If you or someone you know has left an abusive relationship, this episode offers insight, validation, and strategies to reclaim safety and peace — even when it feels like the abuser hasn’t let go.

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Mae shares her journey of leaving, only to realize that freedom doesn’t always mean safety. Together, we dive into the ways abusers continue to exert control —

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In this powerful episode of Through the Eyes of Survivors, host Tara Woodlee, President & CEO of Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence, is joined by guest Shannon Brown for an honest and deeply reflective conversation about childhood trauma, survival mode, and the tools survivors carry into adulthood.

Together, they explore how experiences of early trauma shape our nervous systems, behaviors, and coping mechanisms—and how skills like hyper-vigilance, adaptability, emotional awareness, and resilience, once necessary for survival, can be intentionally reframed and used to support healing and growth.

This episode doesn’t minimize the pain of trauma or glorify survival—it honors it. It’s about recognizing how we adapted, understanding why those tools exist, and learning how to move from surviving to living with purpose and choice.

A must-listen for survivors who are unpacking their past, reclaiming their strength, and learning to say: we were never broken—we adapted.

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Through her story, we explore how abuse can occur across backgrounds, careers, and levels of education, and why strength, intelligence, and success do not make someone immune. Fenella shares insight into the subtle dynamics of control and manipulation, the silence often shaped by shame and judgment, and what it truly means to reclaim your life after abuse.

This episode is a conversation about resilience, courage, and breaking stereotypes—offering validation to survivors who may feel unseen and education for those seeking to better understand the realities of domestic violence.

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Deb shares insight into how coercive control can quietly take hold in relationships—often without visible bruises—yet leave deep emotional, psychological, and lasting impacts. Together, Tara and Deb discuss the warning signs, the manipulation tactics often used, and why understanding coercive control is critical to supporting survivors and preventing further harm.

This episode offers education, validation, and awareness for survivors, loved ones, and advocates alike, shedding light on a form of abuse that is frequently misunderstood or overlooked.

Listener discretion advised. This episode discusses themes related to domestic violence and abuse.

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Forgiveness is often misunderstood—especially for survivors of domestic violence. In this special episode, Tara sits down with Lauryn to unpack what forgiveness truly means, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and how survivors can navigate self-forgiveness, family forgiveness, and faith-based pressures.

💛 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

How forgiveness can be freeing without reopening doors to harm

Why self-forgiveness is one of the hardest steps in healing

Navigating forgiveness when family members failed you

Spiritual perspectives: breaking free from harmful misconceptions

Lauryn’s personal journey of forgiveness and healing

What forgiveness is NOT, and why it’s always your choice

This conversation is gentle, empowering, and packed with guidance for anyone walking the path of healing.

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Through laughter, tears, and memories, they reflect on the powerful lessons hidden within their mother’s words — lessons about kindness, courage, and hope. As they work to bring her unfinished story to life, Molly and Jessie honor not only her creativity but also her enduring spirit.

Join us as we explore how love, family, and storytelling can keep a legacy alive long after loss — and how even the words left behind can continue to heal.

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Mary Beth opens up about her personal journey of resilience, the communities that supported her—like LifeRing Secular Recovery and She Recovers Foundation—and the hope she shares through her book. This is a conversation about strength, choice, and the power of connection for survivors of domestic violence. 🌿

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Corina opens up about her role as a host mother in Vancouver, where she supported survivors of sex trafficking in a safe house and walked alongside them in their process of healing. 🏠✨

Together, Lisettey and Corina shine a light on the resilience of survivors and the power of creating safe spaces for recovery. Their stories remind us that breaking the silence leads to hope, healing, and change.

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Together, they dive into the chilling patterns of batterers, the justice system’s failures, and a groundbreaking model that could change how we assess danger and protect survivors.

This raw and eye-opening conversation is a must-listen for anyone ready to confront the truth about domestic violence—and what it takes to stop it.

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Together, they explore how a fully online, trauma-informed, and culturally responsive program can interrupt cycles of abuse, promote empathy, and foster long-term behavioral change. From real-time video group sessions to guided reflections and practical application, Streets2Schools is proving that accountability and transformation are possible—even in a virtual format.

This episode offers an inside look at how true prevention begins with education, support, and the courage to change. Whether you're a survivor, advocate, or simply passionate about breaking the cycle of violence—this conversation is one you won’t want to miss.

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In this powerful episode of Through the Eyes of Survivors, BTSADV’s CEO Tara Woodlee sits down with our Vice Chair Midori Davidson to shine a light on one of the least talked about—but most damaging—forms of abuse: financial control.

From being denied access to bank accounts to having every purchase questioned, financial abuse traps countless survivors in silence. Midori and Tara open up about real-life stories, red flags to watch for, and how survivors can begin reclaiming their independence.

💸 This is the abuse that doesn’t leave bruises—but it leaves deep scars.

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In this powerful episode of Through the Eyes of Survivors, we sit down with an author and survivor BB Gabriel who shares how she transformed her trauma into healing—one word at a time. After escaping her abuser, she faced relentless triggers that left her feeling trapped in her own mind. But through trauma-informed education and the courageous act of writing her story, she found a path forward.

Listen as she reveals how journaling her experiences and writing letters to her younger self helped her process years of pain, reclaim her identity, and ultimately become the person her younger self needed. Her journey is one of heartbreak, resilience, and radical self-love.

If you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to survive, rebuild, and rise—this is the episode you don’t want to miss.

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On this Episode of Through Eyes of Survivors: 

Host: Tara Woodlee, President & CEO of Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence

Guest: Lauren Hill, Board Secretary of BTSADV

In this powerful episode, Tara Woodlee sits down with Lauren Hill to discuss the real story behind Denim Day and the ongoing battle against victim blaming. Together, they unpack how myths like "What were you wearing?" continue to shape harmful narratives around sexual violence and domestic abuse.

Tara and Lauren explore the deeply rooted societal issues that blame survivors instead of holding abusers accountable — and share how we can all be part of changing the conversation.

Join us for a raw, eye-opening conversation that challenges stereotypes, empowers survivors, and calls listeners to action.

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Margaret’s journey is one of unimaginable pain, but also of strength and determination to move forward and create meaning in the aftermath of tragedy. Her voice brings light to the often-silenced stories of parents who endure the unthinkable—and her message is one of hope and resilience.

📌 In This Episode, Margaret Shares:

- The heartbreaking story of losing her child to domestic violence.  

- How she found the strength to keep going and begin healing.  

- The ways she honors her child's memory and advocates for other families impacted by domestic violence.  

- Her message to other bereaved parents walking a similar path.  

This episode is a moving reminder of the lasting impact of domestic violence and the resilience of the human spirit. It’s a conversation full of compassion, connection, and courage.

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Title: Murder Plots, Prison Deaths & Legal Loopholes: The Dark Truth Behind DV

In this gripping and uncensored live episode, hosts Tara Woodlee (President of BTSADV), Amanda Johnson (Director of Operations & Podcast Producer), and volunteer Mia Caicedo expose the dark and often overlooked realities of domestic violence—and how the justice system continues to fail survivors.

We confront three haunting stories that demand national attention:

🔸 The attempted murder of Arielle König, pushed off a Hawaiian hiking trail by her abusive husband.

🔸 The prison conjugal visit murders of Tania Thomas and Stephanie Dowells, both strangled by their incarcerated partners.

🔸 A new Georgia law that could rewrite the future for criminalized survivors who acted in self-defense.

This episode is not just about the facts—it’s about the faces, the lives, and the loopholes that have led to tragedy and the urgent need for reform.

💥 Raw. Real. Unfiltered.

🎧 In this episode, we dive into:

• How the system continues to endanger women
• The growing movement for legislative change
• The voices of those we’ve lost—and those still fighting

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We invite you to reflect, comment, and advocate. Your voice can help push for a justice system that protects—not punishes—survivors.

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In this episode of Through the Eyes of Survivors, we are joined by Ly Marlow, an advocate for domestic violence awareness and founder of Saving Promise. Together, we dive deep into the importance of recognizing healthy relationships and how they serve as a foundation for well-being. Ly shares her personal experiences and insights, as well as resources available to help individuals identify and cultivate healthy relationships in their own lives.

We also discuss the Only 11 Minutes campaign, which aims to raise awareness about the signs of domestic violence and the importance of intervention. This powerful initiative emphasizes that it only takes 11 minutes to save a life—so every moment counts when it comes to recognizing and addressing unhealthy relationship dynamics.

For those looking to evaluate what a healthy relationship looks like, we reference the What Healthy Looks Like Quiz—an essential tool for anyone seeking guidance on relationship wellness.

Check out the Saving Promise website to learn more about their mission and the work they’re doing to prevent domestic violence.

Tune in for this important conversation and be empowered with the knowledge to recognize and build healthy relationships.

Let me know if this works for you!

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Torey also discusses her work with ARISE, formerly known as Summit Advocates, and how the organization is dedicated to supporting survivors and promoting awareness. We’re excited to announce the new name and website, which will go live on October 28th. ARISE is a beacon of hope for those looking for resources and support in their journey toward healing.

Torey also talks about her book, No Big Deal: The Advocate for Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors, and the importance of creating a safe space for survivors to share their stories.

In addition, we touch on the holistic approach to healing, as Torey is also the founder of Homeopathy1st, where survivors can explore alternative modalities to support their emotional and physical recovery.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating trauma, healing, or looking to empower survivors. Tune in to hear Torey’s inspiring story of resilience and the work she’s doing to make a difference.

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In this special episode of Through the Eyes of Survivors, our host and CEO Tara Woodlee, along with her husband Jim Woodlee, are joined by Volunteer Director Amanda Johnson and her husband Gary Johnson for an open and heartfelt conversation about love after abuse. Together, they share their personal journeys of healing, rebuilding trust, and finding love after surviving traumatic relationships. Tune in as they explore the challenges, triumphs, and lessons learned along the way, offering hope and inspiration to those who are navigating their own paths to love and healing. This episode is a powerful reminder that while the scars of abuse can last, love, support, and resilience can lead to brighter days.

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Through personal stories and real-life experiences, Crystal and Amanda shed light on the decisions survivors must make to protect themselves and their children. This episode aims to offer understanding, empowerment, and resources for survivors, allies, and anyone looking to understand the ongoing journey of healing and parenting post-abuse.

Don’t miss this powerful discussion, and remember to subscribe and follow BTSADV on social media for more survivor stories and resources.

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Join the movement to rewrite the narrative around abuse. If you or someone you know is in an abusive situation, know that help is available. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 for confidential support. For additional resources, visit breakthesilencedv.org or call the BTSADV support line at 1-855-287-1777.

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In this episode, Tara welcomes volunteer and survivor Danyelle Bragewell, who is part of BTSADV's Social Media Engagement Team and Content Team. Join the discussion as Danyelle shares:

👶 Her childhood and family dynamics

🧑‍⚕️ Her early role as a caregiver for her parent

😔 The impact of her father's abusive behavior on her ability to care for her mother during her illness

This episode offers a poignant glimpse into the resilience and strength of survivors, highlighting the difficult paths they navigate.

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Disclaimer: This video discusses sensitive topics related to domestic violence. Viewer discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please contact emergency services or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

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In this episode, we explore common signs of toxicity in teen relationships, including isolation, jealousy, emotional manipulation, and the dynamics of dating older men due to toxic relationships with fathers. Mia sheds light on the long-term consequences individuals may carry into adulthood and offers guidance on early warning signs for parents, friends, and teenagers themselves.

Together, let's break the silence and empower individuals to escape abusive relationships. Tune in to this episode and be part of the movement to create a safer, healthier future for all. Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share this podcast to spread awareness and support our mission.

For additional resources and support, visit our website at breakthesilencedv.org. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 for confidential assistance.

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