The Sex That Changed My Life

These Men Give Female Orgasms For a Living

Sat, 09 May 2026 13:41:47 GMT

It’s hard to make a woman cum. Or so they say. Most women I know grew up believing the female orgasm was complicated, elusive, almost impossible to fully understand.

But through my years as a sex writer and conversations on this podcast, there’s been one type of man that keeps popping up: pleasure doms. Men whose pleasure comes from giving pleasure.

In this episode, I sit down with two pleasure doms, Andy and Elli, to unpack how they came to prioritise female pleasure so deeply, what they understand about women’s bodies that most men don’t, and why every man could use a little more pleasure dom energy.

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Why Cait Stopped Having Sex On the First Date

Sat, 02 May 2026 06:48:10 GMT

Cait was 31 and had never had a boyfriend. She’d come to the conclusion that something must be wrong with her, because she’d tried everything. And, as a die hard romantic who really wanted to fall in love, her inability to find the right person started to take a toll on her mental health.

So she did something different. She took a break from sex and dating to reset, then came back with one change: she was going to wait. No rushing into sex, no getting swept up before knowing if they were actually on the same page. And her new approach? It worked.

In this episode, we debate the age-old question: how long should you wait to have sex with someone, and does it actually make a difference?

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Sarah Rates Men in Bed

Sat, 25 Apr 2026 05:40:30 GMT

When Sarah entered her slutty phase, she was post-breakup and had nothing to lose. So she began rating the men she slept with. They weren’t nearly as impressive as they thought they were, and someone needed to keep a record. Sometimes she told them — as an act of activism for the women who came after her — but other times she kept the notes to herself, to remind her that men aren’t all that.

This episode is all about how powerful it feels to take the narrative back and to truly realise your worth.

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Brooke Woke Up From a Coma to a Fake Boyfriend

Sat, 18 Apr 2026 02:32:10 GMT

Brooke fell out of a tree and lost her memory. When she woke from her coma, she couldn’t walk, talk, or remember anything — or anyone. So when the man beside her hospital bed claimed he was her boyfriend, who was she to deny him? She had a gut feeling he wasn’t who he said he was. But she was vulnerable, alone, and needed care. So she played along… until things got weird.

This episode is all about following your gut instinct, even when the odds are against you.

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TW: this episode contains discussions around sexual assault.

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Julia’s Period Sex Nightmare

Sat, 11 Apr 2026 10:56:11 GMT

Julia got her period mid-sex at a high school house party, with one of the hot guys from her school — and what happened next is something she’s still working through today.

We talk about the shame baked into girlhood, how isolating those experiences can be, and why we deserved better education, support, and conversations back then.

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Jamie’s 48-Hour Threesome

Sat, 04 Apr 2026 10:17:05 GMT

At the end of musical festival, Jamie was invited to a couple’s house for kick-ons, which turned into an unplanned 3-day threesome with a married couple. It was not only some of the best sex she’s ever had, but ultimately led her to love again.

We talk about the rightful resurgence of threesomes, how they can actually be really good for your relationship and how delightful it is to be a woman who is sexually free.

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You can follow her burlesque account here @jamie.alexandra.official

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World Famous Dominatrix Eva Oh on Cannibalism, Poo-Play and Why Reality Can’t Compete

Sat, 28 Mar 2026 04:47:06 GMT

Eva Oh is the world’s most beloved dominatrix, with almost 140K followers and a cult-hit podcast. In this episode, she shares how she left a corporate job to search for something more stimulating, stepped into a dungeon, and never looked back. Now, there’s no fantasy she hasn’t tried, which means she’s tried things that most of us have never imagined. We talk about inner freedom, being spoiled as a standard, and the endless joy of being served.

You can follow Eva on Instagram @youwillplease_me

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Her OnlyFans is: onlyfans.com/youwillplease_me

She also just started a Substack: evaoh.substack.com

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Kate's Secret Life as a $6K-a-Date Sugar Baby

Sat, 21 Mar 2026 08:05:49 GMT

For years, Kate Kennedy was quietly earning up to $6K per date as a sugar baby, flying on private jets, staying in five-star hotels and keeping it all hidden. More than a decade later, she shares the reality behind the money: the emotional labour and why the work can feel like being a therapist. She also explains what forced her to admit being a sex worker to friends and family.

Kate also hosts the incredible podcast Make Them Pay. Listen to it here.

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Why Laura Stopped Faking Orgasms at Age 40

Sun, 15 Mar 2026 05:14:17 GMT

Laura had always been the caretaker in her relationships. Her pleasure was so deprioritised that she faked every orgasm she had with a partner. That changed at 40, when a new partner told her something she’d never heard before: her pleasure was his. In this episode, she shares the sexual awakening that reshaped her confidence, her relationships, and how she lives.

Laura Lee is (unsurprisingly!) a brilliant sexologist and you can get in touch with her at lauralee.com.au.

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Kari Robbed Manhattan’s Elite, Then Had a Lesbian Awakening in Prison

Sun, 08 Mar 2026 22:35:36 GMT

When Kari moved to New York broke and hungry for belonging, she found herself in the beds of Manhattan’s richest men, seducing them by night and robbing them by morning. As they fetishised her for her Asian identity, her theft escalated… Until she got caught.

In this episode, she unpacks sex, power, crime and the lesbian awakening she found behind bars.

Check out Kari’s memoir for more stories than we could fit in the podcast: You'll Never Believe Me: A Life of Lies, Second Tries, and Things I Should Only Tell My Therapist

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Hana Needed to Get Drunk to Have Sex

Sat, 28 Feb 2026 01:49:39 GMT

When a long-term lover suggested Hana try having sex without drinking, she was horrified. For years, alcohol had been her armour: the only way she felt confident enough to be intimate. But removing it changed everything.In this episode, she unpacks how sober sex transformed the way she sees her body, her trauma and her pleasure.

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Madison’s 5-Year Relationship With Her University Tutor

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 12:50:44 GMT

Madison Griffiths was 21 when she fell for her university teacher. The attraction was mutual and they dated for five years, until one tiny ick blew it all up. In this episode, we unpack the eternal hotness of men in power and why, ultimately, they're really not.

Madison went on to write a book in which she interviewed multiple students who dated their teachers. Check out Sweet Nothings, for way more than we could fit in today’s ep.

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Alice's Journey From Body Shame to Female Orgasms Dealer

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 21:47:25 GMT

When a partner demanded Alice look at herself in the mirror during orgasm, she was horrified. But what she saw in that moment changed everything. Now she runs Goddess Glow Massage, a happy endings massage parlour for women. On this ep, she explains her mission to give women the confidence she found, one orgasm at a time.

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Trailer

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 04:18:57 GMT

Each week, sex columnist Laura Roscioli sits down with a guest to hear about an intimate moment that changed them. From dramatic identity shifts to quiet revelations about self-worth. It’s the show that reveals who we are by looking at what we desire.

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