I'm Good, Actually

Online Relationships

Tue, 25 Apr 2023 23:00:44 GMT

It's the last episode of the season!!

This week Mia and Morsh are talking the relationships that can bloom and blossom online - and we don't mean the apps. Our whole friendship group met on the now defunct social media website - Twitter (😏), and we wouldn't change it for the world!

Marriages, babies, best friends, soul mates - all can be found online, if you're lucky.

Plus we go on a pretty intense tangent about true crime, murder houses, and ghosts...

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Answering Your Questions

Wed, 19 Apr 2023 23:00:58 GMT

We're late, but we're here!

This week Morsh and Mia are answering your questions, some of you even were brave (or stupid) enough to ask our advice on your lives. Don't sue us if our advice ruins your life as much as we have our own...

Sexual incompatibility, red flags, cheating, and bad singing... we cover it all!

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Attachment Styles

Tue, 11 Apr 2023 23:00:04 GMT

This week Mia and Morsh delve into the complex and eye-opening world of attachment styles.

We discuss the meanings of the different attachments, where they come from, what results we got, and how to try and find yourself in that seemingly elusive place of having a secure attachment.

We used this website for information and to do the attachment quiz ourselves.

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The Ex-Factor

Tue, 04 Apr 2023 23:00:09 GMT

Morsh and Mia delve into the murky world of exes.

The big ones that ruin your life, the situationships that somehow hurt more, and the ones you're happy to see the back of.

Can you be friends with an ex? Is it ok to sleep with an ex? Why are we so obsessed with the people that hurt us?!

Plus we decide that 'New Year, New Me' is out; 'New Financial Year, New Me' is IN!

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Friendships When Single

Tue, 28 Mar 2023 23:00:33 GMT

Friendships, like all relationships, change over time. This week Mia and Morsh delve into how they shift when you're one of the few single ones left in your 30s.

From surviving wedding season, to dodging the well-meaning (but usually unhelpful) 'advice'. We cover feeling left behind, feeling left out, and realising that actually sometimes it's all in our own heads...

Plus all the usual rambles - Morsh has more juicy Sims confessions, Mia has a two-day hangover, and we're waiting to hear your applause across the country.

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Changing Yourself for a Relationship

Wed, 15 Mar 2023 00:00:05 GMT

Morsh and Mia are talking about the ways in which we have sacrificed ourselves in the past for relationships, and the ways some of that still follows us into dating in our 30s.

CONTENT WARNING: from around the 40 minute mark there are brief discussions of abusive relationships and sexual assault. Please take care while listening.

We discuss hiding passions, quieting ourselves, losing sight of who we really are, and how to recognise whether you're being asked to compromise or change completely.

There's also quite a tangent discussing Sims where Morsh makes some shocking confessions...

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Dating Fatigue

Wed, 08 Mar 2023 00:00:35 GMT

Mia and Morsh are tired.

Tired of the apps, tired of talking stages, tired of connections that disappear into the sea of ghosts. And we don't think we're alone.

Dating fatigue is hitting so many of us who are trying to find our person, this week we delve into the details of it and why it is so exhausting trying to find a partner in 2023.

We also found some really 'helpful' tips on how to combat dating fatigue. Spoiler alert: they don't help.

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Self Esteem in Our 30s

Wed, 01 Mar 2023 00:00:19 GMT

This week Morsh and Mia are discussing all things self esteem now we're firmly in our 30s.

We're discussing the journey you go through to try and find some semblance of liking yourself, never mind loving yourself, and how far we're come - as well as how far we've got left to go! Spoiler alert: we've got some work left to do.

Oh and Mia's given Morsh a challenge for the apps this week...

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The Genres of Dating

Wed, 22 Feb 2023 00:00:00 GMT

This week Mia and Morsh are talking the genres of people you meet on the dating scene!

Fuckboys, Horoscope Girlies, and the girls' very own recent discovery the Aha Boys, plus many, many more...

We talk about our own experience with these types, which are solid red flags and which are just a bit pink, and why either way they'll ruin your life.

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Reality Dating Shows

Wed, 15 Feb 2023 00:00:23 GMT

Morsh and Mia are delving into the world of reality dating shows; the good, the bad, and the far from ugly.

What shows might we see the girls appear on? How do shows continue to draw such huge audiences despite lack of diversity and care for contestants? And will Morsh ever get her dream of appearing on Love Cottage where bikinis are banned?

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Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

Wed, 08 Feb 2023 17:28:55 GMT

Mia and Morsh are back for season two!

This week the discussion is all about the birds and the bees; from being asked your number, the matters of choking, and the scandal and judgement surrounding not waiting until the third.

Plus hear all about Morsh's attempt at breaking into financial domination and Mia have a Would You Rather related breakdown...

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End of Season Party

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 00:00:00 GMT

In what might be our most chaotic episode yet (yes, really) Mia and Morsh celebrate the new year by reflecting on 2022 and looking forward to what 2023 might have in store. We discuss our dating stats from the last year, our intentions for '23, and obsess over the Jackass boys two decades later. Oh and we actually mix things up a bit at the end for once...

See you all soon for series two! Thanks for all your support with season one, we LOVE you!

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Mental Health - Festive Edition

Wed, 28 Dec 2022 00:00:00 GMT

CW: discussion of mental illness, suicide, self harm.

As it's the 'most wonderful time of the year' Morsh and Mia are taking a deep dive into mental health, mental illness, and general mentalness...

Mia once again announces that she wants to marry a guy she's met once, Morsh confuses dukes with ducks, and both of us lose our minds multiple times.

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Break-Up Songs

Wed, 21 Dec 2022 09:19:31 GMT

Mia and Morsh are discussing the music that gets you through a break-up - the songs that make you cry, the songs that make you want to smash their car up, and the songs that make you feel ready to take on the world again!

Plus Morsh reveals herself to be the biggest Olivia Rodrigo fan in the entire world, her hangover gets the best of her while talking about Megan Fox, and Mia reveals her wedding plans.

The Ultimate Break-Up Playlist - https://spoti.fi/3WdFMUh

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How Relationships Change Us

Wed, 07 Dec 2022 00:00:00 GMT

Morsh and Mia are discussing how relationships help shape us and change us - in good and bad ways. We talk about how much better we both know ourselves since being single, how different it is relearning how to be single in yoru 30s, and whether ET has a penis or not (sorry).

Make sure you listen to the very end to hear what happens when Mia leaves Morsh alone for two minutes to answer the door...

Love language quiz - https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

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Dating with Kids/Dating for Kids

Wed, 30 Nov 2022 00:00:00 GMT

Mia and Morsh are talking all things dating around children. For Mia - the obstacles of dating when you're also a mum, and for Morsh - the pressure of dating in your 30s when you know you want to be. From finding time in your diary to date to finding funds in your bank account to freeze eggs, it's all up for discussion.

Plus as always it all goes a bit chaotic, there's a new catchphrase coming to a pair of pants near you, and f**k, marry, kill takes a turn.

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Icks and Ticks

Wed, 23 Nov 2022 00:00:00 GMT

Morsh and Mia are talking the dreaded ick and the endless quest for ticks. They share their own very specific lists as well as some brilliant submissions from listeners.

There's also chance to name Morsh's fly, the worst place for a man to finish, and a definitely true* story from Mia that might land her in the Tower.

*it could not be less true

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LaLaLaLetMeExplain's article on the ick - https://www.ok.co.uk/lifestyle/ick-dating-advice-lalalaletmeexplain-single-23387634

The Little Book of Ick - https://www.waterstones.com/book/the-little-book-of-ick/kitty-winks/anna-burtt/9781399603218?awc=3787_1669135206_ae06a37c61a55ef3e8e30d36325b3536&utm_source=259955&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=Genie+Shopping+CSS

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Online Trolling

Wed, 16 Nov 2022 00:25:44 GMT

Mia and Morsh are talking the dark side of the internet - gossip forums, misinformation, and downright nasty trolls.

Content warning: this episode discusses self-harm, suicial ideation, and suicide attempts. If you are struggling in the UK call Samaritans on 116 123

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Unexpected Break-Ups

Wed, 09 Nov 2022 00:00:00 GMT

This week Mia and Morsh are talking finding yourself unexpectedly single after a long-term relationship, how they both pulled themselves through heartbreak, and find far too much joy in a ballpark button...

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Celeb Crushes

Wed, 02 Nov 2022 00:00:00 GMT

Mia and Morsh are still recovering from a wedding at the weekend, so spend an hour discussing celebrity crushes - the good, the bad, and the magic. Unsurprisingly, they rarely agree.

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First Dates

Tue, 25 Oct 2022 23:00:00 GMT

Morsh and Mia are talking all about the big one - the first date! Discussing why it's a lot easier than you think to plan the perfect date, why all we want is to be met at a Tube station, and why we're crowdfunding for an endoscope...

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Dating Apps

Tue, 18 Oct 2022 23:04:13 GMT

Morsh and Mia talk all things swiping for love, share your very best (and funniest) code names for dates, and ponder what - if any - tattoos Optimus Prime might be hiding.

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Welcome to the Party

Wed, 12 Oct 2022 22:14:51 GMT

Welcome to I'm Good, Actually! Pull up a chair and get to know Mia and Morsh as we discuss why we're single, why you shouldn't sleep with a lifeguard, and why Spongebob and Forrest Gump don't make our lists.

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