That Sexciting

Ep. 32. AI Roasted Me… I Cried (Kind Of)

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 04:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Yancy lets ChatGPT roast the podcast's Instagram profile—spoiler alert: it did not hold back! After the roast, Yancy tackles a round of questions from GPT and even shares a spooky dating story that’s perfect for the season.

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Ep. 30. Strap? M ap Gere w! ft. Jade Fox

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 04:00:00 GMT

Pride vibes all around! In this episode, Yancy and co-host Kas sit down with Jade Fox, content creator, to dive into her journey with identity, community, and a little Haitian Creole lesson. 🇭🇹

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Ep. 29. French with Benefits ft. Shan Boody

Tue, 21 May 2024 04:00:47 GMT

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with the fabulous Shan Boodram—bestselling author, and sex and relationship expert. Shan spills all the tea on building a roster, navigating friends with benefits, and non-monogamy. With a library of insightful content on love, relationships, and sex on her YouTube channel, Shan BOODY, she's here to break it all down.

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Ep. 28. Cheating? This was no mishaps ft. Eliza Boquin

Tue, 23 Apr 2024 04:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with Eliza Boquin, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. Eliza helps us unpack the reasons behind why people cheat, debunks popular myths around infidelity, and answers questions from our listeners.

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Ep 27. Let's talk about asexuality ft. Yasmin Benoit

Tue, 19 Mar 2024 04:00:25 GMT

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with Yasmin Benoit, an asexual activist, educator, and lingerie model. Yasmin shares her journey navigating (the lack of) intersectionality and educates us on the nuances of asexuality and aromanticism. We break down misconceptions, discuss the intersection of race and sexuality, and explore how Yasmin has carved her own path in a world that often doesn't understand or represent her.

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Announcement: Cliffhanger Resolved & Accountability

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 04:00:35 GMT

Guess who's back (and actually caught up)? Yep, me! Consider it a mid-season cliffhanger that's finally resolved. 😅 The March to July backlog is officially up, and in this announcement, I'm holding myself accountable for the unexpected pause.

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Ep 26. Death & Relationship ft. Corbin x My mom

Tue, 27 Feb 2024 05:00:50 GMT

How have your personal experiences with loss shaped your approach to living?

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with her friend Corbin. Corbin shares her story: the emotional weight of losing a spouse, the intricate process of grieving, and the journey of rediscovering herself.

Yancy also speaks to her mom to learn more about her unique perspective on death, the loss of her late husband, and her thoughts on her own mortality. This episode dives deep into the personal experiences and emotions tied to loss, aiming to offer insight and perhaps a sense of solidarity to those facing their own encounters with grief.

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Resources mentioned:

[NYT Article] What to Say (and What Not to Say) to Someone Who’s Grieving

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/14/smarter-living/what-to-say-and-what-not-to-say-to-someone-whos-grieving.html

[Harvard Article] Ways to support someone who is grieving

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/ways-to-support-someone-who-is-grieving

[Healthline - Not mentioned] Stages of grief

https://www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief#length-of-each-stage

Confidential & Anonymous Phone Lines have personally helped me navigate grief as someone who experienced it and for supporting others.

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Announcement: WE'RE BACK!

Wed, 10 Jan 2024 05:00:29 GMT

Super (s)exciting news... The podcast is back!

It feels so good to get back into it! Today's episode is a check-in to fill you in on what happened behind the scenes, what is in the works for the podcast, and more.

🍉🇵🇸 Yancy discusses what is happening in Gaza by breaking down key points about her field - sexuality. CEASE FIRE NOW!

Sources mentioned

Mama Doctor Jones Youtube Video [3m30-3m53]:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxxn0SdbVWk

WHO Report Cited:

https://www.who.int/news/item/03-11-2023-women-and-newborns-bearing-the-brunt-of-the-conflict-in-gaza-un-agencies-warn

Queering The Map:

https://www.queeringthemap.com/

Sound credit:

Dreamland by Øneheart.

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Ep 25. Why Sex Ed Needs it’s Own Class ft. Mariah @sexedfiles

Tue, 28 Mar 2023 04:00:00 GMT

Let’s talk about Sex Education! Yancy virtually sits down with Mariah from the @sexedfiles to discuss what comprehensive sex education is, school curriculums and answer a popular sexedfile question!

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Resources mentioned:

Sex check-list by Scarleteen

https://bit.ly/44qkWWg

Mattxiv’s Instagram Post:

“There’s no such thing as an LGBTQ child”

https://bit.ly/411GLIV

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Ep 24. Intimacy & Friendship? ft. Naika Champaigne

Tue, 28 Feb 2023 04:00:00 GMT

What are your thoughts on intimacy and friendships?

On this episode, Yancy sits down with old crush (now good friend) Naika to discuss types of intimacy, and check in on their friendship.

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Article mentioned:

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-intimacy-in-a-relationship-5199766

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Ep 23. RECAP OF 2022 ft. Jen

Tue, 03 Jan 2023 04:00:00 GMT

That Sexciting is a year old! Dive with Yancy into the top moments of 2022.

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https://bit.ly/cuspofdarkness

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Ep 22. Accountability in Dating? ft. Rome Green Jr.

Tue, 06 Dec 2022 04:00:00 GMT

What's the current dating pool like today? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Rome Green Jr. to discuss the current dating market. Rome opens up about his dating experiences, the difference between relationships and connections, the lack of accountability and self-awareness of prospects and how his views on relationships evolved after his trip to Africa.

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Podcast: @cthpodcast

www.shadysideup.com

Book Mentioned

Game of Desire by Shan Boody

https://www.thegameofdesire.com/workbook

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Ep 21. So... who's like the man? ft. bae

Wed, 02 Nov 2022 04:00:00 GMT

This week, Yancy sits down with her partner to discuss what feminine and masculine energy are for them. They explore how they view their partnership, why Yancy views herself as more masculine and how they grew in love.

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Ep 20. Sexual shame and healing Ft. Kaci Mial

Wed, 19 Oct 2022 04:00:00 GMT

SHAME! It all affects us in unique ways in our sexuality. Navigating and unlearning these beliefs is a journey.

This week, Eleanor Gershman, social work and sexual health scholar, shares her knowledge of purity culture. Yancy is joined by Kaci Mial to discuss what sexual shame is, how it is experienced and how one can start the healing journey.

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Information mentioned:

Sex Positive Families

Instagram: @sexpositive_families

Website: www.sexpositivefamilies.com

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Ep 19. Shedding shame (Check in)

Tue, 04 Oct 2022 04:00:00 GMT

In our society, navigating sexuality can be one tricky experience… Exploring how sexual shame may have been internalized is one step towards shedding shame and approaching YOUR ideal sexuality.

This week, Yancy models how to explore your internalized sexual shame through 5 questions. Grab your pen and paper, reflect and connect the dots looking backwards.

This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we encourage you to reach out to a professional or a recognized community group in your area.

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Ep 18. Sex, Art & Feminism ft. Miss Me

Tue, 20 Sep 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Can you recall a moment or experience that led to your understanding of patriarchy?

This week, Yancy sits down with one of her favourite visual artists Miss Me Art. They talk about meeting our own patriarchal mindset, the sexual shame for people with vulvas, Miss Me’s art as therapy and she shares the emotional story of how she discovered that her body is not the problem.

Furthermore, Yancy explores with Andrea Cooks the power and benefits of art therapy.

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Miss Me

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Andrea Cook

Instagram: @intimagetherapie

Facebook: @INTIMAGEtherapie

Clinique Intimage la thérapie par les Arts

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Ep 17. Sexual Assault & Healing ft. Jimanekia Eborn

Tue, 13 Sep 2022 04:00:00 GMT

This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Jimanekia Eborn, a queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They talk about the power of self-identifying, navigating sexuality as a survivor, how we can show up for ourselves and how we can support our peers.

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Ressources mentioned:

The Tao of Trauma by Alaine D. Duncan, Kathy L. Kain

shorturl.at/qrUX2

What Happened to You? By Oprah Winfrey & Bruce D. Perry

shorturl.at/kmPX8

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.

shorturl.at/dNRS3

TRE stretching exercices:

Vagus Nerve Reset To Release Trauma Stored In The Body (Polyvagal Exercises) - YouTube

TRE, Trauma Releasing Exercises - YouTube

TRE® : Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises, an Introduction with Jessica Schaffer - YouTube

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Announcement: We're back!

Tue, 06 Sep 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Miss me yet? Yancy gives a little update on the... GoFundMe! But, don't worry. We're coming back next week with our regular long format/check-in program.

GoFundMe: To this date, the podcast is funded, curated, produced, edited and marketed by your truly, one-woman-band Yancy. It goes without saying that podcast production is expensive, especially for a solopreneur... Help the project and our mission to create more discussions and content around intimacy, relationships, and sexuality.

The podcast is raising funds

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Ep 16. How are you doing, really? (Check in)

Tue, 21 Jun 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Yancy’s popping in for a check in episode and letting you know what she’s been up to for the last month. We’ll pick up the long-format episodes later this year.

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Things mentioned:

Listening line in Quebec

https://www.211qc.ca/en/psychosocial-support/helplines-talklines

List of emotions

https://www.courts.ca.gov/partners/documents/2011SRL3gNVC.pdf

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0062641549/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4VXM33RP60ZBM9778DYR

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Announcement: We're on a break

Thu, 12 May 2022 04:00:00 GMT

The podcast is starting the summer break sooner than announced. Stay tuned and follow us on Instagram to know when we’ll be coming back.

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Music Credit Used With Permission

Only 1 from Mel Pacifico

Produced by Caulder Nash

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Ep 15. Vulnerability and photography ft. Sara Hini

Tue, 03 May 2022 04:00:00 GMT

This week, Yancy sits down with Sara Hini, a Queer Algerian-Amazigh Photographer. They discuss Sara’s journey as a photographer, what is intimacy and have a raw conversation about fears and love.

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Instagram: @sara_hini

Patreon: www.patreon.com/sarahini

Mentions:

The Four Horsemen

https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/

Esther Perel

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P964sIANSWI&t=3s

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Ep 14. Ethical Porn ft. Mickey Mod

Tue, 19 Apr 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Do you know what Ethically produced porn is? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with adult performer Mickey Mod. They explore the question of what is ethically produced pornography, the history of porn, and the impact of porn on Mickey’s intimacy.

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Instagram: @themickeymod

Twitter: @themickeymod

OnlyFans: @themickeymod

Source mentioned:

Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find It

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn

**Correction: Cinematographic images date from the late 1800s. Not early 1900s :-)!

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Ep 13. Exploration session: sexual desires ft. Maya Glenn (Check in)

Tue, 12 Apr 2022 04:00:00 GMT

When was the last time you reflected on your sexual desires? Specifically, about the different pathways to sexual arousal? This week, Yancy passes the mic to Maya Glenn for a check-in episode. Maya invites you to ponder on what makes you feel turned on and to do so in an explorative and mind-expanding way.

This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we encourage you to reach out to a professional or a recognized community group in your area.

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Ep 12. Dad, you did WHAT with mom? ft. Preach

Tue, 05 Apr 2022 04:00:00 GMT

What did your caregivers tell you about sex? Did you ever have a sex talk at home?

This week, Yancy and Preach talk about the Sex talk he had at home, his relationship with his sibling and how the sex talk goes down in his men group. Yancy was also joined by her cousin Mike Martial that shared his sex talk growing up, the one he had with his son and pornography.

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YouTube: @abaandpreach

Podcast: @abavspreach & @lesfallopes

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Ep 11. Love, Jealousy, & Polyamory ft. Carole

Tue, 29 Mar 2022 04:00:00 GMT

What relationship structure do you adhere to? Monogamy? Open relationships? Polyamory? This week Yancy is joined by Carole to discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy. They explore what is Carole’s ideal relationship structure, how jealousy plays out and the importance of taking ownership of one’s emotions and healing.

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Instagram: @blackartbyme

Books mentioned:

The Ethical Slut

https://www.amazon.ca/Ethical-Slut-Second-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

https://www.amazon.ca/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987

Ethical Non-Monogamous structures definitions.

https://shrimpteeth.com/structures

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Ep 10. Is flirting selfish? ft. Jared Brady

Tue, 22 Mar 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Is flirting selfish? This week, Yancy is joined with Jared Brady for an explicit discussion on flirting. Tune in to this raw and honest conversation on what is Jared’s definition of flirting, our flirting types as well as relationship styles and how to keep the spark alive in a marriage.

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Ep 9. U-Haul lesbian move ft. Nookie

Tue, 15 Mar 2022 04:00:00 GMT

This week on That Sexciting, join Yancy and one of her role models, her cousin Nookie, for a raw and intimate conversation about coming out and exploring one’s sexual orientation. Listen to cousins of different generations speak about their online dating experiences, their coming out stories and the importance of having a community and a chosen family.

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Ep 8. No… You’re not “clean” ft. Dr. Ina Park

Tue, 08 Mar 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Can you catch an STI from a public toilet? This week, Yancy is discussing STIs with sex-positive researcher and physician Dr. Ina Parks. They break down the misinformation and negative ideologies surrounding the topic, how often one should get tested, and how to have the “I got tested” conversation.

Stay until the end for a game of True or False!

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Books mentioned:

Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs

https://www.amazon.ca/Strange-Bedfellows-Adventures-Science-Surprising/dp/1250206626

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Ep 6. Wait, what about you? (Check in)

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 04:00:00 GMT

How often do you think about sex? Specifically about how you define it, what you like, what you desire, etc? This week, Yancy invites you to reflect on your sexual journey. A guided meditation to explore 5 questions from the game Sex Talk ©. Please note that it is not a sponsor. Yancy just LOOOOOVES this game!

This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we encourage you to reach out to a professional or a recognized community group in your area.

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During sex, I want to feel…

https://www.instagram.com/p/CNlPgAeFBtc/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

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Ep 5. Where’s the Clitoris? ft. Dr. Laurie Mintz

Tue, 08 Feb 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Did you know that 67% of women have faked an orgasm at least once in their lifetime?

This week, Yancy is joined by Professor Dr. Laurie Mintz. Together they discuss the orgasm gap’s origin, how the current sex education system is failing us and tips on how to improve communication in the bedroom!

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Dr. Laurie Mintz’s Book

Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It

https://www.drlauriemintz.com/books-about-sexuality

ARTICLE CITED:

Sexual Revolution | Orgasm Gap | How to Pleasure a Woman

https://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/sexual-revolution-orgasm-gap-how-to-pleasure-a-woman

Four Techniques Women Use To Enhance Pleasure During Intercourse

https://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/sexually

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Ep 4. Gender vs. Sex ft. Maya Glenn

Tue, 01 Feb 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Can you remember the first time that you heard gender and sex are distinct?

This week, Yancy is joined with Maya who breaks down what Gender Essentialism is. The theory suggests that a person’s essence is either feminine/female or masculine/male. Maya expands on how this concept is flawed and brings nuance to sexuality, gender, and sex through a sociological lens.

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Things mentioned

Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/

Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.

https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/

Gender Essentialism Is Flawed — Here’s Why

https://www.healthline.com/health/gender-essentialism

Information mentioned:

Becoming a Gendered Body: Practices of Preschools

https://observatorio.campus-virtual.org/uploads/21717_Martin_ASR1998_Becoming-gendered.pdf

The Egg and the Sperm: How Science Has Constructed a Romance Based on Stereotypical Male-Female Roles

https://web.stanford.edu/~eckert/PDF/Martin1991.pdf

LGBT+ Statistics

https://news.gallup.com/poll/329708/lgbt-identification-rises-latest-estimate.aspx

The future of sex and gender in psychology: Five challenges to the gender binary

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-32185-001

Bilingual Glossary on Gender Identity

https://www.jurisource.ca/prj/phpnfzuAL1522955217.pdf

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Ep 3. Dating patterns: Is this self-sabotage? ft. Ariella Serur

Tue, 25 Jan 2022 04:00:00 GMT

This week Yancy is joined by queer dating coach Ariella Serur. Together they discuss dating in a fulfilling and healthy way, with a focus on the queer community.

Join us for a vulnerable conversation where Yancy opens up about her self-discovery, dating journey and engages in a conversation that forces one to examine their own boundaries, dating expectations and inner saboteur!

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Instagram: @queerdatingcoach

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Things mentioned

Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/

Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.

https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/

Books mentioned

Deeper dating - Ken Page

The Ethical Slut - Janet W. Hardy

Mating In Captivity - Esther Perel

Unlonely planet - Jillian Richardson

Stay curious cause That Sexciting!

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Ep 2. Anchor, island & waves: Attachment Theory ft. Lucille Shackleton

Tue, 18 Jan 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Do you know what your attachment style is?

In this week’s episode, Yancy discusses Attachment Theory with behavioural scientist and counsellor, Lucille Shackelton. The dive into its 4 distinct styles, and the sometimes uncomfortable questions it can invoke!

Attachment theory is founded on the idea that our caregiver-child relationship dynamics shape how we hold close intimate connections as adults. In essence: “your attachment style is a blueprint of your basic assumptions about safety and trust*.”

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Instagram: @centredselftherapy

Website: www.centredselftherapy.com

Her Upcoming Podcast: Relationship Realities

Content mentioned

Turn on trigger quiz by Shan Boodram

https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quiz

Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/

Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.

https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/

Books mentioned:

Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin

Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin

Your brain on love by Stan Tatkin

Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

* The Attachment Theory Workbook by Annie Chem

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Ep 1. Bonjour, hi!

Tue, 11 Jan 2022 04:00:00 GMT

Intimacy, relationships and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly and shamelessly.

Join in every Tuesday as your host Yancy, intimacy enthusiast and content creator, opens the conversation on these topics. Every week, you will hear from experts, professionals and people from different walks of life.

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Oh, That Sexciting!

Wed, 05 Jan 2022 14:45:00 GMT

Intimacy, relationships, and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly, and shamelessly.

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