The Same Boat

Ep 19 Blessed are the Peacemakers

Fri, 27 Sep 2019 04:52:01 GMT

Cheryl Kang Prout and Vivianne Kelly of Cordial Family Lawyers, LLP provide an intimate glimpse into the world of divorce mediation. Some of the questions we discuss:

Are all family lawyers the same?
How does divorce affect kids?
How is your conscience affected as a family law attorney?
Is there a way to make divorce less painful or harmful?
How can mediators be ministers?

I was blown away by how much I learned from my guests, and I hope you will be illuminated as well. Please share this episode with anyone you know who is considering divorce. And as always, I truly appreciate your reviews on whichever platform you listen to this podcast!

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Ep 18 The Five Languages of Apology

Sun, 14 Jul 2019 05:27:27 GMT

Has anyone ever apologized to you, and it really didn't feel like an apology at all? Have you ever tried apologizing to someone, and it had little effect on the person? On today's episode, Christine Lister and I discuss effective ways to apologize, and how resolving conflict increases intimacy. Plus, there's an additional surprise guest interview you won't want to miss!

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Ep 17 Needles and Nails

Mon, 13 May 2019 04:13:50 GMT

Something very bizarre and scary happened to Aly Lee, a student at University of Virginia. Tune in to hear what happened. Discover that you're not alone as we talk about:

The agony of not having answers
Worst case scenarios
Choosing between praying for good outcomes and embracing suffering
Why certain people mean well, but just aren't helpful.
And more!

Thank you all for your ongoing support of this podcast, your reviews, shares and emails are such an encouragement!

If you'd like to read more of Alyson's writing, check out these links:

http://www.cavalierdaily.com/article/2018/10/i-had-a-stroke

http://www.cavalierdaily.com/article/2018/11/six-mris-and-counting

http://www.cavalierdaily.com/article/2018/12/back-to-new-normalcy

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Ep 16 How We Love, Part 2

Thu, 04 Apr 2019 21:13:07 GMT

Catherine Morrill, Susette Magana and I wrap up our discussion of the book "How We Love" by Milan and Kay Yerkovich. We talk about the concept of Secure Connection as the antidote to the 5 unhealthy love styles that we all tend to find ourselves repeating.

Some of the topics we cover: What does it mean to securely connect with another person? If I don’t naturally connect with others, can I get better? If so, how? Is there a better way for me to be understood by others? Why are emotions important, and why do we downplay them? “God, change my spouse” and other unhelpful prayers And more!

To help you practice secure connection, I am providing 2 free pdf's straight from the Yerkovich resource library. One is the Comfort Circle and the other is the Soul Words list. Head over to www.newlegacycounseling.com to grab your freebies today!

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Ep 15 How We Love, Part 1

Thu, 28 Feb 2019 20:18:34 GMT

Licensed MFTs Catherine Morrill (www.soulrestorationproject.org/catherine-morrill) and Susette Magana (www.susettemagana.com) and I discuss the relationship book "How We Love" by Milan and Kay Yerkovich.

Chances are that you can relate to at least one of these statements: Why do people get so emotional, why can't they just move on? My spouse has communication issues. Sometimes I tell white lies to avoid conflict. I have trouble saying no. When people apologize to me, it's often too little too late. I want to feel deep connection, I want to be pursued. I stay in destructive relationships. I lose my temper but they made me.

If so, then you'll want to listen in! And you definitely don't have to be married to benefit from the book and the discussion.

If you'd like to read the book for yourself, you can purchase the book at www.newlegacycounseling.com/the-same-boat-podcast/

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Ep 14 Honor Michael

Fri, 19 Oct 2018 16:40:54 GMT

Have you had an abortion? Whether you had an abortion long ago, or just recently, the shame and guilt can feel like it will never go away. Some women (and men) tell themselves they will take this secret to the grave.

I interviewed one woman who was willing to share her abortion story. She found healing, love and forgiveness, and I hope that her story will lead you to experience the same.

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Ep 13 Refiner's Firing

Wed, 01 Aug 2018 02:00:00 GMT

Danny Roh gives us a rare look inside the mind and heart of a youth pastor who got fired. We talk about bitterness, shame, how he said goodbye to his students, unemployment, the difficulty of forgiveness, and the dangers of making pastoring become your identity.

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Ep 12 This is Us

Tue, 20 Feb 2018 01:16:45 GMT

Daniel and Sora tell their incredibly raw story about miscarriage, unhelpful responses, faith and atheism.

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Ep 11 Wrist in Peace

Thu, 09 Nov 2017 07:20:36 GMT

Michelle Park shares about her epic journey with chronic pain.

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Ep 10 How Great Thou Art

Thu, 06 Jul 2017 02:17:18 GMT

Janet Chong and Sarah Chong share about the joys and pains of the artist pathway.

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Ep 9 How to Save $100,000

Tue, 09 May 2017 21:46:08 GMT

Jim Lee, the Small Groups Coordinator at YoungNak Celebration Church in L.A., shares about the lessons he learned from his painful divorce, and the redeeming acts of God who blesses divorcees through Jim's ministry.

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Ep 8 A Penny For Your Thoughts

Thu, 16 Mar 2017 06:52:08 GMT

Penny Jo shares her story of regrettable decisions leading up to, and during, her first marriage, and how God lavished grace upon her. (Themes include: Addiction, Enabling, Boundaries, Divorce, DivorceCare, Discerning God's Will, Dating, Vocation as Ministry)

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Ep 7 Safe People, Part 3 (Finale)

Tue, 28 Feb 2017 21:55:31 GMT

This is the conclusion of the Safe People series. In this episode, I explore why we tend to choose unsafe people, why it's so hard to end unsafe relationships, and things to consider if we have unsafe parents.

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Ep 6 A Hard Pill to Swallow

Tue, 10 Jan 2017 21:25:23 GMT

Dr. Chi Chung shares a fascinating story of how his life narrative didn't go as planned. He openly shares about missions, wrong assumptions, major illness, and how to tell if God really loves you.

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Ep 5 The Perfect Christian

Tue, 22 Nov 2016 01:40:51 GMT

Young and Tim Chao share the compelling story of being parents to their 3rd child, who has Down's Syndrome.

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Ep 4 Safe People, Part 2

Mon, 14 Nov 2016 02:56:55 GMT

A continued look at how to tell if someone is safe or unsafe. Also, how you can become a safe person to others.

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Ep 3 Safe People Part 1

Mon, 24 Oct 2016 04:54:08 GMT

Are you in relationship or friendship with a safe person? Do you know how to recognize one? Part 1 on the topic of Safe People, as explained by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend in their book "Safe People."

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Ep 2 Raising an Autistic Child

Mon, 17 Oct 2016 19:00:00 GMT

Roy interviews James and Salome Hu, who describe the joys and pains of raising an autistic son.

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Ep 1 My Story

Mon, 10 Oct 2016 19:00:00 GMT

Roy Kim, the host of The Same Boat, shares his own story of heartbreak, rage, failure, and grace.

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Episode 000 - Pilot

Thu, 06 Oct 2016 04:18:06 GMT

Roy introduces the premiere of the podcast that helps you feel you are not alone.

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