This is the full recording of my talk at a conference, where I tried to explain this subject in a different way.

In this presentation, I explore the sexual abuse and exploitation of children and teenagers, both in person and online, and I focus heavily on one challenge that has driven so much of my work over the last decade: how do we communicate this subject in a way that people can truly understand?

Throughout the talk, I break down difficult concepts around grooming, secrecy, silence, manipulation, and disclosure. I also share parts of my own story and explain why I believe we need better conversations in schools, homes, and organisations if we are serious about prevention and early intervention.

This talk includes three questions that many people will find uncomfortable, but I ask them for a reason. My goal is not to shock. My goal is to help people think more deeply, speak more openly, and feel more confident beginning conversations that too often never happen.

Topics covered include:

- child sexual abuse and exploitation

- grooming in person and online

- why children and teenagers may not speak up

- the difference between pre-pubescent children and post-pubescent teenagers

- how schools, parents, and professionals can create safer environments

- why better communication is central to prevention

Please take care while listening. Some parts of this talk may be difficult to hear.

If something in this episode stands out to you, I encourage you to use it to begin a conversation with someone else. That is one of the main aims of my work.

More about the charity who held the event where this was recorded:

Kaleidoscopic are a charitable organisation of survivors for survivors of domestic abuse in ALL its forms. We are based in the Thames Valley and provide support services throughout England and Wales.

Kaleidoscopic UK’s objectives are: The relief of need and the promotion of good health for children and adults in England and Wales who have been subjected to or exposed to domestic abuse through survivor-led support services and by educating and informing voluntary and statutory services, as well as the public at large, about all forms of domestic abuse and its harmful effects.

For more infomation: https://www.kaleidoscopic.uk/

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We talk about:

- how quickly adults can approach a decoy profile online

- the roles inside these teams (decoying, vetting, research, tracking, meet teams)

- why teams say they are not “vigilantes” and how they view their role

- training standards, screening, and why not everyone is suited to the work

- live-streaming stings, the criticism around it, and the arguments for “awareness”

- sentencing, delays, and what can happen after evidence is submitted

- the responsibility of tech companies and what meaningful change could look like

This conversation is direct, honest, and focused on helping people understand what’s happening online and why these teams exist.

If you found this useful, subscribe for more long-form conversations on safeguarding, online harm, prevention, and the realities behind the headlines.Below are my links

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Rather than focusing on graphic detail, this conversation is about reflection — what this work does to you, what it teaches you about trauma, and how complex child abuse investigations really are. It also raises an important question: when systems fail, is it down to bad officers, or a broken system that is underfunded, overloaded, and stretched beyond its limits?

I know many people have had terrible experiences with the police, and those experiences matter.

This episode isn’t about dismissing harm or defending institutions. It’s about trying to understand the reality of a role that involves daily exposure to trauma, limited resources, and enormous responsibility.

The aim is to encourage more informed conversations about prevention, support, and change — and to better understand what people in these roles see, feel, and carry with them long after the job ends.

This episode may be of interest to parents, educators, professionals, and anyone trying to better understand safeguarding, trauma, and the challenges faced by those working in child abuse investigations.

If you have thoughts on this topic, I encourage you to share them in the comments.

The aim is to encourage more informed conversations about prevention, support, and change — and to better understand what people in these roles see, feel, and carry with them long after the job ends.

This episode may be of interest to parents, educators, professionals, and anyone trying to better understand safeguarding, trauma, and the challenges faced by those working in child abuse investigations.

If you have thoughts on this topic, I encourage you to share them in the comments.

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In this episode, Jeremy sits down with StopSO, a UK charity specialising in therapeutic work with offenders and people at risk of offending, to explore how early intervention, behaviour change, and specialised therapy can protect children from sexual harm.

This conversation looks at what actually helps people stop, why punishment alone isn’t enough, and how prevention can reduce harm for children, families, and communities.

Antounette and StopSO bio

Antounette is Chair of StopSO, a charity offering specialist therapy to all those who have been impacted by child sex abuse. The main focus is the work with perpetrators, those representing a risk of sexual harm and those experiencing inappropriate thoughts and feelings.

This work is central to Antounette’s belief that to prevent sex abuse, we must work with those that are at risk, or who we wish would desist from this behaviour and to do so compassionately and non judgementally.

Under her chairship, the Charity has highlighted its commitment to provide therapy for survivors and all familiy members affected by abuse ,developed its work with other organisations, evolved new training for therapists in this specialist field, and launched a new approach to therapeutic intervention for those displaying sexual harm who are under 18. She is usually very busy!

After 32 years working in the Criminal Justice System as a Probation Officer, Antounette has a wealth of experience of ‘the system’s’ treatment of high risk offending behaviour, and the value of mainstream as well as more nuanced and pertinent approaches to the escalation of child sex abuse.

Antounette has previously specialised in work with violent offenders and mental health as well as running group work programmes for the service, writing Court reports and representing the Multi Agency Gang Unit in Birmingham. She retrained as a therapist when she was in her 40’s and feels privileged to have found a second career she feels passionate about.

Going forward Antounette has exciting plans to grow the work of the charity and to support this as best she can- with enthusiasm and a deeply held belief that therapy is a powerful but under supported process of change for individuals brave enough to take on the challenge of therapy.

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I wanted to find a way to teach body safety and online safety that actually connected — not just another formal talk that goes over their heads.

So, I turned safeguarding into one big game.

Together, we moved through different “levels” — learning about:

🎮 Rules that help us stay safe (Level 1)

💛 Feelings and what they tell us (Level 2)

👥 Who’s on our team (Level 3)

🗣 How to use our voice when something doesn’t feel right (Level 4)

The result?

They laughed, they learned, and they didn’t want the session to end.

Safeguarding and body safety are serious topics — but when we teach them through play, children listen.

If you’d like to see exactly how this approach works in a real classroom, this full recording shows the entire session — start to finish.

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The clip I reviewed - https://youtu.be/moJ59Po9aPE?si=Qj_zqt6PigsRv7Eq

The full Mikhaila Peterson podcast - https://youtu.be/4qZoJooGHfY?si=fBDmQZcopePXto8j

The Teen Corn podcast that I mentioned in video - https://youtu.be/C_enOcVeTTw?si=OKaq9gXBhIbNwV07

Why didn’t the government act sooner? For years, concerns have been raised about the easy access young people have to online porn — and the potential impact it’s having on their developing brains. Now, new laws are finally being introduced in the UK to block under-18s from these sites.

But is it too late?

In this episode, we explore:

- The psychological and neurological effects of porn consumption

- How desensitisation and escalation can lead to more extreme content

- The links between compulsive porn use and real-world harm

- Why action to protect young people has taken so long

Watch until the end as we discuss the government’s latest move and whether it can undo the damage that may already have been done to today’s generation.

What do you think — did the UK wait too long?

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- What’s normal curiosity?

- What’s problematic?

- And where does it cross into being harmful or even violent?

In this episode, I sit down with Dr Jennifer Allotey, forensic psychologist and social worker, to unpack these difficult questions. We discuss:

- The Hackett Continuum: a framework used in schools and safeguarding to assess behaviour.

- Why some behaviours should be seen as developmentally expected, while others require intervention.

- The role of consent, power, and context in understanding young people’s actions.

- The influence of the internet and technology on today’s behaviour.

- How schools, parents, and communities can respond without overreacting or labelling young people unfairly.

This is a vital conversation for anyone who cares about safeguarding, prevention, and helping young people navigate healthy development.

Resources mentioned in the podcast are below.

Centre of expertise on child sexual abuse - https://www.csacentre.org.uk

The AIM Project - https://aimproject.org.uk

Shore - https://shorespace.org.uk

Dr Jennifer Allotey information

Website - http://polaris-associates.co.uk/

Dr Jennifer Allotey is a Chartered Forensic Psychologist, Social Worker and Assistant Professor in Forensic Psychology. Jennifer's career began in children and families social work, including working within the family court arena, and time spent in fostering and adoption. Within her social work career, Jennifer specialised in assessment of risk and she went on to work in specialist services including NSPCC, Lucy Faithfull Foundation, and Safer Lives. Jennifer's specialist expertise in assessment and therapeutic interventions with children led to a role as the Clinical Lead for Harmful Sexual Behaviour within a Forensic Child and Adolescent Mental Health Service (FCAMHS). Jennifer is now dual registered as a Social Worker and Forensic Psychologist, and she continues to work with both children and adults who have dispalyed harmful / offending behaviours, with a focus on sexual harm.

Jennifer's doctoral thesis explores experiences of adversity and trauma in children who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour and the focus throughout is sexual abuse prevention. Jennifer's research make recommendations for practice to support all professionals in their role in the prevention of child sexual abuse. Alongside her clinical practice, Jennifer provides consultation, supervision and training to professionals and delivers teaching as an Assistant Professor in Forensic Psychology at the University of Nottingham.

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In this episode, I explore:

- How Bonnie Blue “cracked the code” of algorithms

- Why outrage and support both fuel her rise

- The dangers of normalising virginity and “barely legal” fantasies

- What this means for young people seeing her content online

- Why platforms suppress survivor stories but let this go viral

This is not about shaming anyone's decisions — it’s about asking the bigger question: what can we learn from Bonnie Blue’s rise, and what does it reveal about our culture today?

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Dr. Angela Tan is a family physician, sexual wellness specialist, and Medical Director of Reiwa Health, with over 16 years of experience in both medical practice and professional coaching.

As a parent herself, Angela understands the emotional complexities of raising tweens and teens. She has conducted sex education workshops in schools and coached parents on how to talk about growing bodies, emotions, and relationships with confidence and care.

Her work goes beyond information-sharing—Angela helps parents build trust and emotional safety through vulnerability, so they can stay connected to their children through every stage of adolescence. She believes that meaningful sex education starts with honest conversations at home, where kids feel seen, safe, and supported.

Dr. Angela Tan's links below.

Website: www.reiwahealth.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-angela-tan/

Insta: https://www.instagram.com/reiwa.apt/

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Because deep down, these are all things that we already know - but make us feel uncomfortable to face.

I don’t want to give this man praise, but he is giving us something truly valuable here and I don’t want you to miss it - especially if you have children yourself.

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What do you say to a room full of 13-year-olds about abuse, secrets and speaking up?

In this powerful live talk, I speak directly to Year 8 students about how abuse often doesn’t look like violence — and why speaking up matters. Using real-life stories, questions, and interactive moments, this session helps young people understand grooming, recognise their own coping mechanisms, and feel more confident asking for help.

This video isn’t just for students — it’s for the adults who care about them. Whether you’re a parent, teacher or survivor, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to talk to young people about abuse in a way that’s honest, clear and age-appropriate.

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1. What Is Harmful Sexual Behaviour?

NSPCC Learning – https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/child-abuse-and-neglect/harmful-sexual-behaviour

CSA Centre – https://www.csacentre.org.uk/resources/key-messages/harmful-sexual-behaviour/

Lucy Faithfull Foundation - https://www.lucyfaithfull.org.uk/harmful-sexual-behaviour.htm

2. The Continuum of Sexual Behaviours

NSPCC – https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/media/2522/harmful-sexual-behaviour-framework.pdf

Hackett’s Continuum (via ICMEC Guide) - https://www.icmec.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Hackett-Continuum.pdf

Queensland Health – https://www.childrens.health.qld.gov.au/wp-content/uploads/PDF/hsc-sexual-behaviours-traffic-light-guide.pdf

3. 🧒 Age-Appropriate Sexual Behaviour

Stop It Now – https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/concerned-about-a-childs-sexual-behaviour/

HealthyChildren.org – https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/preschool/Pages/Sexual-Behavior-in-Young-Children.aspx

Raising Children Network – https://raisingchildren.net.au/guides/a-z-health-reference/sexual-behaviour-children

4. 🚨 When to Be Concerned

NSPCC – https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/research-resources/leaflets/harmful-sexual-behaviour

NCSBY Fact Sheet - https://www.ncsby.org/sites/default/files/Problematic_Sexual_Behavior_Fact_Sheet.pdf

PCAR – https://www.pcar.org/sites/default/files/pages-pdf/Understanding_Childrens_Sexual_Behavior.pdf

5. 🛠️ Responding to HSB

NSPCC – https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/child-abuse-and-neglect/harmful-sexual-behaviour/responding-to-hsb

Lucy Faithfull Foundation – https://www.lucyfaithfull.org.uk/advice-for-professionals.htm

In this episode, we explore a difficult but essential topic: harmful sexual behaviour (HSB) among minors.

Using real-world examples, expert-backed definitions, and resources from trusted organisations (like the Lucy Faithful Foundation, NSPCC, and the Centre of Expertise on CSA), we break down:

- What HSB actually is

- The traffic light continuum: green, amber, red behaviours

- Age-appropriate vs. concerning behaviour

- Red flags to look out for

- How to respond – as a parent or professional

Whether you're a teacher, social worker, or parent, this episode will help you better understand HSB, avoid panic, and respond with confidence, calm, and care.

Watch/listen and learn how to assess situations and take action that protects children — not punishes them.

📌 Resources mentioned in this episode are linked in the description.

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In this episode, I break down the findings, challenge the stereotypes about who offenders are, and explore what this means for how we protect children and teens today.

Too often, we imagine offenders as “creepy strangers” or people we’d spot a mile off. But the reality is more complex — and more uncomfortable. If we don’t understand that, we can’t keep children safe.

This episode isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness. It’s about honesty. And it’s about pushing this conversation out of the shadows and into the light.

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Your comments, likes, and shares help push this content into more people’s feeds — and right now, this topic is being buried.

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Links to the website and research document that I review in this episode.

Website - https://theconversation.com/a-survey-found-1-in-6-men-admit-sexual-feelings-for-children-so-is-paedophilia-increasing-218124

Research document - https://www.humanrights.unsw.edu.au/sites/default/files/documents/Identifying%20and%20understanding%20child%20sexual%20offending%20behaviour%20and%20attitudes%20among%20Australian%20men.pdf

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

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It was the first time I’d ever been invited to speak to Year 5 students—children just 9 and 10 years old. And I won’t lie… I was nervous.

This session is about body safety, the importance of speaking up, and how to recognise when something doesn’t feel right. I speak honestly, but gently—because young children deserve to be informed and protected without being overwhelmed.

This isn’t just a lesson—it’s the conversation I wish someone had with me at that age.

👉 If you're a parent, teacher or professional working with children, I hope this gives you ideas and confidence to keep these conversations going.

📌 Topics covered:

- Body boundaries and personal space

- The difference between safe and unsafe touch

- Secrets vs surprises

- Why trust and speaking up matters

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And don’t forget to subscribe for more talks, real stories, and resources that protect and empower children.

Mailing list sign up link - https://mailchi.mp/9a1acfd96e25/somethingtosayopt-in

Book me for your school - https://jeremyindika.com/speaker-event/

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

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Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

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Something to Say links

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Anna's bio.

Anna Sonoda, an Emory University graduate with degrees in Anthropology and French Studies, earned her Master’s in Social Work from the University of Georgia in 2006 and became a licensed clinician in 2009. With experience counseling sexual offenders, working in mental health settings, and providing anger management and domestic violence treatment, she developed a deep understanding of grooming behaviors. This led her to write Duck Duck Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target (2022) and Duck Duck Groom: A Guided Journal, offering resources for prevention and survivor healing.

Anna's links.

Website: https://annasonoda.com

Book: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BYK4LV4Q

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

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Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

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Many will disagree with me doing this. 

But with so many schools saying they’re worried to bring me in to speak to teachers because of what I might say or how far I might push the boundaries, I’ve decided to post a full recording online, so everyone can see exactly what I’m doing.

This comes with a risk (potentially) because now schools can watch it online instead of booking me.

But, everyone knows that this should be done in person because of the audience interaction and participation that I generate and I have faith that the schools see that too. 

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

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Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

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And they’re not shy. They comment on my posts from time to time.

Their view (from what I’ve seen) is that if a teenager flirts and involves themselves at the time, then they know what they’re doing and can’t label it as abusive and exploitative when they’re older.

This is a massive misunderstanding and I explain why as I review Leila’s brave story in my podcast.

This is very important, links below.

Original video: https://youtu.be/PLARjisxolI?si=waOJAwvS1QmkbqCi

Please support us over at @somethingtosayofficial with running costs at - https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

To connect with Leila and buy her book;

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leilalala07/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leila.ives

Book: https://amzn.eu/d/jcCEq8e

Something to Say links

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficial

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/

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Imagine what this woman is going through once she finds her partner’s illegal hard drive with 600 photos and videos of children.

Links as promised below,

1. 40-year old man arranges to meet 14-year old girl - https://youtu.be/3PqvA2JjkCo?si=IyaG8BSJ1lGsVtR8

2. Huw Edwards had 7-year olds on his phone and escaped jail - https://youtu.be/0OYYVaj5uAg?si=IRtw8cjqnacMgaZ3

3. Rosie Nelson Survive and Thrive CIC, unfortunately I couldn't find the charity that she founded.

Original video - https://youtu.be/rOUQKB1Lyfg?si=0nnVeVfoul0Ark-X

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

X: https://x.com/jeremyindika

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1

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To find Rachel Carey,

Rachel is passionate about developing strong mental health in young people and assists school in developing well-being programs that not only meet the statutory outcomes for RSHE but also help young people to understand and develop their own mental health, resilience, and self-worth.

Personal LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-carey-462569140

Website: https://elizaeducation.com

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"It will never be good enough" - You may worry that this attitude means happiness can never be achieved, but that’s fine because happiness is not the aim with this.

What you’re about to watch are two people dissecting my school talk in detail. Critiquing it and finding the ways for further improvement, with the overall goal of steering teenagers away from feeling hopeless after sexual trauma.

Please come and get involved in this. The more opinions we collect, the better.

Today’s generation appreciate us adults taking action around this.

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

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Many people are curious to see what I’m delivering in schools, so I’ve recorded a session for you to watch.

You’ll see how I weave storytelling techniques with interactive exercises to create something that engages these young people.

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

X: https://x.com/jeremyindika

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

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I’m now going to push to see whether they will bring me into the studio for a full length interview.

This is a celebration -  @SomethingtoSayofficial 

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1

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But I believe this is what built me as a speaker. None of this has come naturally. 

Here's a link to my first ever open mic - https://youtu.be/hXQvXBqfbhw?si=Jr2-agm_4ui6Cqpl

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

X: https://x.com/jeremyindika

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial

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I’m talking about supporting your child as a mother, a father, a family, but also, how to support yourself as your world comes crashing down and you feel helpless reading police reports and witnessing your child going through trauma.

15 out of 100 girls and 5 out of 100 boys will be offended against by the age of 16 (statistic from the National Crime Agency), so if you’re a parent then you must equip yourselves.

Experts in this field, Nina Vaaranen-Valkonen and Katariina Leivo, have come onto my podcast to help us understand more.

Protect children links below,

Protect Children main website: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en

You are Enough™ evaluation summary: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/2know-yae-evaluation-summary

You are Enough™ parents guide: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/you-are-enough-guide-for-parents-of-children-affected-by-online-sexual

Other useful materials:

Online Safety guide for all parents: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/online-safety-parents-guide-not-just-a-device

Supportive website for young people who carry their friend's distressing secret: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/myfriendtoo

Our Voice global survey for adults who have fallen victim to sexual violence in their childhood: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/meidan-aanemme-kysely

Information regarding sibling sexual trauma/abuse (this is an area where parents feel even more alone:) https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/sibling-sexual-trauma-sibling-sexual-abuse-leaflets

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

X: https://x.com/jeremyindika

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficial

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I’ve posted this recording of me presenting to Year 8 girls, so people can watch and give their thoughts and opinions on it. I’m aware that I’m one person, with one perspective and to make this the best it can be for young people, I need everyone to get involved. 

So please can I ask, for you to listen along to this and let me know what you think is working and what’s not. 

If you would like to watch the full version - https://youtu.be/xAgI3_m0F9g

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Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

X: https://x.com/jeremyindika

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1

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And if they’re of an age where they cannot cannot speak yet - let’s say they’re under 3 - the risk is further increased as they cannot communicate with you.

So, as a parent, what can you do here?

I’ve brought on expert Patricia Cardona onto my podcast to explain some of the techniques you can use to ensure that your child is not an easy target.

This is important information for everyone.

Patricia Cardona (Mallorca, Spain) is a warrior and survivor of both intra- and extra-familial child sexual abuse. After more than thirty years of silence, she first spoke out through her poetry at an event in Amsterdam, where audience members called her brave. Since then, she has become an expert in child sexual abuse prevention and an activist. Patricia is a member of the Brave Movement—a global, survivor-centered organization dedicated to ending childhood sexual violence. She also collaborates with RANA (Red de Ayuda a Niños Abusados) and is a certified Steward of Children through Darkness to Light.

Patricia’s advocacy has taken her to Brussels, where she has addressed the European Parliament, urging the passage and strengthening of the COM (2022) 209 regulation to prevent and combat child sexual abuse and stressing the critical need for comprehensive support for survivors. She has also collaborated with Europol on the GRACE (Global Response Against Child Exploitation) project.

She is the author of “Frases que nunca deberías decir frente a un abuso sexual” (Phrases You Should Never Say in the Face of Sexual Abuse), a resource aimed at helping survivors feel understood, encouraging others to break their silence, and guiding allies to create a world where no victim needs bravery to speak out.

Additionally, Patricia developed the L.A.B.O.R. Method, a 5-step program designed to empower parents to prevent up to 95% of potential child sexual abuse situations.

Patricia's links are below,

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_patricia_cardona/ 

Email: letstalk@thepatriciacardona.com

Below are my links

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

To support

Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay

Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

Social media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika

X: https://x.com/jeremyindika

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika

Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say links

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial

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(For example, a 15-year old is very different to a 9-year old)

But Dr. Kennath explained that this has nothing to do with strength or physical presence. It’s about a power dynamic and if someone gets aroused, or gets a thrill out of exploiting someone more vulnerable than them, then that is what they will do - it doesn’t matter what age they are.

Dr Kennath Widanaralalage is a Lecturer in Psychology at King's College London. He researches men's sexual violence and victimisation, focusing on understanding how men disclose, seek help, and engage with support services. His work also examines criminal justice processes in rape and sexual assault investigations.

Dr Kennath Widanaralalage links below,

Research papers 1: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=ASzEyVkAAAAJ&hl=en&oi=ao

Research papers 2: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/B-Kennath-Widanaralalage

Kings Cross profile: https://www.kcl.ac.uk/people/kennath-widanaralalage

LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/kennath-widanaralalage-phd-14468014a

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He’s a family man with a wife and two daughters, runs a successful business and looks like a normal guy, but he’s been talking to a 14-year old online and arranged to meet her for sex in his car - but when he got there, he was caught.

I’m bringing this story to you because I want those who think this would never happen to their daughter to understand that it really can - in fact, it can happen very easily.

I’ve reviewed the video of the sting on my latest podcast and you should see this man’s body language when he realises he’s been caught.

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I’ve explained everything on my latest podcast. 

This is worth your time. Put some priority on it please.

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What’s going on? Did the judge and the courts actually watch the videos? Probably not. 

Because if they did, they would have realised that anyone who is aroused by this content and acts on it, deserves to face the full force of the law - a prison sentence, probation and strict monitoring for the rest of their life. 

They are a danger to children when they walk free. And isn’t children’s safety not our priority?

But we have a problem here, because the prisons in this country are already full and we now know that only 2/10 people who are caught with such content go to prison - the rest walk free. 

And we haven’t even mentioned the fact that these images and videos are recordings of real children being molested/raped/abused/assaulted. Where are they all?

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What’s your opinion on trigger warnings?

Let me explain mine and see what you think (please remember, even if we disagree on this, we’re still on the same team). Let’s have a conversation about it. 

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I don’t know whether you know about this story, but in summary, there’s a Dutch Olympian, Steven van de Velde, who is a convicted child rapist and has been allowed to compete in the olympics - and there’s uproar about it.

But this woman doesn’t see it like that and has gone onto national TV to say that the 12-year old girl met him on her own freewill, so there’s no grooming, it’s not rape and essentially, she consented to it.

I don’t know whether she has a daughter herself, but I wonder if she has, whether she’d be saying the same if it happened to her?

There are MANY other worrying things in this interview.

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Credits

Director: Emma Lyddon

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She was 14.

My pages largely concentrates on children but let’s start talking about the different situations teenagers can find themselves in and how they deal with them being so young. 

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You’re never going to believe it. Listen to find out more.

Here's a link to the reel in question - https://www.instagram.com/p/C844pIFMbSn/

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I will be doing more of these so we can all get together in the live environment and chat.

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•⁠ ⁠NO MORE education on sexual harassment to be taught before ages 11 (even though these children spend their life online)

•⁠ ⁠NO MORE discussion on sex before the age of 13 (even though some will have already done it and/or be watching hours of it on pornography sites)

So, we’re now leaving young people to navigate these situations on their own, instead of educating and empowering them to make informed and safe decisions?

What is this madness?!

Links mentioned in the podcast:

1. The Conversation Article written Dr.Sophie King-Hill on how damaging the new draft will be if made statutory: https://theconversation.com/proposed-sex-education-guidance-in-england-goes-against-evidence-and-may-well-lead-to-harm-207248?

2. National Organization fo the Treatment of Sexual Abuse (NOTA) article by Dr.Sophie King-Hill and Professor Kieran McCartan on the dangers of the new draft guidance: https://www.notaprevention.co.uk/2024/05/16/relationships-sex-and-health-education-policy-for-schools-will-inhibit-preventative-and-early-intervention-work-for-child-sexual-abuse-and-harmful-sexual-behaviour/

3. The new draft RSHE Guidance and consultation (where you can contribute evidence): Rhttps://consult.education.gov.uk/rshe-team/review-of-the-rshe-statutory-guidance/

4. Porn access in children and young people: Growing up with pornography: https://www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk/blog/growing-up-with-pornography-advice-for-parents-and-schools/#:%7E:text=The%20CCo%20survey%20finds%3A,self%2Desteem%20as%20young%20adults.

5. Ofsted Report in sexual harassment in schools: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/review-of-sexual-abuse-in-schools-and-colleges

Dr. Sophie King-Hill bio and links

Sophie is an Associate Professor in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham. She specialises in sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people, sexual health, controversial issues and teenage parents. Sophie has an interest in policy implementation, transfer and success frameworks and evaluation strategies. Sophie leads a many projects that seek to understand what constitutes sexual behaviours – both online and offline – in young people.

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Professor Kieran McCartan bio and links

Bio: Professor Kieran McCartan is a professor of Criminology at the University of the West of England, Bristol. He specializes in the research and policy related to the prevention of sexual abuse and the treatment as well as risk management of people convicted of it. Professor McCartan is the deputy chair of NOTA, the chair of the board of trustees of Circles South West as well as a board member of the Risk Management Authority, Scotland. He advises the Council of Europe and the European Commission on policies and practices related to the prevention of child sexual abuse.

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I think people are forgetting what it used to be like, to be a child, and the puzzle I’m trying to solve is, how can I change that?

I’m developing a few ideas and I’ve revealed them on this to see what you think. 

My aim is to get people saying ‘ahh now I understand it’.

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Because I want everybody to remember, we are all on the same team here and to be fighting amongst ourselves is the least productive way forward.

And also, nothing ever got solved without a conversation to exchange ideas first. So let’s do that.

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•⁠ ⁠Fighting against criminals who withhold all information.

•⁠ ⁠Searching for evidence, sometimes from decades ago.

•⁠ ⁠Interviewing children whose memory is not always linear.

Can you imagine trying to do this job?

That is why I’ve brought Detective Chief Superintendent, Martin Maclean, who spent 30 years in roles such as Head of Child Abuse Investigation onto my podcast to help us understand more - because I know that we’re angry, but there are reasons why it’s the way it is.

To all the police officers that do this job, thank you.

Martin's bio

Detective Chief Superintendent Martin MacLean LLB completed many roles in his 30 years of policing including, Head of the Public Protection Unit, responsible for the investigation of recent and non-recent rape & serious sexual crime against children & adults and also, Head of the National Child Abuse Investigation Unit, responsible for tackling Online Child Sexual Abuse & Exploitation.

Useful links

Stop It Now Helpline

The Stop It Now helpline provides confidential advice to anyone with concerns about child sexual abuse, including anyone struggling with their own or a loved one’s sexual thoughts, feelings and behaviours towards children: https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/helpline/

Stop It Now! Get Help

This provides information and support for people who are concerned about their online viewing of sexual images of children or people who have not looked at sexual images of children, but have an urge to do so: https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/concerned-about-your-own-thoughts-or-behaviour/concerned-about-use-of-the-internet/self-help/understanding-the-behaviour/

Parents Protect

The Parents Protect website has information and advice for all adults on how to protect children from sexual abuse and exploitation: https://www.parentsprotect.co.uk/

Shore

Launched in 2023, Shore is a website designed especially for young people concerned about their own or someone else’s sexual thoughts and behaviour: https://shorespace.org.uk/

Below are my links

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1.⁠ ⁠On a tablet watching YouTube

2.⁠ ⁠Playing the Xbox on live

3.⁠ ⁠In a WhatsApp group

The answer is…we are not there.

So, if something pops up, like a message from someone suggesting something sexual, or a link that’s about something they like, but when you click, it goes to something else - maybe for something sexual - we are not there to intervene. 

And with thes online, being part of our culturespace being, we need to move with the times and figure out the best ways to handle this.

That’s why I’ve brought Richard Pomfrett onto my podcast, who speaks to parents, teenagers and children on this topic and has valuable advice to give us.

Richard Pomfrett information

Since 2013 Richard’s passion for his work as pushed him to continually evolve and shape ‘Stay Safe! Workshops’ to fit the needs of young people today. It is through these specialised and unique sessions, that they aim to educate as many young people as possible. Raising awareness and passing on vital skills and knowledge at key stages in their development and helping prevent them from becoming part of the future dire statistics.

To find Richard Pomfrett

Website: https://thestaysafeinitiative.org.uk

Twitter: https://twitter.com/StaySafeCIC

Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thestaysafeinitiative/

Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/thestaysafeinitiative/

LinkedIn : https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-pomfrett-230b63189/

My links

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Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com

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Thank you for doing this Nancy. We all appreciate it greatly.

To watch this on my YouTube channel - https://youtu.be/rQrcyrUPn_s

To subscribe to the Something to Say YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficial

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I’m caught in the middle here.

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Shooting them can only happen once the crime has been committed and by then we’re too late.

I’ve interviewed an organisation on my podcast who work on the internet to encourage these men to come forward to work with them and I think we can all agree, if one child is saved using their methods then that is job done.

They are seeing great results.

Christoffer Rahm’s Research Group is at the forefront of efforts to prevent violence, with a specific focus on addressing sexual violence against children. Specializing in clinical research, the group is dedicated to improving our understanding of pedophilia and developing evidence-based treatments. Their research seeks to establish effective, safe, tolerable, and scalable interventions both online and offline for individuals at risk of committing child sexual abuse.

Prevent It: https://www.iterapi.se/sites/preventit/

Project Bridge: https://www.iterapi.se/sites/bridge/

My links

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She is a source of inspiration and I feel honoured to review her story on my latest podcast.

If you would like to watch this on YouTube - https://youtu.be/36XJ8akXdFM?si=xhzUH8tMI_JTjdp5

Please support Soft White Underbelly YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SoftWhiteUnderbelly.

For original video: https://youtu.be/36XJ8akXdFM?si=60-ch1i3HiHg00er

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This episode comes with a visual on YouTube too, make sure you check that out here - https://youtu.be/3EVhUSYts0I

Please share this around to help raise awareness for the reality of this crime and help people protect the children in their own family.

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There are no laws against this, so no one is breaking any rules. 

The girls are over 18 and the directors say, the younger they can make them look, the better, because the men love it and the views are going through the roof, which means everyone’s making a lot of money and no one’s getting hurt, so what’s the problem? 

If you'd like to watch this podcast for the visuals, click here - https://youtu.be/C_enOcVeTTw

Link to the documentary - https://youtu.be/8d0l9G-KChM?si=fIj9nsAs1n4zSgDD

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I've interviewed Dr. Sophie King-Hill onto this podcast, who's a leading researcher on this topic to help us understand more.

Sophie's bio

Sophie is an Associate Professor in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham. She specialises in sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people, sexual health, controversial issues and teenage parents.

Profile: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/staff/profile.aspx?ReferenceId=170453

Twitter: https://x.com/DrSophieKH?s=20

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsophiekinghill/

Mapping tool: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/research/projects/2022/sibling-sexual-behaviour-mapping/index.aspx

Book: https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-031-34010-9

My links

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Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

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Something to Say links

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Credits

Director: Emma Lyddon

Kind To Mind - https://www.kindtomind.org

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Cinematographer: Chitaranjan Khuman

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Caroline speaks about the techniques they use with children as young as 3-years old, the challenges of doing a job like this and much more. 

To anyone that does this job. YOU ARE HEROES.

Brave futures website: https://bravefutures.org/

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We’ve now got 13-year old boys watching hours of extreme content, like girls being gagged so forcefully during oral that they can hardly breathe. And all of this before these boys have even kissed a girl in real life.

How is this changing their brains?

I’ve reviewed an article from The Guardian newspaper that tells of a rise in teenage sex offences where immoral, abusive and non-consensual behaviour is happening and the boys are putting it down to, ‘well, they do it in porn videos, so what’s the problem?’.

The Guardian article - https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/sep/26/pornography-driving-teens-child-abuse-material-charities-police

Lucy Faithful Foundation - https://www.lucyfaithfull.org.uk

As you can see from my platforms, I’m involved in many activities from speaking in schools, creating YouTube videos, releasing podcast episodes, running the Something to Say platforms and much more.

My aim is to create something for everyone. To have content of different styles – video, audio, written, imagery etc, so that however you like to get involved in this project, there is something for you.

Jeremy Indika links,

Website: https://jeremyindika.com

Podcast - https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/

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Something to Say links,

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To help me continue creating work like this, please do consider donating. It will help me cover the running costs of all of this work. Even if it is £1 or $1, it really does help. To donate please visit: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/

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Think about 5-years olds, 7-year olds etc, still so vulnerable, and I know this is uncomfortable, but if we don’t start unpacking the reality of this, we stand no chance. 

Please support this podcast by leaving a review on your podcast app. This has to be a team effort if we stand any chance of success.

For more information see website's below.

Jeremy Indika: https://jeremyindika.com/

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Confusing right? And we’re the adults here, now imagine what it’s like to be a teenager, with the added pressure of schools telling you one thing, the law saying something else and the reality of the situation being completely different from both of these.

Dr. Emily Setty talks about all of this in this podcast episode.

Emily's links

Twitter: https://twitter.com/emilysetty

Email: emily.setty@surrey.ac.uk

Contact: https://www.surrey.ac.uk/people/emily-setty

Guidance for educators document: https://drive.google.com/file/d/14K8VwMaleoV4jS4n-gtQLzttX8afXo4G/view

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YouTube version: https://youtu.be/bUt9cUQlJCQ?si=GRNgav9UduK_yRew

As you can see from my platforms, I’m involved in many activities from speaking in schools, creating YouTube videos, releasing podcast episodes, running the Something to Say platforms and much more.

My aim is to create something for everyone. To have content of different styles – video, audio, written, imagery etc, so that however you like to get involved in this project, there is something for you.

My two websites are below,

Jeremy Indika: https://jeremyindika.com/

Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com/

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And before anyone says ‘just kill em’, I’m not talking about our options AFTER the crime’s been committed, I’m talking about BEFORE. Can we reach that person when they’re a teenager, or even as soon as they start thinking about hurting a child for the first time.

And if you’re still saying ‘just kill em’, what are you actually suggesting here? That we go round holding a gun to everyone’s head asking if they think about children? 

The man that had my 8-year old penis in his mouth did this for the first time to somebody. Where was everyone before he got to that person? All shouting ‘kill em’ - that did absolutely NOTHING to help me, or any of his other victims. 

Take a listen to this podcast episode. You don’t have to agree with it. But as long as we can explore all avenues we can at least start moving towards protecting the children of today.

Dr. James Cantor info.

Website - http://www.jamescantor.org

Twitter - https://twitter.com/JamesCantorPhD

Bio - Dr. James Cantor is an internationally recognized sex researcher. As a psychologist and neuroscientist, Dr. Cantor is known for his research on the development of atypical sexualities, including the causes of sexual orientation, gender identity, and diagnoses motivating sexual offenses. Over his career, Dr. Cantor has served as Senior Scientist at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH), on the Faculty of Medicine of the University of Toronto, and as Editor-in-Chief of the peer-reviewed journal Sexual Abuse. Dr. Cantor is no stranger to controversial topics and the science behind them: CBC produced a full-length documentary about his research, and interviews with him have appeared on BBC, CNN, and The New York Times. He and his work are routinely cited in legal proceedings in court cases throughout Canada and the U.S.

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They’re asking why nobody answers their calls for help before it happens, why no therapist, no counsellor will work with them, leaving them to their own devices where offending becomes much more likely. 

How are you feeling as you read this? 

Whatever your emotions are, I urge you to go check out my new podcast episode where I review a documentary that questions, if as a society, we are serious about the safety of children, why the hell are we so focused on punishment? 

By that point it’s too late, the crime has already happened, where we we in all the stages that led up to it, working towards prevention.

This documentary is going to blow your mind. I still can’t stop thinking about it. It challenged me in so many ways. 

Original documentary: https://vimeo.com/181331200/23d324a611

My YouTube review: https://youtu.be/HBN82vSJFAw

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I go through his work in my new podcast episode. Whether you disagree or not with his approach, check out what he’s got to say.

To see more of my work - https://jeremyindika.com/

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Thank you to Paper Sky Films for making this vision a reality. To see more of their work - www.paperskyfilms.com

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I hope you are finding the videos on my channel engaging. To follow more of my work, see link https://jeremyindika.com

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But here's something to think about: imagine a 7-year-old named Liam and his cousin. They came up with a game that wasn't appropriate, and they kept it a secret from the grown-ups for years. This short story makes us wonder about what children may be exposed to without us knowing and how it can affect them as they grow up.

Take a moment to listen to this story. It's a quick one, but it brings up some important aspects about our role as adults in understanding what kids experience behind our backs. It can impact not just their behaviour but also their state of mind.

Now, we'd love to hear your thoughts! Let's start a conversation and share our ideas. Come and join us!

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For original video see Soft White Underbelly on YouTube.

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I’ve now learnt how that attitude leaves a teenager open. Open to manipulation by adults who want to take advantage of them, especially online.

In my new podcast episode, I review a video from author Gavin de Becker, who explains a teenagers nature in more detail, why this is leaving them exposed and what we can do to help them.

To watch the original video, click here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHoRiv8tdtM&t=0s

To find Gavin De Becker, click here - https://gdba.com

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Original videos

A Tibetan's Perspective - https://youtu.be/bT0qey5Ts78

Fauzia Lala - https://youtu.be/cK1DEKHA4hA

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Beth Hoel spent 25-years working with prisoners who had served their sentence and were now released back into the community. She explains some of the things she learnt along the way. 

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Beth's links and bio,

Website: www.bhgconsultinggroup.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@bethandmissytalk...8357

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bhgconsultinggroup/

Beth Hoel spent nearly 25 years with the Maricopa County Adult Probation Department in Phoenix, Arizona. While working with the probation department, Beth spent the vast majority of that time supervising sexual offenders. Throughout her career, Beth became an expert in the field while honing her skills at assessing risk, identifying an offender’s driver and focusing on rebuilding the entire person. Instead of focusing on just the offence and the conditions of supervision, Beth developed a holistic and collaborative approach to supervision. Today, Beth utilises those same skills as an objective third-party without the constraints of governmental red tape.

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