Piloting

100. How Do You Get Over a Plateau?

Wed, 09 Jul 2025 07:00:00 GMT

This week marks our 100th episode! In honor of making it to this milestone, we wanted to chat about something that comes up in every journey when piloting something new: plateaus. Whether in new relationships, fitness pursuits, professional development, or anything you’re trying for the first time, there’s a period when you eventually feel yourself stalling out, slowing down, or not moving forward.

In this week’s episode, we chat about:

- figuring out when to persist, rest, or try something new

- waiting for delayed results and giving things time to work

- the difference between hard work and something feeling hard

- strategies for overcoming plateaus

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Materialists: https://tickets.materialists.movie/

Spencer’s Spa: https://www.spencers.spa/

L.L.Bean Boat and Tote: https://www.llbean.com/llb/shop/33381

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99. What Trade-offs Are You Willing to Make to “Have It All”?

Wed, 02 Jul 2025 07:01:00 GMT

“You can have it all, but not all at the same time.” We’ve all heard that there are trade-offs we have to make to live our definition of “having it all” but it’s hard to sacrifice your sleep, time with loved ones, lucrative opportunities, and other things you want…even if it’s helping you achieve your goals.

In this week’s episode, we chat about:

- choosing your choice and aligning our trade-offs to our values

- feeling guilty about setting boundaries or saying no

- trying not to live in the past

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Piloting Episode 78. Do You Know Your Values (and Are You Living By Them)?: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Nq9idCfBupVckBVkbssgB

Buck Mason: https://www.buckmason.com/

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98. Is Making Your Job Part of Your Identity Always a Bad Thing?

Wed, 25 Jun 2025 07:01:00 GMT

We all know how toxic it can be when too much of your life and identity are tied to your job or the work you do. But is it always a bad thing to make work a part of your identity? Is there a healthy way to make work part of who you are without becoming a workaholic or burning out?

This week, we discuss:

- treating your job or career like a relationship

- finding work that aligns with your purpose/passion or discovering your purpose through work

- when your income traps you in a certain career or work

- getting friends outside of your industry

- whether making your life about work only for artists, entrepreneurs, and athletes

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

What Happens When Your Career Becomes Your Whole Identity: https://hbr.org/2019/12/what-happens-when-your-career-becomes-your-whole-identity

Marie Veronique Rejuvenating Night Oil / Extra Healing: https://www.marieveronique.com/products/rejuvenating-night-oil-extra-healing

Leila Hormozi YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@leilahormozi

Leila Hormozi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leilahormozi/

CoStar: https://www.costarastrology.com/

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97. What Do the Sunday Scaries Tell Us About Ourselves?

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 07:01:00 GMT

If you’ve never had the Sunday Scaries… we don’t believe you. Everyone has had that feeling of anxiety or dread the day before a work week starts. But why? And can we get rid of it?

We discuss:

- why we all have experienced the Sunday Scaries

- outsourcing chores and making time for fun as a remedy

- whether better time management is the solution

- investigating what our scaries are telling us we’re scared of

- which day of the week matches our personality

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Township (App Store): https://apps.apple.com/us/app/township/id638689075

LensCrafters: https://www.lenscrafters.com/

“5 Things I Had to Do to Stop Shrinking Myself” by Rachel Ama: https://www.instagram.com/p/DKNAaM9KtoG/

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96. What Does Executive Presence Mean Today?

Wed, 11 Jun 2025 07:01:00 GMT

What is executive presence? Most of us don’t think about it outside of professional development meetings at our jobs. But this week, we wanted to chat about what it means and how the definition of executive presence is changing.

We discuss:

- the 3 Cs of executive presence

- whether your gender means you have to follow different rules

- why we all need better emotional regulation

- how confidence and humility can strengthen your executive presence

- the new dress code for leaders

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

The New Rules of Executive Presence: https://hbr.org/2024/01/the-new-rules-of-executive-presence

The 3Cs of Executive Presence in Practice: Mastering Communication, Confidence, and Composure: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/3cs-executive-presence-practice-mastering-confidence-pedro-xwnbf/

Hack Your HR, How to Manage Emotions at Work: https://www.tiktok.com/@hackyourhr/video/7246951129043586346

Jeanelle Teves, CCO Bugaboo: https://www.instagram.com/jeanelleteves/

“S6 EP6: A Chat With Steve Madden” on The Cutting Room Floor podcast: https://www.patreon.com/posts/s6-ep6-chat-with-129477296

“There's No Such Thing as an Easy Job” by Kikuko Tsumura: https://www.amazon.com/Theres-Such-Thing-Easy-Job/dp/1635576911

What Women Wear • Street Style from Madrid: https://www.instagram.com/whatwomenwear_madrid/

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95. How Do You Pitch Yourself (or Your Business) Without Sounding Sales-y?

Wed, 04 Jun 2025 07:01:00 GMT

Pitching yourself gives many people the ick. It can feel strange to sell yourself, your ideas, or your product, especially if sales or business development isn’t formally in your job description. But, we all have to do it at some point in our lives, whether we work in retail or not…so we better learn how to get comfortable with it!

We discuss:

- how parents can prepare us from an early age to get comfortable

- the value of storytelling over transactional conversations

- prioritizing relationships over revenue

- dos and don’ts for successful sales

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

“Never Eat Alone: And Other Secrets to Success One Relationship at a Time” by Keith Ferrazzi: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/227558/never-eat-alone-expanded-and-updated-by-keith-ferrazzi-and-tahl-raz/

Cymbiotika Liposomal Glutathione: https://cymbiotika.com/products/glutathione

Shop App: https://shop.app

Ruby Ibarra, 2025 Tiny Desk Contest Winner: Tiny Desk Concert: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PcPS-21ZVMw

Co-Star: https://www.costarastrology.com/

“We Are What We Eat” by Alice Waters: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/598360/we-are-what-we-eat-by-alice-waters/

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94. Is Work-Life Balance Your Employer’s Responsibility or Your Own?

Wed, 28 May 2025 07:01:00 GMT

Emma Grede recently had a hot take that work-life balance is not your job’s responsibility. Many people thought it was a controversial opinion, but it made us think. What relationship do we need with work so we can also show up in our lives? That answer looks different for each of us, and at different moments of our lives. We believe our lives and our happiness are our responsibility…but that doesn’t mean employers are fully off the hook.

In this episode, we chat about:

- whether you can really balance work-life balance with ambition

- learning that balance rarely means 50-50

- moving from an employee mindset to an employer mindset

- better questions to ask in a job interview to suss out work-life balance

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Emma Grede on The Diary of a CEO: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdlXcVu1CTs

Michelle Obama on Good Hang with Amy Poehler: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dMmCb2hq1OA

WTHN: https://wthn.com/

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93. Book Club: “The Let Them Theory” by Mel Robbins

Wed, 21 May 2025 07:00:00 GMT

“The Let Them Theory” is the latest bestselling book by Mel Robbins, who is an award-winning podcast host, #1 New York Times bestselling author, and one of the world’s most respected experts in mindset, life improvement, and behavior change. “The Let Them Theory” is a step-by-step guide on how to stop letting other people's opinions, drama, and judgment impact your life.

We loved how the theory Mel describes in this book helps you free yourself from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. We’re all control freaks and this book is a great tool for anyone (like us) who’s learning to relinquish that.

In this episode, we chat about:

- why “let them” is not letting go

- pushing past negative opinions and disappointing people

- overcoming emotional overwhelm

- using this theory to navigate adult friendships, and support loved ones through change

- how to be more effective at nagging and influencing others

- & so much more!

In Mel’s words, “Let Them is strength. It’s releasing the grip you have on how things should go and allowing them to unfold the way they will go. You’re making an active, empowered choice to release control you never truly had.”

Mentioned in the episode:

“The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About” by Mel Robbins: https://www.melrobbins.com/book/the-let-them-theory/

Ampersand Fragrances: https://www.ampersandfragrances.com/

Who Gives a Crap: https://whogivesacrap.org/

Jules Acree’s Slow Brew Sunday newsletter: https://julesacree.kit.com/b9789442a2

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92. Are You Stuck Trying to be a “Good Girl” as an Adult?

Wed, 14 May 2025 07:01:00 GMT

This is a spicy one! For many of us who were taught to be “good girls” as children, we grew up learning prioritizing certain values that suppressed a lot of individual expression and experimentation. Now, as adults, we have to unlearn a lot of those habits to find balance and success. It’s a strange trap that many of us get stuck in and this week we’re unpacking that.

In this episode, we talk about:

- what it means to be a “good girl” vs. a good person

- why what we’re rewarded for as girls can hold you back as an adult

- birth order theory (hugs for other older daughters)

- being labeled “difficult” and why that’s triggering

- whether women police each other’s behaviors more than men

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Jeanelle Teves: https://www.instagram.com/jeanelleteves/

Fishwife: https://eatfishwife.com/

Euro Explores: https://www.instagram.com/europexplores/

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91. Are You Letting the Spotlight Effect Hold You Back?

Wed, 07 May 2025 07:00:00 GMT

The spotlight effect is a psychological phenomenon where we overestimate how much people are paying attention to us or judging our perceived shortcomings. Basically, it’s the reason we think everyone is obsessed with us, when they usually aren’t. Worse, it’s also preventing a lot of people from getting started on their piloting journeys.

This week, we chat about:

- why you’re probably not the main character in everyone else’s story

- the problem with letting your ego hold you back (go be cringe!)

- whether the spotlight effect gets better or worse with age

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

All Eyes on Us: The Spotlight Effect: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/parenting-neuroscience-perspective/202206/all-eyes-us-the-spotlight-effect

How To Embrace The Cringe And Start Posting Online: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/growclass_how-to-embrace-the-cringe-activity-7320909772868722690-jvSy/

“Prep” by Curtis Sittenfeld: https://curtissittenfeld.com/books/prep

Alex Friedman's Ordinary Genius newsletter: https://www.ordinarygenius.com/

“Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships” by Nedra Glover Tawwab: https://www.nedratawwab.com/drama-free

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90. Is Consistency Always Better Than Intensity?

Wed, 30 Apr 2025 07:01:00 GMT

The common wisdom is that we should always choose consistency over intensity, but is that always the best advice? We value consistency – and both want to work on this personally – but sometimes there are moments or activities that require a more intense approach or sprint to the finish.

This week, we chat about:

- how sustainable an intensity-minded approach really is

- whether people are naturally inclined to be better at consistency or intensity

- navigating consistency vs. intensity in relationships and teams

- & many running and fitness metaphors!

Mentioned in the episode:

Simon Sinek on Intensity vs Consistency: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5OV3RmXhbg

Judy's Family Cafe Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judysfamilycafe/

I Tried the 10-10 Decluttering Method — and I've Never Felt so Productive: https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/home/organizing/a64434102/10-10-decluttering-method/

“Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships” by Nedra Glover Tawwab: https://www.nedratawwab.com/drama-free

Mattie James: https://www.instagram.com/themattiejames/

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89. Are You Making Progress or Getting Stuck In the Process?

Wed, 23 Apr 2025 07:00:00 GMT

Have you ever found yourself busy working on a project but having nothing to show for it at the end of the week? Guilty. Many of us can easily get caught in a loop of systems, checklists, and processes only to realize we’re not actually moving forward. It can be hard to tell when to dedicate more time to planning and setup and when to prioritize doing the work (and refining as you go).

To figure this out, we discuss:

- Questions to ask yourself when deciding whether to focus on progress or process

- When overprocessing is a mask for perfectionism and procrastination

- The luxury of anonymity and making progress when no one’s watching

- Using challenges to create momentum and actually get things done

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Roadbook: https://roadbook.com/

Roadbook Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/roadbook/

Sinners: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31193180/

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88. How Do You Stay Motivated and Push Through Fatigue?

Wed, 16 Apr 2025 07:01:00 GMT

We’ve all hit periods when the honeymoon is over or you’ve hit a plateau and you’re too fatigued to keep the momentum going. It’s a familiar feeling of being tired or lacking motivation—whether it’s a professional or personal pursuit.

To get out of these ruts, we discuss:

- recognizing the different types of exhaustion (from overwhelm to boredom)

- why overindulgence and deprioritizing self-care aren’t a long-term fix

- tips for redirecting restlessness into something energizing that you can use

- knowing when to take a break or push through

- and whether we prefer to eat the frog or use the snowball method to actually get things done

Mentioned in the episode:

Nine Strategies To Push Past Fatigue And Accomplish Your Goals Each Day: https://www.forbes.com/councils/theyec/2021/06/01/nine-strategies-to-push-past-fatigue-and-accomplish-your-goals-each-day/

Adolescence: https://www.netflix.com/watch/81763204

How to Make Millions Before Grandma Dies: https://www.netflix.com/watch/81786970

“Tell Me Everything” by Minka Kelly: https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250852069/tellmeeverything/

Agent Nateur Calm (Beauty) Spermidine & Taurine Daily Supplement: https://www.agentnateur.com/products/calm-beauty-spermidine-taurine-daily-supplement

BIOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough Supplement: https://bioptimizers.com/shop/products/magnesium-breakthrough

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87. Are You Feeling Ready for a Potential Recession?

Wed, 09 Apr 2025 07:01:00 GMT

Here we go again! The word on everyone’s lips right now around jobs and money is recession. Whether this is your first recession or you’ve been through this rodeo many times, now is a good time to start thinking about readying your money and reading all the “recession-proof your career” articles.

We chat about:

- not making all decisions from a place of fear

- why this could be a great time to make bold career/life decisions

- passive vs. proactive approaches to financial preparation

- leaning into community and avoiding isolation

- and more!

Reminder: We are not financial advisors so take our commentary with a grain of salt and consult an advisor before making any money moves!

Mentioned in the episode:

Is the U.S. Heading Into a Recession Amid Trump’s Tariffs?: https://time.com/7274531/trump-tariffs-is-the-us-heading-into-a-recession-stock-market-fears/

“How to Recession Proof Your Finances” by One Big Happy Life YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tf2-gkXtsFs

Monica Razak YouTube: https://youtube.com/@monicarazak

Kat Stickler on Low Maintenance Friends (TikTok): https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTj1Rjo2X/

MOFT: https://www.moft.us/

Prevention: https://www.prevention.com/

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86. Why Are Micro-Retirements So Popular Lately?

Wed, 02 Apr 2025 07:01:00 GMT

Whether you call it a micro-retirement or a sabbatical or funemployment, the idea of taking a period of not working (or scaling back work) in the middle of your career isn’t something new. We’re all likely to be working longer, and living longer, so waiting until 65 to formally retire and enjoy your life doesn’t feel like a guarantee the way it did for our parents’ or grandparents’ generation. Renée has taken one and highly recommends a break for anyone who can fit it into their budget and lifestyle.

This week, we discuss:

- planning your micro-retirement or career break

- if forced unemployment (like a layoff or firing) counts?

- using the break to relieve burnout, pursue passion projects, or pivot careers

- building a balanced life/career where you don’t need breaks

- and so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Burned-out Workers are Considering 'Micro-retirement.' Here's What It Is and How to Do It Successfully: https://www.businessinsider.com/what-is-micro-retirement-burn-out-work-sabbatical-2024-12

You’re Going to Work a Long Time. Here’s How to Build in Breaks: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/12/11/your-money/work-time-out-career-longevity.html

@brianluebben TikTok on Micro-Retirement: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2TVQfD3/

‘Micro-Retirement’: The New Career Trend Rising Among Gen Z: https://www.forbes.com/sites/bryanrobinson/2025/01/29/micro-retirement-the-new-career-trend-rising-among-gen-z/

Data Shows Retirement’s Negative Effect on Mortality Rates: https://business.purdue.edu/news/features/2022/retirement.php

The WonderMart: https://www.thewondermart.shop/

OPI Put It In Neutral: https://www.opi.com/products/nail-lacquer-put-it-in-neutral

Pamela Anderson Substack: https://pamelaanderson.substack.com/

“How to Move With Fear in Life & Business” by Glo Atanmo: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyMU3JHDzOc

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85. Is Severance Between Our Work and Personal Life a Good Idea? (No Spoilers!)

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 07:00:00 GMT

Like many people, we are huge fans of the hit Apple TV+ show Severance. It’s very bingeable and made us think about our own POVs on compartmentalizing our work and career from the rest of our lives. Is focusing entirely on productivity at the office and then never bringing work home a sign of good work-life balance, or are there downsides to mentally writing off huge chunks of your day?

This week, we’re doing something different with a TV episode to chat about some of the show’s themes—we promise no spoilers!— and discuss:

- if we’d choose severance

- whether “bringing your whole self” to work is ever a good idea

- embracing the many roles we play in life vs. limiting ourselves to one identity

- how similar our innies and outies would be

- and much more! (#PraiseKier)

Mentioned in the episode:

Severance: https://tv.apple.com/us/show/severance/umc.cmc.1srk2goyh2q2zdxcx605w8vtx

‘Severance’ Is Officially Apple TV+’s Most Popular Show Ever: https://www.forbes.com/sites/dimitarmixmihov/2025/02/19/severance-is-officially-apple-tvs-most-popular-show-ever/

Call Her Daddy’s “Ellen Pompeo: Pick Me, Choose Me, Pay Me More”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jex1tGfWpno

“The Work You Do, the Person You Are” by Toni Morrison: https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/06/05/toni-morrison-the-work-you-do-the-person-you-are

Buffy Neck Pain Relief Pillow: https://buffy.co/products/neck-pain-relief-pillow

Danny & Coop’s Cheesesteaks: https://www.instagram.com/dannyandcoops/

Perfect Days: https://www.hulu.com/movie/a68e2d56-eeb8-44f3-baaa-3ddb850bb67b

We the Urban x Doechii: https://www.instagram.com/wetheurban/p/DHjJJvGvk7P/

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84. What If Haters Are a Sign You’re on the Right Path?

Wed, 19 Mar 2025 07:01:00 GMT

Whether you live in the public eye or a more private life, sometimes the things we do or even just the way we exist in the world ruffles some feathers. It can feel like the more we’re doing big things or growing in popularity or visibility, the more we attract unwanted (and unwarranted) hate – especially for women. But the tradeoff is silencing yourself and not leaning into your greatness…so we say, push through the criticism and do it anyway!

This week, we get into:

- the “crabs in a bucket” mentality

- pushing through the fear of standing out

- filtering the noise to find constructive criticism

- & much more

Mentioned in the episode:

Trashie: https://www.trashie.io/

Trashie, How We Recycle Textiles: https://www.trashie.io/how-we-recycle-textiles-tbb

TJ Maxx: https://tjmaxx.tjx.com

Myleik Teele Threads: https://www.threads.net/@myleik

Brianna Wiest Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/briannawiest/

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83. How Do You Build A Good Night Routine?

Wed, 12 Mar 2025 07:00:00 GMT

We’re back with a Part 2 to last week’s episode! This week, we’re talking about building good night routines, because what we do the night before sets us up for a better day.

We get into:

- our ideal nighttime routines

- our favorite tools and purchases for a better wind down or sleep routine

- how poor evening habits impact our performance

- and so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Kasa: https://www.kasasmart.com/

Hatch Alarm: https://www.hatch.co/

SILKE Londn: https://www.silkelondon.com/

CNP Laboratory Propolis Lipcerin (Honey Lip Butter): https://www.amazon.com/CNP-Honey-Butter-fl-oz-15ml/dp/B0CZXG68J4/

Fluff and Tuff: https://fluffandtuff.com/

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82. How Do You Build a Great Morning Routine?

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 08:01:00 GMT

Rise and shine! This week, we’re discussing morning routines and how to build a morning program that sets us up to have a good day so we can live our best lives. We both believe it’s important to carve out time for self-care to pour into yourself so you’re not rolling out of bed and immediately into a meeting or emails.

We chat about:

- comparing our mornings to the aesthetic routines on social media

- routines vs. rituals to kickstart the day

- some of our favorite ideal AM habits

- finding and using your chronotype to build a morning schedule

- & much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

The Morning Routines of Successful People: https://www.wework.com/ideas/professional-development/management-leadership/the-morning-routines-of-successful-people

“The 5AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life.” by Robin Sharma: https://www.robinsharma.com/books/the-5am-club

Chronoquiz: What’s Your Chronotype?: https://sleepdoctor.com/sleep-quizzes/chronotype-quiz

“The Power of When: Discover Your Chronotype--and the Best Time to Eat Lunch, Ask for a Raise, Have Sex, Write a Novel, Take Your Meds, and More” by Dr. Michael Breus: https://sleepdoctor.com/books

Millie Bobby Brown Instagram Reel on Media Scrutiny & Bullying: https://www.instagram.com/p/DGwZgLXSJuH/

With Love, Meghan: https://www.netflix.com/title/81770808

Reclaiming with Monica Lewinsky: https://wondery.com/shows/reclaiming-with-monica-lewinsky/

Baboon to the Moon TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT29ctGcg/

Baboon to the Moon: https://baboontothemoon.com/

Rose Han: https://rosehan.com/

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81. Book Club: “Be Ready When the Luck Happens” by Ina Garten

Wed, 26 Feb 2025 08:01:00 GMT

Ina Garten – aka the Barefoot Contessa – is the author of “Be Ready When The Luck Happens: A Memoir” (along with 13 New York Times bestselling cookbooks), a beloved Food Network personality, Instagram sensation, and cultural icon. This was a slightly different book club pick for us, and we loved it! Ina’s memoir not only has an incredible, eye-catching title, but it’s full of life lessons and business advice about productivity, hard work, and love hidden in many charming anecdotes and stories.

For this book club chat, we dove into:

- her unique career path and willingness to start something new (at any age)

- having the right partner(s) to believe in and support you

- the importance of trying many things to figure out what feels right

- our favorite life and career lessons from Ina’s journey

- and so much more!

As Ina says, “You never know your good breaks from your bad ones.”

Mentioned in the episode:

“Be Ready When the Luck Happens” by Ina Garten: https://barefootcontessa.com/books/be-ready-when-the-luck-happens

Heather McMahan Does Ina Garten: https://www.instagram.com/heatherkmcmahan/tv/B976Ro1J1qP/

Ina Garten Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inagarten

The Oprah Podcast with Ina Garten: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKs-2qufe80

SmashingGold: https://www.instagram.com/smashinggold/

MAED Beauty: https://www.maedbeauty.com

Raven Ross Instagram Reel on “What You’re Not Changing, You’re Choosing”: https://www.instagram.com/p/DGYeEWZxKul/

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80. Why Is Everyone Talking About Upskilling?

Wed, 19 Feb 2025 08:00:00 GMT

Upskilling is the hot word in the professional world lately. Whether you are looking to layoff-proof your job, or simply eager to attract more money, clients, and opportunities, it’s never a bad idea to continue growing your skills. As self-professed lifelong learners, we decided to hop on the mic to discuss what areas we want to level up in this year.

We get into:

- hard skills vs. soft skills

- whether everyone needs to learn AI

- growing your skills with online courses, on nonprofit boards, or at your company

- some of the classes and trainings we’re exploring this year

- and great advice from Your Rich BFF, Shonda Rhimes, and more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Vivian Tu (Your Rich BFF): https://www.yourrichbff.com/

Harvard Business School Online YouTube “How to Upskill in 2024 to Advance Your Career”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WeAyYWkfwU&t=1627s

How Gen Z Is Becoming the Toolbelt Generation: https://www.wsj.com/lifestyle/careers/gen-z-trades-jobs-plumbing-welding-a76b5e43

Google Cloud – Machine Learning and Artificial Intelligence: https://cloud.google.com/learn/training/machinelearning-ai

SkillPop: https://www.skillpop.com/

Shonda Rhimes on Her Most Important Rules of Negotiating: https://www.wsj.com/articles/shonda-rhimes-on-her-most-important-rules-of-negotiating-11647865638

Suri: https://www.trysuri.com

Perfectly Imperfect (PI): https://www.pi.fyi/

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79. Are You Living Life In a Velvet Coffin (and Are You Ready To Get Out)?

Wed, 12 Feb 2025 08:01:00 GMT

Suzy Welch is a Professor of Management Practice at the NYU Stern School of Business, a business journalist, and best-selling author who coined the Velvet Coffin theory. This theory describes how waiting to change a job or life that’s comfortable – but not your big dream – puts you in a metaphorical “velvet coffin” with a lid that slowly closes and traps you. Yikes!

Our conversation dives into:

- the difference between comfort, contentment, and complacency

- how this shows up for people who aren’t career-driven

- understanding what drives you and clearly defining your dream(s)

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Suzy Welch Instagram Reel on Velvet Coffin Theory: https://www.instagram.com/suzywelch/reel/C7t9gxducS8/

Suzy Welch LinkedIn Post “Happy at Work? Beware The Velvet Coffin”: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/happy-work-beware-velvet-coffin-suzy-welch/

Suzy Welch YouTube Short “Is Your Comfortable Life Holding You Back?”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIKJACJsuUk

“You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your Direction, and Design Your Dream Career” by Ashley Stahl: https://www.ashleystahl.com/you-turn/

Escaping the Velvet Coffin: 6 Steps to Help You Decide if It’s Time To Leave: https://gavinadams.com/escaping-the-velvet-coffin-6-steps-to-help-you-decide-if-its-time-to-leave/

Broadway Week: https://www.nyctourism.com/broadway-week/

Sunnies Studios: https://sunniesstudios.com/

“Working Hard, Hardly Working” Podcast Episode: “Watch This If You’re Feeling Stuck (In Your Life, Career or Relationship) with Sahil Bloom”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtRCKfNi_KU

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78. Do You Know Your Values (and Are You Living By Them)?

Wed, 05 Feb 2025 08:01:00 GMT

We’re back! After a quick catch-up on what we’ve been up to during our hiatus, we kick off our first new episode of the year with a conversation on values – our personal compass that guides us toward what’s important to us.

We chat about:

- Some of Melissa and Renée’s core values

- Surrounding yourself with people who share or complement your values

- What happens to us when we’re living out of alignment with our values

- Questions and tools to help discover your values

- Navigating tough conversations in defense of your values

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Brené Brown “Living Into Your Values” Exercise: https://brenebrown.com/resources/living-into-our-values/

@monicadcost on TikTok, “Romantic Relationships & Core Values: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2MUPM7s/

Piloting Ep 55: “How Did a Career in HR Prepare Me to Become a Dating Coach? with Erica Laws, Founder of Laws of Attraction”: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7dUmdvVXb35honJ91RobVS

VIA Institute Character Assessment: https://www.viacharacter.org/

The Meaning of Personal Values and How They Impact Your Life: https://www.betterup.com/blog/meaning-of-personal-values

Substack: https://substack.com/

Aki & Koichi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/akiandkoichi/

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We’re coming back in February!

Wed, 29 Jan 2025 08:01:00 GMT

Don’t call it a comeback – or do! We’ve got some exciting news about when we’ll start dropping new episodes again. Hope you’re as excited as we are!

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Out of Office: Piloting is On a Holiday Break Until January 2025!

Wed, 23 Oct 2024 07:01:28 GMT

Hi everyone! This week, instead of an episode, we’re bringing you a brief announcement about some upcoming PTO for the podcast for the holiday season. We’ll be back in January 2025!

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77. Is Being an Overachiever Overrated?

Wed, 16 Oct 2024 07:01:43 GMT

Many people (including us) proudly wear the label of overachiever and enjoy being the kind of people to go above and beyond – in work and in other parts of life. But that’s not always a good thing. Sometimes, it can actually create more problems than it solves.

This week, we unravel the downsides of being an overachiever, including:

- the challenge of setting unrealistic (and unsustainable) expectations about your capacity

- knowing where to put your extra energy and effort

- the pros and cons of overperforming during your first 30/60/90 days on the job

- the difference between being a high achiever and an overachiever

- why it doesn’t have to be lonely at the top, if you build the right support network

- many, many automobile metaphors

Remember, “You can’t spell career without car.”

PS - 1.80 seconds is the fastest F1 pit stop record.

Mentioned in the episode:

“Set Boundaries, Find Peace” by Nedra Glover Tawwab: https://www.nedratawwab.com/set-boundaries-find-peace

Clare V.: https://www.clarev.com/

Alice in Borderland: https://www.netflix.com/title/80200575

Candice Brathwaite Instagram Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_qUhEBsRB3/

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76. Is Being Competitive Really So Bad?

Wed, 09 Oct 2024 07:00:49 GMT

We often hear that we should choose collaboration over competition, but we think there’s a lot of positives that come from competition. A healthy relationship with competition can actually create community when done right – plus, we think everyone deserves to know what it feels like to be a winner.

We discuss:

- whether we identify as “competitive” people

- learning from negative emotions like jealousy

- why it’s sometimes harder for women to be seen chasing wins

- raising kids with a healthy relationship with competition

- group project trauma

- & much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

“The Rural Diaries” by Hilarie Burton Morgan: https://themischieffarm.com/the-rural-diaries/

“Dinner for Vampires” by Bethany Joy Lenz: https://www.amazon.com/Dinner-Vampires-Life-While-Actual/dp/1668067307

“Working Hard, Hardly Working” Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@Grace-Beverley

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75. Is Money Keeping You Stuck on Autopilot?

Wed, 02 Oct 2024 07:00:25 GMT

It might be a taboo topic for some, but this week we’re talking about money. Specifically, how money can hold us back or set us free when we’re trying to chase our dreams and the lives we want. We chat about how money can bring up feelings of shame or anxiety, how we can use it to motivate us, why it’s normal to go through seasons of ups and downs with your financial wellness, and why sometimes you can’t put a price on happiness or peace of mind.

Also, we are not financial professionals and we don’t give any money advice. So please fact check any recommendations we may share. Except to treat yourself! We stand ten toes down on that piece of advice.

Mentioned in the episode:

“Necessary Endings” by Dr. Henry Cloud: https://www.drcloud.com/books/necessary-endings

Brown Ambition: https://brownambitionpodcast.com/

HerMoney: https://hermoney.com/

BiggerPockets: https://www.biggerpockets.com/

Your Rich BFF: https://www.yourrichbff.com/

Tori Dunlap, Her First 100k: https://herfirst100k.com/

Mrs. Dow Jones: https://www.mrsdowjones.com/

The Budget Mom: https://www.thebudgetmom.com/

Delyanne the Money Coach: https://delyannethemoneycoach.com/

Wine to Water: https://www.wtw.org/

World Central Kitchen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wckitchen/

Nobody Wants This: https://www.netflix.com/title/81591296

Myleik Teele Instagram Post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DAgZpWgOovv/

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74. Do You Make Time to Be Silly and Play Everyday?

Wed, 25 Sep 2024 07:00:23 GMT

There’s no shortage of seriousness in our lives, especially when you’re adulting and dealing with things like finances, work, and all of our many responsibilities – but being silly and making moments for play is important. We don’t think we should lose or forget that, no matter what age.

So this week, we’re talking about reconnecting with our younger, playful selves, including:

- what play means to us, and how it changes over time

- the difference between venting and being a chronic complainer

- the importance of being a beginner, getting outside, and laughter

- surrounding yourself with the right people, including kids and animals

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Moo Deng Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/khamoo.andthegang

Outdoor Chef Life: https://www.youtube.com/c/OutdoorChefLife

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73. Is It Important for Everyone to Try a Corporate Job At Least Once?

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 07:00:09 GMT

We’re often taught in school to aspire to work in Corporate America if we want to achieve professional and financial success. But should we still put a corporate career on a pedestal in 2024 as the only (or most guaranteed path) to getting what we want out of our work lives? Do we all need to experience a corporate job at least once in our working lives?

Our hosts argue opposite sides of the coin – for and against needing a corporate girl era. In this episode, we get into the pros and cons of corporate jobs, why we should be encouraged to celebrate alternate paths to success, how to get the best benefits, and more!

Mentioned in the episode:

“Everybody’s Free (To Wear Sunscreen)” by Baz Luhrmann: https://genius.com/Baz-luhrmann-everybodys-free-to-wear-sunscreen-lyrics

Welcome to a New Era of Work: The Portfolio Career: https://www.businessinsider.com/what-is-portfolio-career-pros-cons-income-streams-side-hustles-2024-9

Apotheke: https://apothekeco.com

John Oliver’s Emmy Speech: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JC8Xf1lOEsc

Bloom and Build Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bloom_and_build_/

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72. Book Club: “Burnout” by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski

Wed, 11 Sep 2024 07:00:00 GMT

The New York Times bestseller, “Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle,” is for women (or anyone) who has felt overwhelmed and exhausted by everything they have to do, yet still worried they weren’t doing enough. The book explains why women experience burnout differently than men—and provides a roadmap to minimizing stress, managing emotions, and living more joyfully.

For this book club episode, we dive into our own experiences with burnout and research from the book, including:

- the definition of burnout

- dealing with stress vs. dealing with stressors

- prioritizing physical activity, a good cry, affection, and positive social interactions

- the importance of finding meaning and “something larger” in life

- why we should spend 42% of our day resting

- knowing when to exploit your current situation or explore new options

- navigating compassion fatigue

- why healing sometimes hurts

- & so much more!

As the Nagoski sisters remind us, “Wellness is not a state of being but a state of action.” We think this book has many good practices and actions to take to prevent and manage burnout.

Mentioned in the episode:

“Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle” by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski: https://www.burnoutbook.net/

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives: https://www.hulu.com/series/the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-58cd73be-408d-4eed-8e3d-82339f3f93e2

Seatopia: https://seatopia.fish/

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71. Why Are Some of Us Still Not Taking PTO?

Wed, 04 Sep 2024 07:00:55 GMT

Few things in life feel better than clocking out, turning on your Out of Office email responder, and knowing you’re taking time off work. Whether it’s a luxurious vacation or laidback staycation, taking time off is good for your health and your company, but many of us (especially Americans) are reluctant to take those days off – even when they’re paid!

This week, we get into:

- the reasons we’re afraid to take time off from work

- why it’s important for your well-being (and productivity)

- the pros and cons of unlimited time off policies

- how to reduce anxiety around taking days off

- building in time off as a solopreneur

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Americans Take the Fewest Vacation Days In the World: https://qz.com/america-vacation-days-pto-europe-japan-pto-1851552822

Arpitha Kowtal: https://www.instagram.com/storiesbytwoplusone

Contagious Confidence Podcast: Confidence in Your 30s with Melissa Vega-Magbitang, Podcast Host & Brand and Social Media Strategist: https://open.spotify.com/episode/340NJ4sK40l31EI5F0GcoJ

Franchesca Ramsey “Don’t Knit a Sweater” TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@franchesca_leigh/video/7389333394062249262

Yogi Tea: https://www.yogi-life.com/

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70. Do We Give Up On Our Dreams Too Easily?

Wed, 28 Aug 2024 07:00:07 GMT

“Keep your eye on the prize.” “Go after what you want.” We’ve all heard these maxims encouraging us to persevere, be resilient, and chase our dreams. But how do you know it’s time to give up the race and stop chasing? This week, we’re unpacking this tough question (and all the emotions that come with it).

We’re diving into:

- giving yourself permission to chase new dreams or change your mind

- avoiding a life of regret

- understanding triggers and flickers

- playing the numbers game and creating your own luck

- the difference between “giving up” and realizing it’s time to move on

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Maido: https://maidoonline.com/

Why 95% of People Never Achieve Their Dreams and How to Be in the 5%: https://medium.com/@mariastepanova7/why-95-of-people-never-achieve-their-dreams-and-how-to-be-in-the-5-d35d6e0a9b20

Oprah Winfrey on The Daily Show on “Knowing Where You Want To Go” (5:20 mark): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_kMOVS1qY8

Emily in Paris: https://www.netflix.com/title/81037371

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69. Do You Know the Rules for Professional Communications?

Wed, 21 Aug 2024 07:00:55 GMT

Maybe it’s because we both work in communications fields, but we believe that good communication is the foundation of a happy workplace! Whether you’re moving into a new industry or working with a partner or customer who’s a little more formal, we think it’s important to know some of the fundamental dos & don’ts of professional communications to avoid misunderstandings and leave a good impression.

A few of the rules we discuss include:

- what should (and should NOT) be put in writing

- the importance of a timely and thoughtful thank you note

- body language on video calls

- when sarcasm is appropriate

- punctuation triggers

- confrontation without conflict

- talking about sex, politics, and religion

- oversharing and office gossip

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Baggu: https://www.baggu.com

When the Moon Hatched by Sarah A. Parker: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/when-the-moon-hatched-sarah-a-parker

Connie Conpoint Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C-L0tzAxwSA/

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68. Is It Time To Start Outsourcing? with Rachel Meyer, Founder of Botanical Bones

Wed, 14 Aug 2024 07:00:00 GMT

Rachel Meyer is the founder of Botanical Bones, which is celebrating its four-year anniversary this month. Botanical Bones is a small business based in Asheville, NC that creates dog treats made with the same healthy, nourishing ingredients many of us use in our own wellness routines, such as adaptogens, superfoods, and organic ingredients.

This episode, Rachel shares the backstory on starting and growing her business – inspired after she adopted a pandemic puppy – and all the lessons she’s learned along the way. She discusses:

- pivoting from wantrepreneur to entrepreneur

- reentering the workforce after a prolonged absence

- why all of business is just problem solving

- balancing your energy and stress as a business owner

- developing a profit-first mindset

- the best business decision she’s made so far

- learning what to outsource to help your business grow

- figuring out wholesaling

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Botanical Bones: https://botanicalbones.com

Botanical Bones Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/botanicalbonesco/

Faire: https://www.faire.com

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67. How Do We Foster a Beginner's Mindset?

Wed, 07 Aug 2024 07:00:49 GMT

Our podcast is all about celebrating fresh starts, or piloting journeys, and sometimes part of trying something new or starting over is learning to be a beginner again. Whether you’re picking up a new hobby or career, or just trying to stay at the top of your game for something you’ve been doing for years, having a beginner’s mindset is crucial.

We discuss:

- leading with curiosity and an open mind

- getting comfortable trying new things and failing

- the pitfalls of overpreparation

- the Japanese concept of “shoshin”

- tips for maintaining a beginner’s mindset

- balancing confidence and ego when you’re already an “expert”

- finding a “beginner buddy”

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

“Just Kids” by Patti Smith: https://www.amazon.com/Just-Kids-Patti-Smith/dp/0060936223

How to Foster ‘Shoshin’: https://psyche.co/guides/how-to-cultivate-shoshin-or-a-beginners-mind

“The Creative Act” by Rick Rubin: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/717356/the-creative-act-by-rick-rubin/

Othership: https://www.othership.us/

Branwyn: http://rwrd.io/ixm51sl?c

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66. What Does It Mean to Be a Creative Person?

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 07:01:56 GMT

We all appreciate the fruits of others’ creative endeavors, but not everyone feels comfortable identifying as creative. And that’s a shame because we believe that everyone can be creative – whether you work in art or nuclear physics. Creativity impacts everything from your personal fulfillment and professional development to even your physical health. This week we’re chatting about how to bring more creativity into your life – and how to keep the creative juices flowing!

Our conversation covers everything from:

- why creativity isn’t only reserved for “artists”

- the importance of choosing curiosity over fear

- tips for cultivating creativity if you’re feeling uninspired or uncreative

- why we admire self-starters, disruptors, and multi-hyphenates

- the downfalls of tying your creativity solely to commerce

- navigating decision fatigue

- having the right routines and systems

- being the right physical environments, and with the right people

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

“Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear” by Elizbeth Gilbert: https://www.elizabethgilbert.com/books/big-magic/

Piloting Ep 52 “Book Club: “The Creative Act” by Rick Rubin”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/52-book-club-the-creative-act-by-rick-rubin/id1686279759?i=1000653427385

Working Genius Assessment: https://www.workinggenius.com/

“Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver” by Mary Oliver: https://www.amazon.com/Devotions-Selected-Poems-Mary-Oliver/dp/0399563245

Cloth & Paper: https://www.clothandpaper.com

Suzy Welch’s Instagram about the Velvet Coffin: https://www.instagram.com/p/C8XLCuEOdEl/

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65. Book Club: “Master of Change” by Brad Stulberg

Wed, 24 Jul 2024 07:01:06 GMT

Brad Stulberg is a sustainable excellence expert, coach and bestselling author. Brad’s books have collectively sold more than 500,000 copies in 20 languages to help people attain their full potential.

“Master of Change” is his latest book that introduces the concept of rugged flexibility, which promotes a combination of toughness and a willingness to bend without breaking, allowing you to not only withstand change but thrive in its midst. We unpack what this means and also chat about:

- why it’s important to learn how to “master” change

- the pros and cons of tragic optimism

- being picky about what you allow to throw you off-kilter

- the positive power of venting your frustration

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

“Master of Change: How to Excel When Everything Is Changing – Including You” by Brad Stulberg: https://www.amazon.com/Master-Change-Everything-Changing-Including/dp/006325316X/

Brad Stuhlberg: https://www.bradstulberg.com

Piloting Ep 46: “Book Club: “Feel-Good Productivity” by Ali Abdaal”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/46-book-club-feel-good-productivity-by-ali-abdaal/id1686279759?i=1000649044162

Dinnerly: https://dinnerly.com/v/REF-W--P3E2D8DE-20240723

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“Angel of My Dreams” by JADE: https://open.spotify.com/album/6Wf3fqCoGcOYah2lTcwyAA

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64. What are Your Must-Haves for the Optimal Workspace?

Wed, 17 Jul 2024 07:01:59 GMT

We often talk a lot about how we work, finding passion and balance in work, and why we value hard work. But, this week, we want to talk about where we work – specifically the workspace and environment that helps us feel most comfortable, creative, and productive!

We cover everything from:

- The downsides of too much desk clutter

- Must-have investments for your workspace (from furniture to accessories to tech)

- Our passion for ergonomics and standing desks

- How much personalization we like in our office decor

- Who works better from a home office vs. remotely from a coffee shop/airport

- Why a whiteboard or dry-erase board is a MUST

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Fully Standing Desk: https://store.hermanmiller.com/brands-fully

Melissa’s Travel Friendly Laptop Stand: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08RXT68RG/

Cushion Lab Pressure Relief Seat Cushion: https://thecushionlab.com/products/ergonomic-seat-cushion

Cushion Lab Back Relief Lumbar Pillow: https://thecushionlab.com/products/the-ergonomic-lumbar-pillow

Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Premium Noise Canceling Headphones: https://electronics.sony.com/audio/headphones/headband/p/wh1000xm4-s

BIOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough: https://bioptimizers.com/shop/products/magnesium-breakthrough

“getting out of survival mode.” by for the healthy hoes. podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/forthehealthyhoes/episodes/getting-out-of-survival-mode-e2l0cv0

“The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing” by Marie Kondō: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/240981/the-life-changing-magic-of-tidying-up-by-marie-kondo/

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63. How Do I Turn a Love of Beauty Into a Brick and Mortar Business? with Esthetician & Skincare Studio Owner Lizzie Hanes

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 07:01:59 GMT

Lizzie Hanes is an esthetician and the owner of Lizzie Hanes skincare studio in Raleigh, North Carolina. Her journey to finding her career took her from pre-med to midwifery and customer service at a beauty brand before finally landing on esthetics.

Lizzie shares her entrepreneurial journey and lessons about growing a business, including:

- Juggling both a full-time job and esthetics night school

- Working inside mega beauty brand Glossier

- Creating your own opportunities – including training with Joelle Ciocco in Paris

- Building a client base in Raleigh after leaving New York City

- Partnering with other small businesses to generate word-of-mouth marketing

- Hiring early and why you need to stop overthinking and get started

- & so much more!

Tune in for practical tips on starting and growing a brick-and-mortar business… and some fun summer skincare tips as well!

Mentioned in the episode:

Lizzie Hanes: www.lizziehanes.com

Lizzie Hanes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzie_hanes/

Joelle Ciocco: https://www.joelle-ciocco.com/

Sofie Povitt Face: https://www.sofiepavittface.com/

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62. Is Playing It Safe More Dangerous Than Taking Risks?

Wed, 03 Jul 2024 07:01:45 GMT

It’s human nature to appreciate security and stability, but can you have too much of a good thing? Is playing it safe more dangerous than taking risks?

We chatted about several things this week, including:

- Our personal comfort levels with risks and change

- Navigating risks as a fun-chaser or Type A personality

- How playing it safe gives you a FALSE sense of control and limits your growth

- Red flags that show you’ve been playing it too safe

- Ignoring people who try to anchor you too tightly to safety

- Being a challenger of the status quo

- Several questionable metaphors about cars…poker…

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Cassetto Club: https://thecassetto.com

Inside Out 2: https://movies.disney.com/inside-out-2

2024 Commencement Address by Roger Federer: https://home.dartmouth.edu/news/2024/06/2024-commencement-address-roger-federer

We The Urban: https://www.instagram.com/p/C82cCx5TtR-/?img_index=3

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61. Should You Chase a Dream Job or Find a Job that Fits Your Dream Life?

Wed, 26 Jun 2024 07:01:47 GMT

We’ve all heard the saying, “If you love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life.” But is chasing a job you love always the best path for everyone? Can you achieve as much, if not more, fulfillment by chasing a dream life instead? And what are the trade-offs of prioritizing one over the other?

This week, we discuss all of these questions, along with:

- The difference between loving and obsessing over work

- How to fall in love (or like) with your job

- Learning to compromise and grieve the paths you didn’t take

- Owning your choices (so the choice isn’t made for you!)

- Why it’s a privilege to decide what you do

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Hunter S. Thompson’s Letter on Finding Your Purpose and Living a Meaningful Life: https://fs.blog/hunter-s-thompson-to-hume-logan

Piloting Ep 55: “How Did a Career in HR Prepare Me to Become a Dating Coach? with Erica Laws, Founder of Laws of Attraction”: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7dUmdvVXb35honJ91RobVS

Is It Cake? (Netflix): https://www.netflix.com/title/81333845

Violette_FR: https://www.violettefr.com

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60. Why Is It So Hard to Have Tough Conversations?

Wed, 19 Jun 2024 07:01:08 GMT

You’ve got a host chit-chat with just Renée and Melissa this week! Today, we’re having a fun time talking about tough conversations: why they’re difficult, getting more comfortable with them, and how avoiding them can keep you stuck on autopilot and further away from your goals.

We’re sharing some personal anecdotes and advice from professionals (because we need it) on:

- How avoiding tough conversations is harmful to your health

- The 4Ds for navigating difficult convos: discover, define, discuss, decide

- Whether using a timer can stop the discourse from derailing

- Why we all just want to be heard and acknowledged

- The pros and cons of a random “Hey, can we talk?”

- Which people in our lives are the hardest to broach difficult topics with

- Understanding and overcoming your trauma response – fight, flight, freeze, or fawn

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

“Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High” by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler: https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Talking-Stakes-Second/dp/0071771328

What Now? With Trevor Noah: Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson: https://open.spotify.com/episode/00dD8L9V1WOj8CS4hhQQPQ

How Do Managers Train to Have Difficult Conversations?: https://www.pegstaff.com/how-do-managers-train-to-have-difficult-conversations/

We Have to Talk: A Step-By-Step Checklist for Difficult Conversations: https://www.judyringer.com/resources/articles/we-have-to-talk-a-stepbystep-checklist-for-difficult-conversations.php

Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn: Examining The 4 Trauma Responses: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/fight-flight-freeze-fawn-trauma-responses

Felicity (Hulu): https://www.hulu.com/series/felicity-9dbab8bc-1285-4694-8f97-582a6c9e7091

“Please Please Please” by Sabrina Carpenter: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cF1Na4AIecM

Horti: www.heyhorti.com

In Your 30s: https://www.instagram.com/p/C66K5LEM3VJ/

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59. How Do I Start an Airbnb Superhost Side Hustle? with Raejean & Curt Stewart

Wed, 12 Jun 2024 07:00:25 GMT

Raejean and Curt Stewart are spouses, entrepreneurs, outdoor enthusiasts, and budding real estate moguls. After dabbling in a few long-term rentals, the couple purchased land in Ohio during the pandemic and set out to build their first vacation cabin rental (from scratch)! Their cabin is available to book on Airbnb and they’re currently growing what they hope will become a sprawling real estate portfolio… all while maintaining full-time jobs.

Raejean and Curt share many business and life lessons this episode, including:

- Starting an Airbnb real estate business during the pandemic

- Buying land and building their own rental property from the ground up

- Deciding between long-term or short-term/vacation rentals

- The beauty of seeing your “what if” dream become a reality

- Juggling full-time jobs, parenthood, marriage, and a growing business

- Doing something every day that makes you happy

- Working well with your spouse

- Dealing with financial setbacks and mistakes

- Being the thermostat and not the thermometer

- & so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

The Haeli AirBnb: airbnb.com/h/thehaeli

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58. Book Club: “Hidden Potential” by Adam Grant

Wed, 05 Jun 2024 07:01:46 GMT

“Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things” is the latest bestseller by Adam Grant, who is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of books that have sold millions of copies and been translated into 35 languages. In a world obsessed with talent – gifted students, natural athletes, and child prodigies – Hidden Potential offers a new framework for learning so we can raise our aspirations and exceed expectations.

We couldn’t cover everything, but some of the big takeaways about tapping into your potential we discuss include:

- How character is different from your personality

- The 4 character skills: proactive, prosocial, disciplined, determined

- The “scaffolding” or people who support you in reaching your potential

- Being polite vs. being kind

- Whether it’s better to ask for feedback or advice

- Why your learning preference is not always the best way to learn

- The importance of play (and taking breaks) when you practice

- How perfectionism is more of a liability than an asset

- Why passion > obsession

- & so much more!

In Adam’s words, “The true measure of your potential is not the height of the peak you’ve reached, but how far you’ve climbed to get there.” This book is the perfect read for anyone who wants to improve and can appreciate that being the best shouldn’t get in the way of being better.

Mentioned in the episode:

“Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things” by Adam Grant: https://adamgrant.net/book/hidden-potential/

Piloting Feedback Episode 3: “Is Choosing When to Ignore Feedback the Ultimate Flex?”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-is-choosing-when-to-ignore-feedback-the-ultimate-flex/id1686279759?i=1000613340541

Meju: https://www.instagram.com/meju.nyc

Rothy’s Mary Janes: https://rothys.com/products/the-square-mary-jane-lollipop-red

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57. How Did I Skip Culinary School to Work at a 3 Michelin Starred Restaurant? with Chef Jacob-Bao Nguyen

Wed, 29 May 2024 07:01:06 GMT

Jacob-Bao Nguyen is a New York-based chef who is passionate about Vietnamese culture and food. With a background in printmaking and horticulture, Jacob made a career change into cooking (spoiler alert: without going to culinary school), where he quickly began training at some of the culinary world’s top restaurants. Today he is a freelance private chef and the host of an ongoing Viet-centric pop-up dinner series called Thần Thái.

Jacob shares insights about his career pivot and a peek behind the curtain into the not-as-glamorous-as-you-might-think life of a rising chef, including:

- Seizing a once-in-a-lifetime chance to work at Eleven Madison Park

- The intensity (and imposter syndrome) of working in fine dining

- Why culinary school isn’t the only place for a formal education in cooking

- Chasing your dreams at 100 miles an hour

- Using your curiosity as a form of motivation

- Making sacrifices and knowing if it’s “worth it” when the journey gets hard

- Building community and creating your own opportunities

- and so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Jacob’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jbaonguyen

Thần Thái Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thanthai.nyc

Jacob’s Resident Profile: https://www.meetresident.com/chef-jacob-nguyen

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56. What Would I Do Differently In My Twenties? (Career Edition)

Wed, 22 May 2024 07:00:49 GMT

This week, we’re taking a look back at our twenties – which aren’t that long ago for the record ;) – and reflecting on some of the things we’d do differently in our work/career lives. (We’ll spare you the gory details of our personal life learnings from that decade…)

We chat about so many lessons learned, including:

- The danger of keeping up with the Joneses

- Learning to manage stress earlier and speak up sooner

- Not allowing money to drive so many of our decisions

- Releasing the idea of a “career” altogether

- Why hard work trumps talent and skill

- Getting things in writing

- Reflecting on past work holiday party shenanigans

- Admitting when we didn’t know things

- and so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Rowan: https://heyrowan.com

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55. How Did a Career in HR Prepare Me to Become a Dating Coach? with Erica Laws, Founder of Laws of Attraction

Wed, 15 May 2024 07:00:52 GMT

Erica Laws is a dating and relationship coach, and the founder of Laws of Attraction, one of the UK’s leading dating consultancies offering personalized dating and relationship coaching and professional matchmaking services. After over a decade working in corporate HR, where she matched candidates with positions, she decided to pivot and start matchmaking people in the world of love and romance.

Erica shares so many great insights about her piloting journey – plus some modern dating advice for singles and couple alike – including:

- pivoting her career from finance to dating & relationship coaching

- breaking the stigma around accepting dating help

- how dating coaching is different from therapy

- navigating dating app fatigue and her 3-day rule

- why shared values > shared interests when finding a partner

- which dating reality TV show gets it right

- the dos & don’ts for early in the game dates

- distinguishing the ‘ick’ from a gut feeling you should trust

- and so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Laws of Attraction: https://lawsofattractionlondon.co.uk

Laws of Attraction Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lawsofattractiondating

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54. Why Is Rejection an Important Part of Success?

Wed, 08 May 2024 07:01:53 GMT

This week, we’re talking about rejection and why it’s a necessary part of any piloting journey for any risk-taker, go-getter, or person craving a change. We share some of our own experiences with rejection and dive into:

- How rejection is different from failure

- Why people pleasers struggle with rejection

- Taking cues from creatives, athletes, and entrepreneurs

- Using rejection as an opportunity for reflection or redirection

- Getting comfortable with dealing with rejection

- Building your self-worth and confidence to help bounce back

- A reminder that winners lose, and getting rejected doesn’t make you a reject

Mentioned in the episode:

Candace Nelson Reel: https://www.instagram.com/p/C5jlYl0J5QB/

Rejection Therapy: https://www.rejectiontherapy.com/

“Try Again” by Aaliyah: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yp4QI4GkLDo

“Welcome to the Hyunam-dong Bookshop” by Hwang Bo-reum: https://www.bloomsbury.com/us/welcome-to-the-hyunamdong-bookshop-9781639732425/

Kinn Studio: https://kinnstudio.com/

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53. Can I Be an Introvert AND Super Connector? with Liz Ruf, Co-Founder of Scuppernong Group

Wed, 01 May 2024 07:00:45 GMT

Today, we’re joined by Liz Ruf, Co-Founder of Scuppernong Group! Liz recently started a new company with her business partner that connects mission-driven businesses with fractional leaders for part-time leadership, planning, and project management expertise. In addition to this latest venture, Liz also has her own consulting company, sits on the board of a local nonprofit in North Carolina, organizes community Fuckup Nights events in her area, volunteers in marketing groups, and generally stays booked and busy!

We had a great conversation this week, and Liz shared many lessons from her years of entrepreneurship, including:

- Pivoting from solopreneurship to a business partnership

- Building a big network as an introvert

- Juggling multiple work and personal calendars

- How burnout pushed her into a new career chapter

- Why she hates productivity

- What she misses about 9-5 life

- Overcoming her biggest failure

- Finding mentors

- and so much more!

Mentioned in the episode:

Scuppernong Group: https://scuppernong.group

Elizabeth Ruf Consulting: https://elizabethruf.com

Liz’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabethruf/

Scuppernong Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scuppernong.group/

Scuppernong LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/scuppernong/

Fuckup Nights Raleigh: https://www.fuckupnights.com/city/raleigh

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52. Book Club: “The Creative Act” by Rick Rubin

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 07:00:16 GMT

“The Creative Act” is the #1 New York Times bestselling book by Rick Rubin. Rick is a nine-time GRAMMY-winning producer, who’s been named one of the 100 most influential people in the world by TIME Magazine and the most successful producer in any genre by Rolling Stone.

We loved that this book is less of a how-to and more of a manifesto about the creative life. This poetic book reminds us that everyone can be an artist, as it’s simply a way of seeing the world. We discussed the four stages of the creative process, why it’s important to remember that every rule is breakable, surrendering to the process, separating your ego from your work, and why you need to give yourself time and space to be creative.

It’s refreshing to remember that, regardless of our careers or jobs, we can all be artists. As Rick says, “Being an artist means to be continually asking, ‘How can it be better?’ whatever it is. It may be your art, and it may be your life.”

Mentioned in the episode:

“The Creative Act” by Rick Rubin: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/717356/the-creative-act-by-rick-rubin/

Godzilla Minus One: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt23289160/

Amadeus: https://www.netflix.com/title/247351

Package Free: https://packagefreeshop.com/

Book of the Month (Referral Link): https://www.mybotm.com/fev1maqjhf22zkt9

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51. Why Should You Care About Personality Tests?

Wed, 17 Apr 2024 07:01:41 GMT

Some people may roll their eyes or call it silly, but there’s a lot of useful information you can unpack from a personality test – whether you prefer zodiac signs, Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), love languages, or one of the hundreds of other assessments out there. Research shows that self-aware people are happier, have better relationships, and enjoy greater job satisfaction, so this week we indulge ourselves in how personality tests can be both fun and insightful!

We talk about how these tests help with self-discovery and self-management, why clarity from these assessments can be liberating instead of limiting, and how you can use your “personality type” to design a life that best suits you – from careers to relationships.

Mentioned in the episode:

“The Personality Brokers” by Merve Emre: https://www.merveemre.com/paraliterary

Why Do We Need Personality Tests to Tell Us Who We Are?: https://www.nbcnews.com/better/pop-culture/why-do-we-need-personality-tests-tell-us-who-we-ncna914371

Are Personality Tests Actually Useful?: https://time.com/6959682/are-personality-tests-useful/

16 Personalities (MBTI): https://www.16personalities.com/

Enneagram Institute: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/

The Five Love Languages: https://5lovelanguages.com/

The 5 (Leadership) Voices: https://5voices.com/

National Institute for Play’s Play Personalities: https://www.nifplay.org/what-is-play/play-personalities/

Agent Nateur: https://www.agentnateur.com/

Andia’s Ice Cream: https://andiasicecream.com/

“The Creative Act” by Rick Rubin: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/717356/the-creative-act-by-rick-rubin/

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50. How Do I Shift from a Scarcity to an Abundance Mindset?

Wed, 10 Apr 2024 07:00:04 GMT

We are celebrating our 50th episode this week! For this milestone episode, we’re chatting about abundance mindsets and scarcity mindsets, and how choosing abundance gives you the confidence and courage to chase what you want in this life.

Too many of us have scarcity mindsets, which are limiting beliefs and a form of self-sabotage that has us thinking small and focusing too much on what could go wrong instead of what could go right. This week, we explore inheriting certain mindsets from society or family (other immigrant kids might relate!), how representation helps us shift to seeing abundance, learning to see opportunities before risks, why you can’t expect that achieving success will change your mindset for you, and how abundance impacts our relationships, careers, and self-worth.

We also chat about why Melissa is excited for camping season and Renée’s reminder to switch out your skincare products with the change of seasons.

Mentioned in the episode:

Spring Skincare Tips Reel: https://www.instagram.com/p/C5JK4_Sr15u/

Shifting from a Scarcity Mindset to an Abundance Mindset: https://community.thriveglobal.com/shifting-from-a-scarcity-mindset-to-an-abundance-mindset/

Scarcity & Abundance: Two Sides of the Same Coin: https://magazine.thestriveproject.com/issue/oct-dec-2022/scarcity-abundance-two-sides-of-the-same-coin/

Reesa Teesa Is a Born Storyteller: https://time.com/6883150/reesa-teesa-interview-tiktok-who-tf-did-i-marry/

Horace & Friends: https://www.instagram.com/horaceandfriendss/

Early Bird Granola: https://earlybirdfoods.com/

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49. Can Stress Be Good For Us? If So, How Do We Learn to Manage It?

Wed, 03 Apr 2024 07:00:59 GMT

We often hear about the 3 Ss that are bad for your health – smoking, a sedentary lifestyle, and stress. This week, we’re talking about stress and how to manage it so it doesn’t get in the way of chasing meaning and living our best lives.

Melissa and Renée chat about the downfalls of living in survival mode all the time, the impact of stress on creativity, proactive strategies to get better at stress management, and fighting our brains’ tendency to always choose what’s easy, convenient, and in our comfort zone. We also dive into research about “good stress” and how perception plays a bigger role in stress than we realize.

Among our stress relievers this week are cheeky keyboard and mouse nicknames and the gift that is Beyoncé’s new album, Cowboy Carter.

Mentioned in the episode:

Beyoncé Cowboy Carter: https://music.beyonce.com/

4 Ways to Spark Creativity When You’re Feeling Stressed: https://hbr.org/2021/10/4-ways-to-spark-creativity-when-youre-feeling-stressed

“The Power of One More” by Ed Mylett: https://thepowerofonemore.com

“The Power of Habit” by Charles Duhigg: https://www.charlesduhigg.com/the-power-of-habit

How To Be Better At Stress: https://www.nytimes.com/article/how-to-deal-with-stress.html

“How To Make Stress Your Friend” TED Talk by Kelly McGonigal: https://www.ted.com/talks/kelly_mcgonigal_how_to_make_stress_your_friend

“The Choice: Embrace the Possible” by Dr. Edith Eva Eger: https://dreditheger.com/the-choice/

Logitech LIFT FOR MAC Ergonomic Mouse: https://www.logitech.com/en-us/products/mice/lift-vertical-ergonomic-mouse-mac.910-006471.html

The Good Trade’s Daily Good newsletter: https://www.thegoodtrade.com/the-daily-good/

“All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten” by Robert Fulghum: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/56955/all-i-really-need-to-know-i-learned-in-kindergarten-by-robert-fulghum/

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48. Is It Time to Join a Mastermind Group?

Wed, 27 Mar 2024 07:00:47 GMT

There’s a lot of talk about being intentional with friendships and taking advantage of mentors and coaches…but what about masterminds?

This week, we discuss mastermind groups – a small group of peers meeting regularly who are committed to mutual growth, support, and knowledge sharing – and how they can be a valuable addition to your social life and success plans. We dig into why you don’t have to pay for a mastermind, the ideal size for your group, how these differ from conversations with friends, the importance of weak ties, and some ways to find your own group.

In other news, we’re also celebrating Renée’s new interest in homemade sea moss gel and exploring Melissa’s adventures with decluttering and de-influencing – and her surprise ASMR treat!

Mentioned in the episode:

What is a Mastermind Group, and How Do You Find It?: https://www.tonyrobbins.com/business/mastermind-group/

What Is a Mastermind and Should You Join One?: https://startupparent.com/mastermind-groups-structure-value-benefits/

“The Strength of Weak Ties” by Mark S. Granovetter: https://www.jstor.org/stable/2776392

How to Start a Mastermind Group (and 8 Reasons Why You Should): https://www.austinbollinger.com/blog/how-to-start-a-mastermind-group/

Dan Go on the 321 Method (X): https://twitter.com/FitFounder/status/1652673727568461825

Siete Family Foods Mexican Wedding Cookies: https://sietefoods.com/products/mexican-wedding-cookies

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47. Is Pay Transparency Progressive or Problematic?

Wed, 20 Mar 2024 07:00:06 GMT

Money is emotional, from how much you have to how you spend it, but especially how much you earn. Some of us grew up hearing that discussing salary is taboo, but is that changing?

This week, we discuss pay transparency and its impact on equity and closing the wage gap, why it potentially limits rewards for high performers, and whether we should tie compensation to performance at all. We also dig into the necessary culture shift (at work and in society generally) to get comfortable being transparent about pay and how comfortable Melissa and Renée are in discussing their pay among friends.

Mentioned in the episode:

The 7 Types of Rest that Every Person Needs: https://ideas.ted.com/the-7-types-of-rest-that-every-person-needs/

Buffer’s Salary System: https://buffer.com/resources/salary-system/

Research: The Complicated Effects of Pay Transparency: https://hbr.org/2023/02/research-the-complicated-effects-of-pay-transparency

Salary Transparency Street: https://www.salarytransparentstreet.com/

Kindle Unlimited: https://amzn.to/3QUEk87

Magna Kusina: https://www.magnapdx.com

Yung Pueblo Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yung_pueblo/

Every Stylish Girl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4qaaeBOiKJ/

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46. Book Club: “Feel-Good Productivity” by Ali Abdaal

Wed, 13 Mar 2024 10:01:25 GMT

“Feel-Good Productivity: How to Do More of What Matters to You” is the New York Times bestselling book from Dr. Ali Abdaal, the world’s most-followed productivity expert.

For this month’s book club, we loved Ali’s take on productivity that prioritizes joy over the “grin and bear it” approaches we’re used to hearing. We dive into the eight play personalities (and why they matter for productivity), how inertia prevents us from getting started, the criteria for a good accountability partner, the three kinds of burnout, and which of the book’s “experiments” feel most easily implement-able. We also explore how Melissa gets a high from organizing files and why Renée is struggling to adjust to Daylight Savings Time.

To take Ali’s advice, “Success doesn't lead to feeling good. Feeling good leads to success.”

We’d love to know what books we should review for upcoming book club episodes! Send us your ideas and recommendations.

Mentioned in the episode:

“Feel-Good Productivity: How to Do More of What Matters to You” by Ali Abdaal: https://www.feelgoodproductivity.com/

Ali Abdaal: https://aliabdaal.com/

Notion: http://www.notion.so

ClickUp: https://clickup.com/

Shop Velanidi: https://www.instagram.com/shopvelanidi/

M.Gemi: https://mgemi.com/

Balanced Les Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4V81sIR1Gf/

Chrissy Rutherford Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4ZEdW5o5u-/

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45. Is ‘Monk Mode’ the Tool You Need to Focus and Get S**t Done?

Wed, 06 Mar 2024 08:00:14 GMT

If you’ve ever struggled with getting things done, we have a not-so-new idea we’re chatting about this week that might help. ‘Monk mode’ is a productivity tool that pushes you to focus on a goal intensely by cutting out distractions over a short period of time. We discuss learning to eliminate distractions, navigating FOMO, saying no, being a good friend to someone trying to achieve a big goal, and why focus is the ultimate superpower. Melissa also confesses about the phone game taking over her life and Renée talks about why she loves the drama of a big reveal.

Mentioned in the episode:

Patricia Bright, How to Stay Focused and Disciplined to Achieve More – The Monk Mode secret (The Break): https://youtu.be/ZCzA1irzvao?si=jkeVXNHRXNmGeP6T

‘Monk Mode’ is the ‘New’ Productivity Trend That Promises to Improve Your Attention Span: https://www.fastcompany.com/90953246/monk-mode-is-the-new-productivity-trend-that-promises-to-improve-your-attention-span

Going Monk Mode: How To Use The Practice To Live And Work Your Best: https://freedom.to/blog/going-monk-mode-how-to-use-the-practice-to-live-and-work-your-best/

Erick Amezcua on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theerickamezcua/video/7341922866402692383

Whole30: https://whole30.com/

Wondermind: https://www.wondermind.com/

“Selena Gomez” Smartless Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3JC3Rkl1aDGLdaomfCTU81?si=f4cc7f4f49934f73

Cozy K on YouTube: instagram.com/cozy.games

Cozy K on Instagram: youtube.com/@CozyK

“Feel-Good Productivity: How to Do More of What Matters to You” by Ali Abdaal: https://www.feelgoodproductivity.com/

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44. Do I Need a Business Partner or Should I Fly Solo?

Wed, 28 Feb 2024 08:00:27 GMT

Many people start their own business and side projects so they can have more freedom and control, but others find that having a partner is a better route when starting something new. This week, we’re discussing the pros and cons of being a solopreneur versus working in a partnership.

We chat about knowing when to trade accountability for autonomy (or vice versa), creating a safe space for experimentation and criticism, the importance of clarity on roles and expectations in any partnership, and the difficult conversations you should have before going into business with a friend, spouse, or family member.

Reminder: It’s much easier to get into a partnership than to get out of one. So even though it may be an asset to expand your creativity, productivity, and growth, make sure you’re not moving solely based on vibes. (But vibes are very important!)

Mentioned in the episode:

7 Partnership Advantages In 2024: https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/partnership-advantages/

The Advantages and Disadvantages of a Business Partnership: https://www.americanexpress.com/en-us/business/trends-and-insights/articles/what-are-the-advantages-and-disadvantages-of-a-partnership/

“Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts.” by Brené Brown: https://brenebrown.com/hubs/dare-to-lead/

Keys To Successful Co-Founder Relationships | Startup School, Y Combinator: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4SLDQDXdp0

25 Best Business Partner Duos of All Time: https://www.gobankingrates.com/money/business/best-business-partner-duos-time/

Eadem: https://eadem.co/

Modern Legend: https://modern-legend.com/

Goodnewsletter (Referral Link): https://share.goodgoodgood.co/79ed8a90/

CNN’s Good Stuff: https://www.cnn.com/newsletters/the-good-stuff

It Takes a Village to Raise an Entrepreneur by Delina Medhin: https://www.delinamedhin.com/it-takes-a-village

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43. Raise vs. Promotion: Which Is More Valuable in Your Career?

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 08:01:00 GMT

What’s more important to you: a raise or promotion? Most of us would probably prefer to consistently receive both but different stages of our lives and careers may require us to prioritize differently.

This week, we explore whether one does more for your growth than the other and when it makes more sense to push for a promotion over a raise – and vice versa. We’re also chatting about steering the ship of your career, getting comfortable with promoting yourself, navigating “quiet promotions” (i.e., unpaid extra work and responsibilities), and why flexible boundaries could be strategic and helpful in the long run – within reason of course!

Reminder: Whether you personally care more about a raise or a promotion, you don’t get what you don’t ask for. So don’t be afraid to speak up!

Mentioned in the episode:

The Financial Diet: https://thefinancialdiet.com

An Open Letter From A Very Hard Year: https://ckarchive.com/b/4zuvheh5vk2ngf6ovveola3d7pv77

Gimme Some Oven Egg Roll Soup: https://www.gimmesomeoven.com/egg-roll-soup/

Brianna Wiest Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/ChlQNsrNo4X/

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42. Book Club: “Ikigai” by Héctor García and Francesc Miralles

Wed, 14 Feb 2024 08:01:32 GMT

“Ikigai” is the international bestselling book with more than 2 million copies sold worldwide by Héctor García and Francesc Miralles. According to the Japanese, everyone has an ikigai—a reason for living that is the key to a happier and longer life. Having a strong sense of ikigai gives every day meaning because it connects what you love with what you’re good at, what the world needs, and what you can get paid for.

This book covers a variety of habits and tools to help you discover your life’s purpose, or your reason to wake up every morning. We took heavy notes on paying attention to the activities that put you in “flow” state, prioritizing meditation, choosing a compass over a map, and learning to be not only resilient but antifragile. We also explore why Goldilocks and the Karate Kid had it right all along!

We recommend this book for anyone trying to find purpose in life and wish you patience on your journey of discovery. Taking a page out of the Okinawan centenarians in Japan, remember that happiness is in the doing, not the result.

Mentioned in the episode:

“Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life” by Héctor García and Francesc Miralles: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/549469/ikigai-by-hector-garcia-and-francesc-miralles/

“Blue Zones: 9 Lessons for Living Longer from the People Who’ve Lived the Longest” by Dan Buettner: https://www.bluezones.com/books

“Finding Our Purpose Through Ikigai with Tim Tamashiro” on Everyday Better with Leah Smart: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-our-purpose-through-ikigai-with-tim-tamashiro/id1457513598?i=1000626779256

“Perfect Days” by Win Wenders: https://www.perfectdays-movie.jp/en/

Ikigai Personality Quiz: https://ikigaitest.com/en-personality-test/

OLIPOP: https://drinkolipop.com/

Wellness East: https://wellnesseast.store/

Minted: https://www.minted.com/

Tonya Rapley Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C3QVBD8ObWk/

Morgan Harper Nichols Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C23a-KzN6CY/

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41. Why Is Delayed Gratification Important for Success?

Wed, 07 Feb 2024 08:00:36 GMT

Fast food, impulse shopping, and so many of the things we enjoy give us a quick hit of happy hormones, but a big part of growth and success is getting comfortable with delayed gratification. Patience (and perseverance) is really a virtue.

This week, we’re discussing the importance of being able to delay gratification, whether it’s fair to label millennials and Gen Z as impatient pleasure seekers, why overnight success is a myth, how “winning the day” can help you stay motivated, and knowing when to (unfortunately) cut your losses and move on. We’re taking cues from the marshmallow test, 75 Hard, the sunk cost fallacy, and more!

Also, Happy Black History Month!

Mentioned in the episode:

“The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business” by Charles Duhigg: https://www.charlesduhigg.com/the-power-of-habit

The Importance of Delayed Gratification: https://www.tonyrobbins.com/achieve-lasting-weight-loss/delayed-gratification/

The Marshmallow Study Revisited: https://www.rochester.edu/newscenter/the-marshmallow-study-revisited/

Don’t Believe This ‘Lie’ About How to Become Successful, Says Spike Lee: It’s ‘Done a Lot of Damage to People’: https://www.cnbc.com/2023/12/11/spike-lee-dont-believe-this-lie-about-how-to-become-successful.html

“16. Win The Day Ft. Ben Newman” by Real AF (Andy Frisella) podcast: https://andyfrisella.com/blogs/realaf-podcast/15-win-the-day-ft-ben-newman

Bink: https://binkmade.com

Closet Confessions podcast: https://www.closetconfessionspod.com

Gabby Beckford: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabriellebeckford/

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40. Are We Still Battling Poor Time Management Skills in 2024? We Don’t Have To!

Wed, 31 Jan 2024 08:01:49 GMT

Raise your hand if you’ve ever wished you had a few more hours in the day. We definitely have, so this week we’re diving into time management — and we pack a lot in!

This week we have all the research on strategies to better control your time, from adding more “days” to your day and practicing saying no, to brain dumps and how Italian tomatoes (aka the Pomodoro Technique) can help you get more stuff done. We also talk about our biggest time sucks and triggers for poor time management, understanding your time management style, emotional regulation, revenge bedtime procrastination, and why bed rot isn’t always a bad thing.

Mentioned in the episode:

“Set Boundaries, Find Peace” by Nedra Glover Tawwab: https://www.nedratawwab.com/set-boundaries-find-peace

Are You a Time Optimist? Why Some People Are Perennially Late – And How To Be More Punctual: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/oct/12/are-you-a-time-optimist-why-some-people-are-perennially-late-and-how-to-be-more-punctual

“The Power of One More” by Ed Mylett: https://thepowerofonemore.com

Staying Up Too Late? You May Be a ‘Revenge Bedtime Procrastinator’: https://www.wsj.com/articles/staying-up-too-late-you-may-be-a-revenge-bedtime-procrastinator-11666842868

FocusPomo: https://apps.apple.com/au/app/focuspomo-pomodoro-timer/id1528322796

Lofi Beats: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DWWQRwui0ExPn?si=9400b84ce2374efc

Loops Beauty: https://www.loopsbeauty.com

The Cut How I Get it Done: https://www.thecut.com/tags/how-i-get-it-done

PATTERN: https://patternbeauty.com

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39. Could Moving Back In With Your Parents Help You Reach Your Goals Faster?

Wed, 24 Jan 2024 08:00:00 GMT

Research shows almost half of young (ish) adults are living at home with their parents. Whether you returned home out of necessity or you have the privilege of using this strategic move in pursuit of some bigger goals, this week we’re talking about how to navigate and make the most of that new reality.

We explore the various reasons for returning home, whether it's still taboo, how the pandemic pushed many 20- and 30-somethings to move back home, and why it’s okay to accept help (yes…even from your parents). We also give a peek into our love languages, fangirl over our love of books, and share some sage advice from Nicki Minaj and other songs on repeat.

Mentioned in the episode:

Two-Thirds of Millennials and Gen Zers Who Moved Back Home During the Pandemic Still Live There: https://www.lendingtree.com/home/mortgage/living-with-parents-survey

Nearly Half of All Young Adults Live With Mom and Dad — and They Like It: https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2023-09-20/nearly-half-of-young-adults-are-living-back-home-with-parents

Infinity Song: https://infinitysongmusic.com

Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com

“The Power of One More” by Ed Mylett: https://thepowerofonemore.com

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38. How Many Millionaire Habits Are In Your Routine?

Wed, 17 Jan 2024 08:00:39 GMT

Who wants to be a millionaire? We do! But in all seriousness, this week we’re exploring the habits, routines, and mindsets of the very wealthy for tips on how to achieve and maintain success…at any net worth.

We dig into their approach to taking care of their bodies, the importance of balancing IQ with EQ, the 4 types of relationships you need in your life, the difference between looking rich and living rich, and why setting aside time for daydreaming and creativity might actually be a good thing! We also explore a four-day work week, the importance of matching music bpm (beats per minute) to your workout, and our favorite journals.

Mentioned in the episode:

9 Things Wealthy People Do Every Day: https://www.gobankingrates.com/money/wealth/15-things-wealthy-people-every-day-2

I Spent 5 Years Interviewing 233 Millionaires—Here Are The 6 Habits That Made Them Ultra Wealthy: https://www.cnbc.com/2022/10/09/i-spent-5-years-interviewing-233-millionaires-here-are-the-habits-that-made-them-rich-and-successful.html

“Rich Habits” by Tom Corley: https://richhabits.net/books-resources

17 Things Millionaires Do Differently From Everyone Else: https://www.businessinsider.com/millionaire-habits-how-to-build-wealth-time-energy-money-2019-4#they-prioritize-four-relationships-15

“Me We Do Be: The Four Cornerstones of Success” by Randall Bell: https://www.amazon.com/Me-We-Do-Be-Cornerstones/dp/0996793119

Sentimental Garbage podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sentimental-garbage/id1444729607

Leuchtturm1917: https://www.leuchtturm1917.us

Forward Space: https://forward-space.com

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37. Book Club: “The 5 Second Rule” by Mel Robbins

Wed, 10 Jan 2024 08:01:22 GMT

For our first book club of 2024, we’re reading “The Five Second Rule: The Fastest Way to Change Your Life” by Mel Robbins, an international Amazon and Audible bestseller, with almost 2 million copies sold worldwide. This book outlines her simple, research-backed tool that helped Mel turn her own life around and help millions of people improve everything from careers and romantic relationships to tackling addictions and building better habits – one small decision at a time.

There’s a five-second moment of hesitation that defines your life, when we start thinking about what we need to do, instead of doing what we need to do, and this book teaches a remarkably simple tool to not let those five seconds take control of your life. We chat about embracing everyday courage, distinguishing feelings from fact, making ‘heart-first’ decisions, and overcoming our brains’ instinct to let self-doubt and fear creep in.

We think this book is great for any overthinkers or procrastinators who need a little help to stop hesitating and start taking action. In Mel’s words, “You are just five seconds away from a totally different life.” So, let’s go!

Fact check: “I feel it in my toes.” IYKYK

Mentioned in the episode:

“The Five Second Rule: The Fastest Way to Change Your Life” by Mel Robbins: https://www.melrobbins.com/5secondrule

Mel Robbins’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins

Judith (Judy) Faulkner’s Giving Pledge Letter: https://givingpledge.org/pledger?pledgerId=194

“Follow Through” by Gavin DeGraw: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ftTfViVNwiM

Eddie ‘Barefoot Bandito’ Vega Retires (Guinness World Record): http://bit.ly/3tF3wrE

Kwik Brain C.O.D.E. Quiz: https://kwikbrain.com/animal-quiz

Delta Airlines: https://www.delta.com

“A Court of Thorns and Roses” Series by Sarah J. Maas: https://sarahjmaas.com/books/a-court-of-thorns-and-roses-series/

“Love Is All Around” by The Troggs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WO6glz0wpmo

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36. Professional Development: Cringe or Critical?

Wed, 03 Jan 2024 08:00:22 GMT

Happy New Year, co-pilots! Regardless of how your 2023 panned out, we hope you’re feeling energized and excited for 2024!

To kick off our first episode of the year, we’re talking about professional development and sharing a few thoughts on preparing for your next step and where you want to go. Whether it’s participating in formal workshops and training programs or drawing insights from books, social media, and podcasts (maybe like ours?), accessible resources are everywhere…and we’re ready to tap in.

We explore some of our favorite sources of professional development, the dangers of building your growth around a single job or role, what it means if you’re resistant or uninterested in development opportunities, and why it’s important to know (and be able to articulate) exactly what you bring to the table. Cheers to a fabulous year ahead!

Mentioned in the episode:

LinkedIn Learning: https://learning.linkedin.com/cx/get-started

Birdie Personal Safety Alarm: https://www.shesbirdie.com

Candle Science: https://www.candlescience.com

Michell C. Clark: https://www.instagram.com/michellcclark

“My Number” by Tegan and Sara: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOF4ekrmk7w

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35. Is Failure the Scariest F-Word?

Wed, 27 Dec 2023 08:00:53 GMT

Failure isn’t the opposite of success, but a fundamental part of success, growth, and improvement. It can be difficult to process failing in a way that helps us get better, but we’re trying to lean into a new acronym we just discovered for FAIL – First Attempt In Learning.

This week, we discuss failing fast and failing forward, living your life like a startup, pushing through feelings of shame or anxiety about disappointing people, and whether getting comfortable with failure can be an antidote to feelings of regret. We also reminisce about why it was easier to fail as kids – before our overthinking really kicked into high gear.

Remember, trying is cool (LOL) and failing doesn’t make you a failure.

Mentioned in the episode:

“Fourth Wing” by Rebecca Yarros: https://www.rebeccayarros.com/books/fourth-wing

Rethinking Failure: 7 Principles for Failing Forward!: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/rethinking-failure-7-principles-failing-forward-tameca-n-brown-cptd

“Failing Forward: Turning Mistakes into Stepping Stones for Success” by John C. Maxwell: https://www.harpercollinsleadership.com/9780785288572/failing-forward

Love Wellness Bye Bye Bloat: https://lovewellness.com/products/bye-bye-bloat

Aritzia: https://aritzia.com

Vex King: https://www.instagram.com/vexking

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34. Do You Need Friends At Work?

Wed, 20 Dec 2023 08:00:33 GMT

Research (and our own highly scientific personal experiences) confirm that having friends at work improves your happiness on and off the clock. We’ve been lucky to have many work friendships turn to real friendships that have outlived the job that brought us together.

This week, we’re celebrating the people who make us laugh five days a week, act as our unofficial therapists, and help the workday feel a little less like work. We chat about rules for work friends, figuring out how much of your personal life to disclose at work, balancing work husbands with real life partners, and navigating friendships with your manager. ‘Tis the season, so stick around for a few tangents about our favorite Christmas cookies and the secret to great eggnog.

Shout out to all work besties! May our Slack messages never see the light of day.

Happy holidays, co-pilots!

Mentioned in the episode:

Pepperidge Farms Christmas Cookies: https://www.pepperidgefarm.com/newsroom/product-tag/christmas/

Why Work Friends Are Crucial for Your Health: https://time.com/6274502/work-friends-health-benefits/

Why A Work Husband Is The One Relationship You Need In Your Life: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a28038753/work-husband-meaning/

Waitress: The Musical The Movie: https://www.waitressthemusical.movie/

Alamo Drafthouse: https://drafthouse.com

“Act Like a Success, Think Like a Success” by Steve Harvey: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/act-like-a-success-think-like-a-success-steve-harvey

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33. Is Anyone Making New Year’s Resolutions Anymore?

Wed, 13 Dec 2023 08:00:17 GMT

Research shows that most of us will fail to achieve our new year’s resolutions. So are they still worth it? Is it helpful to set new goals (or at least a word of the year) every January or does this just create unnecessary anxiety, comparison, and stress? That’s our topic this week. We’re chatting about the difference between goals and objectives, why some people appreciate having a clean slate in the new year, staying motivated when you lose momentum, and protecting your mental health if you decide to set goals. We’re also celebrating wedding and friendship anniversaries, cozy holiday movies, and our future plans to become a morning person and a hand model.

Mentioned in the episode:

Most People Fail to Achieve Their New Year's Resolution. For Success, Choose a Word of the Year Instead: https://www.inc.com/marla-tabaka/why-set-yourself-up-for-failure-ditch-new-years-resolution-do-this-instead.html

Are New Year's Resolutions Powerful or Pointless?: https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220103-powerful-effective-new-years-resolutions

10 Tips to Set Goals and Achieve Them: https://www.betterup.com/blog/how-to-set-goals-and-achieve-them

Goals vs. Objectives: What's the Difference?: https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/difference-between-goals-and-objectives

The 12 Week Year: https://academy.12weekyear.com/product/12-week-year-book

Mejuri: https://mejuri.com

Catbird: https://www.catbirdnyc.com

Corporate Erin: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisabevolving

Hallmark Countdown to Christmas: https://www.hallmarkchannel.com/christmas

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32. Book Club: “Greenlights” by Matthew McConaughey

Wed, 06 Dec 2023 08:01:30 GMT

For our final book club of 2023, we read “Greenlights” by Matthew McConaughey. The Academy Award-winning actor's #1 New York Times bestseller is not a traditional memoir, nor is it an advice book. It’s an approach, a playbook, and a love letter to life. It’s a record of Matthew’s life and how he’s engineered it to catch more greenlights – signals that let us know we’re on the right path and to keep moving forward.

The book is definitely not preachy, but we still learned a lot about the importance of introspection, writing, travel, spending time alone, surrendering, and living your life in a way where you look forward to looking back. We loved the unconventional approaches Matthew used to navigate many pivots and seasons of change, and see how experimentation, strong principles, and process of elimination have helped him find more happiness, success, and fulfillment in life.

In his wise words, “Sometimes which choice you make is not as important as making a choice and committing to it.”

Matthew has so many insights (and so much rizz), that we can’t wait to share with everyone we meet. Check out our Instagram @pilotingpod if you're listening when this comes out for a chance to win a copy of Greenlights!

Mentioned in the episode:

“Greenlights” by Matthew McConaughey: https://greenlights.com

Rizz Named Word of the Year 2023 by Oxford University Press: https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-67602699

“Travels with Charley in Search of America” by John Steinbeck: https://www.amazon.com/Travels-Charley-Search-America-Steinbeck/dp/0140053204

Babaà: https://babaa.es

Renaissance: A Film by Beyoncé: https://www.beyoncefilm.com

Rafael Nadal Comeback Announcement: https://www.instagram.com/rafaelnadal/reel/C0TyYPBNkY4

“Carrie Soto is Back” by Taylor Jenkins Reid: https://taylorjenkinsreid.com/books/carrie-soto-is-back

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31. Is It Okay To Choose a 9 to 5 Over Entrepreneurship? (Spoiler Alert: Yes)

Wed, 29 Nov 2023 08:00:00 GMT

“If you don't build your dream, someone else will hire you to help them build theirs.” In many ways this is true…but does chasing your dream have to mean starting your own company?

This week, we’re chatting about why it’s important for any aspiring business owner to stop romanticizing entrepreneurship and we make the case for enjoying your 9 to 5. Pulling from our own experiences with starting a small business, freelancing, and moonlighting, we discuss how the greater flexibility, autonomy, and control with entrepreneurship often comes with more risk, responsibility, and stress. (Not saying it isn’t worth it, but it’s a big tradeoff to consider!) We love the dream of doing your own thing, but it’s not for everyone. A 9 to 5 offers stability, security, and a different kind of freedom for many. Plus, between the threat of your self-started business failing or a sudden layoff from an employer, we wonder if either option is really more reliable than the other...

Tangents of the week include our appreciation for pilates and a shared obsession with dental hygiene.

Mentioned in the episode:

Stop Romanticizing Entrepreneurship: https://medium.com/@miggyazurin/stop-romanticizing-entrepreneurship-20b03c593b5

17. How Do I Decide to Pivot My Business? with KONOS Founder & CEO Michelle Chu: https://bit.ly/411UUat

Thach Nguyen: https://www.instagram.com/thachnguyen

Cocofloss: https://cocofloss.com

Suri: https://www.trysuri.com

Changing Our Internal Narrative: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/279363983129128244/

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30. Can Taking a Step Back Prepare Me to Move Forward?

Wed, 22 Nov 2023 08:00:20 GMT

Whether you have total clarity on what you’re piloting next, or you’re still in the period of self-discovery and figuring that out, this week we discuss why sometimes you have to take a step back to move forward.

Growth and progress rarely happen in a straight line, so we’re trying to reframe how stepping back can be less about all the things you’re losing and more about what you’re making space to add to your life. We chat about balancing stability vs. freedom, knowing your non-negotiables, the magic of journaling, and finding peace when it feels like you’re moving in the opposite direction of where you want to go. (Tip: Patience is a big part of the journey.) We also go on tangents about pole vaulting, dutch ovens, language learning tips, and our love/hate relationship with spreadsheets – Melissa loves ‘em, Renée not so much.

When in doubt, do something different. Don’t let a step back hold you back from going after what you want.

Happy Thanksgiving, co-pilots! We’re grateful for all of you.

Mentioned in the episode:

The Pandemic Skip: https://www.thecut.com/article/post-covid-pandemic-age-essay.html

“The Search: Finding Meaningful Work in a Post-Career World” by Bruce Feiler: https://www.brucefeiler.com/books-articles/the-search/

“Everything is Figureoutable” by Marie Forleo: https://everythingisfigureoutable.com

Playing Tetris Can Reduce Onset of PTSD After Trauma, Study Shows: https://www.cnn.com/2017/03/29/health/ptsd-tetris-computer-games-trnd/index.html

Tetris: https://tetris.com/play-tetris

Cocokind: https://www.cocokind.com

Cocokind Founder Priscilla Tsai on Running a Business and Getting Married in a Pandemic: https://vitruvi.com/blogs/health-and-wellness/cocokind-founder-priscilla-tsai

Priscilla Tsai: CEO and Founder, Cocokind | The Playbook With David Meltzer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-27dmhXRgFE

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29. How Do I Reinvent Myself With Authenticity...Without Pissing People Off?

Wed, 15 Nov 2023 08:00:08 GMT

According to the Cambridge Dictionary, “reinvention” is the act of producing something new based on something that already exists. For us, that means the process of reinventing yourself, which is sometimes part of the piloting journey, is usually a process of bringing different parts of yourself to the surface and uncovering a more authentic version of you. This week, we dig into dealing with resistance to your evolution from loved ones, the importance of having a growth mindset that’s open to change, living a life with no “what if” regrets, and expert advice on how to start reinventing yourself.

We also chit chat about a few famous faces we think have done some interesting reinventions, including Pamela Anderson, Taylor Swift, Miley Cyrus…and Arnold Schwarzenegger. (Plus, it’s another episode where we talk about our love of Jude Law!)

Mentioned in the episode:

I Heart Huckabees: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0356721

Pamela's Garden of Eden: https://www.hulu.com/series/399585f7-1a40-4ba1-b44d-633abea96d5d

How To Begin Reinventing Yourself In Time For The New Year: https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2022/10/14/how-to-begin-reinventing-yourself-in-time-for-the-new-year/

How to Reinvent Yourself: Setting and Achieving Personal Goals: https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-reinvent-yourself#7F9rUOHMzmQ9sYVm8fdjjN

Medicube AGE-R Booster-H: https://medicube.us/products/glow-booster-age-r-booster-h

Rakuten: www.rakuten.com/r/HI2618?eeid=28187 *

*Melissa’s referral link ;)

Shop App: https://shop.app

For the Healthy Hoes podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-the-healthy-hoes/id1596171716

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28. Book Club: The Light We Carry by Michelle Obama

Wed, 08 Nov 2023 08:00:00 GMT

This week, our book club pick is from our favorite First Lady Michelle Obama. “The Light We Carry: Overcoming in Uncertain Times” is a #1 New York Times and USA Today bestseller, and the follow-up to her record-breaking memoir “Becoming.” In this new book, she shares practical wisdom and powerful strategies for staying hopeful and balanced in today’s highly uncertain world.

TL;DR We laughed, we cried, and we loved this book! After gushing about how much we want to be (or be friends with) Michelle Obama, we dug into various tools and life maxims she shares – from getting comfortable with fear to living a big life. We discuss how strong intentions build strong friendships, being responsible with the power we have to shape other people’s experiences, when discomfort can be a teacher, why mental health is important when piloting something new…and what it really means to go high. We can’t possibly summarize all the amazing takeaways from this, but we highly recommend reading this if you want to feel seen and inspired all at the same time.

As she writes, “If you want to break barriers and knock down walls, I’ve found, you’ll need to find and protect your own boundaries, watching over your time, your energy, your health, and your spirit as you go.”

Mentioned in the episode:

“The Light We Carry” by Michelle Obama: https://michelleobamabooks.com

90 Recent Books to Read This Native American Heritage Month: https://www.goodreads.com/blog/show/2491-90-recent-books-to-read-this-native-american-heritage-month

“The Lone Ranger and Tonto Fistfight in Heaven” by Sherman Alexie: https://www.amazon.com/Ranger-Tonto-Fistfight-Heaven-Anniversary/dp/0802121993

ClassPass: https://classpass.com

Jude Law Breaks Down His Career, from 'The Holiday' to 'The New Pope': https://www.vanityfair.com/video/watch/careert-timeline-jude-law-breaks-down-his-career-from-the-holiday-to-the-new-pope

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27. Is It Better to Be a Jack of All Trades or a Specialist?

Wed, 01 Nov 2023 07:00:23 GMT

The saying goes, “A jack of all trades is a master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one.” But is this always true? (Also, did everyone else know this was the full quote? Because we definitely didn’t.)

This week, we’re debating whether it’s better to dabble in doing a little bit of everything, or specialize in becoming the best at one thing. We dig into the importance of being adaptable in an age of fast-moving technology, leaning into self-discovery and exploration in the early years of your career, avoiding obsolescence if you do specialize, covering your blind spots, and deciding which option might give you better job security. We also have several unhinged analogies and metaphors about neurosurgery, ceramics, jigsaw puzzles, and boats, and share anecdotes about fall in New England and Josh Groban.

Honestly, we’ll never know everything about anything, so let’s be intentional about where we invest our time and energy.

Mentioned in the episode:

mindbodygreen Vitamin D3: https://shop.mindbodygreen.com/products/d3

Sweeney Todd: https://sweeneytoddbroadway.com

Why Being A Jack Of All Trades Is Essential For Success: https://www.forbes.com/sites/jodiecook/2021/05/13/why-being-a-jack-of-all-trades-is-essential-for-success/

Briogeo Scalp Revival*: https://www.briogeohair.com/products/scalp-revival-scalp-soothing-solutions-set

*but try to find at T.J.Maxx ;)

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com

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26. Are “Lazy Girl Jobs” Just Jobs with Boundaries?

Wed, 25 Oct 2023 07:00:35 GMT

This week, we’re exploring “lazy girl jobs” and why everyone’s got something to say about these jobs trending on TikTok that essentially just offer fixed hours, flexibility, and leisure time. Sounds pretty good to be honest! We dig into why work-life balance looks different for everyone, when taking a “lazy” approach to work is the right move, and the sacrifices many of us make with demanding jobs. We also question whether looking at work as just a paycheck vs. part of your purpose changes how much you might be interested in a lazy girl job. Tune in for this, plus our thoughts on potato days, hot chocolate, and true crime podcasts!

Mentioned in the episode:

‘Lazy Girl Jobs’ Are Just Healthy Jobs—And The Trend Should Be A Wake-up Call for Leaders: https://www.fastcompany.com/90948133/lazy-girl-jobs-are-just-healthy-jobs-and-the-trend-should-be-a-wake-up-call-for-leaders

Forget Those ‘Lazy Girl’ Jobs: Women’s Ambition Is Higher Than Ever, Landmark Report Finds: https://www.forbes.com/sites/maggiemcgrath/2023/10/05/forget-those-lazy-girl-jobs-womens-ambition-is-higher-than-ever-landmark-report-finds/

‘Lazy Girl Jobs’ are Trending in Rally Against Burnout Culture: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna97367

The Anti Work Girlboss (Gabrielle Judge): https://www.instagram.com/antiworkgirlboss/

Scamanda: https://open.spotify.com/show/3UNxeZPD5fDSzm26mqTjgc

Dr. Death: https://wondery.com/shows/dr-death/

Swiss Miss Non-Dairy Chocolate Flavored Hot Cocoa Mix: https://www.swissmiss.com/classics/non-dairy-chocolate-flavored-hot-cocoa-mix

Side Hustle Pro: https://www.instagram.com/sidehustlepro/

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25. How Do I Answer ‘What’s My Biggest Weakness’ in an Interview?

Wed, 18 Oct 2023 07:01:37 GMT

We know interviews can be a little scary or feel fake but they’re a necessary part of many piloting journeys when changing jobs or trying something new, so let’s get into it! How do you show up authentically while ensuring you’re getting to know the company (or other person) as much as they’re vetting you?

We chat about whether “culture fit” questions have a bias against introverts, reading between the lines to spot red flags, our go-to questions to ask, trying not to look too eager, and being honest with yourself about what you’re willing to accept – and knowing when it’s better to walk away. Plus, a friendly reminder that if someone asks about your weaknesses, please do not share your WORST shortcomings. (Look out for yourself, girl!) We also recap our weekends, share the best place to get iced chai lattes, and the novelty of eating a “glizzy.”

Finally, our next book club pick is “The Light We Carry: Overcoming in Uncertain Times” by Michelle Obama. We’ll be discussing our favorite takeaways on November 8, so tune in!

Mentioned in the episode:

The Anti Work Girlboss Interview Questions: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cxtv2xRNzS5

Black Star Bakery: https://www.blackstarbakery.com

Not Just Coffee: https://notjust.coffee

Southwest Airlines: https://www.southwest.com

“The Light We Carry” by Michelle Obama: https://michelleobamabooks.com

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24. Book Club: Sing Your Name Out Loud by Jason Derulo

Wed, 11 Oct 2023 07:01:06 GMT

Was Jason Derulo the self-help guru and motivational coach we needed all along?! In all seriousness though, we were pleasantly surprised at how much we appreciated the insights from this month’s book club pick.

“Sing Your Name Out Loud: 15 Rules for Living Your Dream” is the first book from global pop superstar and TikTok phenomenon Jason Derulo, whose music and personality transcend borders, generations, and genres. From Taking Risks and Unlocking Closed Doors to Choosing Your Competition, he takes us through key moments and decisions in his life guided by these rules that helped propel him to the success he has today.

We found his voice really refreshing and respected his willingness to experiment, evolve, and even embarrass himself in the pursuit of learning, expanding, and growing. His confidence and mental toughness jumped off the page and were honestly inspiring!

We’ll leave you with a few words from Jason to help you on your piloting journey: “Stop being boring. Stop being derivative. Stop being scared. Please.”

Mentioned in the episode:

“Sing Your Name Out Loud: 15 Rules for Living Your Dream” by Jason Derulo: https://www.jasonderulo.com/book

Jason Derulo on Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5qCEa12YdiAhkvTIpWzRWC?si=01baebf53e8b40be

Invisalign: https://www.invisalign.com

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23. Is Everyone Having a Quarter-Life Crisis (or Is It Just Me)?

Wed, 04 Oct 2023 07:01:43 GMT

When did we all start having mid-life crises in our 20s and 30s? It feels like everyone is having (or has had) a quarter-life crisis, defined as involving anxiety over the direction and quality of one's life, most commonly experienced between a person's early twenties up to their mid-thirties. This week, we chat about why it’s normal to not know what you’re doing with your life sometimes, how to avoid having a menty b (mental breakdown), and the consequences of living your life according to other people’s expectations of you.

Whether your quarter-life crisis feels like the end of the world or a small stirring in your soul, a wise friend once said that “breakthroughs often feel like breakdowns,” so it’s okay to lean into the messy bits. We also chat about film festivals, SAT scores, and Britney Spears.

Disclaimer: Renée does in fact like John Mayer, and Melissa swears she’s not in a cult.

Mentioned in the episode:

Nowhere Near by Miko Revereza: https://www.filmlinc.org/nyff2023/films/nowhere-near

Tenement Museum (NYC): https://www.tenement.org

“Why Georgia” by John Mayer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XY6alp2SdI

“I’m Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman” by Britney Spears: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IlV7RhT6zHs

Girls: https://www.hbo.com/girls

“QUARTER LIFE CRISIS” by Taylor Bickett: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFzOKKeB6OY

HigherDOSE: https://higherdose.com

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22. Are My Friends Holding Me Back From Reaching My Potential?

Wed, 27 Sep 2023 07:00:57 GMT

We’ve all heard, “You're the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” We know that surrounding ourselves with the right friends can improve our health and give us the encouragement we need to achieve our goals and actualize our dreams. But, what if your friends aren’t growing with you…or, worse, holding you back from becoming the best version of yourself?

This week, we’re chatting about conscious connection, how to build rich relationships, and navigate friendships that aren’t fulfilling in that way without cutting someone out. (But you do you if that’s what’s best!) We’re also celebrating Renée’s favorite fruit in season, Melissa’s #CozyGamerGirl era, Neopets nostalgia, and surpassing 1,000 downloads of the podcast. (Thanks for the support, everyone!)

Finally, we have a surprise pick for our next book club episode, so mark your calendars for October 11!

Mentioned in this episode:

“Necessary Endings” by Dr. Henry Cloud: https://www.drcloud.com/books/necessary-endings

Friendships: Enrich Your Life and Improve Your Health: https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860

Are Your Friends Making You Fat?: https://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/13/magazine/13contagion-t.html

“A Friend Of A Friend: Understanding the Hidden Networks That Can Transform Your Life and Your Career” by David Burkus: https://davidburkus.com/books/friend-of-a-friend

I Spent 5 Years Studying Self-made Millionaires and Found There's an Easy Way to Tell If Your Closest Friends are Holding You Back from Becoming Rich: https://www.businessinsider.com/is-your-inner-circle-holding-you-back-from-becoming-rich-2019-7

Zespri Sungold Kiwi: https://www.zespri.com/en-US/product

Disney Dreamlight Valley: https://disneydreamlightvalley.com

Morgan Harper Nichols: https://www.instagram.com/morganharpernichols

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21. Why Does Networking Still Give Us the Ick?

Wed, 20 Sep 2023 07:41:36 GMT

Question. Why does the prospect of making new friendships and connections give us the ick once we brand it as networking? This week we’re talking about expanding our personal and professional circles and how to nurture your network to make it work for you. We explore making meaningful connections online, maintaining a “say yes” philosophy to meeting new people, and sharing your story with the world! We’re also recapping our recent vacations and when (or if) it’s appropriate to bother us at the grocery store.

Mentioned in this episode:

How to Live to 100: Secrets of the Blue Zones: https://www.netflix.com/title/81214929

“Blue Zones: 9 Lessons for Living Longer from the People Who’ve Lived the Longest” by Dan Buettner: https://www.bluezones.com/books

La Valise Tulum: https://www.lavalisetulum.com

Karleen Roy: https://www.instagram.com/karleenroy

Jules Acree’s Slow Brew Sunday newsletter: https://julesacree.ck.page/b9789442a2

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20. Does Every Confident Person Secretly Have Imposter Syndrome?

Wed, 13 Sep 2023 07:01:30 GMT

Whether you spell it imposter or impostor — this is driving us crazy! — we can safely assume that most people have experienced imposter syndrome at some point in their lives. Even our role models, some of the most well-known and accomplished people, feel like frauds sometimes and struggle with confidence.

So this week we’re chatting about dealing with and working through imposter syndrome. We explore how to practice building self-confidence, tips for managing self-doubt — fake it till you make it, babe! — and whether being delusional is the ultimate life hack. We also discuss “boodle fights” and make the case for why Mindy Kaling could be our ultimate confidence queen.

Mentioned in this episode:

International Journal of Behavioral Science, ‘The Impostor Phenomenon’: https://so06.tci-thaijo.org/index.php/IJBS/article/view/521/pdf

The Stigma of the Singleton with Mindy Kaling (Archetypes): https://open.spotify.com/episode/6neuBm0vVeeawV5eYNnm4p

Stop Telling Women They Have Imposter Syndrome: https://hbr.org/2021/02/stop-telling-women-they-have-imposter-syndrome

2018 Commencement Address by Mindy Kaling ’01: https://home.dartmouth.edu/news/2018/06/2018-commencement-address-mindy-kaling-01

25 Famous Women on Impostor Syndrome and Self-Doubt: https://www.thecut.com/article/25-famous-women-on-impostor-syndrome-and-self-doubt.html

What is a Boodle Fight?: https://www.angsarap.net/2015/05/21/what-is-a-boodle-fight

Maude: https://getmaude.com

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19. Book Club: Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo

Wed, 06 Sep 2023 07:01:08 GMT

“Everything is Figureoutable” is the New York Times #1 bestselling book by Marie Forleo, host of the award-winning MarieTV and The Marie Forleo Podcast, that details her empowering philosophy that there’s no challenge or dream that’s too big to be tackled with the right mindset.

We’re both huge fans of Marie (and her mantra)! Sadly, we didn’t have time to dive into all the gems in this book, which is why we highly recommend grabbing a copy! But a few of the (many!) things we explore include how to stop excuses from holding you back, why fear is usually pointing you in the direction your soul wants to go, and getting comfortable with starting before you’re ready.

In Marie’s words, “Clarity comes from engagement, not thought.” So we’re giving you permission to try and throw yourself into new things (even if you don’t know where it will lead).

Mentioned in this episode:

“Everything is Figureoutable” by Marie Forleo: https://everythingisfigureoutable.com

“Heart of Life” by John Mayer: https://open.spotify.com/track/78DwRIo6Vj6wqteyerGetr

“Mindset” by Carol S. Dweck: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/44330/mindset-by-carol-s-dweck-phd

Brown Noise Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DX4hpot8sYudB?si=3ae4668e94de4412

Sakara: https://www.sakara.com

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18. Is My Side Hustle Any of My Job’s Business?

Wed, 30 Aug 2023 07:01:51 GMT

Side hustles have been a hot topic for a while now – does everyone have one? Do I have to tell my boss? Also, why is my company all up in my business – literally and figuratively? This week, we’re chatting about whether you need to disclose your side hustle, whether encouraging side gigs will be the next big employee retention strategy, and why we should just let people be interesting. We also get a weekly reminder that your hosts do not understand basic science. Photosynthesis!

Mentioned in this episode:

Survey: 39% Have a Side Hustle, and 44% Believe They’ll Always Need One: https://www.bankrate.com/personal-finance/side-hustle-survey/

Japan Trading House Says Workers Can Be YouTubers to Top Up $100,000 Salaries: https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2023-02-01/workers-at-japan-s-mitsui-can-now-pursue-side-jobs-youtuber-careers

Got a Thriving Side Job? Here’s How and When to Tell Your Boss About It — And Why You Probably Should: https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-tell-your-boss-about-your-side-hustle-2022-8

Montone Sauce & Co.: https://www.montonesauceco.com/

Erin on Demand: https://erinondemand.com

“How to MASTER an EMPIRE with Master P” on The Ed Mylett Show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WMVXxDCXh8

@withrubina: https://www.instagram.com/withrubina

@wetheurban: https://www.instagram.com/wetheurban

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17. How Do I Decide to Pivot My Business? with KONOS Founder & CEO Michelle Chu

Wed, 23 Aug 2023 07:01:47 GMT

This week, we’re joined by Michelle Chu. Michelle is the Founder & CEO of KONOS, a brand of sleek and functional dog training gear with a mission to empower dog owners to build deeper relationships with their dogs. She was inspired by her own adopted dog, Kono, an American Staffy mix who struggles with dog reactivity and whose legacy she is currently building.

Honestly, Michelle is a badass! She shared so much honesty and transparency about her journey, from bootstrapping her company (formerly Kono’s Kitchen) on her own and launching during the pandemic in 2020 to building an online community with authenticity and wearing all the hats as a solopreneur. We cover so much ground in this conversation, including making the decision to quit your full-time job (or pick up additional side income), pivoting your business while staying true to your mission, navigating the experience of going one step forward and two steps back, and what advice Michelle would give anyone starting a company today.

On August 31, KONOS is launching its first leash product, as the company pivots from high-value single-ingredient training treats to focus more on dog training gear. If you want to stay connected to Michelle’s community, follow her on Instagram at @shopkonos, send her an email at michelle@shopkonos.com, or join her Discord!

Mentioned in this episode:

KONOS: www.shopkonos.com

Michelle’s Discord: https://discord.com/channels/1070470709098319952

Space to Fail Episode 6, “Adopting and Adapting with Melissa Vega-Magbitang: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Wuw3XKxKPnjvLxqbpHjlT

Estamos: https://drinkestamos.com

Trade Street Jam Co: https://tradestjamco.com

Bright Black Candles: https://brightblackcandles.com

Duolingo: https://www.duolingo.com

Michelle’s KONOS Season 2 Brand Reps (follow on Instagram!): @mikathemixedlab, @leo_fouzoul, @charlie_bernadette_corgi, @capnroux, @milo.pnw.aussie, @akirasibe

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16. Should We Still Feel Guilty Quitting a Job in 2023?

Wed, 16 Aug 2023 07:01:37 GMT

Real talk: most of us have resigned from a job or two already. And we’ll all likely quit several more jobs over the course of our lives as we get closer to finding the right opportunities that fulfill us, excite us, and meet our needs. But is quitting always a bad thing? This week, we dig into this hot topic – and excavate some of our personal experiences – to explore when quitting is good for both you and the company, knowing when you need to quit vs. taking a step back to reevaluate, and managing any feelings of guilt that arise when you say goodbye to something to which you were once loyal.

One of our core beliefs is that you deserve to wake up feeling excited about your life every day. And, when that’s no longer the case, you should feel empowered to walk away with dignity and quit on a good note, but also an honest one.

Gratitude > grudges.

Mentioned in this episode:

For Younger Workers, Job Hopping Has Lost Its Stigma. Should It?: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/09/business/job-hopping-young-workers-gen-z.html

WTF is Toxic Resiliency?: https://www.worklife.news/culture/toxic-resiliency

Diary of a CEO with Steven Bartlett podcast: https://stevenbartlett.com/the-diary-of-a-ceo-podcast

Natalie Borton newsletter: https://natalieborton.com/newsletter

“Set Boundaries, Find Peace” by Nedra Glover Tawwab: https://www.nedratawwab.com/set-boundaries-find-peace-1

Cotopaxi: https://www.cotopaxi.com

byAVA: https://www.byava.co

How Beauty Editor Linda Wells Gets It Done: https://www.thecut.com/2023/07/how-linda-wells-gets-it-done.html

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15. Layoffs: Are You Pushed Out or Getting the Push You Need to Pivot?

Wed, 09 Aug 2023 07:01:04 GMT

This week, we’re talking about another hot topic in the workforce: layoffs. So many talented employees have already been laid off this year and, unfortunately, most of us will likely be caught up in “restructurings” or “redundancies” at some point in our careers. Our co-host Melissa shares her recent personal experience with being laid off and what that journey has been like the past month. We dive into giving yourself time to process the multitude of emotions, why a layoff doesn’t define you (or your worth), and how ‘career cushioning’ can help you stay one step ahead of potential setbacks or involuntary job loss.

We also discover that Wilmington, North Carolina is (allegedly) known as “Hollywood East” (or “Wilmywood”) as a hot spot for film and TV production. Someone please fact check this!

Mentioned in this episode:

How to Manage the Emotional Impact of Getting Laid Off: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/06/21/smarter-living/coronavirus-laid-off-career-advice.html

Stressed About Potential Layoffs? You Should Practice ‘Career Cushioning’: https://www.fastcompany.com/90815813/stressed-potential-layoffs-practice-career-cushioning

“Necessary Endings” by Dr. Henry Cloud: https://www.drcloud.com/books/necessary-endings

How to Cope with Being Laid Off: https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-being-laid-off

We’re Opening A Talent Pool — Here’s What To Do If You’re Interested: https://buffer.com/resources/buffer-talent-pool/

70 Layoff Statistics for 2023 (Updated Figures): https://www.demandsage.com/layoff-statistics/

Petit Pot: https://petitpot.com

PLANTA: https://www.plantarestaurants.com

“Why Not” by Hilary Duff: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeOKlQC9yyM

“Everything is Figureoutable” by Marie Forleo: https://everythingisfigureoutable.com

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14. Book Club: Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 07:01:21 GMT

We go to back to basics for our book club pick this week with the worldwide #1 bestseller “Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones” by James Clear, one of the world's leading experts on habit formation. After reading this, we can see why it’s a classic! From implementation intentions and habit stacking to mastering the Law of Least Effort, we learned so much about how the human brain works and helpful tools to help you create systems to achieve your dreams. This book is so empowering for anyone looking to shift their identity with small, manageable steps and shows there’s power (and progress!) in becoming just 1% better each day.

In James’s words, “If nothing changes, nothing is going to change,” and we’re excited to have a better understanding of how to introduce better habits that actually stick!

Mentioned in this episode:

“Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones” by James Clear: https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits

Duolingo: https://www.duolingo.com

Dear Duolingo: Are Some People Just Better at Learning Languages Than Others?: https://blog.duolingo.com/are-some-people-better-at-learning-languages/

Petfolk: https://petfolk.com

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13. How Do I Design the Life I Want? with Life & Career Coach Emily Grochowski

Wed, 26 Jul 2023 07:01:17 GMT

This week, we’re joined by Emily Grochowski. Emily is a certified Life & Career coach, focused on helping others redefine what success means to them. She has spent the last 10 years of her career on Wall Street helping some of the world’s largest companies change through business & change strategy consulting. She is now working with individual clients to do the same – designing their target future state and creating a plan to get them where they want to go.

Emily shares her personal piloting journey of launching a coaching business alongside a full-time job…and drops some amazing insights from working with clients navigating their own changes. She walks us through the process of creating a “change roadmap” to design your dream life, empowers us not to be afraid of claiming what we want, and reminds us that negative emotions and missteps can be tools in figuring out what we actually desire.

Emily has also offered our listeners a complimentary coaching session to learn more about coaching, so visit her website at EmilyGrochowski.com or DM her on Instagram at @EmilyGroCoaching to learn more!

Mentioned in this episode:

Emily Gro Coaching: https://www.emilygrochowski.com

“Everything is Figureoutable” by Marie Forleo: https://everythingisfigureoutable.com

Armchair Expert: https://armchairexpertpod.com

We Need to Talk About This newsletter: https://www.wntta.co

Barbie: https://www.warnerbros.com/movies/barbie

FOND Bone Broth: https://fondbonebroth.com

Love Island UK: https://www.hulu.com/series/love-island-uk

‘The Summer I Turned Pretty’ Is the Best Teen Drama Since ‘Dawson’s Creek’: https://variety.com/2023/tv/features/the-summer-i-turned-pretty-teen-drama-dawsons-creek-1235670277/

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12. Can Prioritizing Self-Care Improve Your Life at Work and Home?

Wed, 19 Jul 2023 07:01:03 GMT

This week, we’re chatting about self-care, why taking care of yourself helps you bring your best self to every project, problem, and person you encounter. To be clear, we define wellness as far more than just massages and manicures. It’s listening to yourself and remembering to weigh the cost of ignoring a self-care practice to your long-term physical, emotional, and spiritual health. We explore the importance of creating rituals that help you manage stress, reconnect with your joy, and navigate the ups and downs of your life (and career). If you created a personal well-being list of things that you returned to when you’re feeling overwhelmed or burned out, what would be on your list? (Fun fact: Half of this episode’s audio was recorded in a bathroom.)

Mentioned in this episode:

“Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder” by Arianna Huffington: https://www.ariannahuffington.com/thrive

Employee Wellbeing Is Key for Workplace Productivity: https://www.gallup.com/workplace/215924/well-being.aspx

Melissa’s Well-being List: https://grizzled-sombrero-42a.notion.site/Well-Being-List-792a7f199fc646018e5c6b798cc05a69

Bathhouse (Brooklyn, NY): https://www.abathhouse.com

Jules Acree’s Slow Brew Sunday newsletter: https://julesacree.ck.page/b9789442a2

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11. Do I Need a Personal Brand Even If I’m Not an Influencer?

Wed, 12 Jul 2023 07:01:58 GMT

This week, we’re talking about your personal brand – what it is, how to build a personal brand, and why it’s so important in today’s hyper-connected information age. We dig into how much of your personal and professional selves should blend and the work you need to do behind-the-scenes to ensure the brand you’re portraying authentically represents who you are. ‘Fake it ‘til you make it’ is not the same as being fake. At the end of the day, we may not be able to control our narrative, but we can shape it. And if you don’t shape your brand story, others will shape it for you. We also chatted about LEGO, momfluencers, getting soft in our old age, and JOHN ADAMS.

Mentioned in this episode:

What’s the Point of a Personal Brand?: https://hbr.org/2022/02/whats-the-point-of-a-personal-brand

I Revamped My Personal Brand Using This 5-step Process. Here's How It Went: https://www.npr.org/2022/12/22/1145024670/find-your-authentic-personal-brand

“The Work You Do, the Person You Are” by Toni Morrison: https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/06/05/toni-morrison-the-work-you-do-the-person-you-are

“Accelerating Your Career With Personal Branding: The Truth About Your Career and Personal Branding” LinkedIn Learning course by Shadé Zahrai: https://www.linkedin.com/learning/accelerating-your-career-with-personal-branding/the-truth-about-your-career-and-personal-branding

Shadé Zahrai: https://www.shadezahrai.com

Nathan Sawaya, LEGO Artist: http://www.nathansawaya.com

Threads: https://about.fb.com/news/2023/07/introducing-threads-new-app-text-sharing/

Hamilton’s “I Know Him”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGibKLo3SC0

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10. What’s It Really Like Moving Abroad to Become an Expat?

Wed, 05 Jul 2023 07:01:04 GMT

It’s summer and we’re catching flights and feelings. And speaking of flights…this week we talk about moving to another country – one of the more popular piloting bucket list items. We’ve both lived abroad for different reasons, and different lengths of time, and this week we explore the realities of actually living in another country. We chat about adapting to a new culture, finding or building community, tips for preparing for the big move, and dealing with the heightened emotions of moving away from home. Will moving to another country fix all your problems? (Sorry, no.) But while difficult, moving abroad – even for a short period – is one of the more life-changing experiences we’ve had. Other things changing our lives this week: Airstream camping, Costa del Sol, and getting out of email jail.

Mentioned in this episode:

Tt Madrid: https://ttmadrid.com/

Stow First Class Folio: https://stowlondon.co.uk/

Ramsden Lake (near Atlanta, Georgia): https://www.ramsdenlake.com/

*We stayed in the Living Garden Airstream: https://www.ramsdenlake.com/living-garden-airstream

Also, our next book club pick is “Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones” by New York Times bestselling author James Clear. We’ll be discussing it on our August 2 episode if you want to read along! https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits

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9. Book Club: The Search: Finding Meaningful Work in a Post-Career World by Bruce Feiler

Wed, 28 Jun 2023 07:00:24 GMT

We’re back with another book club episode! This time around, we’re diving into the newly released “The Search: Finding Meaningful Work in a Post-Career World” by New York Times bestselling author Bruce Feiler. Spoiler alert: we loved it! It forced us to dig into our pasts to answer his questions for anyone searching for more meaning in their work. This book also taught us new vocabulary like “ghost jobs” and “workquakes” – the moments of disruption, inflection, or reevaluation that redirect our work in a meaningful way. We highly recommend it for anyone approaching a season of change and looking for inspiration from the stories of more than 150 people who love their work. Also inspiring us this week: glamping, goop, and upcoming PTO.

In Bruce’s words, “We forget that we’re actually telling a story about who we are through our decisions about what we do.”

Mentioned in this episode:

“The Search: Finding Meaningful Work in a Post-Career World” by Bruce Feiler: https://www.brucefeiler.com/books-articles/the-search/

“Life is in the Transitions: Mastering Change at Any Age” by Bruce Feiler: https://www.brucefeiler.com/books-articles/life-is-in-the-transitions/

‘Anti-Meaningless Work’: How Gen Z are Redefining Traditional Career Paths: https://www.worklife.news/talent/anti-meaningless-work-how-gen-z-are-redefining-traditional-career-paths/

Enneagram: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions

Peoplehood: https://www.peoplehood.com/

Getaway: https://getaway.house/

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8. Does Remote Work Free Up Time to Live a More Fulfilled Life?

Wed, 21 Jun 2023 07:01:15 GMT

This week, we dive into a topic that has been on many workers’ minds in the past few years – remote work. We’re both huge advocates of the flexibility to travel (or live) in different cities, dedicate more time to our personal lives, and ultimately pursue passions that were previously on the back burner. Perfect example: we don’t know if this podcast would be here if we were working in an office full time. But hybrid and remote work doesn’t work for everyone and it definitely is not perfect. There’s a lot to figure out with networking and relationship-building that requires more intentional effort. (Also, let’s be real, the office printer is clutch!) We’re all about living off autopilot, so maybe a little more intentionality as we re-examine our relationship with work might not be such a bad thing… We also chat about angel numbers, shows and podcasts we’re bingeing, and why it’s important to get sunlight first thing in the morning.

Mentioned in this episode:

Americans Will Lose the Equivalent of $5,679 a Year When They Resume Daily Commutes: https://fortune.com/2021/08/05/daily-commutes-cost-money-lost-commuting-in-american-cities/

Remote Work Saved Workers 72 Minutes per Day, Study Finds: https://www.axios.com/2023/01/24/remote-work-saved-workers-72-minutes-per-day-study-finds

The Rise of the Side Startup: https://www.vox.com/recode/23299590/side-startup-remote-workers-founding-businesses-while-employed

Never Have I Ever: https://www.netflix.com/title/80179190

People Who Knew Me: https://open.spotify.com/show/1og7ui5cXgJj4wXOGUhscE

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7. Is A Fear of Burning Bridges the Same As People Pleasing?

Wed, 14 Jun 2023 07:01:18 GMT

Burn baby burn? This week, we get a little spicy and dissect that old work adage, “Never burn bridges”. Is it always a bad thing or can a strategically burned bridge be a catalyst for starting something better? We explore the difference between burning bridges and drawing a boundary, how to balance being honest without being unprofessional or vindictive, and why you shouldn't sweat it too much if you’re the villain in someone’s story (we all are). We also chat about omakase, fifth grade graduations, and dodging people at the grocery store. Wishing you all the ability to walk away from situations with grace and, if you can’t, the conviction to know when you may have to lose a battle to win the war.

Mentioned in this episode:

“Necessary Endings” by Dr. Henry Cloud: https://www.drcloud.com/books/necessary-endings

The Business Case for Burning Bridges: https://marker.medium.com/the-business-case-for-burning-bridges-b473d1697bda

Omakase Experience by Prime Fish (Charlotte, NC): https://omakaseclt.com

Sonder: https://www.sonder.com

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6. Are Motivational Quotes Just Toxic Positivity?

Wed, 07 Jun 2023 07:01:19 GMT

This week, we have our first “listener request” for the topic! In a recent Refinery29 article, “Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway Is Just Another Way Of Making Us Work Harder,” journalist Sarah Macken questions whether social media posts that encourage you to push through the fear just enable burnout and crappy work environments. We discuss the difference between toxic and uncomfortable workplaces, why we low-key love motivational quotes, and how hustle culture is going through an (overdue) upgrade. ‘Fall girl’ Melissa is also booking fights and falling in love with summer, while ‘summer girl’ Renée is listening to her body so she doesn’t mistake fear for a gut feeling.

Mentioned in this episode:

Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway Is Just Another Way Of Making Us Work Harder: https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/feel-the-fear-culture-toxic-comfort-zone

Hustle culture: Is this the end of rise-and-grind?: https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20230417-hustle-culture-is-this-the-end-of-rise-and-grind

Past Lives by Celine Song: https://a24films.com/films/past-lives

Annalie Howling Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cs0y4u9sngV/

Also, our next book club pick is “The Search: Finding Meaningful Work in a Post-Career World” by New York Times bestselling author Bruce Feiler. We’ll be discussing it on our June

June 28 episode if you want to read along! https://www.brucefeiler.com/books-articles/the-search/

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5. Should You Prioritize Education or Experience When Starting Something New?

Wed, 31 May 2023 07:01:22 GMT

When piloting a change, like pivoting your career, what’s more important: education or experience? This week, we chat about weighing the value of a college degree (and its hefty price tag), how the current college to career pipeline is broken and often biased, and why you’re never too old to be an intern. We also celebrate the Miami Heat’s Eastern Conference win, couch potato weekends, and everyone taking their hard-earned vacation days. Whether you’re Team Education or Team Experience, remember to live life and enjoy it. Peace, love, and PTO!

Mentioned in this episode:

U.S. Federal Student Loan Portfolio 2022: https://studentaid.gov/data-center/student/portfolio

The U.S. Education System Isn't Giving Students What Employers Need: https://store.hbr.org/product/the-u-s-education-system-isn-t-giving-students-what-employers-need/H06D9A

For Lower-Income Students, Big Tech Internships Can Be Hard to Get: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/04/05/business/tech-internship-application-grind.html

New Report Shows College Degree Continues To Provide Better Employment Prospects And Higher Income: https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaeltnietzel/2022/06/01/new-report-shows-college-degree-continues-to-provide-better-employment-prospects-and-higher-income/

Pocket: https://getpocket.com

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4. Book Club: Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab

Wed, 24 May 2023 07:00:02 GMT

This week we’re launching our first book club episode! Every month or so, we’ll chat about a different book that has inspired us, taught us something, or given us new confidence or tools in our piloting journey.

For our first book, we read the New York Times bestseller “Set Boundaries, Find Peace” by Nedra Glover Tawwab and now we’re major fans! We got vulnerable in this episode, from unpacking how we’ve failed to enforce our own boundaries to moments when we’ve unintentionally violated others’ boundaries. Even though it can feel scary, it’s also empowering to realize that we have more control in our relationships and experiences than we think. And because boundaries and self-care are connected, we also mention our Love Languages, favorite eyes masks, and why we love high yield savings accounts.

In Nedra’s words, “Your boundaries are a reflection of how willing you are to advocate for the life that you want.”

Email us if you have any books that have helped you on your piloting journey: pilotingpod@gmail.com.

Mentioned in this episode:

“Set Boundaries, Find Peace” by Nedra Glover Tawwab: https://www.nedratawwab.com/set-boundaries-find-peace-1

“Drama Free” by Nedra Glover Tawwab: https://www.nedratawwab.com/drama-free

Kao MegRhythm Steam Eye Mask: https://www.kao.com/ph/megrhythm/

Is Your Money In the Right Place? High Yields Savings Accounts Are The Secret RN | Your Rich BFF: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VpkBOAKR1W4

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3. Is Choosing When to Ignore Feedback the Ultimate Flex?

Wed, 17 May 2023 07:00:37 GMT

Feedback, the other F word. Most people want feedback – at least we do! – but it can sometimes trigger uncomfortable feelings or overly emotional reactions. This week we chat about why you don’t have to absorb all feedback you receive, why time and place are important, and what is the ideal ratio of positive feedback to constructive criticism. We also chat about Pedro Pascal internet fan culture, poetry, and remembering to take deep breaths. Peace, love, and Pascal!

Mentioned in this episode:

How to Make Peace With Others’ False Perception of You: https://blog.darlingmagazine.org/make-peace-others-false-perception/

Feedback Fatigue: How To Know When Enough Is Enough: https://www.forbes.com/sites/nicolelipkin/2022/07/19/feedback-fatigue-how-to-know-when-enough-is-enough/

Women Get “Nicer” Feedback — and It Holds Them Back: https://hbr.org/2023/01/women-get-nicer-feedback-and-it-holds-them-back

Why Women Need to Ask for Better Feedback, More Often:

https://hbr.org/2021/09/why-women-need-to-ask-for-better-feedback-more-often

Mary Oliver, “Have You Ever Tried to Enter the Long Black Branches?”

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2. It’s Still Okay To Be Ambitious, Right?

Wed, 10 May 2023 07:05:02 GMT

We’re back for round two! In this episode, we talk about ambition – how we define it, whether it’s different from hard work, avoiding burnout, and how your ambition may evolve as you do. We also revisit times when we’ve been told to tone down our ambition. Exhibit A: The professor who advised women not to appear too ambitious in job interviews. Exhibit B: The employer who criticized employees “who always asked for more.” Plus, honorable mentions about Kim Kardashian, vampires, and geometry (lol).

Mentioned in this episode:

How women are re-defining ambition to build happier, more successful careers: It isn’t ‘worth sacrificing my mental health for’: https://www.cnbc.com/2023/03/31/how-women-are-re-defining-ambition-to-build-happier-more-successful-careers.html

Kim Kardashian’s Variety Interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XX2izzshRmI

MUNA: https://www.whereismuna.com/

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1. What Does Living on Autopilot Even Mean?

Wed, 10 May 2023 07:01:21 GMT

What does it mean to be on autopilot and how do you shake yourself out of it to make a change? On our pilot episode, we discuss what autopilot feels like, how we’ve pivoted, and why it’s okay if change is an emotional process. Melissa makes a case for starting a ‘well-being list’ and Renée says that even extroverts need alone time before making a major decision. We’re also manifesting having more fun and getting more rest this week!

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0. Trailer

Wed, 26 Apr 2023 04:03:37 GMT

Piloting is a podcast for people who refuse to live on autopilot, where we celebrate risk-takers, go-getters, and anyone craving a change. Every week, cohosts Renée McDonald and Melissa Vega-Magbitang have honest conversations about getting unstuck and getting started.

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