60 acast.com Be Better Than Before http://www.getoverdivorce.org en © COMI Media Divorce,Heartbreak,Healing,Prosperity,Loss,Love Cole Johnson Are you hurting?


Are you needing an answer?


Are you failing to see your way through?


Well - you have come to the right place!


Get 10 lessons on the go as you hear a personal account of author Cole Johnson of his divorce.


Do you have to throw your pain away? Well - listen to Be Better Than Before - the Get Over Divorce On The Go edition ... as this is exclusive. Only YOU get to hear this. Your answer is here! This is a companion to accompany the book "Be Better Than Before." Listen to these exclusive episodes - and you will be better than ever before!

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]]> Are you hurting?


Are you needing an answer?


Are you failing to see your way through?


Well - you have come to the right place!


Get 10 lessons on the go as you hear a personal account of author Cole Johnson of his divorce.


Do you have to throw your pain away? Well - listen to Be Better Than Before - the Get Over Divorce On The Go edition ... as this is exclusive. Only YOU get to hear this. Your answer is here! This is a companion to accompany the book "Be Better Than Before." Listen to these exclusive episodes - and you will be better than ever before!

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]]> false Cole Johnson getoverdivorce@gmail.com 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb getoverdivorce serial https://assets.pippa.io/shows/5c90441355a34c90143d61eb/1586407947487-6771ba8e78bf14a3ebfa342a137a003f.jpeg http://www.getoverdivorce.org Be Better Than Before Take Yourself Out Tonight Take Yourself Out Tonight Thu, 03 Oct 2019 13:00:37 GMT 29:01 5d93cade3df80a73695f9630 false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/take-yourself-out-tonight 5d93cade3df80a73695f9630 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb take-yourself-out-tonight Dating For One full 9 The most precious commodity in your life, right now ... is you! You now are alone. You have no dates. You may not even have a Girls' Night Out or hang with the boys. You probably don't want to hang with anybody else. You may not want to spoil yourself.

That's why you should! Make it a circle of one night and enjoy yourself. It is allowed.

You need to find happiness right now. Enjoying your own space forces you to find things about yourself that you probably didn't know existed. Don't pay attention to the others. Only fill yourself with the joy you so richly deserve. Love on yourself!

Cole mentions when just a simple trip to the movies and dinner by himself filled him up in ways that, quite frankly, his marriage never did. More than having the freedom to do whatever he wanted, Cole learned to enjoy life again - and not be trapped in his house while his conscience would be busy convincing him of his false unworthiness. Just being among those living their lives made him feel worthy.

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]]> The most precious commodity in your life, right now ... is you! You now are alone. You have no dates. You may not even have a Girls' Night Out or hang with the boys. You probably don't want to hang with anybody else. You may not want to spoil yourself.

That's why you should! Make it a circle of one night and enjoy yourself. It is allowed.

You need to find happiness right now. Enjoying your own space forces you to find things about yourself that you probably didn't know existed. Don't pay attention to the others. Only fill yourself with the joy you so richly deserve. Love on yourself!

Cole mentions when just a simple trip to the movies and dinner by himself filled him up in ways that, quite frankly, his marriage never did. More than having the freedom to do whatever he wanted, Cole learned to enjoy life again - and not be trapped in his house while his conscience would be busy convincing him of his false unworthiness. Just being among those living their lives made him feel worthy.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Psalm 32:7

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]]> Blue Funk Blue Funk Thu, 26 Sep 2019 13:00:55 GMT 29:34 5d8bea931f4961512bbc9129 false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/blue-funk 5d8bea931f4961512bbc9129 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb blue-funk Tales Of Depression full 8 One of the most painful moments during heartbreak or divorce is the moment loneliness seeps in so deep that it overtakes you. Some may be strong enough to avoid sinking deep into the clinical version of it. However, all go through feeling a heavy level of dejection at some point of healing.

What you are experiencing is something called depression. It is emotionally painful, mentally crippling and psychologically damaging ... should you not do things to confront, combat and overcome it. Sometimes, relief doesn't come in the form of another human being. This is one of those times.

Cole reminisces about a day where he drove for hours during the beginning of his divorce. He recounts the emptiness he felt for a long time - and how he covered up the feeling when around other people

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Matthew 11:28

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]]> One of the most painful moments during heartbreak or divorce is the moment loneliness seeps in so deep that it overtakes you. Some may be strong enough to avoid sinking deep into the clinical version of it. However, all go through feeling a heavy level of dejection at some point of healing.

What you are experiencing is something called depression. It is emotionally painful, mentally crippling and psychologically damaging ... should you not do things to confront, combat and overcome it. Sometimes, relief doesn't come in the form of another human being. This is one of those times.

Cole reminisces about a day where he drove for hours during the beginning of his divorce. He recounts the emptiness he felt for a long time - and how he covered up the feeling when around other people

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Matthew 11:28

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]]> Hate Is Normal Hate Is Normal Thu, 19 Sep 2019 13:00:20 GMT 29:54 5d82f1c2883590ed6308a01c false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/hate-is-normal 5d82f1c2883590ed6308a01c 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb hate-is-normal The Ultimate Warning Sign full 7 "I hate you." "You disgust me." "I wish you were never born." "You need to die." All of these words you either have heard at one time or another ... or have said them - maybe even both. The feeling is hate. However, what if we were to tell you that it is normal for you to feel this way?

Of course, it's not something you should forever want to feel. However, when discourse happens - intense feelings start to develop. And what better (or worse) to feel - than hate.

Cole talks about the time he mentions this in counsel - and in conversation with his ex-wife as he goes through the unflinchingly painful ordeal of being emotional in the beginning of divorce. He had to understand the hatred - so he could ultimately destroy it.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Proverbs 8:13

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]]> "I hate you." "You disgust me." "I wish you were never born." "You need to die." All of these words you either have heard at one time or another ... or have said them - maybe even both. The feeling is hate. However, what if we were to tell you that it is normal for you to feel this way?

Of course, it's not something you should forever want to feel. However, when discourse happens - intense feelings start to develop. And what better (or worse) to feel - than hate.

Cole talks about the time he mentions this in counsel - and in conversation with his ex-wife as he goes through the unflinchingly painful ordeal of being emotional in the beginning of divorce. He had to understand the hatred - so he could ultimately destroy it.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Proverbs 8:13

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]]> No Ordinary Pain No Ordinary Pain Thu, 12 Sep 2019 13:00:44 GMT 29:42 5d71312e408342486f3e108d false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/no-ordinary-pain 5d71312e408342486f3e108d 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb no-ordinary-pain Moments Of Despair full 6 You've cut yourself. You've fallen to the ground. You've accidentally slammed your hand in your car door. All those scenarios hurt ... but not like being rejected by someone you love.

There is something profoundly different about healing from a divorce. Healing from a break-up is bad enough. Literally seeing your family, your existence, your life split in two ... can prove to be devastating.

Cole walks you through the time when he recognized that divorce is something you can't simply brush aside and move forward. He mentions the time when the pain was so unbearable - the feeling of death felt better than the excruciating pain of being discarded.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Revelation 21:4

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]]> You've cut yourself. You've fallen to the ground. You've accidentally slammed your hand in your car door. All those scenarios hurt ... but not like being rejected by someone you love.

There is something profoundly different about healing from a divorce. Healing from a break-up is bad enough. Literally seeing your family, your existence, your life split in two ... can prove to be devastating.

Cole walks you through the time when he recognized that divorce is something you can't simply brush aside and move forward. He mentions the time when the pain was so unbearable - the feeling of death felt better than the excruciating pain of being discarded.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Revelation 21:4

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]]> Pawns Pawns Thu, 05 Sep 2019 13:01:43 GMT 28:22 5d3bc140f319c8d37406acaa false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/pawns 5d3bc140f319c8d37406acaa 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb pawns The Innocent Bystanders full 5 This is where it gets tricky. Treacherous waters are ahead - because, quite frankly, you are being a liability too those you love. If you don't watch out, you may alienate them for the rest of your life.

Many people feel like they are pawns in the huge chess game of life. Either they serve your purpose as your personal Amen Corner ... or they serve as a huge distraction when you aren't ready to hear the truth come out of their mouths about your erratic (and hurtful) behavior.

This is where Cole gets with you and mentions the ways we all use other human beings (parents, friends, co-workers, associates ... and most importantly, children) to advance your personal gain of masking the pain that still resides within you. He knows ... because he's been there.

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]]> This is where it gets tricky. Treacherous waters are ahead - because, quite frankly, you are being a liability too those you love. If you don't watch out, you may alienate them for the rest of your life.

Many people feel like they are pawns in the huge chess game of life. Either they serve your purpose as your personal Amen Corner ... or they serve as a huge distraction when you aren't ready to hear the truth come out of their mouths about your erratic (and hurtful) behavior.

This is where Cole gets with you and mentions the ways we all use other human beings (parents, friends, co-workers, associates ... and most importantly, children) to advance your personal gain of masking the pain that still resides within you. He knows ... because he's been there.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Matthew 7:15

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]]> Convenience Of Your Solitude Convenience Of Your Solitude Thu, 29 Aug 2019 12:57:38 GMT 29:44 5d30f49b662050587405d029 false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/convenience-of-solitude 5d30f49b662050587405d029 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb convenience-of-solitude The Joys Of Being Alone full 4 One of the greatest tools known to a divorcee is never discussed. Considering the volatile state you are undergoing, being away from others is a good thing. No, scratch that. It's a great thing.

Going through any journey alone is never fun. However, it sometimes is necessary. this is when you can gather your thoughts, lick your wounds, and - most importantly - learn who you truly are.

Cole speaks about the times that he needed to undergo being alone in order to be a better friend, mate and man to society, at large. It was a tricky tightrope for him, but he expresses how he navigated his way through it.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - 1 Samuel 12:22

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]]> One of the greatest tools known to a divorcee is never discussed. Considering the volatile state you are undergoing, being away from others is a good thing. No, scratch that. It's a great thing.

Going through any journey alone is never fun. However, it sometimes is necessary. this is when you can gather your thoughts, lick your wounds, and - most importantly - learn who you truly are.

Cole speaks about the times that he needed to undergo being alone in order to be a better friend, mate and man to society, at large. It was a tricky tightrope for him, but he expresses how he navigated his way through it.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - 1 Samuel 12:22

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]]> Death On Earth Death On Earth Thu, 22 Aug 2019 14:35:48 GMT 29:49 5d2d511f9e874fed60e0ef8b false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/death-on-earth 5d2d511f9e874fed60e0ef8b 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb death-on-earth Grieving Your Marriage full 3 So ... you made that decision to separate. Your world of debating over assets, blame, events of the now-former union and sanity now begins.

And we haven't gotten to the biggest collateral damage whenever divorce happens ... children. Innocent figures almost overnight turn into bargaining chips between two people who are no longer in love with each other.

Every divorcee goes through the raw, unrelenting process of pain. You experience a death on earth, and Cole describes his moment in great detail. The most beautiful part about experiencing death on earth ... is there is life after death!

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Ezekiel 18:32

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]]> So ... you made that decision to separate. Your world of debating over assets, blame, events of the now-former union and sanity now begins.

And we haven't gotten to the biggest collateral damage whenever divorce happens ... children. Innocent figures almost overnight turn into bargaining chips between two people who are no longer in love with each other.

Every divorcee goes through the raw, unrelenting process of pain. You experience a death on earth, and Cole describes his moment in great detail. The most beautiful part about experiencing death on earth ... is there is life after death!

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Ezekiel 18:32

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]]> <![CDATA[Don't Do It]]> Thu, 15 Aug 2019 19:18:12 GMT 29:56 5d272b8d12debf5f4b413e58 false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/dont-do-it 5d272b8d12debf5f4b413e58 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb dont-do-it Thinking Twice Before Dissolution full 2 Going into a death spiral after matrimony is not an easy decision to make. It should never be taken lightly. In fact, divorcee-to-be, your life will never be the same should you go through with marriage dissolution.

Before you enter the realm of separation, think it over ... and over .. and over. Do everything you van to avoid going through a divorce. If you see a way to resolve your marriage, please take the opportunity to do so.

Cole expresses his journey in entering a world where loneliness became an everyday companion. Divorce is not for the weak, and whenever anyone mentions the possibility, this is his first piece of advice he offers every single time.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Ephesians 4:32

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]]> Going into a death spiral after matrimony is not an easy decision to make. It should never be taken lightly. In fact, divorcee-to-be, your life will never be the same should you go through with marriage dissolution.

Before you enter the realm of separation, think it over ... and over .. and over. Do everything you van to avoid going through a divorce. If you see a way to resolve your marriage, please take the opportunity to do so.

Cole expresses his journey in entering a world where loneliness became an everyday companion. Divorce is not for the weak, and whenever anyone mentions the possibility, this is his first piece of advice he offers every single time.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Ephesians 4:32

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]]> What Do You Mean By ... ? What Do You Mean By ... ? Thu, 08 Aug 2019 21:20:08 GMT 29:35 5d2571821f649e3239503523 false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/what-do-you-mean-by 5d2571821f649e3239503523 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb what-do-you-mean-by Climbing Past The Stigma full 1 It is well known that divorce is like a death on earth. You go through a grieving process. However, to say "get over divorce," it sounds callous, harsh and cruel.

This episode explains the title of the podcast. Divorce is a stigma. You get through the pain. In order to get to a better place in life, you must get over all the generalizations of it. You have permission to rip off the scarlet letter 'D' for divorce ... forever!

Cole candidly talks about the moment he realized divorce wore him like a cloak. Just like being 'under the weather', he was 'under the influence of divorce'. He also mentions the moment he made his way out of that stigma - and into the better life which still lay before him.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Psalm 73:26

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]]> It is well known that divorce is like a death on earth. You go through a grieving process. However, to say "get over divorce," it sounds callous, harsh and cruel.

This episode explains the title of the podcast. Divorce is a stigma. You get through the pain. In order to get to a better place in life, you must get over all the generalizations of it. You have permission to rip off the scarlet letter 'D' for divorce ... forever!

Cole candidly talks about the moment he realized divorce wore him like a cloak. Just like being 'under the weather', he was 'under the influence of divorce'. He also mentions the moment he made his way out of that stigma - and into the better life which still lay before him.

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EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Psalm 73:26

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]]> How To Heal From Heartbreak How To Heal From Heartbreak Tue, 19 Mar 2019 01:27:52 GMT 8:07 5c90459901b5f4f47d67398a false https://shows.acast.com/getoverdivorce/episodes/how-to-heal-from-heartbreak 5c90459901b5f4f47d67398a 5c90441355a34c90143d61eb how-to-heal-from-heartbreak full It is never easy for you to go through heartbreak.

You don't know what do you .. where to turn ... how to be.

Well ... your answer is right here!

The way all of us can get to the ultimate level of joy and optimal happiness is if we tend to our hurt.

Cuts need care. Wounds need to be treated. Your heart is no different.

Before any lesson can be administered - this is the first step to your 'new day' and 'new you.'

This is how ... you heal ... from heartbreak ... forever!

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]]> It is never easy for you to go through heartbreak.

You don't know what do you .. where to turn ... how to be.

Well ... your answer is right here!

The way all of us can get to the ultimate level of joy and optimal happiness is if we tend to our hurt.

Cuts need care. Wounds need to be treated. Your heart is no different.

Before any lesson can be administered - this is the first step to your 'new day' and 'new you.'

This is how ... you heal ... from heartbreak ... forever!

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