We Have No Shame

Ep 41 - Turning 40 (and a certain birthday party)

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 04:49:26 GMT

We recap Ash's birthday, while Anderson suspects everyone who claims they're 'listeners'.

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Ep 40 - Rejection (hello old friend)

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 22:00:00 GMT

This one is short, because Ash was starving and couldn't concentrate.

Go read Rejection by Tony Tulathimutte, and find out if Anderson spiraled when compared to one of the book's characters (spoiler: he does).

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Ep 39 - Ramble (so business as usual)

Mon, 16 Mar 2026 00:55:48 GMT

We catch up, realise we have done nothing meaningful with our lives, and spiral out of control 🌀

We talk about prisons (hot), existential dread (not so hot), and cupcakes (fml).

If you have any ideas for our next episode, DM us on IG @wehavenoshame

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Ep 38 - Are You Smarter Than Us (the answer really should be yes)

Thu, 05 Feb 2026 00:53:37 GMT

We test out our general knowledge and realise we are simply two dumb asses with a mic and a dream.

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Ep 37 - Heated Rivalry (wyctmctsdgtrctmhwchawoetispwbca💖✨t✨💖)

Thu, 29 Jan 2026 05:25:21 GMT

We talk about nothing BUT Heated Rivalry. So if you're bored by it, eat shit and die.

Also, apologies in advance for the audio quality, it's giving Cell Block Tango with the amount of pops and squish sounds...Stella' still finding her groove.

We have a new IG account! @wehavenoshame

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Ep 36 - Horror (die die die)

Wed, 21 Jan 2026 05:57:02 GMT

What was meant to be an episode on Heated Rivalry quickly devolved into cancer talk, horror films and death.

So, business as usual.

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Ep 35.5 - 2025 Recap (part 2)

Mon, 12 Jan 2026 05:24:20 GMT

Anderson tries to do better (fails) while Ash has a terrible story regarding Doritos (sponsor us!)

Our IG got deleted because Anderson got scammed, but we will be back with one...someday.

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Ep 35 - 2025 Recap (part 1)

Wed, 31 Dec 2025 06:14:04 GMT

Did you miss us 😘?

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Introducing - YAS GAWDS

Thu, 25 Jul 2024 23:00:23 GMT

Introducing - YAS GAWDS!

Where Anderson retells a myth, legend and folklore through the context of a queer and contemporary lense for Ashley, who does not give a fuck.

That's it. That's the plot. Enjoy!

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Ep 34 - What Are We Doing With Our Lives (nothing, apparently)

Mon, 22 Jul 2024 00:41:26 GMT

Sorry the episode is late this week. Anderson and Ash talk about how time is running out for all of us. Anderson regrets doing journalism as a degree, while Ash realises he should have been a funeral director.

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Ep 33 - Food & Fantasy (never the two shall mix)

Fri, 12 Jul 2024 00:56:45 GMT

This week we talk about our best and worst (and it's always the latter) dining experiences, with Ash reminiscing on his glorious foodie journey to Italy 🤢. Meanwhile, Anderson joins a book club and fails to convince people to read anything in the 'Cozy Fantasy' genre.

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Ep 32 - Squid Games & Survivor (we would absolutely die)

Thu, 04 Jul 2024 22:00:34 GMT

We discuss if we would survive the Squid Games (we wouldn't) and how well we would do in Survivor (not well).

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Ep 31- Everything is Expensive, Going Through Anderson's Phone, Old Housemates

Thu, 27 Jun 2024 23:00:09 GMT

Anderson helps a friend move this week and complains about Sydney prices (again). Meanwhile, Ash goes through Anderson's phone and is both appalled and riveted by what he finds (it's mostly dick pics, calm down). We also talk about our past shared house experiences and some of our more colourful housemates.

TRIGGER WARNING: We talk about sexual assault and violence from 43:25 - 50:00.

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Ep 30 - LA LA Land, Psychic Prophesies, USA! USA!

Thu, 20 Jun 2024 23:00:19 GMT

Anderson is back from LA, and tells the tale of surviving an evangelical conservative wedding. Meanwhile, Ash FINALLY gets his psychic reading and thinks everything is coming us Ashley (whatever that means).

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Ep 29 - American Health System, Disney Gays

Fri, 31 May 2024 01:34:16 GMT

Anderson is heading to LA for his evangelical cousin's wedding, which will be a RIDE. There (might) be a short break until Anderson returns, but in the meantime, listen to us talk about all things Disney: which character we would be, which is the most problematic, and obviously which we rather fuck.

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Ep 28 - Gay Retirement Village (we are tired and wanna rest our bones)

Fri, 24 May 2024 18:44:24 GMT

This week we talk about Anderson's actual Roman Empire: to start a gay/queer retirement village (it was originally Ash's idea).

As usual, we spend half an hour thinking about the name and zero minutes on the logistics. Let's make it happen!

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Ep 27 - Lost Episodes, Colonoscopy, Knocked Out, Pet Names

Fri, 17 May 2024 01:34:07 GMT

We almost didn't make it this week - we had a blackout and lost two hours of recording... plus, Anderson just came out of a colonoscopy (and general anaesthetic) to do this emergency recording.

So. Brace yourselves for a lot of shit talk.

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Ep 26 - You're (Not) Special, I'm An Actor Darling, How Much Do You Cost?

Fri, 10 May 2024 01:03:51 GMT

This week we talk about a freaky fortune-teller story, what it means to be an ACTOR, why no one is unique or special, and how much we cost for a root. Ash apparently will have sex with anyone for a (low) banknote, while Anderson is suddenly Miss Prude McPrudish about being paid for sex (lies).

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Ep 25.5 - More Racism, Cancel Us, Sexism Sucks

Fri, 03 May 2024 00:20:58 GMT

Continuing from last week's episode of 'Subway Hot Takes', we talk about (Anderson) being a little bit racist, debate whether cancel culture is over, and the attack on women in recent news. The world still sucks.

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Ep 25 - Racist Pug, R.I.P Santana, Stoned And Scared, Humanity Is The Worst

Fri, 26 Apr 2024 00:18:57 GMT

Anderson's pug likes to chase down POC while Ash declares his undying love for Queen B (imagine). We talk about our Roman Empires, why Seth Green gets a random mention, and the death of humanity (we never stop talking about the death of humanity).

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Ep 24 - Black Clouds, You're Not Asian Enough, Never Growing Up

Thu, 18 Apr 2024 22:00:23 GMT

You'll never look at black sesame seeds again in the same way 🪳

We talk about all the black clouds that plague us (let's be real, just Anderson), white people being racially audacious, familial money duties, and the art of never growing up.

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Ep 23 - Marina Abramovic, Public Meltdowns, You're Fired!

Thu, 11 Apr 2024 22:00:01 GMT

Who needs an episode topic? We talk about the performance artist queen Marina Abramovic, public meltdowns (which is our favourite), and that time Anderson fainted from being let go. Also, we bring up that person who got hired by accident - again. LOVE HER.

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Ep 22 - Porn (we never make smart choices, do we?)

Thu, 28 Mar 2024 21:00:50 GMT

We hit a low this week with all our filth talk on porn. Ash finds out what makes Anderson get all hot and bothered (and as usual, it's deplorable), and for the first time, Anderson gets grossed by Ash.

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Ep 21.5 - We Have Extra Shame (we love complaining)

Thu, 21 Mar 2024 21:48:30 GMT

Some extra snippets of our Pet Peeves episodes... we really just love to complain, don't we?

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Ep 21 - Pet Peeves (everything annoys Ash...EVERYTHING)

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 23:05:05 GMT

SORRY FOR THE JANKY-ASS AUDIO QUALITY ON ANDERSON'S MIC - major fuck up on his end!

This week we talk about our pet peeves - and yes, we hate everything, everywhere all at once. We discover that Ash's biggest pet peeve is Anderson (no surprise there), while Anderson hates anything to do with the food industry... and white boy music.

PS: thanks to Megan Wedge for working on making this recording at least audible - that took a miracle!

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Ep 20 - Jealousy (we are sooooo happy for you 🤢)

Thu, 07 Mar 2024 23:32:19 GMT

We talk about jealousy and compersion (such a foreign concept that it comes up as a typo every time).

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Ep 19.5 - We Have Extra Shame (Catfishing the hubby)

Thu, 29 Feb 2024 21:30:17 GMT

We tried and utterly failed at 'Would We Rather' this week (on brand), so here's our new title for our bonus episodes: We Have Extra Shame!

We talk about a friend of Ashley's *cough cough* who catfished their fianceé during their beachside resort holiday. Living the dream!

If you have any suggestions for our 'We Have Extra Shame' episodes, share them with us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com. or DM us on instagram @whnspod.

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Ep 19 - Catfish (and a lil' baby $75K scam)

Thu, 22 Feb 2024 21:30:45 GMT

This week is about catfishing, scams and introducing our alter-egos: Miranda and Kristie.

Anderson shares his deep-seated trauma of being catfished across two countries while Ash laughs at his pain and misfortune. Plus, we talk about a scam so devious and elaborate, that we kinda wish we were behind it.

If our emotional damage made you holler, follow us on our instagram @whnspod.

And if you want to share your catfishing or scam stories, send it to us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com.

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Ep 18.5 - Would We Rather (red flags, gotta catch ’em all)

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 21:30:54 GMT

Joining us for this week's 'Would We Rather: Red Flags' is an extra-special (and so far, only) guest, Cath Ryan!

We find out Ash would rather have someone kick his dog than date someone with Anderson's mid-20's hygiene, while Cath thinks too much therapy is a red flag (jokes...but kinda not) and Anderson very badly wants to find love with a Saudi billionaire and be Real Housewife of Riyadh.

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Ep 18 - Red Flags (feat. our FIRST EVER guest, Cath Ryan!)

Thu, 08 Feb 2024 21:30:49 GMT

This week we are graced/blessed/anointed by the First Lady of Potts Points, Cath Ryan!

We talk about all the red flags we have encountered (and boy, are there many). We learn that Anderson has a weakness for meth-dens, Cath cannot stop collecting red flags like it's an egg hunt on Easter, and Ash finally prepped for this week's topic (sort of).

This is a LONG episode, so strap in/on.

If our constant stream of bad choices in men didn't make you lose hope in humanity, follow us on our instagram @whnspod.

And if you want to share your own red flags stories, send it to us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com.

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Ep 17.5 - Would We Rather (would we survive a real disaster? Probs not)

Thu, 01 Feb 2024 21:30:45 GMT

This week's 'Would We Rather' is all about disasters.

We discover Anderson has a bleeding heart and would stay behind to help strangers (and thus never survive a disaster), while Ash would be a lone survivor in any scenario, even if it's a mild traffic jam.

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Ep 17 - Disasters (so... not a great start to 2024)

Thu, 25 Jan 2024 21:30:30 GMT

Our first recording for 2024 took us 1½ hours to set up the audio equipment... fun! Fittingly, we talk about all things disasters, and discover why Disneyland is traumatising to Ash while Anderson finally talks about cupcakes.

If our hour-long emotional vomit didn't make you disassociate, follow us on our instagram @whnspod.

And if you want to share your own disaster stories, send it to us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com.

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Ep 16.5 - Would We Rather (fame cock-monster)

Thu, 18 Jan 2024 21:30:40 GMT

Back by popular demand (pfft 🙄), we are bringing back 'Would We Rather', this time the fame edition.

We discover all Anderson ever craves is a big ole 🍆, while Ash just wants 💰💰💰 in any given situation.

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Ep 16 - Fame (something we will NEVER experience)

Thu, 11 Jan 2024 21:00:47 GMT

We want to be famous so badly, we would kill to be on the D-List.

And if you have any highly embarrassing celebrity encounters, we will (not) pay you to tell us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com.

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Ep 15.5 - Would We Rather (die, bitch, die)

Fri, 05 Jan 2024 02:07:14 GMT

Happy New Year sluts!

Anderson is manically trying to edit more episodes while Ash is living his #bestlife; in the meantime, enjoy this lil' baby bonus episode of 'Would You Rather' around death. Fun!

If this episode sparks joy, let us know at wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com, and we might consider doing more of these.

Or follow us on @whnspod on Instagram if you can be bothered (please be bothered)

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Ep 15 - Pain ( and the shameful pillow case)

Tue, 19 Dec 2023 22:00:03 GMT

We discuss pain, our most painful experiences and the fine line between pleasure and pain. Also, Ash finds out Anderson's darkest, deepest, and dirtiest shame when it comes to sex toys.

If that story about Anderson's nighttime activities didn't make you dry-heave, follow us on our instagram @whnspod.

And if you have any painful experiences (like listening to this episode) you wanna tell us...share them with us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com.

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Ep 14 - Alcohol (and some daddy issues along the way)

Fri, 08 Dec 2023 00:07:21 GMT

We talk about our drunkest moments and our relationship to drinking. Plus, a REALLY uncomfortable moment Anderson has with his dad that will haunt him forever (and probably the listeners too).

If that story about Anderson's dad didn't make you dry-heave, follow us on our instagram @whnspod.

And if you have any semi-incestuous moments that you want to purge out of your system and into our inbox, share them with us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com.

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Ep 13 - Ghost stories (the SCREAMING starts at 19m 14s - be warned)

Sat, 25 Nov 2023 01:35:24 GMT

What was meant to be an episode on the woo-woo and everything spiritual, ended up with us sharing our scariest ghost stories. And Ash is STILL trying to Airdrop "that picture" to Anderson's computer, against his consent.

If Anderson's hysterical screaming hasn't busted your eardrum yet, then follow us on our instagram @whnspod.

And if you have any ghost stories that can make us scream louder than Anderson at 19m 14 s of this episode, share them with us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com.

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Ep 12 - Fashion (we never get to it, nor the original topic at hand)

Thu, 16 Nov 2023 04:42:56 GMT

We started talking about mythologies (which was meant to be the topic) but Ash couldn't give a f*ck so we started talking about fashion. And yes, this was recorded during Halloween. Also, Carrie Bradshaw was and still is the worst.

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Ep 11 - Kids (we love to hate them)

Thu, 09 Nov 2023 02:37:11 GMT

We discuss why there is such a stigma on gay men around the topic of kids, whether or not we want them, and why we think they are the worst/best.

NB: Ash's microphone is a bit janky this episode, FORGIVE US, it's all Anderson's fault!

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And if you have any stories that would make us cry with horror, send it to us via wehavenoshamepod@gmail.com.

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Ep 10 - Weddings (the way we SPIRALLED in this one)

Thu, 02 Nov 2023 04:05:35 GMT

We didn't finish venting out our verbal diarrhoea on weddings, so here is a whole episode of us screeching about how much we hate/love/hate them.

DISCLAIMER: We don't mention anyone's specific wedding because:

a) we really do not want to burn bridges and

b) lose listeners (who, let's be honest, are just family and friends)

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Ep 9 - Manners & Etiquette (we complain A LOT)

Thu, 26 Oct 2023 04:04:14 GMT

We talk about good and banner manners, and what's socially acceptable. Halfway through, we get sidetracked over how much we hate weddings (next episode!) and discover one of us is a rude POS.

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Ep 8 - Tattoos (but not really)

Wed, 18 Oct 2023 04:04:14 GMT

This week we really tried to stay on the topic of tattoos (and failed), so we ended up just talking about the recent referendum.

Also, forgive us if the quality is a bit janky - we got really heated in the moment and forgot where the mic was 😳.

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Ep 7 - Addiction (it's not just about drugs, we swear)

Wed, 11 Oct 2023 01:48:00 GMT

This week, we discuss about addictions and our (alleged) experiences regarding addictive "things".

TRIGGER WARNING: Please don't listen if the topic of drugs, consent and self-harm is triggering - this episode is HIGHLY sexual and YUCK, so skip if you don't want to hear about (supposed) meth-addled orgies and things being stuck up people's butts...and shattering 😱

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Ep 6 - Airplanes & Cruises (the vitriol is STRONG with this one )

Wed, 04 Oct 2023 02:31:22 GMT

Ash is back! What was meant to be a ten minute intro derailed to a full blown episode of us raging about travelling.

And yes, we are fully aware of just how privileged it is to rant on about a holiday to Europe. 😘

PLUS We have an Instagram account with ZERO content so far....so follow us!

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Ep 5 - Failures (we suck a lot, and often)

Mon, 04 Sep 2023 22:36:59 GMT

Ash is away, so we're revisiting an unreleased old episode, back when we first started this damn thing. We talk about all the things we failed at (and it's a lot) and discover some hideous and bloody truths about each other.

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Ep 4 - Fantasies (from the One Ring to our boy rings)

Mon, 21 Aug 2023 10:05:22 GMT

This one is FILTHY. We discussed people's kinks (while trying to not yuck their yum) and also daydream about what superpowers we will have one day. PLUS our new segment where one of us gets named and shamed for their ungodly deviance.

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Ep 3 - Fears (we're scared of everything)

Fri, 11 Aug 2023 03:10:42 GMT

*Gasp* Another episode a week later?! May wonders never cease. This week, we talk about our deepest fears, and discover we are pretty much afraid of everything.

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Ep 2 - Hygiene (or the lack of)

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 04:45:18 GMT

....and we're back. After a short (3-year) break, we discuss our personal hygiene and how disgusting some people are. Mainly the hosts.

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Ep 1 - The Inadequate and The Imposter

Tue, 17 Dec 2019 08:04:31 GMT

Our inaugural episode! We talk about feelings of inadequacy and shame, and why you shouldn't lie about having a shellfish allergy. We have no shame... so why should you?

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