Practicing What You Teach

Thu, 01 Apr 2021 19:14:32 GMT

This week we talk with licensed therapist Dr. L about being a co-parent and how those experiences influence her approach to therapy.

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Operating Outside The Comfort Zone

Thu, 25 Mar 2021 23:35:27 GMT

Fleming and Ms. Von discuss how the choices they made for themselves moved them out of their comfort zones.

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Lean On Me

Thu, 18 Mar 2021 21:54:31 GMT

We look at the critical roles school counselors play in the lives of our kids with LaSundra Vines and Anthony Thomas.

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The Grass Is Greener On This Side

Wed, 10 Mar 2021 00:00:00 GMT

Fleming and Ms. Von discuss the importance of self awareness and spiritual alignment with Steve Ballard.

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Life Of A Ringmaster

Thu, 04 Mar 2021 17:00:12 GMT

This week Kevin Davis and Dave Hall discuss how they balance working a 9 to 5, their drive that helps them pursue various business endevors, spending quality time with family and maintaining their peace of mind during these COVID times.

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Choppin' It Up With Chico

Thu, 25 Feb 2021 22:46:35 GMT

Chico stops by the FatherShould Podcast to discuss how he balances juggling being a dad with being an entrepreneur, social media influencer and overall life.

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Our Family...Our Way

Thu, 18 Feb 2021 20:42:22 GMT

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When The Village Intercedes

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 16:18:25 GMT

This week Roderic Irby joins Fleming and Ms. Von, discussing raising/influencing kids that aren’t biologically theirs.

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Dealing With The Death Of Physical Intimacy

Thu, 04 Feb 2021 21:47:02 GMT

This week we welcome Coach K and Coach Fabrice to discuss emotional intimacy, unspoken exceptions and betrayal of the heart when the physical intimacy dies.

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Look Who's Back!

Thu, 28 Jan 2021 16:27:33 GMT

Welcome to Season 2 of the FatherShould Podcast where we discuss everything about fatherhood in #20Today. This week Fleming and Ms. Von share what they have been working on during their hiatus and 21st century dating.

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Taking A Leap Of Faith

Thu, 16 Jul 2020 21:16:53 GMT

When God asks you to step out in faith, he may ask you to leave something behind for something greater. Some of those things might be pride, idolatry, or self-made plans. In this case, it was for Fleming and Ms. Von to step out of their respective comfort zones. Listen as the FatherShould host recap their first podcast season.

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Expecting the Unexpected

Thu, 16 Jul 2020 21:13:44 GMT

Season 1 is almost complete! Fleming and Ms. Von sit down to discuss their takeaways, lessons learned, and thoughts on FatherShould Podcast's first season.

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Unspoken Promises

Thu, 25 Jun 2020 23:57:30 GMT

A parent's most fundamental promise should be to provide a safe, loving, and nurturing environment where their children can grow, learn and play. However, what about parents' unspoken promises and expectations of themselves and their children? Fleming and Ms. Von sat down with Chris Rey this week to discuss.

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Say It With Ya Chest

Thu, 18 Jun 2020 13:00:12 GMT

This week Fleming and Ms. Von discuss fatherhood, connecting with kids, and having those tough conversations with Rev. Jonathan A. Mason, Sr., immediate Past President of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc.

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Co-Parenting: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly

Thu, 11 Jun 2020 13:00:20 GMT

This week we continue our co-parenting conversation with Life Coach Dr. Kenneth Mitchell, a Court Appointed Advocate for Children. Hear how he navigates the parents' wants as he investigates a case and reports its findings and recommendations to the court. Always remember that the investigation, report, and recommendations are in the child's best interests and the court's duty.

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Co-Parenting: Understanding Your Role

Thu, 14 May 2020 18:12:48 GMT

"It takes a village to raise a child" is an old proverb that means an entire community of people must provide for and interact positively with children for those children to experience and grow in a safe and healthy environment. This week we continue our conversation on co-parenting with guest Tremont Sutton as he shares how he raised his son with the help of his village and not the courts. #20Today #healthyconversations #wemadecoparentingwork #ittakesavillage #understandingyourrole #coparentingisaboutfamily

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The "I" In Co-Parenting Is Insignificant

Thu, 07 May 2020 04:44:50 GMT

Being a step-parent often involves putting the needs of everyone else before yours. Your partner will require a lot of support as they help their child through challenging times. Children usually are not equipped to deal with negative emotions and significant life changes, so they also need extra support. Tune in as FatherShould Podcast hosts discuss step-parents' roles in co-parenting with this week's guest Gee Lewis. #fathershould #20Today #healthyconversations #coparentingisaboutthefamily #creatinglovingfamilies

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Be The Model

Thu, 30 Apr 2020 21:46:55 GMT

In this week's episode, Fleming and Ms. Von spoke with Mr. Corey Salter, CEO and Founder of Uplift It Fitness, on the importance of parents being the model they want their kids to follow. #fathershould #20Today

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Rational vs Irrational

Thu, 19 Mar 2020 11:29:45 GMT

Fleming and Ms. Von discuss how life decisions are made in either a "rational" or "irrational" state this week. Where rational thinking is defined as thinking that is consistent with known facts. Irrational thinking is inconsistent with (or unsupported by) known facts. #fathershould #20Today

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Acceptance Of Anger

Fri, 13 Mar 2020 01:57:32 GMT

In this week's episode, Acceptance of Anger, Fleming, and Ms. Von sit down with Daryl Anderson; International Executive Director of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc., to discuss the importance of being open to listening and understanding the person who caused the hurt—having the strength and self-awareness to create space between ourselves and our anger. By creating space and mindfulness, we can become more aware of our experience of anger and not allow it to run us out of control. #fathershould #20Today

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Forgive Thy Father

Thu, 05 Mar 2020 19:40:30 GMT

In this week's episode, Fleming and Ms. Von discuss forgiveness and how it remains one of the hardest things we have to do as humans. The actions, words, or lack of presence by someone can negatively affect us for years. At some point, you have to release that negativity and learn to forgive to heal and move on. #fathershould #20Today

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H.I.M.

Thu, 20 Feb 2020 15:22:45 GMT

Fleming and Ms. Von sat down with Author Tracey Monique to talk about discovering her "Dad" through the eyes of his mother, the mother of his child, and how substance abuse affected a father-daughter relationship. #fathershould #20Today

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The Offspring Chronicles

Fri, 14 Feb 2020 00:35:16 GMT

During the episode, Fleming and Ms. Von sit down with Fleming's son, the offspring, to discuss the impact and some of the lessons he learned during the cross-country road trip made back to his father's childhood home. #fathershould #20Today

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Nexus/Earning the Bond

Thu, 06 Feb 2020 14:50:48 GMT

This week Fleming and Ms. Von provide their thoughts surrounding Episode two of Kevin Hart's "Don't F**k This Up," where Kevin examines his relationship with his father. #fathershould #20Today

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How Did We Get Here

Wed, 29 Jan 2020 16:52:27 GMT

This week, we continue discussing the creation of the FatherShould Podcast with our guests, Stacye Montez and Dr. Siah. They share their points of view and their roles in the FatherShould Podcast journey.

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The Start Of A Journey

Sun, 19 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT

This podcast is for fathers, sons, daughters, and mothers of all ages and backgrounds. Our goal is to view dads realistically and positively and encourage building productive family relationships. Our first episode hits you with the origin story of FatherShould Podcast's creation.

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