Dating Better with Mayja

2025 Wrap up (Featuring Temwani) - Lessons from 2025

Fri, 02 Jan 2026 08:18:23 GMT

Every year, we take time to reflect, evaluate, and plan for the year ahead. In this video, we share key lessons from the past year and highlight a few books that shaped our thinking and growth.

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Hey Sis... Loyalty Isn’t Loud — It’s Consistent

Tue, 30 Dec 2025 22:00:00 GMT

This episode reveals the quiet truth about loyalty: it’s steady, not showy. We unpack how real loyalty behaves, why it’s often overlooked, and how to recognise it before it’s too late. A grounding conversation for anyone ready to choose emotional safety over emotional performance.

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Hey Sis... Your Standards Aren’t ‘Too Much’ — He’s Just Not Equipped

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 22:00:00 GMT

In this empowering episode, we reclaim the meaning of standards. We talk about why they matter, why some men resist them, and how holding your ground weeds out the unprepared. Perfect for the woman who’s been told to “lower her expectations” but knows her worth is non-negotiable.

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Hey Sis... Protect Your Heart Without Becoming a Brick Wall

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 22:00:00 GMT

Here, we explore the balance between protecting yourself and staying emotionally open. It’s a guide to boundaries, softness, and wise vulnerability. If you’ve been guarding your heart so tightly that no one gets in, this episode shows you how to stay safe without losing your softness.

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Hey Sis… Stop Calling Red Flags “Personality”

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 22:00:00 GMT

This episode tackles the habit of romanticising red flags and disguising dysfunction as “just how he is.” We unpack charm vs. character, why women excuse certain behaviours, and how to finally call things what they are. A truth-heavy episode for anyone tired of repeating painful patterns.

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Hey Sis… He’s Not Confusing, He’s Just Not Consistent

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 22:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we break down the myth of the “complicated man” and expose inconsistency for what it really is. No decoding, no guessing games — just clarity. If you’ve ever felt confused by someone’s behaviour, this conversation will reset your standards and sharpen your discernment

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Hey sis... - Intro

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 14:07:37 GMT

Hey sis...

Lets talk about boys... lets call this the talk, shall we?

In this mini series I will higlight some things about boys that the boys dont want you to know; yes I am a snitch and I am not ashamed of that for you...

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This is how you came up with your type.

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 19:28:01 GMT

Recently landed on a concept of learned helplessness, in this episode I relate it to how we come up with our types or accepted types lol.

What do you think?

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1234 -Birthday Special 2025

Sun, 06 Jul 2025 18:51:37 GMT

No!!!!! I am still a youth and yes I have a a beauful wife and amazing family.

with very few episodes out this year, lets wrap up my year together shall we....

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Valentines is NOT for real MEN

Fri, 14 Feb 2025 14:23:36 GMT

Lets just say its click bait......or is it? you be the judge

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I Just Pressed DELETE

Tue, 04 Feb 2025 11:24:17 GMT

Its time to say goodbye to the Moments with Mayja Blog

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2025 Ready - Featuring Her

Tue, 31 Dec 2024 15:41:48 GMT

Ladies and Gentlemen, featuring Mrs Me. . . .. we Hope you are ready for 2025

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Not for sleepovers - Its Christmas Again

Mon, 23 Dec 2024 23:01:14 GMT

Please go to grannies for a sleepover..... you have heard

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Just make the memories - Its Christmas Again

Sun, 22 Dec 2024 23:00:21 GMT

YEsssssssSSSSSSSSS Just make the memories!!!!!!!

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Birthday on Xmas - Its Christmas Again

Sat, 21 Dec 2024 23:30:43 GMT

What is more important? Celebrating your person or Christmas? Spoiler alert..... nah, not today.

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Matching Outfits - Its Christmas Again

Fri, 20 Dec 2024 23:40:36 GMT

Honestly, this wont even matter in heaven. Just make sure you do it right though.

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His or Hers? - Its Christmas Again

Fri, 20 Dec 2024 16:23:20 GMT

The big question is always where are we going? His or Hers? Lets settle the debate.

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Thank you for waiting - 5 - Just Marry

Thu, 05 Sep 2024 04:37:26 GMT

At the end of it all, tie the knot

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Thank you for waiting - 4 - Post Nut Clarity

Wed, 04 Sep 2024 04:33:08 GMT

Post nut clarity is the clear mind that is accompanied by a sense of guilt; this is according to me

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Thank you for waiting - 3 - Sex is Sacred

Tue, 03 Sep 2024 04:15:31 GMT

Yes, it's not that basic or simple. It's very sacred.

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Thank you for waiting - 2 - Emotional Baggage

Mon, 02 Sep 2024 04:10:20 GMT

There is baggage and garbage; know the difference

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Thank you for waiting - 1 - Bumping Uglies is not enough

Sun, 01 Sep 2024 04:06:42 GMT

Casual sex will just never be enough especially to someone in a good mental space. Yes you have heard.

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Thank you for waiting - the episode before episode 1

Sat, 31 Aug 2024 03:58:54 GMT

The intro or something

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Things I have learned in my 30s (birthday episode)

Sat, 06 Jul 2024 22:05:17 GMT

Yes it's my birthday today and just told myself that loadshedding won't stop me so I recorded with my phone.

And there is a special announcement at the end.

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Not so Valentines Today

Wed, 14 Feb 2024 11:51:55 GMT

Spoiler; if you want to standout, send her something on a different day. Okay now forget I said this and be a simp in peace please

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Tell it in 5 : The Xmas Special - Episode 1 - Whose party are you going to? his or hers?

Mon, 25 Dec 2023 22:59:22 GMT

Whose party are you going to? his or hers? In this episode we talk about whose side to go to for Christmas. I know its tricky, thats why i am here for you.

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 10 - Gold digger or just not digging you?

Tue, 06 Jun 2023 03:00:30 GMT

Finance is an important conversation to have in a relationship. let's break it down.

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 9 - Moving in together (maybe we can fix the divorce crisis)

Tue, 30 May 2023 03:00:54 GMT

Moving in together might be the remedy for the high number of divorces. Just hear me out here

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 8 - Sex is nice yes, are you ready?

Tue, 23 May 2023 03:00:11 GMT

Lets talk about Sex!!!!! too early for the talk? lol lets have the conversation on waiting, doing it right and alike.

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 7 - Porn? A sex education teacher? how?

Tue, 16 May 2023 03:00:12 GMT

First of all its illegal to watch porn in Zambia it doesnt matter how old you are; with that out of the way, here is why Porn is the wrong teacher on sex.

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 6 - teach them to love you

Tue, 09 May 2023 03:00:02 GMT

tired of dating people that dont love you right? Teach them weh. in this episode we talk about why its important to teach them how to love you.

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 5 - Best foot forward

Tue, 02 May 2023 03:00:39 GMT

Look, just dive in with all you are, not holding back at all; head first. In this episode, we talk about the importance of getting into a relationship with your best foot forward.

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 4 - Understanding Attraction

Tue, 25 Apr 2023 03:00:25 GMT

Are they attracted to you or you are just wasting your time? This episode answers that question for you.

tell me what you think.... is it attraction or not???

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 3 - Sticking to The Formula

Tue, 18 Apr 2023 00:17:09 GMT

The world has a way it rewards those who are consistent; in this episode I highlight why its important to stick to the formula.

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep2 - The Formula part II

Tue, 11 Apr 2023 00:09:27 GMT

This wont make alot of logical sense if you havent heard the previous episode.

Lets pick it up from the previous episode shall we?????

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Tell it in 5 - SE2 - Ep 1 - The Formula

Tue, 04 Apr 2023 03:00:50 GMT

Yes there is a formula that actually works. Stop wasting your time chasing girls who dont want to be chased.

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Tell it in 5 - EP10 - You deserve the best

Tue, 21 Feb 2023 03:00:00 GMT

This journey was fun. thanks alot for getting this far with me, I dont take it lightly. I didnt realize I could say all this in 5mins lol.

Lets do season 3 soon.

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Tell it in 5 - EP9 - The safe guy or the money guy

Tue, 14 Feb 2023 03:00:16 GMT

She already knows who you are to her bro. But do you know who she sees you as?

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Tell it in 5 - EP8 - No strings attached? lol

Tue, 07 Feb 2023 03:00:38 GMT

Good enough for.....but just not good enough for....

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Tell it in 5 - EP7 - Its complicated! is it really?

Tue, 31 Jan 2023 03:00:29 GMT

Its never complicated really, they know whats up

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Tell it in 5 - EP6 - Sleepovers and what are we's (yes, lets talk about it)

Tue, 24 Jan 2023 03:00:30 GMT

Self explanatory right? No one looks forward to being asked what are we....

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Tell it in 5 - EP5-First date second chances (how to tell a bad date)

Tue, 17 Jan 2023 03:00:43 GMT

lets cut through the chase to the end, it was a bad date. now let me explain why.

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Tell it in 5 - EP4 - First date questions to ask him

Tue, 10 Jan 2023 03:00:36 GMT

Hey girl, I know, last episode was about you, this time lets talk about him. Here are a few questions to ask him.

do add your own that are familiar to the cause.

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Tell it in 5 - EP3 - First date questions to ask her

Tue, 03 Jan 2023 03:00:35 GMT

Hey Bro, Look, this is important, very important if you ask me.

In this 5 mins I talk about some of the important questions to ask her on your first date.

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Tell it in 5 - EP2 - First date on a budget (maybe you shouldn't date at all)

Tue, 27 Dec 2022 03:00:59 GMT

Landing a date is easy, planning a first date is a whole different ball game. In this 5mins episode, I highlight how to plan a date on a budget minus breaking the bank (well, this depends on whose bank is breaking really)

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Tell it in 5 - EP1 - First date ideas

Tue, 20 Dec 2022 03:00:38 GMT

Someone hit me up with an idea to crunch my podcast ideas in 5mins.

Welcome to Tell It In 5. in this episode we talk about first date ideas for the Zambian guy.

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Friend or family member dealing with Suicidal thoughts?(Dos and don'ts)

Tue, 06 Sep 2022 22:38:28 GMT

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August 1st special (2022)

Wed, 03 Aug 2022 11:37:30 GMT

I kinda wasnt going to put this one out, but hey, its the third, its never really too late to announce some things

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Episode 9 - Resolutions

Sun, 03 Jul 2022 22:00:00 GMT

the plan was to drop this one 3 days before the day but dololo here it is

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Episode 8 - How to start dating (offline-online)

Wed, 15 Jun 2022 22:00:00 GMT

After finding someone online, you will still need to establish a relationship outside those grounds.

in this episode we talk about that

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Episode 7 - online dating 101 (Tinder again)

Thu, 19 May 2022 03:00:39 GMT

Dating has shifted to match making online and if i am being honest, its legit the easiest hardest thing to navigate.

In this episode, I talk about some tips to safely date online.

yes you can visit my blog, dont hesitate to subscribe and dm me if you have questions.

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Episode 6 - Now that you are famous (What I have learned after podcasting for a year)

Thu, 12 May 2022 03:00:33 GMT

We have been at this for a year now, wow guys thanks for the support. In this episode I talk about somethings I have learned so far as a local podcaster and how you can do better than me.

yes you can visit my blog by >>>>> clicking here <<<<<< , dont hesitate to subscribe and dm me if you have questions.

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Did I just delete my Tinder account?

Fri, 12 Nov 2021 18:00:36 GMT

Have you tried out online dating? Tinder, maybe? Me too. Just deleted my account.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mayja36/message

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Special Episode - 2nd August is full of memories

Mon, 02 Aug 2021 21:46:18 GMT

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Episode 5 - full time artist (Just Quit already)

Thu, 29 Jul 2021 21:04:32 GMT

As an artist having a hard time choosing between your job or your art, this episode will help clear the path for you.

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Episode 4 - Uncomfortable (lets lay the foundation)

Thu, 22 Jul 2021 23:31:36 GMT

its not even an exagaration, I am tired of being looked at like food. its not nice at all, its uncomfortable

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Episode 3 - Your Music wont play on Radio (Do this instead)

Thu, 15 Jul 2021 20:05:20 GMT

I understand the pressure of wanting to get heard on Radio worldover especially in Africa; Zambia to be precise. Navigate your way through the industry with the tips shared in this episode.remember you can always contact me on momentswithmayja@gmail.com@mayja36 on social media+260974718776 on whatsapp--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mayja36/message

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Episode 2 - Dont pay for a Website. (do this instead)

Thu, 08 Jul 2021 18:08:58 GMT

Tired of all those high priced fees for hosting a website and all? here is a solution for you.

If you have Questions,

email: momentswithmayja@gmail.com

Whatsapp: +260974718776

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Episode 1 - Why I started Podcasting

Thu, 01 Jul 2021 19:41:30 GMT

After Quitting my radio job I jumped into a new world of media; Podcasting.in this episode I talk about what prompted me to start this journey and what the future looks like for me.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mayja36/message

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