She talks all about life as a dominatrix and how her relationship works and so much more, so delve into the work of being a dominatrix

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Lewis decided that he would take girls on dates, not your average dates though, these were the girls idea and Lewis drove all over the UK to take part in these dates. Then he decided he would take a girl from Tiktok on a date to lapland for christmas and then a big valentines date to Paris.

Did he find love? what happened in Paris? Lots of different girls and one man, what could go wrong?

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we decipher toxic advice and give our opinions on what it we should do instead

so sit back, relax and be careful what you consume in life because it can start to make you like that, that's we do it for you

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It’s OKAY is a message, a message to display that it’s Okay to feel and be whoever you are without any form of discrimination- this message is something that we want to convey through our empowering, statement designs.

Hi, I’m Aaron - the man that has founded Its Okay.

It’s Okay has been founded as an inspiring awareness clothing brand in 2021, but the foundations of the brand solidified back in 2019 after I was hit with a major bout of depression and had a very close brush with suicide.

Personally, I have always struggled with anxiety and depression for most of my adult life, but in February of that year things became too much.

One of the biggest things looking back now, was being unable to find the right kind support in terms of family, friends and colleagues.

Most people that I had initially tried to talk to would always responded with the same responses, ‘Cheer up’ or ‘Just be happy’ this made me feel so alone and it just made me feel that I had no one to talk to, which is the main reason why I made a decision to end it all.

Luckily for me I received a phone call from my son moments prior to me carrying out my plan. He was for all intention purposes my saviour! 

From here I quickly realised I was not alone, I had just chosen the wrong people to confide in. I found myself an amazing therapist and identified some amazing family/friends who supported me, listened, researched, and did not judge. These are the people I cant thank enough for helping me become the man I am today.. Especially my son Kaileb.

Website

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We speak about the amount of scams that happened with dating apps and lots more

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People are screen recording dating profiles (without consent) all their information, Age, Name, Location, Social media handles and more. then putting them on TikTok and judging people.

Email Tinder

Email Bumble

Email Hinge

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Izzie is A speaker, content creator, and trained NLP practitioner, Izzie has a mission to inspire others to reconnect with their authentic self and consequently help them to lead a life of freedom, unaffected by external circumstances.

She is the founder of the ‘Neutrality Mentality’ which has led to the relentlessly positive personality she exudes.

Life is short. How short? We’ll never know.

So let’s live a life that focuses on the very best of every situation.

Through the writing of her first book and retreats, workshops, courses, and social media, Izzie’s principal goal is to inspire others to achieve this positive change too.

You can follow Izzie at www.Izziemiller.com or Instagram or Tiktok

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This week they talk about Valentines day and what to do if you're single, what they have been upto over the break and what is coming up on season 3 of Unhinged and bumbled up.

So sit back, relax and lets get this episode started

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What are your thoughts? did you agree? anything you want to add?

then let us know

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As patreon members you get access to all the extras

• More questions and answers regarding the book
• Jane's Dating disasters
• The opening line awards
• The perfect profile
• Best place to date in Glasgow

So sit back relax and enjoy the extra content

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on this weeks episode we will be talking all things Long distance relationships

our advice how they can work and so much more

so enjoy and we look forward to seeing you next year for season 3

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Phil and Jane have Phil's Mum on the podcast.

She is a hypnotherapist that deals in relationships, codependency, weight loss and much more.

Hear Phil squirm as his mum reveals her dating disasters

we talk about the hypnotherapy process and how things that occured in childhood can lead to subconscious traits you have today.

https://www.instagram.com/reflectbackhypnotherapy

reflectbackhypnotherapy@gmail.com

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Long before the apps we met people outside... we have just changed the norm to be dating apps

Listen to this episode to find out our take on where to meet people offline, the amazing things out there and how to try something new.

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Phil has been deep diving, and found some interesting information.

The amount the dating app industry is worth

how they make money

his thoughts on whether dating apps work or not

Jane has a game for Phil to guess what these dating apps specialise in

We both have found people in the past on dating apps but not sure whether they have changed so much that it has ruined the experience

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we will talk about manifesting

how to deal with a break up

being a half and attracting a whole

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We talk about breaking up with your ex and how your brain works, looking at the actual science

We answer your questions that you asked us on instagram

So much information that will absolutely change your world when it comes to dating

Abby can be found at

https://abbymedcalf.com/

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Listen to their own person experiences

How quickly before the got back on the apps

Did they break up or were they the ones who were broken up with

Phil's little rant

Celebrity break ups

Does the media play a part in break ups?

This and so much more

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Claira tells us all about her around the UK in 80 dates, see her Youtube for more

About her decision to pack up her life and travel around North, Central and south America

Losing her mum and sister to cancer and her decision to get a double mastectomy

We have a special guest segment regarding a daterview in honour of Claira's speed dating

and so much more

To find out more about Claira you can find her on

Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdJML98UTDp_ecMuI3sPkyg

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/missclairahermet/

or you can listen to her on BBC radio london

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Do you know your S&M from your M&S?

What is BDSM?

Find out if Phil and/or Jane have any kinks or fetishes

Phil gets tested on his knowledge of kinks and fetishes by Jane

We talk about ways of exploring new kinks

Why Kink or Fetish shaming is bad

What our instagram followers wanted to know about kinks and fetishes

What percentage of them had kinks or fetishes

Mentions in the show

Instagram - Subinthecity

Instagram - Tailor matched

Instagram - theauthenticman

Munch - places to explore Kinks

More about Refuge -

Refuge are the charity Phil and Jane have decided to support this year, giving 50% of profits from their merchandise to them.

Freephone 24-Hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247

or visit www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk (access live chat Mon-Fri 3-10pm)

Our Socials

Phil instagram

Jane Instagram

Website

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It's starting to get cold and cuffing season is upon us, there will be short term relationships, lots of cuddling and being cuffed together for the coldest season of them all... but before all of that, sit back, relax and enjoy.

Learn about where cuffing season comes from

what to expect from it

how to get around the awkwardness

when does it all end?

then if you want another episode we have our friends with benefits episode on patreon

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Asa Baav is the founder of Tailor Matched, a matchmaking agency for the wild at heart and the nationwide thought leader in sexual and romantic compatibility. 

As a matchmaker, coach, and educator she is on a mission to help busy professionals create deeply satisfying romantic relationships, inside and outside the bedroom - no matter where they are on their dating and relationship journey. 

We talk about Kinks, Intimacy, finding ourselves, matchmaking with Tailor Matched, Jane vs Phil Challenge, Dating disasters, opening line awards.

If you are after a little bit more, then head over to our patreon where we give you all the extra swipe juicy bits for the cost of a cup of coffee per month

Patreon

Guest info

@tailormatched

@coachwithasa

Tailor Matched Website

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We thought since it was coming to the end of the free month of patreon, we would give you a taste of what extras you can find on Patreon.

Each week we offer a little bit more into the world of dating, This week we have Jason Birdie, who is trying to spread his story about being in a narcissistic relationship and helping others who are in similar situations.

Extra swipe is full of extra questions, extra segments and is made just for those who can't get enough of the podcast and need a little bit more in their lives.

Guest Info

Instagram - jaybirdieyt

Twitch - JayB1rdie

Youtube - IsItJustMe

To join our patreon, click here

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Jason went through an narcissistic relationship, now he tells everyone his story.

• The signs of a narcissist
• How he got out of the relationship
• The support he received from friends and family
• That anyone can end up in a narcissistic relationship regardless of gender or sexuality

Jason also tests Phil and Jane's knowledge around LBGTQIA and gives them some sexualities and they have to try and get the definition correct. It is a learning experience for everyone and shows there is a lot out there we still need to educate ourselves on.

Guest Info

Instagram - jaybirdieyt

Twitch - JayB1rdie

Youtube - IsItJustMe

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Phil and Jane talk about their experiences when it comes to the age gap

Does an age gap matter?

What's the biggest age gap they've had?

A special celebrity segment

The opening line awards.

and a secret that Phil has kept to himself for all these years.... sorry mum

If you want to drop us a dating disaster, give us feedback or just get in touch then -

Our Info

Instagram - Unhinged and bumbled up or swipe forever after

Website - www.uabu.co.uk

Email - unhinged.and.bumbledup@gmail.com

Patreon - Unhinged and bumbled up

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Saskia is the founder and creative director of Hey Saturday! A company for all your dating profile picture needs.

• We find out what makes a perfect photo
• Why photos are so important
• The start of the competition between Phil and Jane, where Saskia has set them a challenge
• The best place to date
• The opening line awards and much more

Remember for more segments and extra content, join our patreon which is free for September.

Saskia is also offering a 10% discount for photoshoots to any listener of the show just drop her an email

Guest Info

Hey Saturday Instagram

Website

Email - Saskia@heysaturday.co

Our Info

Instagram - Unhinged and bumbled up or swipe forever after

Website - www.uabu.co.uk

Email - unhinged.and.bumbledup@gmail.com

Patreon - Unhinged and bumbled up

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After a long break, the podcast you've all missed is back, there are a few changes.

So what should you expect from the Unhinged and Bumbled up Podcast season 2?

• Meet Jane, The new co-host and queen of the dating disasters
• Getting to know Jane, who is the author of 30 reasons to swipe left
• The Weird World of Dating
• Into the Ick of It
• Jane's Game

If this episode has left you wanting more, we have got you

We have also started a Patreon where you can get early access and the extra swipe content, click here to join

To follow Jane on Instagram, click here and to order 30 reasons to swipe left click here

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• Introducing Jane Fulton our new Co-host.
• Lots of new segments
• A sneak peek into some of the guests for season 2

So sit back, relax and enjoy listening

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