Pad Wives Unfiltered

She Used His Military Uniform For OnlyFans… He Has NO IDEA!

Wed, 25 Mar 2026 15:08:26 GMT

What’s the most awkward thing you’ve ever overheard on a military patch? 👀

In this episode of Pad Wives Unfiltered, Sophs and Kirsha get into the reality of military wife life and the things you hear living on patch.

From neighbours being way too loud with the windows open to overheard arguments and pure chaos, some things just cannot be unheard.

It gets even more controversial.

One listener admits to secretly running an OnlyFans using her husband’s military uniform behind his back, raising serious questions about trust, boundaries and consequences.

Then there’s the story that genuinely shocked us.

After two years of what she believed was a relationship, one woman is told it was never serious, leaving her questioning everything.

This episode mixes the funny, the awkward and the brutally honest side of military life that people don’t talk about.

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00:00 Introduction

00:35 Question of the Week: What Have You Overheard on Patch?

01:10 Hearing Neighbours Having Sex on Patch

02:10 The Reality of Living in Military Housing

03:05 Terraced Houses, Thin Walls & No Privacy

04:10 Awkward Things You Can’t Unhear

05:00 Neighbours Arguing & Patch Gossip

06:05 Kids, Chaos & Unhinged Patch Moments

07:20 Why Nothing Stays Private on Patch

08:10 Confession: OnlyFans in a Military Uniform

09:30 She’s Doing It Behind His Back…

10:45 Is This Crossing a Line? (Legal + Relationship Risk)

12:00 Trust, Boundaries & Military Consequences

13:20 Would You Tell Your Partner?

14:30 Confession: “We Were Never Even Together”

15:40 Two Years… And It Meant Nothing?

17:00 The Reality of Being Used in a Relationship

18:10 Red Flags & Emotional Manipulation

19:30 How Do You Move On From This?

21:00 Advice for Dealing With Heartbreak

22:30 Final Thoughts & Listener Advice

23:30 Outro + Subscribe Reminder

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My Husband Grew a Moustache… and Now I’m NOT Attracted to Him 🤣

Wed, 11 Mar 2026 16:26:20 GMT

What’s the most unhinged thing you’ve done while your partner was deployed? 👀

In this episode of Pad Wives Unfiltered, Soph and Kirsha dive into the chaotic side of military wife life, from booking last-minute solo holidays and redecorating the entire house while the boys are away… to the confession that nearly broke us.

One listener writes in saying her husband’s moustache is slowly destroying her attraction to him 😭 and the girls have a LOT to say about the infamous military moustache phase.

But it’s not all chaos and comedy. We also talk about a much deeper dilemma from a military spouse who is struggling with the emotional toll of constant deployments and asking the question many military partners quietly wonder:

Is military life becoming too much?

From funny confessions to real conversations about deployment anxiety, loneliness and military relationships, this episode covers the reality of life as a UK military wife.

If you’re navigating Army life, deployments, SFA living or military relationships, you are definitely not alone.

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What’s the most unhinged thing YOU’VE done while your partner was away?

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My Mother-In-Law Is RUINING My Marriage… 😤

Wed, 11 Mar 2026 16:03:01 GMT

My mother-in-law kept turning up unannounced while my husband was away… and it’s causing serious problems in my marriage 😳

In this episode of Pad Wives Unfiltered, we react to one of the most relatable military wife dilemmas we’ve ever received.

A military wife living in SFA with her toddler says her mother-in-law keeps showing up unannounced while her husband is away with work. What starts as “help” quickly begins to feel like overstepping boundaries, constant criticism and messages being sent to her husband saying she’s struggling 👀

So the big question is…

Is this just an overprotective grandmother… or a mother-in-law crossing the line?

We break down the confession, give our honest opinions and talk about the reality of military marriage, deployments, SFA life and family boundaries.

We also dive into the secret things military wives actually enjoy when their partners are away — from girl dinners 🍝, binge watching trash TV and finally having a clean house for more than ten minutes.

If you’re part of the UK military spouse community, navigating patch life, deployments and military relationships, this episode will feel very familiar.

Let us know in the comments…

Is this MIL overstepping or just trying to help?

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He Cheated… So I Started A Revenge Affair 🤯

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 08:50:09 GMT

You asked us what no one warns you about UK military wife life… and the answers were brutally honest 😭

In this episode of Pad Wives Unfiltered, Sophie and Kirsha unpack the real side of being a UK military spouse, the loneliness nobody talks about, becoming a “single parent” during deployment, starting friendships from scratch every posting, patch gossip that spreads in 0.5 seconds… and the unexpected independence that turns you into an absolute weapon 💅

If you’re a UK military wife, British Army partner, RAF girlfriend, Royal Navy spouse or living the SFA / patch life, this one will hit home.

We also dive into TWO chaotic relationship dilemmas from our listeners:

💔 A military wife battling resentment after sacrificing her career and identity while her husband’s Army career keeps progressing.

🔥 A cheating scandal that spirals into a secret gym situationship… and now she’s living a double life.

Drop your thoughts in the comments, we read everything.

What’s the hardest part of UK military spouse life that no one warned you about?

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Your WILDEST Mil Spouse Confessions! 😳

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 08:48:52 GMT

You sent us your wildest UK military wife confessions… and girls, we were NOT ready 😭

In this episode of Pad Wives Unfiltered, Sophie and Kirsha dive into chaotic pad wife dilemmas, relationship icks and real British Army relationship drama, giving very honest (and very unqualified) advice for the UK military spouse community.

If you’re a UK military wife, military girlfriend, British Army partner, RAF spouse or Royal Navy wife navigating SFA life, deployments, long-distance love and patch living… this one will feel way too familiar.

Military life is intense. Military relationships move fast. And some of these confessions? Absolutely feral.

Would you risk it for love?

Would you come clean?

Or would you quietly disappear? 👀

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Things ONLY UK Military Spouses Understand 🤣

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 08:47:25 GMT

If you’re a military wife, you’ll understand ALL of this 😅

In this episode of Padwives Unfiltered, Sophie and Kirsha react to your funniest “Tell me you’re a military wife without telling me you’re a military wife” moments… and honestly, some of these had us howling.

From the dreaded white knitted washing bag 🤢 to last-minute deployment changes, sniper tape fixing everything, Vevo housing drama and kids shouting “DAD!” at random men in uniform… this is peak UK padwife life.

If you live on patch, survive deployments, and just know what “good news or bad news” means… this one’s for you.

Drop your most relatable one in the comments 💋

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NEW! UK Military Housing Update | New Rules, Goodbye Magnolia

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 08:45:27 GMT

Military housing rules have officially changed and the “no more magnolia” update has sent the military spouse community into meltdown.

In this episode of Padwives Unfiltered, Sophie and Kirsha break down the new military housing rules, including the long-awaited change that allows families to paint their quarters without repainting them back to magnolia.

They talk honestly about what the new rules actually mean, why social media has exploded with opinions, and whether this change is real progress or just another headache for military families who move every 2–3 years.

Whether you live in military accommodation, are married to serving personnel, or are part of the wider military spouse community, this episode is relatable, funny, and very real.

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Are you going to paint your military house?

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How to Survive Pad Wife Life | UK Military Spouse Advice

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 08:40:23 GMT

How to Survive Pad Wife Life is a real, honest, and hilarious episode of Pad Wives Unfiltered, where Sophie and Kirsha answer your burning questions straight from the military spouse community.From pad life chaos to deployment emotions, friendship drama, moving house (again), and all the things no one warns you about when you become a military spouse, the girls are back in the studio talking through it all. Nothing is off limits and nothing is sugar-coated.This episode is packed with real advice, relatable stories, and plenty of laughs as Sophie and Kirsha share what pad wife life is actually like, based on your questions, experiences, and submissions. Whether you are brand new to military life, deep in it, or just here for the gossip and giggles, you are very welcome.Expect honest chats, supportive moments, and that “oh my god, same” feeling every military spouse knows too well.

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38.Santa, Can You Send Help?!

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 00:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we’re sharing our favorite Christmas stories and traditions - the sweet, the strange, and the ones that make you wonder how your family still gets invited to holiday parties.

It’s festive, funny, and just the right amount of mildly embarrassing. Grab a mug of something warm, cozy up, and enjoy some holiday cheer that reminds you: no matter how weird your family is, they’re probably not the weirdest.

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37. Billions thrown at Military Housing from the UK Government, is it too little too late?!

Mon, 24 Nov 2025 06:00:00 GMT

So the UK Government have announced yet another upgrade/change to Military housing but is this just another empty promise?!

This week Kirsha and Sophs delve into the new 90 billion pound announcement from the UK Government to better the housing standards for Military families but is it actually going to happen?

Military families aren't asking for much but the basic needs of working heating, and preferably no black mould.. what happens when they run out of money... which has happened before?! Not to mention the half finished jobs, what happens if those who serve just think - nope, not today...

Kirsha & Sophs share your housing stories, from having to bathe you young family in a laundry basket in porta potties, to duct tape floor boards - when are we going to do better for our serving families?!

The hosts share the new colour palette and discuss why not everyone is over the moon about Magnolia's marching orders and everything in between.

Buckle up as this one is heated, important and something needs to change.

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36. Hurry and wait.. for a house - Military Housing decoded

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 06:00:00 GMT

Our most requested topic is finally here — military housing!

In this episode, we break down everything you’ve been asking about: the new housing standards, what they actually look like in real life, and how they’re being implemented across branches. We talk about what service members and partners can realistically expect when it comes to on-base living, timelines, inspections, and the ever-confusing waitlist process.

And yes — we get into the big one: Can you get military housing before you’re married?

We explain the rules, the exceptions, the frustrations, and the loopholes people think exist (but don’t). Whether you’re engaged, planning a future together, or just trying to figure out your next move, we’ve got you covered with the honest details.

From privatized housing companies to mold horror stories to the new standards, this episode is the guide we wish we had when we started military life.

If you’re trying to understand how housing works — or why it feels like it doesn’t — this is the episode for you.

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35. Permission to feel - speaking up without tearing down

Mon, 10 Nov 2025 06:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we open up an honest conversation about what it really means to stand up for yourself and your feelings — even when the world tells you to just “get on with it.” Within military life, there’s a constant expectation to be strong, resilient, and unshakable. But where does that leave space for vulnerability, frustration, or just saying, “I’m struggling”?

We dig deep into the stigma that often surrounds speaking out in military communities — especially for partners and spouses who are too often labelled as “moaning” or “pad wives” when they voice their thoughts. It’s a powerful reminder that sharing your feelings doesn’t make you negative, dramatic, or weak — it makes you human.

Through open and relatable discussion, we explore how to validate your own emotions without tearing others down, and how to create space for honesty and empathy in a culture that sometimes prioritises silence over truth. Whether you’re serving, supporting someone who is, or simply navigating life in a community built on resilience, this episode encourages you to find your voice and use it without guilt.

Because strength isn’t about suppressing your feelings — it’s about standing tall and staying real.

🎙️ Join us as we break the stereotypes, challenge outdated expectations, and remind each other that it’s okay to speak up, to feel deeply, and to take up space — even in a world that often tells us not to.

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34. Back under one roof - The Post Deployment Adjustment

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 06:00:00 GMT

Back Under One Roof | Pad Wives Assemble Podcast

After months apart, the homecoming is finally here — but living together again isn’t always as seamless as it looks on social media. In this episode, we’re getting real about the post-deployment adjustment: the excitement, the awkward moments, and the emotional recalibration that comes with sharing a space (and a life) again.

We’re also celebrating an exciting update that every Pad Wife will appreciate — the end of the Magnolia paint rule! Yep, it’s finally time to make your house feel like your home, without having to paint it all back when you move. 🎉

Join us as we talk about rebuilding routines, rediscovering connection, and embracing the new season — of both marriage and military housing.

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33. Season 5, We're back baby, and here to tell you it is NEVER too late.

Mon, 27 Oct 2025 06:01:09 GMT

🎙️ Season 5, Episode 1: We’re Back, Baby! 🎉

We’re kicking off Season 5 with a bang! The gals are back — slightly chaotic, fully caffeinated, and ready to overshare.

Sophs shocks us all by forgetting her ick for the first time ever .. or not (new era unlocked 👀), while Kirsha takes us through her wild adventure abseiling down a cliff right after vomiting — only to later find out she was actually really sick. Classic.

We chat all things gala glam, rationed and ready, and dig deep into why it’s never too late to chase your dreams, no matter how messy the journey gets.

Tune in, laugh with us, and let’s start this season off right 💫

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32. Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girl Bye - Red Flags in Relationships and Friendships

Sun, 27 Jul 2025 05:00:00 GMT

🎉 Season 4 Finale! 🎉

Before we take a break to film our ALL NEW reality TV series (premiering this fall 👀), we’re closing out the season with the ultimate girl talk — and trust us, this is the episode you NEED to hear. 💬💅

In this no-holding-back finale, we're diving deep into:

🚩 How to spot red flags in relationships AND friendships

🙅‍♀️ Why it’s time to stop putting up with liars, love-bombers, and walking red flags

👀 The toxic traits that fly under the radar — like being overly controlling or always making you question your worth

💔 Friendship breakups & emotional manipulation

Plus...

🔥 Fan-favorite segments: AITA (Am I The A💥hole?) and our weekly "Ick of the Week"

✨ Whether you’re re-evaluating your circle or just need a little tough love, this episode is your sign.

💥 We’ll be back in October with fresh episodes AND behind-the-scenes tea from our reality show — so make sure you’re subscribed and following!

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31. Dear Deployment, It's not me it's you!

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 05:30:19 GMT

Dear Deployment Diaries, It's not me, it's you! : The 7 Emotional Stages Every Military Spouse Knows

📦 Missing them already? Or just missing your routine? In this week’s episode, we dive into the real talk behind military deployments — from teary goodbyes to solo parenting chaos, surprise strength, and the “don’t touch my system” re-entry phase.

Whether you're a seasoned military spouse, new to forces life, or a supportive partner just trying to hold it together, we break down the stages of deployment we all go through — emotionally, mentally, and let’s be honest... logistically.

🎧 In this episode:

The 7 emotional stages of a deployment (yep, rage-cleaning is one)
Listener stories that'll make you laugh-cry in solidarity
Our weekly fan-faves:
👉 Ick of the Week – because someone had to say it
👉 AITA (Am I The Armywife-Hole?) – spicy debates included
👉 Listener Q&A – your stories, your questions, our brutally honest takes

💬 Top search terms covered in this episode:

military spouse podcast, deployment stages, military wife life, forces family podcast, coping with military deployment, solo parenting during deployment, emotional support for military partners

❤️ Whether you're dealing with a fresh send-off, halfway through the madness, or adjusting to post-deployment life, this episode is your go-to deployment therapy — minus the awkward welfare calls.

🫡 Pad Wives Assemble. You’re not alone. We’ve got you.

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30. Parenthood Panic - The Pressure of first time Motherhood

Mon, 14 Jul 2025 05:06:44 GMT

This week on Pad Wives Assemble, we’re getting real about the pressure of growing up and growing a family — especially when military life is in the mix. From being constantly asked “So, when are you having kids?” to wondering “Am I even ready?”, we open up about first time motherhood:

👶 The fear of not coping with motherhood

⏳ The ticking timeline and “Have I done enough before becoming a parent?”

🎖️ The pain of partners missing scans, milestones, and firsts because of deployments

We talk about the emotional load of becoming a parent while holding everything else together, and how military life adds another complicated layer to already tough decisions.

Plus, as always:

🧼 Ick of the Week

👀 Reddit of the Week

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29. Deployment already?! But we just met!

Mon, 07 Jul 2025 05:00:00 GMT

You’ve just started dating someone in the military… cue the butterflies, excitement — and boom — deployment orders. In this episode of the award winning podcast Pad Wives Assemble, Sophs and Kirsha dive into the whirlwind of early military romance when things get serious, fast. We’re talking:

💭 Are these feelings real or is it the military pressure cooker talking?

💔 Do I say “I love you” now or wait until after the tour?

🤯 What if this doesn’t work out — and do I really want this life long-term?

From questioning the fast pace of military relationships to navigating the emotional rollercoaster of "dating during deployment," we share our own stories, listener confessions, and as always…

🧼 Ick of the Week — because red flags still wave in uniform.

👀 Reddit of the Week — one post, one drama, and juicy questions

It’s messy, it’s raw, and it’s way too soon to be crying into your pillow — but here we are.

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28. Posted Again?! Moving with Kids & Keeping It Together

Mon, 30 Jun 2025 05:00:00 GMT

Another postcode, another panic pack... In this episode, we talk all things military postings with kids. From the dreaded "You've been posted" email to explaining to your little ones (again) why they’re saying goodbye to their friends, we get honest about the emotional rollercoaster that comes with moving military-style.

We share tips for keeping some kind of routine, helping kids settle quickly, and how we cope when it feels like you’ve just unpacked and it’s time to start all over again.

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27. No Filter, Just Feelings

Mon, 23 Jun 2025 05:00:00 GMT

In this heartfelt episode, we open up about the messy, beautiful, and often uncomfortable journey of healing. From letting go of guilt for not having it all together to learning how to sit with our emotions instead of running from them — we’re getting real about what it means to truly accept ourselves, flaws and all. We talk about breaking down the pressure to “bounce back,” why it’s okay to feel stuck sometimes, and the quiet power in simply showing up for ourselves. Whether you're in the thick of it or just starting to process, this episode is your reminder that healing isn’t linear — and you are allowed to take your time.

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26. Swipe Right For Friendship

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 05:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we dive into the awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright weird world of making friends as adults. From navigating small talk and mom groups to trying to break into tight-knit cliques on base, making new mates isn’t always as easy as it was on the school playground. We chat about how to spot your people, the cringe moments we’ve all had trying to build connections, and why finding your tribe as an adult feels a bit like dating — but without the awkward flirting and terrible pick-up lines. Grab a coffee and join us for some real talk, and plenty of laughs.

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25. You asked we spilled

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 05:00:00 GMT

In this lively and unfiltered episode of Pad Wives Assemble, we hand the mic over to you, our amazing listeners! From heartwarming moments to hilarious housing mishaps, you’ve shared your favourite parts of being a military spouse — from building friendships across postings, safe communities for the kids, and unforgettable events, to the real glamorous stuff like accidentally glossing a ceiling and praying you don’t get charged on march out (we’ve all been there!).

We dive into your top tips and questions — including how to make your first military house feel like a home, even when it’s full of magnolia walls and mystery cupboards. We break down our go-to Pad Wives Essentials: the 14-day report game plan, must-have moving hacks, and why sorting the beds first is the golden rule of every posting.

Whether you're a seasoned pad wife or about to tackle your first move, this episode is full of laughs, lived experience, and little gems to help make the journey smoother.

Because when one of us wins… we all gloss over the damage together.

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24. Jasmine's Balancing Act: Life After Service, Solo Parenting & Living Unaccompanied

Mon, 02 Jun 2025 05:00:00 GMT

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Jasmine — a former serving soldier, now a military spouse, solo parent, and rising voice on TikTok — to explore the unique complexities of life on both sides of the uniform. From the discipline of service life to the emotional toll of unaccompanied marriage, Jasmine shares her candid experience of transitioning out of the military while supporting a partner still serving — all while raising a child largely on her own.

We talk about identity after uniform, the strain and strength of long-distance military relationships, the realities of solo parenting within the military community, and how she uses social media to connect with others navigating similar paths. With honesty, humour, and heart, Jasmine gives us a raw look at the reality behind the highlight reel — and how she’s finding balance in the chaos.

Whether you're a serving member, veteran, spouse, parent, or supporter, this episode sheds light on the unseen emotional labour of military life — and the quiet courage it takes to live it, especially when you're doing it solo.

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23. Life on Base - Myths, Stigma and Truth

Mon, 26 May 2025 04:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we dive into a raw and often whispered topic within the military community—cheating. We unpack two powerful Reddit posts: one from a serving member and another from a military spouse, offering personal perspectives on infidelity, trust, and the impact of rumours.

We confront the harsh stigma that “all military personnel cheat,” explore the infamous "Leroy and laundry powder" stereotype.

Is infidelity genuinely more common in the military, or does it just feel that way because we’re on the inside looking out?

We also talk about the reality that anyone can cheat—regardless of gender, profession, or background—and how false accusations can be just as destructive as the act itself.

It’s a tough conversation, but a necessary one. Let’s talk about it.

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22. It's Not A Regular Catch-Up, Its A Cool Catch-Up

Mon, 19 May 2025 04:00:00 GMT

We’re back with a big catch-up episode and so much to fill you in on! From awards nights to blow drys and full glam moments, we’re chatting about weekends in London and the amount of gratitude we have for you guys! We’re also giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what’s coming up with the Battle of the Forces charity boxing event — planning is well underway and we’re buzzing to share what’s in store. Plus, we chat about the upcoming Pad Wives Gala and what you can expect from the night. Soph shares her holiday stories (you’ll want to hear these), and of course, we wrap up with our Ick of the Week — and it’s a classic. A mix of real talk, laughs, and a few behind-the-scenes moments.

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TRAILOR - 2025

Sun, 18 May 2025 12:58:22 GMT

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"Grab a glass of wine, or maybe a brew, because it's time to dive in!"

Welcome to Pad Wives Assemble, the podcast where military spouses get real, share stories, and laugh it all off — no filter, no holding back! Hosted by two besties who bonded over their partners serving in the military, we’re here to give you all the juicy, hilarious, and honest conversations you've been craving.

🌟 What’s it all about?

Each week, we dive into The Ick of the Week—those funny, cringy moments that make you go "Nope!" Then we follow it up with The Story of the Week, where we tackle everything from AITA (Am I the A**hole?) to listener stories, true crime, and everything in between.

But don’t just take our word for it — here’s why you should tune in:

🏆 4 Award Nominations — Including a Finalist for UK Podcast of the Year!

🌍 Listened to in 37 countries — We’re that popular, y’all.

💬 Real honesty, real truth — Nothing’s off-limits, except maybe our photos... no one wants to see that.

Every episode feels like a FaceTime with your bestie, chatting about everything and nothing, leaving you laughing, thinking, and feeling like you're part of the conversation. Whether you're a military spouse, a curious listener, or just need a dose of authenticity, we’ve got you.

So, what are you waiting for? Grab your favorite drink, pull up a chair, and get ready for unfiltered fun, deep convos, and tons of laughs. You’re in for a ride with Pad Wives Assemble — where no topic is off-limits, but we still keep it fun and light.

Join us every week... and hey, bring a friend!

Let’s be real, no one should miss out on the wild world of Pad Wives Assemble. 🎉🎧

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21: Season 3 Finale; Please do not finger my donuts.

Mon, 07 Apr 2025 05:00:00 GMT

In the highly anticipated Season 3 Finale of Pad Wives Assemble, we dive into an unforgettable day at our 2025 charity, Combat Stress, where we get an up-close look at their vital work supporting veterans' mental health. April is Autism and Neurodiversity Awareness Month, so Soph opens up about her late diagnosis and the challenges she’s faced, including an emotional reveal about what really went down last August. And, surprise, Soph's husband is back home – but after just 3 days, she’s already getting the ick!

Meanwhile, Kirsha takes a trip to Lidl and discovers the ultimate donut horror – someone’s dirty hand donut finger… DO NOT FINGER MY DONUTS! And did we mention the Pain au Chocolat incident?

Plus, we’re celebrating the podcast turning ONE this April 22nd! We reflect on the incredible journey so far, share our favorite moments, and thank YOU, our listeners, for all the love and support.

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Get your tickets for the Pad Wives Charity Gala at www.ticketsource.co.uk/padwivescharitygala before they sell out.

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Please remember to subscribe, review, and share – we appreciate all your support, and we can't wait to bring you more laughs, real talk, and surprises in Season 4 which will be back the first week of May! 🎉

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20. The Military Wedding Diaries

Mon, 31 Mar 2025 04:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we share personal stories from our own wedding planning experiences, highlighting the DIY projects we took on, what worked well, and what we might change if we had to do it again. We dive into the challenges of planning a wedding while managing deployments and military schedules, offering insights on how to balance it all. From handmade decorations to creating personalized touches, we discuss any regrets and lessons learned, and share tips for couples facing similar challenges, whether military-related or not. Whether you're planning a wedding with tight timelines or just want to get creative, this episode offers real-life advice and maybe some inspiration!

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19. Does Rank Still Rule Friendships?

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 05:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we tackle the question: do military spouses still care about each other’s partner’s rank, or is that less of a thing nowadays? We share funny and relatable moments about how rank used to feel like a big deal, but nowadays, it seems it's more about shared experiences, mutual support, and navigating military life together... Or is it? We dive into whether the rank divide still sneaks its way into friendships and what really matters when it comes to building connections in the military spouse community today.

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18. Living with the invisible - A deep dive into Hormonal imbalance and Auto-Immune Diseases (Our Experiences and listener stories)

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 06:00:00 GMT

In this special episode for Autoimmune Disease Awareness Month, we dive deep into the world of invisible illnesses—the ones that often go unnoticed but can have a huge impact on daily life. We share our personal experiences with Endometriosis, Thyroid issues, PCOS, and Celiac disease, discussing how we were diagnosed, the struggles we faced, and the ongoing challenges that often come with these conditions.

We open up about the worries we had along the way, from infertility concerns to inconsistent periods, and how we pushed forward to get the right diagnoses. We also talk about the symptoms that sometimes go unnoticed or misunderstood, and how important it is to raise awareness for conditions that you can't always see.

This episode is a heartfelt conversation aimed at shedding light on the unspoken issues many face, encouraging others to share their stories and seek the support they need.

Resources & Support:

Endometriosis: Endometriosis UK
Thyroid Issues: British Thyroid Foundation
PCOS: PCOS Awareness Association
Celiac Disease: Celiac Disease Foundation

Join us as we raise our voices for those living with invisible illnesses and continue to build understanding and support for these often-overlooked conditions.

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17. The Hidden emotions of depoloyment

Mon, 10 Mar 2025 06:06:00 GMT

In this honest and raw episode of Pad Wives Assemble, Sophie and Kirsha dive deep into the realities of deployment anxiety and anger that many military spouses face when their partners are away. They open up about the emotional rollercoaster of solo parenting, managing a home, and juggling work while your loved one serves far away. From the frustration of not knowing when they’ll come home to the challenges of working from home and the importance of getting out of the house, this episode tackles it all. It’s okay to feel angry, uncertain, and overwhelmed—and it’s crucial to acknowledge and express these feelings. Tune in for support, understanding, and practical tips for navigating deployment life with strength and resilience.

Keywords: deployment anxiety, military partner life, solo parenting, deployment anger, work from home, emotional support, Pad Wives Assemble, military spouse, mental health during deployment

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16.Does Girl Code Still Exist in 2025? Toxic Friendships, Maternity Blues & A Twisty Reddit Tale!

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 00:26:13 GMT

In this episode, we go deep into the TikTok rabbit hole Kirsha went down, exploring the age-old question: Does Girl Code still exist in 2025? We discuss some of the wild comments we found on girl code when it comes to other people's men—trust us, things get heated. 🔥

But that's not all! We also dive into toxic friendships, girl code within friendships, and the idea that just because a friendship doesn’t work out, it doesn’t mean either person is bad—they just weren’t meant to be friends. Plus, we talk about how adult friendships can feel a lot like romantic relationships and why it can be so complicated to navigate them in our 30s. 🤔

We also answer a listener’s dilemma on feeling lonely during maternity leave, offering advice, support, and some helpful recommendations to stay connected while adjusting to life with a newborn. 👶

Exciting News Alert! 🎉 We are absolutely thrilled to announce that we’ve made it to the finals for UK Podcast of the Year at the UK Top Influencer Awards! We couldn’t have done it without all your love and support, and we’re so grateful!

And we finish off with a twisty Reddit story that’ll keep you on the edge of your seat. What would you do if you found out your partner of 7 years started peeking on you at night and collecting eyeballs?! 🧐👀

Oh, and we’ve got an extra special guest this week—Soph’s little doggo, Teddy, is joining us for a bit of puppy cuteness to round off the episode! 🐾

Topics Covered:

The state of Girl Code in 2025
Navigating toxic friendships and adult relationships
Feeling lonely during maternity leave and how to cope
Our exciting UK Podcast of the Year finalist announcement 🎉
A creepy Reddit story about a partner collecting eyeballs 👀

You don’t want to miss this one! Tune in now, and don’t forget to send us your dilemmas for future episodes!

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15. Shaping a healthier online Military Culture

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 06:00:00 GMT

In this episode of Pad Wives Assemble, we take a closer look at the culture surrounding military meme pages and the impact they have on service members, veterans, and military spouses. While these pages can bring humor and camaraderie, they sometimes cross the line—targeting individuals in ways that can be harmful, demoralizing, or even contradictory to the values of support and community they aim to promote. These pages frequently invite comments that attack, sexualize, and critique the appearances of those involved in the military community. However, when tragedy strikes, such as issues related to mental health or personal loss, these pages tend to switch gears, promoting messages of kindness and self-care, despite having perpetuated negativity in the first place and cause a harmful culture.

We discuss the broader effects of this dynamic, especially when serious issues like mental health and personal loss come to the forefront. How can we foster a culture where humor and accountability coexist? How can we encourage a more positive and respectful online space within the military community? We are calling for a cultural shift of accountability to replace a long dominated toxic culture.

Disclaimer: This episode includes discussions on sensitive topics, including mental health, suicide, and sexual assault. We approach these conversations with care, but please listen with discretion if these topics may be triggering.

Join us for an open and thoughtful discussion on the power of online culture and how we can collectively create a more supportive space for all.

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14. Uniforms, True Crime and Bathroom Talk

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 08:54:55 GMT

Get ready for a true girly-girl bathroom chat on this week’s episode of PadWivesAssemble! We dive into the intriguing question: Are uniforms, especially military ones, a turn-on? Tune in as we discuss the allure and attraction of uniforms, then take a sharp turn into the wild world of Reddit, exploring a quirky new trend. To shake things up even more, we bring in a gripping true crime story that’ll have you hooked. It’s the perfect blend of lighthearted fun and spine-tingling suspense! You won’t want to miss it!

The perfect episode if you are needing some girly chat, or a friendly facetime. Let's have a goss!

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13.Tagged, Trolled, and Still Smiling

Mon, 10 Feb 2025 16:27:14 GMT

In this episode, we dive into the world of military spouses on social media—where the highs are high, the lows are low, and the trolls are... well, always lurking. Join us as we explore how military spouses navigate the unique challenges of being in the public eye, balancing deployment life, and managing the unpredictable world of likes, comments, and hashtags. We’re talking about everything from the pressures to keep it "Insta-perfect" to dealing with online negativity, all while maintaining a smile.

But here’s the twist: it’s not just military spouses who feel the impact of social media. Whether you’re an aspiring influencer, a content creator, or just someone trying to connect online, trolling and judgment can leave a mark. So how do we handle it with grace, laughter, and maybe a bit of sass?

In this episode, we’ll chat about the effects of social media on mental health, how we can fight back against negativity with kindness, and why the best way to survive the social media storm is to stay true to ourselves. It’s all about owning your space, ignoring the haters, and, yes—still smiling through it all!

Let’s get real, have some laughs, and remember—no matter the post, no matter the troll, we’ve got this. Ready to roll?

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12. Cheating or not? Where do you draw the line?

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 06:27:37 GMT

In this episode, Sophs and Kirsha dive into the tricky topic of cheating—where do you draw the line? Is flirting crossing it? What about emotional connections, or is it just about physical acts? The girls unpack their own views on what counts as cheating, sharing personal stories and debating those grey areas that often leave us questioning: was that really cheating?

But that's not all! We're joined by the amazing relationship counsellor Emily Caddy, who brings expert insight into how boundaries can vary in different relationships and how communication is key to understanding what’s considered cheating. Emily offers practical advice on how to navigate those tricky situations and what to do if you're feeling unsure about your partner's actions.

Tune in for a candid, fun, and insightful conversation that’s sure to make you think twice about what cheating really means.

You can find Emily online at: Instagram: ⁠@sp_relationshipcounselling⁠ Website: ⁠www.startpointcounselling.com

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11. Navigating Careers, Up-skilling, and Flexibility

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 19:45:17 GMT

In this episode, Kirsha and Sophs draw from their 8 years of experience in recruitment, helping candidates perfect CV, ace interviews and navigate career transitions. Kirsha shares her personal journey from waitress to admin to a qualified auditor and now in a field of Quality Assurance. Together, they discuss key topics such as working from hom, identifying transferrable skills, and preparing for interviews across various industries.

We also dive into career flexibility, especially for those who may need to move around often or balance work life with family life. With tips on communicating with employers about deployments, posting or childcare, for anyone who may move around a lot, need some support post maternity leave or just starting out there is lots of information that you could find relatable and/or useful.

Kirsha and Sophs share valuable insights into making work life for with personal life that they found effective, as well as announcing their new free resource pack that will soon be available to download.

They also shine a light into amazing charities for spouses like Forces Employment Charity, Recruit For Spoyses offering support and resources for those transitioning into new careers or fitting around an uncertain lifestyle particularly as a military spouse and/or family.

Finally, stay tuned for this weeks' Ick of the Week and keep an eye out for our FIRST EVER bonus episode with our Reddit of the week pick. Hit Subscribe, pop us a follow and join the conversation - It's career talk with a twist!

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10. New Year, New Me, Pad Wife Drama Free

Mon, 13 Jan 2025 06:20:07 GMT

Episode Title: New Year, New Me: Pad Wife Drama-Free

Welcome to the first episode of 2025! We’re kicking off the year with a good old catch-up, setting intentions for the months ahead (or maybe not setting them at all!), and reflecting on the rollercoaster that was 2024.

In this episode, we dive into New Year goal-setting, or rather, the lack of it. We discuss how we’re leaving behind the negativity and bad vibes of 2024, and how we’ve all been coping with the strange twists and turns of last year. Sophs shares some of her spiritual rituals that keep her grounded, from smoke cleansing and crystals to full moons and spell jars. Kirsha talks about her desire to be more present and create lasting memories with her loved ones.

But of course, it wouldn’t be an episode without some drama! Sophs went rogue with Reddit of the Week and chose an Army Ick—and let’s just say, it’s one of the worst we’ve ever heard. Trust us, you don’t want to miss that moment!

Grab your favourite drink and join us for some laughs, reflections, and plans for a drama-free 2025.

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9. Christmas Special! Gift Ideas, Bra Heists & Holiday Laughs

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 05:00:50 GMT

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Get ready for the Padwives Assemble Christmas Special, where we’re bringing you all the festive cheer, cheeky laughs, and a few juicy secrets you won’t want to miss! In this holiday episode, we’re diving into everything from our favourite traditions, gift ideas and some interesting stories...

We start off by sharing some brilliant budget-friendly Christmas gift ideas from small businesses, including JayJays Brecon, Soldier on Coffee, Melted Moments, and Accessories by Jenni—all run by fellow Milspouses and veterans. Whether you're looking for something unique or a thoughtful stocking stuffer, these gift ideas have you covered!

But it wouldn’t be a Padwives Christmas without a little drama—so get ready for some hilarious moments, the mystery of the missing bra,, Leroy laughs, and a few holiday fails that will have you laughing out loud. We also chat about our upcoming charity event to support Scotty’s Little Soldiers, where you can help make a difference this holiday season.

Plus, we look ahead to 2025 and share some exciting plans, including upcoming episodes on invisible illnesses, neurodiversity, and more! Of course, we couldn’t wrap up the year without our fan-favorite Ick of the Week and a look back at our most memorable moments from 2023.

Tune in for all the holiday laughs, heartfelt moments, and Padwives mischief you love. It’s our last episode of 2024, and it’s packed with everything you need to kick off the festive season with a smile!

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8. Andy McNab - SAS to Hollywood. Life, Legacy and WeServed App.

Sun, 08 Dec 2024 01:02:08 GMT

In the latest episode of Pad Wives Assemble, we had the honour of speaking with Andy McNab, former SAS soldier, bestselling author, and media mogul. Andy’s incredible journey — from growing up in foster care to becoming one of the most celebrated figures in the British military — is a testament to resilience, courage, and taking risks.

In our conversation, Andy reflects on the challenges of transitioning from the military to civilian life, the skills he recommends veterans should upskill in before leaving service, and his exciting new venture, the WeServed app.

Andy shares gripping stories from his extraordinary life, including his transition from covert missions to working in Hollywood, Growing up in the Foster system and joining the Army at 16. We also speak to him about his books, but delve into his diagnosis as a Psychopath and how that came about.

We dive into his passion for supporting veterans, the inspiration behind WeServed app, a new groundbreaking app for Veterans and how it’s transforming the way veterans connect and thrive after service. Get ready for an insightful, action-packed conversation with a true hero dedicated to making a difference.

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7 Before 30: Things We Wish We Knew

Mon, 18 Nov 2024 00:00:27 GMT

Ever wish someone had handed you a manual before turning 30? In this episode, we’re sharing all the things we wish we knew—like why it’s okay to say no, how to stop stressing over everything, and why some lessons are best learned the hard way. We’ll laugh about the mistakes, share some hilarious aha moments, and dish out advice we didn’t realize we needed until the big 3-0 was looming. If you’ve ever thought, ‘Why didn’t anyone tell me this?’ then this episode is for you!

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5. Find your squad, maintaining friendships part 1

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 05:10:32 GMT

Season 2, Episode 8

Hosts Sophs and Kirsha connect with friend of eight years Chloe to discuss the challenges and joys of maintaining their friendships even after moving away due to partners military service.

They dive into the realities of supporting a friend or family member who is frequently relocating, and how to stay flexible with plans when life gets unpredictable.

Together, they explore the feelings of drifting that can arise when friends are separated by distance, but also share how those connections can remain strong with intentionality and communication. Sophs and Kirsha offer insights on meeting new friends through military circles and finding community among fellow spouses, highlighting the importance of navigating these unique challenges.

Join them for an honest conversation about the complexities of friendship, the ups and downs of military life, and the ways to cultivate lasting bonds, no matter the miles between you.

Struggling with Friends and Family back home? This is a great episode to understand and see both sides, on how to support as a spouse in the Military or even as a friend or family member back home.

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6. Find Your Squad, Maintaining Friendships Part 2

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 05:01:22 GMT

Season 2, Episode 9 PART 2

In this episode, Sophs, Kirsha, and Chloe dive into the wild world of dating apps as Chloe shares some of her most bizarre (and hilarious) dating app encounters. From unexpected profile revelations to awkward message exchanges, it’s safe to say she’s seen it all! The trio also reveals their “Ick of the Week” and reacts to funny first-date stories straight from Reddit. Expect plenty of laughs, surprises, and maybe even a little dating wisdom. Tune in for unforgettable stories and lots of laughs!

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4.Making your Military House/Rental a home

Mon, 07 Oct 2024 00:41:05 GMT

In this episode of Pad Wives Assemble, Kirsha and Sophs discuss how to make military housing feel like home. They share personal experiences, and practical tips for decorating and creating a cozy atmosphere. Emphasizing the importance of personal touches in home decor to have a safe space and sense of belonging. In this episode, the hosts discuss various aspects of military housing, including maximizing storage solutions and decorating tips for rentals. They share essential home decor items and product recommendations, along with fun discussions about conspiracy theories. The episode also delves into a Reddit drama involving family dynamics and relationships, highlighting the challenges faced by a mother and her daughter.

Takeaways

Making a military house feel like home is essential.
Community support plays a vital role in military life.
Decorating can be challenging but rewarding.
Personal touches can transform a space.
Storage solutions are crucial in military housing.
Candles and soft lighting create a cozy atmosphere.
Using tension rods can help with curtain placement.
Ottoman beds provide excellent storage options.
Engaging with the community enhances the military experience.
Sharing experiences can lead to valuable insights.
Radiator covers can transform a space.
Peel and stick tiles are versatile and easy to use.
Rugs can significantly enhance the coziness of a room.
Cleaning products can make a home smell luxurious.
Conspiracy theories can lead to entertaining discussions.
Family dynamics can be complicated, especially in blended families.
It's important to prioritize children's well-being over adult relationships.
Communication is key in maintaining healthy family relationships.
Creative activities can help children cope with parental absences.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Making a Military House a Home

03:15 Exciting News and Upcoming Guests

05:54 Insights from Alex Harrison's Experience

08:18 Personal Updates and Family Life

10:38 Decorating Military Homes: Challenges and Solutions

13:39 Creating a Cozy Atmosphere

16:12 Practical Tips for Home Decoration

19:01 Storage Solutions for Military Housing

21:32 Final Thoughts and Wrap-Up

35:15 Maximizing Storage in Military Homes

36:43 Decorating Tips for Military Rentals

40:13 Essential Products and Hacks for Home

45:23 Conspiracy Theories and Fun Discussions

50:18 Reddit Drama: Family Dynamics and Choices

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Keywords

military housing, home decor, community support, podcast, military life, home tips, decorating tips, military families, home improvement, personal stories, military housing, home decor, storage solutions, product recommendations, family dynamics, cleaning hacks, conspiracy theories, military lifestyle

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3. Navigating Deployments: Coping, Connection and Care

Sun, 29 Sep 2024 12:10:10 GMT

Podcast Episode 4: Navigating Deployments: Coping, Connection, and Care

In this heartfelt and relatable episode, we dive into the challenges and triumphs of navigating deployments—whether you’re a solo parent, a partner without kids, or someone supporting a loved one away. Join us as we explore effective strategies for coping during those long absences, from maintaining a routine to discovering new hobbies that keep you engaged and uplifted.

We’ll share personal stories, expert tips, and practical advice on how to stay connected with your partner while they’re away, along with the joys and quirks of solo life. Get ready for some funny and uplifting quotes that remind us to find humour in the chaos: “Distance means so little when you mean so much!” and “I thought I was indecisive, but now I'm not so sure!”

Plus, we’ll discuss the importance of self-care and finding time for yourself amidst the ups and downs of deployment life. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of parenting alone or just figuring out how to keep busy while your partner is away, this episode offers insights to help you thrive, reconnect, and find joy in the journey.

Tune in for a mix of laughter, encouragement, and camaraderie as we tackle the unique experiences of deployment, making it all a little more relatable and a lot more fun!

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2. - Meeting before and after basic training - Military Relationships

Fri, 20 Sep 2024 12:48:54 GMT

Apologies to all our Apple Subscribers! We have had hosting site issues with apple but all should be available! Episode 2 can be found on our Youtube as well as all video episodes moving forward!!!

As an apology we are releasing this Episode EARLY for you before Monday!

Summary

In this episode, the hosts discuss various topics related to military life, including exciting announcements about new merchandise and discounts, personal updates, and the challenges of navigating relationships during deployments. They share their experiences with basic training, offer advice for partners of military personnel, and reflect on the importance of patience and communication. The episode also features a humorous Reddit story that highlights the complexities of relationships.

Takeaways

The Padwives Essentials planner is designed for military spouses.
Adjusting to a partner's return from deployment can be challenging.
Communication and patience are key in military relationships.
Personal growth and self-care are important during transitions.
The hosts emphasize the importance of community support.
Experiences with basic training can vary significantly.
It's common to feel overwhelmed when partners return home.
The hosts share humorous anecdotes about their relationships.
Military life can lead to unexpected and humorous situations.
The importance of sharing experiences to help others feel understood.

Keywords

military life, relationships, deployments, basic training, personal growth, mental health, military spouses, podcast, community, support

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Season 2 Ep.1 - March in Madness! - The Wild, the Gross, the Unbelievable

Fri, 13 Sep 2024 20:45:37 GMT

Season 2 and Pad Wives Assemble is back but UNFILTERED. We are diving into some outrageous March in stories from Military Housing that will have you gasping, laughing and maybe even cringing. From shocking inspections to unexpected guests in the bathroom! We are pulling no punches in sharing the wildest tales from Military life.

This week we're also debuting a brand new cohost - Kirsha! Get ready for unfiltered takes and hilarious reactions as we break down the chaos.

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Ick of the Week

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Padcast Faves

No Limits, no filtere and absolutely no dull moments. Tune in, laugh along, and share your own outrageous housing and rental stories (not just Military!)

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