60 acast.com The Cocoon: A Safe Place for Victims and Survivors of Sexual Trauma https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ en The Blue Butterfly Institute The Blue Butterfly Institute

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]]> true The Blue Butterfly Institute info+646b67762c81c50011125ba5@mg-eu.acast.com 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma https://anchor.fm/s/d9da670c/podcast/rss episodic https://assets.pippa.io/shows/646b67762c81c50011125ba5/show-cover.jpg https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ The Cocoon: A Safe Place for Victims and Survivors of Sexual Trauma https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/646b67762c81c50011125ba5 Dignity After Death: Trauma-Informed Funeral Care for Survivors with Michelle Dwyer Dignity After Death: Trauma-Informed Funeral Care for Survivors with Michelle Dwyer Sun, 29 Mar 2026 08:05:58 GMT 54:33 697d8c2565c54ec919cad8d3 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/dignity-after-death-trauma-informed-funeral-care-for-survivo 697d8c2565c54ec919cad8d3 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 dignity-after-death-trauma-informed-funeral-care-for-survivo full 3 3 In “Dignity After Death: Trauma-Informed Funeral Care for Survivors with Michelle Dwyer,” Ruby sits down with funeral director and celebrant Michelle Dwyer from Dwyer Family Funerals to unpack what dignity after death really looks like – especially for survivors of sexual trauma.


Together, they explore how language, boundaries and respectful body care can transform funeral practice from something clinical and cold into something deeply humane, safe and family-centred.


Michelle shares how her family-run funeral home focuses on empathy rather than profit, why the words “we’re bringing them into our care” matter so much, and how trauma-informed funeral directors can support anxious families who fear their loved one being mishandled. She also explains what actually happens in the mortuary, common myths about embalming, and practical ways we can advocate for ourselves and our loved ones in end-of-life planning.


If you’ve ever worried about how your body – or your loved one’s body – will be treated after death, this gentle, grounded conversation offers validation, clear information and real-world tools to ask for the care you deserve.



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]]> In “Dignity After Death: Trauma-Informed Funeral Care for Survivors with Michelle Dwyer,” Ruby sits down with funeral director and celebrant Michelle Dwyer from Dwyer Family Funerals to unpack what dignity after death really looks like – especially for survivors of sexual trauma.


Together, they explore how language, boundaries and respectful body care can transform funeral practice from something clinical and cold into something deeply humane, safe and family-centred.


Michelle shares how her family-run funeral home focuses on empathy rather than profit, why the words “we’re bringing them into our care” matter so much, and how trauma-informed funeral directors can support anxious families who fear their loved one being mishandled. She also explains what actually happens in the mortuary, common myths about embalming, and practical ways we can advocate for ourselves and our loved ones in end-of-life planning.


If you’ve ever worried about how your body – or your loved one’s body – will be treated after death, this gentle, grounded conversation offers validation, clear information and real-world tools to ask for the care you deserve.



We made it on Feedspot's 2025 Top 30 Aussie Not For Profit Podcasts!

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]]> Teaser – Dignity After Death: Trauma-Informed Funeral Care (Part One Preview) Teaser – Dignity After Death: Trauma-Informed Funeral Care (Part One Preview) Sat, 07 Mar 2026 19:00:00 GMT 0:44 697d8b2f22b46a261aa6823e false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/teaser-dignity-after-death-trauma-informed-funeral-care-part 697d8b2f22b46a261aa6823e 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 teaser-dignity-after-death-trauma-informed-funeral-care-part trailer In this teaser for Part One of “Dignity After Death: Trauma-Informed Funeral Care for Survivors with Michelle Dwyer,” Ruby shares a powerful clip from her conversation with funeral director and celebrant Michelle Dwyer from Dwyer Family Funerals. They explore what dignity after death really means for survivors of sexual abuse and complex trauma, and why the words “we’re bringing them into our care” can make all the difference when you’re grieving.


If you’ve ever worried about how your body or your loved one’s body will be treated after death, this preview offers a gentle, trauma-informed introduction to funeral care, mortuary practices and advocating for respectful body care.


🔔 Full Part One episode drops on 29 March.

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]]> In this teaser for Part One of “Dignity After Death: Trauma-Informed Funeral Care for Survivors with Michelle Dwyer,” Ruby shares a powerful clip from her conversation with funeral director and celebrant Michelle Dwyer from Dwyer Family Funerals. They explore what dignity after death really means for survivors of sexual abuse and complex trauma, and why the words “we’re bringing them into our care” can make all the difference when you’re grieving.


If you’ve ever worried about how your body or your loved one’s body will be treated after death, this preview offers a gentle, trauma-informed introduction to funeral care, mortuary practices and advocating for respectful body care.


🔔 Full Part One episode drops on 29 March.

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]]> <![CDATA[Denise (Part 2): Parenting After Sexual Trauma, Somatic Triggers & Breaking the Silence Around Birth]]> Sat, 21 Feb 2026 19:00:00 GMT 24:23 697ad438eded5f2d3c6a88a2 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/denise-part-2-parenting-after-sexual-trauma-somatic-triggers 697ad438eded5f2d3c6a88a2 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 denise-part-2-parenting-after-sexual-trauma-somatic-triggers full 3 2 In Part 2 of her powerful conversation, Denise opens up about the somatic aftermath of sexual trauma and how it’s shaped her experiences of pregnancy, birth, and parenting. From panic attacks during breastfeeding to triggering OB/GYN procedures and setting boundaries with her child, Denise shares the raw truth of what it means to raise a family while living with a dysregulated nervous system.


We also talk about survivor guilt, formula vs breastfeeding stigma, and the judgement women face when their maternal experiences don’t match the “perfect mother” narrative. Denise explains how trauma can hijack our sense of safety, how neuroperception misfires in the body, and why traditional talk therapy alone sometimes isn’t enough.


This episode is an honest look at parenting after sexual violence — the triggers, the shame, the resilience — and how healing is possible through somatic therapy, spiritual tools, and radical self-compassion.


🔹 Topics: parenting after trauma, sexual violence, breastfeeding triggers, birth trauma, somatic healing, neuroception, survivor guilt, motherhood, energy work

🔹 Content warning: mentions of sexual assault, birth trauma, body-based triggers


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]]> In Part 2 of her powerful conversation, Denise opens up about the somatic aftermath of sexual trauma and how it’s shaped her experiences of pregnancy, birth, and parenting. From panic attacks during breastfeeding to triggering OB/GYN procedures and setting boundaries with her child, Denise shares the raw truth of what it means to raise a family while living with a dysregulated nervous system.


We also talk about survivor guilt, formula vs breastfeeding stigma, and the judgement women face when their maternal experiences don’t match the “perfect mother” narrative. Denise explains how trauma can hijack our sense of safety, how neuroperception misfires in the body, and why traditional talk therapy alone sometimes isn’t enough.


This episode is an honest look at parenting after sexual violence — the triggers, the shame, the resilience — and how healing is possible through somatic therapy, spiritual tools, and radical self-compassion.


🔹 Topics: parenting after trauma, sexual violence, breastfeeding triggers, birth trauma, somatic healing, neuroception, survivor guilt, motherhood, energy work

🔹 Content warning: mentions of sexual assault, birth trauma, body-based triggers


We made it on Feedspot's 2025 Top 30 Aussie Not For Profit Podcasts!

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(Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

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]]> <![CDATA[“It’s not my baby’s fault. But when her hand touched my neck, I panicked" Denise- Teaser]]> Fri, 06 Feb 2026 19:00:00 GMT 0:23 697ad276eded5f2d3c6a557e false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/its-not-my-babys-fault-but-when-her-hand-touched-my-neck-i-p 697ad276eded5f2d3c6a557e 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 its-not-my-babys-fault-but-when-her-hand-touched-my-neck-i-p trailer "It’s not my baby’s fault. But when her hand touched my neck, I panicked — like I wasn’t even in my body anymore.”


In this month's upcoming episode, Denise speaks the truth so many survivors hold in silence — what happens when sexual trauma doesn’t stay in the past, but shows up in the most intimate, everyday moments of parenting.


Breastfeeding. Birth. Even a hug from your child.

When your nervous system still holds the memory, motherhood hits differently.


In Part 2, we dive into:

— Birth trauma & why it’s often worse for survivors

— The shame of not being the “perfect mother”

— Breastfeeding, body boundaries & the guilt no one talks about

— How healing your neuroception can shift your whole life

— Why talk therapy alone wasn’t enough for her

— And the one thing she wishes every OB/midwife knew


This episode is raw, real, and deeply validating.

You are not alone. And you are not broken.


Available soon on all streaming services

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]]> "It’s not my baby’s fault. But when her hand touched my neck, I panicked — like I wasn’t even in my body anymore.”


In this month's upcoming episode, Denise speaks the truth so many survivors hold in silence — what happens when sexual trauma doesn’t stay in the past, but shows up in the most intimate, everyday moments of parenting.


Breastfeeding. Birth. Even a hug from your child.

When your nervous system still holds the memory, motherhood hits differently.


In Part 2, we dive into:

— Birth trauma & why it’s often worse for survivors

— The shame of not being the “perfect mother”

— Breastfeeding, body boundaries & the guilt no one talks about

— How healing your neuroception can shift your whole life

— Why talk therapy alone wasn’t enough for her

— And the one thing she wishes every OB/midwife knew


This episode is raw, real, and deeply validating.

You are not alone. And you are not broken.


Available soon on all streaming services

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]]> “It Felt Like Necrosis”: Denise on Trauma, Healing, and the Nervous System “It Felt Like Necrosis”: Denise on Trauma, Healing, and the Nervous System Sat, 24 Jan 2026 19:00:00 GMT 33:21 694f542bcb029db7573902e0 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 694f542bcb029db7573902e0 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 it-felt-like-necrosis-denise-on-trauma-healing-and-the-nervo full 3 1 What does healing really feel like after trauma? For Denise, it wasn’t soft or peaceful. It felt like necrosis, like something inside her was dying slowly while the outside world thought she was fine.


In Part One of this honest, vulnerable chat, Denise and I talk about what happens after the trauma. The messy, quiet part no one really prepares you for. We talk about the nervous system, the shame, and how hard it is to trust your own body again when it’s been through hell.


Some of the things we get into:

🦋 Why trauma doesn’t end when the moment is over

🧠 How your body can still feel unsafe even when you’re safe now

💔 What healing actually looks like — especially when it’s not pretty

🗣️ And what happens when you finally say the things you’ve never said out loud


If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling apart while “getting better,” this one’s for you.


Denise's Linktree: www.deniseelysa.com/link-tree


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Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

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]]> What does healing really feel like after trauma? For Denise, it wasn’t soft or peaceful. It felt like necrosis, like something inside her was dying slowly while the outside world thought she was fine.


In Part One of this honest, vulnerable chat, Denise and I talk about what happens after the trauma. The messy, quiet part no one really prepares you for. We talk about the nervous system, the shame, and how hard it is to trust your own body again when it’s been through hell.


Some of the things we get into:

🦋 Why trauma doesn’t end when the moment is over

🧠 How your body can still feel unsafe even when you’re safe now

💔 What healing actually looks like — especially when it’s not pretty

🗣️ And what happens when you finally say the things you’ve never said out loud


If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling apart while “getting better,” this one’s for you.


Denise's Linktree: www.deniseelysa.com/link-tree


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Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

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(watch for video footage of podcast recording which includes uncut and behind the scenes footage!)


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

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]]> <![CDATA["It Felt Like Necrosis"- Denise (Teaser)]]> Sat, 10 Jan 2026 19:00:00 GMT 0:47 6961e1ec1f21449d6d24b650 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/it-felt-like-necrosis-denise-teaser 6961e1ec1f21449d6d24b650 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 it-felt-like-necrosis-denise-teaser trailer "It felt like necrosis. Like parts of me had to die off to even begin healing".


In this raw teaser. Denise shares how the aftermath of trauma lived in her body- how survival meant peeling away the dead layers left behind by the abuse.


Part One soon to drop on 25th Jan.



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]]> "It felt like necrosis. Like parts of me had to die off to even begin healing".


In this raw teaser. Denise shares how the aftermath of trauma lived in her body- how survival meant peeling away the dead layers left behind by the abuse.


Part One soon to drop on 25th Jan.



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]]> Healing Through Journalling: How Writing Helped Mao Process Trauma Healing Through Journalling: How Writing Helped Mao Process Trauma Sat, 27 Dec 2025 19:00:00 GMT 33:19 694b4f3a44fae3e802f2ea66 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 694b4f3a44fae3e802f2ea66 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 healing-through-journalling-how-writing-helped-mao-process-t full 3 12 In this episode, I speak with Mao, founder of Mistakes Are Overrated, about how journalling became a powerful tool in her trauma healing journey. We talk about Mao’s long-standing love for reflective writing, how consistent journalling helped her process trauma, regulate her nervous system, and rebuild self trust, and how that deeply personal practice inspired her to create her own self impact journalling book.

This conversation explores journalling for mental health, healing through writing, self reflection, and how putting your inner world on the page can support trauma recovery and personal growth.


🌱 Learn more about Mao’s work

https://mistakesareoverrated.com/


📓 Explore Mao’s self impact journalling book


https://mistakesareoverrated.com/


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]]> In this episode, I speak with Mao, founder of Mistakes Are Overrated, about how journalling became a powerful tool in her trauma healing journey. We talk about Mao’s long-standing love for reflective writing, how consistent journalling helped her process trauma, regulate her nervous system, and rebuild self trust, and how that deeply personal practice inspired her to create her own self impact journalling book.

This conversation explores journalling for mental health, healing through writing, self reflection, and how putting your inner world on the page can support trauma recovery and personal growth.


🌱 Learn more about Mao’s work

https://mistakesareoverrated.com/


📓 Explore Mao’s self impact journalling book


https://mistakesareoverrated.com/


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Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

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Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

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100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


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]]> More Than A Massage: How Touch Can Heal Sexual Trauma with Dr Dominique Carson LMP More Than A Massage: How Touch Can Heal Sexual Trauma with Dr Dominique Carson LMP Sat, 29 Nov 2025 19:00:00 GMT 33:33 69229b359274ead23c82a3f5 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 69229b359274ead23c82a3f5 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 more-than-a-massage-how-touch-can-heal-sexual-trauma-with-dr full 3 11 In this episode, I sit down with licensed massage therapist and journalist Dr. Dominique Carson to explore how intentional touch can become a powerful tool in healing sexual trauma.


We go beyond the table by diving into the emotional, psychological, and somatic layers of massage therapy. Dr. Carson shares how trauma can live in the body long after words run out, and how a safe, informed practitioner can help clients reconnect with their bodies, reclaim pleasure, and begin to truly heal.


This is a conversation about consent, nervous system regulation, and what it really means to feel safe in your skin again.


Whether you’re healing, holding space for others, or simply curious — this episode might change how you think about touch forever.


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Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

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Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

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100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


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Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


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]]> In this episode, I sit down with licensed massage therapist and journalist Dr. Dominique Carson to explore how intentional touch can become a powerful tool in healing sexual trauma.


We go beyond the table by diving into the emotional, psychological, and somatic layers of massage therapy. Dr. Carson shares how trauma can live in the body long after words run out, and how a safe, informed practitioner can help clients reconnect with their bodies, reclaim pleasure, and begin to truly heal.


This is a conversation about consent, nervous system regulation, and what it really means to feel safe in your skin again.


Whether you’re healing, holding space for others, or simply curious — this episode might change how you think about touch forever.


Dominique's Linktree:



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Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

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]]> When Support Means Pressure: The Hidden Coercion In Abortion Clinics w Cait When Support Means Pressure: The Hidden Coercion In Abortion Clinics w Cait Sat, 25 Oct 2025 19:00:00 GMT 38:45 68fae2f3966457126c0bba42 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 68fae2f3966457126c0bba42 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 when-support-means-pressure-the-hidden-coercion-in-abortion full 3 10 What happens when the place you go for help… has another agenda?

In this gripping episode, I sit down with U.S. clinic escort and reproductive rights advocate Cait Morrigan to expose the lesser-known side of abortion access — where “support” is used to coerce, and choice becomes a carefully guided illusion.

From crisis pregnancy centres in Australia that push people toward parenthood, to the emotional manipulation tactics used under the guise of care, this episode unpacks the quiet war being waged against bodily autonomy — in both the States and here at home.

We talk activism, emotional abuse in reproductive healthcare, and what real support should actually look like in 2025.

🎙️ If you’ve ever wondered why reproductive rights still need defending — or how even “safe” clinics can pressure vulnerable people — this one’s for you.

Listen now. Share widely. This conversation could change someone’s path.


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Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

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100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


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]]> What happens when the place you go for help… has another agenda?

In this gripping episode, I sit down with U.S. clinic escort and reproductive rights advocate Cait Morrigan to expose the lesser-known side of abortion access — where “support” is used to coerce, and choice becomes a carefully guided illusion.

From crisis pregnancy centres in Australia that push people toward parenthood, to the emotional manipulation tactics used under the guise of care, this episode unpacks the quiet war being waged against bodily autonomy — in both the States and here at home.

We talk activism, emotional abuse in reproductive healthcare, and what real support should actually look like in 2025.

🎙️ If you’ve ever wondered why reproductive rights still need defending — or how even “safe” clinics can pressure vulnerable people — this one’s for you.

Listen now. Share widely. This conversation could change someone’s path.


Cait's Linktree:


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Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

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100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


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Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


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]]> <![CDATA[Surviving The Fire: EMDR, Recovery and Australia's Silent Crisis with Amanda & Carol]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2025 20:00:00 GMT 36:36 68d0c0b888c516d26e40e27a false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 68d0c0b888c516d26e40e27a 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 surviving-the-fire-emdr-recovery-and-australias-silent-crisi full 3 9 In this grounded and informative episode, trauma-informed therapists Amanda and Carol who are co-founders of the Stress & Trauma Clinic in Mittagong explore the core principles of EMDR, attachment repair, and somatic healing. With decades of experience supporting survivors of complex PTSD, early childhood trauma, and nervous system dysregulation, they offer deep insights into how therapy can truly meet people where they are.


Perfect for anyone seeking clarity about trauma recovery, EMDR, or the importance of safety and trust in the healing process.


Stress and Trauma Clinic Website: https://stressandtraumaclinic.com.au/


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Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

If in need of help during an immediate crisis:

100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Interested in being a guest speaker on the podcast? We are currently on the look-out for people to share their story so if interested:


Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


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]]> In this grounded and informative episode, trauma-informed therapists Amanda and Carol who are co-founders of the Stress & Trauma Clinic in Mittagong explore the core principles of EMDR, attachment repair, and somatic healing. With decades of experience supporting survivors of complex PTSD, early childhood trauma, and nervous system dysregulation, they offer deep insights into how therapy can truly meet people where they are.


Perfect for anyone seeking clarity about trauma recovery, EMDR, or the importance of safety and trust in the healing process.


Stress and Trauma Clinic Website: https://stressandtraumaclinic.com.au/


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]]> Why Suicide Rates Are So High — And How EMDR Can Help (Teaser) Why Suicide Rates Are So High — And How EMDR Can Help (Teaser) Sat, 13 Sep 2025 20:00:00 GMT 0:28 689db4a666f126ae3f945d1c false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/why-suicide-rates-are-so-high-and-how-emdr-can-help 689db4a666f126ae3f945d1c 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 why-suicide-rates-are-so-high-and-how-emdr-can-help trailer The Stress & Trauma Clinic open up about the shocking reality behind Australia’s suicide crisis and how EMDR therapy is giving survivors a lifeline. They share confronting truths, break down the science of trauma recovery, and reveal what it really takes to heal after life’s hardest moments.

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]]> The Stress & Trauma Clinic open up about the shocking reality behind Australia’s suicide crisis and how EMDR therapy is giving survivors a lifeline. They share confronting truths, break down the science of trauma recovery, and reveal what it really takes to heal after life’s hardest moments.

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]]> Porn Addiction: Kendra King On Healing Broken Trust Porn Addiction: Kendra King On Healing Broken Trust Sat, 30 Aug 2025 20:00:00 GMT 53:20 68995f35c6d7c56cda4e49d0 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/porn-addiction-kendra-king-on-healing-broken-trust 68995f35c6d7c56cda4e49d0 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 porn-addiction-kendra-king-on-healing-broken-trust https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ full 3 8 Counsellor Kendra King (LPC, NCC) joins us to unpack the impact of porn and sex addiction on couples from broken trust to rebuilding intimacy. With years of experience guiding partners through infidelity recovery, Kendra shares practical steps for healing, communicating, and reconnecting after betrayal. A must-listen for anyone navigating relationship wounds in the digital age.


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]]> Counsellor Kendra King (LPC, NCC) joins us to unpack the impact of porn and sex addiction on couples from broken trust to rebuilding intimacy. With years of experience guiding partners through infidelity recovery, Kendra shares practical steps for healing, communicating, and reconnecting after betrayal. A must-listen for anyone navigating relationship wounds in the digital age.


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]]> Porn Addiction Can Start at 10 — Here’s Why Porn Addiction Can Start at 10 — Here’s Why Sat, 16 Aug 2025 20:00:00 GMT 0:45 68995e3c2c2bd3fa2a7792b6 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/porn-addiction-can-start-at-9-heres-why 68995e3c2c2bd3fa2a7792b6 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 porn-addiction-can-start-at-9-heres-why trailer Did you know porn addiction can start as young as age 10? In this gripping conversation, counsellor Kendra King breaks down the hidden impact of early exposure, how it rewires the brain, and why parents often don’t see it coming. This clip from our upcoming full episode will make you rethink what you thought you knew about porn, sex, and addiction.


Full episode drop on August 31st.


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]]> Did you know porn addiction can start as young as age 10? In this gripping conversation, counsellor Kendra King breaks down the hidden impact of early exposure, how it rewires the brain, and why parents often don’t see it coming. This clip from our upcoming full episode will make you rethink what you thought you knew about porn, sex, and addiction.


Full episode drop on August 31st.


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]]> The Human Side Of Crime - Part Two w Criminologist Dr Kathryn Whiteley The Human Side Of Crime - Part Two w Criminologist Dr Kathryn Whiteley Sat, 26 Jul 2025 20:00:00 GMT 30:11 687deb9f0de40e9a7c09cb02 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 687deb9f0de40e9a7c09cb02 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 the-human-side-of-crime-part-two full 3 7 Criminologist Dr Kathryn Whiteley returns to continue her powerful exploration of prison reform, rehabilitation, and the lived experiences of incarcerated women.


In Part Two of this special episode, Dr Whiteley dives deeper into the long-term impacts of incarceration — both on the women she’s worked with and on herself. From navigating grief and vicarious trauma to witnessing moments of profound change, Kathryn shares what she's learned about listening without judgement and the transformative potential of human connection inside the justice system.

This conversation challenges stigma, re frames justice, and reminds us of the power of empathy in spaces where it’s often forgotten.


If this series has moved you, please share it or leave a review — it helps us reach more people and keep these stories going.


Kathryn's Podcast: Self- Identities 'Conversations With Convicted Women'


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]]> Criminologist Dr Kathryn Whiteley returns to continue her powerful exploration of prison reform, rehabilitation, and the lived experiences of incarcerated women.


In Part Two of this special episode, Dr Whiteley dives deeper into the long-term impacts of incarceration — both on the women she’s worked with and on herself. From navigating grief and vicarious trauma to witnessing moments of profound change, Kathryn shares what she's learned about listening without judgement and the transformative potential of human connection inside the justice system.

This conversation challenges stigma, re frames justice, and reminds us of the power of empathy in spaces where it’s often forgotten.


If this series has moved you, please share it or leave a review — it helps us reach more people and keep these stories going.


Kathryn's Podcast: Self- Identities 'Conversations With Convicted Women'


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]]> The Human Side Of Crime- Part One w Criminologist Dr Kathryn Whiteley The Human Side Of Crime- Part One w Criminologist Dr Kathryn Whiteley Sat, 28 Jun 2025 20:00:00 GMT 43:18 685a28c5bd94a78be6b5b4d4 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 685a28c5bd94a78be6b5b4d4 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 the-human-side-of-crime-part-one full 3 6 Australian Criminologist Dr Kathryn Whiteley shares powerful insights into prison reform, the realities of women’s prisons, and the emotional work of humanising incarcerated women in the U.S.

In our first-ever two-part episode, Dr Whiteley takes us inside the walls of prison to reveal how her work with some of society’s most condemned — and most forgotten — women began.

From her first encounters behind bars to the emotional weight of seeing the person beyond the crime, Kathryn explores what it means to truly listen and advocate for change in a system that often silences.

If this episode resonates, please share it or leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it helps us reach more people and keep these stories going.


Kathryn's Podcast: Self- Identities 'Conversations With Convicted Women'


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]]> Australian Criminologist Dr Kathryn Whiteley shares powerful insights into prison reform, the realities of women’s prisons, and the emotional work of humanising incarcerated women in the U.S.

In our first-ever two-part episode, Dr Whiteley takes us inside the walls of prison to reveal how her work with some of society’s most condemned — and most forgotten — women began.

From her first encounters behind bars to the emotional weight of seeing the person beyond the crime, Kathryn explores what it means to truly listen and advocate for change in a system that often silences.

If this episode resonates, please share it or leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it helps us reach more people and keep these stories going.


Kathryn's Podcast: Self- Identities 'Conversations With Convicted Women'


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]]> Safe To Serve, Safe To Be Safe To Serve, Safe To Be Sun, 25 May 2025 00:00:00 GMT 42:46 682e8b7cf1320103eb90522a false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 682e8b7cf1320103eb90522a 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 safe-to-serve-safe-to-be full 3 5 In this episode of The Cocoon, Ruby is joined by Hamish Whelan from ACON — a passionate advocate working within emergency response to create safer, more inclusive environments for LGBTQIA+ communities. Together, they explore what it means to feel safe to serve and safe to be, even in systems that weren’t built with queer people in mind. This conversation is about quiet resistance, systemic change, and the radical act of showing up as your whole self. For anyone who’s ever felt unseen in uniform, or unsafe in their truth — this one’s for you.


Link to ACON website is below for all information regarding their support and programs.

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]]> In this episode of The Cocoon, Ruby is joined by Hamish Whelan from ACON — a passionate advocate working within emergency response to create safer, more inclusive environments for LGBTQIA+ communities. Together, they explore what it means to feel safe to serve and safe to be, even in systems that weren’t built with queer people in mind. This conversation is about quiet resistance, systemic change, and the radical act of showing up as your whole self. For anyone who’s ever felt unseen in uniform, or unsafe in their truth — this one’s for you.


Link to ACON website is below for all information regarding their support and programs.

https://www.acon.org.au/


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]]> Diving Deep: Sharing My Journey Diving Deep: Sharing My Journey Sun, 27 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMT 14:16 680995c4332ab2153e923c57 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/diving-deep-sharing-my-journey 680995c4332ab2153e923c57 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 diving-deep-sharing-my-journey full Disclaimer: This episode contains content that could be distressing to our listeners. Listener discretion is advised.


For her birthday month, podcast host herself Ruby shares the truth behind her healing — surviving childhood grooming, redefining love, and learning to speak the words out loud.


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]]> Disclaimer: This episode contains content that could be distressing to our listeners. Listener discretion is advised.


For her birthday month, podcast host herself Ruby shares the truth behind her healing — surviving childhood grooming, redefining love, and learning to speak the words out loud.


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]]> <![CDATA[Counselling, Crisis & Change: Evie Clayton on Reforming Rural Abuse Support ]]> Sat, 29 Mar 2025 23:00:00 GMT 53:05 67bb0c34c665638d47ce97f8 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/counselling-crisis-change-evie-clayton-on-reforming-rural-ab 67bb0c34c665638d47ce97f8 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 counselling-crisis-change-evie-clayton-on-reforming-rural-ab full 3 3 Disclaimer: This episode contains content that could be distressing to our listeners. Listener discretion is advised.


Accessing help for abuse shouldn't depend on your postcode but for many in rural areas, it does.


In this episode, social worker and family violence advocate Evie Clayton joins me to discuss the challenges of supporting survivors in isolated communities, the urgent need for better counselling resources for kids and teens, and why we must push for faster rape kit results. It's a tough conversation, but one we need to have.


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]]> Disclaimer: This episode contains content that could be distressing to our listeners. Listener discretion is advised.


Accessing help for abuse shouldn't depend on your postcode but for many in rural areas, it does.


In this episode, social worker and family violence advocate Evie Clayton joins me to discuss the challenges of supporting survivors in isolated communities, the urgent need for better counselling resources for kids and teens, and why we must push for faster rape kit results. It's a tough conversation, but one we need to have.


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]]> Protecting Perpetrators: Nicole Bedera on University Responses to Assault Protecting Perpetrators: Nicole Bedera on University Responses to Assault Sat, 22 Feb 2025 23:00:00 GMT 44:59 679b54401542fb67e7580f59 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/protecting-perpetrators-nicole-bedera-on-university-response 679b54401542fb67e7580f59 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 protecting-perpetrators-nicole-bedera-on-university-response full 3 2 Warning: This episode does contain themes and discussion of institutional harassment and violence, listener discretion is advised.


In this episode of The Cocoon Podcast, host Ruby Mikolaitis from the Blue Butterfly Institute sits down with Nicole Bedera, a sociologist and leading researcher on sexual violence. As the podcast’s first American guest speaker, Nicole shares groundbreaking insights from her book, On the Wrong Side: How Universities Protect Perpetrators and Betray Survivors of Sexual Violence.


The conversation uncovers how university policies and practices often harm survivors while shielding perpetrators, based on Nicole’s yearlong study with survivors, perpetrators, and campus administrators. Together, they discuss the cultural and institutional shifts needed to create safer, more equitable environments for students.


This episode is a must-listen for anyone passionate about dismantling systemic injustice and supporting survivors of sexual violence.



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]]> Warning: This episode does contain themes and discussion of institutional harassment and violence, listener discretion is advised.


In this episode of The Cocoon Podcast, host Ruby Mikolaitis from the Blue Butterfly Institute sits down with Nicole Bedera, a sociologist and leading researcher on sexual violence. As the podcast’s first American guest speaker, Nicole shares groundbreaking insights from her book, On the Wrong Side: How Universities Protect Perpetrators and Betray Survivors of Sexual Violence.


The conversation uncovers how university policies and practices often harm survivors while shielding perpetrators, based on Nicole’s yearlong study with survivors, perpetrators, and campus administrators. Together, they discuss the cultural and institutional shifts needed to create safer, more equitable environments for students.


This episode is a must-listen for anyone passionate about dismantling systemic injustice and supporting survivors of sexual violence.



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]]> From Adversity To Advocacy: Stacey Copas On Resilience And Triumph From Adversity To Advocacy: Stacey Copas On Resilience And Triumph Sat, 25 Jan 2025 23:00:29 GMT 47:11 6760e4de64b31a6479b70751 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 6760e4de64b31a6479b70751 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 from-adversity-to-advocacy-stacey-copas-on-resilience-and-tr full 3 1 In this episode of The Cocoon, we sit down with Stacey Copas, a resilience expert who turned a devastating accident into a powerful mission to help others overcome adversity. Stacey shares her incredible journey of becoming quadriplegic at 12, the mindset shifts that shaped her success, and how we can all build resilience to face life’s challenges.


This is an episode about triumph, strength, and finding opportunity in even the toughest moments. Don’t miss Stacey’s inspiring perspective on thriving beyond setbacks.


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]]> In this episode of The Cocoon, we sit down with Stacey Copas, a resilience expert who turned a devastating accident into a powerful mission to help others overcome adversity. Stacey shares her incredible journey of becoming quadriplegic at 12, the mindset shifts that shaped her success, and how we can all build resilience to face life’s challenges.


This is an episode about triumph, strength, and finding opportunity in even the toughest moments. Don’t miss Stacey’s inspiring perspective on thriving beyond setbacks.


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Stacey Copas: Academy Of Resilience

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]]> <![CDATA[Unlocking Resilience: Jackie Durnin On Neuro-Tech, EFT & Recovery]]> Sat, 23 Nov 2024 23:00:15 GMT 42:43 673b536f107f423a05172abc false https://thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au 673b536f107f423a05172abc 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 unlocking-resilience-jackie-durnin-on-neuro-tech-eft-recover full 2 12 In this episode of The Cocoon, we welcome Jackie Durnin, a seasoned EFT practitioner and counselor with over 15 years of experience transforming lives. After overcoming her own trauma and challenges, Jackie created a groundbreaking healing retreat that combines traditional therapies with cutting-edge neuro-technology to help individuals manage stress, anxiety, and PTSD.


Join us as Jackie shares her journey of resilience, insights into emotional healing, and the innovative tools she uses to guide others toward lasting transformation. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking hope and practical strategies for recovery.


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]]> In this episode of The Cocoon, we welcome Jackie Durnin, a seasoned EFT practitioner and counselor with over 15 years of experience transforming lives. After overcoming her own trauma and challenges, Jackie created a groundbreaking healing retreat that combines traditional therapies with cutting-edge neuro-technology to help individuals manage stress, anxiety, and PTSD.


Join us as Jackie shares her journey of resilience, insights into emotional healing, and the innovative tools she uses to guide others toward lasting transformation. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking hope and practical strategies for recovery.


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Hinterland Health Retreat: https://hinterlandhealthretreat.com


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]]> <![CDATA[Rach's Legacy: Breaking The Silence]]> Wed, 30 Oct 2024 23:00:21 GMT 1:07:28 67051528db85d85869033539 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 67051528db85d85869033539 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 rachs-legacy-breaking-the-silence full 2 11 A special edition episode for the month of October with a heartfelt but inspiring journey of resilience and survival.


In this episode, Rach Mack, founder of the Broken Crayons Still Colour Foundation, opens up about her journey as a survivor of domestic violence and the ongoing struggles she faces. From the traumatic effects of strangulation to her recent diagnosis of stage four metastatic cancer, Rach shares her powerful story with unflinching honesty.


She discusses her organization's groundbreaking work in supporting survivors, the urgent need for medical intervention for strangulation victims, and her mission to enact meaningful change through advocacy. Tune in for an inspiring and eye-opening conversation that highlights the strength of the human spirit and the importance of community support in the fight against domestic violence.


TBBI Links/Enquiries:
Broken Crayons Still Colour Foundation: https://brokencrayonsstillcolour.org/


Rach's GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/940c2d37


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Website: thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

If in need of help during an immediate crisis:

100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Interested in being a guest speaker on the podcast? We are currently on the look-out for people to share their story so if interested:


Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


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]]> A special edition episode for the month of October with a heartfelt but inspiring journey of resilience and survival.


In this episode, Rach Mack, founder of the Broken Crayons Still Colour Foundation, opens up about her journey as a survivor of domestic violence and the ongoing struggles she faces. From the traumatic effects of strangulation to her recent diagnosis of stage four metastatic cancer, Rach shares her powerful story with unflinching honesty.


She discusses her organization's groundbreaking work in supporting survivors, the urgent need for medical intervention for strangulation victims, and her mission to enact meaningful change through advocacy. Tune in for an inspiring and eye-opening conversation that highlights the strength of the human spirit and the importance of community support in the fight against domestic violence.


TBBI Links/Enquiries:
Broken Crayons Still Colour Foundation: https://brokencrayonsstillcolour.org/


Rach's GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/940c2d37


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Website: thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

If in need of help during an immediate crisis:

100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Interested in being a guest speaker on the podcast? We are currently on the look-out for people to share their story so if interested:


Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Stronger Together: Caroline Brunne On The Healing Power of Peer Support Stronger Together: Caroline Brunne On The Healing Power of Peer Support Sat, 19 Oct 2024 23:00:32 GMT 45:41 6704e2351a3de581c6a0c7d5 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/stronger-together-caroline-brunne-on-the-healing-power-of-pe 6704e2351a3de581c6a0c7d5 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 stronger-together-caroline-brunne-on-the-healing-power-of-pe full 2 10 In this episode, Caroline Brunne opens up about her journey of healing as a survivor of child sexual abuse and incest. With raw honesty, she reveals how peer support and community played a pivotal role in her recovery, especially while navigating the complexities of her migrant background.


Caroline shares powerful insights on setting boundaries, advocating for oneself, and respecting personal autonomy amidst cultural pressures. She also talks about the challenges of sharing her story through a memoir, blending personal experiences with research to offer solace to others. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about resilience, the strength found in community, and the courage to embrace your own healing journey.


TBBI Links/Enquiries:
Caroline's Website: https://carolinebrunne.com/

Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Website: thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

If in need of help during an immediate crisis:

100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Interested in being a guest speaker on the podcast? We are currently on the look-out for people to share their story so if interested:


Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> In this episode, Caroline Brunne opens up about her journey of healing as a survivor of child sexual abuse and incest. With raw honesty, she reveals how peer support and community played a pivotal role in her recovery, especially while navigating the complexities of her migrant background.


Caroline shares powerful insights on setting boundaries, advocating for oneself, and respecting personal autonomy amidst cultural pressures. She also talks about the challenges of sharing her story through a memoir, blending personal experiences with research to offer solace to others. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about resilience, the strength found in community, and the courage to embrace your own healing journey.


TBBI Links/Enquiries:
Caroline's Website: https://carolinebrunne.com/

Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Website: thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

If in need of help during an immediate crisis:

100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Interested in being a guest speaker on the podcast? We are currently on the look-out for people to share their story so if interested:


Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Breathless: Navigating The Risks and Realities of Erotic Strangulation Breathless: Navigating The Risks and Realities of Erotic Strangulation Sun, 29 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT 42:38 66f65f332750688fd007c498 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/breathless-navigating-the-risks-and-realities-of-erotic-stra 66f65f332750688fd007c498 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 breathless-navigating-the-risks-and-realities-of-erotic-stra full 2 9 In this eye-opening episode, host Ruby Mikolaitis sits down with Jackie McMillan, Senior Project Officer of 'It Left No Marks', to explore the growing trend of erotic strangulation. Why do people engage in this risky practice, and why are younger audiences increasingly drawn to it?


Together, they dive into the dangers, the psychology behind it, and most importantly, how to ensure safe practices with clear boundaries and consent. Don't miss this candid conversation about a rising, yet often misunderstood, sexual behavior.


Article Links:
'It Left No Marks' Sexual Choking Campaign
'More than half of Australian young people are using strangulation during sex'- Heather Douglas (The Conversation)


TBBI Links/Enquiries:
Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Website: thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

If in need of help during an immediate crisis:

100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Interested in being a guest speaker on the podcast? We are currently on the look-out for people to share their story so if interested:


Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> In this eye-opening episode, host Ruby Mikolaitis sits down with Jackie McMillan, Senior Project Officer of 'It Left No Marks', to explore the growing trend of erotic strangulation. Why do people engage in this risky practice, and why are younger audiences increasingly drawn to it?


Together, they dive into the dangers, the psychology behind it, and most importantly, how to ensure safe practices with clear boundaries and consent. Don't miss this candid conversation about a rising, yet often misunderstood, sexual behavior.


Article Links:
'It Left No Marks' Sexual Choking Campaign
'More than half of Australian young people are using strangulation during sex'- Heather Douglas (The Conversation)


TBBI Links/Enquiries:
Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Website: thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

If in need of help during an immediate crisis:

100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Interested in being a guest speaker on the podcast? We are currently on the look-out for people to share their story so if interested:


Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Healing Unfiltered: The Stuff That No One Tells You Healing Unfiltered: The Stuff That No One Tells You Sun, 25 Aug 2024 00:00:10 GMT 46:13 66c84a66a45b7b5037d562f9 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 66c84a66a45b7b5037d562f9 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 healing-unfiltered-the-stuff-that-no-one-tells-you A Chat With Founder/President Tina Meyer full 2 8 The Real Talk on Trauma: What No One Prepares You For" dives deep into the often-overlooked aspects of healing from sexual trauma.


Join Ruby and founder of TBBI Tina Meyer as they pull back the curtain on the raw, unfiltered truths of recovery—the emotional hurdles, the unexpected struggles, and the silent battles that aren’t always part of the conversation.


This episode is for anyone navigating their own healing journey or seeking to understand the realities that come with it.


Enquiries/Contacts:


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis:


100RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> The Real Talk on Trauma: What No One Prepares You For" dives deep into the often-overlooked aspects of healing from sexual trauma.


Join Ruby and founder of TBBI Tina Meyer as they pull back the curtain on the raw, unfiltered truths of recovery—the emotional hurdles, the unexpected struggles, and the silent battles that aren’t always part of the conversation.


This episode is for anyone navigating their own healing journey or seeking to understand the realities that come with it.


Enquiries/Contacts:


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis:


100RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> <![CDATA[Breaking The Stigma: Paris's Journey From Addiction To Advocacy]]> Sun, 28 Jul 2024 00:00:24 GMT 43:10 6697bd08c86d4486bea5f7c0 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 6697bd08c86d4486bea5f7c0 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 breaking-the-stigma-pariss-journey-from-addiction-to-advoc full 2 7 Join Ruby Mikolaitis from The Blue Butterfly Institute as she interviews Paris, the voice behind 'Shits Fucked' podcast.


Discover Paris's incredible journey from meth addiction to advocacy, breaking the stigma around substance abuse.


Listen in as they discuss systemic flaws, share life toolkits, and reveal how Paris is using her platform to inspire real change.


This episode is a must-hear for anyone looking for hope, resilience, and a fresh perspective on recovery.


Enquiries/Contacts:


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis:


100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Join Ruby Mikolaitis from The Blue Butterfly Institute as she interviews Paris, the voice behind 'Shits Fucked' podcast.


Discover Paris's incredible journey from meth addiction to advocacy, breaking the stigma around substance abuse.


Listen in as they discuss systemic flaws, share life toolkits, and reveal how Paris is using her platform to inspire real change.


This episode is a must-hear for anyone looking for hope, resilience, and a fresh perspective on recovery.


Enquiries/Contacts:


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis:


100RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Breaking The Blame: Sarah Williams Journey On Ending Victim-Blaming Breaking The Blame: Sarah Williams Journey On Ending Victim-Blaming Tue, 02 Jul 2024 14:23:37 GMT 40:13 66840d6b4cb273e4613da407 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 66840d6b4cb273e4613da407 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 breaking-the-blame-sarah-williamsons-journey-on-ending-victi full 2 6 Join us in the latest episode of The Cocoon as we sit down with Sarah Williams, the visionary creator of the 'What Were You Wearing' organization.


Sarah delves into her mission to transform policies and perspectives around victim-blaming. Discover the powerful stories and ground-breaking initiatives that are reshaping the conversation on victim advocacy and justice.


Don’t miss this inspiring discussion on creating a world where every voice is heard and respected.


Enquiries/Contacts:


WWYW Instagram: @whatwereyouwearing_


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis:


100RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Join us in the latest episode of The Cocoon as we sit down with Sarah Williams, the visionary creator of the 'What Were You Wearing' organization.


Sarah delves into her mission to transform policies and perspectives around victim-blaming. Discover the powerful stories and ground-breaking initiatives that are reshaping the conversation on victim advocacy and justice.


Don’t miss this inspiring discussion on creating a world where every voice is heard and respected.


Enquiries/Contacts:


WWYW Instagram: @whatwereyouwearing_


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis:


100RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> <![CDATA[Finding Freedom: Ally Hijazi's Story Of Resilience]]> Sun, 26 May 2024 00:00:49 GMT 1:17:55 664d9c6621b4d400124f90da false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 664d9c6621b4d400124f90da 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 finding-freedom-ally-hijazis-story-of-resilience full 2 5 Joining us in this captivating episode, we're joined by Ally Hijazi, a dynamic lawyer, compelling speaker, and passionate advocate for family rights.


Ally fearlessly shares her journey from childhood trauma to self-acceptance, sprinkling humour and candour along the way. Through highs and lows, she reveals the pivotal moments that shaped her resilience and authenticity.


Get ready for an inspiring ride as Ally's story reminds us of the power of embracing our true selves and rewriting our narratives.


Enquiries/Contacts:

Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Website: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis :


1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Joining us in this captivating episode, we're joined by Ally Hijazi, a dynamic lawyer, compelling speaker, and passionate advocate for family rights.


Ally fearlessly shares her journey from childhood trauma to self-acceptance, sprinkling humour and candour along the way. Through highs and lows, she reveals the pivotal moments that shaped her resilience and authenticity.


Get ready for an inspiring ride as Ally's story reminds us of the power of embracing our true selves and rewriting our narratives.


Enquiries/Contacts:

Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Website: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis :


1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Memory Maze: Exploring Abduction Awareness Memory Maze: Exploring Abduction Awareness Sun, 28 Apr 2024 00:00:18 GMT 33:48 661e2a4d8561cd0016b87a0c false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 661e2a4d8561cd0016b87a0c 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 memory-maze-exploring-abduction-awareness full 2 4 Step into the captivating world of "Memory Maze," where Dr. Hayley Cullen takes us on a riveting journey through the intricate labyrinth of child abduction issues in Australia.


In this episode, we delve deep into the vital role memory plays in accurately witnessing and identifying these harrowing incidents to law enforcement.

Join us as we unravel the complexities of memory recall and its pivotal significance in solving cases of child abduction.


Dr. Cullen, with her expertise, guides us through the maze of psychological processes that influence memory formation and retrieval, shedding light on how crucial it is for witnesses to provide accurate and detailed accounts to aid authorities in their investigations.


With compelling anecdotes and expert insights, "Memory Maze" not only educates but also captivates, reminding us of the profound impact that each memory holds in the pursuit of justice. Tune in as we navigate through the twists and turns of memory, illuminating the path towards safeguarding our children and communities.


Information mentioned:

Hayley Cullen's article on The Conservation:


Enquiries/Contact:


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Website: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis:


1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Step into the captivating world of "Memory Maze," where Dr. Hayley Cullen takes us on a riveting journey through the intricate labyrinth of child abduction issues in Australia.


In this episode, we delve deep into the vital role memory plays in accurately witnessing and identifying these harrowing incidents to law enforcement.

Join us as we unravel the complexities of memory recall and its pivotal significance in solving cases of child abduction.


Dr. Cullen, with her expertise, guides us through the maze of psychological processes that influence memory formation and retrieval, shedding light on how crucial it is for witnesses to provide accurate and detailed accounts to aid authorities in their investigations.


With compelling anecdotes and expert insights, "Memory Maze" not only educates but also captivates, reminding us of the profound impact that each memory holds in the pursuit of justice. Tune in as we navigate through the twists and turns of memory, illuminating the path towards safeguarding our children and communities.


Information mentioned:

Hayley Cullen's article on The Conservation:


Enquiries/Contact:


Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark


Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Website: The Blue Butterfly Institute


Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Podcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


If in need of help during an immediate crisis:


1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Exposed: Navigating Image-Based Sexual Abuse Exposed: Navigating Image-Based Sexual Abuse Sat, 30 Mar 2024 23:00:48 GMT 1:04:29 65f1435fb48be3001667391f false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 65f1435fb48be3001667391f 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 exposed-navigating-image-based-sexual-abuse full 2 3 In this compelling episode of The Cocoon, host Ruby Mikolaitis delves into the intricate world of image-based sexual abuse with renowned expert Nicola Henry.


Together, they unravel the complexities of this pervasive issue, discussing its definition, far-reaching impact, and the crucial steps we can take to safeguard our online presence.


Through insightful analysis and practical advice, this episode sheds light on a pressing digital-age challenge, empowering listeners to navigate the virtual landscape with knowledge and resilience.


Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of image-based sexual abuse and discover actionable strategies for protecting yourself and your loved ones in the digital sphere.


Information mentioned:

Umibot: Umibot Chat Site

ESafety Website

Youth Law Australia

Non-Consensual Sexual Imagery Article

Image-Based Sexual Abuse Project

Nicola's Article On Image-Based Sexual Abuse


Enquiries and Contact:

Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Website: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au

Podcast Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


If in need of immediate crisis:

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> In this compelling episode of The Cocoon, host Ruby Mikolaitis delves into the intricate world of image-based sexual abuse with renowned expert Nicola Henry.


Together, they unravel the complexities of this pervasive issue, discussing its definition, far-reaching impact, and the crucial steps we can take to safeguard our online presence.


Through insightful analysis and practical advice, this episode sheds light on a pressing digital-age challenge, empowering listeners to navigate the virtual landscape with knowledge and resilience.


Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of image-based sexual abuse and discover actionable strategies for protecting yourself and your loved ones in the digital sphere.


Information mentioned:

Umibot: Umibot Chat Site

ESafety Website

Youth Law Australia

Non-Consensual Sexual Imagery Article

Image-Based Sexual Abuse Project

Nicola's Article On Image-Based Sexual Abuse


Enquiries and Contact:

Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark

Facebook: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Website: The Blue Butterfly Institute

Email: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au

Podcast Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


If in need of immediate crisis:

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Justice Reimagined: Transforming The Court Experience for Survivors Justice Reimagined: Transforming The Court Experience for Survivors Sat, 24 Feb 2024 23:00:12 GMT 56:51 65d48fac16526900162bd768 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 65d48fac16526900162bd768 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 justice-reimagined-transforming-the-court-experience-for-sur full 2 2 Disclaimer: This episode contains themes and content around sexual violence, listener discretion is advised.


In this episode, we explore the Australian Law Reform Commission's inquiry into the criminal justice system's response to cases of sexual violence.


Lawyer and professor Amanda-Jane George joins us to discuss the need for a more 'trauma-friendly' approach, particularly in court cases and restorative justice processes.


We examine the challenges survivors face in the legal system and how reforms could lead to a more supportive and empathetic environment.


Join us as we delve into this important topic and consider how these changes could humanise the legal process and better support survivors of sexual violence.


Link to article discussed in episode: here


Contact and Enquiries:


Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578


Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380




Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Disclaimer: This episode contains themes and content around sexual violence, listener discretion is advised.


In this episode, we explore the Australian Law Reform Commission's inquiry into the criminal justice system's response to cases of sexual violence.


Lawyer and professor Amanda-Jane George joins us to discuss the need for a more 'trauma-friendly' approach, particularly in court cases and restorative justice processes.


We examine the challenges survivors face in the legal system and how reforms could lead to a more supportive and empathetic environment.


Join us as we delve into this important topic and consider how these changes could humanise the legal process and better support survivors of sexual violence.


Link to article discussed in episode: here


Contact and Enquiries:


Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578


Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380




Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Swipe Right, Stay Safe: A Guide to Responsible Online Dating Swipe Right, Stay Safe: A Guide to Responsible Online Dating Sat, 27 Jan 2024 23:00:10 GMT 39:41 65a7618ee5250600160335bc false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 65a7618ee5250600160335bc 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 swipe-right-stay-safe-a-guide-to-responsible-online-dating Navigating the Risks and Rewards of the Digital Dating Landscape full 2 1 Disclaimer: This episode contains mature language and discussion of assault and harassment, listener discretion is advised.


Dive into the digital dating realm with our latest episode as we unravel the secrets behind online forums where individuals share their experiences, from harassment to infidelity.


Join our insightful interview with Treena Orchard, a scholar and specialist in defamation and social dating as we discuss the alarming rise in legal battles around defamation stemming from these revelations.


Join us as we navigate the complexities of the online dating landscape and gain essential insights into staying safe on dating apps.


From parenting tips for teaching teenagers about digital romance to anticipating future changes in dating apps, this episode is your go-to guide for a secure and informed online dating experience.


Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration that will reshape the way you view the digital pursuit of love. Swipe right wisely, and let's talk about it!


Contacts and Enquiries:


Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578


Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Disclaimer: This episode contains mature language and discussion of assault and harassment, listener discretion is advised.


Dive into the digital dating realm with our latest episode as we unravel the secrets behind online forums where individuals share their experiences, from harassment to infidelity.


Join our insightful interview with Treena Orchard, a scholar and specialist in defamation and social dating as we discuss the alarming rise in legal battles around defamation stemming from these revelations.


Join us as we navigate the complexities of the online dating landscape and gain essential insights into staying safe on dating apps.


From parenting tips for teaching teenagers about digital romance to anticipating future changes in dating apps, this episode is your go-to guide for a secure and informed online dating experience.


Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration that will reshape the way you view the digital pursuit of love. Swipe right wisely, and let's talk about it!


Contacts and Enquiries:


Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578


Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> <![CDATA[Silenced No More: Kim's Resilience Against Sexual Abuse]]> Sat, 30 Dec 2023 08:00:13 GMT 50:05 6586c7fa1f90d40016795bdf false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 6586c7fa1f90d40016795bdf 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 silenced-no-more-kims-resilience-against-sexual-abuse A Journey of Healing, Justice, and Advocacy full 1 11 Disclaimer: Graphic imagery of abuse is described between 05:30 and 11:00 minutes, please skip ahead if you need too. Explicit language is used.


In a raw and courageous narrative, join us as Kim, hailing from Davenport, Tasmania, shares her deeply personal and harrowing journey through unspeakable adversity. From enduring childhood sexual abuse to grappling with the horrors of adult assault, Kim fearlessly unveils her traumatic experiences and their profound impact on her life.


With unflinching honesty, Kim delves into the heart-wrenching details of the abuse she suffered and the subsequent challenges she faced while navigating the daunting legal system. Her poignant account sheds light on the complexities of testifying against perpetrators and the turbulent aftermath that lingered into her adulthood, influencing her path as a mother.


In this gripping episode, Kim becomes a beacon of strength, illustrating her evolution from victim to an unwavering advocate for survivors of sexual abuse. She imparts invaluable insights into the arduous but vital journey of finding one's voice amidst the deafening silence of trauma. Kim's story resonates powerfully, highlighting the resilience and unwavering determination it takes to break free from the shackles of silence.


Tune in to this impactful episode as Kim's story encapsulates the triumph of the human spirit, offering hope and courage to those who may find solace in her remarkable journey from silence to strength.


Contact and Enquiries:


Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578


Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380

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]]> Disclaimer: Graphic imagery of abuse is described between 05:30 and 11:00 minutes, please skip ahead if you need too. Explicit language is used.


In a raw and courageous narrative, join us as Kim, hailing from Davenport, Tasmania, shares her deeply personal and harrowing journey through unspeakable adversity. From enduring childhood sexual abuse to grappling with the horrors of adult assault, Kim fearlessly unveils her traumatic experiences and their profound impact on her life.


With unflinching honesty, Kim delves into the heart-wrenching details of the abuse she suffered and the subsequent challenges she faced while navigating the daunting legal system. Her poignant account sheds light on the complexities of testifying against perpetrators and the turbulent aftermath that lingered into her adulthood, influencing her path as a mother.


In this gripping episode, Kim becomes a beacon of strength, illustrating her evolution from victim to an unwavering advocate for survivors of sexual abuse. She imparts invaluable insights into the arduous but vital journey of finding one's voice amidst the deafening silence of trauma. Kim's story resonates powerfully, highlighting the resilience and unwavering determination it takes to break free from the shackles of silence.


Tune in to this impactful episode as Kim's story encapsulates the triumph of the human spirit, offering hope and courage to those who may find solace in her remarkable journey from silence to strength.


Contact and Enquiries:


Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578


Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> <![CDATA[Resilience and Revelation: Charlie's Indigenous Queer Experience]]> Fri, 27 Oct 2023 11:00:38 GMT 26:38 6537aa201a09ea00126cbd82 false https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/resilience-and-revelation-charlies-indigenous-queer-experien 6537aa201a09ea00126cbd82 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 resilience-and-revelation-charlies-indigenous-queer-experien A Journey of Balancing Identity and Culture full 1 10 Disclaimer: This episode contains sexual trauma and assault related themes. Listener discretion is advised.


This episode does discuss issues within Indigenous communities in Australia, the podcast does not reflect on every mob in Australia and should be taken listened to with care.


Join us for an eye-opening journey with Charlie, a proud Aboriginal person and LGBTQIA+ advocate, as we dive into a riveting conversation about consent, healing, and identity.


Charlie shares their powerful story of resilience and self-discovery, shedding light on the complex issues of consent, hierarchy and coercion within the Indigenous community.


We'll unravel the layers of their personal journey, from confronting sexual trauma to embracing their unique identity as an Aboriginal and queer/non-binary individual.


Charlie's pronouns are she/her/they/them and are used interchangeably throughout the episode.


Get ready for an inspiring and transformative episode that explores empowerment, healing, and the courage to be authentically you.


Contact and Enquiries:

Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578

Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Disclaimer: This episode contains sexual trauma and assault related themes. Listener discretion is advised.


This episode does discuss issues within Indigenous communities in Australia, the podcast does not reflect on every mob in Australia and should be taken listened to with care.


Join us for an eye-opening journey with Charlie, a proud Aboriginal person and LGBTQIA+ advocate, as we dive into a riveting conversation about consent, healing, and identity.


Charlie shares their powerful story of resilience and self-discovery, shedding light on the complex issues of consent, hierarchy and coercion within the Indigenous community.


We'll unravel the layers of their personal journey, from confronting sexual trauma to embracing their unique identity as an Aboriginal and queer/non-binary individual.


Charlie's pronouns are she/her/they/them and are used interchangeably throughout the episode.


Get ready for an inspiring and transformative episode that explores empowerment, healing, and the courage to be authentically you.


Contact and Enquiries:

Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578

Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> <![CDATA[A Survivor's Love: From Abuse To Adoption]]> Wed, 27 Sep 2023 06:50:13 GMT 52:23 650961c5170f8c0011780e43 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 650961c5170f8c0011780e43 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 a-survivors-love-from-abuse-to-adoption full 1 9 Content warning: This episode contains explicit language and content discussing the abuse of children, listener discretion is advised.


In this emotionally charged episode of 'The Cocoon,' we have the privilege of sitting down with Julie Henderson, a remarkable woman whose life story is a testament to the enduring power of hope, healing, and the unwavering love of a mother.


Julie begins by sharing her life as a loving wife and mother, offering insights into the joys and challenges of raising children, including one who has a disability. She delves into the unique experiences and lessons she has gained through motherhood, especially as someone who carries the weight of past trauma.


Julie courageously opens up about her own childhood trauma and how it has influenced her journey as a parent, particularly in raising her daughters and her story sheds light on the complex interplay between personal healing and nurturing a family.


At the heart of this episode lies Julie's current endeavour: the journey of adoption. She candidly discusses the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges she faces in the adoption process, all while dealing with her trauma background.


Julie's insights are a profound reflection on the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring capacity to give love.


Join us in this powerful episode as we explore Julie's extraordinary journey through motherhood, adoption, and the remarkable transformation that comes from confronting trauma with love, hope, and unwavering faith.


Contact and Enquiries:

Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578

Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380






Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Content warning: This episode contains explicit language and content discussing the abuse of children, listener discretion is advised.


In this emotionally charged episode of 'The Cocoon,' we have the privilege of sitting down with Julie Henderson, a remarkable woman whose life story is a testament to the enduring power of hope, healing, and the unwavering love of a mother.


Julie begins by sharing her life as a loving wife and mother, offering insights into the joys and challenges of raising children, including one who has a disability. She delves into the unique experiences and lessons she has gained through motherhood, especially as someone who carries the weight of past trauma.


Julie courageously opens up about her own childhood trauma and how it has influenced her journey as a parent, particularly in raising her daughters and her story sheds light on the complex interplay between personal healing and nurturing a family.


At the heart of this episode lies Julie's current endeavour: the journey of adoption. She candidly discusses the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges she faces in the adoption process, all while dealing with her trauma background.


Julie's insights are a profound reflection on the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring capacity to give love.


Join us in this powerful episode as we explore Julie's extraordinary journey through motherhood, adoption, and the remarkable transformation that comes from confronting trauma with love, hope, and unwavering faith.


Contact and Enquiries:

Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:


Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578

Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380






Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Navigating Trauma In Relationships Navigating Trauma In Relationships Sat, 26 Aug 2023 00:00:28 GMT 38:24 64e327fbcaf7cd001114bbf9 false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 64e327fbcaf7cd001114bbf9 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 navigating-trauma-in-relationships Finding Love Again full 1 8 Content Warning: This episode contains contains explicit language and triggering themes. Listener discretion is advised.


This episode delves into the intricate topic of navigating relationships in the aftermath of trauma and explores the challenges individuals face when trying to connect with others while carrying the weight of past traumatic experiences.


Our guest speaker for this episode is Alice, whose journey is an inspiring testament to the power of resilience and love.


With an enduring relationship of over two decades, Alice has not only navigated the complexities of maintaining a healthy and thriving partnership with her husband but has done so while overcoming personal trauma.


Her insights and experiences will offer a unique perspective on how to cultivate lasting connections even in the face of adversity.


Join us as Alice shares her wisdom, challenges, and strategies for sustaining a strong bond through life's ups and downs.


Contact and Enquiries:

Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au
Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute

The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:
Full Stop Australia- 1800 385 578
Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Content Warning: This episode contains contains explicit language and triggering themes. Listener discretion is advised.


This episode delves into the intricate topic of navigating relationships in the aftermath of trauma and explores the challenges individuals face when trying to connect with others while carrying the weight of past traumatic experiences.


Our guest speaker for this episode is Alice, whose journey is an inspiring testament to the power of resilience and love.


With an enduring relationship of over two decades, Alice has not only navigated the complexities of maintaining a healthy and thriving partnership with her husband but has done so while overcoming personal trauma.


Her insights and experiences will offer a unique perspective on how to cultivate lasting connections even in the face of adversity.


Join us as Alice shares her wisdom, challenges, and strategies for sustaining a strong bond through life's ups and downs.


Contact and Enquiries:

Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au
Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute

The Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:
Full Stop Australia- 1800 385 578
Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Tina Meyer: Why You Should Keep Going Tina Meyer: Why You Should Keep Going Sat, 29 Jul 2023 00:00:45 GMT 38:52 64c33c1c495c9f0011e23d0a false https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/ 64c33c1c495c9f0011e23d0a 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 tina-meyer-why-you-should-keep-going An Honest And Vulnerable Conversation full 1 7 This month's episode is focused on creating an honest and vulnerable conversation about the realities of healing our sexual abuse and trauma.


Warning: This episode contains explicit language and content that may be triggering.


We are back with our recurring guest speaker, Tina Meyer who is the CEO and President of The Blue Butterfly Institute which is a not-for-profit organisation dedicated to educating, advocating and supporting victims and survivors of sexual abuse/trauma.


In an episode that is raw, heartfelt and honest, we discuss the benefits of healing and becoming a survivor and how to overcome those moments in your journey where you feel annoyed, frustrated or just downright fed-up with trusting the process.


Contacts and Enquiries:

Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinsitute.org.au
Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute


Intro/Outro:

Marya Stark: Breaking The Silence


If you are need of immediate crisis, contact:

Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578
Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380







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]]> This month's episode is focused on creating an honest and vulnerable conversation about the realities of healing our sexual abuse and trauma.


Warning: This episode contains explicit language and content that may be triggering.


We are back with our recurring guest speaker, Tina Meyer who is the CEO and President of The Blue Butterfly Institute which is a not-for-profit organisation dedicated to educating, advocating and supporting victims and survivors of sexual abuse/trauma.


In an episode that is raw, heartfelt and honest, we discuss the benefits of healing and becoming a survivor and how to overcome those moments in your journey where you feel annoyed, frustrated or just downright fed-up with trusting the process.


Contacts and Enquiries:

Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinsitute.org.au
Podcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute


Intro/Outro:

Marya Stark: Breaking The Silence


If you are need of immediate crisis, contact:

Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578
Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380







Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> A Safe Space with our Guest Host A Safe Space with our Guest Host Sun, 25 Jun 2023 09:00:02 GMT 27:30 6489a548ad74c40011ebab6a true https://shows.acast.com/the-cocoon-a-safe-place-for-victims-and-survivors-of-sexual-trauma/episodes/a-safe-space-benefits-of-support-groups 6489a548ad74c40011ebab6a 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 a-safe-space-benefits-of-support-groups Why Support Groups Matter full 1 6 This month's episode is a special one because Ruby, your usual podcast host, is not interviewing, but being interviewed!


Our guest host is the one and only, Tina Meyer, the President and Founder of The Blue Butterfly Institute.


In this special episode, one of our Butterfly Support Groups has graciously permitted us to interview them and ask questions about what their journey was, why they decided to attend a support group, and why survivors on their healing journey should consider attending one.


The responses of these members are raw, passionate and very relatable to all those surviving.


If you are in an immediate crisis and need support, here are some links that can help you.

Lifeline: 13 11 14

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Contact/Enquiries:

To contact the Institute for counselling and support: click here

To contact for podcast related questions and enquiries:

podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Intro/Outro Theme:

Marya Stark: Breaking The Silence



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> This month's episode is a special one because Ruby, your usual podcast host, is not interviewing, but being interviewed!


Our guest host is the one and only, Tina Meyer, the President and Founder of The Blue Butterfly Institute.


In this special episode, one of our Butterfly Support Groups has graciously permitted us to interview them and ask questions about what their journey was, why they decided to attend a support group, and why survivors on their healing journey should consider attending one.


The responses of these members are raw, passionate and very relatable to all those surviving.


If you are in an immediate crisis and need support, here are some links that can help you.

Lifeline: 13 11 14

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732


Contact/Enquiries:

To contact the Institute for counselling and support: click here

To contact for podcast related questions and enquiries:

podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.au


Intro/Outro Theme:

Marya Stark: Breaking The Silence



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> Trauma and Abuse: A Male Perspective Trauma and Abuse: A Male Perspective Sun, 28 May 2023 09:00:19 GMT 1:07:15 646b6a30bcb31300118f8833 true https://www.thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au/podcast 646b6a30bcb31300118f8833 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 trauma-and-abuse-a-male-perspective full 1 5 Disclaimer: This podcast contains topics such as suicide and assault. Please listen at your own discretion.


On average, 4 men a day commit suicide in Australia.


This adds up to over 1,500 men committing suicide per year.


Why is it so high?


And what can we do to lower it?


Today's guest speaker is Adam Holstein who is a suicide awareness advocate and host of the very successful and well-known podcast 'How you going mate?' which is dedicated to starting conversations about people's mental health and well-being.


We are here to start a conversation on how various types of assault and trauma affect men, how the idea of 'masculinity' inhibits men from seeking the help they deserve and how we can support the men we care about to take those first steps into caring for their emotional and mental well-being.


If you are in need of immediate support, please contact:

Lifeline: 13 11 14

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732


If you would like to speak to the Institute, please contact:

Support:

hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Media Enquiries:

podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Go check out Adam's podcast here:


Opening/Closing Intro:

Marya Stark- Breaking The Silence


Sources:

Australian Men's Health Forum





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]]> Disclaimer: This podcast contains topics such as suicide and assault. Please listen at your own discretion.


On average, 4 men a day commit suicide in Australia.


This adds up to over 1,500 men committing suicide per year.


Why is it so high?


And what can we do to lower it?


Today's guest speaker is Adam Holstein who is a suicide awareness advocate and host of the very successful and well-known podcast 'How you going mate?' which is dedicated to starting conversations about people's mental health and well-being.


We are here to start a conversation on how various types of assault and trauma affect men, how the idea of 'masculinity' inhibits men from seeking the help they deserve and how we can support the men we care about to take those first steps into caring for their emotional and mental well-being.


If you are in need of immediate support, please contact:

Lifeline: 13 11 14

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732


If you would like to speak to the Institute, please contact:

Support:

hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

Media Enquiries:

podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au


Go check out Adam's podcast here:


Opening/Closing Intro:

Marya Stark- Breaking The Silence


Sources:

Australian Men's Health Forum





Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

]]> The Psychological Effects of Childhood Grooming The Psychological Effects of Childhood Grooming Sun, 30 Apr 2023 09:00:00 GMT 35:21 921d447b-9ce7-4c0f-8d35-d1e326b46ab6 false https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tina-meyer9/episodes/The-Psychological-Effects-of-Childhood-Grooming-e23619m 646b677eb6ca380011698a88 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 full 1 4

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]]> Sexual Trauma In The Neurodivergent Community Sexual Trauma In The Neurodivergent Community Sun, 26 Mar 2023 08:00:00 GMT 29:42 53072775-ae6d-45a8-afb9-40378ce22e09 false https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tina-meyer9/episodes/Sexual-Trauma-In-The-Neurodivergent-Community-e20ol8t 646b677eb6ca380011698a89 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 full 1 3

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]]> <![CDATA[Vicarious Trauma & Self-Care]]> Sun, 26 Feb 2023 08:00:00 GMT 24:03 b1ac122b-2e5b-4a06-bd21-2e6389ab3c3c false https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tina-meyer9/episodes/Vicarious-Trauma--Self-Care-e1vek24 646b677eb6ca380011698a8a 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 full 1 2

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]]> Who We Are Who We Are Sun, 29 Jan 2023 08:00:00 GMT 21:15 eb6c462e-15f7-4f08-a823-416e4eb59c32 false https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tina-meyer9/episodes/Who-We-Are-e1u0uad 646b677eb6ca380011698a8b 646b67762c81c50011125ba5 full 1 1

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