This is death work beyond the bedside.

In this episode of the Nine Keys & Co. podcast, I speak with grief and death tenders Abby Goelzer and Venessa Greenheron about the evolving shape of death work in 2026. Together, we explore facilitating advance planning, death education, and collective grief spaces during times of political violence and systemic instability.

When institutions feel fragile, when trust in medical systems is fractured, when the nervous system of a nation feels activated - advance care planning is no longer just responsible paperwork. It becomes sovereignty work. It becomes culture work.

Abby and Venessa share about their co-facilitated offering:

TenderNest Part 2: A Space for Witnessing and Awakening to the Grief of US Violence

Tuesday, March 10, 2026

6:30–8:00 PM Central Time (4:30 PM Pacific)

Online gathering

TenderNest registration:

garnetandthemoon.com/event-details/tendernest-part-2

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People are raw. And they’re braced. Grief groups are everywhere, which I love, but the nervous systems walking into our spaces are more lit up than they’ve been in years. Triggers surface faster and repair feels urgent.

And facilitators? We’re not outside of it. We’re grieving too. Watching the news. Paying bills. Holding our own lives together while holding space for others.

In this episode, I’m talking candidly about what it’s actually costing to facilitate right now, and the one thing I keep returning to: boundaries.

If you’re holding space in this moment and feeling the tremors underneath it all, this is a coach chat about how to last.

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In this episode, I get into why death work isn’t something you

memorize, and why art, making, and creative practice actually train us for the

parts of this work that can’t be taught. I talk about death work as a lived,

hands-on practice and why creativity matters right now. Then I’m joined by Melissa Word to talk about death work as art practice,

paper, what the hands can guide us to, and her new offering, Devotion Mode - a monthly, zine-style practice that brings making things back into the center of spiritual and death-adjacent work.

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After a quiet winter shaped by listening, rest, and a new diagnosis of moderate hearing loss, I reflect on the magic that lives inside death work, specifically sympathetic magic: the simple, often unspoken practices we use to communicate with the holy, the ancestral, and the unseen.

I share how the rose has become a living symbol in my death work, appearing again and again in moments of grief, ritual, reassurance, and awe.

I offer The Rose Beyond the Wall, a poem adapted from A.L. Frink.

This episode is an invitation to notice the symbols that follow you, the quiet magic you may already be practicing, and the deeper relationship you live inside of with your death work.

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She invites listeners into a season of genuine winter rest, where miracles land quietly, and nothing needs to be performed. The episode ends with Pink Light, a short guided moment for anyone who feels tired, tender, or stretched thin.

Thank you so much for being a listener of the Nine Keys podcast.

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This episode is alive with honesty, magic, and practical wisdom. Narinder and Kursten talk about:

• following sacred nudges inside your work
• how money conversations must be part of mutual aid and community care
• what it's like to navigate chronic illness while still building new worlds
• the tender, magical intersection between creativity, death work, and strategy

If you’re an artist, death worker, healer, or heart-centered solopreneur trying to build something sustainable in a world that’s falling apart, this episode will feel like sitting at a warm table with two people who deeply get it.

Expect real talk.

Expect magic.

Expect to leave with a softened heart and a clearer path.

Find Kursten at https://theadminangel.com/

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Narinder reflects on the early “soul era” of death work online, when community and education were central, and contrasts it with today’s fast-paced, algorithm-driven “crazy bazaar.” (Daje Aloh's phrasing)

Listeners will learn how to shift from algorithm-dependence to an ecosystem approach, using newsletters, blogs, podcasts, local workshops, and real-world creative offerings to grow their work with sustainability and intimacy. Narinder shares why repurposing your content is a wise use of our precious time, and how different channels reach farther.

If you’re a death worker or healer feeling overwhelmed by social media, or longing for ways to share your work that feel more intimate, grounded, and aligned, this episode will feel like a deep exhale and a way forward.

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Mentioned in this episode are:

Yarrow Magdalena of https://glimmerportal.com/about-yarrow/

Misha Murphy of https://hafezdeathcare.com/

Meghan Johnson of https://www.madisondeathcollective.org/

Daje Aloh of https://storywork.studio/

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Together, they explore the complicated ache that can surface around the holidays for those navigating fractured or unsteady family systems, and how tending something small and alive, like a Paperwhite Narcissus bulb, can become a ritual for reclaiming warmth and beauty inside that ache.

An easy conversation, meant to be listened to with your hands around a warm mug.

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In this Samhain-season, Halloween episode of The Nine Keys Podcast, Narinder invites death workers into an intimate, experiential reflection on the role of fear in death and grief work.

Through story, breath, and gentle somatic guidance, she explores the quiet hauntings that accompany this vocation: the fear of saying the wrong thing, of not knowing enough, of being too much or not enough. Rather than trying to fix fear, Narinder teaches how to hold it, warm it, and listen to what it’s asking for.

This is not a teaching episode, it’s an experience.

If you need Narinder's one-on-one care, check out her mentorship offerings here.

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On this Libra New Moon, she considers the imbalance of giving without receiving, why receiving can feel unsafe for so many, especially women identified death workers, and how our cultural conditioning has made depletion a virtue, and receiving a fault or even something we register as dangerous.

Narinder weaves the theme of reception through the lens of death work, asking what it means to truly allow ourselves to be cared for in return for our death work.

If you'd like mentorship with Narinder go to her website here.

✨ AND! To join Dead of Winter, Narinder’s upcoming seasonal art circle for makers and folks looking for something so fun to do during the darkest months, beginning November 6th, go here. Learn more, stay connected, and sign up for her newsletter at www.narinderbazen.com

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In this episode, Narinder sits down with death worker and Mourning Artist Paula Hernando to explore her work of alchemizing

grief into form. Paula’s “Doula Project” offers bespoke dolls that carry the stories of loss. Each one is a vessel, each one is a witness. Together, they

discuss the reclamation of the plañidera (the mourning woman), the need for new death and grief conversations in Madrid, and how art becomes both death work

and culture work: an act of remembering, restoring, and remaking the world through mourning.

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Their conversation moves through tenderness, agency, and the quiet rebellion of telling the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable.

To find out how to join Midwestern Daughter go to Abby's website Garnet and the Moon or her IG account @Garnet_andthe_Moon

Before the conversation, Narinder shares a brief note about Dead of Winter, a four-month art and death salon designed by Narinder and death arts worker Meghan Johnson, as a soft, creative respite for the darker months ahead. With prompts, artist-inspired process sharing, and room to rest, Dead of Winter offers a place to land when the world feels heavy.

A grounded and intimate episode about grief, art, and the undoing of politeness in favor of something more real.

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Threaded through the conversation is her prayer-song, an invocation to Great Mother, Good Ancestors, and Earth herself, that opens and closes the episode as a reminder of why we labor, why we serve, and why our sustenance matters.

This episode also connects to the upcoming gathering Dead of Winter, where Narinder and other artists weave together death, art, and mysticism during the darkest months of the year.

Oh, Great Mother give me the desire to do your work

I am your hands. I am your ears. I am your mouth. I am your feet.

I am peace. I’ll do my chores; I’ll do my chores for peace. 

Oh, Good Ancestors, guide me home, for as long as I live.

Meet my needs, and a little more, so that I may give.

Oh, Earth, hear my love and my sorrows for what we’ve done

and know I will tend this little patch, this little land,

where my feet firmly stand doing chores for peace.

Oh, Great Mother give me the desire for work you’d have me do.

And when my day come to rest, I’ll come home to you.

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About Eye of the Needle: Ritual Arts Immersion

• What it is: A hybrid ritual arts immersion, weaving together online sessions + an optional in-person (residency) gathering. It’s designed for artists, grief tenders, death workers, visionaries, and dreamers. Through embodied making, cloth & fiber art, dream ceremony, land listening, improvisational quilting, somatic practices, seership and ceremony, the gathering aims to help us tend rupture, repair, and belonging.

• Dates & Format:
• Online portion: October 2025. (Exact online dates: October 10, 2025, 2:00 PM through October 12, 2025, 5:00 PM)
•  In-person Residency: November 9-15, 2025 in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

• Facilitators / Guest Presenters / Artists:
• The immersion is facilitated by Melissa Word & Nico Wolf.

• Guest presenters include:
• Bayo Akomolafe 
• Aerin Dunford 
• Pat McCabe 
• Kimberly Johnson 
• Stephen Jenkinson 
• Narinder Bazen
• Naomi Lewis
• Gavin Bernard
• Chiara Giovando

• What participants will do/receive:
• Online: work with grief, personal life density, dream ceremonies, foundational cloth/fiber art techniques, intuitive patchwork and stitching, somatic attunement, sewing circles with guest-speakers etc.
• In-person: deep time in the high desert of New Mexico, land-listening, co-creating a large community quilt (story & cloth combined), performance, cloth & body work, ceremony & ritual practices, honoring ancestral relationality, the more-than-human etc. 

• Why this matters now: As Melissa & team frame it, this is a time of rupture, disconnection, and grief—but also emergence. The immersion asks participants to be both the undertakers of what’s dying (the overculture, inherited broken patterns) and midwives of what may come next. It’s about repairing belonging: with Earth, with self, with ancestors, with the unseen, with art as devotional practice. 

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Recorded during Still,Life the online opening reception and gallery night on September 7th, Narinder is joined in conversation by her friend and fellow death worker and artist, Melissa Word. Together, they explore how Nine Keys is not simply a training program, but a living conceptual art piece, one that blends ritual and practice, pedagogy and imagination, grief literacy and cultural midwifery.

Narinder shares why the new name finally feels correct for her, and how the School of Death Arts is not only for artists, but for anyone who wants to do death work in a creative, regenerative, and culture-shifting way.

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We start with a passage Dajé wrote about soil, pollinators, and the magnetics of life-force, then tumble into conversation about the power of delight as resistance.

This is a conversation about listening to what your soul wants, not as some fluffy affirmation, but as straight-up punk rebellion in a culture that thrives on disconnection.

We talk compost, joy, hot wings, and sacred springs, and what it takes to let your roots grow deep enough to feed not only yourself, but the worlds around you

Check out Dajé's work at:

https://storywork.studio/

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Their conversation follows the flow of water - they explore death work as a force, art as a force, and the unruly magic that happens when those currents meet. They speak to the ways death arts keep pressing the edges of what this work can be, and how The Death Healer’s Hexagon holds death workers in that creative force, not controlling it, but honoring and shaping with it.

You’ll hear Meghan share her transition from Madison Death Collective into Madison Death Studio, and Narinder share her shift as Nine Keys unfolds into the School of Death Arts. Along the way, they touch on death arts theory / artist identity / and death work as a path of devotion.

✨ Mark your calendar: on September 7th Narinder is hosting Still, Life, an online opening reception for this next phase of Nine Keys.

RSVP for Still, Life here.

And a little sneak peek… Meghan and Narinder are already dreaming together about bringing Dead of Winter back around this cold and dark season. Stay tuned...it’s coming. ❄️

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In this episode, a sermon by the spring water, Narinder rides the first wave of a great soul shift, where the pendulum between masculine and feminine swings wildly enough to break its hinge. She speaks of the feminine rising and the Great Mother’s spiral ways of work. Where 'new world' building is bubbling up through our uncapped souls.

Along the way, she lifts up the work of Ayana Zaire Cotton and Daje Aloh—visionaries who tend the thresholds between art, story, and liberation.

This is an invitation to tear down the fences, to let your own well flow without dam or lock, and to run, full-hearted and unafraid, to the places that will keep it flowing.

 Narinder’s Reimagine package is one such place, a living structure built to help you shape your death work, your healing arts so that magic and money can move together like a current.

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Death workers are always holding : space, others, steady - What happens when the death worker un-holds?

Here, Narinder's flower in the morning. A spring in Merriweather County. A miracle older than bone dust. Stories to inspire you.

This episode is for you if you’ve been pretending you don’t feel the pull - The dead working through you.

The whispers aren’t going away. Maybe it’s time to follow them.

Episode dedicated to Jon Gottsegen, Ace Amerson, Deryn Helleborus, Sarah Price, and Narinder's Ancestors and Apprentices

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This isn’t just a somber sit-down. Misha moves between devotion and levity with rare grace, talking straight, laughing easily, and naming the magic of grief care without flinching.

Together, mentor and mentee share stories about working with goddesses and ancestors, the quiet power of tending to the dead, and the fierce, sometimes funny tenderness required to keep showing up for this work.

This episode is as much about the doing of death work as it is about the love and grit it takes to stay devoted to it.

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Venessa is a steward of land and hearts on Whidbey Island, Washington. Her days are spent working with her hands, whether in the barn, the kitchen, or her art studio.

Narinder and Venessa talk about practicing death care in a rural place, the magic in death work, what it means to have your hands literally in the seasons of the land, and how art and death work, though hard to explain, move together in quiet, powerful ways. Venessa shares about her cyanotype practice, the ephemera of light and time, and her death midwifery practice, Prism Death Care.

Find Venessa’s work here:

prismdeathcare.com

@prism_deathcare

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They get into that uncomfortable posture of being both soft and sturdy, spine intact, heart open. They talk about the exhaustion of performative sorrow, the psychic skills we're all going to need, AI as a weird mirror, and how to get the hell out of your echo chamber. 🤖🕯️📡 This one’s got bite and tenderness.

Be prepared for a conversation that might bring some clarity.

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In this episode, Narinder unpacks the limits of the most common definition, "non-medical support at the end of life", and invites listeners into a much deeper understanding. With tenderness and clarity, she explores how death work is inherently political.

Drawing from over a decade in the field, Narinder shares how her own practice began to reveal the inequities baked into our systems, how grief, care, and death are commodified, how the death and grief illiteracy of our society causes more harm, and how true healing comes to the collective when death workers take up space with their political work and name what’s been left out.

This episode honors the work of other political death workers, including Misha Murphy of Hafez Death Care, whose approach to end-of-life care is rooted in ancestral remembering and spiritual justice. Narinder lifts up Misha’s work as an example of how death care can become a site of radical love and collective liberation.

This is an invitation to all the grief tenders, death doulas, and cultural healers who know their work touches systems. Who light grief platitudes on fire and tend the sacred, raw, and real.

Whether you call yourself a death doula, a grief guide, or something entirely your own, this conversation is for you.

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She shares why getting specific with your grief events isn’t restrictive, it’s magnetic.

From climate grief about plastics to grief groups for people who've endured a best friend breakup, Narinder offers real examples of how themed, boldly focused gatherings draw in exactly the right people.

She reflects on the success of her own event, The Collective Wail, and breaks down how to market your offerings in a way that feels alive, potent, and true.

This episode is a permission slip to stop diluting your work and start naming the grief you’re here to hold.

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Together, they explore the radical power of deep rest, the wisdom of moving slowly, and the sacred choices we make to honor our bodies and spirits in a world that often demands speed and productivity.

They speak candidly about living with chronic illness and disability, the grief, the tenderness, and the unexpected beauty found in those liminal spaces.

Arria shares their own journey and offers insight into how we can all begin to reclaim rhythms that align with our bodies, and ultimately our inner worlds.

This episode is a soft landing for those who are soul-tired, body-weary, and longing for another way to live, one that centers slowness, intuition, and rest.

Arria is the author of Three Moons: A Grief Story and a contributor to Inbetween Spaces: An Anthology of Disabled Writers, and their presence in this conversation is a gentle invitation toward rest that restores.

You can find Arria at www.arriadeepwater.com

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She runs the numbers, yes, real numbers, on what a sustainable, abundant living wage can look like for death workers outside of institutions, outside of burnout, and outside of the myth that sacred work must mean self-sacrifice.

This is a taboo-tearing conversation about money, labor, and power in death work. Narinder makes space for the truth: that witches, healers, artists, and death doulas can, and must, build new economies rooted in care, rest, and cultural transformation. She shares personal insights, visionary math, and examples of what it means to build an income that centers the most vulnerable, honors your artistry, and refuses exploitation.

She also uplifts fellow new world builders like Ayana Zaire Cotton (For New World Builders Podcast), Daje Aloh (The Story Doula), and Bear Hebert, anti-capitalist business coach, as comrades in reshaping what livelihood means in the work of world-ending and world-beginning. All can be found on Instagram or through the links provided.

Tell the truth.

Tear it down.

Find stability, beauty, and abundance.

This is witch labor. This is how we live.

✨ Listen in and step into a bigger, more honest vision of what’s possible.

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What happens when our own bodies, soft-businesses, and inner-facing death work become the foundation for cultural transformation?

Narinder speaks to the necessity of being well-resourced, boundaried, creative, and in rhythm, so that our death work doesn't become stalled, but propagates futures. This is a conversation about sustainability, sovereignty, and the sacred responsibility of becoming the ground upon which new systems are built.

For support for your death work soft-business or inner-facing death work, go to narinderbazen.com and check out Study With Narinder.

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MAY 29 - JUNE 1 2025

Our conversation is full of information, vision, and deep truth as we explore the beauty and power of weaving deathwork and art into a shared cultural experience, one that invites tenderness, provocation, and collective transformation.

After we spoke, I realized our conversation had unwittingly danced through almost every facet of The Death Healer’s Hexagon, from the Outer logistics and Inner stirrings, to the Cultural urgency and death/life-force behind this kind of work.

Annie’s shares are tender and insightful, and this episode is a reminder of how powerful the fusion of deathwork and art can be.

🌿 I’ll be at the Philadelphia Death and Arts Festival to teach a class and be on a panel, come find me!

🕸️ All artists and death workers mentioned in this episode can be found at philadelphiadeathandarts.com.

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If you're just beginning your journey as a death worker, this episode is for you. It’s a grounding love letter of encouragement for you who are answering your first calls, tending your first thresholds, or simply wondering if you're ready.

This episode is a pocket-sized companion for your journey—save it for the days you need a little courage and clarity.

Reach out for support if needed. Go to www.narinderbazen.com/study-with-narinder.

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Narinder speaks about the quiet trap of seeking approval — how it waters down your vision, drains your energy, and keeps your deepest offerings hidden.

She shares personal stories about choosing truth over popularity, and how standing firmly in her values magnetized the exact people who were seeking her voice.

You’ll be reminded that your "far out" ideas and your truths are sacred threads in the larger weaving of this work. Your authenticity is not just personal — it is part of the universe’s great unfolding.

This episode is a permission slip to stop asking if you are "allowed" and instead to step fully into the death care world you are here to build.

Maybe you are not here to fit in — maybe you are here to transform culture.

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In this episode, Narinder unpacks the myth of expertise in grief work and why you don’t need permission to show up for the grieving. We’ll explore how our gifts—whether they come through your healing modality, your creativity, your weirdness, or deep gifts for witnessing —are enough. If you’ve been playing small, doubting your readiness, or feeling like you need another credential before you can begin, this is for you.

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In this episode, Narinder sits down with The Story Doula, Vision Midwife Dajé Alōh, to explore the wild and real terrain of bringing our visions to life, our soul's work to the world. From the grief that shapes our boldest creations to the authentic expression that leads us to liberation, Dajé invites us into a deeper understanding of what it means to lead with soul.

Whether you're a death worker, a creative entrepreneur, or someone longing to follow the pulse of your own vision, this episode will leave you stirred, softened, and ready to step 👏 it 👏 up! 👏

🌿 Connect with Dajé at https://storywork.studio/. ✨ Follow her on Instagram: @thestorydoula

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If you are a hospice nurse, a caregiver, a death worker, a healer, a guide, a seer, this episode is for you.

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Death Work as a Path of Devotion is a topic close to Narinder's heart. Here she is, unscripted, talking about what death work as a path of devotion is, what it requires of us, and how it serves us in return.

If you'd like to study death work, the mystic's way, with Narinder, please check out her Nine Keys death midwifery apprenticeship at www.narinderbazen.com

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In this episode, Narinder talks with artist and death worker Meghan Johnson about the facet of The Death Healer's Hexagon that is Death Work as Art Form and Medium. Death work and art go together seamlessly. Both artists and death workers reflect onto us our choices, our agreements, and identities. Both artists and death workers can break up status quos, can reshape realities, and can reorient us towards soulfulness.

Death work invites so much creativity into it, and art invites our death work in return.

Meghan Allynn Johnson (she/her) is an artist and death worker specializing in connecting community members to death and grief resources and sharing in the tenderness of life's endings through creative workshops and artworks that she calls 'living portals.'

She is the co-founder of the Madison Death Collective, an online resource for grievers, the dying, and the dead, and her artwork has been exhibited in New York, NY; Johannesburg, South Africa; St. Louis, MO; Chicago, IL; and Madison, WI. 

She recently completed the Nine Keys Death Midwifery Apprenticeship, and has a BFA in Studio Art from UW-Madison, and an MFA from Washington University in St. Louis Sam Fox School of Art. She has published work with the David Krut Print Workshop in Johannesburg, and her artwork is included in the text, Singular/Serial: Contemporary Monotype and Monoprint (Kernan, Oresman, Einstein). Meghan is based in Madison, WI.

Follow Meghan and the Madison Death Collective on Instagram here:

@meghan.allynn.deathwork | @madison.death.collective

Also featured in this episode:

Artist and death worker Juliarose Triebes: Instagram @juliarosetriebes

Artist Jennifer Bastian: https://www.jenniferbastian.com/about

If you are interested in studying death work with Narinder you can check out the Nine Keys Death Midwifery Apprenticeship at www.narinderbazen.com.

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Melissa is an Atlanta-based artist, dancer, death doula and grief coach. As a facilitator, she helps people heal their creative lives and explore their relationship to their bodies and mortality. 

Her background as a professional dancer has shapeshifted through the years into creating experiences for others to get more in touch with their own way of moving and expressing. As a creative grief coach, she leads a seasonal online workshop for grief processing through quilting and hand-sewing, reimagining healing spaces as ones where our bodies, hands, and intuitive impulses guide the way. 

She is a graduate of Narinder's Nine Keys Death Midwifery Apprenticeship.

Learn more about Mel at www.melissaword.com and on Instagram @melissawordstudio

There are two other death workers mentioned in this podcast. They are wisemawellness.com and bodygriefcoach.com.

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This episode is the third episode in a six part series called The Death Healer's Hexagon: the six facets of death work as Narinder Bazen knows it, sees it, and teaches it. In this episode, Narinder is highlighting the facet of the hexagon that is death work as soft-business. Narinder is joined by her friend, death worker colleague, and business inspiration Yarrow Magdalena.

Yarrow is a web designer, tech consultant and small business mentor based in Scotland. They hold an MA in creative media and bring a decade of experience in digital strategy to their work, which supports introverts in building creative businesses that are aligned with their values and fun to work in. Yarrow also makes textile art, facilitates ritual and hosts two podcasts - the Kind Business podcast and the Making&Mending podcast. You can find them at PinkWellStudio.com and YarrowMagdalena.com

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Inner-facing death work is one of the facets of The Death Healer's Hexagon, and it's a whopper!

This piece of our work greatly informs our outer-facing death and all of the facets of our work. In this episode, Narinder dives deeply into our inner-facing death work with her friend and colleague Mary Grace Allerdice.

Grace is an artist, spiritual writer, teacher, healer, death midwife and priestess. She combines her extensive background in mystical and magical studies with her experience with embodiment to create ceremony, learning, retreats and services to awaken the transformational power of Love within each of us.

You can learn more about Grace by tuning in to the Home—Body Podcast or subscribing to her newsletter at mgallerdice.com

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Not only is Narinder giving information, she's giving permission, clarity and invitations in this episode to death workers and death work curious folks. She's also highlighting two hang ups that limit a death worker's outer-facing death work. The episode ends with a guided meditation to support a death worker's outer-facing work. If you'd like to skip to the meditation, it begins at minute 30.

Stay tuned for 5 more episodes in this unique series: The Death Healer's Hexagon!

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Cassie Uhl (she/her) is a magic practitioner, death and energy worker, rites of passage facilitator, artist, and author. She is the author and illustrator of several books and card decks, including the Journey Tarot deck, Understanding Tarot, Understanding Auras, Understanding The Wheel of The Year, Craft Your Own Magic, and The Ritual Deck (reboot coming in 2025). 

Her work is trauma-informed and rooted in earth-based, animist practices from her ancestral roots across Northern Europe and her local environment. She is passionate about helping folks feel spiritually grounded and supported in all seasons of life–including death. 

Cassie resides on Indigenous Myaamia land in so-called Indiana in the United States with her husband and twin children.  

To find Cassie, you can go to https://www.cassieuhl.com

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Grieving in solitude has its purposes. So many times we can think that we are doing something wrong with our grief, if we prefer to be alone with it. Narinder wants to offer permission here and a few tools to support grieving in solitude.

Being in acceptance of the prognosis of the state of the world is not a quick doorway to hope or positive outcome or dread. It's a whole place, a whole house to move around in. 

Narinder shares her idea of what 'sitting in the acceptance of the prognosis' means to her.

If you feel that this episode of Nine Keys has been a balm for you, please share it with others who may be served by Narinder's calming guidance.

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If you find what Narinder shares in the episode helpful, please share it with other death workers who may need a little boost of confidence. Thank you.

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Narinder talks a little bit about Dead of Winter - a lighthearted space of respite through the winter for artists, crafters, and makers who appreciate death and dying themes in art conversation. Dead of Winter begins November 8th! https://www.narinderbazen.com/dead-of-winter

If you are a death worker in need of some down-home help getting your death work into sustainable energy through building and organizing your business around it, you'll definitely want to check out Narinder's offering to you; Reimagine. 

https://www.narinderbazen.com/reimagine

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In this episode Narinder talks about Dead of Winter: a place of respite and art making through the winter for makers, crafters, and artists.

For more information about Death of Winter please go to Narinder's website here.

https://www.narinderbazen.com/dead-of-winter

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Denise and Narinder met at Denise's mother's bedside three months before her death. Narinder was called in to serve as Ms. Thelma's death midwife. What she didn't know was that she'd end up becoming Denise's teacher and colleague.

You can find Denise at www.eol101.com. 

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Warlock Fulltime is the son of a Baptist pastor, a ghost on the internet, a flesh wizard, and the brother of black magick. He wants to help you feel more strength, depth, and ease in all aspects of your precious personhood. He lives in Chicago, Illinois right where the sky meets the Lake and he's thinking of you while watching the sun rise over it. He hopes you're watching it too.

You'll definitely want to check out this fifteen-minute documentary about Warlock's drag art The Church of Lavonia Elberton. 

You can find Warlock on Instagram @warlockfulltime

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Deryn is a witch and an artist living in Atlanta with his three cats and a handful of spirits. He and Narinder have been playing together between realms for years. If you seek endearing conversations about what it's like to be a witch-school-drop-out, a playful-person-in-a-time-like-this, mask play, plant magic, and more, you'll want to listen to this conversation!

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• Death Work as an art medium 
• Grief as the diva she is 
• Patriarchal learning systems vs matriarchal learning systems in regard to 'death schools"

If you are an artist, if you are a death worker, if you are a new world builder, or if you're curious about how those three things blend, this episode is for you! 

Melissa Word is a powerhouse of articulation. She can quilt phrasing around abstract concepts so seamlessly. It is an honor to get to have her wisdom on Nine Keys.  She is an artist, dancer, somatic grief coach, and death doula in Atlanta. Her podcast is called Witch Sweat. (It's Narinder's favorite podcast to visit in listening land. Check it out! ) Or you can find her at www.melissaword.com or on Instagram at @melissawordstudio.

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Seven Moon Cove is an intimate space for fringe folk, makers, new-world dreamers, death workers, and grief walkers, (aka the cool kids) to explore together for seven moon cycles and to meet up in the mystic's sandbox. Narinder facilitates play spaces full of secret doors and treasure boxes designed by the Great Mother. 

Playfulness, creative dreamscapes, flirting with whimsy, and leaning into the journey Great Ma has for us - are all access points to inspiration, fortification, LIFE, healing, groundedness, and ease. Playfulness with the divine is a big way to reclaim ourselves from a system that is hell-bent on keeping us bogged down with personal ambition, stress, and scary uncertainty. 

Run through a meadow of daydreams (while giving the middle finger to the gross systems, as we do) and meet Narinder in Seven Moon Cove.

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Dr. Sarah Parker Ward wants people to think more affectionately about death so they can experience a healthier, more fulfilling life. Sarah holds a Ph.D. in Emerging Media Studies from Boston University where her research explored death cognition and related policy implications. She continues thanatological work in practice and study as the co-founder of We Are Clio, a digital platform designed to empower individuals on their deathcare journey through personalized education and community-building with non-clinical care providers such as death doulas, green burial crafters, and legacy artisans. In addition to death doula training, Sarah has also undergone instruction in mindfulness and psychedelic peer support. You can find this mom of three on LinkedIn and on Instagram at @skparkerward.  And you can find We Are Clio here! 

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Yarrow Magdalena is a web designer, tech consultant, artist, and writer. They support folks in building joyful and sustainable livelihoods and creative practices and live on the East Coast of Scotland with their two dogs. Yarrow facilitates the Embodied Business and Making & Mending Rituals podcasts and loves talking about slow seasons, embodied resilience, and visionary dreams. You can find them at PinkWellStudio.com and YarrowMagdalena.com.

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Join me May 26th 2-5pm eastern for an empowering workshop designed just for death workers who are also artists, mystics, gifted in the healing arts, and who have hang ups around building businesses or would love some new-thought inspiration for death work business development.

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Yarrow Magdalena is a web designer, tech consultant, artist, and writer. They support folks in building joyful and sustainable livelihoods as well as creative practices and live on the East Coast of Scotland with their two dogs. Yarrow facilitates the Embodied Business and Making & Mending Rituals podcasts and loves talking about slow seasons, embodied resilience, and visionary dreams. You can find them at PinkWellStudio.com and YarrowMagdalena.com

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Naila Francis is a grief coach, death midwife, poet and interfaith minister. She is also a Reiki Level II practitioner and carrier of an earth-based Andean shamanic tradition. She helps people explore the wilderness of grief through a holistic lens so they can journey alongside their losses with more compassion, heart-centered care and authenticity. Naila is also a founding member of Salt Trails, a Philadelphia collective making grief public and visible through community rituals, and the co-host of Breathing Wind, a podcast about journeying introspectively through grief.

You can find Naila on Instagram @thishallowedwilderness and @salttrailsphilly

To work one on one with Naila, you can visit her website https://www.thishallowedwilderness.com.

For more information about the 3rd Annual Grief-in-Public Day please follow this link!

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To find Maggie, and access her amazing resources, you can visit her website www.maggieconverse.com or you can find her on Instagram @Maggie_magick.

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If you find this podcast to be an inspiration for you, please pass it along! Thank you so much. And thank you for listening to the Vulture Culture.

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V shares their wisdom and knowledge with us in this powerful, yet casual, chat about death work in 2023.

They have shared some super amazing resources with us as well. Those are listed below.

Piano Burning – Annea Lockwood, 1968

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Piano_burning

Ismatu Gwendolyn – Information Anarchy: The Case Against Sponsorships & There is No Revolution Without Madness

https://ismatu.substack.com/

U.S. Healthcare waste per year - NIH:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7332167/

Plastic percentage – Journal of Ethics:

https://journalofethics.ama-assn.org/article/how-should-us-health-care-lead-global-change-plastic-waste-disposal/2022-10

Necropolitics definition:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Necropolitics

Lightening Flowers – My Journey to Uncover the Cost of Saving a Life by Katherine Standefer:

https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/katherine-e-standefer/lightning-flowers/9780316450355/

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To contact Dr. Parker-Ward:

Linkdn: sarahparkerwardphd

email: wardse@rpi.edu

Instagram: @skparkerward

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Background music by Cat Fitzgerald

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They are beginning to speak and I am letting them.

It is with honor and respect that I let these stories come out.

Details in the stories have been changed to preserve the privacy of the beautiful people who have invited me to tremendously tender moments.

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