As a newly graduated High School student, on a gap year trip with other recent high school graduates in Spain, 19 year old Gabrielle was drugged and raped by her tour guide. A man that was trusted with her care and safety. A wolf in sheep clothing.

What followed for Gabrielle, wasn't just the trauma and PTSD from being raped, but the heavy realisation that she was not alone...that the man who attacked her had raped many other women and girls over the course of many many years. Sadly, one girl lost her life.

Where many would step back and retreat, Gabrielle chose to step forward. She took on the Spanish judicial system in pursuit of justice, not just for herself, but for every survivor who had been silenced, overlooked and fear mongered. She spent years of her life fighting to have this monster be held to account for his crimes against women.

Gabrielle "won". The serial rapist who targeted her and changed the course of her life and the lives of countless others', was found guilty.

Shockingly, he walks free; never spending a day in jail.

in this episode, Jennie and Gabrielle talk openly about that journey; navigating the rape reporting process, the realities survivors face within the judicial system and the broader issues surrounding support, advocacy and action.

This is an emotive, and powerful episode and shines a bright light on the dark corners and failings of our "judicial" systems globally.

You can find Gabrielle Vega on:

Instagram: @gabriellevega.jpg

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You can find Jennie Guay on:

website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach and @whywhisperthewholestory

Book: Howie Blend: Playdate Adventures with Family and Friends: Amazon.co.uk: Guay, Jennie: 9781919623108: Books

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In this powerful episode, host Jennie sits down with Dr. Sherrie Campbell, a licensed psychologist, bestselling author, and a leading voice on emotional survival and personal transformation. Her work shines a light on the hidden toll of controlling, manipulative, and abusive relationships...the kind that leave you doubting your instincts, silencing your voice, and questioning your own reality.

Drawing from her latest book, 'You Are Home', Dr. Sherrie shares a path forward for anyone who feels stuck, small, or disconnected from themselves. This conversation dives into how to rebuild self-trust, set boundaries without guilt, and rediscover the inner strength that may have been buried for years.

But this isn’t just about healing. It’s about transformation. It’s about learning how to feel safe in your own skin again, how to stand firmly in your truth, and how to step into a version of yourself that feels grounded, seen, and unapologetically powerful.

This episode is your invitation to come home to yourself.

You can find Dr Sherrie on:

Website:Yorba Linda Counseling and Therapy, Psychologist in Yorba Linda, CA, California - Sherrie Campbell, Ph.D.

Instagram:@dr.sherrie

Book: You Are Home: Heal from Family Trauma, Establish Boundaries, and Find a Place of Peace and Safety eBook : Campbell PhD, Sherrie, Macaluso PhD, Nadine: Amazon.co.uk: Kindle Store

You can find Jennie Guay on:

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast, @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach

Book: Howie Blend: Playdate Adventures with Family and Friends: Amazon.co.uk: Guay, Jennie: 9781919623108: Books

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And that awareness is powerful. It’s an important first step.

But here’s the thing- it’s only a portion of what’s actually required to change your circumstances. Because identifying the source of your trauma doesn’t automatically heal it.

On this weeks episode, host Jennie is joined by Robert Brennan, on the the UK's leading mindset specialists and trauma recovery coaches. He works with people not just to understand their past, but how to HEAL it. Robert and Jennie explore what it really means to draw a line under trauma. They answer confounding questions that so many have like "How do you actually heal the wounds, not just identify them?" and "How do you move forward in a way that feels real, lasting and transformative?

You can find Robert Brennan on:

Website:Hypnotherapist Harley Street London | Robert Brennan | NLP & Havening

Instagram: @robertbrennanmindset

You can find Jennie Guay on:

Website:Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach

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Today’s episode is a real one. Host Jennie is joined by Sarah Knight, founder of FoundHerFire and host of the podcast It’s Got Pockets, and they get into the messy, often unspoken tension that can creep in when our parenting styles don’t align.

Because let’s be honest, friendships can turn into… friendSHITS real quick when you and your friends have completely different views on discipline, screen time, independence, gender dynamics, or what’s “right” for your kids.

Sarah and Jennie talk about how these differences don’t just impact our children; they can strain long-term friendships, create awkward school gate dynamics, and even spark quiet competition between parents who actually like each other. So how do we navigate it? Why does parenting bring out this competitive edge in so many of us? And is it possible to stay close to people whose parenting choices you fundamentally disagree with?

This conversation is honest, nuanced, and probably going to hit close to home.

You can find Sarah Knight here:

Website: FOUNDHER FIRE — Sarah Knight

Instagram: @foundherfire

You can find Jennie Guay here:

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach

Book: Howie Blend: Playdate Adventures with Family and Friends: Amazon.co.uk: Guay, Jennie: 9781919623108: Books

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In this weeks episode, host Jennie Guay is joined by Mary Madeiras. She is a 3x Emmy Award Winning TV Director, whose career bridges the worlds of spiritual transformation and broadcast story telling. Mary is an Advanced Akashic Records Practitioner and the Author of ' The Akashic Way: Living Through the Lens of the Akashic Records.

Mary guides people from burnout to alignment, helping them move beyond survival mode and into a life that feels purposeful, grounded, and deeply authentic. A core part of her work is what she calls The Akashic Way, a healing and intuitive framework rooted in the understanding of the Akashic Records, often described as an energetic archive of the soul’s journey.

Through the Akashic Way, Mary helps people access deeper insight into their patterns, purpose, and unresolved trauma. It’s not about quick fixes, it’s about gently uncovering the root causes of burnout, reconnecting with your inner wisdom, and realigning with who you truly are at a soul level. Her approach weaves together spiritual guidance, trauma healing, and practical integration, creating a pathway back to wholeness.

Jennie and Mary explore what alignment actually means, how healing can unfold during uncertain times, and how accessing the Akashic field can illuminate your inner purpose and support profound transformation.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or like you’re ready for a deeper level of healing, this episode is going to resonate.

You can find Mary Maderias on:

Website: The Akashic Way

You can find Jennie Guay on;

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach

Book: Howie Blend: Playdate Adventures with Family and Friends: Amazon.co.uk: Guay, Jennie: 9781919623108: Books

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They talk about:

• The emotional and psychological cost of early device exposure
• How unrestricted internet access is impacting children’s sexual development
• The silent normalization of social media in primary years
• Why parents, educators, and schools are failing to set boundaries
• The addictive design of platforms targeting young minds
• What we can do now to prevent long-term harm

This isn’t about blame. It’s about responsibility. And also Accountability should you have already given your child access and how you can reverse your decision. 

Amit and Jennie explore how phones and iPads in formative years are altering attention spans, increasing anxiety, distorting identity formation, and exposing children to content they are neurologically unequipped to process.

The question is no longer if screens are affecting our children...

It’s - how much damage we’re willing to ignore?

If you’re a parent, educator, or anyone who cares about the next generation, this is a conversation you cannot afford to skip.

You can find Amit Singh Kalley on:

Instagram: @forworkingparents

Website: Home - For Working Parents Limited

You can find Jennie on:

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach

Book: Howie Blend: Playdate Adventures with Family and Friends: Amazon.co.uk: Guay, Jennie: 9781919623108: Books

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When co-parenting isn't possible, when every exchange feels like a minefield, we are told to "parallel parent". But what does that mean and what does it actually look like when you're dealing with a high conflict personality disordered ex? And how do you stop your children for carrying the emotional cuts and bruises that come with that territory?

Joining host Jennie on this weeks episode is psychotherapist, mediator, CEO of Psyched Ventures and the Author of 'Mt Parent the Peacock', Kathleen Saxton.

Together they talk about the hidden emotional toll of parenting alongside someone who thrives in conflict, how to protect your children's sense of safety and self and what really happens to kids who grow up with a personality disordered parent.

This isn't an easy conversation. But it is an essential one!

You can find Kathleen Saxton on:

Instagram: @clinicwithk

Website: Psyched Ventures

Book: My Parent the Peacock: Discovery and Recovery from Narcissistic Parenting: Amazon.co.uk: Saxton, Kathleen: 9781399822596: Books

You can find host Jennie on:

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? podcast on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast

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You've probably heard the names Mounjaro and Ozempic - but what do they REALLY do? What are the myths, and what are the genuine mental and physical benefits behind them.

Joining host Jennie to help make sense of it all is Dr. Andre Brittain-Dissont. He has 3 decades of medical experience as a GP, Premier Sports Physician, Occupational Physician, and advanced aesthetics practitioner. Today we are asking: What's fact, what's fiction and what do these so called "miracle injections" really mean for our bodies and minds?

You can find Dr. Andre on:

Website: About | Oxford Natural Longevity & Aesthetics Clinic

Instagram: @oxfordnaturalclinic

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? podcast:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast

You can follow host Jennie on:

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

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Joining host Jennie on this weeks episode is Sarah Berry-Valentine. She was that ONE out of 1000. Sarah bravely allows us in to her deeply personal experience with postpartum psychosis following the birth of her first child.

Sarah was recently featured in Glamour UK telling her story and has been candidly using her voice to raise awareness, offer hope and understanding, and advocate for better support for women. Her story is raw and powerful and SO needed in a world ( and a social media world filled with influencer mums) that often romanticise motherhood, whilst ignoring its most vulnerable moments.

You can read Sarah's feature in Glamour UK here: ‘Did I Eat My Baby?’: A Mother’s Journey Through Postpartum Psychosis | Glamour UK

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? on Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast

You can find Jennie on:

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach

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But here’s the thing, if dating already feels like a weird, vulnerable game, what happens when you remove alcohol from the equation? No cocktails to take the edge off. No “liquid courage.” Just you, your authentic self, and someone else doing the same.

Jennie is joined by someone who’s helping rewrite the rules - Helen Masters. She is the co-founder of SoberAF Dating - a platform and community designed to support meaningful connections without alcohol. She’s here to talk about why this shift is happening, what it means for modern dating, sober sex (and why it blows drunk sex out of the water!) and how we can all show up a little more real, one sober date at a time.

You can find Helen and SoberAF Dating on:

Website: SoberAF Dating – Real Connections, No Shots Required.

Instagram: @soberafdating

Pre Register for the App HERE: SoberAF Dating – Real Connections, No Shots Required.

You can find Why Are We Whispering? on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast

You can find host Jennie on:

Website:Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach

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Joinng host Jennie is Dr. Louise Newson: GP, renowned menopause specialist, author, and leading advocate for changing the narrative around women’s health. Dr. Newson has been instrumental in transforming how we talk about, and treat, perimenopause and menopause.

In the UK, there are around 13 million women currently going through perimenopause or menopause. That’s roughly a third of the female population, yet countless women are still struggling to get the support, care, and facts they deserve.

In this episode, we dig into what perimenopause actually feels like, how symptoms like anxiety, brain fog, joint pain, and sleep disturbances are often misdiagnosed or dismissed, and why hormone replacement therapy (HRT) can be life-changing.

We also tackle one of the biggest myths out there: the supposed link between HRT and cancer. Spoiler alert, research now shows that for most women, HRT is not only safe, but it can significantly reduce long-term health risks like osteoporosis, cardiovascular disease, mental health and more. Yet, fear and misinformation still hold too many women back.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating midlife, going through or approaching perimenopause, supporting someone who is, or simply wanting to understand why women deserve better information, better care, and better conversations around menopause.

Let’s stop allowing misinformation and fear mongering stop us from getting the right information, learning about what our options and RIGHTS are and getting the medical/health care we deserve! It will SAVE LIVES and help families.

You can find Dr Lousie Newson on:

Instagram: @menopause_doctor , @newson.health , @balancemenopause

Website:

Personal: Dr Louise Newson

Clinic: Testosterone in Women

Podcast: The Dr Louise Newson Podcast - Podcast - Apple Podcasts

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? Podcast on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast

You can find host Jennie on:

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

Instagram: @jennieg_premierdivorcecoach

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Her work has attracted the attention of celebrities, professional athletes, musicians and entrepreneurs and she has been featured on major platforms like The Morning Show, 7News, The Australian, Marie Claire, Mamamania and Body & Soul to name a few.

In this powerful and enlightening episode, Jessica opens up about how she first discovered her intuitive abilities, how she receives messages from the spirit world, and what it truly means to connect with energies beyond the physical. We also dive deep into the why behind her work, why she feels called to deliver messages from the other side, and the healing and clarity it brings to those left behind. Jessica shares insights into our collective fear of death, where it comes from, and how reframing our understanding of the afterlife can transform how we live.

Whether you’re a sceptic, a believer, or somewhere in between, this episode invites you to question, feel, and expand your perspective on what it means to live… and what it means to cross over.

You can fine Jessica Lynn on:

Instagram: @jessicalynnmediumship

Podcast: Talk Spirit To Me Podcast - Podcast - Apple Podcasts

Website: Podcast | Jessica Lynne Mediumship

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? Podcast on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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On this weeks episode, host Jennie is joined by the brilliant Libby Heath, Chief Vitality Officer at VitalLife. Libby is on a mission to redefine what health looks like and means for women- especially after we enter new chapters marked by perimenopause /menopause and the physical and emotional shifts that often come after spending years putting everyone else first.

Throughout this episode, we explore:

• why so many women only start paying attention to their health in midlife
• how menopause can be a wake up call- not just a medical phase
• the connection between emotional wellbeing and physical health
• what it means to build vitality later in life... and why it's NEVER TOO LATE!

This is your invitation to take back control - of your mind, your body, and your energy. Not by chasing youth, but by embracing what your body needs NOW. With the right support, knowledge and tools, true vitality isn't a fantasy...it's yours for the taking.

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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On the flip side, what is false confidence? How do you identify it and is there a time and place for it? How damaging is false confidence when it comes to leadership?

Is confidence a façade?

Joining host Jennie on this weeks episode, is Esther Stanhope. She is an award winning author, Ted X Speaker, former BBC presenter and a personal impact expert. Esther provides insight into what it takes to build confidence and what it means to lose confidence after taking a big hit or loss in life. With contagious energy and zest, Esther talks about her own life experiences working with celebrities and high powered corporate executives, and also talks about her own personal journey in building confidence. If you battle imposter syndrome, have a fear of speaking or have social anxiety (heightened by COVID), this is a must listen episode!!

You can find Esther on:

Website: ESTHER STANHOPE

LinkedIn:(2) Esther Stanhope, The Impact Guru | LinkedIn

Instagram: Instagram

You can find Why Are We Whispering? on:

Instagram: Instagram

You can find host Jennie Guay on:

Website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

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Sarah founded 'FoundHER Fire' for women who have the stories, the plot twists and the fire. And, for the women who, as Sarah candidly puts it, " have plenty of fucks to give, but just don't know were to put them".

It's not often women can be unapologetically honest about their negative experiences with other female "leaders"... in this episode, Sarah and Jennie go there! This is one conversation every woman should listen to and ask herself, "Am I practicing true leadership,or....leadershiT? ".

You can find Sarah Knight on:

website: Sarah Knight

Instagram: @foundherfire

You can follow the Why Are We Whispering? podcast on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast

You can find host Jennie Guay on:

website: Jg Premier Divorce & Breakup Coaching & Advisory | Step Parenting | UK

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On this weeks episode, host Jennie is joined by Australia's leading women's trauma therapist and Founder of 'Aaruka Therapy', podcast host and co-author of 'Secret of Surprise', Jessica Ella. Jessica bravely and candidly shares her story of surviving childhood rape and sexual abuse from the age of 3 until 12 at the hands of her father and grandfather. Unwilling to sit in silence, she is on a mission to support and guide as many women as she can towards healing and rebuilding their lives following childhood sexual abuse and trauma.

This is a powerful and brutally honest conversation about not only Jessica's story, but the realities surrounding child sexual abuse, generational trauma, the impacts, the warning signs and the high price we pay for silence.

You can find Jessica Ella on:

Instagram: @iamjessicaella

Podcast: The Trauma Queen Podcast - Podcast - Apple Podcasts

Wedbsite: Jessica Ella

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? on:

Instragram: @whywhisperpodcast

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• 1 in 6 children in the UK have been sexually abused
• 90% of child sexual abuse is conducted by someone the child knows
• 30-50% of all child sexual abuse is done by another child - child-on-child sexual abuse
• According to the National Crime Agency and IWF, it's estimated that there are over 830,000 adults who pose a sexual risk to children in the UK alone
• According to the IWF, since lockdown, imagery of primary school children being coached to perform sexual acts online has soared by more than 1000% in the UK ( yes...1000%) *

*stats from Rape Crisis UK, National Crime Agency and IWF

The prevalence of child sexual abuse is far greater than any of us would like to believe or know. And with kids being given devices and internet access at such young ages now, the predators and paedophiles have easier and more frequent access to our kids. Whilst the very real risks of our kids being exploited online and sexully abused are high, there are things we can do and protective measures we can put in place as parents and teachers to safeguard and prepare our kids.

Joining host Jennie on todays episode is former child abuse detective Kristi McVee. Kristi is now a child abuse educator, author and the Founder of CAPE AU. She knows better than anyone what the realities are around child sexual abuse and its prevalence. Jennie and Kristi openly and candidly discuss the risks devices and internet access present to our kids, who the sexual predators/paedophiles are statistically, and what the indicators are that your child may be being groomed or already a victim of sexual abuse.

This is an episode that every parent and educator/teacher needs to listen to... our children's safety, physical and mental health, development and futures depend on us knowing more, and doing better.

You can find Kristi McVee on:

Instagram: @kristimcvee and @cape_au

Website: CAPE Home

You can find Why Are We Whispering?

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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But, when you have been in the clutches of a true Narcissist or broadline personality disordered person or anyone with a true clinical personality disorder...it's far worse than having your feelings hurt or not having your needs met.

To be truly abused by a personality disordered person, causes long term, deep rooted damage to the psyche, nervous system and mental health.

Joining host Jennie on todays episode is Dr. Sherrie. She is a licensed Psychologist, specialising in psychotherapy including marriage and family therapy, childhood trauma and personality, or as she describes it, character, disorders. Dr. Sherrie is also the author of several books including "Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members". Jennie and Dr. Sherrie dive deep into the challenges and struggles of parallel parenting with a personality disordered ex, the long term damage a toxic parent has on a child and how to mitigate the risks of that damage. Dr Sherrie shares some tangible and applicable tips and tools on how to have the right conversations with your kids at the right time, and how to protect your own peace whilst maintaining a healthy relationship with your child.

You can find Dr. Sherrie on:

Instagram: @dr.sherrie

website: Yorba Linda Counseling and Therapy, Psychologist in Yorba Linda, CA, California - Sherrie Campbell, Ph.D.

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast

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You can find Dr. Dawn on:

website: DR DAWN

Instagram: @drdawnharper

Book: Live Well to 101: A Practical Guide to Achieving a Long and Healthy Life: Amazon.co.uk: Harper, Dawn: 9781472248664: Books

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Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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• Every 12 minutes someone in the UK is diagnosed with Bowel Cancer
• Bowel Cancer is the 4th most common Cancer in the UK
• 1 in 17 men will be diagnosed with bowel cancer in their lifetime in the UK
• 1 in 20 women will be diagnosed with bowel cancer in their lifetime in the UK
• 54% of bowel cancer cases in the UK are preventable.

*stats from Bowel Cancer UK

It's Bowel Cancer Awareness week! Joining host Jennie on this weeks episode is Dr Anish Patel. She is a NHS GP and the author of 'Everything You Hoped You'd Never Need to Know About Bowel Cancer'. She is also a Bowel Cancer Survivor and an Ambassador for Bowel Cancer UK. You may have also seen her on Daytime talk show Lorraine and Channel 4's Embarrassing Bodies. Dr. Anisha shares not only her wealth of knowledge and expertise on Bowel Cancer and how we can prevent it, but candidly opens up about her own battle with stage 3 Bowel Cancer.

You can find Dr. Anisha Patel on:

Website: Dr Anisha Patel | Doctors Get Cancer Too | Medical Speaker

Book: Everything You Hoped You'd Never Need to Know About Colorectal Cancer: A Doctor's Very Personal Guide to Getting Through Sh*t and Beyond: Amazon.co.uk: Patel, Anisha, Dr.: 9781399811132: Books

Instagram: @doctorsgetcancertoo

You can contact Bowel Cancer UK here: Bowel Cancer | Bowel Cancer UK

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Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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Jessica Whalley knows this first hand. She lived with Autism and ADHD for 38 years before she was diagnosed. In todays episode, host Jennie speaks with Jessica, who is the author of 'The Autistic Mom' about her experience and journey with Autism and neuro diversity, as a Mom, but also as the parent of a non-verbal child with Autism. Jessica has recently released her powerful book 'The Autistic Mom', which sheds light on her deeply personal journey and also serves as a practical guide for parents and caregivers. Neurodiversity amongst children is definitely at the forefront of many conversations as of late. There are so many parents who are unsure of how to navigate an ADHD and/or Autism diagnosis...and there are also so many parents who are afraid to even begin to explore the possibility that their child may be on the neuro diversity or autism spectrum .

Jennie and Jessica do not shy away from talking about hard truths and controversial thoughts on ADHD and Autism... a much needed conversation in the current climate!

You can find Jessica Whalley on:

Instagram: @_theaalife_

Website: The Autistic Mom

Book: The Autistic Mom: A guide, advice and memoir of adult diagnosis and/or raising a neurodivergent child.: Amazon.co.uk: Whalley, J.: 9781916572959: Books

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? podcast on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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According to the latest statistics provided by Rape Crisis UK, 1 in 6 children has been sexually abused.

This statistic is of course only representative of the cases of sexual abuse that have been reported. Unfortunately most cases go unreported.

Statistics indicate that 40% of adults who are raped will not report. And, unreported childhood cases of sexual abuse and rape are much higher, with statistics indicating that 72% of adults who experienced sexual abuse as a child, did NOT tell anyone or report it at the time of the abuse.

Child rape and sexual abuse is something that is far more common and prevalent than anyone would like to admit. But, we simply MUST start admitting it, talking about it, addressing it, not just with each other as adults, but having these hard conversations with our kids.... their futures depend on it.

Joining host Jennie on this weeks episode is Nathan Spiteri. He is an actor, writer and producer, and he is child sexual abuse survivor. He has bravely shared his story of child sexual abuse on Ted X and many other platforms, as well as in his memoire 'Toy Cars'.

Nathan is the much needed male voice around child rape and sexual abuse. Every time he shares his story and trauma, he is stepping in to be the voice for those (men and boys specifically) that haven't been able to find theirs...yet.

You can find Nathan on:

Website: Nathan Spiteri

Instagram: @nathanspiteri Nathan Spiteri (@nathanspiteri) • Instagram photos and videos

Book: Toy Cars: Spiteri, Nathan: 9780645122626: Amazon.com: Books

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Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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What do these things all have in common?

These are all areas of people lives, that stop them from getting where they want to be and having the lives they want to have.

Joining host Jennie on this weeks episode if Dr. Phil Parker. He is a Psychologist, Author and Certified Master Trainer in NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming). He has over 40 years of experience working with people who are facing serious life blockers. Combining his study, research and experience in osteopathy, psychology, psychotherapy NLP and Coaching, he has helped make extraordinary changes in countless peoples lives. His work focusses on how the brain-mind-body work together to affect our health and he is very much a pioneer in this field!

If you are a loved one if facing challenges that seem insurmountable, and/or other treatments have not worked to heal you/them, this is the episode for you!

You can find Dr. Phil Parker on:

Instagram: @drphilparker

Website: Home - Phil Parker and

You can find his books on:

Amazon: THE COACH THAT'S ALWAYS THERE: Inner Wisdom Whenever You Need It: Amazon.co.uk: Parker, Dr Phil: 9798393400378: Books

You can follow Why Are We Whispering? podcast on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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*malealliesuk.co.uk

Feminism can be dated back to the 1800's...but we've been fighting for much longer. Whilst some movement has been made, we are by no means close to true equity, even in the most basic of terms. The irony now is that the world we live in today, a world created by men for men, no longer even works for the boys and men it was intended for! So, fellow men, it's your turn now. It's your turn to fight alongside women, in the trenches of gender inequality, violence, disenfranchisement, and bias, to change the socio-economic and political systems you created and founded on misogyny. Your active participation and voice is necessary in order to move our failing society and the systems, institutions and businesses within it, forward. It's time to dismantle and rebuild...together...as a collective. As equals.

Lee Chambers joins host Jennie on this weeks episode. Lee is the chief psychologist and founder of Essentialise and Male Allies UK. After a diverse career, from corporate finance to building a tech company, he is now focused on supporting organisations to engage men in inclusion, accelerate gender equity and promote effective allyship. He has been featured on the Startups 100 Index, has received a Great British Entrepreneur Award, and sits on the boards of CMI Women, Regenerage, and the Manchester Metropolitan University Business School.

He is a Kavli Fellow of the National Academy of Sciences in the USA - the first Black British scientist to be awarded in its 33-year history, received for his work on health inequalities. He was the UN Women Changemaker of the Year in 2023, and is an ambassador for the UK Government's Lilac Review for Disabled Entrepreneurship. Lee was recenetly listed as Forbes 2025 Changemaker to Watch. He speaks globally on allyship and intersectionality, having taken the stage at One Young World, ChangeNOW and the Bloomberg Global Equality Summit, and is the author of the book, Momentum: Reboot Your Career, Unlock Your Potential.

This is polarising, but fascinating topic to say the least! Lee and Jennie dive head first into a raw and open conversation about misogyny, raising boys to be better men and all of our collective responsibilities in dismantling and rebuilding our broken systems. This is a MUST LISTEN!

You can find Lee Chambers on:

Instagram:@maleallyship

Website: Male Allies UK | Your partner in making allyship happen and https://leechambers.org

You can find Lee's Book on:

Amazon.co.uk : momentum lee chambers

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Grief is a complex emotion. It can be phased and a process, and can go on for years. For some, grief stays with them for a lifetime; popping in at random times, often throwing them off guard. Similarly, death is one of life's inevitabilities that most of us struggle to reconcile and fear more than anything else.

All of this is compounded when it's the death of your child and the grief and pain of losing that child overcomes your entire being...never leaving you...forever yearning to hold and see your child one last time.

Joining host Jennie on today's episode is Sabrina Boukhiba. She is a mother, and on 3rd November 2022, she lost her 6 month old son Idris. He died of a rare heart condition.

Sabrina very bravely shares her story; opening up about her journey with grief and loss, and all of the ways it has and will continue to impact her life. With the death of her child, Sabrina is now learning to live again.

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What if confronting life’s toughest conversations could lead to healing and empowerment? In this powerful episode of the We Are Power Podcast, we sit down with Jennie Guay, host of the Why Are We Whispering? podcast, author of Howie Blend, and a passionate advocate for open dialogue around sensitive topics. Jennie shares her transformative journey, where she turned personal adversity into a mission to amplify voices often silenced by shame. Driven by her experiences, she’s created safe spaces for her stepchildren and others to openly discuss challenging issues like sexual abuse and domestic violence, emphasising the importance of courage and transparency in overcoming trauma.

But Jennie’s work doesn’t stop there. She’s also the author of Howie Blend, a children’s book that reflects diverse family dynamics, aiming to promote acceptance and understanding from an early age. As a parent, partner, and professional, Jennie shares how she navigates the delicate balance between her personal and professional life, how she overcame perfectionism, and the power of forming authentic connections.

In this episode, Jennie takes us through her journey of creating and maintaining her podcast, and why it’s so crucial to encourage open conversations around difficult topics—especially with children. She discusses the need for children to understand and appreciate diversity, and why these conversations are so important for personal and societal growth.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

00:00 – Welcome to the We Are Power Podcast

00:46 – Introducing Jennie Guay

01:14 – The Why Are We Whispering? Podcast

03:59 – The Catalyst for Change

06:56 – Creating a Safe Space

08:32 – Defining Healing

12:49 – Challenges and Triumphs

17:54 – How We Blend: A Journey of Diversity

22:06 – Balancing Life and Work

24:28 – Looking Ahead: Future Projects

26:11 – Final Thoughts and Farewell

Tune in to hear Jennie’s inspiring insights on how facing tough conversations can spark personal and collective change. Learn how her work is helping to break the silence on difficult issues, promote diversity, and empower others to speak their truth. Don’t miss this opportunity to be part of this transformative conversation.

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Alcoholism and addiction continues to be the theme of the podcast this month.

We know alcohol is a drug. We know it's been classified as the most dangerous and damaging drug in the UK above heroine and crack cocaine. And, we know its' destroying lives and families at an alarming rate.

But, what many people don't know, is that there is a link between those who have ADHD and alcoholism/addiction .

According to Rehabs UK:

• between 33% and 44% of young people with ADHD experience alcohol misuse or dependency
• people with ADHD are 5-10 x more likely to have alcohol addiction than those without ADHD

Research indicates that impulsive and reckless behaviour, as well as high novelty seeking traits, which are common symptoms of ADHD, are high risk factors for substance abuse. And 70% of young adults with both substance abuse issues and ADHD report that they use alcohol or substance as a means to self medicate; an attempt to switch off an over active brain or attempting to slow down racing thought processes. The links and correlation between ADHD and addiction is very much misunderstood and often over looked.

Joining host Jennie in today's episode is Harry Martin. Harry is diagnosed ADHD and has battled with addiction most of his life. Harry's experience with substance abuse started as young as 12 years old and carried on into adulthood. Now, in his 30's, Harry is living alcohol free. On this episode, he very honestly tells his story of how having ADHD has a direct correlation to his addiction issues. At the height of his addiction, Harry was homeless and living for his next drink or high. With the support of his mom and wife, and with the birth of his daughter, Harry is now on a path to sobriety. But, it is not without its daily challenges. This episode is raw and confronting. Harry holds nothing back. This is a must listen for anyone with ADHD or similar, battling addiction, and feeling like there's no way to quiet your mind. There is a path forward, and there is support available to you...you are NOT alone.

You can follow Harry on:

Instagram: @harrymartin2901

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Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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In line with "Dry January" and starting a new year, this episode is a continuation of this months focus on reassessing your relationship with alcohol and shinning a light on the ways we, as a society and the media, normalise and encourage its consumption; bombarding us with toxic and confusing messaging from childhood through to adulthood.

Alcohol is listed as the MOST harmful drug (above heroine and crack cocaine), and is destroying millions of lives and families every year; costing the NHS billions year on year and being the biggest cause and risk factor for death, ill health, disease and disability among 15 to 49 year olds in the UK. None of us are in the dark about what alcohol actually is - a drug. Yet, most of us refuse to acknowledge our own relationship with and even laugh off the destructive realities surrounding it.

On this weeks episode, host Jennie is joined by Millie Gooch. She is the Author of 'Booze Less' and the Founder of Sober Girl Society. She is also an Ambassador for Alcohol Change UK. Millie has also been sober for 7 years. Millie candidly shares her challenges and issues with her own alcohol abuse and details the realisations that drove her to becoming sober. She talks about the conscious choices she made and continues to make in living life alcohol free.

You can find Millie on:

Instagram: @milliegooch and @sobergirlsociety

You can find Alcohol Support at:

Website: Alcohol Change UK charity: Alcohol harms. Time for change. | Alcohol Change UK

Instagram: @alcoholchangeuk

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Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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• 1 in 5 people in the UK are affected by a parents drinking (Nacoa Study)
• Over 600,000 people in the UK are currently alcohol dependent. Of these, only 18% are receiving treatment
• Alcohol abuse is the biggest risk factor for DEATH, ill health and disease and disability among 14 to 49 year olds in the UK

In 2020, there were almost 1 million alcohol related hospital admissions in England; putting a heavy strain on the NHS. Alcohol abuse and consumption costs the NHS an estimated £3.5 billion per year in England and costs an estimated £2.1 billion per year to society as a whole.

Millions of children grow up in households where one or both parents struggle with alcohol addition. Often times, the addiction goes hand-in-hand with domestic abuse and child abuse/neglect. This is an ugly reality that so many people want to ignore or excuse away. Many parents carry shame or guilt around their addiction, never facing it head on or fail to see it as dysfunctional, as it's generational trauma passed on. The long term ramifications and impact of alcohol abuse on the family and on society can be catastrophic, and is destroying the childhoods and healthy development of too many kids.

Joining host Jennie on today's episode is Jennifer Payne. She is a NACOA Ambassador (National Association for Children of Alcoholics) and the child of an Alcoholic. Jennifer speaks candidly about how her mothers alcoholism consumed her childhood and still affects her life to this day, as well as discusses the complexities around what happens to the mother-daughter relationship when the mother is an alcoholic, and how that can present. Alcoholism caused the deaths of several people in Jennifer's family and she addresses the realities of generational alcoholism and trauma.

Many carry shame, guilt and embarrassment around having an alcoholic parent or BEING an alcoholic parent. In sharing her story and being so raw, Jennifer allows others to feel seen and heard. With so many people sharing the same or similar experience with alcoholism, no one needs to feel alone. There is help and support and more importantly, community, through organisations like NACOA.

You can find Jennifer here:

Instagram: @jen_payne_88

You can find NACOA (National Association for Children of Alcoholics):

Instagram: @nacoauk

Website: Nacoa: Helping everyone affected by their parent's drinking - Nacoa

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• There are approx 3 million children in the UK living with and alcoholic parent (Nacoa Study)
• Kids of alcoholic parent(s) are 6x more likely to witness domestic abuse, 3x more likely to consider suicide, 2x more likely to become an alcoholic (Nacoa Study)
• Alcohol was named as the MOST harmful drug in a study that ranked 20 drugs in accordance with the harm they cause to others
• Alcohol was given a harm score of 72 out of 100 whilst Heroine and Crack Cocaine were ranked a harm score of 55 out of 100 and 54 out of 100

January is often the month when many people take a break from alcohol ("dry January"). Some do it to recalibrate after over indulging over the Christmas period and some find themselves really taking a step back and assessing their relationship with alcohol; hopeful for a healthier year ahead.

The topic of alcohol and alcoholism is often avoided. Many people laugh off the severity and facts of alcoholism in the UK because many people are too uncomfortable to reflect on their own relationship with alcohol; perhaps out of fear they themselves may have a problem with it. So, we normalise alcohol use - there always seems to be a good reason or excuse to have a drink. But it's never just ONE drink....is it.

Alcohol abuse is destroying the lives of children and families across the UK at and alarming rate. And yet, so many of us are still in denial.

Sarah Drage is a Nacoa Ambassador (National Association for Children of Alcoholics), a TED X Speaker and Mental Health Advocate. She is also the child of an Alcoholic. Sarah joins host Jennie in todays episode to share her story of growing up with an alcoholic parent, and how it negatively impacted her as a child, teenager and now adult. She details watching her father die of alcoholism and how it ravaged his mind and body, and how it has impacted her mental health and relationship with alcohol.

Many of us carry shame and embarrassment around our experience growing up around alcoholics and/or our own relationship with the drug. This episode aims to shine a light on this all too common experience and feeling(s) and take the loneliness out of it. If this sounds like you or your experience as a child of an alcoholic, you are not alone. There are so many people who share your story and are available and eager to help, listen and support.

You can find help and support from Nacoa here:Nacoa: Helping everyone affected by their parent's drinking - Nacoa

You can find Sarah Drage and her work with Nacoa here: Instagram @sarah_drage

You can follow the Why Are We Whispering? Podcast on Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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Everyone wants it but how many of us are willing and able to give it in a healthy way?

Have the pressures and realities of careers, cost of living crisis, and kids, shifted our perspectives on what's important in a life partner and what we value?

Has social media tainted our view and whole belief system on what love actually is, rather than what we think it's supposed to look like to others?

What does love TRULY mean in 2024/2025? And why is it so damn hard to find for so many of us right now?!

On this weeks episode, host Jennie is joined by Dating and Relationship coach and expert, and Author of "Love is Coming", Persia Lawson. Persia helps answer these questions and more!

Jennie and Persia go very deep on how childhood traumas and our own parents relationship carve the neuro pathways which determine who we choose as partners and the terrible behaviours and abuses we will accept. They talk about the impacts that dating apps, social media and the socio-economic changes and pressures have on how we now view and approach love, and provide tools and tactics on how to change the dating and relationship habits that don't serve you.

This is a raw, real and painfully honest conversation about why we are so bad at love, and where and how you can begin changing your love course in 2025!

You can find Persia on:

Instagram: @persialawson

Book: Loving is Coming - How to Find Real Love in a Superficial World: Amazon.co.uk: Persia Lawson: 9781913284251: Books

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Joining host Jennie on todays episode is Anna Berkeley. She has worked in the fashion industry for 30 years. She was a buyer for Prada, Margaret Howell and Selfridges. For the last 17 years she has worked as a private stylist and body shape expert. Utilizing her in depth experience and understanding of the changing female body, Anna has identified and created the solution for women who struggle with understanding their body shape and how to dress it. She has created the ThinkShape App. It uses body mapping techniques and analysis to help users understand their bodies and what looks good on them without the expense of a personal stylist and appointment. Anna says her mission is to take the anxiety out of choosing clothes by teaching women everything she has learned over many years of styling. Her dream is for women to accept, embrace and honour their beautiful bodies whilst truly understanding what works best for them.

You can find Anna Berkeley and the ThinkShape App on:

Instagram: @annaberkeleystyling and @think.shape

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Instragram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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Some stories are filled with joyous childhood moments, teenage achievements and memories of fun family holidays. And some stories are coloured with dark family secrets, abuse and generational traumas. And some stories are a mix of both. Regardless of where your story falls on this spectrum, we all have one thing in common.... our future story. The story that lays ahead of us that has yet to be written and told. And whilst your childhood and past may have been out of your control, your future is yours to create.

Someone who has taken her story of pain and trauma and turned it into a future filled with purpose is this weeks guest Dani Wallace. She is a Global Public Speaking Coach and Founder of the Fly Anyway Foundation and the Big Festoon. For the first time publicly, Dani joins host Jennie, to share her story of generational trauma and domestic violence and talk about how her past has driven her towards change and purpose. Dani is a captivating speaker and her story will resonate with so many. This episode is not to be missed!

You can find Dani and her Foundation on:

Website: IATQB.com HOME

Instagram: @thequeenbeedani

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You can find Dr Mark Rackley on:

Instagram: @drmarkrackley

Podcast: I Have Issues, the Mental Health Podcast

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Joining host Jennie on today's episode is UKs top mental health advocate and author of "It's Them Not You: How to Break Free from Toxic Parents and Reclaim Your Story", Josh Connolly. Together, they candidly discuss the very complex and challenging world of toxic parents and sharing tips and tactics on how to not only navigate it as the adult child of one, but also as the parallel parent of one.

Unless you've lived it or are currently living through it, you just DON'T GET IT. Josh and his active work in this space makes you feel seen and heard. Both Jennie and Josh provide the listeners with a sense of understanding through shared experience. If this was/ is your childhood or parenthood experience, this episode is a MUST LISTEN!

You can find expert and advocate Josh Connolly on:

website: Come Back To Yourself

Instagram: @josh_ffw

Podcast: 115 Miles

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2 in 5 girls have been shamed or teased because of their period

85% of girls have tried to hide the fact they are on their period

50% of girls don't know what's happening to their bodies when they get their period

60% of girls feel scared and embarrassed when they get their period

81% of women feel concerns around their periods are not taken seriously

Think back to the moment when you first started your period, or learned a bit about puberty and how babies are made. For most of us, these were tough years filled with confusion, angst, feelings of discomfort, nervousness... but also, excitement for what's to come. Whilst we were provided with some education in school and maybe the occasional home about what to expect, unfortunately, for most of us, this time was not met with an abundance of information and facts, so we were ill prepared and left to navigate this on our own.

Today, whilst puberty and menstruation and sex are taught in schools to some degree, kids also have the internet. They have iphones, ipads and devices that parents have given them, where, with the stroke of a key, they can find images, videos (many pornographic in nature) and information (or misinformation) on anything and everything related to puberty and sex. Something we didn't have, or if we did, was extremely limited in comparison to today. There are HUGE risks associated with this that parents may not be wise to.

On todays episode, host Jennie is joined by Libby Tanswell-Gidney. She is the 22 year old Founder of Ove Care, which is an age appropriate App providing children of all ages with information on puberty and menstruation. Jennie and Libby not only dive into the features and functionality of the Ove Care app, but the ever growing NEED for it in todays online climate. They talk about issues surrounding misinformation and accessibility to dangerous content online, the importance of both girls and BOYS understanding menstruation, fertility and the female body and how parents can utilise the app as a tool to navigate this complex time in their child's life and development.

This episode is a MUST listen for parents with pre teen children - boys and girls!

You kind find more information on Ove Care here:

Website: www.ovecare.com

Instagram: @ove.care

TikTok: @ove.care

You can follow the Why Are We Whispering? podcast on:

Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast and @whywhisperthewholestory

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Since the 1970's, 8 million babies have been born through medical/fertility intervention.

The requirement for fertility treatment is on the rise. And it's not just due to fertility issues with heterosexual couples, rather, in recent years, there has been a steady increase in single people and same-sex couples building and expanding their families through fertility treatment. Regardless of your reasoning for requiring it, fertility treatments are costly, time consuming and physically and emotionally taxing. In addition to the personal challenges that we face during fertility treatment, shockingly 40+ years on, there are STILL societal challenges that many people face; causing intense feelings of shame, guilt and embarrassment.

Joining host Jennie on today's episode is Natalie Silverman. She is the coFounder of 'Fertility Matters at Work' and the creator and host of ' The Fertility Podcast' which is in its 10th year! Together, Jennie and Natalie tackle many of the taboos still surrounding fertility treatment, including why we still associate it with women only, when there is an equal split of men and women who face fertility challenges/infertility. Both Natalie and Jennie share their own experiences with fertility treatments and the challenges they face(d) and tackle the current lag in workplace understanding and support and the ways in which Fertility Matters at Work are helping companies and organizations catch up in terms of policy creation and implementation.

You can find and follow Natalie Silverman on:

Instagram:@fertilitymattersatwork and @fertilitypoddy

Podcast: The Fertility Podcast

Website: www.fertilitymattersatwork.com

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A lack of or low self esteem is a significant developmental problem for kids currently.

According to a recent study, in the US, 80% of kids entering year 1 at school score high on self esteem inventory. By year 5 that starts to decrease significantly down to only 20% of kids scoring high on self esteem and by high school graduation, that number plummets to a mere 5% of kids leaving high school with any semblance of confidence or self esteem.

On todays episode, host Jennie is joined by Holly Matthews. She is the founder of the award winning self development brand "The Happy Me Project" and best selling author of "The Happy Me Project: The No Nonsense Guide to Self Belief". Together, they tackle the hard questions of what is contributing to the plummet in children's self esteem, who is responsible for ensuring our kids are taught how to cultivate their confidence and self esteem, and why it is VITAL to our well being and personhood.

We are living in a world where false confidence rules and self esteem is virtually non existent. Jennie and Holly bring a no nonsense and real conversation about where we are going wrong with our kids and why we have generations of adults faking their confidence.

Follow Holly on:

Instragram: @iamhollymatthews

Website: I AM HOLLY MATTHEWS – SELF DEVELOPMENT COACH | SPEAKER & FOUNDER OF THE HAPPY ME PROJECT

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Nearly 1 in 2 people will be diagnosed with some form of cancer in their lifetime.

There are currently 3 million people in the UK living with Cancer, and it's anticipated that this number will rise to 3.5 million people by 2025, and 4 million people by 2030.

Cancer is on the RISE.

But this episode is not about the facts of Cancer. This is an episode about hope, resilience, healing and recovery. Joining host Jennie, is Stephanie Crawshay-Ralston. She is a highly sought after stylist and mother of 3. She is also a former guest of the podcast.

Around this time last year, Steph was speaking to us about her recent terminal cancer diagnosis. Her treatments hadn't worked and she was about to embark on experimental treatment It wasn't looking good. She was scare, angry and completely unsure of what her future held. Nearly 12 months later, Steph can now say she is a Cancer survivor!

From the feeling she had when she first received her terminal diagnosis, to the devastating affects of her multiple treatments, the affect her diagnosis had on her family and kids, to being at deaths door and coming out the other side, Steph and Jennie have a real authentic conversation about Cancer and all of the ways it touches and impacts your life.

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In the UK, according to a recent study conducted by Refuge:

• The police receive a domestic abuse related call every 30 seconds
• 1 in 4 women in the UK will experience some form of domestic abuse in her lifetime
• On average, 1 woman is killed by an abusive partner or ex every 5 days in the UK
• 3 women a week die by suicide as a result of domestic abuse
• It takes, on average, 7 attempts before a woman is able to leave her abuser for good

Joining host Jennie in today's episode is Dr. Nae (Nadine Macaluso). After leaving her ex, most will know him as The Wolf of Wall Street - Jordan Belfort, she channelled her energy into becoming a licensed therapist, specialising in trauma bonds, personality disordered abuse and CPTSD. She is also the author of 'Run Like Hell'. Dr. Nae shares her own story of surTHRIVING abuse/domestic violence at the hands of her ex, the complexities around being in a trauma bond with a personality disordered person, how to mitigate the risk to your children and how to heal.

This is a powerful discussion, that will provide you will tangible applicable strategies and tips on how to identify if you are in a trauma bond with a personality disordered person and the things you can do to get out and HEAL.

You can find Dr. Nae on:

Instagram: @therealdrnadine

Tik Tok: drnaelmft

Buy the book in Amazon: Run Like Hell: A Therapist’s Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds eBook : Macaluso LMFT PhD, Nadine : Amazon.co.uk: Kindle Store

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Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast AND @whywhisperthewholestory

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These stats are just the stats on our children.

1 in 4 women will be sexually assaulted/raped in their lifetime. A mere 2 in 100 rapes that are reported will result in a conviction - and 4 out 5 rapes go UNREPORTED; leaving a massive amount of rapists (men) to roam our streets and rape freely .

Joining host Jennie on this weeks episode is Emma Kay. She is the Founder and CEO of WalkSafe App. It is the UK's leading personal safety App which combines journey sharing features and national safe space maps. Emma's vision, work and purpose with the WalkSafe App has been and continues to be a much needed literal lifeline for women and school girls, each time we leave the safety of our homes.

You can download the WalkSafe App on: WalkSafe+ on the App Store (apple.com)

You can Follow the WalkSafe Team and Emma Kay on Instagram: @walksafe.io

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Many things can happen before, during and after divorce. For a small few, it's amicable; co-parenting works and you can both agree you weren't met to be married, but can be friends. For the rest, divorce and what comes after it is not just riddled with complexities, challenges and heartbreak, but in some cases, presents new ways your ex can abuse you (and in some cases, your kids as well).

In today's episode, host Jennie, is joined by world leading Divorce Coach and Author Sara Davison. She is a global media commentator on breakups, divorce and domestic abuse. Sara launched Breakup and Divorce Coach Practitioner Accreditation Programmes in 2018 and has founded the International Divorce Coach Centre of Excellence, which now has a coaching community of over 600 coaches spanning across 26 countries and 5 continents.

The inspiration behind Sara finding her niche in Divorce Coaching, is her own divorce and the trauma that ensued. Sara has turned her tumultuous experience with her own divorce into supporting thousands of others through theirs and equipping them with the tools to not just survive leaving their high conflict ex, but thrive.

Sara and Jennie speak candidly about the harsh realities of the family court system, and what to expect from your "high conflict"/abusive ex's behaviour before, during and after divorce. If you or someone you know are about to embark on the battle of your life, this episode is a must listen!

You can find Sara Davison on:

Website: Homepage – Sara Davison

Instagram: @saradavisondivorcecoach

Podcast: Heartbreak to Happiness Heartbreak to Happiness Podcast Series – Apple Podcasts

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• 1 in 10 children in the UK experience sexual abuse.*
• 500,000 children are estimated to be sexually abused in any given year in the UK**

*National Crime Agency

**Centre of Expertise on Child Sexual Abuse

This weeks episode, host Jennie is joined by Jeremy Indika. Jeremy Indika is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. His abuse started at age 8. His abuser was a trusted 35 year old male family friend, more specifically, his fathers friend and colleague. Like most paedophiles, Jeremy's abuser hid in plain sight in a profession that provided him access, and that deemed him caring and trustworthy; a nurse at the hospital his father worked in as a doctor. Jeremy was 27 years old when he finally came to terms with his childhood sexual abuse and trauma. And he decided to turn his trauma into something positive. He is a very active Child Abuse Prevention Advocate and is the Founder of 'Something to Say'.

Not only does Jeremy share his story on this weeks episode, but Jennie and Jeremy, have a very real, very honest and open (and uncomfortable) conversation about many of the contributing factors that increase your child's exposure and risk to being sexually abused/exploited, including internet access, device use, social circle engagement. They also dive into the role mainstream pornography has taken in increasing the instances of paedophilia and sexual abuse, and our responsibilities as parents and a collective society to mitigate the risks to our kids.

With the statics and instances of child sexual abuse on the rise, we have a duty of care to be talking openly about this. Saying it out loud is the first step in tackling and eradicating this (or at the very least, stopping the rise, in its tracks). It's ugly and it's uncomfortable, but we must have the bravery and courage to call this increasing issue out...our children's lives depend on it.

You can find Jeremy Indika on Instragram:

@jeremyindika

@somethingtosayofficial

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@whywhisperpodcast

You can follow the making of the docu-series 'Why Are We Whispering?: The Whole Story' on Instagram:

@whywhisperthewholestory

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• 1 in 8 men get prostate cancer.
• 144 men are diagnosed with prostate cancer every day.
• 500,000 men are living with prostate cancer as you are reading this.
• Every HOUR a man dies from prostate cancer.
• If you are over 50 yrs old, or you're black, or your brother or father had it, your risk of getting prostate cancer goes up significantly.

In honour of Men's Health Week, joining host Jennie is Celebrity Chef and author, Cryus Todiwala OBE MBE. He is s well known London based Restauranteur and Her Majesty the Queen was a VERY big fan of his cooking, which he did a lot of during her Diamond Jubilee Tour. Cyrus is also a regular on TV shows Saturday Kitchen, Daybreak and on BBC Radio 4.

Cyrus also has Stage 4 Prostate Cancer.

On today's episode, Cyrus and Jennie talk honestly about how a cancer diagnosis affects men's mental health, and the impact on the family dynamic. Cyrus shares his cancer journey and what symptoms lead to his ultimate diagnosis and encourages ALL men to test regularly and listen to their bodies.

If you or someone you love has been diagnosed with prostate cancer, reach our to Prostate Cancer UK for guidance and support: Prostate Cancer UK | Prostate Cancer UK

Follow Prostate Cancer UK on Instagram: @prostatecanceruk

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In Manchester, UK alone, nearly half of children under 15 years old are living in poverty. Read that again.

We need to really look no further than our next door neighbours to see what poverty looks like and means here in the UK. And most of us have no idea that this a very real reality. We're not talking about kids whose parents can't afford the latest NIKE trainer or summer holiday. We're talking about parents who have to make the decision between feeding their kids at all, or keeping the heating on. Some of the families living in poverty, are generational; passing down substance abuse issues and, general parental neglect, where physical/sexual/emotional abuse is a large part of their family dynamics. But some are people who fell on hard times, in a challenging economy, and simply can't fight their way out without the support of others.

Regardless, of how poverty entered into their lives, we cannot ignore that half of children in Manchester alone, are falling through the proverbial cracks. And without the support of organizations such as 'Manchester Youth Zone' and people like our guest today, Heather Etheridge, they will be lost in the ether. On this weeks episode, host Jennie and guest Heather Etheridge, CEO of Manchester Youth Zone, talk about what poverty today actually looks like in the UK; how it it impacts the children in its clutches, the families and the community, long term. Heather candidly talks about her own experiences growing up in a household of abuse and neglect and her own struggles that resulted, and how it connects her to the kids of and her work at MYZ. The work she is doing and the spaces that MYZ are providing to these kids and their families, are not just paramount to their development, but to their SURVIVAL.

You can follow Manchester Youth Zone on Instagram: @manchesteryouthzone

You can DONATE (personally or corporately), Volunteer or learn more about Manchester Youth Zone here: Home - Manchester Youth Zone (manchesteryz.org)

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You can buy 'Mastering the Single Parent Game on Amazon: Mastering the Single Parent Game: Amazon.co.uk: Porter, Melissa: 9781738490417: Books

You can find Melissa Porter on her website: Melissa Porter - Writer, Property Developer #MelissaPorter #writer #propertydevelopment #porterandsmurfit # (melissa-porter.com)

You can follow 'Why Are We Whispering?' on Instagram: @whywhisperpodcast

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You can find Kate-Lois Elliott here: Comedian Writer Actress | Kate Lois Elliott | UK

You can buy tickets to Kate-Lois @ Fringe Festival here: Kate-Lois Elliott: How to Belong Without Joining a Cult | Comedy | Edinburgh Festival Fringe (edfringe.com)

You can listen to Kate-Lois on the Diversify Podcast here: Diversify on Apple Podcasts

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• 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in their lifetime
• 2 women are killed every week by a partner in England/Wales
• Every 30 seconds, the police are called to a domestic abuse situation

Unsure if you or someone you love are in an abusive situation? Here are the SIGNS:

Types of domestic abuse:

• Psychological/emotional abuse: Includes name-calling, threats and manipulation, blaming you for the abuse or ‘gaslighting’ you.
• Coercive control: When an abuser uses a pattern of behaviour over time to exert power and control. It is a criminal offence.
• Physical abuse: This isn’t only hitting. He might restrain you or throw objects. He might pinch or shove you and claim it’s a ‘joke’.
• Tech abuse: He might send abusive texts, demand access to your devices, track you with spyware, or share images of you online.
• Economic abuse: Controlling your access to money or resources. He might take your wages, stop you working, or put you in debt without your knowledge or consent
• Sexual abuse: This doesn’t have to be physical. He might manipulate, deceive or coerce you into doing things you don’t want to do.

Here's a list of questions to help you begin to spot the signs of an abusive partner:

Is your partner jealous and possessive?

Is he charming one minute and abusive the next?

Does he tell you what to wear, where to go, who to see?

Does he constantly put you down?

Does he play mind games and make you doubt your judgement?

Does he control your money, or make sure you are dependent on him for everyday things?

Does he pressure you to have sex when you don’t want to?

Are you starting to walk on eggshells to avoid making him angry?

Does he control your access to medicine, devices or care that you need?

Does he monitor or track your movements or messages?

Does he use anger and intimidation to frighten and control you?

If you answered yes to any of the above questions, then you may be experiencing domestic abuse.

You can learn more about author Sarah Pearse here: The Retreat – By Sarah Pearse – Order Now

You can learn more about Refuge Charity and seek help here: Refuge, the largest UK domestic abuse organisation for women

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You can follow TJ Higgs on Instagram @tjhiggs.medium

You can also find her on her website: www.tjhiggs.com

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The Rochdale Paedophile Gangs made headlines across the UK. There were even a couple of TV dramatizations made, one of which being 'Three Girls'. None of these horrors would have come to light had it not been for one woman - Maggie Oliver. Maggie saved and continues to save thousands of children across the UK from organised paedophile gangs. Child rapists, who are known to police, but many of whom remain walking the streets and preying on children. On today's episode, host Jennie is joined by the courageous Maggie Oliver. She's a former police detective turned whistle blower. During Maggie's time in the police, she uncovered countless cases of paedophile gangs who were systemically targeting and raping children across the UK. Disturbingly, most of these horrific cases were covered up and buried by the police and judicial system in the UK. In order to save these children and future victims, Maggie had to quit her job in the police to blow the whistle on the corruption and neglect within the UKs police force. Maggie tells her story and shines a very bright light on the darkest and dingiest corners of the UK's "law enforcement" system.

If you or someone you know is a victim of child sexual abuse, you can contact the Maggie Oliver Foundation for support: The Maggie Oliver Foundation - Helping Survivors of Abuse

Maggie's book, ' Survivors: One Brave Detective's Battle to Expose the Rochdale Child Abuse Scandal' is also available on Amazon.

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You can buy tickets to 'Blue' here:

Blue at Seven Dials Playhouse

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Thank you PinkLink for inviting 'Why Are We Whispering?' and supporting our message.

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If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts or challenges please contact Samaritans UK:

call: 116 123

text: SHOUT to 85258

website: www.samaritans.org

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Carla Crivaro is a Sex, Love & Relationship Coach. She helps men and women who feel insecure and unsatisfied in the bedroom to feel more desirable and confident in their sex lives. She supports individuals and couples who feel lonely and unheard in their relationship to experience greater physical and emotional connection and intimacy with their partner. She does this by creating a brave space for people to learn more about their unconscious patterns and behaviours so they can get the delicious sex, profound love and authentic relationship they desire.

Carla is now bringing her work into businesses for talks and workshops on: Boundaries; Consent; Healthy Relationships; Healthy Communication; Understanding Men, Masculinity & the Glass Ceiling; Female Sexual Empowerment; Judgements, Discrimination & Prejudice - Introducing Shadow Work. 

www.carlacrivaro.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-crivaro-6605511a8

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You can learn more about Laura's programme for your school or home here: Home - myHappymind

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You can learn more about GenM and how to have a great menopause here:

GenM | The Menopause Partner for Brands (gen-m.com)

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1 in 4 women have been raped in the UK

1 in 18 men have been raped in the UK

5 in 6 women that are raped DONT report it

4 in 5 men that are raped DONT report it

Only 2 in 100 rapes that are actually reported by police result in a charge - let alone a conviction.

*Rape Crisis Centre UK

This episode is a true story. Abbey gives a step by step account of surviving her rape and how she was retraumatised through the UK reporting process when she had the courage to report it immediately after it took place; first by the police, then the reporting process itself and finally by the very courts that are suppose to deliver justice.

Shockingly and rather disturbingly, Abbey was not given the grace and opportunity to read her Victim Impact Statement in front of her rapist and his family; something she needed and wanted to do publicly in order to attain some semblance of justice in an unjust world and system. And, more importantly, show her rapist that he did not take her power that night in 2018, that she wont ALLOW him to hide and that she will use her legs to stand strong and her voice to affirm her power and renounce his humanity. Abbeys Victim Impact Statement is read at the 34:39 mark to 45:16 mark.

Following Abbey sharing her story, from the 45:16 mark in the episode, Abbey, and host Jennie Guay, have a raw and open conversation about what happens after you are raped in the UK; unpacking the UKs legal system and reporting process, the misogyny it is founded and rooted in, how and why so many men are raping and sexually abusing women ( and it is men, with 98% of all reported rapes being committed by men in the UK). Where are our male allies? What is the role that women play in all of this?

It was an honour to speak to Abbey on todays episode, and a privilege that she chose 'Why Are We Whispering?" to share her story. We applaud you Abbey and celebrate your strength, courage and ultimate resilience. Your story is going to give a voice to millions of women ( and men) who share a version of your story.

If you are someone you know has been raped or sexually assaulted, we encourage you to report to police and to get support through organizations like the Rape Crisis Centre UK. You can find your local centre here: Rape Crisis England & Wales

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If you're looking for some advice on getting through your divorce, and doing divorce well, you can find and contact Nikki here:

Website

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Join the Divorce and Separation community HERE.

Watch Nikki's TEDx Talk HERE.

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This episode tackles porn; something most people are actively watching, but too ashamed to admit. The problem is, it's not just adults who are watching it. It's a complex problem, as more and more children and teenagers have access to the internet from phones, iPads and devices and many parents are not putting security measures in place to block their access. Additionally, the porn that is so easily accessible to all of us is founded in misogyny, and rape culture; failing to depict what real bodies and real sex looks and feels like. Comparable to the differences between a Hollywood action film and an independent documentary, mainstream porn is distorting our kids (and many adults) reality and compromising sexual development at an early age. In this episode, sex tech expert and Founder of MakeLoveNotPorn, Cindy Gallop and host Jennie Guay, have a candid discussion about the very really dangers of porn, how to address it with our kids (on average kids are being exposed to porn as early as 8) and the ways in which Cindy and her business are trying to change it. It's a riveting discussion that provides us (and parents) with some great insights and will leave you thinking about porn in a totally different way.

Learn more about MakeLoveNotPornAcademy: https://www.makelovenotporn.academy/

Cindy is currently look for $20 million investment. Interview: https://sifted.eu/articles/brunch-with-cindy-gallop

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Sexual abuse of women and children and domestic violence is a regular occurrence for millions, and yet very few of us want to admit its prevalence. Host Jennie Guay is joined by Gender Relations and sexual abuse and domestic violence expert and advocate Lula Dembele. In this episode, backed by extensive research and statistics, we delve into just how prevalent it is. We discuss what it’s rooted in, who's perpetrating it and why it’s so difficult to leave and break the cycle. We have very real and honest dialogue about the reasons boys and men are so comfortable perpetrating sex abuse and domestic violence (and yes, boys and men are statistically the abusers) and why often times women cover it up, stay quiet and, in some cases, protect their abusers. We tackle the systemic and institutional misogyny that keeps women and children quiet and men in the driver seat systemically perpetuating the abuse. It’s a hard but honest conversation; one that we all need to be having more often. Because when we stay silent, we stay stuck. And when we stay stuck, nothing changes. And this has to change. 

If you are someone you know is being sexually abused, or in a domestic violence situation, you can contact:

Women's Aid: I need help - information and support on domestic abuse (womensaid.org.uk)

You can also contact you GP as a first port of call to get help.

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This is our first 'Why Are We Whispering?' podcast and I can't think of a better way to launch than with an episode that tackles 'The Death of Sex in Marriage'. On today's episode, Jennie is joined by the illustrious Emma Sayle, Founder and CEO of Killing Kittens. KK is a global phenomenon and Emma is leading the charge in women's sexual empowerment and aiding couples to explore the complexities of their sexualities and sex lives in a safe and judgement free environment. In todays episode, we have a candid conversation about why most of us experience a death of our sex lives, at one time or another, in our marriage/partnership, how we lose our sexual autonomy and/or are too afraid to voice what we need to feel sexually gratified. From childhood ideologies that have been ingrained in us, to access to mainstream porn at a young age, to social pressures of who we should be as sexual beings, and most crucially SHAME, we delve into the reasonings as to why many of us check out of our marriages sexually and discuss the ways in which we can get it back!

If you've been too nervous, afraid, embarrassed, uncomfortable or shamed to broach the conversation with your partner, OR worry that your sex life is about to take a turn into dry spell territory, then this is a MUST LISTEN!

We're having this conversation because life is hard, painful and uncomfortable... and it's like that for all of us, so LET'S STOP WHISPERING!

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