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			<description><![CDATA[<p>🩷 Love the show? Join the <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a>!</p><p>📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Most women think we need chase people/things. That's because patriarchy has brainwashed us to think we need to prove ourselves in order to affirm our self-worth. </p><br><p>In this episode, I'll get into why the complete opposite is true. In fact, making women think they're the chasers rather than the choosers goes against the matriarchal nature of human beings.</p><br><p>When we sit back and let people prove themselves to us, we trigger a very basic psychological need for validation. I call this being an anus and shifting the onus. </p><br><p>In this episode, I’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why proving yourself makes you look weak &amp; disposable</li><li>How to stop looking desperate</li><li>Three psychological strategies to trigger people's need to prove themselves to you</li><li>How to use this law in dating, work, business, and life</li><li>How to let go of the guilt and doubt holding you back from doing this</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><br><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>3:48 Why proving yourself makes people respect you less</p><p>16:00 The law in the wild</p><p>19:39 Three ways to trigger people's psychological need to prove themselves</p><p>35:42 Exceptions &amp; final thoughts</p><br><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>🩷 Love the show? Join the <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a>!</p><p>📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Most women think we need chase people/things. That's because patriarchy has brainwashed us to think we need to prove ourselves in order to affirm our self-worth. </p><br><p>In this episode, I'll get into why the complete opposite is true. In fact, making women think they're the chasers rather than the choosers goes against the matriarchal nature of human beings.</p><br><p>When we sit back and let people prove themselves to us, we trigger a very basic psychological need for validation. I call this being an anus and shifting the onus. </p><br><p>In this episode, I’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why proving yourself makes you look weak &amp; disposable</li><li>How to stop looking desperate</li><li>Three psychological strategies to trigger people's need to prove themselves to you</li><li>How to use this law in dating, work, business, and life</li><li>How to let go of the guilt and doubt holding you back from doing this</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><br><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>3:48 Why proving yourself makes people respect you less</p><p>16:00 The law in the wild</p><p>19:39 Three ways to trigger people's psychological need to prove themselves</p><p>35:42 Exceptions &amp; final thoughts</p><br><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[You're not mean enough]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>🩷 Love the show? Join the <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a>!</p><p>📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Niceness is a way of grooming women for extraction. We're brainwashed into thinking it's more important to be liked than to be respected, and we can only be liked by doing things for others.</p><br><p>Not only does this set you up for failure, it also makes people much less likely to respect you.</p><br><p>Sure, everyone likes the nice girl because they can use her, but no one respects her. And chances are, you're not mean enough.</p><br><p>In this episode, I’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>How to earn the respect you deserve</li><li>What it means to be mean</li><li>How to take a page out of mens' book (after we unstick the pages)</li><li>3 mindset shifts to break free from the nice girl conditioning</li><li>An example of a spicy personal incident &amp; what the baddies can learn from it</li><li>Also what I learned from watching Jersey Shore</li></ul><p><br></p><br><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>2:13 The dangers of "nice girl" grooming</p><p>8:04 Niceness vs kindness</p><p>15:27 How to be mean &amp; gain respect</p><p>29:00 Three mindsets every self-respecting woman needs</p><br><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>🩷 Love the show? Join the <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a>!</p><p>📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Niceness is a way of grooming women for extraction. We're brainwashed into thinking it's more important to be liked than to be respected, and we can only be liked by doing things for others.</p><br><p>Not only does this set you up for failure, it also makes people much less likely to respect you.</p><br><p>Sure, everyone likes the nice girl because they can use her, but no one respects her. And chances are, you're not mean enough.</p><br><p>In this episode, I’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>How to earn the respect you deserve</li><li>What it means to be mean</li><li>How to take a page out of mens' book (after we unstick the pages)</li><li>3 mindset shifts to break free from the nice girl conditioning</li><li>An example of a spicy personal incident &amp; what the baddies can learn from it</li><li>Also what I learned from watching Jersey Shore</li></ul><p><br></p><br><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>2:13 The dangers of "nice girl" grooming</p><p>8:04 Niceness vs kindness</p><p>15:27 How to be mean &amp; gain respect</p><p>29:00 Three mindsets every self-respecting woman needs</p><br><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>How to use mansplainers to your advantage</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>🩷 Love the show? Join the <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a>!</p><p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p><br></p><p>Mansplainers are the unpaid interns of the patriarchy. Annoying, yes. Useful, also yes.</p><br><p>In this episode, I break down a simple psychological formula that turns mansplaining into a strategic advantage. Because it’s time to stop playing fair in an unfair world. When you understand the psychology behind why someone feels the need to explain everything to you, the dynamic DRASTICALLY changes.&nbsp;</p><br><p>Instead of shutting them down, you guide the conversation, lower their guard, and steer the interaction where you want it to go.</p><br><p>Smart women don’t get mad. They redirect a mansplainer’s impulse to explain into leverage.</p><br><p>This episode explains the same elicitation techniques used by intelligence professionals in agencies like the FBI and CIA. These methods help investigators gather information without triggering defensiveness. The same principles apply in everyday conversations, at work, in dating, and in social settings.</p><br><p>I’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The elicitation technique used by intelligence agencies to gather information</li><li>The three-step formula that turns mansplaining into a strategic advantage</li><li>The psychology behind mansplaining</li><li>How to lower someone’s guard so they reveal more than they intended</li><li>How “nice girl” conditioning trains women to give away their power</li><li>Why strategic communication is not manipulation</li></ul><p><br></p><br><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>3:30 How to use elicitation on mansplainers</p><p>9:10 Unlearning “nice girl” grooming</p><p>19:07 Join the Patreon</p><p>20:54 The psychological formula</p><p>33:41 Is this manipulative?</p><br><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>🩷 Love the show? Join the <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a>!</p><p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p><br></p><p>Mansplainers are the unpaid interns of the patriarchy. Annoying, yes. Useful, also yes.</p><br><p>In this episode, I break down a simple psychological formula that turns mansplaining into a strategic advantage. Because it’s time to stop playing fair in an unfair world. When you understand the psychology behind why someone feels the need to explain everything to you, the dynamic DRASTICALLY changes.&nbsp;</p><br><p>Instead of shutting them down, you guide the conversation, lower their guard, and steer the interaction where you want it to go.</p><br><p>Smart women don’t get mad. They redirect a mansplainer’s impulse to explain into leverage.</p><br><p>This episode explains the same elicitation techniques used by intelligence professionals in agencies like the FBI and CIA. These methods help investigators gather information without triggering defensiveness. The same principles apply in everyday conversations, at work, in dating, and in social settings.</p><br><p>I’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The elicitation technique used by intelligence agencies to gather information</li><li>The three-step formula that turns mansplaining into a strategic advantage</li><li>The psychology behind mansplaining</li><li>How to lower someone’s guard so they reveal more than they intended</li><li>How “nice girl” conditioning trains women to give away their power</li><li>Why strategic communication is not manipulation</li></ul><p><br></p><br><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>3:30 How to use elicitation on mansplainers</p><p>9:10 Unlearning “nice girl” grooming</p><p>19:07 Join the Patreon</p><p>20:54 The psychological formula</p><p>33:41 Is this manipulative?</p><br><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>How to stop over explaining yourself: The hidden social rule you need to know</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>In this episode, I talk about why so many women feel the need to keep explaining themselves. Over explaining often comes from people pleasing, fear of judgment, and subtle social power dynamics. Once you see the pattern, you start noticing how explaining yourself too much affects confidence, boundaries, and the way people (don't) respect you.</p><br><p>I'll break down the psychology behind over explaining, why women do it, and the mindset shift that helps you stop explaining yourself and start being taken seriously.</p><br><p>This episode is complimentary to the one directly preceding it (Girly law of power #32: Stop trying to be understood by everyone).</p><br><p>PS I strongly recommend you listen to this with earphones to get the full experience. You'll see what I mean...because when I told y'all everything up until late 2025 was just a WARM UP!! This is the most intricately produced episode I've ever created. I'm so excited for you to listen.</p><br><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>3:32 Why women have a compulsion to over explain</p><p>12:52 How over explaining creates an ENERGY VACUUM </p><p>17:02 6 ways to stop over explaining yourself </p><p>31:43 My final gift to you </p><br><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>In this episode, I talk about why so many women feel the need to keep explaining themselves. Over explaining often comes from people pleasing, fear of judgment, and subtle social power dynamics. Once you see the pattern, you start noticing how explaining yourself too much affects confidence, boundaries, and the way people (don't) respect you.</p><br><p>I'll break down the psychology behind over explaining, why women do it, and the mindset shift that helps you stop explaining yourself and start being taken seriously.</p><br><p>This episode is complimentary to the one directly preceding it (Girly law of power #32: Stop trying to be understood by everyone).</p><br><p>PS I strongly recommend you listen to this with earphones to get the full experience. You'll see what I mean...because when I told y'all everything up until late 2025 was just a WARM UP!! This is the most intricately produced episode I've ever created. I'm so excited for you to listen.</p><br><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>3:32 Why women have a compulsion to over explain</p><p>12:52 How over explaining creates an ENERGY VACUUM </p><p>17:02 6 ways to stop over explaining yourself </p><p>31:43 My final gift to you </p><br><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>We've made it to law #32! Not that it's a particularly important number...I'm just grateful to have all you baddies here &lt;3</p><br><p>Being understood is bloody exhausting. It's also a way we get emotional safety, because we've been brainwashed to believe that our truth is only valid if others understand and accept it. What a load of baloney.</p><br><p>In this episode, we're throwing out this rotten baloney by discussing:   </p><ul><li>How being understood is a fear-based response</li><li>Why the patriarchy benefits from our compulsion to feel understood </li><li>How this damages people's perception of us &amp; makes them respect us less</li><li>5 ways to unlearn this compulsion</li><li>The patriarchy loophole we can exploit when we stop trying to be understood</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>We've made it to law #32! Not that it's a particularly important number...I'm just grateful to have all you baddies here &lt;3</p><br><p>Being understood is bloody exhausting. It's also a way we get emotional safety, because we've been brainwashed to believe that our truth is only valid if others understand and accept it. What a load of baloney.</p><br><p>In this episode, we're throwing out this rotten baloney by discussing:   </p><ul><li>How being understood is a fear-based response</li><li>Why the patriarchy benefits from our compulsion to feel understood </li><li>How this damages people's perception of us &amp; makes them respect us less</li><li>5 ways to unlearn this compulsion</li><li>The patriarchy loophole we can exploit when we stop trying to be understood</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>In this episode, I break down every week of our menstrual cycle and to help you understand what’s happening hormonally, what your body needs from you, and how you can sync your cycle to your life.</p><br><p><strong>We’ll discuss:</strong></p><ul><li>All 4 weeks: Menstruation, the follicular phase, ovulation, and the luteal phase</li><li>How your estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone levels are changing</li><li>What this means for your mood, energy levels, productivity, sociability, and physical performance</li><li>What your body is trying to do during each phase</li><li>What each phase is best suited for</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>2:03 - Intro, the basics of the follicular &amp; luteal phases, estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone</li><li>9:01 - Week 1: Menstruation (Winter)</li><li>22:29 - Week 2: Follicular (Spring)</li><li>28:54 - Week 3: Ovulation (Summer)</li><li>38:21 - Week 4 Luteal (Autumn)</li><li>47:08 - Improving your gut health to address PMDD &amp; PMS</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to each timestamp</p><br><p><strong>Sources:</strong></p><p><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12404255/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Association Between Magnesium Intake and Migraine Among Pre and Postmenopausal Women: A Cross-Sectional Study</a></p><p><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7551876/#B99-nutrients-12-02660" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Headaches and Magnesium: Mechanisms, Bioavailability, Therapeutic Efficacy and Potential Advantage of Magnesium Pidolate</a></p><p><a href="https://open.acast.com/%E2%80%8B%E2%80%8Bhttps://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513807000694" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Ovulatory cycle effects on tip earnings by lap dancers: economic evidence for human estrus?</a></p><p><a href="https://www.mdpi.com/2076-3417/15/7/3749" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Oxygen, Hormones, and Performance: A Case Study of Menstrual Cycle Effects on Athletic Physiology</a></p><p><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40653191-period-power" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Period Power by Maisie Hill</a></p><p><a href="https://www.scielo.br/j/rn/a/pKtvkXwZ33VLXd4yrL9SV8v/?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The effect of diet and aerobic exercise on Premenstrual Syndrome: Randomized controlled trial</a></p><p><a href="https://healthpath.com/gut-health/the-estrobolome-the-gut-microbiome-estrogen-connection/strogen Connection" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Estrobolome: The Gut Microbiome-Estrogen Connection</a></p><p><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7108710/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Women’s body odour during the ovulatory phase modulates testosterone and cortisol levels in men</a></p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>In this episode, I break down every week of our menstrual cycle and to help you understand what’s happening hormonally, what your body needs from you, and how you can sync your cycle to your life.</p><br><p><strong>We’ll discuss:</strong></p><ul><li>All 4 weeks: Menstruation, the follicular phase, ovulation, and the luteal phase</li><li>How your estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone levels are changing</li><li>What this means for your mood, energy levels, productivity, sociability, and physical performance</li><li>What your body is trying to do during each phase</li><li>What each phase is best suited for</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li>2:03 - Intro, the basics of the follicular &amp; luteal phases, estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone</li><li>9:01 - Week 1: Menstruation (Winter)</li><li>22:29 - Week 2: Follicular (Spring)</li><li>28:54 - Week 3: Ovulation (Summer)</li><li>38:21 - Week 4 Luteal (Autumn)</li><li>47:08 - Improving your gut health to address PMDD &amp; PMS</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to each timestamp</p><br><p><strong>Sources:</strong></p><p><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12404255/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Association Between Magnesium Intake and Migraine Among Pre and Postmenopausal Women: A Cross-Sectional Study</a></p><p><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7551876/#B99-nutrients-12-02660" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Headaches and Magnesium: Mechanisms, Bioavailability, Therapeutic Efficacy and Potential Advantage of Magnesium Pidolate</a></p><p><a href="https://open.acast.com/%E2%80%8B%E2%80%8Bhttps://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513807000694" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Ovulatory cycle effects on tip earnings by lap dancers: economic evidence for human estrus?</a></p><p><a href="https://www.mdpi.com/2076-3417/15/7/3749" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Oxygen, Hormones, and Performance: A Case Study of Menstrual Cycle Effects on Athletic Physiology</a></p><p><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40653191-period-power" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Period Power by Maisie Hill</a></p><p><a href="https://www.scielo.br/j/rn/a/pKtvkXwZ33VLXd4yrL9SV8v/?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The effect of diet and aerobic exercise on Premenstrual Syndrome: Randomized controlled trial</a></p><p><a href="https://healthpath.com/gut-health/the-estrobolome-the-gut-microbiome-estrogen-connection/strogen Connection" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Estrobolome: The Gut Microbiome-Estrogen Connection</a></p><p><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7108710/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Women’s body odour during the ovulatory phase modulates testosterone and cortisol levels in men</a></p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Smart women can’t afford to romanticize love</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>From the time we're little girls, we're taught that romantic love is something we should aspire to. That when we grow up, we have to find Mr. Right and marry him for love. And if we don't marry for love, we're shallow, demanding, gold diggers.</p><br><p>The real gold diggers are men who sell the myth of romantic love, because they have nothing else to offer.</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll map out romantic love to the 4 rungs of the marketing funnel (awareness, consideration, conversion, loyalty) and discuss how love has been used as a recruitment strategy by the patriarchy.</p><p> </p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>From the time we're little girls, we're taught that romantic love is something we should aspire to. That when we grow up, we have to find Mr. Right and marry him for love. And if we don't marry for love, we're shallow, demanding, gold diggers.</p><br><p>The real gold diggers are men who sell the myth of romantic love, because they have nothing else to offer.</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll map out romantic love to the 4 rungs of the marketing funnel (awareness, consideration, conversion, loyalty) and discuss how love has been used as a recruitment strategy by the patriarchy.</p><p> </p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>In this highly-requested episode, we’re going to discuss the question everyone’s asked at some point: Can you trust your coworkers?</p><br><p>Because I’m a Machiavellian Barbie and not just some sheep, I’m going to go WAY deeper than anyone ever has when discussing this question. We’ll talk about:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why the workplace rewards the worst of human nature</li><li>The scarcity mindset that fuels workplace competition</li><li>Why the workplace is a dictatorship</li><li>How companies use industry jargon to manipulate reality</li><li>9 types of people to watch out for</li><li>10 ways to protect yourself</li></ul><p><br></p><p>9 types of people to watch out for:</p><ol><li>Anyone who’s overly friendly (17:20)</li><li>Anyone who’s quiet while others are sharing (18:29)</li><li>Anyone who gossips to you (19:07)</li><li>Women who are your polar opposite (19:51)</li><li>Anyone who’s insecure (23:44)</li><li>Anyone who gets easily defensive/dodges accountability (24:48)</li><li>Anyone who ties their identity to their job (25:40)</li><li>Anyone who has no way out (e.g. kids, mortgage) (26:57)</li><li>Anyone who makes you doubt yourself (28:45)</li></ol><p><br></p><p>10 ways to protect yourself:</p><ol><li>Document everything (30:48)</li><li>Don’t share anything that can be leverage<strong> </strong>(31:38)</li><li>Control your emotional leakage (32:53)</li><li>Observe like your life depends on it (33:43)</li><li>Don’t be afraid to lie (35:24)</li><li>Have an exit plan (36:33)</li><li>Decouple your value from your job (38:03)</li><li>Be conditional with your loyalty (39:54)</li><li>Blend in on the outside, revolt on the inside (42:23)</li><li>Always trust your instinct (44:00)</li></ol><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 mins to each timestamp</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>In this highly-requested episode, we’re going to discuss the question everyone’s asked at some point: Can you trust your coworkers?</p><br><p>Because I’m a Machiavellian Barbie and not just some sheep, I’m going to go WAY deeper than anyone ever has when discussing this question. We’ll talk about:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why the workplace rewards the worst of human nature</li><li>The scarcity mindset that fuels workplace competition</li><li>Why the workplace is a dictatorship</li><li>How companies use industry jargon to manipulate reality</li><li>9 types of people to watch out for</li><li>10 ways to protect yourself</li></ul><p><br></p><p>9 types of people to watch out for:</p><ol><li>Anyone who’s overly friendly (17:20)</li><li>Anyone who’s quiet while others are sharing (18:29)</li><li>Anyone who gossips to you (19:07)</li><li>Women who are your polar opposite (19:51)</li><li>Anyone who’s insecure (23:44)</li><li>Anyone who gets easily defensive/dodges accountability (24:48)</li><li>Anyone who ties their identity to their job (25:40)</li><li>Anyone who has no way out (e.g. kids, mortgage) (26:57)</li><li>Anyone who makes you doubt yourself (28:45)</li></ol><p><br></p><p>10 ways to protect yourself:</p><ol><li>Document everything (30:48)</li><li>Don’t share anything that can be leverage<strong> </strong>(31:38)</li><li>Control your emotional leakage (32:53)</li><li>Observe like your life depends on it (33:43)</li><li>Don’t be afraid to lie (35:24)</li><li>Have an exit plan (36:33)</li><li>Decouple your value from your job (38:03)</li><li>Be conditional with your loyalty (39:54)</li><li>Blend in on the outside, revolt on the inside (42:23)</li><li>Always trust your instinct (44:00)</li></ol><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 mins to each timestamp</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #31: Be the fantasy woman</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>People don't want the truth, they want what's going to make them feel better. And that's exactly what the fantasy woman does.</p><br><p>Too many women are caught up in the Righteousness Olympics, and think they have to be 100% honest all the time. LOL. Imagine playing fair in an unfair, patriarchal world. In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why people don't want the truth</li><li>Why you'll always lose when you play fair and honest</li><li>How men, employers, and job recruiters cracked this code a long time ago</li><li>How they've been selling you the fantasy to take advantage of you</li><li>How to be the fantasy woman in dating, work, and job interviews</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Timestamps:</p><ul><li>Intro: What is fantasy and why are people so obsessed with it (1:50)</li><li>Exceptions: Why fair, righteous women always lose (12:09)</li><li>Example: How job recruiters sell you the fantasy (17:46)</li><li>How to be the fantasy woman (25:16)</li><li>Tricks for dating (30:14)</li><li>Tricks for the workplace &amp; job interviews (36:15)</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>People don't want the truth, they want what's going to make them feel better. And that's exactly what the fantasy woman does.</p><br><p>Too many women are caught up in the Righteousness Olympics, and think they have to be 100% honest all the time. LOL. Imagine playing fair in an unfair, patriarchal world. In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why people don't want the truth</li><li>Why you'll always lose when you play fair and honest</li><li>How men, employers, and job recruiters cracked this code a long time ago</li><li>How they've been selling you the fantasy to take advantage of you</li><li>How to be the fantasy woman in dating, work, and job interviews</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Timestamps:</p><ul><li>Intro: What is fantasy and why are people so obsessed with it (1:50)</li><li>Exceptions: Why fair, righteous women always lose (12:09)</li><li>Example: How job recruiters sell you the fantasy (17:46)</li><li>How to be the fantasy woman (25:16)</li><li>Tricks for dating (30:14)</li><li>Tricks for the workplace &amp; job interviews (36:15)</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Why the biological clock is a damaging patriarchal myth</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or purchase the <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">signed paperback, PDF or EPUB directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>You won't believe what I'm about to tell you. Women don't have a "biological clock." That term was coined by journalist Richard Cohen in his misogynistic 1978 article "<a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/local/1978/03/16/the-clock-is-ticking-for-the-career-woman/bd566aa8-fd7d-43da-9be9-ad025759d0a4/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Clock Is Ticking For The Career Woman.</a>" This article hits the two Ps (pseudoscience and patriarchy) and does what these silly Ps do best: rush women into motherhood and shame them for prioritizing their careers.</p><br><p>In the words of Kesha, "Tik tok on the clock but the party don't stop." Because for women, the party truly doesn't stop. That's why humans are one of the only mammals with menopause.</p><br><p>In fact, research is finding that MEN have a biological clock, and it begins ticking around age 35.</p><br><p>Sources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/fertility-timeline#Ages-41-to-45" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">A Look at Your Fertility Timeline</a></li><li><a href="https://academic.oup.com/humrep/article-abstract/10/5/1090/646310" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Andrology: Cumulative conception rate following intrauterine artificial insemination with husband's spermatozoa: influence of husband's age</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/75494215-eve" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Human Evolution</a></li><li><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3253726/#B16" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Fertility and the Aging Male</a></li><li><a href="https://academic.oup.com/humrep/article-abstract/15/8/1703/670811?redirectedFrom=fulltext" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Increasing paternal age is associated with delayed conception in a large population of fertile couples: evidence for declining fecundity in older men</a></li><li><a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-24128176" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 300-year-old fertility statistics still in use today </a></li><li><a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0015028213003397" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Volitional determinants and age-related decline in fecundability: a general population prospective cohort study in Denmark</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or purchase the <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">signed paperback, PDF or EPUB directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>You won't believe what I'm about to tell you. Women don't have a "biological clock." That term was coined by journalist Richard Cohen in his misogynistic 1978 article "<a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/local/1978/03/16/the-clock-is-ticking-for-the-career-woman/bd566aa8-fd7d-43da-9be9-ad025759d0a4/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Clock Is Ticking For The Career Woman.</a>" This article hits the two Ps (pseudoscience and patriarchy) and does what these silly Ps do best: rush women into motherhood and shame them for prioritizing their careers.</p><br><p>In the words of Kesha, "Tik tok on the clock but the party don't stop." Because for women, the party truly doesn't stop. That's why humans are one of the only mammals with menopause.</p><br><p>In fact, research is finding that MEN have a biological clock, and it begins ticking around age 35.</p><br><p>Sources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/fertility-timeline#Ages-41-to-45" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">A Look at Your Fertility Timeline</a></li><li><a href="https://academic.oup.com/humrep/article-abstract/10/5/1090/646310" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Andrology: Cumulative conception rate following intrauterine artificial insemination with husband's spermatozoa: influence of husband's age</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/75494215-eve" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Human Evolution</a></li><li><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3253726/#B16" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Fertility and the Aging Male</a></li><li><a href="https://academic.oup.com/humrep/article-abstract/15/8/1703/670811?redirectedFrom=fulltext" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Increasing paternal age is associated with delayed conception in a large population of fertile couples: evidence for declining fecundity in older men</a></li><li><a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-24128176" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The 300-year-old fertility statistics still in use today </a></li><li><a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0015028213003397" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Volitional determinants and age-related decline in fecundability: a general population prospective cohort study in Denmark</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>This episode is a listener requested topic on my origin story. I'll briefly discuss the god awful relationship I was in for 5 YEARS. Then I'll discuss 7 lessons we can all learn so we never make the same mistakes I did.</p><p><br></p><ol><li>People will push you as far as you let them -- even the nice guys (16:51)</li><li>A relationship is a web of precedents (18:20)</li><li>You cannot change anyone (20:14)</li><li>Not having gender roles creates resentment (23:41)</li><li>Like begets like (28:09)</li><li>Your fear of being alone will enable manipulation and abuse (29:40)</li><li>Ugliness is your body’s way of communicating with you (32:05)</li></ol><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to these timestamps.</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>This episode is a listener requested topic on my origin story. I'll briefly discuss the god awful relationship I was in for 5 YEARS. Then I'll discuss 7 lessons we can all learn so we never make the same mistakes I did.</p><p><br></p><ol><li>People will push you as far as you let them -- even the nice guys (16:51)</li><li>A relationship is a web of precedents (18:20)</li><li>You cannot change anyone (20:14)</li><li>Not having gender roles creates resentment (23:41)</li><li>Like begets like (28:09)</li><li>Your fear of being alone will enable manipulation and abuse (29:40)</li><li>Ugliness is your body’s way of communicating with you (32:05)</li></ol><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to these timestamps.</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Feminine/female rage is the righteous anger we feel at a world that subjugates and violates us daily. Female rage has become a ubiquitous topic, but it’s time we discuss how to channel it productively. Unresolved anger turns into resentment, hatred, and psychosomatic symptoms like digestive issues and migraines.&nbsp;</p><br><p>And guess what – we’re not contestants in the Suffering Olympics like Victimella is. So let’s put our female rage to work.</p><p><br></p><ol><li>Channel rage into creativity (6:14)</li><li>Reconnect with your ancestors (10:25)</li><li>Be so grateful it’s cringe (12:37)</li><li>Recalibrate the algorithm of your life (16:29)</li><li>Find a physical release (21:05)</li><li>Understand the law of inversion (22:33)</li><li>Be a bigger bitch than before (27:11)</li></ol><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to these timestamps.</p><br><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/61rwujvTJQbul1ek95cFNm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Here’s Shelby K Morrison’s podcast</a>, The Serpent Signal, I mentioned.</p><br><p>🎶 Music credit: Mozart - Requiem in D minor - K. 626 IIIf Lacrimosa © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr.</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href="https://payhip.com/b/HMZam" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Feminine/female rage is the righteous anger we feel at a world that subjugates and violates us daily. Female rage has become a ubiquitous topic, but it’s time we discuss how to channel it productively. Unresolved anger turns into resentment, hatred, and psychosomatic symptoms like digestive issues and migraines.&nbsp;</p><br><p>And guess what – we’re not contestants in the Suffering Olympics like Victimella is. So let’s put our female rage to work.</p><p><br></p><ol><li>Channel rage into creativity (6:14)</li><li>Reconnect with your ancestors (10:25)</li><li>Be so grateful it’s cringe (12:37)</li><li>Recalibrate the algorithm of your life (16:29)</li><li>Find a physical release (21:05)</li><li>Understand the law of inversion (22:33)</li><li>Be a bigger bitch than before (27:11)</li></ol><p><br></p><p>Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to these timestamps.</p><br><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/61rwujvTJQbul1ek95cFNm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Here’s Shelby K Morrison’s podcast</a>, The Serpent Signal, I mentioned.</p><br><p>🎶 Music credit: Mozart - Requiem in D minor - K. 626 IIIf Lacrimosa © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr.</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #30: Use people’s big egos to your advantage</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>❤️‍🩹 Try <a href="https://www.semainehealth.com/discount/Neeki20?redirect=%2Fcollections%2Fall-semaine" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Stress Less by Semaine Health</a>, a clinically formulated gummy designed to support healthier stress response and cortisol balance. Use code NEEKI20 for 20% off.</p><br><p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>What people show you isn't their true selves, it's their defence mechanisms. And if you look just beneath the surface, you'll see exactly what they're trying to hide. In fact, if you look deep enough, you might even see yourself.</p><br><p>In this episode, I'll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why we need to stop being gullible &amp; taking things at face value</li><li>How to see beneath the empty shell of someone's big ego</li><li>Why certain people have big egos to begin with (it's not why you think)</li><li>How to spot people's inversion patterns (aka what they're hiding)</li><li>4 steps to deal with someone who's got a big ego</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>❤️‍🩹 Try <a href="https://www.semainehealth.com/discount/Neeki20?redirect=%2Fcollections%2Fall-semaine" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Stress Less by Semaine Health</a>, a clinically formulated gummy designed to support healthier stress response and cortisol balance. Use code NEEKI20 for 20% off.</p><br><p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>What people show you isn't their true selves, it's their defence mechanisms. And if you look just beneath the surface, you'll see exactly what they're trying to hide. In fact, if you look deep enough, you might even see yourself.</p><br><p>In this episode, I'll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why we need to stop being gullible &amp; taking things at face value</li><li>How to see beneath the empty shell of someone's big ego</li><li>Why certain people have big egos to begin with (it's not why you think)</li><li>How to spot people's inversion patterns (aka what they're hiding)</li><li>4 steps to deal with someone who's got a big ego</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>The 5 love languages: Genuine advice or Christian control in disguise?</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Most people think the five love languages are a pop psychology phenomenon. However, they're not rooted in psychology at all. The origins of the five love languages are closer to the Bible than to science, and they were never made as a tool to help women in their relationships.</p><br><p>That's because they were created by Baptist preacher Gary Chapman, a man who's trained in Biblical counselling. His background involves no scientific or psychological training. The crazy thing is, that isn't even the most problematic part.</p><br><p>I read Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages, and in this episode I critically dissect his theory from a feminist lens in a way no one's ever done before. I'll discuss:</p><ul><li>The conservative &amp; misogynistic origins of Biblical counselling</li><li>How marriage counselling originated as a form of eugenics (&amp; how this agenda found its way into the church)</li><li>The sexist examples Chapman uses in his book, which shatter his credibility</li><li>The HUGE problem with Chapman's sample (hint: they're all white, Christian, traditional couples)</li><li>How the love languages map out PERFECTLY to the 5 points of Calvinism (a control-based branch of Protestantism that forms the foundation of Biblical counselling)</li><li>Whether there's a better alternative to the love languages</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Sources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.huffpost.com/entry/can-this-marriage-be-saved-advice_n_5829870" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Awful '50s Marriage Advice Shows What Our Mothers And Grandmothers Were Up Against</a></li><li><a href="https://www.exodusbooks.com/Samples/NGP/16327Sample.pdf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Biblical Counselling Movement</a></li><li><a href="https://medium.com/belover/the-love-languages-are-a-hoax-by-a-southern-baptist-pastor-cc9cd0e4b340" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The “love languages” are a hoax by a Southern Baptist pastor</a></li><li><a href="https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/americanexperience/features/eugenics-surprising-history-of-marriage-counseling/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Surprising History of Marriage Counselling </a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Most people think the five love languages are a pop psychology phenomenon. However, they're not rooted in psychology at all. The origins of the five love languages are closer to the Bible than to science, and they were never made as a tool to help women in their relationships.</p><br><p>That's because they were created by Baptist preacher Gary Chapman, a man who's trained in Biblical counselling. His background involves no scientific or psychological training. The crazy thing is, that isn't even the most problematic part.</p><br><p>I read Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages, and in this episode I critically dissect his theory from a feminist lens in a way no one's ever done before. I'll discuss:</p><ul><li>The conservative &amp; misogynistic origins of Biblical counselling</li><li>How marriage counselling originated as a form of eugenics (&amp; how this agenda found its way into the church)</li><li>The sexist examples Chapman uses in his book, which shatter his credibility</li><li>The HUGE problem with Chapman's sample (hint: they're all white, Christian, traditional couples)</li><li>How the love languages map out PERFECTLY to the 5 points of Calvinism (a control-based branch of Protestantism that forms the foundation of Biblical counselling)</li><li>Whether there's a better alternative to the love languages</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Sources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.huffpost.com/entry/can-this-marriage-be-saved-advice_n_5829870" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Awful '50s Marriage Advice Shows What Our Mothers And Grandmothers Were Up Against</a></li><li><a href="https://www.exodusbooks.com/Samples/NGP/16327Sample.pdf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Biblical Counselling Movement</a></li><li><a href="https://medium.com/belover/the-love-languages-are-a-hoax-by-a-southern-baptist-pastor-cc9cd0e4b340" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The “love languages” are a hoax by a Southern Baptist pastor</a></li><li><a href="https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/americanexperience/features/eugenics-surprising-history-of-marriage-counseling/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Surprising History of Marriage Counselling </a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[I turn 28 tomorrow & I'm terrified of aging ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Tomorrow is my 28th birthday &amp; I want to open up about a fear I've had for most of my 20s: aging.</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Tomorrow is my 28th birthday &amp; I want to open up about a fear I've had for most of my 20s: aging.</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Patriarchy demonized gossip because it hates when women speak</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Most of us think of gossip as something malicious. However, for centuries, gossip had no negative connotation. A woman's "gossip" were her close friends, and female friendships were a form of social power that gave women's lives fulfillment and security.</p><br><p>It all became topsy turvy in the 16th century, when the church combined forces with labour guilds (you'll see what I mean). That's when gossip became demonized into something malicious, aggressive, and bitchy. Because patriarchy and early capitalism needed quiet, subservient women in order to function.</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why patriarchy &amp; controlling men are so scared of female friendships</li><li>The violent history of silencing women</li><li>How men continue to silence women</li><li>The role of gossip in human evolution</li><li>How to reclaim gossip in your life starting today</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Sources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://allegatifac.unipv.it/ziorufus/Dunbar%20gossip.pdf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Gossip in Evolutionary Perspective</a></li><li><a href="https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/benefits-of-gossip/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Feminist Origins Of Gossip</a></li><li><a href="https://unbabel.com/the-scandalous-origins-of-gossip/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The scandalous origins of gossip</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/39090931-witches-witch-hunting-and-women" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Witches, Witch-Hunting, and Women</a></li></ul><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Most of us think of gossip as something malicious. However, for centuries, gossip had no negative connotation. A woman's "gossip" were her close friends, and female friendships were a form of social power that gave women's lives fulfillment and security.</p><br><p>It all became topsy turvy in the 16th century, when the church combined forces with labour guilds (you'll see what I mean). That's when gossip became demonized into something malicious, aggressive, and bitchy. Because patriarchy and early capitalism needed quiet, subservient women in order to function.</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why patriarchy &amp; controlling men are so scared of female friendships</li><li>The violent history of silencing women</li><li>How men continue to silence women</li><li>The role of gossip in human evolution</li><li>How to reclaim gossip in your life starting today</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Sources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://allegatifac.unipv.it/ziorufus/Dunbar%20gossip.pdf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Gossip in Evolutionary Perspective</a></li><li><a href="https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/benefits-of-gossip/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Feminist Origins Of Gossip</a></li><li><a href="https://unbabel.com/the-scandalous-origins-of-gossip/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The scandalous origins of gossip</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/39090931-witches-witch-hunting-and-women" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Witches, Witch-Hunting, and Women</a></li></ul><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Have you ever wondered why every Abrahamic religion treats menstruating women as dirty and spiritually contaminated? That’s because religion took creation – something that’s uniquely feminine – and attributed it to a male god. And because it couldn’t erase the physical evidence of female creation, it warped it into something shameful and impure.</p><br><p>In this episode, I roll up my sleeves and answer the questions many of us are afraid to ask. I’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>How religion began 250,000 years ago as a shamanistic practice with female leaders</li><li>The catalyst that made religion devolve into a patriarchal institution</li><li>The neuroscience research showing how religion shuts down parts of our brain</li><li>How religion &amp; girlhood socialization contain complementary grooming mechanisms</li><li>The missing piece explaining the paradox that women tend to be more religious than men</li><li>Whether Abrahamic religions can ever serve women</li><li>&amp; the spiritual tool that women need&nbsp;</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨ God isn’t a woman. Woman is god.</p><br><p>📚 Get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or purchase the <a href="https://payhip.com/b/81aVd" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">EPUB file</a>.</p><br><p>Sources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190529-do-humans-have-a-religion-instinct" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Do humans have a “religion instinct”?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190418-how-and-why-did-religion-evolve" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">How and why did religion evolve?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57001983-how-religion-evolved" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">How Religion Evolved: And Why It Endures </a></li><li><a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/1467-6494.00079" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Understanding Biological and Social Influences on Religious Affiliation, Attitudes, and Behaviors: A Behavior Genetic Perspective</a></li><li><a href="http://www.zaynabacademy.org/understanding-the-three-types-of-nafs/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Understanding the Three Types of Nafs</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/2153599X.2023.2168733" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Shamanic and doctrinal: Dunbar and the spiritual turn in contemporary religion</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/4487598-the-bonobo-and-the-atheist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Bonobo and the Atheist</a></li><li><a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/20/2016/03/Religion-and-Gender-Full-Report.pdf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Gender Gap in Religion Around the World</a></li><li><a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2014.00215/full" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The neuroscientific study of spiritual practices</a></li><li><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/toward-less-egoic-world/201802/the-problem-self-centeredness-and-the-paradox-religion" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Problem of Self-Centeredness and the Paradox of Religion</a></li><li><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/the-pursuit-peace/201712/the-psychology-religion" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Psychology of Religion</a></li><li><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7566885/pdf/nihms-1580362.pdf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why are Women More Religious than Men? Do Risk Preferences and Genetic Risk Predispositions Explain the Gender Gap?</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Have you ever wondered why every Abrahamic religion treats menstruating women as dirty and spiritually contaminated? That’s because religion took creation – something that’s uniquely feminine – and attributed it to a male god. And because it couldn’t erase the physical evidence of female creation, it warped it into something shameful and impure.</p><br><p>In this episode, I roll up my sleeves and answer the questions many of us are afraid to ask. I’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>How religion began 250,000 years ago as a shamanistic practice with female leaders</li><li>The catalyst that made religion devolve into a patriarchal institution</li><li>The neuroscience research showing how religion shuts down parts of our brain</li><li>How religion &amp; girlhood socialization contain complementary grooming mechanisms</li><li>The missing piece explaining the paradox that women tend to be more religious than men</li><li>Whether Abrahamic religions can ever serve women</li><li>&amp; the spiritual tool that women need&nbsp;</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨ God isn’t a woman. Woman is god.</p><br><p>📚 Get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or purchase the <a href="https://payhip.com/b/81aVd" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">EPUB file</a>.</p><br><p>Sources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190529-do-humans-have-a-religion-instinct" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Do humans have a “religion instinct”?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190418-how-and-why-did-religion-evolve" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">How and why did religion evolve?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57001983-how-religion-evolved" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">How Religion Evolved: And Why It Endures </a></li><li><a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/1467-6494.00079" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Understanding Biological and Social Influences on Religious Affiliation, Attitudes, and Behaviors: A Behavior Genetic Perspective</a></li><li><a href="http://www.zaynabacademy.org/understanding-the-three-types-of-nafs/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Understanding the Three Types of Nafs</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/2153599X.2023.2168733" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Shamanic and doctrinal: Dunbar and the spiritual turn in contemporary religion</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/4487598-the-bonobo-and-the-atheist" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Bonobo and the Atheist</a></li><li><a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/20/2016/03/Religion-and-Gender-Full-Report.pdf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Gender Gap in Religion Around the World</a></li><li><a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2014.00215/full" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The neuroscientific study of spiritual practices</a></li><li><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/toward-less-egoic-world/201802/the-problem-self-centeredness-and-the-paradox-religion" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Problem of Self-Centeredness and the Paradox of Religion</a></li><li><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/the-pursuit-peace/201712/the-psychology-religion" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Psychology of Religion</a></li><li><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7566885/pdf/nihms-1580362.pdf" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why are Women More Religious than Men? Do Risk Preferences and Genetic Risk Predispositions Explain the Gender Gap?</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? 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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Have you ever wondered why someone ghosted you? I bet you felt pretty crappy afterward, and spent days thinking of something you said or did that pushed the person away. You probably replayed your interactions over and over again to spot where it all went wrong.</p><br><p>I have some good news for you that will settle the question of "Why do I keep getting ghosted" once and for all. After this episode, you'll never ask that question again, I guarantee it.</p><br><p>Thanks for tuning in to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where I share a small lesson from my new book, <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy. </em>This one's from Patriarchy Hack 4: Never Take Anything Personally.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Have you ever wondered why someone ghosted you? I bet you felt pretty crappy afterward, and spent days thinking of something you said or did that pushed the person away. You probably replayed your interactions over and over again to spot where it all went wrong.</p><br><p>I have some good news for you that will settle the question of "Why do I keep getting ghosted" once and for all. After this episode, you'll never ask that question again, I guarantee it.</p><br><p>Thanks for tuning in to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where I share a small lesson from my new book, <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy. </em>This one's from Patriarchy Hack 4: Never Take Anything Personally.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #29: Stop being afraid of being alone</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Society tells us the major “accomplishments” in a woman’s life are getting married and having kids. Both of which are actions that bring people into her life. Unfortunately, most of what’s celebrated in women is about distracting us from our power and finding ourselves in other people. On top of that, there’s so much fear instilled in us: “Who’s going to take care of you when you’re old?” “Your biological clock is ticking!” “Who’s going to protect you?” “You’re happy now but what about when you’re 50 and alone?”</p><br><p>There’s only ONE thing guaranteed in your life: your relationship with yourself. So why is it that so many women are terrified of being alone?&nbsp;</p><br><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How patriarchy uses tools like urgency and fear to spook us into dependence and distraction</li><li>The difference between being single and being sovereign</li><li>Why fearing being alone is a way of living on borrowed time</li><li>4 ways to deprogram our fear of being alone</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Society tells us the major “accomplishments” in a woman’s life are getting married and having kids. Both of which are actions that bring people into her life. Unfortunately, most of what’s celebrated in women is about distracting us from our power and finding ourselves in other people. On top of that, there’s so much fear instilled in us: “Who’s going to take care of you when you’re old?” “Your biological clock is ticking!” “Who’s going to protect you?” “You’re happy now but what about when you’re 50 and alone?”</p><br><p>There’s only ONE thing guaranteed in your life: your relationship with yourself. So why is it that so many women are terrified of being alone?&nbsp;</p><br><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How patriarchy uses tools like urgency and fear to spook us into dependence and distraction</li><li>The difference between being single and being sovereign</li><li>Why fearing being alone is a way of living on borrowed time</li><li>4 ways to deprogram our fear of being alone</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><br><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Fun fact: Feminism is a response to patriarchy.</p><br><p>Baddies welcome to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where I share a small lesson from my new book, <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy. </em>This one's from the introduction.</p><br><p>Class is in session, and today we're discussing feminism's branding problem. Over the last few years, feminism's reputation has become severely damaged. If you say you're a feminist, get ready to be labelled an angry, man-hating, snowflake. What was once a widely accepted (and vital) social movement has now been reduced to a joke among men and an embarrassment among women.</p><br><p>Why did this shift happen? And what can we do to shift this perception and get the show back on the road? Tune into this class to find out.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Fun fact: Feminism is a response to patriarchy.</p><br><p>Baddies welcome to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where I share a small lesson from my new book, <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy. </em>This one's from the introduction.</p><br><p>Class is in session, and today we're discussing feminism's branding problem. Over the last few years, feminism's reputation has become severely damaged. If you say you're a feminist, get ready to be labelled an angry, man-hating, snowflake. What was once a widely accepted (and vital) social movement has now been reduced to a joke among men and an embarrassment among women.</p><br><p>Why did this shift happen? And what can we do to shift this perception and get the show back on the road? Tune into this class to find out.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Every time you tell yourself you're "hoping for the best" or you're "gonna see what happens," you're doing what the patriarchy wants you to do. You're relinquishing control and leaving your fate to what's out there.</p><br><p>And let me remind you what's out there: sexism, racism, colourism, homophobia, and many other -isms and -phobias. So by leaving things to chance, you're exposing your future to the worst forces the world has to offer.</p><br><p>In this episode, I go into detail on why it's so harmful to leave things to chance, and I'll discuss what we can do to counteract this and reclaim control over our lives &amp; futures.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Every time you tell yourself you're "hoping for the best" or you're "gonna see what happens," you're doing what the patriarchy wants you to do. You're relinquishing control and leaving your fate to what's out there.</p><br><p>And let me remind you what's out there: sexism, racism, colourism, homophobia, and many other -isms and -phobias. So by leaving things to chance, you're exposing your future to the worst forces the world has to offer.</p><br><p>In this episode, I go into detail on why it's so harmful to leave things to chance, and I'll discuss what we can do to counteract this and reclaim control over our lives &amp; futures.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>I'm sure you want people to do more for you, especially your partner. Maybe even your coworkers. Unfortunately, because most women are conditioned to perform constant emotional labour, there's a specific behaviour you need to stop if you want people to step up in your life.</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll get into the mindsets that are making your life more difficult and causing you to self-sabotage. We'll also discuss the one behaviour shift that will make your life so much easier.</p><br><p>BTW make sure to stay up-to-date on my giveaway announcement and book launch by following my Instagram 📚 My book "How to Hack the Patriarchy" will be released November 25 on Amazon.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ <strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 <strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>I'm sure you want people to do more for you, especially your partner. Maybe even your coworkers. Unfortunately, because most women are conditioned to perform constant emotional labour, there's a specific behaviour you need to stop if you want people to step up in your life.</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll get into the mindsets that are making your life more difficult and causing you to self-sabotage. We'll also discuss the one behaviour shift that will make your life so much easier.</p><br><p>BTW make sure to stay up-to-date on my giveaway announcement and book launch by following my Instagram 📚 My book "How to Hack the Patriarchy" will be released November 25 on Amazon.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ <strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 <strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p>__________</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Your tendency to be realistic is robbing you of the future you deserve. From girlhood, most of us have been discouraged from being "too" ambitious because it violates the traditional trajectory of a woman's life: go to school, get a job, get married, become a mother, retire, die. Rinse &amp; repeat in the next life.</p><br><p>Babes, true delusion is accepting a life someone else decided was “right” for you.</p><br><p>You know how many people told me I'm delusional, unrealistic, and crazy for wanting to quit my corporate job to start a podcast? Plenty. If I'd listened to them, you wouldn't be about to press play to listen to me.</p><br><p>Deviating from the status quo will get you backlash and side eye, but that doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. In fact, it's a sign you're on the right path. No one is more upset than a goof who sees a woman living life on her own terms.</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Your tendency to be realistic is robbing you of the future you deserve. From girlhood, most of us have been discouraged from being "too" ambitious because it violates the traditional trajectory of a woman's life: go to school, get a job, get married, become a mother, retire, die. Rinse &amp; repeat in the next life.</p><br><p>Babes, true delusion is accepting a life someone else decided was “right” for you.</p><br><p>You know how many people told me I'm delusional, unrealistic, and crazy for wanting to quit my corporate job to start a podcast? Plenty. If I'd listened to them, you wouldn't be about to press play to listen to me.</p><br><p>Deviating from the status quo will get you backlash and side eye, but that doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. In fact, it's a sign you're on the right path. No one is more upset than a goof who sees a woman living life on her own terms.</p><p>__________</p><br><p>🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #28: Act spoiled to get treated better</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Spoiled girls get whatever they want, while low maintenance girls get what they're given. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being spoiled — a spoiled woman is simply someone with a high sense of worth, who knows what she wants, and never settles for less.</p><br><p>Acting spoiled is a huge patriarchy hack we tend to overlook, because we're brainwashed to think it's bad to be spoiled. However, this buttcrack morality exists to cover one of the patriarchy's most useful loopholes for women.</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Spoiled girls get whatever they want, while low maintenance girls get what they're given. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being spoiled — a spoiled woman is simply someone with a high sense of worth, who knows what she wants, and never settles for less.</p><br><p>Acting spoiled is a huge patriarchy hack we tend to overlook, because we're brainwashed to think it's bad to be spoiled. However, this buttcrack morality exists to cover one of the patriarchy's most useful loopholes for women.</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Every time you choose YOURSELF, you kick patriarchy in the balls [pt. 5/5]</title>
			<itunes:title>Every time you choose YOURSELF, you kick patriarchy in the balls [pt. 5/5]</itunes:title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Patriarchy’s biggest fear: women’s choice.</p><br><p>In episode 5 of my 5-part series on&nbsp;patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we uncover why&nbsp;choice is the real revolution—the one thing power can’t monetize.</p><br><p>From work to marriage to money, control only works when women stop choosing. Because at the end of the day, it’s all a fight over the world’s most valuable resource: women. These systems exist to distract us from that simple fact.</p><br><p>This finale connects every thread we've pulled in the last four episodes to show how real freedom begins when women realize their power and wake up from the trance of consumerism. We don't need to spend money or perform labour to prove our worth. We're already worthy.</p><br><p>If you’ve followed this series from the start, this is the closing argument: if patriarchy is the cell, women’s choice is the radiation that kills it.</p><br><p>Tags:&nbsp;women’s choice, patriarchy explained, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, women and power, feminist podcast, empowerment, modern feminism, gender inequality</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Patriarchy’s biggest fear: women’s choice.</p><br><p>In episode 5 of my 5-part series on&nbsp;patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we uncover why&nbsp;choice is the real revolution—the one thing power can’t monetize.</p><br><p>From work to marriage to money, control only works when women stop choosing. Because at the end of the day, it’s all a fight over the world’s most valuable resource: women. These systems exist to distract us from that simple fact.</p><br><p>This finale connects every thread we've pulled in the last four episodes to show how real freedom begins when women realize their power and wake up from the trance of consumerism. We don't need to spend money or perform labour to prove our worth. We're already worthy.</p><br><p>If you’ve followed this series from the start, this is the closing argument: if patriarchy is the cell, women’s choice is the radiation that kills it.</p><br><p>Tags:&nbsp;women’s choice, patriarchy explained, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, women and power, feminist podcast, empowerment, modern feminism, gender inequality</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>The “empowerment” lie women are sold [pt. 4/5]</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Freedom looks different when you have to buy it.</p><br><p>In episode 4 of my 5-part series on&nbsp;<strong>patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership</strong>, we uncover how&nbsp;<strong>capitalism rebranded servitude as female empowerment</strong>.</p><br><p>From the post-Reagan era to the rise of influencer feminism, the system sold women “freedom” that still serves profit.</p><br><p>While men have to make money to prove their worth, women are taught to&nbsp;<strong>spend money to prove theirs</strong>. Neoliberalism turned independence into consumer identity. Beauty, success, self-care, empowerment—everything became a product.</p><br><p>This episode breaks down how&nbsp;<strong>capitalism replaced control with desire</strong>—how “choice” became the slogan of a system that profits when women are taught to hate themselves and compete with each other.</p><br><p><strong>Tags:</strong>&nbsp;capitalism, feminism, patriarchy explained, consumerism, feminist podcast, modern feminism, gender roles, women and power, feminist theory, women empowerment</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Freedom looks different when you have to buy it.</p><br><p>In episode 4 of my 5-part series on&nbsp;<strong>patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership</strong>, we uncover how&nbsp;<strong>capitalism rebranded servitude as female empowerment</strong>.</p><br><p>From the post-Reagan era to the rise of influencer feminism, the system sold women “freedom” that still serves profit.</p><br><p>While men have to make money to prove their worth, women are taught to&nbsp;<strong>spend money to prove theirs</strong>. Neoliberalism turned independence into consumer identity. Beauty, success, self-care, empowerment—everything became a product.</p><br><p>This episode breaks down how&nbsp;<strong>capitalism replaced control with desire</strong>—how “choice” became the slogan of a system that profits when women are taught to hate themselves and compete with each other.</p><br><p><strong>Tags:</strong>&nbsp;capitalism, feminism, patriarchy explained, consumerism, feminist podcast, modern feminism, gender roles, women and power, feminist theory, women empowerment</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>How men accidentally became obsolete [pt. 3/5]</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Patriarchy wasn’t built to serve women — but it was never built to serve most men either.</p><br><p>In this third episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism's toxic relationship, we break down <strong>how patriarchy accidentally made men obsolete. </strong>When capitalism tied masculinity to money and productivity, men became workers before all else. That’s how they received their patriarchal dividends.</p><br><p>When second wave feminism enabled women to gain financial independence, men lost their monopoly on survival.</p><br><p>Stay until the end for the cliffhanger on how capitalism rebranded servitude as empowerment.</p><br><p><strong>Keywords:</strong> patriarchy explained, masculinity, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, modern masculinity, feminist podcast, gender inequality, men and power</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Patriarchy wasn’t built to serve women — but it was never built to serve most men either.</p><br><p>In this third episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism's toxic relationship, we break down <strong>how patriarchy accidentally made men obsolete. </strong>When capitalism tied masculinity to money and productivity, men became workers before all else. That’s how they received their patriarchal dividends.</p><br><p>When second wave feminism enabled women to gain financial independence, men lost their monopoly on survival.</p><br><p>Stay until the end for the cliffhanger on how capitalism rebranded servitude as empowerment.</p><br><p><strong>Keywords:</strong> patriarchy explained, masculinity, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, modern masculinity, feminist podcast, gender inequality, men and power</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop<a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Why the nuclear family keeps patriarchy alive [pt. 2/5]</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>The nuclear family wasn’t built for love – it was built for labour.</p><br><p>In the second episode of my 5-part series on&nbsp;<strong>patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership</strong>, we break down how the&nbsp;nuclear family became<strong> an economic machine</strong>&nbsp;that keeps both systems alive. From the rise of&nbsp;<strong>private property</strong>&nbsp;to the post-war suburban ideal, this episode exposes how family structure was engineered to&nbsp;<strong>reproduce patriarchy</strong>&nbsp;generation after generation.</p><br><p>If you’ve ever questioned why “traditional family values” always seem to benefit&nbsp;<strong>men and corporations</strong>, this episode explains the architecture behind it.</p><br><p>Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on how&nbsp;<strong>women’s financial independence</strong>&nbsp;disrupted men’s role – by accident 😉</p><br><p><strong>Keywords:</strong>&nbsp;nuclear family, patriarchy explained, capitalism, feminism, gender roles, unpaid labor, domestic work, women and work, feminist podcast, feminist theory, family and capitalism, women’s history</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>The nuclear family wasn’t built for love – it was built for labour.</p><br><p>In the second episode of my 5-part series on&nbsp;<strong>patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership</strong>, we break down how the&nbsp;nuclear family became<strong> an economic machine</strong>&nbsp;that keeps both systems alive. From the rise of&nbsp;<strong>private property</strong>&nbsp;to the post-war suburban ideal, this episode exposes how family structure was engineered to&nbsp;<strong>reproduce patriarchy</strong>&nbsp;generation after generation.</p><br><p>If you’ve ever questioned why “traditional family values” always seem to benefit&nbsp;<strong>men and corporations</strong>, this episode explains the architecture behind it.</p><br><p>Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on how&nbsp;<strong>women’s financial independence</strong>&nbsp;disrupted men’s role – by accident 😉</p><br><p><strong>Keywords:</strong>&nbsp;nuclear family, patriarchy explained, capitalism, feminism, gender roles, unpaid labor, domestic work, women and work, feminist podcast, feminist theory, family and capitalism, women’s history</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>How patriarchy started [pt. 1/5]</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Patriarchy wasn’t born – it was built.</p><br><p>In the first episode of my 5-part series on&nbsp;<strong>patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership</strong>, we break down how&nbsp;<strong>power, property, and control over women’s labor</strong>&nbsp;built the world’s oldest system of domination – one that still shapes our lives today.</p><br><p>This is the&nbsp;<strong>blueprint of male power,</strong> the origin story patriarchy doesn’t want you to know.</p><br><p>If you’ve ever wondered&nbsp;<strong>where patriarchy came from or how it keeps itself alive</strong>, this episode is for you. Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on what’s coming next 😉</p><br><p><strong>Tags:</strong>&nbsp;patriarchy, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, women and power, feminist podcast, history of patriarchy, women’s empowerment</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Patriarchy wasn’t born – it was built.</p><br><p>In the first episode of my 5-part series on&nbsp;<strong>patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership</strong>, we break down how&nbsp;<strong>power, property, and control over women’s labor</strong>&nbsp;built the world’s oldest system of domination – one that still shapes our lives today.</p><br><p>This is the&nbsp;<strong>blueprint of male power,</strong> the origin story patriarchy doesn’t want you to know.</p><br><p>If you’ve ever wondered&nbsp;<strong>where patriarchy came from or how it keeps itself alive</strong>, this episode is for you. Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on what’s coming next 😉</p><br><p><strong>Tags:</strong>&nbsp;patriarchy, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, women and power, feminist podcast, history of patriarchy, women’s empowerment</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #27: Start being mean</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Niceness is a scam. Being "nice" describes someone who is polite and pleasant to be around, focusing on surface-level interactions and social harmony. It's a performance. It's how the patriarchy grooms us for exploitation and disrespect, because the nice girl is taught to that being liked is more important than being respected.</p><br><p>Being mean is the opposite of that -- it's prioritizing being respected more than being liked. (&amp; I don't mean acting like Regina George.)</p><br><p>In this episode, we discuss:</p><ul><li>What it means to be mean</li><li>Why being mean is a form of self-protection &amp; self-preservation</li><li>The 2 main reasons why people will use guilt, shame, and punishment to force you into being nice</li><li>An example of one of my fave historical baddies who was successfully mean</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Niceness is a scam. Being "nice" describes someone who is polite and pleasant to be around, focusing on surface-level interactions and social harmony. It's a performance. It's how the patriarchy grooms us for exploitation and disrespect, because the nice girl is taught to that being liked is more important than being respected.</p><br><p>Being mean is the opposite of that -- it's prioritizing being respected more than being liked. (&amp; I don't mean acting like Regina George.)</p><br><p>In this episode, we discuss:</p><ul><li>What it means to be mean</li><li>Why being mean is a form of self-protection &amp; self-preservation</li><li>The 2 main reasons why people will use guilt, shame, and punishment to force you into being nice</li><li>An example of one of my fave historical baddies who was successfully mean</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Calling yourself a "high value woman" isn't empowering]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>You're not a Pokemon or some kind of collectible, but the wrong type of people will see you as a commodity, something to collect. In this episode, we discuss why the term "high value woman" is not only icky, but counterproductive. Like most things in this world, we can't do what men do and expect the same result. This also goes for labels men use to try and prove their worth.</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>You're not a Pokemon or some kind of collectible, but the wrong type of people will see you as a commodity, something to collect. In this episode, we discuss why the term "high value woman" is not only icky, but counterproductive. Like most things in this world, we can't do what men do and expect the same result. This also goes for labels men use to try and prove their worth.</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #26: Stop being so available</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #26: Stop being so available</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2025 04:00:25 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>We've been bamboozled into thinking that the more we're present and the more we prove ourselves, the more people will respect us. This is a load of crap. The truth is that the more people see you, the less they notice you. They'll take you for granted and respect you less. In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The most valuable form of giving (that you're probably doing too much of)</li><li>Why we've been conditioned to think that more presence = more respect </li><li>How strategic absence relates to supply &amp; demand, and how you can use this to your advantage</li><li>How to use absence, fantasy, and mystery to increase respect</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>We've been bamboozled into thinking that the more we're present and the more we prove ourselves, the more people will respect us. This is a load of crap. The truth is that the more people see you, the less they notice you. They'll take you for granted and respect you less. In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The most valuable form of giving (that you're probably doing too much of)</li><li>Why we've been conditioned to think that more presence = more respect </li><li>How strategic absence relates to supply &amp; demand, and how you can use this to your advantage</li><li>How to use absence, fantasy, and mystery to increase respect</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[I haven't been feeling like myself lately]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 14 Sep 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[The truth about online "divine femininity"]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[The truth about online "divine femininity"]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Being a woman is a gift, it's the highest form of being. Everything exists because of a woman, and we should celebrate and love ourselves unconditionally.</p><br><p>Lately, there’s been a wave of online “divine femininity” content that looks empowering at first… but it’s really patriarchy dressed up as spirituality. It tells women that to be “in our feminine” we need to sit back, receive, and let men lead, provide, and decide.</p><br><p>In this episode, I discuss:</p><ul><li>Why “divine femininity” online is just old gender stereotypes repackaged</li><li>How it twists real spiritual and philosophical traditions</li><li>The difference between actual empowerment and limiting labels like “feminine” vs. “masculine”</li></ul><p><br></p><p>If you’ve ever scrolled past those videos about “being in your feminine” and felt something was off, this episode is for you.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Being a woman is a gift, it's the highest form of being. Everything exists because of a woman, and we should celebrate and love ourselves unconditionally.</p><br><p>Lately, there’s been a wave of online “divine femininity” content that looks empowering at first… but it’s really patriarchy dressed up as spirituality. It tells women that to be “in our feminine” we need to sit back, receive, and let men lead, provide, and decide.</p><br><p>In this episode, I discuss:</p><ul><li>Why “divine femininity” online is just old gender stereotypes repackaged</li><li>How it twists real spiritual and philosophical traditions</li><li>The difference between actual empowerment and limiting labels like “feminine” vs. “masculine”</li></ul><p><br></p><p>If you’ve ever scrolled past those videos about “being in your feminine” and felt something was off, this episode is for you.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #25: Treat excuses as data, not truth</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #25: Treat excuses as data, not truth</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>"People never do something just once" - Robert Greene</p><br><p>There's no such thing as an isolated incident, because people's actions are always part of a pattern of behaviour. However, the patriarchy made us believe the complete opposite, because accepting excuses keeps power where it is. The patriarchy is based on repetition: people repeat the same behaviours, institutions repeat the same patterns, cultures repeat the same stories.</p><br><p>The thing is, excuses are data, they reveal so much info!!! They're breadcrumbs people leave behind because they're not careful in covering their tracks...</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>The reason why no one does something just once</li><li>A TEXTBOOK example of this (Chr*s Brown)</li><li>How accepting excuses creates a false reality</li><li>How this ties into people pleasing &amp; other ways women have been conditioned</li><li>Common excuses used in relationships + the workplace, and the data you can gather from them</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>"People never do something just once" - Robert Greene</p><br><p>There's no such thing as an isolated incident, because people's actions are always part of a pattern of behaviour. However, the patriarchy made us believe the complete opposite, because accepting excuses keeps power where it is. The patriarchy is based on repetition: people repeat the same behaviours, institutions repeat the same patterns, cultures repeat the same stories.</p><br><p>The thing is, excuses are data, they reveal so much info!!! They're breadcrumbs people leave behind because they're not careful in covering their tracks...</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>The reason why no one does something just once</li><li>A TEXTBOOK example of this (Chr*s Brown)</li><li>How accepting excuses creates a false reality</li><li>How this ties into people pleasing &amp; other ways women have been conditioned</li><li>Common excuses used in relationships + the workplace, and the data you can gather from them</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Why people pleasing traps you in mental poverty</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>People pleasing is rooted in superstitions like "If I give everything, then I'll finally be enough" and "If someone likes me, then I'll finally like myself." This way of thinking puts us in <strong>mental poverty</strong>, which keeps us trapped in survival mode. It's perfect for people who want to exploit our lack of boundaries, and it's harmful for us in every way.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>People pleasing is rooted in superstitions like "If I give everything, then I'll finally be enough" and "If someone likes me, then I'll finally like myself." This way of thinking puts us in <strong>mental poverty</strong>, which keeps us trapped in survival mode. It's perfect for people who want to exploit our lack of boundaries, and it's harmful for us in every way.</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #24: Let go of the need to be liked</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #24: Let go of the need to be liked</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>We're taught from a very young age that our social acceptance depends on being liked. However, the patriarchy assumes women will always want to be liked, so it relies on that desire to keep us compliant &amp; constantly seeking social approval.</p><br><p>The thing is, most people don't even like themselves. So who cares if they don't like you. Besides, you're in a much better position to get what you want from the world when you don't give two hoots what others think.</p><br><p>In this episode, we get into:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The hidden reward/punishment system that keeps women stuck in a cycle of seeking validation</li><li>How being liked is a form of borrowed approval</li><li>Why letting go of the need to be liked removes one of the patriarchy's most effective control levers over women </li><li>How to leverage likeability to get what you want</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Oh and enjoy the extremely unserious skit at the beginning of this episode. </p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>We're taught from a very young age that our social acceptance depends on being liked. However, the patriarchy assumes women will always want to be liked, so it relies on that desire to keep us compliant &amp; constantly seeking social approval.</p><br><p>The thing is, most people don't even like themselves. So who cares if they don't like you. Besides, you're in a much better position to get what you want from the world when you don't give two hoots what others think.</p><br><p>In this episode, we get into:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The hidden reward/punishment system that keeps women stuck in a cycle of seeking validation</li><li>How being liked is a form of borrowed approval</li><li>Why letting go of the need to be liked removes one of the patriarchy's most effective control levers over women </li><li>How to leverage likeability to get what you want</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Oh and enjoy the extremely unserious skit at the beginning of this episode. </p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Beware of "woke" men, they're dangerous]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>We tend to think that the alpha, macho men are dangerous because of their superiority complex (which is rooted in an inferiority complex). BUT what if I told you there's a category of men who are even more dangerous? They have a hidden agenda, a goal in mind, and they're clever enough to know how to push a woman's buttons. In this episode (whose topic you baddies voted on!), I get into why we need to be cautious of "woke" men (let's call them the deltas), especially romantically and professionally. </p><br><p>PS THE PATREON IS NOW LIVE!!! If you'd like to join our private community, complete monthly adventures on a specific patriarchy hack, get voting power on which girly law drops next, and unlock monthly bonus episodes, make sure to join <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> 🩷 (I've also opened up additional, limited spots to work with me 1:1!!!)</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🖥️ Watch this episode on YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>We tend to think that the alpha, macho men are dangerous because of their superiority complex (which is rooted in an inferiority complex). BUT what if I told you there's a category of men who are even more dangerous? They have a hidden agenda, a goal in mind, and they're clever enough to know how to push a woman's buttons. In this episode (whose topic you baddies voted on!), I get into why we need to be cautious of "woke" men (let's call them the deltas), especially romantically and professionally. </p><br><p>PS THE PATREON IS NOW LIVE!!! If you'd like to join our private community, complete monthly adventures on a specific patriarchy hack, get voting power on which girly law drops next, and unlock monthly bonus episodes, make sure to join <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> 🩷 (I've also opened up additional, limited spots to work with me 1:1!!!)</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🖥️ Watch this episode on YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #23: Stop competing with other women</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p><em>Scarcity leads to competition which leads to dehumanization.</em></p><br><p>One of the gears that keeps the patriarchy turning is zero-sum thinking -- the belief that there's only a fixed amount of success, power, attention, or value to go around. So if someone else gets more, you must get less. This brainwashes us into believing in a scarcity mindset, which keeps us in the eternal rat race. Instead of seeing other women as allies, we perceive them as threats. Jealousy and envy oil the wheels of the patriarchy, and zero-sum thinking keeps those wheels turning on autopilot. </p><br><p>We'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why zero-sum thinking violates the very existence of the universe, which is rooted in abundance</li><li>Why women are conditioned to see other women as threats rather than allies</li><li>How rejecting artificial scarcity &amp; having an abundance mindset are patriarchy hacks on an <em>existential level </em></li><li>How to exit the plane of competition and enter the plane of creation</li></ul><p><br></p><p>The opposite of competing isn't collaborating -- it's creating. As women, we already ARE creators. It's time to exit the rat race and get back in touch with the essence of our being.</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p>PS THE PATREON IS NOW LIVE!!! If you'd like to join our private community, complete monthly adventures on a specific patriarchy hack, get voting power on which girly law drops next, and unlock monthly bonus episodes, make sure to join <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> 🩷 (I've also opened up additional, limited spots to work with me 1:1!!!)</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🖥️ Watch this episode on YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p><em>Scarcity leads to competition which leads to dehumanization.</em></p><br><p>One of the gears that keeps the patriarchy turning is zero-sum thinking -- the belief that there's only a fixed amount of success, power, attention, or value to go around. So if someone else gets more, you must get less. This brainwashes us into believing in a scarcity mindset, which keeps us in the eternal rat race. Instead of seeing other women as allies, we perceive them as threats. Jealousy and envy oil the wheels of the patriarchy, and zero-sum thinking keeps those wheels turning on autopilot. </p><br><p>We'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why zero-sum thinking violates the very existence of the universe, which is rooted in abundance</li><li>Why women are conditioned to see other women as threats rather than allies</li><li>How rejecting artificial scarcity &amp; having an abundance mindset are patriarchy hacks on an <em>existential level </em></li><li>How to exit the plane of competition and enter the plane of creation</li></ul><p><br></p><p>The opposite of competing isn't collaborating -- it's creating. As women, we already ARE creators. It's time to exit the rat race and get back in touch with the essence of our being.</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p>PS THE PATREON IS NOW LIVE!!! If you'd like to join our private community, complete monthly adventures on a specific patriarchy hack, get voting power on which girly law drops next, and unlock monthly bonus episodes, make sure to join <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> 🩷 (I've also opened up additional, limited spots to work with me 1:1!!!)</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🖥️ Watch this episode on YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Is falling in love a patriarchal trap?</title>
			<itunes:title>Is falling in love a patriarchal trap?</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>As little girls, many of us fantasize about falling in love and getting married. But boys don't do the same. Men don't romanticize falling in love, getting married, and being husbands in the way women do. It's not their life's goal to fall in love. They don't see marriage as an accomplishment. In this episode, we'll get into the truth behind "love."</p><br><p>I'll discuss what's really happening to our brains and hormones when we're "falling in love" (hint: it's a chemical reaction to push us to reproduce). Then we'll get into the social elements of falling in love, including the creation of marriage, and how love was weaponized as a tool to control women from the very start.</p><br><p>Btw here's the book <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23968.The_Female_Brain" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>The Female Brain</em></a> by Dr. Louann Brizendine</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>As little girls, many of us fantasize about falling in love and getting married. But boys don't do the same. Men don't romanticize falling in love, getting married, and being husbands in the way women do. It's not their life's goal to fall in love. They don't see marriage as an accomplishment. In this episode, we'll get into the truth behind "love."</p><br><p>I'll discuss what's really happening to our brains and hormones when we're "falling in love" (hint: it's a chemical reaction to push us to reproduce). Then we'll get into the social elements of falling in love, including the creation of marriage, and how love was weaponized as a tool to control women from the very start.</p><br><p>Btw here's the book <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23968.The_Female_Brain" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>The Female Brain</em></a> by Dr. Louann Brizendine</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Girly law of power #22: Use elicitation to bypass gatekeepers & egos]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[Girly law of power #22: Use elicitation to bypass gatekeepers & egos]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2025 04:00:07 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping.</p><br><p>We'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why we can't simply ask for things outright</li><li>The mindset that keeps us stuck in limbo, asking for permission &amp; waiting for opportunities</li><li>The art of elicitation and how to apply 5 of its techniques (there are 13 in total but 5 that are perfectly suited for our purposes)</li><li>How to elicit the answers we need without making the person defensive or suspicious</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Btw here's <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chasehughesofficial/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Chase Hughes</a>, the former military chief and expert on elicitation</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping.</p><br><p>We'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why we can't simply ask for things outright</li><li>The mindset that keeps us stuck in limbo, asking for permission &amp; waiting for opportunities</li><li>The art of elicitation and how to apply 5 of its techniques (there are 13 in total but 5 that are perfectly suited for our purposes)</li><li>How to elicit the answers we need without making the person defensive or suspicious</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Btw here's <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chasehughesofficial/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Chase Hughes</a>, the former military chief and expert on elicitation</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #21: Stop giving the benefit of the doubt</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #21: Stop giving the benefit of the doubt</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>If you're a sharp, clever woman but you find yourself being taken advantage of, this law is for you. While grace and forgiveness can be good things, giving most people the benefit of the doubt is a naive thing to do, especially as a woman. Because who benefits? Not you.</p><br><p>On top of that, we're often told that our intuition isn't reliable and we should focus on the cold, hard facts...which is idiotic because a gut feeling is the OUTCOME of empirical INPUTS that our brain has gathered unconsciously. So yeah, it's hard to explain why we have a gut feeling. But that doesn't make it any less valid.</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>The surprising origin of "the benefit of the doubt"</li><li>How to unlearn the nice girl conditioning that fools us into blindly seeing the good in everyone</li><li>Why giving the benefit of the doubt is a way to avoid short-term discomfort while inviting long-term disrespect</li><li>How to stop giving the benefit of the doubt without coming off as a jerk</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Btw <a href="https://bigthink.com/the-present/escape-short-term-thinking/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here's</a> the article I mentioned on short-term thinking</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>If you're a sharp, clever woman but you find yourself being taken advantage of, this law is for you. While grace and forgiveness can be good things, giving most people the benefit of the doubt is a naive thing to do, especially as a woman. Because who benefits? Not you.</p><br><p>On top of that, we're often told that our intuition isn't reliable and we should focus on the cold, hard facts...which is idiotic because a gut feeling is the OUTCOME of empirical INPUTS that our brain has gathered unconsciously. So yeah, it's hard to explain why we have a gut feeling. But that doesn't make it any less valid.</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>The surprising origin of "the benefit of the doubt"</li><li>How to unlearn the nice girl conditioning that fools us into blindly seeing the good in everyone</li><li>Why giving the benefit of the doubt is a way to avoid short-term discomfort while inviting long-term disrespect</li><li>How to stop giving the benefit of the doubt without coming off as a jerk</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Btw <a href="https://bigthink.com/the-present/escape-short-term-thinking/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here's</a> the article I mentioned on short-term thinking</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>8 types of anti-seducers: are you one of them?</title>
			<itunes:title>8 types of anti-seducers: are you one of them?</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to part 2 of my two-part series on 🌹seduction🌹</p><br><p>If you've ever felt frustrated that people don't seem to listen to you and take you seriously, or if you struggle with hyper-independence, self-sabotage, and masculine tendencies -- this is for you babe. This episode is all about 🥀anti-seduction🥀 and how it might be interfering with your ability to navigate and hack the patriarchy.</p><br><p>We discuss:</p><ul><li>The 8 types of anti-seducers discuss in The Art of Seduction</li><li>What these 8 types look like for women</li><li>The wounded feminine side of each anti-seductress type</li><li>Some questions and reflections that serve as a starting place for you to reflect on your anti-seductive tendencies and begin to address them</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Let's put our insecurities by the curb where they belong.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to part 2 of my two-part series on 🌹seduction🌹</p><br><p>If you've ever felt frustrated that people don't seem to listen to you and take you seriously, or if you struggle with hyper-independence, self-sabotage, and masculine tendencies -- this is for you babe. This episode is all about 🥀anti-seduction🥀 and how it might be interfering with your ability to navigate and hack the patriarchy.</p><br><p>We discuss:</p><ul><li>The 8 types of anti-seducers discuss in The Art of Seduction</li><li>What these 8 types look like for women</li><li>The wounded feminine side of each anti-seductress type</li><li>Some questions and reflections that serve as a starting place for you to reflect on your anti-seductive tendencies and begin to address them</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Let's put our insecurities by the curb where they belong.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #20: Master the art of non-sexual seduction</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #20: Master the art of non-sexual seduction</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>WE HIT LAW 2️⃣0️⃣!!! To celebrate making it to this milestone, I’ve prepared a 2-part series for you on 🌹seduction🌹 If you're listening to this today, you're one of the OG baddies and I'm sosososo grateful for you ❤️&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode, I’m going to discuss how you can use the art of non-sexual seduction to grease people up (especially men), put them under your enchantment, and get what you want from them. Next week's episode will be about 🥀anti-seduction🥀</p><p>Because this is a special episode, we’re going to uno reverse the patriarchy onto the boys and dive into a patriarchy loophole that affects men. We’ll discuss:</p><ul><li>5 ways the patriarchy represses men</li><li>The seductress archetype from <em>The Art of Seduction </em>that’s best suited to exploit the patriarchy through non-sexual seduction</li><li>The 6 traits of this archetype mapped out to the 5 major ways the patriarchy represses men&nbsp;&nbsp;</li><li>How to put this all together and use non-sexual seduction to exploit this and get what you want with your partner, coworker, boss, employees &amp; everyone in between</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>WE HIT LAW 2️⃣0️⃣!!! To celebrate making it to this milestone, I’ve prepared a 2-part series for you on 🌹seduction🌹 If you're listening to this today, you're one of the OG baddies and I'm sosososo grateful for you ❤️&nbsp;</p><p>In this episode, I’m going to discuss how you can use the art of non-sexual seduction to grease people up (especially men), put them under your enchantment, and get what you want from them. Next week's episode will be about 🥀anti-seduction🥀</p><p>Because this is a special episode, we’re going to uno reverse the patriarchy onto the boys and dive into a patriarchy loophole that affects men. We’ll discuss:</p><ul><li>5 ways the patriarchy represses men</li><li>The seductress archetype from <em>The Art of Seduction </em>that’s best suited to exploit the patriarchy through non-sexual seduction</li><li>The 6 traits of this archetype mapped out to the 5 major ways the patriarchy represses men&nbsp;&nbsp;</li><li>How to put this all together and use non-sexual seduction to exploit this and get what you want with your partner, coworker, boss, employees &amp; everyone in between</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>How morality has held women back for millennia</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>I'm back with Talia and we're discussing one of our fave topics: mOraLitY. In this chaotic convo we dive into:</p><ul><li>What morality even is</li><li>How she's related to her evil, ugly step sisters (guilt, shame, and fear)</li><li>Why morality a tool used to control women and convince us that we need to be good girls</li><li>What to replace morality with</li><li>Sabrina Carpenter and Sexyy Red (the duo no one asked for) as examples of why it makes no sense to label things as "morally wrong/right"</li></ul><p><br></p><p>🩷 Visit Talia's office hours on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/princezztalia/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@princezztalia?_t=8rhwdj84dvf&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠</a>, and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@princezztalia" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠</a></p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>I'm back with Talia and we're discussing one of our fave topics: mOraLitY. In this chaotic convo we dive into:</p><ul><li>What morality even is</li><li>How she's related to her evil, ugly step sisters (guilt, shame, and fear)</li><li>Why morality a tool used to control women and convince us that we need to be good girls</li><li>What to replace morality with</li><li>Sabrina Carpenter and Sexyy Red (the duo no one asked for) as examples of why it makes no sense to label things as "morally wrong/right"</li></ul><p><br></p><p>🩷 Visit Talia's office hours on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/princezztalia/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@princezztalia?_t=8rhwdj84dvf&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠</a>, and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@princezztalia" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠</a></p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #19: Treat your demons as your employees</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #19: Treat your demons as your employees</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>We've been socialized to hide half of who we are. To repress traits that would help our success, like assertiveness, ambition, and self-prioritization. To be nice, agreeable, non-confrontational girls. To be the version of the woman who keeps the patriarchy alive. I say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!</p><br><p>In this episode, we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why suppressing our demons actually makes us easy to manipulate</li><li>How most women are living as a version of themselves that they didn't create</li><li>Why the patriarchy is the real world embodiment of many men's demons</li></ul><p><br></p><p>I know this episode is longer than usual, and that's because we're going to go through 5 common traits/emotions that most women suppress, including their job titles, job descriptions, and how you can flip the script &amp; make them serve you. It's time to put these hoes on your payroll!</p><br><p>Btw here's the <a href="https://www.idrlabs.com/lifetrap/test.php" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">lifetraps quiz</a></p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>We've been socialized to hide half of who we are. To repress traits that would help our success, like assertiveness, ambition, and self-prioritization. To be nice, agreeable, non-confrontational girls. To be the version of the woman who keeps the patriarchy alive. I say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!</p><br><p>In this episode, we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why suppressing our demons actually makes us easy to manipulate</li><li>How most women are living as a version of themselves that they didn't create</li><li>Why the patriarchy is the real world embodiment of many men's demons</li></ul><p><br></p><p>I know this episode is longer than usual, and that's because we're going to go through 5 common traits/emotions that most women suppress, including their job titles, job descriptions, and how you can flip the script &amp; make them serve you. It's time to put these hoes on your payroll!</p><br><p>Btw here's the <a href="https://www.idrlabs.com/lifetrap/test.php" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">lifetraps quiz</a></p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[The ultimate patriarchy hack: being childfree (ft. "The Girl With The List" aka @z00mie)]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[The ultimate patriarchy hack: being childfree (ft. "The Girl With The List" aka @z00mie)]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>I’m sure many of y’all know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka “The Girl With The List.” Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like.&nbsp;</p><br><p>🍒 Follow Abigail on <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@z00mie?_t=ZT-8wpqaoPg60M&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/z00mi.e?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&amp;utm_source=qr" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, and check out her upcoming merch line <a href="https://z00mie.komi.io/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a></p><p>PS remember to take your birth control!!</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>I’m sure many of y’all know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka “The Girl With The List.” Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like.&nbsp;</p><br><p>🍒 Follow Abigail on <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@z00mie?_t=ZT-8wpqaoPg60M&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/z00mi.e?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&amp;utm_source=qr" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, and check out her upcoming merch line <a href="https://z00mie.komi.io/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a></p><p>PS remember to take your birth control!!</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #18: Refuse labels and become a shapeshifter</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #18: Refuse labels and become a shapeshifter</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>The woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define.</p><br><p>In this episode, we discuss:</p><ul><li>How to avoid being like everyone else who dislikes themselves &amp; try to conform</li><li>An example of a pop star who continues to use this law with crazy success (hint: she's in the 17th year of her career)</li><li>Why "I just want to be myself" and "I don't want to play games" are excuses for lazy, short sighted people</li><li>The psychological phenomenon behind being contradictory &amp; how it can help you</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>The woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define.</p><br><p>In this episode, we discuss:</p><ul><li>How to avoid being like everyone else who dislikes themselves &amp; try to conform</li><li>An example of a pop star who continues to use this law with crazy success (hint: she's in the 17th year of her career)</li><li>Why "I just want to be myself" and "I don't want to play games" are excuses for lazy, short sighted people</li><li>The psychological phenomenon behind being contradictory &amp; how it can help you</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[💍 Discussing patriarchal roots of wedding traditions & debunking wedding myths (with Victoria Alario, host of For the Girls podcast)]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[💍 Discussing patriarchal roots of wedding traditions & debunking wedding myths (with Victoria Alario, host of For the Girls podcast)]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>I sit down with confidence coach Victoria Alario to discuss how she planned her wedding in under a year with no stress and burnout, and without losing herself in the process. If you’re planning a wedding or think that it will be "the best day of your life," this one's for you.</p><br><p>We discuss:</p><ul><li>How to put your foot down and say "no"</li><li>Whether wedding invites and plus ones should be reciprocated</li><li>How to plan a wedding in under a year</li><li>Debunking wedding myths (did you know the history behind the groom not seeing the bride before the wedding?)</li><li>Overconsumption and how<strong> Big Wedding</strong> gets us to spend WAY more than we need to</li><li>An interesting perspective on the father of the bride walking the bride down the aisle</li></ul><p><br></p><p>🤍 Follow Victoria on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/victoria.alario/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Instagram⁠</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@victoria.alario?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠TikTok⁠</a></p><p>🎧 Listen to For the Girls on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/4zBppGP6I3GHFJh8m34TJy?si=e477de3506774f9d&amp;nd=1&amp;dlsi=35e127461e104671" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Spotify⁠</a>, <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/for-the-girls/id1579104385" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Apple⁠</a>, or <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@forthegirls/featured" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠YouTube⁠</a></p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>I sit down with confidence coach Victoria Alario to discuss how she planned her wedding in under a year with no stress and burnout, and without losing herself in the process. If you’re planning a wedding or think that it will be "the best day of your life," this one's for you.</p><br><p>We discuss:</p><ul><li>How to put your foot down and say "no"</li><li>Whether wedding invites and plus ones should be reciprocated</li><li>How to plan a wedding in under a year</li><li>Debunking wedding myths (did you know the history behind the groom not seeing the bride before the wedding?)</li><li>Overconsumption and how<strong> Big Wedding</strong> gets us to spend WAY more than we need to</li><li>An interesting perspective on the father of the bride walking the bride down the aisle</li></ul><p><br></p><p>🤍 Follow Victoria on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/victoria.alario/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Instagram⁠</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@victoria.alario?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠TikTok⁠</a></p><p>🎧 Listen to For the Girls on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/4zBppGP6I3GHFJh8m34TJy?si=e477de3506774f9d&amp;nd=1&amp;dlsi=35e127461e104671" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Spotify⁠</a>, <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/for-the-girls/id1579104385" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Apple⁠</a>, or <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@forthegirls/featured" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠YouTube⁠</a></p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Life is a game & it's time to win 💕 [podcast trailer]]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2025 22:48:05 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Welcome to all the bad bitches. Bum bitches stay on lookout.<hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to all the bad bitches. Bum bitches stay on lookout.<hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #17: Act like a winner before you even won</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #17: Act like a winner before you even won</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>💌 SUBSCRIBE TO <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠THE BADDIE BRIEF,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>The difference between victims and winners is that winners act on circumstances, while victims wait for circumstances to be fair. Which they never will be. As women, we need to master the art of acting like a winner, even when we feel like a big fat loser.</p><p>In this episode, we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why power is not given to the most deserving person</li><li>The psychological phenomenon that makes it essential for you to act like a winner at all (most) times</li><li>Examples of Hollywood actresses who used this law to make their careers super successful</li><li>3 patriarchy loopholes to understand &amp; exploit</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>💌 SUBSCRIBE TO <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠THE BADDIE BRIEF,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>The difference between victims and winners is that winners act on circumstances, while victims wait for circumstances to be fair. Which they never will be. As women, we need to master the art of acting like a winner, even when we feel like a big fat loser.</p><p>In this episode, we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why power is not given to the most deserving person</li><li>The psychological phenomenon that makes it essential for you to act like a winner at all (most) times</li><li>Examples of Hollywood actresses who used this law to make their careers super successful</li><li>3 patriarchy loopholes to understand &amp; exploit</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Why dating apps have ruined dating for women & where to look instead (with Princezz Talia)]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[Why dating apps have ruined dating for women & where to look instead (with Princezz Talia)]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Dating apps are one of the worst things to happen to humanity in the 21st century. In this episode,Talia &amp; I discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The connection between capitalism and datings apps (Big Dating!!)</li><li>Why "non-traditional" apps are even worse than the regular ones, like Bumble (where women have to message first) or Raya (where you need to apply for the app)</li><li>How these apps take women out of their feminine energy/take men out of their masculine energy</li><li>How women end up commodifying themselves and seeking validation, even when that's not the goal</li><li>Alternatives to dating apps (hint: it doesn't involve you sitting in a hotel bar)</li></ul><p><br></p><p>💙 Follow Talia on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/princezztalia/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Instagram⁠</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@princezztalia?_t=8rhwdj84dvf&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠TikTok⁠</a>, and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@princezztalia" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠YouTube⁠</a></p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Dating apps are one of the worst things to happen to humanity in the 21st century. In this episode,Talia &amp; I discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The connection between capitalism and datings apps (Big Dating!!)</li><li>Why "non-traditional" apps are even worse than the regular ones, like Bumble (where women have to message first) or Raya (where you need to apply for the app)</li><li>How these apps take women out of their feminine energy/take men out of their masculine energy</li><li>How women end up commodifying themselves and seeking validation, even when that's not the goal</li><li>Alternatives to dating apps (hint: it doesn't involve you sitting in a hotel bar)</li></ul><p><br></p><p>💙 Follow Talia on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/princezztalia/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Instagram⁠</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@princezztalia?_t=8rhwdj84dvf&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠TikTok⁠</a>, and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@princezztalia" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠YouTube⁠</a></p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #16: Master the art of silence</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #16: Master the art of silence</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2025 00:22:50 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>A big flaw of the patriarchy is that it assumes power is loud. The good news for the girlies is that because there’s so much emphasis on being loud and obnoxious, the power behind silence is completely neglected. That's where law 16 comes into play.</p><br><p>But also...WHY IS IT that when a man is quiet, he's "thoughtful." But when a woman is quiet she's "lost, confused, disengaged, a stupid idiot, blahblahblah..." Not only are we labelled a hundred things when we're quiet, but we're also expected to be people pleasers and fill the silence to make sure other people are comfortable. At our expense. Because silence is pretty uncomfortable. Well guess what, in this episode we're going to discuss:</p><ul><li>How to stop taking silence as rejection</li><li>How to control the narrative using silence as a tool</li><li>How to use weaponized silence to get more info out of people than you would've by talking (this is NOT the same as stonewalling)</li><li>A comparison of the responses of two women who got cheated on in the public eye: Princess Dianna and Cardi B</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>A big flaw of the patriarchy is that it assumes power is loud. The good news for the girlies is that because there’s so much emphasis on being loud and obnoxious, the power behind silence is completely neglected. That's where law 16 comes into play.</p><br><p>But also...WHY IS IT that when a man is quiet, he's "thoughtful." But when a woman is quiet she's "lost, confused, disengaged, a stupid idiot, blahblahblah..." Not only are we labelled a hundred things when we're quiet, but we're also expected to be people pleasers and fill the silence to make sure other people are comfortable. At our expense. Because silence is pretty uncomfortable. Well guess what, in this episode we're going to discuss:</p><ul><li>How to stop taking silence as rejection</li><li>How to control the narrative using silence as a tool</li><li>How to use weaponized silence to get more info out of people than you would've by talking (this is NOT the same as stonewalling)</li><li>A comparison of the responses of two women who got cheated on in the public eye: Princess Dianna and Cardi B</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>The Pinkprint of Power: CEO Daniel Pillai discusses that when women lead, the fabulous rise</title>
			<itunes:title>The Pinkprint of Power: CEO Daniel Pillai discusses that when women lead, the fabulous rise</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>I'm joined by Daniel Pillai, the Head Bitch in Charge (or the President &amp; CEO, if we want to use technical terms) of <a href="https://www.langtonpr.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Langton PR</a> - a public relations &amp; creative agency in Toronto, Canada.</p><p>Daniel came from a cultural background where he was expected to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer, marry a woman, and live a nice, traditional life. So when he came out as gay, started a career in TV, and eventually became the CEO of a PR firm, I guess we can say he broke a cultural norm or two. Daniel shares his journey of self-discovery, navigating fear &amp; imposter syndrome, and what happens when you work in female-dominated spaces.</p><br><p>Oh and we close the episode with a tarot card reading🔮</p><br><p>🎀 Follow Daniel's <a href="https://www.instagram.com/daniel.pillai/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">personal</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/queendeetarot/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">tarot</a> pages on Instagram</p><p>💘 Follow Langton PR on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/langtonpr/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>I'm joined by Daniel Pillai, the Head Bitch in Charge (or the President &amp; CEO, if we want to use technical terms) of <a href="https://www.langtonpr.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Langton PR</a> - a public relations &amp; creative agency in Toronto, Canada.</p><p>Daniel came from a cultural background where he was expected to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer, marry a woman, and live a nice, traditional life. So when he came out as gay, started a career in TV, and eventually became the CEO of a PR firm, I guess we can say he broke a cultural norm or two. Daniel shares his journey of self-discovery, navigating fear &amp; imposter syndrome, and what happens when you work in female-dominated spaces.</p><br><p>Oh and we close the episode with a tarot card reading🔮</p><br><p>🎀 Follow Daniel's <a href="https://www.instagram.com/daniel.pillai/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">personal</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/queendeetarot/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">tarot</a> pages on Instagram</p><p>💘 Follow Langton PR on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/langtonpr/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #15: Let people underestimate you</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #15: Let people underestimate you</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Some guy from the 1600s is quoted saying "the truth is generally seen, rarely heard." That's the basis of this law, which is one of the sneakier girly laws of power. In this episode we're going to discuss:</p><ul><li>How being underestimated puts you in a position of power, which I guess is good because as women we're often underestimated</li><li>The behaviours we need to unlearn so we can be more effective at controlling the narrative</li><li>Why you can only prove people wrong through your actions, never your words</li><li>The art of proving people wrong indirectly</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Some guy from the 1600s is quoted saying "the truth is generally seen, rarely heard." That's the basis of this law, which is one of the sneakier girly laws of power. In this episode we're going to discuss:</p><ul><li>How being underestimated puts you in a position of power, which I guess is good because as women we're often underestimated</li><li>The behaviours we need to unlearn so we can be more effective at controlling the narrative</li><li>Why you can only prove people wrong through your actions, never your words</li><li>The art of proving people wrong indirectly</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Beauty with a backbone: How Jenn Harper turned a 3 A.M. dream into a clean beauty empire</title>
			<itunes:title>Beauty with a backbone: How Jenn Harper turned a 3 A.M. dream into a clean beauty empire</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>I sat down to talk with Jenn Harper, the founder &amp; CEO of Cheekbone Beauty Cosmetics - the biggest Indigenous-founded beauty brand in Canada. Jenn opens up about mental health, intergenerational trauma, and the way she turned her life around by refusing to let her challenges define who she is.&nbsp;This conversation was so special, and Jenn shared some very personal and vulnerable moments. Regardless of where you are in life, I’m sure you’ll resonate with her story and learn a thing or two about yourself 🩷 I definitely did.&nbsp;</p><br><p>💄Follow Cheekbone on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cheekbonebeauty/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@cheekbonebeauty" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a></p><p>👸Follow Jenn on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cheekbonejenn/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://ca.linkedin.com/in/jenn-harper-0b200a23" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></p><p>🌐 Shop Cheekbone products on their <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a> (use code NEEKI20 for 20% off - FYI this Barbie will get a small commission!), <a href="https://www.sephora.com/ca/en/brand/cheekbone" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sephora Canada</a>, and <a href="https://www.jcpenney.com/g/beauty/makeup?brand=cheekbone+beauty&amp;id=cat11100003810" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">JCPenny&nbsp;</a></p><br><p>Jenn founded Cheekbone Beauty in 2015. The company’s journey began as an online business that took pride in its commitment to reducing environmental impact and supporting Indigenous communities.&nbsp;In 2019, Jenn appeared on <a href="https://www.cbc.ca/dragonsden/pitches/cheekbone-beauty" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dragon's Den</a>. She turned down the Dragons’ offers and went on to steer Cheekbone towards exponential growth, including contracts with major retailers in North America. This placed Cheekbone on equal footing with global industry giants. Cheekbone products are now sold in Sephora Canada and JCPenney in the USA. Jenn is a voice for topics that are reshaping the business landscape: social entrepreneurship, empathy, representation, inclusivity, and sustainability.</p><br><p>In 2022, Jenn was listed among the <a href="https://www.entrepreneur.com/leadership/100-women-of-influence-in-2022/435872" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">100 Women of Influence by Entrepreneur Magazine</a> (a list graced by the likes of Jennifer Lopez and Kim Kardashian). In 2023, Jenn was conferred an <a href="https://brocku.ca/brock-news/2023/06/hockey-executive-indigenous-entrepreneur-and-corporate-governance-champion-to-be-honoured-at-convocation/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Honorary Doctorate</a> degree from the Goodman School of Business at Brock University. This honorary degree recognized her dedication to community betterment and sustainability. In 2024, Jenn was also named as one of Canada’s Top 100 Most Powerful Women.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>I sat down to talk with Jenn Harper, the founder &amp; CEO of Cheekbone Beauty Cosmetics - the biggest Indigenous-founded beauty brand in Canada. Jenn opens up about mental health, intergenerational trauma, and the way she turned her life around by refusing to let her challenges define who she is.&nbsp;This conversation was so special, and Jenn shared some very personal and vulnerable moments. Regardless of where you are in life, I’m sure you’ll resonate with her story and learn a thing or two about yourself 🩷 I definitely did.&nbsp;</p><br><p>💄Follow Cheekbone on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cheekbonebeauty/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@cheekbonebeauty" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a></p><p>👸Follow Jenn on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cheekbonejenn/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://ca.linkedin.com/in/jenn-harper-0b200a23" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></p><p>🌐 Shop Cheekbone products on their <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a> (use code NEEKI20 for 20% off - FYI this Barbie will get a small commission!), <a href="https://www.sephora.com/ca/en/brand/cheekbone" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sephora Canada</a>, and <a href="https://www.jcpenney.com/g/beauty/makeup?brand=cheekbone+beauty&amp;id=cat11100003810" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">JCPenny&nbsp;</a></p><br><p>Jenn founded Cheekbone Beauty in 2015. The company’s journey began as an online business that took pride in its commitment to reducing environmental impact and supporting Indigenous communities.&nbsp;In 2019, Jenn appeared on <a href="https://www.cbc.ca/dragonsden/pitches/cheekbone-beauty" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dragon's Den</a>. She turned down the Dragons’ offers and went on to steer Cheekbone towards exponential growth, including contracts with major retailers in North America. This placed Cheekbone on equal footing with global industry giants. Cheekbone products are now sold in Sephora Canada and JCPenney in the USA. Jenn is a voice for topics that are reshaping the business landscape: social entrepreneurship, empathy, representation, inclusivity, and sustainability.</p><br><p>In 2022, Jenn was listed among the <a href="https://www.entrepreneur.com/leadership/100-women-of-influence-in-2022/435872" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">100 Women of Influence by Entrepreneur Magazine</a> (a list graced by the likes of Jennifer Lopez and Kim Kardashian). In 2023, Jenn was conferred an <a href="https://brocku.ca/brock-news/2023/06/hockey-executive-indigenous-entrepreneur-and-corporate-governance-champion-to-be-honoured-at-convocation/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Honorary Doctorate</a> degree from the Goodman School of Business at Brock University. This honorary degree recognized her dedication to community betterment and sustainability. In 2024, Jenn was also named as one of Canada’s Top 100 Most Powerful Women.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #14: Always be the centre of attention</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #14: Always be the centre of attention</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>We live in a world where women are judged by their appearances. Instead of complaining about it, let’s flip the script and work backwards. Let’s decide how we want to be perceived, then dress for the part. That way, we’re in control of the narrative. Let the world judge us by our appearance allllllll it wants.</p><br><p>In this episode we’ll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why looks hold power &amp; how being the centre of attention puts you in a position of power</li><li>Why visibility = value and enables you to command respect, making it easier to bring peoples’ defenses down so you can get what you want</li><li>3 tips that will help you dress in a way that puts you in control of the narrative</li><li>The easiest way to stand out in any crowd&nbsp;</li></ul><p><br></p><p>I highly recommend you listen to <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/2sa6E3ptEaJC4dj8faFYwW?si=RMr95joRTaS7tIwA4Ob9eQ" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">law 9</a> (act like a queen to be treated like one) and <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/14bXRICoIMLgrQMNs1D7SP?si=hL0zGzoFSxWpwziQQiOJlw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">law 3 </a>(so much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage), as they have many parallels to this law!</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>We live in a world where women are judged by their appearances. Instead of complaining about it, let’s flip the script and work backwards. Let’s decide how we want to be perceived, then dress for the part. That way, we’re in control of the narrative. Let the world judge us by our appearance allllllll it wants.</p><br><p>In this episode we’ll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why looks hold power &amp; how being the centre of attention puts you in a position of power</li><li>Why visibility = value and enables you to command respect, making it easier to bring peoples’ defenses down so you can get what you want</li><li>3 tips that will help you dress in a way that puts you in control of the narrative</li><li>The easiest way to stand out in any crowd&nbsp;</li></ul><p><br></p><p>I highly recommend you listen to <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/2sa6E3ptEaJC4dj8faFYwW?si=RMr95joRTaS7tIwA4Ob9eQ" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">law 9</a> (act like a queen to be treated like one) and <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/14bXRICoIMLgrQMNs1D7SP?si=hL0zGzoFSxWpwziQQiOJlw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">law 3 </a>(so much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage), as they have many parallels to this law!</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>I answer your messy (and I mean MESSY) dating questions</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>You asked and I answered! This episode is another unscripted one, but with a twist. I’m answering your messy dating-related questions. Be sure to follow me on IG so you can participate in my next call for questions/stories 💓</p><br><p>2:00 - When is it ok to go 50/50 on a date?</p><p>2:15 - What would you do if you were with a rich provider man and you find out he cheated?</p><p>5:23 - The guy I’ve been casually seeing since January asked for me to share my location. I did but he never shared it back, and when I asked him about it he said he wants to make sure I’m safe. Should I believe him?&nbsp;</p><p>7:02 - Which Disney princess are you and why is it Shrek?</p><p>7:21 - Would you date someone who was religious or has different religious beliefs as you?</p><p>7:48 - What are your thoughts on having a roster?</p><p>14:55 - How would you tell someone you don’t want to date them because they live with their parents?</p><p>15:43 - If a man doesn’t listen and I end up being right, how would you respond to his behaviour?</p><p>18:19 - Is it ok to date two people and still feel single?</p><p>20:20 - Drop your haircare routine</p><p>21:36 - Have you ever picked up a guy for a date?</p><p>21:41 - Have you ever dated a mutual friend and didn’t tell that mutual friend?</p><p>22:51 - How do I ask situationships to pay for things?</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>You asked and I answered! This episode is another unscripted one, but with a twist. I’m answering your messy dating-related questions. Be sure to follow me on IG so you can participate in my next call for questions/stories 💓</p><br><p>2:00 - When is it ok to go 50/50 on a date?</p><p>2:15 - What would you do if you were with a rich provider man and you find out he cheated?</p><p>5:23 - The guy I’ve been casually seeing since January asked for me to share my location. I did but he never shared it back, and when I asked him about it he said he wants to make sure I’m safe. Should I believe him?&nbsp;</p><p>7:02 - Which Disney princess are you and why is it Shrek?</p><p>7:21 - Would you date someone who was religious or has different religious beliefs as you?</p><p>7:48 - What are your thoughts on having a roster?</p><p>14:55 - How would you tell someone you don’t want to date them because they live with their parents?</p><p>15:43 - If a man doesn’t listen and I end up being right, how would you respond to his behaviour?</p><p>18:19 - Is it ok to date two people and still feel single?</p><p>20:20 - Drop your haircare routine</p><p>21:36 - Have you ever picked up a guy for a date?</p><p>21:41 - Have you ever dated a mutual friend and didn’t tell that mutual friend?</p><p>22:51 - How do I ask situationships to pay for things?</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #13: Think of everything as a business to ensure the best outcome for yourself</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #13: Think of everything as a business to ensure the best outcome for yourself</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>If your relationships were a business would you be bankrupt because you're giving too much? Probably....</p><br><p>As women, we need to get better at standing on business. That's why we need to start thinking of things as a business. And take a shot every time I say "business."</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why we're conditioned to give aimlessly</li><li>The dumbest currency society as told us we have to pay with</li><li>The actual currency we should be paying with</li><li>2 easy ways to become ensure all of our "businesses" are profitable (aka we're not depleting ourselves and giving too much)</li><li>An example of how I spent 5.5 YEARS giving my time, energy, and money to a relationship that was basically a black hole</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>If your relationships were a business would you be bankrupt because you're giving too much? Probably....</p><br><p>As women, we need to get better at standing on business. That's why we need to start thinking of things as a business. And take a shot every time I say "business."</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why we're conditioned to give aimlessly</li><li>The dumbest currency society as told us we have to pay with</li><li>The actual currency we should be paying with</li><li>2 easy ways to become ensure all of our "businesses" are profitable (aka we're not depleting ourselves and giving too much)</li><li>An example of how I spent 5.5 YEARS giving my time, energy, and money to a relationship that was basically a black hole</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>How to be a bitch 💄 (with Cami Sophia)</title>
			<itunes:title>How to be a bitch 💄 (with Cami Sophia)</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2025 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Today we're joined by the lovely Cami Sophia as we discuss one of the best books of all time, <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9201647-why-men-love-bitches" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why Men Love Bitches</a>. The fact that this author hasn't won a Nobel Prize is beyond me.</p><p>The pretty girls are already familiar with what we mean by "bitch," but in case you need a refresher - a bitch is a woman who holds her own, doesn't need anyone's acceptance, and doesn't compromise on her standards. Aka she's someone who loves herself unconditionally.</p><br><p>In this episode, we get into:</p><ul><li>How women are conditioned to be doormats and men are conditioned to be bitches (+ obvi how to become a bitch)</li><li>Our own stories of how we went from doormat to bitch in our past relationships</li><li>How Cami manifested her man (the power of writing things down you guys!!!)</li><li>Why the only important form of validation is self-validation</li><li>Cami's patriarchy hacks</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Love,</p><p>Neeki xo</p><br><p>📍Follow Cami on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/camisophiaaaaa/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Instagram⁠, </a>⁠<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@camisophiaaaa?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok⁠</a>, ⁠and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@camisophiaaaa/featured" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a>⁠</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠</a>🌐 Check out her other links <a href="https://bio.site/camisophia?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaaZOz61d-q5e-p_fynf2iVFmPWTtlXlP4NSghmWU5SMALqBjhP-nkdnKmk_aem_hVA6qmEGto3A31fJ2YzHhA" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a></p><p>🎧 Listen to Cami’s podcast, With Intention on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/0ZgEcto5w0W4V5vSZ0iC89?si=kM53GsGeSNCYpS5Ank9e1g" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Spotify</a> or <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/with-intention/id1633903023" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Apple&nbsp;</a></p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Today we're joined by the lovely Cami Sophia as we discuss one of the best books of all time, <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9201647-why-men-love-bitches" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why Men Love Bitches</a>. The fact that this author hasn't won a Nobel Prize is beyond me.</p><p>The pretty girls are already familiar with what we mean by "bitch," but in case you need a refresher - a bitch is a woman who holds her own, doesn't need anyone's acceptance, and doesn't compromise on her standards. Aka she's someone who loves herself unconditionally.</p><br><p>In this episode, we get into:</p><ul><li>How women are conditioned to be doormats and men are conditioned to be bitches (+ obvi how to become a bitch)</li><li>Our own stories of how we went from doormat to bitch in our past relationships</li><li>How Cami manifested her man (the power of writing things down you guys!!!)</li><li>Why the only important form of validation is self-validation</li><li>Cami's patriarchy hacks</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Love,</p><p>Neeki xo</p><br><p>📍Follow Cami on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/camisophiaaaaa/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠Instagram⁠, </a>⁠<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@camisophiaaaa?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok⁠</a>, ⁠and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@camisophiaaaa/featured" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a>⁠</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠</a>🌐 Check out her other links <a href="https://bio.site/camisophia?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaaZOz61d-q5e-p_fynf2iVFmPWTtlXlP4NSghmWU5SMALqBjhP-nkdnKmk_aem_hVA6qmEGto3A31fJ2YzHhA" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a></p><p>🎧 Listen to Cami’s podcast, With Intention on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/0ZgEcto5w0W4V5vSZ0iC89?si=kM53GsGeSNCYpS5Ank9e1g" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Spotify</a> or <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/with-intention/id1633903023" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Apple&nbsp;</a></p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #12: Receive more than you give to be treated like a princess</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #12: Receive more than you give to be treated like a princess</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2025 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>In order to take advantage of the patriarchy and be the universe's passenger princess, you need to be comfortable in the receiver role. That means you're able to receive favours, gifts, compliments, help, etc.</p><p>I understand that lots of women struggle with being comfortable as a receiver (I struggled with this for a long time). That's why law #12 is all about how to RECEIVE 💕</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why you're sososo worthy of receiving</li><li>Why it's important to stop hating men if we want to truly take advantage of the patriarchy</li><li>How to change our mindset so we can get more comfortable with receiving</li><li>Small actions we can do to start receiving things</li><li>Why if we don't assume the receiver role, we'll attract someone who does (aka a feminine, sassy man)</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>In order to take advantage of the patriarchy and be the universe's passenger princess, you need to be comfortable in the receiver role. That means you're able to receive favours, gifts, compliments, help, etc.</p><p>I understand that lots of women struggle with being comfortable as a receiver (I struggled with this for a long time). That's why law #12 is all about how to RECEIVE 💕</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why you're sososo worthy of receiving</li><li>Why it's important to stop hating men if we want to truly take advantage of the patriarchy</li><li>How to change our mindset so we can get more comfortable with receiving</li><li>Small actions we can do to start receiving things</li><li>Why if we don't assume the receiver role, we'll attract someone who does (aka a feminine, sassy man)</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[The science behind delulu is the solulu, manifestations & emotional fitness (with Dr Laura Beavin-Yates)]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[The science behind delulu is the solulu, manifestations & emotional fitness (with Dr Laura Beavin-Yates)]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2025 15:34:14 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>HELLO IT’S OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE💓</p><br><p>You know how I always tell you that mentally I’m in Barbieland and I’m kind of delusional? Well it turns out that having a positive worldview can actually rewire our brains. You don’t have to take my word for it, that’s why I invited a scientist onto the show.</p><br><p>Today, the baddest bitch in the building is Dr. Laura Beavin-Yates, PhD. She’s the Chief Marketing Officer of SIX, an app which helps you measure and find the hidden moments in your daily life that shape your emotional wellbeing. The app uses 20 years of neuroscience research and links to your wearable technology (e.g. your Apple Watch) to pick up the automatic signals your brain sends throughout the day and measure how your body responds to different experiences. Prior to filming this episode, I used the app and found out some fascinating stuff about my daily activities.&nbsp;</p><br><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Whether it’s a myth that women are more emotional than men</li><li>A surprising finding about feelings (hint: they’re not actually objective reactions to the world)</li><li>The neuroscience behind being delulu, manifestation, and the law of attraction</li><li>How we can rewire our brains and create more positive outcomes for ourselves</li><li>How to build our emotional fitness (just like we build our physical fitness)</li><li>How to identify daily experiences that give us fulfilment and take control of situations that make us feel not so fulfilled</li><li>Laura’s two patriarchy hacks</li></ul><p><br></p><p>This episode is especially relevant for anyone who feels like they’re in a rut or struggling to find their spark.&nbsp;</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://uos8w.app.link/NuodppaWfRb" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">📲 Download the SIX app</a></p><p>📍Follow SIX on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thesixapp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://tiktok.com/@thesixapp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://youtube.com/@TheSIXApp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a>, and <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/thesixapp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠</a>🌐 Learn more about SIX on their <a href="https://your6.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a></p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>HELLO IT’S OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE💓</p><br><p>You know how I always tell you that mentally I’m in Barbieland and I’m kind of delusional? Well it turns out that having a positive worldview can actually rewire our brains. You don’t have to take my word for it, that’s why I invited a scientist onto the show.</p><br><p>Today, the baddest bitch in the building is Dr. Laura Beavin-Yates, PhD. She’s the Chief Marketing Officer of SIX, an app which helps you measure and find the hidden moments in your daily life that shape your emotional wellbeing. The app uses 20 years of neuroscience research and links to your wearable technology (e.g. your Apple Watch) to pick up the automatic signals your brain sends throughout the day and measure how your body responds to different experiences. Prior to filming this episode, I used the app and found out some fascinating stuff about my daily activities.&nbsp;</p><br><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Whether it’s a myth that women are more emotional than men</li><li>A surprising finding about feelings (hint: they’re not actually objective reactions to the world)</li><li>The neuroscience behind being delulu, manifestation, and the law of attraction</li><li>How we can rewire our brains and create more positive outcomes for ourselves</li><li>How to build our emotional fitness (just like we build our physical fitness)</li><li>How to identify daily experiences that give us fulfilment and take control of situations that make us feel not so fulfilled</li><li>Laura’s two patriarchy hacks</li></ul><p><br></p><p>This episode is especially relevant for anyone who feels like they’re in a rut or struggling to find their spark.&nbsp;</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://uos8w.app.link/NuodppaWfRb" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">📲 Download the SIX app</a></p><p>📍Follow SIX on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thesixapp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://tiktok.com/@thesixapp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://youtube.com/@TheSIXApp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a>, and <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/thesixapp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠</a>🌐 Learn more about SIX on their <a href="https://your6.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a></p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #11: Use the power of suggestion to always get your way</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #11: Use the power of suggestion to always get your way</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 19 Feb 2025 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>People don't like being told what to do. But you need people to do things. So WHAT is a girl to do?!? A girl needs to stop telling people to outright do things, and she needs to learn how to use the power of suggestion.</p><br><p>Using the power of suggestion is like planting a seed, and letting the other person fill in the gaps. You want your man to buy you flowers? Start admiring flowers when you go out and stopping by flower shops to smell a bouquet.</p><br><p>I mean, you could ask him to get you flowers...but the magical thing about nagging your partner is that it makes him do the exact opposite of what you want. And you also don't want to set the precedent of "if she wants something, she'll just ask." The same applies to friendships, work, roommates, and all other dynamics .</p><br><p>In this episode, we’ll discuss:</p><ul><li>The fundamental aspects of psychology and human nature behind why people need to feel a sense of autonomy behind their decisions</li><li>How to make people lower their defences by priming your relationships (aka getting the soil ready to plant the seed) so that you make people feel safe in your presence, which will allow the power of suggestion to work almost effortlessly</li><li>Examples of how to use the power of suggestion with someone you're dating, your significant other, your colleagues, your roommate, and yourself</li><li>Psychological and hypnotic tricks on how to make your suggestions more compelling</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>People don't like being told what to do. But you need people to do things. So WHAT is a girl to do?!? A girl needs to stop telling people to outright do things, and she needs to learn how to use the power of suggestion.</p><br><p>Using the power of suggestion is like planting a seed, and letting the other person fill in the gaps. You want your man to buy you flowers? Start admiring flowers when you go out and stopping by flower shops to smell a bouquet.</p><br><p>I mean, you could ask him to get you flowers...but the magical thing about nagging your partner is that it makes him do the exact opposite of what you want. And you also don't want to set the precedent of "if she wants something, she'll just ask." The same applies to friendships, work, roommates, and all other dynamics .</p><br><p>In this episode, we’ll discuss:</p><ul><li>The fundamental aspects of psychology and human nature behind why people need to feel a sense of autonomy behind their decisions</li><li>How to make people lower their defences by priming your relationships (aka getting the soil ready to plant the seed) so that you make people feel safe in your presence, which will allow the power of suggestion to work almost effortlessly</li><li>Examples of how to use the power of suggestion with someone you're dating, your significant other, your colleagues, your roommate, and yourself</li><li>Psychological and hypnotic tricks on how to make your suggestions more compelling</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Unscripted: Is marriage a scam?</title>
			<itunes:title>Unscripted: Is marriage a scam?</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2025 18:20:47 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Hello to all the pretty girls tuning in…so hello everyone. Y’all asked for more unscripted episodes, so that’s what I’m bringing to the table today.&nbsp;</p><br><p>Here’s some context for the new baddies: In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my Instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.</p><br><p>There was actually a tie in the last poll, “is marriage a scam” and “are pick mes a product of the patriarchy” both got 44% of the vote! We’re going with the marriage topic, since a lot of you have messaged me over the last few weeks asking me to talk about whether marriage is a scam for women. Which is surprising given I’m not married nor have I ever been!!!!</p><p>Anywhoooo I hope you enjoy hearing me yap about this. Let me know what you think - is marriage a scam? Or are there ways for women to negotiate a favourable outcome for themselves? I'll be responding to all comments and DMs 🩷</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Hello to all the pretty girls tuning in…so hello everyone. Y’all asked for more unscripted episodes, so that’s what I’m bringing to the table today.&nbsp;</p><br><p>Here’s some context for the new baddies: In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my Instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.</p><br><p>There was actually a tie in the last poll, “is marriage a scam” and “are pick mes a product of the patriarchy” both got 44% of the vote! We’re going with the marriage topic, since a lot of you have messaged me over the last few weeks asking me to talk about whether marriage is a scam for women. Which is surprising given I’m not married nor have I ever been!!!!</p><p>Anywhoooo I hope you enjoy hearing me yap about this. Let me know what you think - is marriage a scam? Or are there ways for women to negotiate a favourable outcome for themselves? I'll be responding to all comments and DMs 🩷</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #10: Be selective with who you give your truth</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #10: Be selective with who you give your truth</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 05 Feb 2025 19:14:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>As a woman, your truth is one of the most sacred and valuable things you have. What I mean by your truth is all your life experiences, thoughts, goals, insecurities, traumas….everything that makes you, YOU.</p><br><p>Your truth is a garden that most people don’t deserve to access. The problem is that the patriarchy understands how valuable a woman’s truth is, and people are lying to you from every direction to try and access your truth. Telling the truth isn’t the default for most people.</p><br><p>In this episode, we’ll discuss:</p><p>- The different tiers of people who want to access your truth</p><p>- An example of a silly man from the 1500s who made it known he was using the truth for bad intentions, and how people came together to send him on a 2000-mile wild goose chase for 1.5 years</p><p>- A technique for testing someone’s reaction to your truth, without actually sharing your truth and making yourself vulnerable</p><p>- How and why withholding your truth is different from “lying”</p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>As a woman, your truth is one of the most sacred and valuable things you have. What I mean by your truth is all your life experiences, thoughts, goals, insecurities, traumas….everything that makes you, YOU.</p><br><p>Your truth is a garden that most people don’t deserve to access. The problem is that the patriarchy understands how valuable a woman’s truth is, and people are lying to you from every direction to try and access your truth. Telling the truth isn’t the default for most people.</p><br><p>In this episode, we’ll discuss:</p><p>- The different tiers of people who want to access your truth</p><p>- An example of a silly man from the 1500s who made it known he was using the truth for bad intentions, and how people came together to send him on a 2000-mile wild goose chase for 1.5 years</p><p>- A technique for testing someone’s reaction to your truth, without actually sharing your truth and making yourself vulnerable</p><p>- How and why withholding your truth is different from “lying”</p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Unscripted: Is building a career a capitalist scam?</title>
			<itunes:title>Unscripted: Is building a career a capitalist scam?</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jan 2025 05:02:56 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>The baddies asked and I have delivered. I'M DROPPING WEEKLY EPISODES!!! In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.</p><br><p>The baddies chose "is building a career a capitalist scam," so that's what we're yapping about today. I share my own experiences of getting my soul sucked by working in a corporate job. After working with CEOs, execs, and boards, I've seen some STUFF. And I lived to tell the tale. I'll also discuss a way to save ourselves from the dementors.</p><p>I feel like this might (??) be less applicable to jobs in certain fields (e.g. healthcare, teaching, etc.). But the capitalism pandemic is everywhere, so I'm curious to hear from the non corporate baddies. Drop a comment and lmk! I'll be responding to all comments 🩷</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>The baddies asked and I have delivered. I'M DROPPING WEEKLY EPISODES!!! In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.</p><br><p>The baddies chose "is building a career a capitalist scam," so that's what we're yapping about today. I share my own experiences of getting my soul sucked by working in a corporate job. After working with CEOs, execs, and boards, I've seen some STUFF. And I lived to tell the tale. I'll also discuss a way to save ourselves from the dementors.</p><p>I feel like this might (??) be less applicable to jobs in certain fields (e.g. healthcare, teaching, etc.). But the capitalism pandemic is everywhere, so I'm curious to hear from the non corporate baddies. Drop a comment and lmk! I'll be responding to all comments 🩷</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #9: Act like a queen to be treated like one</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #9: Act like a queen to be treated like one</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2025 01:24:54 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>We keep getting told to “know our worth” but like…how much is our worth? In the same way that Hermes will charge $50,000 for a bag, we can set our own price and make it as high as we want. The only catch is that we have to actually believe we’re worth that much.</p><br><p>In this episode, we’ll discuss:</p><br><p>- How to set your price, believe your worth, and stand on business</p><p>- Why the way you carry yourself reflects what you think of yourself</p><p>- How to set yourself apart from other people by using what I call the triple Ds (not to be confused with double Ds):</p><p>1. Dignified: Having unconditional self love</p><p>2. Different: Choosing not to blend in&nbsp;</p><p>3. Distinctly feminine: Being feminine in the way you act and dress (heavy on the “acting”)</p><br><p>And guess what. Men have to be loud and obnoxious to command attention. Women can literally just ✨enchant✨ people with their presence. So we’re also going to talk about how to do that.</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>We keep getting told to “know our worth” but like…how much is our worth? In the same way that Hermes will charge $50,000 for a bag, we can set our own price and make it as high as we want. The only catch is that we have to actually believe we’re worth that much.</p><br><p>In this episode, we’ll discuss:</p><br><p>- How to set your price, believe your worth, and stand on business</p><p>- Why the way you carry yourself reflects what you think of yourself</p><p>- How to set yourself apart from other people by using what I call the triple Ds (not to be confused with double Ds):</p><p>1. Dignified: Having unconditional self love</p><p>2. Different: Choosing not to blend in&nbsp;</p><p>3. Distinctly feminine: Being feminine in the way you act and dress (heavy on the “acting”)</p><br><p>And guess what. Men have to be loud and obnoxious to command attention. Women can literally just ✨enchant✨ people with their presence. So we’re also going to talk about how to do that.</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #8: Know when to act dumb to get what you want</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #8: Know when to act dumb to get what you want</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jan 2025 03:12:26 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>There’s a Japanese proverb that says, “The nail that sticks up will be hammered down.” A lot of the time, showing people how smart you are works in the opposite way you intended. People will feel envious, threatened, and jealous. So…sometimes, the smartest thing you can do is to play dumb. In this episode, we’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Two elements of human nature that we NEED to understand in order to effectively play dumb</li><li>Why making people feel good about themselves (and especially making them feel intellectually superior) will make you magnetic&nbsp;</li><li>Why most people are imprisoned in their own minds, and how to break out of prison and mentally free yourself</li><li>How to act dumb with men versus with women</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Here are my viral/popular reels that I mentioned:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbitchinthebldg/reel/DEFx49MR6ta/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Reel 1</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbitchinthebldg/reel/DC0mEHXMyoG/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Reel 2</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbitchinthebldg/reel/DCUfQ8QxM8-/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Reel 3</a></p><br><p>And here’s the book I referenced, “<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9201647-why-men-love-bitches" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why Men Love Bitches</a>”</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>There’s a Japanese proverb that says, “The nail that sticks up will be hammered down.” A lot of the time, showing people how smart you are works in the opposite way you intended. People will feel envious, threatened, and jealous. So…sometimes, the smartest thing you can do is to play dumb. In this episode, we’ll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Two elements of human nature that we NEED to understand in order to effectively play dumb</li><li>Why making people feel good about themselves (and especially making them feel intellectually superior) will make you magnetic&nbsp;</li><li>Why most people are imprisoned in their own minds, and how to break out of prison and mentally free yourself</li><li>How to act dumb with men versus with women</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Here are my viral/popular reels that I mentioned:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbitchinthebldg/reel/DEFx49MR6ta/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Reel 1</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbitchinthebldg/reel/DC0mEHXMyoG/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Reel 2</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbitchinthebldg/reel/DCUfQ8QxM8-/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Reel 3</a></p><br><p>And here’s the book I referenced, “<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9201647-why-men-love-bitches" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why Men Love Bitches</a>”</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #7: Remove guilt from your emotions</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #7: Remove guilt from your emotions</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2024 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>If you want something, it's because you KNOW you deserve it. And if that makes you feel uneasy, then it's time to talk about guilt - the most useless emotion to ever exist. In this episode we dive into:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>How guilt is a miscommunication between the past and the present</li><li>The ways in which feeling guilty for things you did/want is holding you back from unlocking your power</li><li>Why feeling guilt for things that happened in the past&nbsp;means you’re mentally stuck in a location you physically left</li><li>How to rewire ourselves to stop feeling guilty about ANYTHING</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Let's get rid of this stupid guilt!! Let me know your thoughts in the comments 🩷</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>If you want something, it's because you KNOW you deserve it. And if that makes you feel uneasy, then it's time to talk about guilt - the most useless emotion to ever exist. In this episode we dive into:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>How guilt is a miscommunication between the past and the present</li><li>The ways in which feeling guilty for things you did/want is holding you back from unlocking your power</li><li>Why feeling guilt for things that happened in the past&nbsp;means you’re mentally stuck in a location you physically left</li><li>How to rewire ourselves to stop feeling guilty about ANYTHING</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Let's get rid of this stupid guilt!! Let me know your thoughts in the comments 🩷</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #6: To succeed at anything, you must be emotionally detached</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #6: To succeed at anything, you must be emotionally detached</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 28 Nov 2024 03:20:13 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>Hello to all the pretty girls (so hello everyone, because I know only pretty bitches listen to this podcast). In this episode, we're getting into law #6: to succeed at anything (and I mean ANYTHING), you must be emotionally detached.</p><br><p>We'll be discussing:</p><ul><li>What men are doing RIGHT and how we can learn from their behaviour (I literally never thought I would say that)</li><li>Why emotional attachment leads to expectations, which leads to hurt and disappointment</li><li>Why women are almost always the ones who get hurt in dating/relationships</li><li>How, if your emotions were money, you would probably be bankrupt</li><li>And most importantly, how to detach deTACH DETACH</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>Hello to all the pretty girls (so hello everyone, because I know only pretty bitches listen to this podcast). In this episode, we're getting into law #6: to succeed at anything (and I mean ANYTHING), you must be emotionally detached.</p><br><p>We'll be discussing:</p><ul><li>What men are doing RIGHT and how we can learn from their behaviour (I literally never thought I would say that)</li><li>Why emotional attachment leads to expectations, which leads to hurt and disappointment</li><li>Why women are almost always the ones who get hurt in dating/relationships</li><li>How, if your emotions were money, you would probably be bankrupt</li><li>And most importantly, how to detach deTACH DETACH</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Girly law of power #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[Girly law of power #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Nov 2024 05:54:16 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Hello to all the returning baddies and welcome to the new baddies tuning into the podcast! In this episode, we're getting into Law #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything. This is sososo important for getting what you want!!</p><br><p>We'll be discussing:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why appealing to peoples' sense of goodwill, loyalty, charity, reciprocity, or other BS is just going to make them resent you</li><li>The art of asking someone to do something for you while still making them feel like they're in control (hint: the best requests aren't questions, they're suggestions)</li><li>The human psychology behind why no one wants to do anything for anyone unless there's something in it for them</li><li>What's probably making your requests kind of icky</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Hello to all the returning baddies and welcome to the new baddies tuning into the podcast! In this episode, we're getting into Law #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything. This is sososo important for getting what you want!!</p><br><p>We'll be discussing:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why appealing to peoples' sense of goodwill, loyalty, charity, reciprocity, or other BS is just going to make them resent you</li><li>The art of asking someone to do something for you while still making them feel like they're in control (hint: the best requests aren't questions, they're suggestions)</li><li>The human psychology behind why no one wants to do anything for anyone unless there's something in it for them</li><li>What's probably making your requests kind of icky</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #4: Never take anything personally</title>
			<itunes:title>Girly law of power #4: Never take anything personally</itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2024 01:20:41 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Let the baddies know I'm back and ready with another Law of Power for the girly pops. In this episode, we're getting into Law #4: Never take anything personally. We all know this in theory, but there's a lot more to it.</p><br><p>We'll be discussing:</p><p>- Why the way people treat you has nothing to actually do with you (hint: it's a reflection of how they feel about themselves)</p><p>- An example of a situation we prob all took personally (getting ghosted)</p><p>- How to separate your sense of self from peoples' opinions of you</p><p>- How you're setting yourself back from reaching your goals when you take things personally</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Let the baddies know I'm back and ready with another Law of Power for the girly pops. In this episode, we're getting into Law #4: Never take anything personally. We all know this in theory, but there's a lot more to it.</p><br><p>We'll be discussing:</p><p>- Why the way people treat you has nothing to actually do with you (hint: it's a reflection of how they feel about themselves)</p><p>- An example of a situation we prob all took personally (getting ghosted)</p><p>- How to separate your sense of self from peoples' opinions of you</p><p>- How you're setting yourself back from reaching your goals when you take things personally</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><br><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title>Girly law of power #3: SO MUCH depends on your looks, use that to your advantage</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 16 Aug 2024 18:53:38 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Another Law of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #3: So much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage. This one is going to be controversial, but it had to be said.</p><p>Here's what we'll be discussing:</p><p>- EVERYONE judges people first on their appearance</p><p>- The cheat code to hacking the patriarchy (hint: get ahead of most men by fitting the right feminine "stereotype")</p><p>- How to come across as more feminine</p><p>- The way men are hard wired to trust beautiful women, and how to take advantage of that</p><p>- An example of how Bethenny Frankel (a famous multimillionaire) got turned away at the Chanel store for the way she looked</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbitchinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠</a><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Another Law of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #3: So much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage. This one is going to be controversial, but it had to be said.</p><p>Here's what we'll be discussing:</p><p>- EVERYONE judges people first on their appearance</p><p>- The cheat code to hacking the patriarchy (hint: get ahead of most men by fitting the right feminine "stereotype")</p><p>- How to come across as more feminine</p><p>- The way men are hard wired to trust beautiful women, and how to take advantage of that</p><p>- An example of how Bethenny Frankel (a famous multimillionaire) got turned away at the Chanel store for the way she looked</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbitchinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠</a><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jul 2024 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>We're back with the Laws of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #2: stop being guided by right &amp; wrong. We'll be discussing:</p><p>- Why we shouldn't play fair in an unfair world</p><p>- How "morality" is a made up concept</p><p>- Why the only moral compass you should be using is your self interest</p><p>- How no one got to the pinnacle of success by worrying about what's RiGhT oR wRoNg</p><p>- An example of how Jennifer Lopez went from barely being a backup dancer to being one of the richest women in Hollywood (hint: she didn't get there by being a good person)</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true.</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>We're back with the Laws of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #2: stop being guided by right &amp; wrong. We'll be discussing:</p><p>- Why we shouldn't play fair in an unfair world</p><p>- How "morality" is a made up concept</p><p>- Why the only moral compass you should be using is your self interest</p><p>- How no one got to the pinnacle of success by worrying about what's RiGhT oR wRoNg</p><p>- An example of how Jennifer Lopez went from barely being a backup dancer to being one of the richest women in Hollywood (hint: she didn't get there by being a good person)</p><br><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true.</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast:</strong> Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki:</strong> I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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			<title><![CDATA[Girly law of power #1: Don't be humble]]></title>
			<itunes:title><![CDATA[Girly law of power #1: Don't be humble]]></itunes:title>
			<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jul 2024 03:56:51 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Hello to all the baddies. You may have read or heard of "The 48 Laws of Power." That book is amazing and I highly recommend it, but if you've read it, you probably noticed that it's very...masculine.</p><br><p><br></p><p>Well guess what?!?</p><br><p><br></p><p>I'm launching a new series: The Hidden Laws of Power (for women). This is a feminine twist on the Laws of Power, with emphasis on how we can take advantage of the systems that are meant to control us (e.g. the patriarchy, women's beauty standards). It's basically a series of life hacks.</p><br><p><br></p><p>In this episode, we're discussing Law #1: Don't be humble. We'll be getting into:</p><br><p>- Why humility is a scam and how it's meant to control us</p><p>- How to use humility and confidence to push our self interest (and when to pretend to be humble)</p><p>- An example of how one of the greatest scientists of all time, known as a "humble genius," didn't get a lick of recognition for his work</p><p>- How to stop being humble while not coming off as a douchebag</p><br><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true.</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description>
			<itunes:summary><![CDATA[<p>📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy</em> on <a href="https://mybook.to/AmRLBu" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Amazon</a> or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB <a href="https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">directly from me</a>. Free preview available <a href="https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><br><p>Hello to all the baddies. You may have read or heard of "The 48 Laws of Power." That book is amazing and I highly recommend it, but if you've read it, you probably noticed that it's very...masculine.</p><br><p><br></p><p>Well guess what?!?</p><br><p><br></p><p>I'm launching a new series: The Hidden Laws of Power (for women). This is a feminine twist on the Laws of Power, with emphasis on how we can take advantage of the systems that are meant to control us (e.g. the patriarchy, women's beauty standards). It's basically a series of life hacks.</p><br><p><br></p><p>In this episode, we're discussing Law #1: Don't be humble. We'll be getting into:</p><br><p>- Why humility is a scam and how it's meant to control us</p><p>- How to use humility and confidence to push our self interest (and when to pretend to be humble)</p><p>- An example of how one of the greatest scientists of all time, known as a "humble genius," didn't get a lick of recognition for his work</p><p>- How to stop being humble while not coming off as a douchebag</p><br><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true.</p><br><p><strong>About the podcast: </strong>Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by <em>The 48 Laws of Power</em>, <em>The Baddest Bitch in the Building </em>is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:</p><ol><li>Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage</li><li>Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small</li><li>Stop letting guilt and shame control you</li><li>No longer feel depleted in your relationships&nbsp;</li><li>Apply psychological strategies to get what you want</li><li>Understand human nature so well, you'll always win</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong>About Neeki: </strong>I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t&nbsp;given – it’s either taken or created.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">💌 Subscribe to </a><a href="https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href="https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></itunes:summary>
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